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    ‘House of Zwide’ stars Shalate Sekhabi and Wanda Zuma get married

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    South African entertainment is celebrating a real-life love story after House of Zwide co-stars Shalate Sekhabi and Wanda Zuma reportedly tied the knot, taking their on-screen romance to the next level.

    The pair won over audiences with their portrayal of Shoki and Nkosi on the hit telenovela House of Zwide. Their undeniable chemistry quickly made them fan favourites, with viewers deeply invested in their relationship storyline.

    Off-screen, that connection grew into something more. After keeping their relationship relatively private, the couple confirmed their romance and later their engagement—much to the excitement of fans who had long speculated about their bond.

    According to reports, Shalate and Wanda recently celebrated their union in a traditional wedding ceremony attended by close friends and family. While the couple has not publicly shared full details, snippets circulating on social media reveal a stylish and culturally rich celebration.

    From elegant traditional attire to intimate moments captured by guests, the wedding has quickly become one of the most talked-about events in South African entertainment this week. Both Shalate and Wanda  have built strong fan bases through their work on House of Zwide, and their real-life relationship has only strengthened their popularity.

    For many fans, their journey feels like a fairytale—proof that sometimes, on-screen love can turn into something genuine beyond the cameras.

    Mzansi has taken to social media to celebrate the couple, with congratulatory messages pouring in. Fans have described their union as “beautiful,” “unexpected,” and “straight out of a script.”

    The story has also sparked conversations about love in the entertainment industry, with many praising the couple for keeping their relationship grounded despite being in the public eye.

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    One user said: “So their love in acting was real, congrats though.”

    Another one said: “Congratulations to Wanda and Shalate.”

    While another one said: “Another example that shows us that people can really get feelings for each other on set.”

    While the newlyweds have yet to release an official statement, anticipation continues to build as fans eagerly await more glimpses into their big day. With their love story now sealed in real life, all eyes will be on what’s next for the couple.

    ALSO SEE: Sue Duminy shares her engagement news

    Sue Duminy shares her engagement news

    Written by Zintle Mdaka for BONA.

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    How to keep your (soon-to-be) family-in-law happy

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    So you’re engaged, and although it’s an exciting and thrilling time for both you and your significant other, conflict is bound to arise, often in the form of your soon-to-be family-in-law. Some cases may be worse than others, but we’d like to help you lessen the load. Read on for some practical tips and thoughts on how to keep them happy, and, appropriately involved.

    Acceptance

    First of all, you need to make peace with the fact that your wedding planning journey will come with a fair share of stress, drama and mishaps, but all of this could be managed easily by not stressing about the things you cannot change. That goes for the family you’re marrying into as well. If you’ve known the person you’re marrying for a good amount of time, you probably know their family too – including their habits and preferences. Just because you’re getting married doesn’t mean those things will change, so make it easier for yourself by making peace with it – you’d want your S.O to do the same for you.

    You marry the family, too.

    That said, your new spouse’s family is accepting a new member into theirs, as your family is too, so be mindful about including them in the planning process. Your wedding is a celebration of not only two people coming together, but two families uniting, so they need to feel that their opinions matter too. This doesn’t mean that you have to take every suggestion they make to heart, but they’ll feel much more included if you make an effort to hear them out and make some compromises.

    Take a stand

    Sometimes, keeping the peace means taking a stand. It’s extremely difficult to avoid hurting the feelings of someone who simply wants to help, but sometimes their need to help is greater than your need for it. Don’t allow yourself to get into a situation too deep before realising that you’re allowing things to happen that will ultimately make you unhappy. Say no when you need to, but explain your feelings and reasoning behind it so that a mutual understanding can be reached.

    Same page

    You and your S.O absolutely need to be on the same page when it comes to making the decisions in your planning process. This will allow you to adequately explain your reasoning to your families, without throwing anyone under the bus. However, if your parents are paying for some parts of the wedding, you need to be on the same page with them too. Be open about what you want, your visions and expectations to avoid unnecessary conflict, especially if you’re not the one paying for it.

    Lessen the load

    Just because it’s your wedding doesn’t mean you have to plan, take care of and do everything. Make your vision clear and allow your mother-in-law, father-in-law or whoever-in-law to help you out with making calls, DIY projects, collections or whatever it is you may need. This will allow them to feel involved, but not in an overwhelming way where they have the ability to make decisions for you. However, looking at the other side of the spectrum could be just as tricky. Maybe your father-in-law is great at building things with his hands, but up until now you haven’t been getting along that well. Take the plunge and ask him for help with your DIY projects – it might be the starting point for the relationship you’ve been looking for.

