As the best man, you’re being entrusted to be the groom’s greatest support. Whatever he needs, you have to be ready and willing to help him. You’ll even have to expect the unexpected. For this, you’ll need an emergency kit filled with tools for every requirement or emergency that might just pop up. Here is what every best man will need in his emergency kit:
Personal items:
Gum/mints:
No-one wants bad breath, especially not on their wedding day. Slip the groom some gum or mints to chew on before the ceremony to keep his breath minty fresh. Just remind him to get rid of it before getting married!
Medication:
If a sudden headache or wave of nausea hits the groom, you have to be ready with some tablets to quell his ills.
Tissues:
Weddings and tears go hand in hand. Keep tissues in your pocket to pass to your groom when the waterworks start flowing.
Lip-balm:
The groom will be having his most important kiss on his wedding day, so his lips need to be moisturised and in tip-top shape.
Hairbrush:
Fly-aways be gone! Keep a hairbrush/comb on hand to smooth the groom’s locks before he walks down the aisle.
Cash:
You never know when you’ll need some money. Make sure to keep a few notes in your pocket in case you need to tip any of the vendors or do a quick shop run.
Clothing items:
Cologne:
Your groom should be smelling his best on his big day. Keep a bottle of his favourite cologne on hand to spritz him with before he weds.
Sewing kit:
Keep a sewing kit on hand in case of seam rips or loose buttons. If you don’t know how to sew (let’s be honest), replace the kit with hem tape or safety pins.
Extra cuff links:
Things can go missing easily in high-stress situations. Have a spare set of cuff links available in case the groom misplaces one of his.
Shoe polish:
No one wants a dusty shoe. Have shoe polish on hand to shine the groom’s shoes and keep him looking polished.
Lint roller:
Dust, random hairs and loose fabric threads can ruin the groom’s overall look. Make sure to give him a once-over with a lint roller to have him looking his best for his big day.
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Imagine your wedding is going ahead on schedule and then you have an unexpected guest. Seems somewhat normal, right? Well, not for this unlucky couple, who were surprised by a bear at their wedding!
Sarina Thompson and Cory Alan Brewer had the shock of their lives when a massive black bear stumbled onto their wedding in the Great Smoky Mountains of Gatlinburg, Tennessee mid photoshoot. Luckily, their photographer, Leah McMahan Edmondson, was on hand to capture it all.
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“I had the bride and groom with me starting to shoot when we all noticed this bear,” photographer Leah McMahan told The New York Post. “He turned and started down the aisle. Being scared didn’t cross my mind, I just wanted ‘the shot’.”
The bear then made a huffing noise and started coming toward them, at which point Leah began to panic.
“He jacked my heart rate up to Jesus,” she said.
Luckily no one was injured.
They say a picture says a thousand words. Well, these photographs definitely tell an interesting story!
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Photos from a US-based couple’s wedding has made the rounds on South African social media, and inspired many.
Beautiful couple Stef and Renee wed at the La Mare Wine Estate in New Jersey in August 2019. Their photographer, Kaleido Shoots, captured many incredible images throughout the day that truly represent their love.
These images have grown in popularity and were recently shared to South African Facebook group #imstaying. Sipho Khanyile shared some of the images to the popular group and was met with many positive reactions. Many took to the comments section to show their support for the loving couple.
Here are some of the stunning photos from their wedding day:
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Planning does not always make perfect. Sometimes things go awry despite your best efforts. In this case, make sure to expect the unexpected. Here are the things that can go wrong on your wedding day and how to prepare for them.
Someone could get sick:
You can’t schedule sickness, unfortunately. Whether it’s you, your partner or a member of your bridal party, no one is safe from the perils of health problems. While not completely preventable, there are things you can do to minimise problems. Stick to a healthy diet of fruits and vegetables in the lead up to your wedding to maintain your vitamin intake, drink more water, and consider taking probiotics. Make sure you take medication at the first hint of sickness.
The weather could be terrible:
Weather is unpredictable, especially when you plan events in advance. Make sure to check weather forecasts the week of, and prepare for all weather types by coming up with a contingency plan. Have umbrellas on hand for rain, and hand-held mechanical fans for hot weather.
Transport could get messed up:
If you are using an external transport service, chances are that they will run late. Make sure to stay in constant contact with drivers to be conscious of their whereabouts at every step of the day, and triple-check that they have been given correct directions so that guests don’t get lost on the way to your big day.
You could forget something:
Your wedding day can be stressful, making it easy for things to slip your mind. To stay on plan, have your maid of honour carry a checklist of things you’ll need and constantly refer to it.
Someone could be late:
People run on their own timezones. Expect that not all your guests will arrive on time to witness your nuptials. If the late party is in your wedding party or an important family member, then hold off on the ceremony a bit. Otherwise, go ahead without them.
Someone could get drunk:
Things can quickly go wrong when you pair people with alcohol, especially if there is an open bar. Don’t be surprised if people have a bit too much liquid courage at your wedding. If you are worried, consider having a cash bar over an open bar. Guests will be less likely to go overboard drinking if they have to pay for it themselves.
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