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    12 South African wedding photographers every couple should know

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    Choosing a wedding photographer feels almost as important as choosing your life partner – and honestly, it makes sense that it would. Long after the flowers have wilted and the dance floor has emptied, your wedding photos become one of the few ways you get to relive the feeling of the day all over again.

    Beyond beautifully posed portraits, the right photographer knows how to capture emotion, atmosphere and all the in-between moments that often end up meaning the most. Every photographer tells a love story differently. Some lean into cinematic storytelling, others favour documentary-style candids or fashion-inspired portraiture – and finding someone whose style fits your personality and aesthetic can feel a little overwhelming.

    So, we did the deep dive for you. From editorial elegance to warm, emotive storytelling, here are 11 South African wedding photographers we think every couple should have on their radar.

    Wynand Van Der Merwe 

    If cinematic storytelling is your thing, Wynand Van Der Merwe’s work is guaranteed to stop you mid-scroll. His photography feels emotional without trying too hard, balancing modern editorial composition with genuinely intimate moments. The result? Wedding galleries that feel timeless, elegant and incredibly personal. 

    Nathan Prahl-Andresen

    Nathan Prahl-Andresen captures weddings in a way that feels effortless and deeply human. His documentary-style approach focuses less on perfectly posed moments and more on authentic connection, creating imagery that feels natural, cinematic and full of emotion.

    Anandi Kirsten

    With soft tones, romantic composition and a refined editorial edge, Anandi Kirsten’s photography feels both modern and timeless. Her work has a way of making every frame feel intentional while still preserving the emotion and energy of the moment itself.

    Alysha Bannister

    Alysha Bannister’s photography leans into warmth, emotion and storytelling in the most natural way. Her galleries feel relaxed and intimate, capturing not only the big moments but also the smaller details and candid interactions couples often treasure most.

     

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    Graeme Deacon 

    Through The Frames Collection, Graeme Deacon brings a polished editorial feel to wedding photography. His work blends striking composition with genuine emotion, resulting in imagery that feels elevated, fashion-forward and effortlessly contemporary. 

    Kayla Otto

    Kayla Otto’s work through Misty Kisses Photography feels soft, romantic and deeply heartfelt. Known for dreamy colour tones and natural light imagery, her photography captures weddings with a warmth that feels both personal and timeless.

    Leon Jiber 

    Bold, cinematic and emotionally immersive – Leon Jiber’s photography has a way of making every wedding feel like a beautifully curated visual story. His editorial-inspired style paired with authentic storytelling creates imagery that feels modern without losing the emotion behind each moment. 

    Louise Meyer 

    Louise Meyer brings a fashion-inspired perspective to wedding photography, blending editorial portraiture with real emotion and connection. Her work feels artistic yet effortless, making every gallery look straight out of a modern bridal campaign. 

    Talita Luff 

    Talita Luff’s work through Inka Photography is filled with emotion, atmosphere and cinematic detail. Her storytelling style captures weddings in a way that feels immersive and intentional, balancing artistry with authenticity beautifully. 

    Lotty H. 

    For couples dreaming of something a little less traditional, Lotty H. specialises in adventurous elopements and intimate destination weddings that feel cinematic, immersive and deeply personal. Her work blends breathtaking landscapes with emotionally driven storytelling, creating imagery that feels equal parts editorial and wildly authentic. 

    • Location:  Cape Town / South Africa-based destination photographer
    • Website: https://lottyh.com/

    Lauren Pretorius 

    For couples drawn to soft, romantic imagery, Lauren Pretorius’ photography delivers exactly that. Her use of natural light and understated composition creates timeless galleries that feel elegant, effortless and emotionally rich. 

    Mary-Anne De Jager 

    Mary-Anne De Jager’s photography focuses on connection, emotion and storytelling in its most authentic form. Her work captures both the energy of celebration and the quieter in-between moments, preserving weddings in a way that feels deeply personal and genuine. 

    Whether you love documentary-style storytelling, editorial portraiture or dreamy romantic imagery, choosing the right wedding photographer ultimately comes down to finding someone whose work feels like you. Because at the end of it all, the best wedding photographs don’t just capture how the day looked — they capture how it felt. 

    ALSO SEE: Things your wedding photographer wish you knew

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    Ten creative ways to exit your wedding

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    The wedding exit photo is an important one! It symbolises you, as a newly-wed couple, taking your first steps out into the world as a unit. Many couples go all out for wedding exists, from leaving in a tractor to escaping in a helicopter.