    ALSO SEE: 8 guidelines for father of the groom

    8 guidelines for father of the groom

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    Sue Duminy shares her engagement news

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    There’s a new chapter unfolding for Sue Duminy, and this one comes with a sparkling ring and a resounding “yes.”

    The Cape Town-based content creator took to Instagram to share the news of her engagement, posting a heartfelt video of the moment her partner proposed at the iconic AfrikaBurn.

    “I said… yes,” she captioned the post, alongside a message reflecting on a love that feels grounding and deeply aligned.

    She previously introduced her partner, Roberto Franco, to her followers late last year. Since then, the couple have shared snippets of their life together — from travel escapes to festival moments.

     

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    Sue was previously married to former Proteas cricketer JP Duminy, with whom she shares two daughters. The pair announced their separation in early 2024 after many years together.

    Congratulations to the happy couple on their engagement and this exciting new beginning.

    ALSO SEE: Neels van Jaarsveld reportedly ties the knot

    Neels van Jaarsveld reportedly ties the knot

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    How to pull off the perfect destination proposal

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    Planning the perfect proposal is nerve-wracking, exciting and maybe even a little overwhelming, all bundled up neatly into one big knot in your stomach. Throw in an unfamiliar destination, and that knot gets a little bigger. But don’t fear, we’ve got the fool-proof guide to making it go as smoothly as possible:

    Do your research beforehand

    By planning ahead, you’ll take a little pressure off yourself as well as have more peace of mind about how it’s all going to play out. Have a plan of where, how and when you’d like to pop the question, but don’t expect it to work out exactly as you see it in your head. When the moment is right, you’ll know, but also don’t be too stressed about changing it up in case of unforeseenable elements, like the weather.

    That said, make sure you’re aware of what’s happeing in the area you’re planning to propose in, especially if you’ve never been there. Do a little internet search beforhand to see if any events are happening, if the area is a sacred place perhaps, or if  any of the areas are restricted. It will also be handy to look at popular scenic locations, or romantic spots that other people have popped the question at for some inspiration.

    Communicate with your hotel

    …or resort, B&B, or wherever you’re planning on staying. Even if you’re not planning to propose at the place you’re staying at, they’ll most likely make some extra effort to make it romantic for you if they know what your plans are. Some places even organise some complimentary champagne, a romantic dinner, or some rose petals in your room for after you’ve popped the question.

    Insure the ring

    Before you even leave for your getaway, make sure the ring is insured. Things happen, but if you’re planning to propose while away, it’s the last thing you’d want to worry about. Get the ring insured for in case a stone pops out, or heaven forbid, it gets misplaced or stolen. It’s the responsible thing to do anyway, plus it will put your mind at ease.

    Hide the ring, safely

    Packing is stressful enough as it is, or at least for some. But making sure the ring stays safely hidden from your fiance-to-be’s eyes is extra daunting. If you don’t want to worry about it falling out of your pocket, or your partner accidentally seeing it in your bag, pack it in your check-in luggage. However, if you’re scared of your luggage getting lost or delayed (because yes, these things happen), keep it safely stashed in your carry-on. Rather safe than sorry, right?

    Furthermore, if you’re worried about it being discovered at customs, it’s a good idea to place the ring box inside a bigger, nondescript box with a note inside to give the inspector or security guard a quick heads up in case they have to take a closer look.

    Don’t wait until the last minute to propose

    You want to wait for that perfect moment, but don’t wait until the last day of the trip. Nerves might not be your best friend, so your partner might notice that you’re acting a little differently. A little anticipation is good, especially if your partner is kind of expecting it, but if you propose earlier on, you’ll have more time to celebrate it in a special place.

    Don’t overthink it

    Sometimes it’s best to just go with your gut. If the moment feels right, go for it, even if it doesn’t go with your plans. Being spontaneous and it being unexpected sometimes makes the moment that much more special.

    ALSO SEE: Alternative engagement ring stones

    Alternative engagement ring stones

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    Neels van Jaarsveld reportedly ties the knot

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    South African actor Neels van Jaarsveld appears to have married his partner, Gerna Peterson, if a recent Instagram post is anything to go by.

     

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    Back-up plans for rainy autumn and winter weddings

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    Alongside all the beauty of an autumn or winter wedding comes one unpredictable guest: rain. And while a few drops might make for dreamy photos, a full-on downpour can quickly turn “I do” into “what now?”

    The good news? A little foresight goes a long way. With the right backup plan, your wedding can feel just as magical — if not more so — no matter what the skies decide.

