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    There are two reasons why people come to a wedding, other than to celebrate eternal love of course. Those two reasons are: Free food and free booze.

    Alcohol and food go hand-in-hand in that you want to ensure your guests have lined their stomachs enough before the drinking begins.

    There is an art though, to ensure all your guests dietary requirements are met. While you can make exceptions for the mains, the grazing table is a beast of its own.

    You have to consider the vegetarians, vegans, carnivores, gluten-free, sugar-free and everything else in between-free.

    To kill 6 birds with one table, here are some tips on what to include in the ultimate grazing table, without anything going to waste.

    1. Cheese and crackers

    No this is not the most boring combination on Earth. Cheese and crackers are the unsung hero of a grazing table. You’ve essentially covered every single dietary requirement except the vegans. Wheels of cheese are not only the thing dreams are made of but they are also super helpful in feeding en mass. Throw in some vegan cheese options, salt and pepper, rye and gluten-free cracker options and voila! A feast is born.

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    2. Fruit that isn’t fermented

    Wine is a guarantee on the day but the only grapes on the grazing table should not be fermented. Red grapes pair with literally anything, especially cheese, to add a bit of sweetness. If you want to add more pzaz than the old faithful grapes, consider some aesthetically pleasing fruits that won’t grow warm and overripe. Most berries such as blueberries, raspberries, gooseberries and strawberries look beautiful on a massive table. Seasonal availability will need to be considered. If you’re having a Summer wedding, think mangoes, litchis, watermelon, sliced white nectarines and other stone fruit. The options are endless. It gives the vegans a variety of yummy foods to choose from too.

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    3. Cold meat’s a treat!

    Cold meat cuts are generally a crowd pleaser for those who still consume them. Anything Italian or German is sure to go down well. The meat section of your grazing table will pair nicely with the cheese section, so long as it is nowhere near the vegan cheese options. The protein will help to subdue the hunger pangs enough for the long wait that is the post-wedding ceremony photoshoot.

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    4. The side pieces

    The only side piece one wants at their wedding are those awkward foods that make up a grazing table. Thing gherkins, capers, carrot and cucumber sticks, saucers of olives, baby tomatoes, lemon slices: Those sorts of fruit and veg that aren’t necessarily aesthetically pleasing but can act as a glorified cracker or filling nonetheless.

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    4. It’s all about the SAUCE!

    Sauces are essential on a grazing table. While they don’t necessarily need to be their own separate amenity, honey drizzles over some figs, some sweet chili over the chevin, and a patê or 5 will go down very well. They also force guests to pair it with a carb, or glorified cracker, which will help line the stomachs BB (Before Booze).

    5. Extra additions

    If you want to spoil your guests, throw in a few freshly baked breads sliced to perfection. Bread will load them up with carbs and essentially get your guests to consume more of the toppings, so nothing goes to waste on the day!

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    ‘The Bachelorette’ star Clare Crawley is engaged to Dale Moss. The pair got married a few months ago but have kept it away from the public until Thursday, November 5.

    On this week’s drama-filled show, the viewers witnessed Clare become engaged to Dale, just four episodes into the series, and Tayshia Adams being brought in to replace her.

     

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    It’s official!! Love wins!!!! ?❤️!!! I love you @dalemoss13 !!!!

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    Clare said that it was love at first sight for her, she knew that Dale was her future husband “the moment he walked into the show.”

    “After the first night, and I even said it the first time I knew it was special, but after we had our first group date, in my mind and in my heart, everything was already written,” Dale said in an interview with, Good morning America.

    With just four episodes in, Clare had already made up her mind on who she was going to pick and for her entertaining other possible suitors was a complete waste of time. This led to her receiving backlash on social media for being unfair to others and the viewers.

     

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    Never a point I won’t show up for you @clarecrawley ? ?.

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    Dale proposed to Clare with a 4.5 carats Neil Lane ring. After the big reveal, they have been spotted together and they have been sharing content on their social media accounts being together.

     

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    Clare is no stranger to the show. She first turned up on ‘The Bachelor’ in 2014, when she competed for the affection of bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis and turned into a Bachelor Nation legend. This time, however, it worked out for the best.

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    Planning a wedding is expensive, not to mention the honeymoon and the new life you’ll build together afterward. It’s easily understandable why many couples would prefer a cash gift instead of a physical gift on their wedding day.