    If you want to keep it simple but still make it special there are tons of options too! There’s no need to stress about an over-the-top exist that, in the end, burns an unnecessary hole in your pocket.

    Here are some simple but stunning ideas to inspire you:

    Classic: 

    (Many people are now against confetti and instead use biodegradable versions like this couple who are using “Floralfetti”)

    Sparklers: 

    Bubbles: 

    Through your bridal party:

    Ribbons: 

    Light Sabers: 

    Pom-poms: 

     

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    Glow sticks: 

    Sports references:

    Flower petals: 

     

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    Romantic red wedding cakes that steal the spotlight

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    They say red is the colour of love and passion, making it a fitting choice for a wedding day. Bold, dramatic and undeniably romantic, red wedding cakes are perfect for couples wanting to make a statement at their reception. Whether you lean toward deep burgundy florals, vintage piping or modern minimalist designs, there’s a red cake style for every aesthetic.

    From romantic rose detailing to sleek contemporary finishes, here are a few romantic red wedding cakes that completely steal the spotlight.

    Classic romance with a modern edge

    This cake proves that red doesn’t have to feel overpowering. The balance of clean detailing with rich crimson tones creates a sophisticated look that works beautifully for formal evening weddings.

    Bold florals for maximum drama 

    If your wedding aesthetic leans luxurious and dramatic, a cake like this is the perfect centrepiece. The rich red florals add texture, depth, and a touch of old-world romance. 

     Contemporary with a romantic twist 

    Minimalists, this one is for you. The sleek design keeps things modern, while the red accents bring warmth and passion to the overall look. 

    Vintage-inspired elegance 

    Vintage piping and rich red hues are having a major moment in the wedding world. This cake feels playful, nostalgic and effortlessly chic — ideal for couples embracing a retro-inspired aesthetic.

     A floral lover’s dream 

    Soft detailing paired with striking red blooms creates a cake that feels both romantic and timeless. It’s the kind of design that photographs beautifully from every angle. 

     

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    Rich tones for autumn and winter weddings 

    Deep reds and darker accents make this style perfect for cooler-season weddings. It feels moody, luxurious and incredibly elegant without losing its romantic charm. 

    Soft ombré shades for a romantic finish 

    If bright red feels too bold, ombré shades are a beautiful alternative. The gradient effect softens the overall look while still bringing in that passionate pop of colour. 

     

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    Statement-making and unapologetically bold 

    For couples who want their cake to double as décor, this striking design delivers. Rich red detailing instantly draws the eye and creates a memorable reception moment.

    Whether you prefer something dramatic and fashion-forward or soft and romantic, red wedding cakes are a beautiful way to add personality to your reception. From deep burgundy florals to vintage-inspired piping, these bold designs prove that red can be both timeless and modern when styled thoughtfully. 

    If you’re looking to make a statement on your wedding day, a red wedding cake might just be the sweetest way to do it. 

    SEE MORE: The rectangular wedding cake trend (and why we’re loving it)

    The rectangular wedding cake trend (and why we’re loving it)

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    Delicious midnight snack ideas for your wedding

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    You’ve said ‘I do’ and tied the knot, the first dance is done, and the sappy speeches are over. The evening turns into a party, you’re working up a sweat, and the caterers have packed everything away. What can you serve when your guests are feeling a bit peckish? Here are a few snacks that your guests will love.

    There are a few things to keep in mind when deciding on what snacks to serve:

    • Are your guests older and more mature or younger and hip?
    • What’s the vibe like? Is it more sophisticated and elegant or is it chilled and laid back?
    • Dietary requirements. For example, it might be awkward to only serve pizza slices when someone is lactose intolerant. So, it’s important to cater your snacks as you would for your dinner catering.

    When you have your answers, you’ll be able to customise your snack table accordingly.

    Pizza=Life

    Serve up tasty slices of pizza or have mini ones available. It’s simple and not too messy. Pizza is also a massive crowd-pleaser.


    Spill the corn

    Opt for ready-made mini boxes or have a machine and a self-help option. Don’t forget the spices! What’s popcorn without flavour?

     

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    A cop’s dream

    Can anyone say doughnuts? Mini, holes or custom packaged boxes! The options are endless and so are the flavours!


    Not your usual burgers and chips

    Serve up some sliders with a couple of chips. Serving these tiny burgers makes it easy enough for your guests to eat and leaves them totally satisfied.


