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    There are two pieces of jewellery that you’d never want to lose or replace. These are your engagement ring and your wedding ring. Unfortunately, mistakes do happen.

    You could lose your ring by mistake, misplace it or forget it in a different city while you’re travelling. It could also get stolen or it may get damaged. If any of these were to happen, we know you’d like to ensure that you can replace the ring, or get it fixed.

    Solutions may cost you big bucks though. That is unless you have insurance. Ring insurance is imperative! You’ve probably spent a lot of money on the ring. It’s bad enough that you lose the sentimental value of the ring. Let’s not have you lose the monetary value too. That would just add insult to injury.

    Getting insurance isn’t that difficult to do, so make it a top priority post engagement.

    All you need to do is call up the insurance broker and ask them what insurance options are on offer. Often people think jewellery is automatically covered in home insurance. However, this is often not the case.

    If your ring is stolen from your home, it will be covered under home insurance. But often, if the ring exceeds coverage limits you won’t be able to claim for it. If you’re planning on wearing your ring outside the house (of course you are) you will need to specify the ring under “All Risks” on your insurance policy.

    It is, of course, possible to get stand-alone insurance for your ring, however its much more affordable to have the ring insured under an existing homeowners policy or something similar to that.

    Important to remember for ring insurance, is that you can’t just call and ask. You have to show the insurer the proof of value of the ring. This is what to do before you call any brokers. Get your ring appraised and keep the evaluation as proof of ownership too. If you can’t produce this evidence, insurers may not cover you if your ring is lost or stolen.

    So if you’ve just been given a ring, get those documents and get it insured. You’ll ensure that all is not lost, even though your ring may be.

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    The wedding industry may have taken a backseat amid the pandemic, but that doesn’t mean planning has to stop. Wedding planner Lisa Barnardt of Nooitgedacht wine estate lets us in on how she is adapting to the times, as well as her top tips for weddings.

    Barnardt works as the Nooitgedacht wine estate’s wedding planner, where she first began as an intern. She says that prior to lockdown, she was very busy planning weddings at the estate and making sure the couple’s day was perfect and everything they wanted was organised.

    However, with weddings temporarily halted, she’s been keeping herself busy with researching ways to still offer great service.

    “I’m working from home and actively busy researching what we can do to adapt to the new norm, such as having more intimate weddings as well as implementing social distancing such as splitting a wedding ceremony and invite family in the morning or afternoon and a small group of friends for an evening reception. I’m currently working with fellow industry professionals in making sure all our weddings will align with the protocols as outlined by the government.”

    What are Barnardt’s top three tips when it comes to planning a wedding?  “Firstly, the food! People won’t necessarily remember the decor at a wedding but everyone remembers the food. If you have an amazing menu and enough for everyone to eat, then you’re likely to have a successful wedding. The one thing you don’t want is your guests leaving early because they’re still hungry.

    “Secondly, that personal touch. Every wedding is special, but what makes the occasion even more special is having a personal touch to everything – a special message for each guest on their seat, a photo booth, a personalised cocktail or having grandma’s famous cake for dessert.

    “Thirdly, admin and organisation are key. As a planner, being organised takes the stress of organising the big day away from the couple so that they can enjoy their wedding day.”

    Finally, Barnardt reveals what she is most looking forward post-lockdown.

    “I’m most definitely going to take a long walk on the beach, visit a few local wine farms to indulge in some wine tasting, and of course I will be back at work doing what I love which is creating lasting memories.”

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    A veil is the perfect accessory to finish off your bridal look. No matter your aesthetic, there is a veil to match.

    If you’re going for a more classic look, you’re in luck. Veils adorned with delicate lace, subtle pearl detail or embroidery will work well to complete your bridal dream. Remember to take in your specific gown’s look and cut when determining the length and fullness of your veil.

    Here are some different veil styles that will appeal to a bride wanting to look elegant on your big day.

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    If your love is out of this world, a Star Wars wedding theme may be perfect for you. Lovers of the iconic franchise can easily incorporate elements of it into their big day in both over-the-top and subtle ways.

    Depending on your style and preference, you can go big or small. You could have Darth Vader officiate your wedding, or have your bridesmaids carry lightsabers instead of bouquets. Or, you could be more demure and simply have references to the film added to your seating chart or wedding cake.

    Here are some ideas to include this theme into your decor in a variety of ways.

