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Selena Gomez Marries Benny Blanco in a Romantic Ralph Lauren Wedding Gown

September 29, 2025 No Comments

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Selena Gomez has officially stepped into her next chapter, saying “I do” to music producer Benny Blanco in California on Saturday, September 27. The 33-year-old actress and singer, adored worldwide for her authenticity, stunned in a custom Ralph Lauren creation that blended Hollywood glamour with a modern bridal edge.

A Dress Fit for a Pop Icon

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Gomez’s gown featured a halter-neck floral detail and a structured bodice, offering both elegance and individuality. Designed exclusively by Ralph Lauren, it was a nod to timeless romance with a touch of boldness that fans have come to expect from her. Blanco, 37, matched the moment in his own Ralph Lauren suit, sealing their fashion-forward vows in coordinated style.

Hollywood Glamour Meets Classic Romance

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Her hair, crafted by stylist Renato Campora, carried echoes of Old Hollywood. Styled into a Marcel wave bob, Gomez’s look had fans online calling her “the modern-day Elizabeth Taylor.” On Instagram, one admirer wrote, “She looks like she just walked out of a 1950s film reel—utter perfection.”

A Love Story in the Spotlight

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The couple’s journey to the altar has been anything but rushed. They confirmed their romance in December 2023, got engaged a year later, and shared their joy with fans on Instagram. Gomez’s caption, “forever begins now..”, instantly trended worldwide, showing the emotional weight of the moment for her supporters.

Blanco revealed that Gomez co-designed her engagement ring, a dazzling marquise diamond inspired by her song Good For You. It was a symbolic choice, weaving music into the fabric of their love story.

The Guest List That Broke the Internet

It wouldn’t be a Selena Gomez wedding without a star-studded guest list. From Taylor Swift to Paris Hilton and Only Murders in the Building co-stars Steve Martin and Martin Short, Hollywood heavyweights reportedly filled the venue. Social media quickly lit up with clips and blurry snapshots, fans speculating on performances and speeches. One viral tweet joked, “Imagine being the DJ at a wedding where Taylor Swift and Benny Blanco are on the dance floor—no pressure.”

The Road to “I Do”

Both stars kept most details of the ceremony under wraps, though their pre-wedding celebrations made headlines. Blanco hosted a bachelor weekend in Las Vegas, while Gomez partied with friends in Cabo San Lucas, donning playful white outfits and a cheeky “bride to be” veil.

In interviews earlier this year, the couple admitted they were hesitant about traditions like a first dance. Gomez laughed off the idea, saying she’d be embarrassed, while Blanco added, “She’s shy.” It’s a refreshingly relatable sentiment in a world of over-the-top celebrity weddings.

Why This Wedding Resonates

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For Gomez’s fans, this wedding feels like a personal victory. Over the years, she has been open about her struggles with health and love. Now, marrying Blanco—who she has called her “best friend”—the moment feels like a story of healing, joy, and new beginnings.

On TikTok, the hashtag #SelenaWedding racked up millions of views within hours. Fans shared emotional edits of Gomez through the years, set to her ballads, with captions like “She finally got her fairytale.”

In Weddings

Choosing Your Perfect Date: Best Months to Get Married Across South Africa by Region

September 26, 2025 No Comments

Planning a wedding in South Africa? One of the first big decisions is when. The month you pick affects everything — whether your ceremony is bathed in sunshine or buffeted by rain, whether guests book easily, what you’ll pay for venues, and how flexible vendors are. Here’s a guide by region / province to help you pick the best time in 2025, weighing weather, cost, and venue availability.

National Overview: Seasons, Costs & Trends

Wedding “high season” in much of South Africa tends to run from September through April. These are the warmer months, spring → summer → early autumn.
Low-season / off-peak is typically June to August (winter); fewer outdoor options, cooler weather, but often better rates and greater venue availability.
Venues often book 12-18 months in advance for popular months (spring / early summer especially).
Costs (venue hire, decor, vendors) are higher in peak months. Off-peak months and midweek dates often bring savings.

Best Wedding Months by Region / Province

Below is a breakdown of ideal months for getting married, per province or region, along with trade-offs to watch out for.

Province / Region	Weather & Climate Notes	Best Months to Marry	Considerations (Cost, Venue)
Western Cape (Cape Town, Winelands, Garden Route)	Mediterranean climate: dry, hot summers; wet winters. Summer (Dec-Feb) can have heat & occasional strong winds; winters are cooler & rainier.	Spring (September-November) and Autumn / early summer (March-April December) tend to give the best balance, dry, mild, beautiful scenery.	Peak demand in summer & around festive season → higher venue & vendor costs. Early booking essential for popular wine estates. Winter weddings feasible but many outdoor venues closed or need backup indoor option.
Gauteng / Highveld (Johannesburg, Pretoria, Magaliesberg, etc.)	Hot, rainy summers (Nov-Mar), and cooler, dry winters (June-August). Sudden thunderstorms often in mid-summer afternoons.	Late spring (October-November) and early autumn (March) are excellent: warm but less rain, comfortable evenings. Also May sometimes works as a transition.	Summer months risk rain, heat; winter can be quite cold, especially evenings. Venue availability higher in off-peak months; costs lower but heating/warm venue may be needed.
KwaZulu-Natal (coast & Midlands)	Subtropical: warm, humid, and rainy in summer; winter is drier, warm days, cooler nights. Coastal sea influence.	Winter (June-August) for coastal venues (dry, more predictable weather), or spring (September-November) for Midlands when hills are green and cooler.	Coastal summer weddings risk storms, humidity; winter demand increases for nice weather – so good venues fill up. Costs for travel/accommodation for guests might vary.
Eastern Cape & Garden Route	More variable: coastal humidity, possible rain in summer; inland more heat. Scenic landscapes throughout the year but wetter seasons to avoid.	Spring (September-October) and autumn (March-April) are strong picks: landscapes look great, weather milder.	Some remote venues have limited options in off-season; transport/weather risks. Booking early imperative for popular coastal or Garden Route spots.
Free State, Limpopo, North West, Mpumalanga (Interior / bush regions)	Marked hot summers, with afternoon thunderstorms; dry winters, cold nights; autumn/spring around temperature transitions. Bush / safari areas may have specific rain windows.	Autumn (March-May) is popular: end of rainy summer, lush vegetation; also spring (August-October) for fresh blooms and moderate weather.	Summer rains can affect travel/roads, insect prevalence; winter nights cold. Safari or bush venues need to consider access. Costs generally lower off-peak interior but vendor availability may be more limited.
Northern Cape, Karoo	Very hot summers, dry; cold in winter; large daily swings; sparse rainfall.	Spring (September-October) and autumn (March-April) are the most comfortable; avoid peak summer heat and winter chill.	Venues fewer in remote areas; logistics (travel, accommodation, power) more challenging; rates may fluctuate a lot.

