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    Local bridal designers to watch in 2026

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    South African bridal fashion is entering a new era – one that feels more fashion-forward, intentional and globally relevant than ever before. Brides are leaning into individuality, craftsmanship and locally made luxury, and our bridal designers are more than rising to the occasion.

    From dramatic couture moments to sleek minimalist silhouettes, these are the local bridal designers we think every 2026 bride should have on her radar.

    Vonvé Bridal Couture

    Known for clean lines, modern silhouettes and understated elegance, Vonvé Bridal Couture continues to be a favourite among brides looking for timeless gowns with a contemporary edge. Their designs strike that rare balance between simplicity and statement-making – ideal for the bride who wants to feel effortlessly chic on her wedding day.

    Expect structured fabrics, flattering tailoring and gowns that photograph beautifully from every angle.

     

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    Scalo

    If your bridal mood board leans fashion-editorial, Scalo deserves your attention. The brand has become synonymous with couture craftsmanship and dramatic silhouettes that still feel refined and wearable.

    From sculptural details to luxurious textures, Scalo’s bridal designs feel made for the modern bride who wants a runway-worthy moment without losing the romance of traditional bridalwear.

     

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    Orapeleng Modutle

    Orapeleng Modutle continues to blur the lines between fashion and art with bridal designs that feel bold, feminine and deeply luxurious. Known for impeccable structure and couture-level detailing, his gowns are perfect for brides wanting something unforgettable.

    There’s a confidence to every design – the kind that turns a wedding dress into the centerpiece of the entire celebration.

     

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    Elbeth Gillis

    Few local bridal designers balance timeless elegance and modern craftsmanship quite like Elbeth Gillis. Known for beautifully tailored gowns, luxurious fabrics and a distinctly refined aesthetic, her designs have earned recognition both locally and internationally.

    There’s a softness and sophistication to every collection that feels especially relevant for 2026 brides leaning towards understated luxury. From romantic silhouettes to couture-inspired finishes, Elbeth Gillis gowns embody the kind of quiet confidence many modern brides are gravitating towards right now.

     

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    La Belle Mariée Bridal Couture

    La Belle Mariée Bridal Couture is all about refined romance and modern bridal elegance. Known for intricate detailing, luxurious fabrics and beautifully structured silhouettes, the brand continues to appeal to brides who want something both timeless and fashion-forward.

    There’s a softness in their design language, but it never feels simple – every gown carries a sense of intention, craftsmanship and understated luxury. For 2026 brides leaning into elevated, feminine bridal style, La Belle Mariée Bridal Couture is firmly one to watch.

    The future of bridal fashion is local

    There’s something incredibly special about wearing a gown designed close to home – especially when South African bridal talent is producing work that rivals international fashion houses. As more brides move towards intentional shopping and personalised wedding experiences, local bridal designers are becoming the heart of modern bridal fashion.

    Whether your style leans minimalist, couture or romantic, one thing is clear: South African bridal fashion is only getting more exciting.

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    Showstopper wedding cake toppers

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    Your wedding cake topper doesn’t have to be the typically dressed bride and groom. Make use of different objects to symbolise your love for each other or your personalities.

     

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    5 ways to add Mzansi flair to your wedding

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    Incorporating Mzansi flavour into your wedding is a lovely way to pay homage to your country or family. Whatever your heritage, here are some of the best ways to stay proudly South African on your big day.

    1. A sense of ceremony

    Are there poems, quotes or vows that are particular to your heritage or culture? Incorporate them into your ceremony and make sure to emphasise them in your programme. You could even elaborate on the origin and history of the words you include or ask whoever is marrying you to add these anecdotes as well.

    2. Your attire

    Is there a specific colour or print that has meaning in your family? Try and include it in a subtle way, for example, maybe a hairpin, brooch, pocket square or even a pair of shoes in a colour or pattern that represents your particular heritage.

    3. The food

    How about serving welcome drinks infused with flavours of well-known South African herbs and plants? Think buchu gin, geranium cordial, rooibos iced tea … the options are endless. And when it comes to food, traditional doesn’t have to mean boring. There are many ways you can transform much-loved homestyle dishes – from bredie to braai – into appetising, intricate canapés and sophisticated mains.

