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In Destination

How to make a destination wedding easy on your guests

February 5, 2026 No Comments

There are many aspects of a destination wedding you should consider when planning one. Yes, it is your big day. You should be allowed the final say in what goes down over this period. Just remember, though, that the celebratory atmosphere of your wedding does depend, in part, on your guests having a good experience. They have given up part of their time, travelled a few miles, and spent quite a bit of money, to be there for you. So here’s some advice on how to make your destination wedding easier and more enjoyable for your guests.

Firstly, long before you do anything else, tell everyone about your plans to tie the knot overseas. Those you wish to invite need time to schedule the trip, and some might not be able to make it due to financial issues or prior engagements. It would be better if they declined long before you did the seating arrangements or decided who will be in the bridal party.

Now, once you know who’s definitely coming, don’t leave them hanging with regard to transport, directions and accommodation. Research what group rates are available for flights as well as hotel rooms. Definitely send them directions to the main venue, and in case transport might be difficult for them, organising a shuttle service would be a great favour.

Once your guests have arrived, make them feel welcome. A lovely little note left in plain sight on the bedspread or dressing table is always a good idea. A tiny gift, perhaps a small confection particular to the country you’re getting married in, would also go down well. In addition, you should probably give them products essential in dealing with that country’s climate and natural surroundings. Bug spray and sunscreen are good ideas if you’re tying the knot outdoors in the baking heat of a tropical paradise.

Lastly, while the wedding is the reason they came, it should not be the only activity on the weekend schedule. Organise something special for your guests, maybe a fun brunch or dinner at a nearby venue. This will be a good chance for your friends and family to touch base and catch up. After all, you do want all the special people in your life to get to know each other, and to get along, don’t you?

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In Guys

5 tips to get your partner involved in the wedding planning

February 4, 2026 No Comments

You’ve had the big engagement and decided on a date – now it’s time to get down to the planning but your partner doesn’t seem keen on contributing. Wedding planning can be stressful enough without having a partner who is not interested in helping out, so we’ve put together these five tips to get your partner involved in planning your big day together.

1. FROM THE GET-GO

Make sure you are both discussing wedding options from the start. You don’t want to get ahead without your partner and leave them behind, only to want their input later on.

2. BE OPEN MINDED

Your partner may have some strange ideas, but try not to brush them off harshly, as you want them to continue making contributions. If you don’t like something, be gentle and explain why.

3. GET HANDS-ON

If there are certain areas that you know your partner will be interested in, such as the music, food or transport, then hand over those tasks, making sure you are both on the same page when it comes to what you want.

4. ASK FOR HELP

If you’re struggling to juggle all of the invitations, nagging family members and bookings, ask your partner if they can take on some of the tasks, or that you work on them together to ease the pressure.

5. JUST BE HONEST

Tell your partner that you want their input, after all, you both decided to have a wedding. Having open communication will help you to express how you feel as well as finding out what your partner wants.

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In Advice

5 ways to avoid a family takeover at your wedding

February 3, 2026 No Comments

Letting your family help out with all the wedding planning can be fun, exciting, and a relief. But they can often become too involved and start taking over, causing unnecessary drama and stress before the big day. It’s important to set some boundaries while still letting your loved ones know that their help is appreciated, which is why we’ve come up with simple solutions to getting everyone involved without it turning into a family takeover,

1. KEEP IT SPECIFIC

Assign your family members certain tasks to complete, making sure they keep you informed with their progress. This can be anything from making invitations to table decorations, leaving you to sort out the bigger decisions.

2. COMMUNICATION

Keep in contact with your family about your decisions and the progress of the wedding planning. This will allow them to feel like they are a part of it all, and that you value their opinion. It’s also important to speak up when you are unhappy, but approach it in a calm and gentle way.

3. COMPROMISE

If your parents are footing some of the bill, they’ll want to have a say in some of the arrangements. Welcome their ideas, but also explain your and your fiancée’s vision for your wedding before you get started.

4. GET YOUR WEDDING PLANNER INVOLVED

If you’re feeling overwhelmed with pressure from all sides, get your wedding planner to step in and act as a buffer between you and your family. This will also give them the opportunity to update everyone on the wedding progress and what plans are in place to achieve your vision.