Cost & Venue Availability: What to Expect

Prices for venues in South Africa vary widely. For example, venue hire can range from ~R40,000 to R150,000+ depending on location, type, capacity.
Coastal, wine estate, or luxury lodge venues often have premium pricing, particularly in peak summer and festive periods. Off-peak months often bring discounts of 20-40% in some locations.
When demand is lower (winter months for many provinces), you’ll often find greater flexibility: lower minimum spends, vendor bundles, more opportunity to negotiate.
Vendor availability also follows similar patterns: peak wedding months book out far in advance; off-peak months and weekdays may offer more freedom to choose preferred vendors.

Tips to Plan Smart: Picking Your Month Wisely

Balance aesthetics with practicalities — Think about what you want in terms of backdrop (green hills, bloom, sea views), daylight hours, sunset times, and how extreme weather (heat, rain, cold) might affect guests’ comfort.
Check venue & vendor calendars early — Especially for popular provinces/venues (Cape Winelands, KwaZulu-Natal coast, etc.). If you are eyeing spring or early summer, reach out 12-18 months ahead.
Consider off-peak or shoulder months — Those months right before/after peak are often less expensive, have better availability, but still very pleasant weather. (E.g. early September, late April, May).
Have a backup plan — For outdoor venues, plan for wet weather (tents, indoor option), and for provinces prone to bursts of rain in summer or cold nights in winter.
Communicate clearly with guests — If you pick a less common time (winter, remote region), ensure guests know about travel season, weather conditions, accommodation options.
Think midweek or less-popular days — If you’re flexible, getting married on a weekday or Sunday, off-peak dates can save considerable cost and give more venue/vendor choices.

There’s no one “perfect” month that works for everyone in South Africa, it depends on region, personal preferences (outdoor vs indoor, hot vs mild, budget vs luxury), and guest logistics. But with careful thought, you can find a date that gives you beautiful weather, a wonderful setting, good rates, and reliable vendor availability.

Planning ahead, considering shoulder seasons, and choosing your region wisely go a long way to making your wedding in 2025 not just stunning, but manageable and memorable.

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In Wedding Flowers & Bouquets

Blooming Innovation: The Rise of Bridal Bag Bouquets & 2025 Bouquet Trends

September 25, 2025 No Comments

Weddings are all about striking the balance between tradition and personal expression and in 2025, florals are stepping into the spotlight even more boldly. One of the buzziest new movements? The bridal bag bouquet (also called a bouquet purse or floral bag bouquet). But that’s just the start. From single-flower arrangements to drought-friendly foliage, here’s what’s trending in bridal bouquets this year and how brides can use these ideas to shape their own wedding day magic.

Why the Bridal Bag Bouquet is Turning Heads

Traditionally, brides carry a handheld bouquet, but the bridal bag bouquet reinvents that accessory by merging florals with fashion. Think floral arrangements built into or styled like a purse or mini bag. This look blends utility and artistry, making the bouquet feel more like a statement piece than just a floral accessory.

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Benefits and appeal

Ease of handling: Many brides feel more comfortable holding a purse than gripping stems, giving photos and movement a more relaxed, elegant effect.
Statement accessory: Because it feels couture, a bouquet purse can become a focal point of the bridal ensemble, an intentional, editorial-worthy element.
Versatility in design: Florists are experimenting with mixed fabrics, basket bases, structured handles, and sculptural forms.
Trend alignment: This concept rides the wave of accessory-hybridization, blending florals and fashion for more modern, fluid wedding styling.

If you want your bouquet to do double duty, beautify the photos and serve as a wearable art piece, a bridal bag bouquet is a refreshingly bold choice.

Bouquet Trends: What’s Blooming This Year

Beyond the bridal bag bouquet, florists and couples are embracing new (and revived) ideas for bouquet design. Here are some of the top bouquet trends to watch and to adapt.

1. Monofloral & Monobotanical Bouquets

Using just one type of bloom — for example, all ranunculus, all lilies, or all baby’s breath, gives a clean, modern, and sculptural feel. This approach reduces “noise” and lets a single bloom shine.

2. Cascading & Oversized Designs

Drama returns. Bouquets with falling floral vines, trailing greenery, or elongated silhouettes are making a comeback, offering a romantic “waterfall” effect.

3. Greenery as Hero

Instead of merely filling gaps, foliage and botanicals are taking center stage. Ivy, mint sprigs, strawberry vines, and lush garlands bring texture, movement, and organic charm.

4. Texture Over Color

2025 leans into tactile richness: dried grasses, preserved elements, seed pods, woven wraps, and layered foliage bring depth, even if the color palette stays subtle.