    4. Flowers & decor

    South Africa is blessed with an abundance of unique, exquisite flora. Instead of trying to get hold of exotic plants and flowers, try using indigenous, seasonal ones that are found in your hometown. Proteas, strelitzias and succulents can look striking paired with simple greenery, and will be a much more cost-effective option too! Consider texture as well: wooden, woven or African-print table runners and underplates work well when combined with minimalist elements.

    5. The music

    A wedding playlist is very personal and should include songs from some of your favourite moments together. Add a little twist by including a traditional song somewhere in the playlist – whether it be during your first dance or when people are grooving on the dance floor later.

    Celebrate your love, the Mzansi way

    At the heart of it all, adding a touch of Mzansi flair to your wedding is about celebrating where you come from and the people who helped shape your story. Whether it’s through music, food, fashion or meaningful traditions, these local touches create a wedding that feels warm, personal and unmistakably South African. The beauty of a Mzansi-inspired celebration is that there are no strict rules — just moments that honour your culture, your love story and the joy of bringing people together.

    ALSO SEE: 7 Fun-loving wedding ideas to move your wedding from traditional to funtastic

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    10 Movie proposals that still make us swoon

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    Some movie proposals are so iconic, they live rent-free in our heads long after the credits roll. Whether they’re grand, emotional, awkwardly charming or beautifully simple, these scenes continue to inspire hopeless romantics everywhere.

    From classic rom-coms to unforgettable love stories, here are 10 of the best movie proposals ever captured on screen.

    1. Love Actually (2003)

    There are grand gestures, and then there’s Jamie proposing to Aurelia in broken Portuguese while an entire village follows behind him.

    What makes this proposal unforgettable isn’t the spectacle – it’s the effort. They barely speak the same language, yet they choose each other anyway. It’s messy, heartfelt and ridiculously romantic.

    Why we still love it: It proves that love doesn’t need perfect words to be understood.

    2. Bridget Jones: Edge of Reason (2004)

    After endless misunderstandings and emotional chaos, Mark Darcy finally proposes to Bridget in the most fitting way possible: awkwardly, sincerely and completely in love.

    It’s not polished or over-the-top, but that’s exactly why it works. Their love story feels real – flaws, quirks and all.

    Why we still love it: Because imperfect love stories often feel the most believable.

    3. Sex and the City (2008)

    After a failed wedding and years of emotional back-and-forth, Big finally gives Carrie the proposal she deserves. No flashy crowd. No dramatic interruption.

    Just a quiet, intimate moment in a beautiful penthouse apartment – complete with the iconic blue Manolo Blahniks.

    Why we still love it: Sometimes the second chance is the real love story.

    4. Walk the Line (2005)

    Johnny Cash asking June Carter to marry him on stage in front of a live audience is equal parts romantic and chaotic.

    After repeatedly refusing his proposals throughout the film, June finally says yes in front of a cheering crowd.

    Why we still love it: It’s bold, emotional and completely unforgettable.

    5. The Proposal (2009)

    Yes, the movie is literally called The Proposal, but Andrew’s final declaration is what truly steals the show. After their fake engagement slowly turns into real love, his proposal is surprisingly soft and vulnerable.

    “Marry me… because I’d like to date you.” Honestly? One of the most underrated proposal lines in rom-com history.

    Why we still love it: The best proposals often feel deeply personal rather than performative.

    6. He’s just not that into you (2009)

    Neil and Beth’s relationship spends most of the movie debating whether marriage actually matters. Then comes the proposal hidden inside a pair of cargo pants she hates.

    Unexpected? Yes. Weirdly sweet? Also yes.

    Why we still love it: It feels grounded, authentic and refreshingly low-key.

    7. About Time (2013)

    Tim waking Mary up to casually ask her to marry him somehow becomes one of the softest and most intimate proposal scenes ever filmed.

    There’s no audience, no elaborate planning and no dramatic speech. Just two people completely certain about each other.

    Why we still love it: It captures how love often lives in the quiet moments.