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    For the eco-friendly bride, sustainability is of extreme importance. However, wedding dresses, in their most traditional sense, are not very sustainable. They take a lot of resources to make, and you only end up wearing it once.

    An up-cycled wedding dress is a perfect solution to all your eco-issues, in this regard. You can up-cycle an old dress into a new one for yourself, you could use pre-owned/used materials to make a new wedding dress, or you could up-cycle your wedding dress into new items. This way, nothing goes to waste and tons of resources are saved.

    Here are some ways you could up-cycle your wedding dress:

    – Up-cycling old dresses into a new one for yourself: 

    Many eco-friendly brides have opted for this. They use their mothers’ wedding gowns, or purchase vintage, second-hand dresses and turn them into a new and improved dress. Some turn them into chic two-pieces, like a skirt and top, and others opt to have the dress made into a suit.

    Others still go for the dying option, turning an old school dress into something modern and contemporary. Whatever you decide, all you’ll need is a few alterations.

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    – Upcycling other materials into a wedding dress:

    If you have some material laying around, or some old sheets you don’t want to go to waste, why not use it to make your wedding dress? The right dressmaker is all you need.

    Decide on your preferred style, keeping in mind the texture and type of material and whether it would be good for the style you want. No-fuss and nothing wasted. What more could you ask for?

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    – Up-cycling your wedding dress into other garments or items: 

    A few snips here and there, and some store-bought dye, and your wedding dress could be transformed into an everyday clothing item. If you’d prefer not to make more clothes out of it, however, you could opt for some decorative pillows, a bag, or soft toys for your (future) kids. The options are endless.

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    Since the nationwide lockdown is not yet over, and many romantic spots remain unsafe to visit, your big proposal plans may feel ruined. However, they don’t have to be. Proposing at home can be just as amazing.

    An at-home proposal comes with an added feeling of intimacy and closeness. You and your partner can cherish the beautiful moment, in each other’s company, without any external disturbances. It could be truly magical.

    So whether you’re planning an at-home proposal due to the lockdown, or if you’re just home-bodies, you need not worry. It will still be the most special experience.

    For those looking for ways to pop the big question at home, here are some ideas:

    – Dream Holiday At Home 

    Since the shops are mostly open, you’ll be able to go out and get a few decorations. Think of a holiday you’ve always wanted to take with your partner, then recreate it at home. Maybe make a cardboard cutout of the Eiffel Tower or create mini hot air balloons like to reflect the ones that float around in Cappadocia.

    Try to incorporate the theme into your food choices too. It’ll make the entire occasion feel extremely well planned out.

    Once it’s all set up and you’re having a great time, find the perfect moment and pop the question!

    – Memory Movie 

    Collect all your favourite photos, videos, Instagrams, and Facebook posts, and put them all together in a slideshow. Choose a romantic song to play in the background, and your movie is sorted!

    Lay out some blankets, light a few candles, and take a stroll down memory lane together. Once you’re done reliving your love story thus far, you’ll be ready to begin the next chapter by asking your partner to marry you.

    – Games Night 

    If you and your partner are the types of people who love a good games night (who isn’t, right?), then this is the perfect idea for you.

    Suggest to your significant other that you’d like to have a two-person games night, and play games like trivia, Pictionary, or any other game where your partner would have to guess your actions, or drawings.

    Once you’re both into the flow of the game, sneak in “will you marry me?” as one of the questions. It’ll be a pleasant and unexpected surprise.

    – Breakfast in Bed 

    If you’d like to keep it simple, try this. While your partner is still asleep, get up and prepare the perfect breakfast. We’re talking eggs, toast, pancakes, strawberries, the works. Add the ring somewhere on the tray, and your plan is complete!

    If you’re feeling confident, you could take a slightly different route. Before they wake up, slip the ring on their finger. Wake them up to the most perfect breakfast in bed, and calmly ask “what’s that on your finger?” as you point to the ring. Once they look at their hand, you can get down on one knee and take it from there.

    – Special Scavenger Hunt

    Leave the very first clue somewhere obvious, where your partner goes often, perhaps next to the kettle in the kitchen, or on their laptop keyboard. Say something like “go to the place where you told me not to leave a mess”, make it something silly and personal.

    Each clue should draw your partner closer and closer to where you’ve hidden the ring. Once they find it, be behind them on one knee.

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    Is breakfast your favourite meal of the day? Bring in your love for the important morning meal into your wedding!

    There are a number of ways you can honour breakfast on your big day. Here are some ideas to try.