5. Wild & Garden-Inspired Bouquets

Bouquets that look as though they were freshly gathered from a meadow, loose, untamed, and full of little surprises continue to charm in 2025.

6. Sustainable & Eco-Conscious Florals

Couples increasingly favor locally sourced, seasonal blooms, recycled foliage, and reusable or biodegradable wrappings. Choosing hardier stems or potted plants as keepsakes is also part of the eco shift. +

7. Bold Color & “Mocha Mousse” Accents

Expect to see the warm, muted neutral tone “mocha mousse” used as a floral accent in 2025, pairing beautifully with blush, terracotta, and deep greens.

8. Sculptural & Brutalist Arrangements

Some florists are pushing boundaries with sharp angles, architectural lines, and a “less is more” sensibility drawn from Brutalist design, blending raw textural contrasts and floral tension.

How to Choose the Right Bouquet Trend for You

Here are a few guiding questions to help your readers (brides-to-be) think through which bouquet style suits them best.

Question	Why This Matters	Quick Tip
What is your wedding aesthetic / venue?	A more natural garden wedding may suit wild bouquets, while formal ballrooms benefit from sculptural or monofloral simplicity.	Match bouquet scale and style to the setting (e.g. cascading in a cathedral, monofloral in a modern hall).
How much do you want your bouquet to “pop”?	If it’s a focal accessory, a bridal bag bouquet or dramatic cascade stands out. If you prefer harmony, go subtle and botanical.	Consider whether your dress is already richly detailed, if so, let the bouquet be more minimal.
Are there logistic or comfort needs?	Weight, ease of carrying, longevity, and travel constraints may affect whether you go with a heavy cascading bouquet vs. a lighter monofloral or bag-style piece.	Test the bouquet feel during trial, hold it for minutes to see how it feels in movement.
Is sustainability important to you?	If so, prioritize local blooms, reusable components, potted elements, and less “fluff.”	Ask florists about their sourcing and request dry elements or potted plants for after the wedding.
Do you want a keepsake?	Some bouquet styles (preserved, dried, potted) transition better into long-term display.	Use ribbons, charm holders, or glass vases that can be reused post-wedding.

Spotlight: How to Work a Bridal Bag Bouquet Into Your Day

Design with structure in mind – The “bag” form often needs a frame or support (e.g. wicker basket, rigid pouch, wire handle) beneath the florals.
Balance volume & profile — Ensure the floral mass doesn’t overwhelm your arm or side profile when walking or posing.
Coordinate with dress textures — Pair with lace, satin, or beadwork in complementary or contrasting floral tones.
Test functionality — Can you rest it on a ledge, hold it comfortably, access pockets inside?
Add personal touches — Use ribbon, charms, heirloom jewelry, or small custom tags to tie it into your story.

Trends are a starting point, your bouquet should ultimately reflect you. Whether you lean into the experimental glamour of a bridal bag bouquet or prefer the sculptural clarity of a monofloral arrangement, 2025 gives you ample floral freedom. Let your bouquet not just accompany your walk down the aisle — let it whisper your style, your story, and your heart.

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In Venues

Enchanting Wedding Venues in the Free State: Your Guide

September 18, 2025 No Comments

The Free State, with its vast open plains, majestic mountains, and charming small towns, offers a plethora of breathtaking wedding venues. Whether you’re envisioning a rustic barn celebration, a fairytale orchard ceremony, or a luxurious estate affair, the Free State has something to suit every couple’s dream. Here are some of the most beautiful and unique wedding venues in the province for 2025.

R’new @Vaal – Vaal Dam

Situated along the banks of the Vaal Dam, R’new @Vaal offers a unique blend of nature and luxury. Couples can exchange vows within ancient Khoisan bushmen stone circles or in the heart of a magnificent Chartres Labyrinth, beautifully lined with roses, grapevines, and botanicals. The venue boasts luxuriously appointed rooms, a botanical gin distillery, and a homestead and spa for ultimate relaxation.

Goose Hill Wedding & Guest Farm – Bethlehem

Nestled in the heart of the Free State, Goose Hill Wedding & Guest Farm offers a picturesque setting for your special day. The venue features a charming chapel, spacious reception area, and on-site accommodation, making it ideal for both intimate and grand celebrations.

The Rosendal Country Retreat – Rosendal

Located in the quaint hamlet of Rosendal, The Rosendal Country Retreat is surrounded by the stunning Witteberge mountains. The venue features the charming Sandstone Chapel, perfect for a romantic ceremony, and offers two unique reception venues: The Gallery, a modern glass and steel space with mountain views, and the Ballroom, a larger venue with a cozy lounge and a magical ambiance created by thousands of fairy lights.

Welgelegen Cherry Estate – Ficksburg

Known as the cherry capital of South Africa, Ficksburg is home to Welgelegen Cherry Estate. The estate offers a beautiful setting for weddings, with cherry blossoms in spring providing a stunning backdrop. The venue can accommodate up to 250 guests and offers on-site accommodation for a convenient and memorable experience.

Lavender Hill Country Estate – Eastern Free State

Lavender Hill Country Estate is a breathtaking wedding venue situated in the Eastern Free State. With 25 hectares of perfect nature, the estate boasts exquisite gardens filled with roses and lavender, Arabian horses, exotic geese, and breathtaking views of the Maluti Mountains and Ash River. The venue offers a tranquil and romantic setting for your special day.

Oranje Guest Farm – Between Fouriesburg and Clarens

Oranje Guest Farm is a working farm nestled among the beautiful mountains of the Eastern Free State, located between Fouriesburg and Clarens. The venue offers a rustic and charming setting for weddings, with breathtaking views of the Maluti Mountains and the Rooi Mountains. The farm provides a unique and memorable experience for couples seeking a countryside celebration.