    8. Sweet Home Alabama (2002)

    This film gives us two wildly different proposal styles. On one hand, there’s the glamorous Tiffany & Co. proposal in New York. On the other, there’s Jake’s sweet childhood proposal to Melanie.

    Both are romantic in completely different ways – proving there’s no single formula for the perfect proposal.

    Why we still love it: It balances luxury fantasy with nostalgic, small-town romance.

    9. Crazy Rich Asians (2018)

    Nick’s proposal to Rachel aboard a plane is elegant, emotional and deeply symbolic. After everything they’ve been through, he chooses love over expectation – and proposes with his mother’s emerald ring.

    It’s visually stunning, but the emotional payoff is what truly lands.

    Why we still love it: The proposal feels earned after such a powerful emotional journey

    10. The Notebook (2004)

    Was there ever any doubt this would make the list? Noah’s proposal to Allie is pure cinematic romance: rain-soaked, emotional and dramatic in the best possible way.

    Their love story may be messy and complicated, but the intensity of their connection remains unforgettable.

    Why we still love it: It’s one of the most iconic romance movie moments of all time.

    The real reason we love movie proposals so much

    Movie proposals are rarely realistic – and that’s part of the appeal. They give us a heightened version of love filled with perfect timing, emotional speeches and cinematic music cues.

    But beneath all the drama, the best proposal scenes usually come down to one thing: emotional sincerity.

    Whether it’s a grand public declaration or a quiet moment between two people, the proposals we remember most are the ones that feel genuine.

    And honestly? That’s probably what makes a real-life proposal unforgettable too.

    ALSO SEE: How to pull off the perfect destination proposal

    How to pull off the perfect destination proposal

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    Are destination weddings still worth it in 2026?

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    For years, destination weddings were seen as the ultimate modern fairytale: oceanfront vows, multi-day celebrations and Instagram-worthy scenery far away from home. But in 2026, couples are asking a much more practical question – are destination weddings still actually worth it?

    The answer is no longer as straightforward as it used to be. Between rising travel costs, guest fatigue and the growing shift towards intentional weddings, destination celebrations are evolving fast. Yet despite the challenges, they remain incredibly popular – just in a very different form than before.

    Destination weddings aren’t disappearing, they’re getting smaller

    One of the biggest misconceptions about destination weddings is that they’re fading out. In reality, they’re simply becoming more intimate.

    Across wedding trend reports, planners are seeing couples move away from huge overseas guest lists in favour of smaller, experience-focused celebrations with close family and friends only.

    The modern destination wedding is less about showing off and more about creating quality time. Instead of inviting 200 guests, many couples are hosting 30 to 70 people and investing more intentionally in the experience itself – boutique accommodation, curated dinners, welcome events and extended weekends together.

    Ironically, smaller guest lists are making destination weddings feel more luxurious and personal than ever.

    The cost conversation is changing

    The idea that destination weddings are always cheaper than traditional weddings is becoming increasingly outdated. While a smaller guest list can reduce overall costs, destination weddings come with their own financial pressures: travel logistics, accommodation coordination, vendor transport and multi-day hosting expectations.

    According to recent wedding budget breakdowns, destination weddings in 2026 can range anywhere from mid-tier affordability to ultra-luxury pricing depending on the location and guest count.

    At the same time, guests are becoming more vocal about the financial strain of attending weddings that require flights, leave days and expensive accommodation. Online discussions around “wedding guest fatigue” have exploded, with many people admitting they now decline destination weddings due to costs.

    That shift is forcing couples to think more carefully about accessibility, affordability and whether their dream location genuinely works for the people they want there most.

    Guest experience now matters more than aesthetics

    Perhaps the biggest shift in 2026 wedding culture is that couples are prioritising how a wedding feels – not just how it photographs.

    Wedding experts say guest experience has become one of the defining priorities for modern weddings.

    That means destination weddings only really work when logistics are handled thoughtfully. Couples are increasingly choosing destinations with easier travel access, group accommodation options and activities that feel worthwhile for guests making the trip.