    Chopsticks and noodles

    Who doesn’t love chow mein? Set out cute Asian take-away boxes with chopsticks. Whatever your guests don’t eat, they can close up and take home.

     

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    Cookies and cream

    You can have mini cookies laid out with milk in shot glasses. Serve a few options of cookies so your guests can mix and match. Set out cute packets so your guests can take some home as well.

     

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    I love candy

    Candy bars are always popular. Provide packets or mini buckets so your guests can make a candy pack to take with them.

     

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    Questions to ask your videographer before your big day

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    Your wedding photographs are one of the few tangible reminders you’ll have of your big day. If you haven’t already thought of it, a wedding video will also allow you to watch the day unfold again – bit by bit.

    You’ll relive almost every experience from the recital of your vows to showing off your moves on the dance floor. But don’t settle for just any old chump with a video-camera. A quality videographer does not come cheap and considering your wedding video will last for a lifetime,  you can’t afford to take the time to do your homework.

    If you’re researching potential videographers and are unsure of how to go about picking one, make sure to ask them these important questions.

    How long have you been shooting weddings?

    As with many other professionals, it’s normally the videographers who have the most experience under their belt who you can count on to produce the best results. Being aware that there are no chances for second takes at weddings, a seasoned pro will be prepared to capture all the candid moments on your big day, be able to competently cope with unpredictable mishaps and be sharp enough to spot the heartfelt yet less noticeable moments those still new to the game may miss.

    However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go for someone with less experience. If they’re new to the wedding game but have solid references from other types of shoots, they may still be the perfect option.

    What’s your style of shooting?

    Two main styles can be adopted: cinematic and documentary. A cinematic style, as the name implies, involves using feature-film methods to craft an arty movie. In contrast, a documentary-style involves outlining all the highlights of the event from beginning to end.

    To avoid disappointment, ensure your videographer’s style matches your expectations by watching previous wedding films they’ve shot.

    How does your pricing work?

    Videographers usually require you pay a flat rate based on the number of hours they’ll be shooting. They might also have designed fixed packages that include different products and services for different budgets. Whether your videographer bills you a flat rate or you’re opting for a package, it’s crucial you’re crystal clear on what is and isn’t part of the deal.

    Note: Have any agreement you make with them sent to you in writing so if you’re disappointed with the product after, you have documentation outlining the promises made.

    What does your schedule look like on my wedding date?

    You want your videographer to focus solely on your wedding so make sure they have nothing else planned for that day. Having only one wedding to shoot guarantees your videographer will give you their undivided attention and that they’ll capture every aspect of the occasion they agreed to. Juggling multiple weddings or shoots in one day could mean your videographer does a rushed job.

    Will you be the one shooting my wedding?

    Some videographers work for large studios that commonly take on several projects per day or weekend. When you first make contact, you probably won’t speak to the person who will be filming your wedding. If this is the case, get the contact details of the videographer assigned to you and set up a meeting with them. This will give you the chance to get comfortable with them as well as ask them any pressing questions about their style of shooting.

    Will you be working with an assistant?

    Having an assistant is key because it’ll be challenging or nearly impossible for all the necessary footage to be shot without one. To make your video exciting, it’s best to have certain parts of your wedding and, most of all, your ceremony, shot from varying angles. Keep in mind that having more than three videographers isn’t recommended because they’ll probably end up getting in each other’s way – and possibly your photographer’s too.

    Which photographers have you enjoyed working with?

    Your photographer and videographer will operate as a close-knit team to create valuable footage that’ll last a lifetime. So it’s a huge plus if they’ve had positive experiences with each other before – and even better if they come as a package! If they’ve never worked together, set up a meeting before the wedding to chat about their approach to collaborating as they document the day’s events. If they compete, rather than co-operate, to get shots, it could lead to tension – and terrible photographs and footage.

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    Back-up plans for rainy autumn and winter weddings

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    Alongside all the beauty of an autumn or winter wedding comes one unpredictable guest: rain. And while a few drops might make for dreamy photos, a full-on downpour can quickly turn “I do” into “what now?”

    The good news? A little foresight goes a long way. With the right backup plan, your wedding can feel just as magical — if not more so — no matter what the skies decide.

    Start with a Plan B (and actually love it)
    A backup plan shouldn’t feel like a compromise. Whether it’s a marquee, a covered veranda, or an indoor space at your venue, choose an option you genuinely love. That way, if the weather turns, it does not feel like a like a last-minute scramble.