Bella Montagna – Eastern Free State

Nestled in the heart of the scenic Eastern Free State, Bella Montagna has been creating unforgettable wedding experiences since 2016. With breathtaking views, elegant facilities, and a warm, personalized touch, Bella Montagna provides the perfect backdrop for your special day. Whether you’re envisioning a rustic celebration or a sophisticated affair, Bella Montagna is where cherished memories are made.

Sandstone Sleeper Estate – Ficksburg

Sandstone Sleeper Estate is a unique venue located in Ficksburg, offering a blend of rustic charm and elegance. The estate features a beautiful chapel, spacious reception area, and on-site accommodation, making it ideal for both intimate and large weddings.

Monte Bello Estate – Bloemfontein

Monte Bello Estate is a luxurious venue situated in Bloemfontein, offering a blend of modern amenities and rustic charm. The estate features a beautiful chapel, spacious reception area, and on-site accommodation, making it perfect for couples seeking a sophisticated celebration.

Tuscan Rose – Bloemfontein

Tuscan Rose is a charming venue located in Bloemfontein, offering a romantic and intimate setting for weddings. The venue features a beautiful chapel, elegant reception area, and on-site accommodation, ensuring a memorable experience for couples and their guests.

Tips for Choosing Your Ideal Venue in the Free State

Guest Numbers vs. Lodging: Some venues are remote or boutique and may not have many rooms – account for accommodation and how many guests need to travel.
Weather & Season: The Free State has varied climate zones. If part of your wedding is outdoors, ensure there is backup in case of rain (especially in the Free State summer).
Accessibility & Travel: For guests coming from Gauteng or abroad, proximity to major roads or airports can be important.
Photography & Views: Many venues here offer spectacular natural scenery – escarpments, valleys, forests. Planning your ceremony time around light (morning, golden hour) will make a big difference.
All-Inclusive vs. Extra Costs: Some venues include furniture, cutlery, staff, drinks. Others charge them separately. Get quotes that show everything so there are no surprises.

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Mpumalanga Wedding Venues: Majestic Settings for Your Dream Day

September 16, 2025 No Comments

Mpumalanga offers a magical mix of landscapes – from dramatic escarpments and forest hideaways to elegant estates and bushveld lodges. Here are some of the most beautiful wedding venues in the province that promise unforgettable memories.

Kralinbergh Estate – Ermelo

Set in an oak-forested, rural part of Mpumalanga, Kralinbergh Estate is heritage-rich and beautifully romantic.

What makes it special:

Offers both a spacious chapel (for indoor ceremonies) and a forest chapel outdoors under century-old oak & cedar trees.
Includes a honeymoon suite and guest accommodation in the original farmhouse, blending old-world charm with modern comforts.
Most wedding packages are inclusive: tables, chairs, crockery, cutlery, glasses, wait staff, bartenders, and some drinks & snacks.

This is perfect for couples wanting a romantic countryside or farm wedding with rustic elegance and heritage.

Whispering Thorns – White River / Lowveld

Situated in the lush Lowveld, Whispering Thorns offers a countryside feel with refined touches.

Highlights:

A glass‐faced venue and chapel that lets light flood in.
Guesthouse accommodation for visitors: good for staying over.
Accommodates up to ~200 guests. Beautiful views over the Lowveld’s grasslands make for dramatic photographic backdrops.

Ideal for medium‐to‐larger wedding celebrations with style, great natural lighting, and scenic surroundings.

The Umbali Wedding Venue – Nelspruit

Close to the city (but with elevated, scenic views), Umbali in Nelspruit is great for couples who want a mix of elegance and accessibility.

What it offers:

Panoramic views over the Kaapschehoop Escarpment and surroundings.
Careful landscaping, gardens, excellent service, and freedom to handle many of your wedding details through their event teams.
Ample parking, good access from the city, and in‐house infrastructure for receptions.

Good for larger weddings, especially when many guests are travelling from the city or prefer something not too remote.

Additional Venues & Natural Settings to Consider

Lowveld National Botanical Garden (near Mbombela) – lush gardens, indigenous trees, river views. Beautiful for ceremonies outdoors, especially among flora & waterfalls.
Casterbridge Hollow Hotel in White River – sophisticated, boutique, artistic vibe for couples seeking elegance mixed with charm.
Misty Mountain on Long Tom Pass – dramatic vistas of escarpments, ideal for photo shoots & nature lovers.

Tips for Choosing Your Ideal Venue in Mpumalanga

Guest numbers vs lodging: Some venues are remote or boutique and may not have many rooms – account for accommodation and how many guests need to travel.
Weather & season: Mpumalanga has varied climate zones. If part of your wedding is outdoors, ensure there is backup in case of rain (especially in the Lowveld summer).
Accessibility & travel: For guests coming from Gauteng or abroad, proximity to major roads or airports can be important.
Photography & views: Many venues here offer spectacular natural scenery – escarpments, valleys, forests. Planning your ceremony time around light (morning, golden hour) will make a big difference.
All‐included vs extra costs: Some venues include furniture, cutlery, staff, drinks. Others charge them separately. Get quotes that show everything so there are no surprises.

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In Engagements

Everything You Need To Know About Planning An Engagement Party

September 11, 2025 No Comments

Congratulations, you’re engaged! This is the start of a life long journey with the person you love the most. You’ll no doubt want to celebrate. But the reality is many people have never thrown an engagement party before and might not even know where to start.

So we’ve put together a short guide to help you.

Why Engagement Parties Matter

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Getting engaged is one of life’s most memorable milestones, and for many couples, it deserves more than a quick phone call or dinner. An engagement party sets the tone for your wedding journey. It’s the perfect excuse to gather both families, your closest friends, and anyone you want to share this exciting new chapter with.