    There’s also growing resistance to weddings that unintentionally burden guests financially. Viral social media debates and Reddit threads regularly criticise destination weddings that expect guests to overspend or navigate complicated travel arrangements with little support from the couple.

    In other words: the “worth it” factor often depends less on the destination itself and more on how considerate the planning is.

    Social media changed destination weddings, and couples are noticing

    For years, destination weddings exploded partly because of aspirational wedding content online. Beautiful villas in Italy, beach ceremonies in Bali and cliffside receptions in Greece became part of the modern wedding fantasy.

    But in 2026, there’s noticeable pushback against weddings designed primarily for aesthetics or content creation. Industry reports show couples are leaning towards more authentic, personal celebrations instead of recreating viral Pinterest weddings.

    That doesn’t mean destination weddings are “out.” It simply means couples are becoming more intentional about why they’re choosing them.

    A meaningful location, cultural connection or intimate travel experience now tends to resonate more strongly than choosing a venue purely because it’s trending online.

    So… are destination weddings still worth it?

    For the right couple, absolutely.

    Destination weddings still offer something traditional weddings often struggle to replicate – uninterrupted time with loved ones, immersive experiences and the feeling of stepping away from everyday life completely.

    But in 2026, successful destination weddings require balance. Couples are increasingly expected to think about guest budgets, convenience, genuine experience and not just aesthetics.

    The destination weddings that work best today are the ones rooted in intentionality rather than excess. Smaller guest lists, meaningful locations and carefully considered experiences are replacing the pressure to create the biggest or most extravagant celebration possible.

    And honestly? That shift might be what saves destination weddings from becoming just another passing trend.

    ALSO SEE: Honeymoon in Your Backyard: Luxury Destinations in South Africa That Couples Overlook

    Honeymoon in Your Backyard: Luxury Destinations in South Africa That Couples Overlook

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    How wedding dress trends have changed through the decades

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    Wedding dresses have always been a reflection of their time. Bridal fashion has shifted with culture, politics, and pop-culture icons shaping what brides wear down the aisle. Here’s how the look of “the modern bride” has evolved decade by decade.

    1920s: Flapper-inspired glamour and beaded detail

    The 1920s bride embraced freedom in silhouette and movement. Waistlines dropped, fabrics softened, and dresses took on a loose, straight shape that felt modern for the time.

    Intricate beadwork, embroidery, and lace detailing defined the era, adding texture and elegance. Brides often completed the look with statement headpieces (think tiaras, floral accents, and decorative hairpins), usually paired with a soft, flowing veil.

     

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    1930s: Elegant silhouettes and Hollywood-inspired

    By the 1930s, wedding dresses became more refined and understated. Influenced by Hollywood glamour, brides favoured long, streamlined silhouettes with subtle waist definition.

    Satin and silk were popular fabrics, often styled with long sleeves and minimal embellishment. Soft detailing like embroidery or appliqué added sophistication, while dramatic “shower bouquets” (long, trailing floral arrangements) became a signature bridal accessory.

     

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    1940s: Wartime simplicity and practical bridalwear

    The 1940s brought practicality into bridal fashion. With wartime restrictions and limited resources, many brides wore suits, borrowed dresses, or reworked garments they already owned.

    Looks were simple and functional, with little decoration. Even so, brides still added meaningful details like veils, corsages, or small floral touches to signal the occasion and elevate everyday pieces.

     

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    1950s: Full skirts, cinched waists and fairytale glamour

    After the war, bridal fashion returned to grandeur. The 1950s bride embraced feminine, structured silhouettes with fitted bodices and full, voluminous skirts.

    Inspired by Hollywood icons and Dior’s “New Look,” dresses were often dramatic and ultra-feminine. Tea-length gowns also gained popularity, layered with petticoats, lace, satin, and structured detailing that created a distinctly romantic feel.

    1960s: Mod minis, structured dresses and style experimentation

    The 1960s brought contrast. Early in the decade, brides favoured structured gowns with clean lines, high necklines, and shorter veils, often influenced by Jacqueline Kennedy’s timeless elegance.

