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    When you really think about it, the idea of walking down the aisle carrying a bunch of flowers seems a bit odd. Perhaps for decorative purposes it works, but one could argue its a bit random and inconvenient, and serves to block the full view of the main attraction – the wedding gown – as well.

    Yet, you’d be hard-pressed to find a bride without a bouquet, or at least some form of it. Many consider it to be an essential part of the bride’s look.

    While we can all agree that the bouquet does add a touch of natural beauty which is unmatched, this is not the reason brides carry bunches of blossoms. Like most other wedding traditions, the practice is rooted in reasoning from centuries passed.

    In Ancient Rome, brides would carry flowers as they were believed to signify new beginnings, fidelity and hope of fertility, according to Modern Wedding. Bouquets, however, were not always made up of flowers.

    Herbs took preference for brides in the Middle Ages. Dill and garlic were most commonly used as they were said to ward off evil spirits and bad luck, according to Readers Digest. Reportedly, the dill would make a second appearance on the wedding day – during the feast – to prepare the newlyweds for the consumation of their marriage since it is considered an aphrodisiac.

    Later on, during the Victorian Era, the act of giving and receiving flowers came to be known as an expression of love. As they were then linked to love and romance, they increasingly became incorportated into weddings.

    Since then, it seems the practice has stuck and is not going anywhere either. Flowers are incorporated into weddings through bouquets, table decorations, and much more.

    There is a popular myth that has been reported by many publications, including Bustle, which that claims another reason for the bouquet in the 15th century was to mask the smell of the bride.

    This claim is based on the fact that, in those times, people only had one bath per year. Huffington Post reported that June was the most popualr month for weddings and most women took their annual bath in May.

    According to Snopes, an online fact checking resouce, this is not true. Brides have never carried a bouquet to mask their smell.

    “Although the modern practice of full-immersion bathing was a long way off in the 1500s (among other reasons because filling a vessel large enough to hold a person with heated water was rather impractical given the effort required to collect fresh water and fuel for heating it), people did still “bathe” in the sense of attempting to clean themselves as best they could with the resources at hand,” explains Snopes.

    “Although today’s brides carry flowers simply because it is now the custom to do so, at one time bridal bouquets were symbols of sexuality and fertility. Covering up anyone’s bad smell played no part in why this custom came into being.”

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    We all know how stressful planning a wedding can be, making wedding planning burnout a very real possibility. Whether you’re trying not to pull out your hair as wedding costs skyrocket or you’re obsessing over every little detail to ensure that everything goes the way you’ve pictured it, feeling overwhelmed is guaranteed to happen if you’re not careful.

    Thankfully, this isn’t something new and there are endless resources to help the modern bridal couple looking to keep costs and anxiety low.

    You do not need to spend your entire wedding budget on one pair of shoes you will wear for a few hours. These days, budget-friendly bridal shoes are proving that style, comfort and affordability can absolutely go hand in hand.

    There are plenty of bridal shoes under R600 that look just as dreamy walking down the aisle as they do styled with jeans, dresses or tailored pants long after the wedding day is over. Because honestly, if you can rewear your wedding accessories after the big day, that is a win.

    We rounded up beautiful bridal shoes under R600 that are wedding-worthy, wearable beyond the aisle and proof that looking chic on your big day does not have to cost an arm, a leg or your two front teeth.

    Tori Satin 9cm Heel With Netted Trim Court Shoe, R550, Lamara Paris

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    Pointy Slingback Kitten Heels, R459, Foschini

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    Jayna Block Ankle Strap Heel, R519, Superbalist

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    Rasa Embroidered Slingback Pointed 4.5cm Heel, R500, Lamara Paris

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    Peeptoe Ankle Tie Heels, R499, Foschini

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    Misty Block 9cm Heel Open Waist Cross Over Belts Glitter, R499, Lamara Paris

    Women’s Iconography Strappy Block Heel, R599, BASH

    Mesh And Beaded Shoe With Ankle Strap, R550, Queenspark

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    Non-white wedding dresses are no longer a bridal taboo

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    Mr and Mrs seem like given titles for those that choose to walk down the aisle and say ‘I do’. Have you ever wondered where these titles come from? The origin might surprise you.

    The titles originally had nothing to do with marital status. Cambridge University historian Dr. Amy Erickson explains that ‘Mrs’ and ‘Miss’ derived from the word ‘mistress’ while  ‘Mr’ comes from ‘master’.

    “Few people realise that ‘Mistress’ is the root word of both of the abbreviations ‘Mrs,’ and ‘Miss,’ just as Mr is an abbreviation of ‘Master.’ The ways that words derived from Mistress have developed their own meanings is quite fascinating and shifts in these meanings can tell us a lot about the changing status of women in society, at home and in the workplace,” she said

    According to author Samuel Johnson, a mistress could be defined as “1. A woman who governs; correlative to subject or servant; 2. A woman skilled in anything; 3. A woman teacher; 4. A woman beloved and courted; 5. A term of contemptuous address; 6. A whore or concubine.”