5. OFF LIMITS

Keep certain aspects of the wedding planning decisions off limits. This doesn’t mean you can’t involve your family or keep them in the loop, but be strictly clear that it is for you to decide. This can be about your guest list, the dress, or wedding cake. To counter any protests, give your family something they are passionate about, such as the catering or wedding stationery.

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In Advice

How to tie a bow tie

February 3, 2026 No Comments

Bow ties are a classic option that will add the finishing touch to your wedding day outfit. As dashing as they are, the sophisticated embellishment is a bit tricky to pull off. If you’re unsure and want to pull off the tasteful look yourself, here’s how to tie a bow tie on your wedding day, or any other day you want to look extra dapper:

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Step by step

Choose a great bow tie

Black is a classic colour to choose but if your wedding vibe allows for it, consider opting for a funky colour, pattern or material.

Sizing

To ensure you get that dashing and sophisticated look, adjust the bow tie according to your neck size. Ask a sales assistant to measure your neck when purchasing a bow tie. There should be an adjustable slider or a hook and holes that will allow you to make the bow tie bigger or smaller.

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How to tie

The most popular choice is the butterfly bow tie.

First place your bow tie around your neck facing up. Make sure that the right side is shorter than the left. Your left end is A and the right end is B.

Move A over to the right. It will be across from B. It should form an X shape.

Move A under B and bring it up through the neck loop.

You can now fold B towards the right and finally to the left, which will then create the bow shape.

The A side can now move straight down over the middle section (the bow shape)

A can be folded towards the chest.

Pinch the fold.

You need to push A through the loop behind B.

Finally, pull on the folded parts which will tighten it. Adjust the bow tie to be balanced on both sides.

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In Drinks

Signature cocktails to serve at your wedding

February 2, 2026 No Comments

Signature cocktails don’t necessarily have to be something invented from scratch. It can simply be one delicious drink for you to serve your guests all night long, with a few personal touches and add-ons, of course.

THE CLASSIC MOJITO

Mojitos are perfect as a simple starter and are an easy choice with its neutral flavours of mint, lime and gin. Spice things up by adding your favourites herbs and spices, or serve a fruity option.

RED WINE SANGRIA

A little sweet and the perfect summer drink, sangria is a delicious option that is affordable to serve as well. Make it before the time with your and your partner’s favourite summer fruits, a dry red and some fresh fruit juice.

MARGARITAS

This classy drink is another easy (and super affordable) option to have. Grab some tequila, lime, oranges and water and mix it up for a fun, summery cocktail. Even better? Set out a bunch of yummy ingredients to create a margarita-making station for your guests.

FRENCH 75

If you want to keep things really simple but still fun, opt for your usual quality champagne and add a dash of gin, lemon juice and sugar. You can also add some fruits and herbs to garnish, depending on whether you are going for a winter or summer theme. We love taking inspiration from a Bellini by adding a teaspoon of fresh fruit puree to the bottom of each glass. Guests who prefer a sweet drink will appreciate this touch.

WATERMELON PUNCH BOWLS

Having a punch bowl at your wedding says that you are a fun and laid-back couple who enjoy the summertime. First, choose your spirit. We recommend something with a more neutral flavour, like vodka or can. Add watermelon pieces, water, mint, lime and watermelon puree and you have a delicious and refreshing beverage for your guests!

A HOT IRISH COFFEE

For an autumn or winter wedding, a delicious and warm cocktail is an excellent way to treat your guests. If you want to make the Irish Coffee sweeter, replace the whiskey with Kahlua, or serve each to give your guests the option. If it’s really cold, Kahlua hot choccie goes down really well too!

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In Dates

11 romantic movies to put you in a Valentine’s Day mood

January 30, 2026 No Comments

Valentine’s Day calls for a solid lineup of romantic movies.

Here’s a list of ten romantic movies you need on your watchlist:

1. The Notebook (2004)
No Valentine’s list is complete without it. Noah and Allie’s love story is emotional, dramatic, and impossible to watch without tissues. Big feelings, big declarations, and a reminder that some loves never fade.

2. Crazy Rich Asians (2018)
A modern romantic movie that blends glamour with real emotional stakes. Between the luxury, family pressure, and cultural expectations, this is a love story about choosing yourself as much as choosing your partner.

3. Before Sunrise (1995)
Two strangers meet on a train and decide to spend the night talking instead of saying goodbye. It’s dialogue-driven, intimate, and proof that connection doesn’t need grand gestures to feel meaningful.

4. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
Sharp, funny, and endlessly quotable. This rom-com balances sarcasm with sincerity, giving us one of the most memorable love stories of the late ’90s — and a soundtrack to match.

5. La La Land (2016)
A romantic movie that leans into ambition and reality. It’s visually striking, emotionally layered, and asks the tough question: what happens when love and dreams don’t line up?

6. Pretty Woman (1990)
A modern fairytale with staying power. Julia Roberts brings warmth and humour to a love story that’s playful, charming, and unapologetically iconic.

7. Dirty Dancing (1987)
Set over one unforgettable summer, this film mixes first love, rebellion, and unforgettable dance scenes. Romantic, bold, and still as satisfying decades later.

8. Notting Hill (1999)
A bookstore owner, a famous actress, and a romance that feels awkward in the best way. Funny, self-aware, and quietly heartfelt, it’s a classic for a reason.

9. How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)
Fast-paced, ridiculous, and full of chemistry. This is a rom-com that knows exactly what it is — fun, chaotic, and perfect for a lighthearted Valentine’s watch.

10. Me Before You (2016)
A romantic movie that doesn’t play it safe. Emotional, thought-provoking, and guaranteed to leave you wrecked, it explores love, choice, and what it means to live fully.

11. Titanic (1997)
Jack and Rose. Epic, tragic, unforgettable. Enough said.

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In Fashion

Bridal Birkenstocks? Danielle Frankel just made them a thing

January 30, 2026 No Comments

For brides who refuse to sacrifice comfort for style, this collaboration might just be the wedding shoe moment of the year. Birkenstock has teamed up with New York-based bridal designer Danielle Frankel on a limited-edition footwear capsule that reimagines the brand’s most iconic silhouettes for weddings and special occasions.

The result? Bridal shoes that look fashion-forward, feel supportive, and are designed to last long after the last dance.

A modern take on bridal footwear

The six-piece Birkenstock x Danielle Frankel collection reworks four classic Birkenstock styles, alongside two exclusive designs created specifically for Frankel’s studio. Familiar shapes like the Arizona, Madrid and Tulum have been elevated with satin finishes, delicate ties, pearls and soft floral detailing, all while staying true to Birkenstock’s signature aesthetic.

Standout styles include a white satin Arizona adorned with pearls, a pared-back Madrid with refined straps, and a Tulum sandal updated with a sleek slingback. For brides looking for something more artisanal, the hand-painted Boston clog and chiffon-embroidered Arizona offer a distinctly couture feel.

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Comfort remains the priority

Despite the romantic makeover, comfort is still at the heart of every design. Each shoe features Birkenstock’s cork-latex footbed, ensuring proper support throughout a long wedding day.

Why the fashion world is paying attention

Unsurprisingly, the collaboration has already generated buzz ahead of its official release. International fashion titles have praised the collection for challenging traditional bridal norms, celebrating individuality, and offering an alternative to classic heels.

Danielle Frankel, a long-time Birkenstock wearer herself, approached the partnership as a study in merging practicality with romance. Pearls, bespoke floral motifs and hand-finished details nod to her bridal couture roots, while production in Birkenstock’s German factories ensures the craftsmanship both brands are known for.

Is it for everyone? Probably not

Let’s be honest: bridal Birkenstocks won’t win over every bride, and for some, this will be a hard no. But for others, this collection will feel refreshingly liberating. And perhaps that’s exactly who it’s meant for.

When and where to shop the collection

The Birkenstock x Danielle Frankel collection launches on February 12, 2026, with select styles previewing during New York Fashion Week from February 11 to 16. It is said that the range will be available online via birkenstock.com and daniellefrankelstudio.com, as well as at selected retailers worldwide.

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In Dates

Free things to do on your birthday across South Africa

January 29, 2026 No Comments

Take advantage of a special occasion and turn it into a memorable date. Whether you’re celebrating your birthday or planning something thoughtful for your partner’s, South Africa is full of experiences that feel indulgent without the hefty price tag. From a cableway ride up Table Mountain to silver-screen magic under the stars, these birthday-friendly treats are perfect for celebrating love without blowing the budget.

Free things to do on your birthday across South Africa:

1. Table Mountain Aerial Cableway

Whether you’re a local or a visitor, ascending the Table Mountain Aerial Cableway is always a delightful experience. While it may not be budget-friendly for locals at R420 per adult for a morning departure, there’s a silver lining – once a year, you get to enjoy the ride for free.