    As the decade progressed, fashion became more experimental. Mini dresses, bold silhouettes, and even coloured gowns emerged. Flower crowns, headbands, and natural styling began replacing traditional veils.

     

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    1970s: Boho brides, bell sleeves and relaxed silhouettes

    The 1970s bridal look was relaxed, expressive, and deeply influenced by bohemian style. Flowing fabrics, bell sleeves, and soft silhouettes defined the decade.

    Brides moved away from traditional formality, often opting for hats, ribbons, or loose natural hair instead of veils. Some even chose tailored suits or unconventional white ensembles, embracing individuality over tradition.

     

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    1980s: Statement sleeves, volume and maximalist bridal fashion

    The 1980s was the era of “more is more.” Bridal gowns became dramatic with puffed sleeves, full skirts, and long cathedral trains.

    Lace, taffeta, and structured fabrics dominated, while oversized silhouettes created a bold, high-impact look. Influenced heavily by royal weddings and pop culture, this decade defined the iconic “princess bride” aesthetic.

     

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    1990s: Minimalist silhouettes and sleek bridalwear

    The go-big-or-go-home trend seeped over into the 90s. However, as we drew closer to the 2000s, it shifted toward simplicity. Brides embraced clean lines, understated elegance, and pared-back silhouettes.

    Slip dresses, satin fabrics, and fitted gowns became popular, often paired with minimal accessories. The focus moved away from volume and embellishment and toward effortless, modern refinement.

     

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    2000s: Strapless gowns and structured glamour

    The early 2000s were defined by strapless wedding dresses. Corset-style bodices, crystal embellishments, and full skirts dominated bridal fashion.

    As the decade progressed, designs began to soften, with more classic and vintage-inspired gowns entering the mainstream alongside the still-popular structured silhouettes.

     

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    2010s–present: Modern minimalism and personalised bridal style

    Today’s bridal fashion is less about following a single trend and more about personal expression. Minimalist gowns, lace sleeves, and modern tailoring all sit side by side.

    Brides are now choosing looks that reflect their personality, whether that’s sleek and simple, vintage-inspired, fashion-forward, or dramatically detailed. The modern wedding dress is no longer defined by one rule, but by individuality.

     

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    Open bar Vs signature cocktails: What works best for your wedding?

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    When planning your wedding reception, few decisions shape the atmosphere quite like the drink’s menu. From champagne towers to personalised cocktails named after your pets, modern weddings are moving far beyond the standard “red or white?” approach.

    One of the biggest questions couples face is whether to go all out with an open bar or opt for curated signature cocktails instead. While both options create a memorable guest experience, the right choice often comes down to your budget, guest list, venue style and the kind of celebration you want to create.

    So – which one actually works best?

    The case for an open bar

    An open bar is exactly what it sounds like: guests can order drinks throughout the reception without paying for them directly. Depending on your package, this could include everything from wine and beer to premium spirits and cocktails.

    For many couples, an open bar feels generous, luxurious and effortless. Guests don’t have to think about carrying cash or limiting themselves, which naturally creates a more relaxed and celebratory atmosphere.

    Why couples love it:

    • It feels inclusive and hospitality-driven
    • Guests have freedom to choose their preferred drinks
    • It keeps energy levels high during the reception
    • It suits large, social celebrations
    • Open bars also work especially well for formal evening weddings where the reception is expected to continue late into the night.

    The downsides of an open bar

    Of course, there’s a reason many couples hesitate before committing to one: cost.

    Open bars can become expensive very quickly, especially with larger guest lists or premium liquor selections. Some venues charge per person, while others bill based on consumption – which can make budgeting unpredictable.

    There’s also the reality that not every guest drinks equally. In some cases, couples end up paying significantly more for options many guests never touch.

    Another consideration is pacing. While most guests drink responsibly, unlimited access can occasionally lead to overindulgence, particularly at long receptions.

    Why signature cocktails are having a moment

    Signature cocktails have become one of the biggest modern wedding trends – and for good reason.

    Instead of offering a full open bar, couples create a smaller, curated drinks experience featuring one to three custom cocktails. These drinks are often personalised to reflect the couple’s personalities, relationship story or wedding aesthetic.