    Have a breakfast wedding:

    We’re all familiar with dreamy afternoon weddings that celebrate late into the evening. While this can be a beautiful and more traditional approach, there’s something simply magical about a breakfast wedding. They’re more budget-friendly, offer more flexible timing, and provide a wide variety of foods to serve.

    If you’re having a breakfast wedding, it makes sense to offer bars tailored to specific foods. From a coffee or juice bar to a hot breakfast buffet, the options are endless (and delicious!).

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    Get punny:

    There are so many egg-cellent food puns you can use in your big day. Here are a few of our favourites.

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    Fruity fancies:

    Fruits work as amazing breakfast sides and decor. Use aromatic delights like oranges, lemons and grapefruit to add a pop of colour to your big day and get the room smelling like a tropical vacation.

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    Sweet treats:

    For your wedding cake, you have two options. You could go literal by using popular breakfast foods like pancakes and waffles as alternative cakes, or infuse flavours you commonly associate with breakfast into the cake. You could do a coffee cake or a cinnamon cake or even incorporate your favourite fruits like oranges, blueberries and banana into the decor.

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    When we think of 80s fashion, cheesy is one word that comes to mind. The popular style of the decade involved tons of primary colour, oversized shapes and lots of lace.

    While some may not look fondly on the fashion of the time, fusing retro style elements into modern style is very on trend right now. Popular style icons are influenced by iconic trends from the 80s, 90s and early 2000s, and these can be seen from the catwalk to the streets, as well as bridal styles.

    Typical 80s trends like puffed sleeves, full skirts, lace detailing and sparkling applique dominated the day. Here are a few ways to incorporate the 80s into your wedding dress in a modern way.

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    Flouncy, flouncy:

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    Devil in the detail:

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    If you still feel like a child at heart, a stuffy wedding just won’t do. There are so many fun ways to bring the excitement of childhood into your big day, without it seeming like a massive playground.

    Here are some fun ideas to bring childhood nostalgia into your wedding in a (mostly) mature way.

    Get married in a treehouse:

    Remember the childhood excitement of playing in a treehouse? The adventures and possibilities were endless. If you’re a nature-lover, a treehouse might just be the perfect wedding venue for you. This brings together the beauty of the outdoors and the whimsical nostalgia of yesteryear.

    Also read:Treehouse wedding venues from around the world

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    Simplify your wedding menu:

    Take a trip down memory lane by incorporating childhood favourites into your wedding menu. Rather than stuffy hors d’oeuvres your guests can barely identify, serve what you love. Today’s couples are creating unique twists on old faithfuls like grilled cheese, sliders and fries. You could even rent a food truck to serve up some delicious foods all night long for that carnival feel.

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    Bring the playground to you:
    Just because you’re a grown-up, does not mean you can’t have some silly fun! Get inspired by childhood birthday parties and hire a jumping castle, a blow up slide or even a mechanical bull for your big day. We promise this will put a massive smile on your guests’ faces.

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    Play lawn games:

    Wedding games are slowly growing in popularity, and understandably so. There is no better way to get the giggles going than with some simple games that will bring out the child in everyone. The key is to offer quick-round games that will have many involved and captivated at once. Think Jenga, Limbo, Noughts and Crosses and Ring Toss.

    Also read:Outdoor wedding games

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    Get creative with your photo station:

    One of the best ways to commemorate your wedding day is through capturing tons of photos. Many couples have taken to setting up photo stations to allow guests to make some fun memories. Add some fun decor and quirky props to take your images to the next level.

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    A wedding cake is the sweet cherry on top of an exciting day. Newlyweds slice into the cake, symbolic of the first action they take together as partners.

    The wedding cake has a centuries-long history, and started as a tradition that was said to ensure fertility. Today, however, while many still choose elaborate wedding cakes, some have opted for a more paired-down experience.

    A new trend has emerged for those not wanting to go big on price and drama with their wedding cake. Instead of a tiered creation, they have a gesture cake. Gesture cakes are mini, affordable cakes that still hold the essence of tradition but won’t create a massive hole in your bank account.

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    Of course, this cake won’t feed an army either. It’s generally the size of a normal cake one may have at a birthday party. For those having micro-weddings, this option is perfect. You won’t have a ton of cake go to waste, and get to save some money in the process.

    Just because it’s a smaller cake does not mean it has to be boring. Take a look at these stunning treats:

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