    Start with a Plan B (and actually love it)
    A backup plan shouldn’t feel like a compromise. Whether it’s a marquee, a covered veranda, or an indoor space at your venue, choose an option you genuinely love. That way, if the weather turns, it does not feel like a like a last-minute scramble.

    Think soft draping, warm lighting, and layered textures that echo your original vision. Done right, your “Plan B” can feel just as considered and beautiful as your outdoor setup.

    Tents, but make them chic
    If you’re set on an outdoor celebration, a tent is your best insurance policy. But forget the standard white marquee — today’s options are anything but basic. Clear-roof tents let in that moody autumn sky (minus the rain), while sailcloth tents bring a romantic feel.

     

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    Lean into the season
    Instead of fighting the weather, embrace it. Autumn and winter are the perfect excuse for thoughtful touches that double as practical solutions — think plush blankets for guests, warm welcome drinks like mulled wine or spiced cider, and even a basket of umbrellas that match your colour palette.

    Have a timeline that can flex
    Weather doesn’t always follow a schedule, so build a little breathing room into yours. If there’s a chance of showers, consider moving key moments like your ceremony earlier in the day, or be open to shifting things slightly if needed.

    Work closely with your planner or venue coordinator — they’ve likely handled this before and can guide the flow without disrupting the mood.

    Communicate with your suppliers
    From your photographer to your florist, your suppliers should be looped into your backup plan from the start. Photographers, in particular, can help you identify covered spots for portraits or suggest creative alternatives that still capture the essence of your day.

    Florists can also advise on blooms that hold up better in cooler, damp conditions.

    Footwear matters more than you think
    Those delicate heels might look beautiful, but damp grass and soft ground can be unforgiving. Consider a second pair of shoes (stylish flats, boots, or block heels) that will keep you comfortable and confident, whatever the terrain.

    The same goes for your bridal party — a heads-up here can save a lot of wobbling down the aisle.

    ALSO SEE: Wedding dress inspo for autumn and winter brides

    Wedding dress inspo for autumn and winter brides

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    Zoë Kravitz and Harry Styles are reportedly engaged

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    After months of romance and globe-trotting moments, Zoë Kravitz and Harry Styles have reportedly taken the next step in their relationship.

    The couple, who have been linked since mid-2025, are said to have shared news of their engagement with a close-knit circle of friends and family. While neither has publicly confirmed the milestone, the sighting of a diamond ring on that finger has been enough to set the rumour mill spinning — and, this time, it seems the whispers are true.

    Of course, the ring has already become a talking point. Described as a slim band set with a striking cushion-cut diamond worn east-west, it strikes that perfect balance between timeless elegance and contemporary edge.

    Their journey to this moment hasn’t been without its own chapters. Kravitz, who previously ended her engagement in late 2024, has kept her personal life largely private, stepping back into the spotlight on her own terms. Styles, known for guarding his relationships just as closely, seems to share that same approach.

    ALSO SEE: Brendan Peyper announces his engagement

    Brendan Peyper announces his engagement

    Source: Adapted from reporting by Vogue.

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    Clash of the scents: A gentleman’s guide to fragrances

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    Mixing cologne, body spray, deodorant and aftershave can become a messy affair. Here is our gentlemen’s guide to understanding these different products and how to use them: 
     
    Cologne is the strongest form of fragrance and generally lasts the longest. It’s ideal for nights out, a special date, or more formal functions. 
    Body sprays are the second strongest. These nifty, portable sprays are great for daytime or after gym wear. Sprays last a few hours and can be easily re-applied to keep you smelling fresh.
    Aftershave and deodorant serve dual functions. These products don’t just smell good, they also serve a purpose. We suggest using neutral-smelling aftershaves and deodorants to avoid scents clashing and becoming muddied, while still benefitting from their practical usage. 
    Aftershave contains soothing and anti-bacterial agents. It prevents irritations, itching, burning and rashes, all while hydrating your skin too. It usually contains a type of astringent, an ingredient that seals up pores to prevent bacteria infecting the skin after shaving.
    Deodorant, the most subdued of all scents, is mostly functional. It’s important to note that not all deodorants are antiperspirants. Antiperspirants close or block the pores under your pits, working against your natural odour, while a deodorant masks the smell of sweat while still allowing skin to breathe. Antiperspirants not only reduce sweating, but also regulate your skin’s pH level, preventing stinky pits.
    To strike a perfect balance, we suggest choosing one fragrance (cologne or body spray) according to the occasion and combining it with a neutral aftershave and deodorant.
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