    It can sometimes feel a bit classless to ask for money, but it doesn’t need to be. However, it’s important to do it the right way to avoid offending some older family members or putting pressure on anyone to contribute more than they were originally willing to spend on a gift.

    Here are some tips to get that big tip at the end of your big day:

    Don’t ask for money on your wedding invitation

    The wedding invitation is to introduce your upcoming union and is all about the good vibes. Adding a clause that you’re expecting cash from your guests can be construed a bit tasteless. Instead, set up a wedding website where you can include a link to a cash registry or banking details of an account set up specifically for the cash gifts.

    Let your guests know how you plan to spend the money

    While you don’t owe anyone an explanation, giving your guests a general idea of how you plan to spend the money might make them more willing to contribute. For example, if it’s a honeymoon fund for a dream vacation or house renovations fund, your guests will know that their money is going toward something important.

    It could also be a good idea to set up a specific target amount, with a live tracker displaying how close you are to your goal. Some might feel even more willing to contribute if they know you are closer to reaching your dream.

    Use a cash registry

    If you feel awkward asking for money outright, you can easily direct your guests to your cash registry on your wedding website. There are sites that run it all for you, so all you need to do is fill in the details and add the link, and voilà. Try out South African sites like Wrapistry or Gift Tree.

    Set up cash boxes at your reception

    Some people don’t trust online banking or are simply not technologically-savvy. Give your older guests an in-person option by setting up a cash donation box at your reception. You’ll need your wedding planner or a minder to keep an eye over the box throughout the evening to make sure the money stays safe.

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    Summer is officially here in the Mother City, bringing with it happier days and tons of sunshine. The season offers so many fun themes to explore for a wedding day.

    When you think of summer, what comes to mind? For us, it’s the sea, delicious cocktails, and lush green gardens. The pictures that spring to mind can easily be expanded on to create fun summer-inspired escort cards.

    From seashells and coconuts to oyster shucking knives and potted plants, there are so many easily accessible items you can use to add a bright and seasonal twist to your day.

    Here are some unique options to be inspired by:

     

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    Wedding favours are a sweet way to show your guests your appreciation for sharing in your special day. While not essential, it is a nice touch to give your guests an exciting send-off.

    Anyone who has planned a wedding before knows how expensive it can be. Things add up quickly and unexpected costs can crop up at any minute, so it’s best to be financially savvy where you can be.

    If you’re working with a tight budget, fear not. There are tons of affordable wedding favour options to incorporate into your big day. Some of them are easily DIYable, which means you save on labour too.

    From seedlings to tea, hangover kits made of mini bottles of water and painkillers, to DIY tic tac toe, you can make a wedding favour out of pretty much any common household item.

    Here are some ideas that won’t break the bank:

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    South Africa is lucky to have thousands of artisans and brands creating unique products for our everyday lives. From fashion and jewellery to makeup, you can find anything you need from a South African creator.

    While the big brands are familiar, why not support a local business instead? Here are a few of our favourite local beauty brands offering incredible products to enhance your bridal look.

    Swiitch Beauty

     

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    Rabia Ghoor is the mastermind behind Swiitch Beauty, a South African beauty brand born out of the internet. From blush palettes to brow gel, their products are designed to enhance natural beauty. They’re also incredibly affordable and aesthetically pleasing to boot.

    Chick Cosmetics

     

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    what shade is calling your name? ? take a trip with us?✨?

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    Chick Cosmetics, founded by Nomfundo Njibe, is all about cruelty-free ingredients, ethical marketing and sustainable practices. From makeup to skincare and beauty brushes, this is your one-stop shop to complete your bridal look.

    Sorbet

     

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    Sorbet is famed for its beauty salons, and they now offer makeup products. The nationwide beauty therapy hub with over 200 stores countrywide produces makeup and skincare, as well as body products to treat yourself like the queen you are.

    Constance Beauty

     

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    Formally known as Connie Transform, this beauty brand was created by Connie Bhebhe after being as tired of being unable to find lipstick shades to compliment her skin tone.  Her products specifically cater to women of colour, and are also vegan and cruelty free.