Unlike the wedding day itself, engagement parties are usually less formal. Guests mingle, enjoy food and drinks, and celebrate in a relaxed setting. In South Africa, it’s not uncommon for couples to blend traditions—think vibrant music, shared platters, and heartfelt speeches—making it both personal and memorable.

Plus not everyone will get and invitation to your wedding, so an engagement party is a good way for more people to share the start of your new journey, without anyone feeling completely left out.

Who Hosts And Pays?

Traditionally, the bride’s parents hosted and paid for the celebration. Today, those rules are more fluid. Some couples host the party themselves, while others split costs between both families. Whoever takes on hosting duties typically covers the essentials:

Venue hire or set-up at home
Food and drinks
Décor and flowers
Photography, if included
(Tip: there’s are apps such as GuestCam that allow multiple guests to take pictures on their phones and upload it. This is a good way to see how your event went from your guest’s POV and also a great way to capture some special and candid moments that a photographer might not always get.)

Many couples now view the engagement party as a shared responsibility, with both sides of the family contributing.

When Should You Celebrate?

Timing is everything. Planners recommend hosting an engagement party two to three months after the proposal. This gives you time to enjoy the excitement, set a date, and spread out other wedding-related events like bridal showers and bachelor/bachelorette parties.

If your engagement is long, you can delay the celebration, but try to host it while the news still feels fresh.

Guest List Etiquette

A key rule of thumb: if someone is invited to your engagement party, they should also receive a wedding invitation. This avoids awkwardness and keeps expectations clear.

Engagement parties are also the perfect opportunity to introduce your families and friendship circles in a more casual environment before the wedding. Whether it’s 30 people in your backyard or 100 at a hired venue, keep the guest list consistent with your future wedding plans.

Invitations: Paper Or Digital?

Your invitations set the mood. Here are your options:

Formal dinner: Printed invitations are a timeless and elegant choice.
Casual gathering: Digital invitations are fun, budget-friendly, and easy to personalise.

Pro tip: don’t include registry details on your invites. Instead, add a link on your wedding website or share it personally with guests who ask. Gifts at engagement parties are thoughtful but never required.

Can You Have More Than One Party?

Yes, and many couples do. If your families live in different cities—or if you want to celebrate separately with friends and colleagues—it’s perfectly acceptable to host more than one event.

If you come from different cultural backgrounds, you may want to have two seperate parties to celebrate each of your cultural backgrounds respectively.Each gathering can reflect a different side of your life as a couple.

Can You Combine It With Another Celebration?

If you got engaged during a festive time of year, you can combine your engagement party with another celebration, such as a birthday or anniversary. Just try to avoid dates that clash with major holidays like Christmas, Easter, or Valentine’s Day, when guests are likely to have other commitments.

Step-By-Step Guide To Planning

1. Decide Who’s Hosting
Choose whether you, your family, or your friends will take the lead. This will determine the budget and scale of the event.

2. Pick A Date And Venue
Aim for within three months of your engagement. Backyard braai? Private restaurant room? Wine estate? The venue should reflect the tone you want—relaxed or formal.

3. Create The Guest List
Keep it in line with your wedding invite plans. Decide early if this will be an intimate gathering or a larger affair.

4. Send Invitations
Mail or email your invites at least a month in advance. Always include an RSVP date so you can finalise numbers.

5. Plan The Menu
The food doesn’t need to be extravagant but should match the setting. For a cocktail party, serve canapés and bubbly. For a garden gathering, opt for a braai or grazing tables. For formal dinners, a plated menu works beautifully.

6. Set The Scene
Décor sets the mood. Flowers, candles, and fairy lights create warmth, while bold centrepieces can add drama. Choose colours or themes that reflect your personalities.

7. Choose Your Outfit
Many brides-to-be wear white or pastels as a nod to the wedding ahead, but bold prints or florals also make a stylish statement. Grooms usually go for smart-casual but can elevate the look with tailored jackets or cultural attire.

Final Thoughts

An engagement party is more than just a celebration—it’s the first chapter in your wedding story. Whether you host a simple gathering at home or an elegant dinner at a venue, the goal is the same: bringing your loved ones together to celebrate your decision to spend your lives as one.

The beauty of planning an engagement party today is that there are no hard rules. Make it as casual, formal, traditional, or unconventional as you like. At the end of the day, it’s about joy, connection, and setting the tone for all the memories still to come.

In Advice

Elopement vs Wedding: Which Celebration Truly Fits Your Love Story?

September 11, 2025 No Comments

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For couples in South Africa, the question isn’t just about when to get married anymore, but how. The growing popularity of elopements has shifted what many of us think of as “the big day.” Once seen as secretive runaways and running away from your family, elopements now stand proudly as intimate, intentional celebrations. But how do they really stack up against the traditional, large-scale wedding so many still dream of?

Let’s unpack the pros and cons of each, and why more South African couples are rethinking what it means to say “I do”.

The Rise of Elopements in South Africa

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Elopements are no longer whispered scandals. Instead, they’re celebrated as deeply personal moments where the focus is squarely on the couple. With our country’s dramatic backdrops—from the cliffs of the Wild Coast to the winelands of Stellenbosch—it’s no surprise that many pairs are trading in banquet halls for breathtaking landscapes.

Pros of Eloping:

Less stress and shorter timelines
Often more affordable, especially if combined with a honeymoon
Intimate and personal—just you, your partner, and maybe a handful of loved ones
Destination-ready: from Cape Town beaches to Drakensberg peaks

Cons of Eloping:

Limited guest list (if any)
Potential disappointment from family and friends
Missing out on classic wedding traditions like speeches and first dances

Social media has amplified this trend, with couples proudly sharing photos of mountaintop vows and barefoot ceremonies on Instagram. Far from feeling like they’ve missed out, many say the privacy made the day even more meaningful.