During the entire calendar month of your birthday, you can present your proof of ID and receive a complimentary return ticket to the summit. The beauty of this offer is that you can use the free birthday ticket on any day within that month, even if it precedes your actual birthdate. Unfortunately, this birthday perk is exclusive to South Africans. Additionally, it’s important to note that children must accompany an adult when redeeming their birthday tickets, and the complimentary ticket is valid solely for the individual celebrating their birthday.

Address: Tafelberg Rd, Gardens, Cape Town, 8001

2. Harties Cableway

Why not savour breathtaking views from exhilarating heights at Harties Cableway on your birthday? Simply bring your ID to confirm your special day, and you’ll receive a complimentary cable car ride! It’s a delightful way to start your birthday on a high note. Once you reach the summit, you’ll discover a host of other adventures and attractions to ensure your visit is truly memorable.

Address: Plot 3, Melodie Melodie Agricultural Holdings, Hartbeespoort, 0260

3. Two Oceans Aquarium

Residents can enjoy special perks at the Two Oceans Aquarium in the V&A Waterfront, receiving complimentary admission on their birthday and the subsequent six days. Regrettably, this offer is exclusive to South African residents and is not extended to tourists.

To claim the free ticket, the birthday celebrant needs to visit the Aquarium’s ticket office, presenting valid proof of identification. This offer is applicable to individuals aged four and above. It’s important to note that tickets cannot be obtained in advance and must be utilised on the same day they are collected.

Address: Dock Rd, Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, Cape Town, 8002

4. Gold Reef City Theme Park

Celebrate your birthday at the always-popular and adventure-packed Gold Reef City Theme Park! Secure your group’s tickets online and bring proof of your birthday, such as your ID or driver’s license. Immerse yourself in the joy of over 50 thrilling rides and attractions on your special day.

In the event that your birthday coincides with a closed day for the theme park (currently Monday to Wednesday), take advantage of the free birthday entry offer by visiting on the closest Sunday to your birthdate. Please note that this offer is valid exclusively for the nearest Sunday. While no prior online booking is necessary for the birthday person, it is essential for family and friends accompanying you on the day.

Address: Northern Pkwy & Data Cres, Johannesburg, 2159

5. The Cape Wheel

Perched in its new position with a scenic backdrop of Granger Bay, the Cape Wheel offers mesmerizing vistas of the Waterfront, city center, and Table Mountain. Complete the straightforward online form, and upon your birthday, receive a complimentary ride voucher valid for the next 30 days. Just print out the voucher and, along with proof of ID, present it at the Cape Wheel ticket booth.

In case you miss the advance sign-up, fret not. On your actual birthday, you can effortlessly show up with proof of ID to redeem your free ride.

Address: The Lawns, Breakwater Blvd, Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, Cape Town, 8001

6. Bothongo Rhino and Lion Nature Reserve

On your special day, Bothongo Rhino and Lion Nature Reserve are offering you the present of adventure with a free Self-Drive experience at the reserve! The complimentary entry ticket is applicable solely on your birthday, so remember to bring your ID for ticket validation.

Address: 520 Kromdraai Road, Kromdraai, Krugersdorp, 1739

7. Ster-Kinekor Movie

While there’s a bit of administrative work involved, if you’re a movie enthusiast, the effort is worthwhile to snag your complimentary movie ticket at Ster-Kinekor Theatres. To get started, you’ll need to apply (at no cost) and become a member of the SK Club, which you can do here.

After a few simple clicks, you can then login online or drop by your nearest Ster-Kinekor box office to claim a free 2D or 3D birthday movie ticket. Keep in mind that the ticket is only valid for movies released a week before and up to seven days after your birthday.

Address: Branches across South Africa

8. SKY-HI Ride

Conquer a 35-meter tall tower! Experience a free-fall at nearly 100 km/h. Endure 4Gs of force on your body. If these numbers don’t deter you from the exhilarating SKY-HI Ride atop the Hotel Sky in downtown Cape Town, then seize the opportunity to claim your complimentary birthday ticket for this unique ride, the only one of its kind in Africa.

To secure your free ticket, make an online reservation using this link. Fortunately, the ticket is valid for any day throughout the month of your birthday.

Address: 28th Floor, Hotel Sky, 9 Lower Long St, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, 8001

9. Galileo Open-Air Cinema

This outdoor cinematic experience, widely embraced throughout Cape Town, features screenings at selected venues in the city and across the Cape Winelands.