    Lulu and Marula

     

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    Lulu and Marula is a natural, ethically produced cruelty-free skin and body care collection developed in Cape Town by Jesslynn Shepherd. It focuses on clean, simple and sustainable ingredients that are free from artificial colours, fragrances, parabens, petrochemicals, synthetics or other harmful ingredients.

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    With a million things to decide on, from cakes, decor, and venue amongst others, making the decision whether to hire a wedding planner or to do everything yourself is a tricky decision.

    The logistics can take away from the thrill of enjoying your big day. It’s no wonder so many choose to hire a wedding planner to plan their big day so they can focus on the fun.

    While wedding planners are more experienced and flexible, those who want 100% control will probably be better doing doing it themselves.

    If you enjoy planning and doing things yourself then, by all means, you should plan your wedding. This can also be another way to save money because it will cost you less than having to pay a professional.

    Here are the pros and cons of hiring a planner.

    The Pros

    – Your wedding will have an expert look to give it the extra flair and beauty

    – You will not worry about things going wrong, because that is not your responsibility

    – Pros already know who to call and for what  to make your big day amazing

    – Your budget gets a professional eye and you will get a fresh perspective of ideas

    The Cons

    – You will lose some control over the planning of your own wedding

    – You will spend more money paying a professional than you would if you were doing it yourself

    – You may have a difficult time trusting someone with every detail, and have disagreements from time to time

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    Diogo Rabelo, a 33-year-old doctor, married himself in a sologomous ceremony at a luxurious resort in Itacare, in the north-eastern state of Bahia, Brazil on October 17. The decision to marry himself followed after his fiance broke up with him over a series of arguments over the summer.

    The couple was meant to get married in September but broke up in July. Instead of calling off the whole thing, Rabelo decided to got through with the big day and marry himself. The wedding cost him around 350,000 BRL (R977 989) and 40 of the people who were initially invited attended. Not surprisingly, the ex’s friends and family did not show up.

    The reason behind tying the knot on his own was that he wants to send a message to people that you do not need to depend on a marriage to be happy.

    Rabelo explains: “Today is one of the happiest days of my life, as I’m with the people I love the most in this life, celebrating what could be a tragedy, but I made it a comedy.”

    “I do want to marry someone else, and I want to have children, but my happiness cannot depend on that,” he added.

     

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    A British couple now shares a rather unusual surname. After tying the knot in a pre-second lockdown wedding, the pair now go by Mr and Mrs White-Christmas.

    Tilly Christmas and Kieran White met as children and got married on Tuesday [November 3] at the Roman Baths in Bath, just before England began its second lockdown.

    Christmas already has a unique surname and decided to keep it after marriage. However, combining her surname with her husband’s surname was an offer she could not refuse.

    “I wanted to keep the name going. It just so happens the man I am marrying has the perfect surname to go with it,” she told the BBC.

    The pair first realised their surnames came together as the festive White-Christmas at their secondary school prom when their friend uploaded pictures to social media using #WhiteChristmas.

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    Nevada voters have overturned an 18-year old amendment and became the first American state to officially remove a ban on same-sex marriage from its state constitution.

    Despite the Supreme Court ruling same-sex marriage legal in every state across the country in 2015, an inactive ban from a 2002 amendment defining marriage as being between one man and one woman remained. Nevada was one of 30 states to pass a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.

    During Tuesday’s [November 3] election, state residents voted in support of the “Marriage Regardless of Gender Amendment” to have the inactive ban removed from the constitution. According to Nevada secretary of state, about 62% were in favour while 38% of residents voted against the amendment. Now, marriage will be defined as between couples, regardless of gender, although religious organisations and clergypersons will still retain the right to refuse to solemnise a marriage.

    “This overwhelming majority should be a reminder that LGBTQ equality is not just the right thing to do, it is exactly what Nevadans want,” said Briana Escamilla, Human Rights Campaign’s Nevada director.

    “It’s the fix we need to make here,” André Wade, head of Silver State Equality, told KTNV-TV. “We have discriminatory language in the constitution, and we need to take it out. We know Nevadans value equality, and we want our constitution to mirror that.”

    Concerns of a conservative majority on the Supreme Court have increased following the appointment of Justice Amy Coney Barrett to replace the late Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Removing the same-sex ban thus acts as a way for residents to offer some form of protection for same-sex couples, regardless of any future federal moves in the Supreme Court.

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