The Case for the Big Wedding

For many South African families, a wedding isn’t just about two people—it’s about community, tradition, and celebration. Large weddings are cultural milestones, where relatives travel from across provinces and sometimes countries to witness a union.

Even though these weddings can be costly, they carry weight and symbolism that smaller ceremonies can’t always replicate. Walking down the aisle in front of everyone you love, having speeches from family elders, and enjoying that packed dance floor at the reception—it’s all part of the magic.

Pros of a Full Wedding:

Share the joy with family and friends
All the traditional rituals: confetti, toasts, and father-daughter dances
Feels like a once-in-a-lifetime celebration
Easier to involve extended family in cultural traditions

Cons of a Full Wedding:

Costs can quickly spiral
Planning is stressful and time-consuming
Destination weddings add even more expense
Some couples find being the center of attention overwhelming

That said, with careful budgeting and the right planner, and the support from family and friends, a big wedding doesn’t have to mean financial strain.

Finding the Balance

So, elopement vs wedding—which one wins? The truth is, there’s no universal answer. For some, eloping is the dream: raw, unfiltered, and intimate. For others, the joy of seeing their loved ones gathered in one place outweighs the stress and expense.

A growing number of couples are blending both approaches: a private elopement in a scenic spot, followed by a relaxed reception with friends and family later. It’s proof that you don’t have to choose between intimacy and tradition—you can craft something unique.

Do What’s Best for You

At the end of the day, whether you stand barefoot on a beach with just two witnesses, or enter a grand hall filled with 200 guests, your wedding should reflect your love story. Ignore outside pressure, silence the comparisons, and choose what feels authentic to you as a couple.

Because whether whispered on a mountain or shouted from a ballroom stage, “I do” is about more than the setting—it’s about the journey that follows.

In Food

Top Wedding Caterers in South Africa – Menus That Wow Guests

September 10, 2025 No Comments

Planning a wedding in South Africa? One of the most memorable aspects of your celebration will undoubtedly be the food. A well-curated menu not only satisfies the palate but also sets the tone for the entire event. Here are some of the top wedding caterers in South Africa known for their exceptional cuisine and service:

Catercom – Johannesburg & Pretoria

Catercom offers a diverse range of catering options, including:

Buffet Style: Featuring African and European-inspired dishes such as salads, mains, and desserts.
Spit Braai & Braai: Traditional South African barbecue with succulent meats.
Harvest Tables & Finger Foods: Ideal for cocktail-style receptions.
Cater Express: Delivery, setup, and collection service for convenience.

Their menus are customizable to suit various themes and dietary preferences.

Zesty & Co. – Johannesburg

Zesty & Co. specializes in modern fusion cuisine with global influences:

Texan BBQ: Including bacon-wrapped jalapeño shrimp and lollipop lamb chops.
Mediterranean & Asian Flavors: Such as seared scallops and Asian spice salmon.
Custom Wedding Menus: Tailored to your preferences and dietary needs.

Their emphasis on presentation ensures a visually stunning dining experience.

Spice & Thyme Catering – Durban

Spice & Thyme Catering brings bold, flavorful dishes with a touch of artistry:

Private Events: Customized menus for intimate gatherings.
Set Catering: Pre-designed menus with a focus on seasonal ingredients.

They excel in adding creative flair to traditional dishes, ensuring a memorable dining experience.

The Gathered Table – Cape Town

The Gathered Table offers boutique catering with a focus on seasonal, locally sourced ingredients:

Farm-to-Table Dining: Emphasizing fresh, organic produce.
Intimate Events: Perfect for smaller weddings seeking a personalized touch.

Their commitment to sustainability and quality ingredients ensures a delightful culinary experience.

Urban Feast – Pretoria

Urban Feast provides a variety of catering options suitable for various events:

Buffet & Plated Menus: Offering a selection of dishes to cater to diverse tastes.
Canapés & Platters: Ideal for cocktail-style receptions.
Customizable Options: Menus tailored to your specific requirements.

Their flexibility and attention to detail ensure a seamless catering experience.

Bruce’s Catering – Cape Town

Bruce’s Catering offers a range of wedding catering options:

3-Course Wedding Menu: Includes starter, main course, and dessert options.
Snack Baskets & Boxed Menus: Convenient options for smaller gatherings or pre-wedding events.
Halaal Certified: Ensuring inclusivity for all guests.

Their extensive experience in the industry guarantees professional service and quality cuisine.

Maribelo Catering – Pretoria

Maribelo Catering provides full-service catering with a focus on fresh, flavorful meals:

Event Catering: Customized menus for weddings and other special occasions.
Full-Service Dining: Including setup, service, and cleanup.

Their dedication to quality and customer satisfaction ensures a memorable dining experience.

Candlewoods Guest House – Centurion

Candlewoods Guest House offers in-house catering services for weddings and functions:

In-House Catering: Providing a range of menu options to suit your event.
Elegant Banquet Hall: Complementing their catering services for a complete event experience.

Their picturesque setting and comprehensive services make them a popular choice for weddings.

Selecting the right wedding caterer is crucial to ensuring your special day is unforgettable. The caterers listed above offer a variety of services and menus to suit different tastes and preferences. Whether you’re looking for traditional South African flavors, global fusion dishes, or vegetarian options, these caterers can help bring your culinary vision to life.

Remember to consider factors such as menu customization, dietary requirements, and service style when choosing your caterer. It’s also advisable to schedule tastings and discuss your specific needs to ensure a seamless dining experience on your wedding day.