    Back in the mid-18th century, ‘mistress’ didn’t have quite the negative connotations it has today. In those days, a mistress typically referred to a woman of high economic or social capital, rather than a married woman. A woman referred to as Mrs in the 18th century was thus not necessarily married.

    Those on the lower scales of society were simply referred to by their names. For example, the lady of the house might have been Mrs Abernathy, while the scullery maid would simply be Anna Black.

    Mr and Mrs were on equal standing, and Erickson argues those that held these titles were more like businessmen and women as they governed servants or apprentices, and were quite literally the masters and mistresses of their trades.

    It was only in the late 18th century that the use of Mrs became attached to marital status. The title Miss, which was originally a title for young girls, started to be used as a term to refer to an unmarried woman of a high social status, who was often a teacher. These young, socially ambitious single women wanted their own title that would mark their social class but not lump them into a group with the older businesswomen and heads of households that typically held the title of Mrs.

    This new term thus shifted the meaning of Mrs to signify a married woman and create a distinction between young and older.

    Why the pronunciation of mistress turned to ‘missus’ is unclear. In A Critical Pronouncing Dictionary, and Expositor of the English Language from 1828, author John Walker suggests its a result of colloquialism.

    “The same haste and necessity of dispatch, which has corrupted Master into Mister, has, when a title of civility only, contracted Mistress into Missis,” he wrote.

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    Relaxing bachelorette party ideas for the chilled bride

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    Wedding planning is equal parts dreamy and chaotic. Between choosing the perfect venue, finalising your guest list and finding suppliers who truly understand your vision, it can often feel like you’re making lists for the lists you still need to make. 

    To make the process a little smoother (and far more inspiring), we’ve rounded up some of the best upcoming bridal expos across South Africa. Whether you’re searching for fresh ideas, meeting suppliers face-to-face or simply looking for inspiration to bring your dream day to life, these events are well worth adding to your calendar. 

    The Tying Knots West Coast Pop-Up 

    Date: 30 May 2026
    Time: 09:00 – 15:00
    Where: Langebaan NG Church, Langebaan, Western Cape
    Entrance: Tickets available via Webtickets
    Website: Home – Wedding Co-Ordinator West Coast
    Facebook: Facebook
    Contact: [email protected] | 071 881 2831 

    A charming West Coast showcase designed for couples looking for wedding inspiration in a relaxed coastal setting. Expect supplier showcases, planning ideas and plenty of inspiration for your big day. 

    Winter Wedding Expo 

    Date: 6 June 2026
    Time: 09:00 – 18:00
    Where: Kirstenbosch National Botanical Garden, Old Mutual Conference and Exhibition Centre, Cape Town
    Entrance: Tickets available via Quicket
    Website: aspirepromotions.co.za    

    Facebook: Facebook
    Contact: [email protected] | 079 757 2459 

    Set against the iconic beauty of Kirstenbosch, this elegant bridal fair offers inspiration, expert suppliers and a premium planning experience for couples looking to refine every detail. 

    Oakfield Farm Bridal Expo 

    Date: 27–28 June 2026
    Time: 10:00 – 16:00
    Where: Oakfield Farm, Honeydew, Gauteng
    Entrance: Tickets available at the gate or via Webtickets
    Website: Bridal Expo – Oakfield Farm
    Contact: [email protected] | (011) 933 3464 

    One of South Africa’s most well-known bridal expos, Oakfield Farm remains a must-visit for engaged couples. Expect a wide variety of exhibitors, décor inspiration and access to leading wedding suppliers under one roof. 

    Greater Garden Route Wedding Expo 

    Date: 29–30 August 2026
    Where: Mentors Country Estate, Jeffreys Bay
    Entrance: Tickets available via Quicket
    Website: ggrweddingexpo.co.za
    Facebook: Greater Garden Route Wedding Expo
    Contact: [email protected] | 071 896 6831 

    This regional favorite connects couples with some of the Garden Route’s most sought-after suppliers, making it ideal for destination weddings and coastal celebrations. 

    Winelands Bridal Fair 

    Date: 5–6 September 2026
    Time: 09:00 – 15:30
    Where: Klein Joostenberg, Stellenbosch
    Entrance: Tickets available online or at the door
    Website: Home – Donato Events
    Facebook: Facebook
    Contact: [email protected] | 076 406 4020 

    For couples dreaming of vineyard views and sophisticated celebrations, this bridal fair in the Cape Winelands offers inspiration, curated suppliers and a luxurious setting. 