    Think:

    • A spicy margarita inspired by your first holiday together
    • His-and-hers cocktails
    • A mocktail option for non-drinkers
    • Drinks named after pets, favourite cities or inside jokes

    Signature cocktails instantly make a wedding feel more intentional and personal. They also photograph beautifully, which certainly doesn’t hurt in the Instagram era.

    The biggest advantage? Budget control

    For many couples, signature cocktails offer the perfect middle ground between elevated and affordable.

    Because the menu is limited, costs become easier to manage. Bartenders can prepare drinks faster, ingredients can be purchased in bulk, and couples avoid paying for dozens of different spirits and mixers.

    This option also works particularly well for:

    • Daytime weddings
    • Intimate celebrations
    • Destination weddings
    • Garden or outdoor receptions
    • Couples prioritising aesthetics and experience over excess

    But will guests feel limited?

    That depends entirely on execution.

    Guests generally don’t mind a limited menu if the drinks feel thoughtful and well-designed. The key is variety. Offering one refreshing option, one stronger cocktail and a non-alcoholic choice usually keeps everyone happy.

    Problems only arise when couples overcomplicate the menu or choose drinks based solely on personal taste without considering guests.

    For example, a highly niche cocktail with unusual ingredients may sound exciting in theory, but not everyone wants smoked rosemary tequila at 2pm.

    The best signature cocktail menus balance personality with crowd appeal.

    So, what works best?

    There’s no universal answer – only what works best for your wedding style, priorities and budget.

    An open bar may suit you if:

    • You’re hosting a large evening reception
    • Guest experience is your top priority
    • Your budget allows flexibility
    • You want a traditional party atmosphere

    Signature cocktails may work better if:

    • You want a more curated, modern experience
    • You’re working within a tighter budget
    • You love personalised details
    • Your wedding aesthetic is experience-focused

    And honestly? Many couples are choosing a hybrid approach.

    A limited open bar paired with one or two signature cocktails often gives guests the best of both worlds. It keeps costs manageable while still creating a memorable, elevated experience.

    The final sip

    At the end of the day, your drinks menu should reflect the kind of celebration you want – not what social media says a wedding “needs.” Guests rarely remember whether the bar carried twelve whiskey options. They do remember how the wedding felt: welcoming, thoughtful and fun.

    Whether that comes through endless espresso martinis or one perfectly crafted signature cocktail is entirely up to you.

    SEE MORE: Creative ways to serve your wedding drinks

    Creative ways to serve your wedding drinks

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    How to choose the perfect engagement ring shape

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    There are many popular diamond shapes to choose from when it comes to engagement rings. The top ten are: round, princess, oval, marquise, pear, cushion, emerald, asscher, radiant and heart.

    The shape of the diamond refers the basic outline when viewed face up. The cut of a diamond refers to how the diamond’s facets are arranged and its ability to reflect light. The most common cutting style is brilliant (cut with 57 or 58 facets to maximise sparkle) and then there is also the step cut which is generally used when cutting square and rectangular shapes (used for cutting emerald and asscher shapes).

    Considering the 4 C’s — cut, colour, clarity and carat weight — alongside your budget is important when deciding on a diamond shape. Ultimately, though, it comes down to personal preference, as each shape offers its own unique charm and character.

    Round

    A round shaped diamond is the most popular choice for an engagement ring as it looks good on most hands and in most settings. Almost all round diamonds are cut brilliant which maximises the potential brightness. However, due to the high demand of this shape, the cost per carat is higher than other shapes.

    Princess

    This shape is also very popular due to the fact that it has a unique shape and has a slightly lower price per carat than the round shape. It also works in most ring setting styles, although it should be set with 4 prongs to protect all four corners. A brilliant cut princess diamond rivals the brilliant round because it offers that sparkle at a lower price. Its square shape also easily disguises imperfections meaning that you can choose pretty much any carat size.

    Oval

    This shape is becoming more popular and it is an adaptation of the brilliant cut round shape so it is perfect for those who like the sparkle of the round but want something a bit more unique. The elongated shape creates the illusion of a larger size and makes the finger appear longer and slimmer. It is also flexible in terms of setting styles and hides small imperfections.