If you need assistance in narrowing down your options or have specific requirements, feel free to ask. We’re here to help make your wedding planning as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

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In Destination

Gauteng’s Most Stunning Wedding Venues

September 10, 2025 No Comments

Gauteng is a treasure trove of breathtaking wedding venues, offering diverse settings for every couple’s dream day—from verdant gardens and elegant estates to rustic countryside escapes. Here are some truly enchanting options to consider:

Shepstone Gardens – Johannesburg

Nestled in the heart of Jozi, this picturesque venue features lush gardens, a historic stone chapel, and a glass-roofed marquee. Ideal for sunset ceremonies that blend historic charm with nature’s beauty.

Morrells Boutique Estate – Northcliff

This elegant estate evokes Provençal romance with manicured gardens and fragrant lavender and olive groves, perfect for an intimate, luxurious wedding experience.

The Munro Boutique Hotel – Johannesburg

An urban gem offering panoramic views of Johannesburg’s green belt. Expect boutique-class sophistication, chic indoor spaces, and a lush poolside perfect for romantic receptions.

The Moon and Sixpence – Muldersdrift

A serene countryside venue featuring rustic gardens and a charming thatched-roof chapel—ideal for nature-loving couples seeking a tranquil, romantic setting.

Oakfield Farm – Muldersdrift

This award-winning venue combines rural charm with modern elegance. The glass-walled ceremony space surrounded by greenery creates a breathtaking, storybook wedding atmosphere.

Inimitable Wedding Venue – Muldersdrift

Stylishly contemporary, this venue offers riverside chapels and chic reception halls with striking glass and steel architecture, a modern luxury experience.

Memoire Wedding Venue – Muldersdrift

Surrounded by majestic willows and oaks, Memoire presents a refined and glamorous setting with delightfully designed chapels and reception spaces.

The Forest Walk Venue – Midrand

A magical woodland venue featuring a forest chapel and draped reception area—perfect for a fairytale, nature-inspired wedding.

Cradle Valley Venue – Cradle of Humankind

Rustic elegance meets heritage in this natural venue. Stone chapels and sweeping views of the surrounding reserve make this spot ideal for intimate, countryside celebrations.

Benedetto On Vaal – Vanderbijlpark

Nestled along the Vaal River, this picturesque venue combines rustic charm with contemporary comforts—complete with a chapel, garden island, and scenic garden photo corners.

Riverside Country Estate – Near Johannesburg

A waterside jewel with romantic gardens and willow trees. Choose from the intimate Willow Hall (40–120 guests) or the more grandiose Wisteria Hall for larger celebrations.

The Blades – Roodeplaat

Set against a peaceful dam, this versatile venue offers chapel, hall, and garden ceremony options. Fairy lights and waterfront views craft a magical, elegant atmosphere.

Real Couple Insights

Anecdotal recommendations from recently married couples add authenticity and a personal touch:

“Oakfield Farm in Muldersdrift has a semi-open chapel surrounded by massive trees… the reception hall has big windows looking out over a lovely garden. It was gorgeous.”

“Forest Walk Venue, honestly stunning, they have an outdoor glass chapel too.”

Gauteng’s wedding venues offer a rich tapestry of styles, from garden romance to urban luxury, rustic countryside to heritage estates. Whether your heart is set on verdant gardens, forest backdrops, architectural elegance, or water-side serenity, you’re sure to find a venue that makes your 2025 wedding unforgettable.

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In Honeymoons

12 Africa Honeymoon Destinations That Will Sweep You Off Your Feet

September 9, 2025 No Comments

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Your honeymoon isn’t just a holiday. It’s the first chapter of your new shared story. While Paris has its romance and Bali its beaches, Africa offers something far rarer: wild landscapes, ancient history, and the kind of soul-stirring beauty that will stay with you for a lifetime.

So don’t be too quick to overlook Africa, as there are some real gems. From candlelit safaris to starlit desert camps, here are 12 Africa honeymoon destinations that blend luxury, culture, and adventure.

1. Tanzania: Safari Meets Zanzibar Bliss

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Tanzania is special, because if you can’t decide between a safari honeymoon and beach one, then you don’t have to. You can have them both.

Tanzania is safari royalty. Picture yourself on the Serengeti, watching wildebeest thunder across golden plains, before retreating to an intimate tented lodge. Days later, you’re barefoot on Zanzibar’s beaches, sipping cocktails as the sun melts into the Indian Ocean.

Why it’s unforgettable: A Tanzania honeymoon means both bush and beach in one trip. From starry bush dinners to private island escapes, it’s the best of two worlds.

When to visit: If you’re opting for a safari holiday first, it’s best to go in the dry season which is between June and October. You can visit Zanzibar pretty much anytime of the year.

2. Namibia: Desert Romance Under the Stars

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Namibia is a raw, otherworldly beauty. Climb the towering red dunes of Sossusvlei, drift over the desert in a hot-air balloon, or spend the night in a star-bed with nothing but the Milky Way for company. In Etosha, wildlife thrives in stark landscapes, while the Skeleton Coast feels like the edge of the world.

Local flavour: Namibians often joke that their country has more sand than people — perfect for couples seeking silence and privacy.

When to visit: The best time to visit Namibia is during the dry season, which is from May to October. There’s minimal rainfall and temperatures are quite moderate as well.

3. Seychelles: Barefoot Royalty

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The Seychelles is where honeymoon fantasies become reality. Think villas with infinity pools, deserted beaches, and coral reefs made for snorkelling. It’s no surprise this is where royalty and A-listers escape for privacy.

When to go: April, May, October, and November offer the clearest waters for diving and snorkelling.