    Think soft draping, warm lighting, and layered textures that echo your original vision. Done right, your “Plan B” can feel just as considered and beautiful as your outdoor setup.

    Tents, but make them chic
    If you’re set on an outdoor celebration, a tent is your best insurance policy. But forget the standard white marquee — today’s options are anything but basic. Clear-roof tents let in that moody autumn sky (minus the rain), while sailcloth tents bring a romantic feel.

     

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    Lean into the season
    Instead of fighting the weather, embrace it. Autumn and winter are the perfect excuse for thoughtful touches that double as practical solutions — think plush blankets for guests, warm welcome drinks like mulled wine or spiced cider, and even a basket of umbrellas that match your colour palette.

    Have a timeline that can flex
    Weather doesn’t always follow a schedule, so build a little breathing room into yours. If there’s a chance of showers, consider moving key moments like your ceremony earlier in the day, or be open to shifting things slightly if needed.

    Work closely with your planner or venue coordinator — they’ve likely handled this before and can guide the flow without disrupting the mood.

    Communicate with your suppliers
    From your photographer to your florist, your suppliers should be looped into your backup plan from the start. Photographers, in particular, can help you identify covered spots for portraits or suggest creative alternatives that still capture the essence of your day.

    Florists can also advise on blooms that hold up better in cooler, damp conditions.

    Footwear matters more than you think
    Those delicate heels might look beautiful, but damp grass and soft ground can be unforgiving. Consider a second pair of shoes (stylish flats, boots, or block heels) that will keep you comfortable and confident, whatever the terrain.

    The same goes for your bridal party — a heads-up here can save a lot of wobbling down the aisle.

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    67 of our favourite last dance songs to end your wedding on a high

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    Ending your wedding on the right note is just as important as the first dance. The final song of the night is often one of the moment that lingers in your guests’ memories — the last shared singalong, the final dance with the last guests on the dancefloor, or that quiet moment between just the two of you before the celebration comes to an end.

    The best last dance songs always bring people together one more time. Choosing the right track matters because it creates closure, celebration, and a final burst of joy to end one of life’s biggest days on a high.

    Below are 67 of the best wedding last dance songs to end your night perfectly (or to simply add to your wedding’s playlist).

    67 of our favourite last dance wedding songs

    1. Mr Brightside – The Killers
    2. (I’m Gonna Be) 500 Miles – The Proclaimers
    3. Sweet Caroline – Neil Diamond
    4. Take Me Home, Country Roads – John Denver
    5. (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life – Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes
    6. Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
    7. Celebration – Kool & The Gang
    8. Livin’ on a Prayer – Bon Jovi
    9. I Wanna Dance With Somebody – Whitney Houston
    10. Get Lucky – Daft Punk
    11. This Will Be – Natalie Cole
    12. All Night Long – Lionel Richie
    13. Just Can’t Get Enough – Depeche Mode
    14. Bohemian Rhapsody – Queen
    15. Dancing Queen – ABBA
    16. I’ll Be There for You – The Rembrandts
    17. Save the Last Dance for Me – Michael Bublé
    18. At Last – Etta James
    19. We Are Young – Fun.
    20. We Are Family – Sister Sledge
    21. One More Time – Daft Punk
    22. Come On Eileen – Dexys Midnight Runners
    23. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston
    24. Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
    25. Stand By Me – Ben E. King
    26. Let’s Get It On – Marvin Gaye
    27. You’ve Got the Love – Florence + The Machine
    28. Sex on Fire – Kings of Leon
    29. Don’t Stop Me Now – Queen
    30. Don’t Stop Believin’ – Journey
    31. I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing – Aerosmith
    32. Proud Mary – Tina Turner
    33. Jump Around – House of Pain
    34. A Little Respect – Erasure
    35. I Love It – Icona Pop
    36. Shut Up and Dance – Walk the Moon
    37. You Make My Dreams – Hall & Oates
    38. I Gotta Feeling – Black Eyed Peas
    39. Crazy Little Thing Called Love – Queen
    40. The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
    41. Forever – Chris Brown
    42. You Shook Me All Night Long – AC/DC
    43. Ho Hey – The Lumineers
    44. Like a Prayer – Madonna
    45. How Long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding
    46. Houdini – Dua Lipa
    47. HOT TO GO! – Chappell Roan
    48. Can’t Stop the Feeling! – Justin Timberlake
    49. We Found Love – Rihanna
    50. DJ Got Us Fallin’ in Love – Usher
    51. Yeah! – Usher
    52. Low – Flo Rida
    53. Raise Your Glass – P!nk
    54. Everytime We Touch – Cascada
    55. Party Rock Anthem – LMFAO
    56. The Time (Dirty Bit) – Black Eyed Peas
    57. American Pie – Don McLean
    58. Walking on Sunshine – Katrina and the Waves
    59. Lovely Day – Bill Withers
    60. My Girl – The Temptations
    61. Real Love Baby – Father John Misty
    62. Dog Days Are Over – Florence + The Machine
    63. All the Small Things – Blink-182
    64. Send Me On My Way – Rusted Root
    65. Calm Down – Rema & Selena Gomez
    66. Pour Some Sugar on Me – Def Leppard
    67. Amazed – Lonestar