     Sun Boardwalk Hotel Bridal Fair 

    Date: 6 September 2026
    Time: 10:00 – 14:00
    Where: Boardwalk Hotel, Casino and Convention Centre, Summerstrand, Gqeberha
    Entrance: Tickets available via Quicket
    Website: SA BRIDAL FAIRS
    Contact: 060 504 0408 

    A polished showcase for Eastern Cape couples looking to meet suppliers, discover fresh trends and explore wedding planning ideas in a stylish venue setting. 

     Radisson Blu Durban Bridal Fair 

    Date: 25 October 2026
    Time: 10:00 – 14:00
    Where: Radisson Blu Hotel, Umhlanga, Durban
    Entrance: Tickets via Quicket (coming soon)
    Website: SA BRIDAL FAIRS
    Contact: 060 504 0408 

    Durban couples can expect a chic and contemporary wedding planning experience at this sought-after bridal showcase, featuring local suppliers and plenty of inspiration. 

    Brahman Hills Wedding Expo 

    Date: 24 May 2026
    Time: 10:00 – 15:00
    Where: Brahman Hills Wedding Venue, KwaZulu-Natal
    Entrance: Tickets available via Quicket
    Website: brahmanhills.co.za
    Facebook: Facebook
    Contact: [email protected] | (033) 266 6965 

    Set in the picturesque Midlands, this wedding expo offers couples a beautiful countryside experience paired with expert suppliers and elevated wedding inspiration. 

    Planning your wedding? Start here 

    Whether you’re looking for supplier inspiration, hoping to get your partner more involved in the planning process, or simply feeling curious about what’s trending in the South African wedding space, these wedding events across South Africa offer the perfect place to begin. 

    Bring your questions, your Pinterest boards and your vision — and let the planning magic begin. 

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    Wedding dress inspo for autumn and winter brides

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    Planning a wedding requires a lot of patience, time and attention to detail. For many it can be quite stressful and can take a toll on not only your time, but your emotions as well. Which begs the questions… are you a bridezilla or a bridechilla?

    Bridezilla 

    This is a bride who is stressing about everything and has little to no, well, ‘chill’. She’s determined and dead-set on getting her way and making sure everyone complies. A bridezilla has imagined her wedding day for what seems like forever and nothing is going to stop her from ensuring that her big day is exactly how she pictured. There’s nothing wrong with going after what you want, but be aware that these brides are usually not considerate of those around them and this can relate to money, schedules etc.

    Bridezillas want things a certain way and want to make sure that their big day is perfect in every way. They’re usually very hands-on and will want control over all aspects of the planning. Wedding planner? What wedding planner??

    If she’s surrounded by people who are unsure and don’t really know what to do, where to lend a hand or what to contribute, then a bridezilla may not be all that bad. After all, she’ll tell them.

    The bridezilla will have planned everything down to the smallest detail, because she wants that first-hand reassurance that everything will be smooth sailing. Because when it comes to your wedding and paying large amounts of money, you want to know what’s going on 100% of the time.

    Bridechilla

    Basically, everything that was mentioned above, just the complete opposite. The bridechilla doesn’t seem to fuss over things and she just goes with the flow. It’s not that she’s careless, but she’s just not worried about everything as much. She doesn’t seek control over every little aspect of the planning process.

    Being a bridechilla seems like it’s the easy choice, but it’s important to keep some things in mind about the laid back bride.

    There is such a thing as being too chilled. When the bride-to-be is showing little to no interest about the wedding planning, there’s a great possibility that those around her will have to pick up the slack.

    Some people enjoy some direction. For example, a bridechilla may tell her bridesmaids to wear what they want. This may leave them feeling confused and unsure of what exactly to wear or what the limitations are. Stress and frustration can be transferred to those around the bridechilla.

    So… are you one of them?

    This is your big day after all, so it should be exactly what you want, but you shouldn’t be over-stressing and taking all the fun out of it. With that being said, you shouldn’t allow those around you to carry all the weight, or, alternatively, feel like they have no say at all.

    Trying to maintain a balance of both is the ideal – taking control but also letting go when needed. It’s great to know what you want and to have control of the planning, but you shouldn’t be too forceful, and don’t forget to chill out now and then.

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    For centuries brides have worn veils for a number of symbolic and religious reasons. From warding off evil spirits in ancient Greece to displaying a woman’s virtue in Christianity, the veil has become a traditional wedding garment.

    But this doesn’t mean that they’re mandatory. Many brides opt not to wear a veil on their wedding day, choosing to go with stunning clips, grips and headbands instead. If you’re undecided, here’s a guide to help you make your choice.

    From Grace Kelly to Audrey Hepburn, high-neck wedding dresses have been a celebrity favourite for decades.

    This style is classic and demure yet packs a punch. It also lends itself to a Victorian-inspired look. For brides wanting a more modest look on their big day, a high-neck gown offers coverage without compromising on style.

    Here are a few ways to pull off this trend:

     

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