     

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    Marquise

    This long and narrow shape has one of the largest surface areas in the upper part of the diamond of all the shapes. It makes the size appear larger than it is and makes the finger seem longer and slimmer, like the oval. Symmetry is important when cutting this shape as the two end points should align and the right and left sides should form a mirror image. It should be set with 2 prongs to protect the two points.

    Pear

    This shape is a combination of the round and marquise shapes with a tapered point on the one end. It also has the lengthening and slimming effect on the finger due to its asymmetry. It is feminine, unique and elegant. This shape also needs to be symmetrical and set with a prong at the point for protection. You can decide which direction you would like the point to face but positioning the point to face the fingernails is more flattering on the hand.

    Cushion

    Cushion cut is a square shape with rounded corners. This style shows clarity (imperfections) well which is something to take into consideration when deciding which of the 4 c’s is most important to you – high clarity in this case. This shape works well in vintage settings.

     

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    Emerald

    This shape was originally for cutting emeralds, hence the name. Due to the way it’s cut, it produces a hall of mirrors effect rather than the sparkle that comes with brilliant cuts. It also emphasises the symmetry that comes with this shape. It is flattering on the hand and the long lines and flashes of light that come with this shape bring a sense of elegance. It is not such a common choice for an engagement ring meaning that you can find more affordable options in higher quality than other shapes. However, this shape does not hide imperfections as well as shapes that are cut brilliant.

     

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    Asscher

    This shape has an antique feel to it and is similar to the square emerald but with larger facets. The more facets, the more sparkle. But like the emerald and because of the open and square cut corners, it does not hide imperfections well and so a high clarity is necessary.

     

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    Radiant

    This shape is the first square shape to be cut brilliant, the second being princess. A square radiant shape is similar to princess but with cropped corners. It will often look the same as princess if it is set with four prongs covering each corner. A rectangular radiant shape is perfect for those who like the look of the emerald shape but want the shine that comes with the brilliant cut. Clarity is less of a concern with this shape as the many facets hide imperfections.

     

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    Heart

    This shape is a classic symbol of love but carat weight is important as the shape is difficult to achieve in diamonds smaller than 0.50 carats. Symmetry is also important in this shape. The irregular shape of a heart cut means it will need to be set with more prongs to protect the stone. The many facets that come with the cutting of this shape will ensure a lot of sparkle.

    Ultimately, choosing a diamond shape comes down to balancing personal style, practicality and budget. Some shapes maximise sparkle, others create the illusion of a larger stone, while certain cuts highlight clarity and symmetry more than others.

    If you love brilliance and shine, opt for a brilliant-cut shape like round, princess or radiant. If you prefer elegance and finger-lengthening silhouettes, oval, marquise and emerald cuts are timeless choices. And if vintage-inspired or distinctive styles appeal to you, cushion, asscher or pear shapes offer plenty of character.

    The best way to decide? Narrow your favourites down to two or three shapes and try them on in person. Seeing how each shape looks and feels on your hand will ultimately tell you more than any guide can.

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    Bridal shoes on a budget (8 options for under R600 each)

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    You do not need to spend your entire wedding budget on one pair of shoes you will wear for a few hours. These days, budget-friendly bridal shoes are proving that style, comfort and affordability can absolutely go hand in hand.

    There are plenty of bridal shoes under R600 that look just as dreamy walking down the aisle as they do styled with jeans, dresses or tailored pants long after the wedding day is over. Because honestly, if you can rewear your wedding accessories after the big day, that is a win.

    We rounded up beautiful bridal shoes under R600 that are wedding-worthy, wearable beyond the aisle and proof that looking chic on your big day does not have to cost an arm, a leg or your two front teeth.