4. Zambia: The Smoke That Thunders

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At Victoria Falls, the Zambezi River plunges with such force that locals named it Mosi-oa-Tunya — “the Smoke that Thunders.” Couples can take helicopter flights over the spray, toast with sundowners on a Zambezi cruise, or swim together in Devil’s Pool right on the edge of the falls.

When to visit: May to October is the best time to visit Zambia as it is the dry season. But it’s important to note that from June to October it’s the peak season in Zambia, which means prices are likely to sky rocket.

5. Botswana: Wild and Intimate

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Botswana is the definition of luxury in the wild. The Okavango Delta’s waterways are perfect for gliding in a mokoro canoe while elephants splash nearby. Many lodges offer just a few suites, giving you total seclusion. Nights in open-air sky beds let you drift to sleep under the Milky Way.

Why go: Botswana sees fewer tourists than some of it’s southern African neighbours which means if you’re looking to enjoy a safari holiday with fewer crowds, then this is the place. Expect unrivalled wildlife, and a safari experience that feels like it’s just for you.

6. Mozambique: Castaway Romance

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Mozambique is often overlooked as a beach resort in comparison to the likes of Zanzibar. Mozambique’s Quirimbas Archipelago is a hidden gem. With villas scattered across private islands, it feels like you’ve discovered a secret world. Expect dhow cruises at sunset, barefoot dinners in the sand, and waters so warm you’ll spend hours snorkelling or diving.

The further north up you go, the more special it gets. Inhambane, Vilanculos, and Bazaruto Island boast some of the clearest turquoise waters that are perfect for swimming with dolphins, snorkelling and surfing.

Cultural touch: On Ibo Island, stroll cobbled streets and discover Portuguese-era forts — history woven into paradise.

When to go: May to November sees cooler temperatures, and is also the dry season.

7. South Africa: A World in One Country

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South Africa is the honeymooner’s dream buffet. Start in Cape Town with its beaches, Table Mountain views, and fine dining. Add wine tasting in Franschhoek, then head to Kruger’s private reserves for a Big 5 safari. For extra magic, try a night in a luxury treehouse listening to the bush at night.

While Cape Town and the Kruger are no doubt show stoppers, don’t overlook South Africa’s icon Garden Route. This lush green area, boasts quaint towns, magical forests, and wild scenic coastlines with tons of exciting activities. The wild coast also has plenty to offer, so combine your tip to the garden route with the wild coast for an off the beaten path South African adventure.

Value factor: With world-class infrastructure and competitive pricing, South Africa delivers big honeymoon experiences without blowing the budget.

When to visit: You can visit South Africa pretty much any time of the year, but just note that from November to February, it’s peak season.

8. Zimbabwe: Falls and Safari in One Trip

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On Zimbabwe’s side of Victoria Falls, the views are arguably the most dramatic. Pair that with romantic riverside lodges and easy access to Hwange National Park for superb game drives, and you’ve got a honeymoon that balances natural wonder with safari adventure.

9. Kenya: Safari Tradition and Beach Bliss

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Kenya’s Masai Mara is safari at its most iconic: vast golden plains, acacia trees, and lions lounging in the shade. Visit during the Great Migration for a front-row seat to nature’s greatest show. Afterwards, relax on Kenya’s Indian Ocean coast — Diani Beach is a honeymoon hotspot with turquoise seas and laid-back charm.

Social buzz: Safari jeeps, giraffes at sunset, and Maasai beadwork make Kenya one of the most photogenic honeymoon backdrops.

When to visit: The best time to visit Kenya for a safari is during the dry seasons, from June to October or January to March.

10. Mauritius: Colourful and Romantic

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Mauritius is a melting pot of cultures and cuisines, surrounded by coral reefs and golden beaches. Expect couples’ spa treatments, private catamaran cruises, and Creole flavours on your plate. Many resorts are all-inclusive, letting you relax without a care.

Local secret: Don’t miss Chamarel, where the earth forms surreal rainbow-coloured dunes — a natural wonder as vibrant as your new marriage.

When to visit: The best time to visit Mauritius is from May to December, during the dry and cooler winter season, offering pleasant temperatures, low humidity, and minimal rain. But, for fewer crowds and lower prices, consider the shoulder months of May and September.

11. Egypt: Timeless Love Stories

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For couples drawn to history, Egypt is a honeymoon like no other. Imagine floating along the Nile on a luxury cruise, exploring ancient temples by day, then dining on the deck under desert stars. In Cairo, marvel at the Pyramids of Giza before heading to the Red Sea for crystal-clear diving and private beach resorts.

Cultural note: Ancient Egyptians believed love was eternal — perhaps why so many couples choose Egypt to begin their forever.

When to visit: The best time to visit Egypt is from October to April if you’re looking for comfortable temperatures for sightseeing. September to November and March to April are great shoulder months for fewer crowds and good weather.

12. Morocco: Romance in the Souks and Sands

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Morocco is a feast for the senses. Wander hand-in-hand through Marrakech’s vibrant souks, stay in a riad with rose-petal baths, and then escape to the Sahara Desert for a night in a luxury tent camp beneath the stars. On the coast, Essaouira offers breezy beaches and bohemian charm.

Why couples love it: Morocco combines culture, adventure, and intimacy. Social media is full of honeymooners on camel rides, their silhouettes framed against golden dunes at sunset.

When to visit: The best time to visit Morocco is during the shoulder seasons of spring (March to May) and autumn (September to November). You’ll get pleasant, warm weather ideal for exploring cities, hiking, and visiting the desert

Where Will You Go?

An Africa honeymoon is more than a holiday. It’s a love story written across landscapes — from Morocco’s souks to Namibia’s dunes, from Zanzibar’s beaches to Egypt’s temples. Whether you’re chasing wildlife, culture, or barefoot luxury, these 12 destinations prove that Africa isn’t just a backdrop for romance. It’s the main character.