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    Why more and more couples are choosing a wedding weekend

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    In recent years, weddings have begun to evolve beyond a single day of celebration. Increasingly, couples are choosing to transform their weddings into full weekend experiences, gatherings that allow friends and family to come together, connect and celebrate over several days rather than just a few hours. This extended format not only deepens the guest experience but also contributes to increased demand for local accommodation, hospitality services and nearby attractions. This shift has given rise to what many in the industry are calling the “wedding weekend” – a growing trend that places as much emphasis on shared experiences as it does on the ceremony itself.

    One of the main reasons couples are embracing the wedding weekend concept is the desire to spend more meaningful time with their guests. Traditional weddings often move at a fast pace, with the day unfolding in a blur of greetings, photographs and formalities. By extending celebrations across an entire weekend, couples are able to slow the pace, creating opportunities for genuine connection with the people who have travelled to celebrate alongside them. For many destinations, this also means guests are staying longer and engaging more with the surrounding area.

    What does a wedding weekend look like?

    A typical wedding weekend often begins with a relaxed welcome gathering on the Friday evening. Rather than a formal rehearsal dinner, many couples are opting for casual drinks or a laid-back dinner where guests can meet one another and settle into the celebratory atmosphere. This opening event sets the tone for the weekend and allows guests who may not know each other to connect before the main celebration begins. These additional gatherings often create further opportunities for local caterers, venues and service providers to be part of the celebration.

    Saturday naturally becomes the centrepiece of the weekend, with the ceremony and reception taking place against the backdrop of a more relaxed schedule. Because guests are already on-site or nearby, there is less pressure on strict timelines. Couples can take their time with the ceremony, enjoy unhurried photo sessions and create a reception that unfolds at a comfortable, celebratory pace.

    Sunday often provides a gentle conclusion to the celebrations, typically with a farewell breakfast or brunch where guests can gather one last time before departing. These final moments tend to be among the most memorable, offering couples the opportunity to thank their guests personally and reflect on the weekend’s highlights.

    What makes the wedding weekend particularly special, however, are the experiences that happen between the main events. Many couples are incorporating informal activities that allow guests to explore the surroundings and enjoy the destination together. This could include garden lunches, guided walks, wine tastings or simply relaxing in scenic surroundings with a drink in hand. These activities could encourage collaboration with local guides, producers and tourism operators, further benefiting the surrounding community.

    Food and hospitality play a central role in shaping the atmosphere of a wedding weekend. Rather than focusing on a single formal meal, couples can create a series of culinary moments throughout the celebration, from welcome cocktails and canapés to beautifully prepared dinners and relaxed brunches the following morning. This layered approach allows guests to savour the experience and enjoy the occasion without feeling rushed.

    A wedding weekend at Granny Mouse Country House & Spa

    Naturally, the success of a wedding weekend depends greatly on the setting. Venues that offer accommodation, picturesque surroundings and a variety of spaces for both formal and informal gatherings are particularly well suited to this style of celebration. In regions such as the KwaZulu-Natal Midlands, venues like Granny Mouse Country House & Spa provide the kind of relaxed countryside atmosphere that allows wedding weekends to unfold effortlessly, with gardens, intimate ceremony spaces and comfortable accommodation all within easy reach.

    Ultimately, by creating space for connection, laughter and celebration over several days, couples can savour every moment. Their guests, in turn, become part of something truly special, with extended stays that naturally contribute to the local economy.

    If the perfect weekend wedding is what you’re after, then contact the Granny Mouse team at [email protected]

    ALSO SEE: How (and when) to greet your wedding guests

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