    Tori Satin 9cm Heel With Netted Trim Court Shoe, R550, Lamara Paris

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    Pointy Slingback Kitten Heels, R459, Foschini

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    Jayna Block Ankle Strap Heel, R519, Superbalist

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    Rasa Embroidered Slingback Pointed 4.5cm Heel, R500, Lamara Paris

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    Peeptoe Ankle Tie Heels, R499, Foschini

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    Misty Block 9cm Heel Open Waist Cross Over Belts Glitter, R499, Lamara Paris

    Women’s Iconography Strappy Block Heel, R599, BASH

    Mesh And Beaded Shoe With Ankle Strap, R550, Queenspark

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    The ultimate guide to honeymoon road-tripping

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    There’s nothing quite like the feeling of freedom that comes with the open road – and there’s no better person to share it with than your new spouse. Just married, chasing adventure with good music, scenic stops, and uninterrupted conversation? That’s honeymoon magic.

    If you’re planning a honeymoon road trip, here are a few things to keep in mind before you hit the highway.

    Avoid Breakdowns and Breakouts

    Before you embark on your journey, make sure your car is properly serviced – especially the filters, fluid levels, brakes, tyres, belts, oil, and water. Check that your tyre pressure is correct and inspect your wiper blades, indicators, brake lights, and headlights.

    If you’re travelling through different climates or remote areas, ensure your vehicle is prepared for changing weather conditions. And if you’re road-tripping during a South African summer, don’t forget to check the air conditioner – nothing kills romance faster than being stuck in traffic in unbearable heat.

    It’s also worth downloading offline maps ahead of time in case signal drops along your route.

    Clean Up, Stock Up

    There’s no better way to begin your honeymoon than in a freshly cleaned car. Turn the pre-trip prep into part of the fun with a quick car wash date before departure.

    Stock up on snacks, padkos, and plenty of water – buying from grocery stores beforehand is usually far cheaper than relying on petrol station convenience stops. Pack blankets and pillows for extra comfort, especially if one of you wants to nap between destinations.

    Finally, don’t skip the emergency kit. Include essentials like:

    • A flashlight and extra batteries
    • Jumper cables
    • A first aid kit
    • Spare tyre and tyre repair kit
    • Portable phone charger or power bank
    • Emergency contact numbers
    • Being over-prepared is always better than being stranded.

    If You’re Renting

    If you’re renting a car, companies like Hertz, Avis, Budget, and Thrifty offer a variety of vehicle options and pickup locations.

    Look out for package deals that combine flights, accommodation, and car rental – they can save you a significant amount on honeymoon costs.

    If you’re renting abroad, check whether your destination requires an International Driving Permit (IDP). It’s also important to note that manual transmission vehicles are still standard in many countries. If you’re used to driving automatic, reserve one well in advance, as availability can be limited and rates are often higher.

    And yes – screenshot or print your booking confirmation. Airport Wi-Fi has a habit of failing exactly when you need it most.

    Are We There Yet?

    Planning the time spent in the car together can be just as important as planning the destinations themselves. A long drive can either become part of the adventure – or feel very, very long.

    Prepare some entertainment ahead of time to keep the energy fun and relaxed. Think curated playlists, nostalgic singalongs, podcasts, audiobooks, or even a few classic road-trip games.

    Here are a few ideas to make the journey more memorable:

    • Car games

    They’re not just for kids. Classics like I Spy or the licence plate game are surprisingly entertaining when the kilometres start blending.

    • Story time

    Take turns reading aloud from a book, sharing funny memories, or even telling each other stories you’ve never heard before.

    • Create an on-the-road scrapbook

    Snap photos of quirky roadside stops, beautiful scenery, and funny moments along the way. The blurry selfies and petrol station coffee runs often become the best memories later.

    • Tunes for the trail

    A good playlist can completely shape the mood of a road trip. Create one together before you leave, blending both your favourites with songs that feel like the start of a new chapter.

    The journey is the honeymoon

    A honeymoon road trip isn’t about rushing from one destination to the next – it’s about the moments in between. The unexpected stops, terrible padkos combinations, inside jokes, scenic detours, and quiet conversations are often the memories that last the longest.

    So, leave a little room for spontaneity, keep your itinerary flexible, and enjoy the ride together. After all, the best love stories rarely stick perfectly to the route.

    ALSO SEE: How to pick your honeymoon destination

    How to pick your honeymoon destination

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