During the Galileo summer season, spanning from November to April, you can avail yourself of the Galileo Birthday Special within your birthday week, commencing on a Monday and concluding on a Sunday. Simply present proof of ID or birth during your Birthday Week at the entrance to enjoy complimentary entry, a backrest, and a blanket.

Even if a show is sold out, Galileo ensures accommodation for the birthday person. However, individuals accompanying the celebrant are advised to pre-book tickets to avoid disappointment, as no on-site sales are permitted when a show is sold out.

Check out their venues here.

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In Celebs

Amor Vittone is engaged

January 29, 2026 No Comments

Singer, businesswoman and media personality Amor Vittone is engaged. The star shared the happy news on social media on 28 January, posting a photo of her elegant engagement ring alongside the simple, heartfelt caption: “I said yes.”

The announcement was met with an outpouring of love, as fans and friends celebrated a new chapter for the multi-talented performer, who has long been a familiar and much-loved face in South African media. She is also widely known as the former wife of late Springbok rugby legend Joost van der Westhuizen

A love story that began in pretoria

Amor Vittone’s fiancé is Marius van Biljon, a businessman, radio presenter and MC. The couple first crossed paths at Captain’s Island, Van Biljon’s family restaurant in Pretoria.

Their connection began professionally when Vittone performed at the restaurant, but it didn’t end there. She later returned for a Women’s Day celebration, and it was during these encounters that something more meaningful started to take shape.

Finding love after loss

For Van Biljon, this engagement marks a deeply significant new beginning. He was previously married to Shannon van Biljon, the late Mrs Pretoria Tshwane 2023, who passed away in July 2025 following a brief illness related to early-stage kidney failure.

The couple recently spoke about their story in an interview on Jacaranda FM, offering listeners a glimpse into how their relationship grew organically.

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In Dates

A romantic Valentine’s Day at Brookdale Estate

January 28, 2026 No Comments

Valentine’s Day in the Cape Winelands falls at the height of summer, when harvest season brings energy to the vineyards and evenings are made for lingering over good food and wine. February is a naturally social month, and at Brookdale Estate in the Paarl Winelands, it is marked by thoughtful dining experiences and seasonal moments designed for couples.

With food, wine and setting at its core, Brookdale Estate offers a considered way to celebrate Valentine’s Day, whether through a long lunch, an intimate dinner or a relaxed evening spent watching the sun set over the vineyards.

Valentine’s Day dining at The Bistro

On Friday, 14 February, The Bistro at Brookdale Estate invites couples to celebrate Valentine’s Day with its a la carte Summer Menu, available for both lunch and dinner. Guests are welcomed with a complimentary glass of Mason Road Serendipity rosé, setting the tone for a relaxed yet considered dining experience.

For dinner, live music by Leigh Hondy adds to the atmosphere, creating a softly romantic backdrop that enhances the evening without overwhelming it. Seasonal dishes, thoughtful wine pairings and vineyard views encourage an unhurried celebration of the day.

Sunset dinners in February

Romance at Brookdale Estate extends beyond Valentine’s Day itself with the return of the Sunset Dinner Series, running throughout February and continuing every Wednesday and Thursday evening until 26 March.

With two sittings at 17:30 and 19:30, these evenings invite guests to linger over seasonal menus as the sun dips behind the vineyards. It is one of the Winelands’ simplest pleasures and an ideal way to enjoy summer evenings together.

Celebrating Syrah and the harvest season

Wine remains central to the Brookdale experience, and Syrah Day on 16 February offers another reason to visit during Valentine’s month. Guests are encouraged to explore the estate’s Tasting Room, open Tuesdays to Sundays, where the 2024 Mason Road Syrah takes centre stage.

Recently awarded four stars in the 2025 Platter’s by Diners Club South African Wine Guide, the wine reflects both elegance and structure and marks a proud achievement for the Brookdale winemaking team during harvest season.

A milestone month at Brookdale Estate

February also marks a celebratory milestone for The Bistro, which turns three years old on Sunday, 1 February. Guests joining for lunch are welcomed with a complimentary glass of bubbly, offered as a thank you following recent recognition as a Top 10 Destination Restaurant in the Cape by The Inside Guide and a Top 20 Restaurant in South Africa for 2025 by Dineplan.

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