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    The Jewish religion has been around for over 3 000 years and there are tens of thousands living in South Africa that practice Judaism. Various traditions and rituals are performed during the union of a couple, one of which is the famous breaking of the glass.

    Here is the history and meaning behind this tradition:

    When a Jewish couple ties the knot, they marry under a canopy called a Chuppah which must have four corners and be covered by a roof. The Chuppah is a symbol of the new home the married couple will build together.

    Once the nuptials have concluded, the groom (sometimes the bride too) will step on a cloth bag that contains glass in order to break it. Everyone then shouts Mazel Tov! Which means congratulations or good luck. This is known as the ‘breaking the glass’ tradition’ and is meant to symbolise the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.

    The Temple of Jerusalem was a centre for worship in ancient Israel.  However, it was destroyed in the Siege of Jerusalem by the Neo-Babylonian Empire in 586 BCE. The Second Temple, built soon afterward, was also destroyed.

    By honouring this sad moment in Jewish history, this tradition is meant to symbolise that there is sadness in joy and that you should never forget about all the pain in the world even on the most joyous of occasions. It also represents how important it is to stand together and persevere through hard times.

    Couples often collect the broken shards of glass after the ceremony and save them as a memento of their special day.

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    Much like marriage, tattoos are serious and (mostly) permanent. While it’s often considered a big no-no to mark your body with your lover’s name, this can also be a sweet and romantic act for many.

    There are many reasons why couples may choose to forego wearing their rings. Maybe you have a physical job that requires you to wear no jewellery, or you’re just not the diamond type. Whatever the reason, your finger does not have to be bare. Fill that space with a tattoo designed just for your and your partner.

    Wedding ring tattoos are super popular, with celebrities like Jay-Z and Beyonce even rocking this trend. You can go simple with a a classic line tattoo or add some personality and choose an icon that is close to you and your partner’s heart. For example, you could opt for crowns to symbolise your fairytale love, or get your partner’s initials.

    Here are some tattoos we think are pretty sweet:

     

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    With 12 official languages, 9 provinces, and a country filled with love, it’s fair to say that South Africa’s diversity is pretty amazing.

    Planning and celebrating weddings differ across cultures and religions in South Africa, and it is important for all locals and Internationals to be informed about the unique traditions the country has to offer.

    With that being said, Wedding Etc has started an exciting and informing series that will delve into several wedding cultures and traditions in South Africa. The series will primarily focus on the cultural wedding attires of the groom, bride, and guests.

    In the first series piece we will be covering the Xhosa wedding attire. Keep an eye out for our future features on others such as the Zulu, Indian and Muslim cultures.

    The bride’s attire

    The Xhosa ethnic group is the second-largest cultural group in South Africa and their weddings are a huge celebration. The bride, called the umakoti, is traditionally the centre of attention.

    On her special day the bride wears a long skirt or dress which is called the Ijermani or isishweshwe, which symbolizes that she is no longer a girl. The skirt is like no other as it is covered in beautiful embroidery and beadwork from top to button.

    This part of the outfit is then paired with a tartan blanket that wraps neatly around the bride’s shoulder. The blanket represents the protection and care that the bride-to-be will add to her new family.

    The final touches include a woolen scarf around the bride’s waist, a black doek and beaded necklaces, bracelets, necklaces, and a matching handbag.

    The groom’s attire

    The groom’s outfit is quite a powerful statement as it is usually warrior inspired and also echo’s his bride’s attire. He wears a white wrap around his waist that has the same decorations as the bride. The groom also wears a blanket, called ingwaca, over his shoulders. To finish the look, the groom’s head and neck are showered with beads.

    The bridesmaids and groomsmen attire

    The family members of the newlyweds dress in similar patterns and fabrics. They are not as extravagant but they complement the couple of the day.

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     The economic downturn over the past year, coupled with the need to reduce expenses, has seen a rise in vacant properties across South Africa and an increase in co-habiting. Taking the decision to move in with your partner is a big step. It’s wise to consider the emotional, financial and insurance implications and have critical conversations upfront.

    Marius Steyn, Personal Lines Underwriting Manager at Santam, and Marius Neethling, Manager Personal Lines Underwriting (Systems and Administration) at Santam, caution that there are a few considerations people need to think about when merging households.

    “In the scenario where you move in with your partner, an insurer usually considers you the equivalent of a common-law husband and wife, depending on the seriousness of your relationship. That means you can take out a policy together. If you are moving in with a housemate, both parties will need their own separate insurance policies. In this case, you will have to insure your own belongings and communal living underwriting rules will apply. In both cases there are lots of logistics to tick off – like making sure the household contents are covered.”

    Here, Steyn and Neethling chat through the checklist to tick off before co-habiting:

    Make sure you’ve adequately covered the combined contents of your home:

    Moving in together often results in a staggering amount of ‘stuff.’ Which means you and your partner will probably need to update the household contents insured amount. If your relationship is seen as serious (insurers look for things like how long you’ve been together, if you’ve co-purchased furniture, etc.), then an insurer will treat you the same as they would a married couple. This means you can take out a policy between you, with one person being the main policyholder and the other, the additional insured.

    Some considerations:

    • Remember, the main policyholder will be paid out in the event of a claim. It’ll then be up to him/her to pay the additional insurance. Insurers don’t get involved in these politics and are in no way responsible if the policyholder does not pay his/her partner or housemate. So, trust is important.
    • If you both have separate household contents policies with different insurers and are wondering which insurer to go with, don’t just pick the lowest premium price: consider the benefits and excesses – what you pay and what you receive in return.
    • Get your household contents evaluated (or do this yourselves using an online calculator) so you’re certain you’re adequately covered for the replacement value of all your combined items.
    • When your household contents are on the move between properties you should notify your insurer of the new address prior to the day you move.
    • It’s in your interest to tell your insurer about all the security features at your new home. Generally, there will be specific security requirements in order to qualify for burglary and theft cover.

    If you happen to have a fight and temporarily move out…

    It’s not commonly known, but, if you happen to argue and temporarily move out and take some of your household contents with you, these items will still be covered in your temporary abode, providing this is a private building – not a tent or caravan, for example. This only applies to a temporary situation though – if it’s a permanent split, then you’ll need your own new policy.

    Vehicle insurance is also important:

    Remember to add your partner as a regular driver on your policy if he or she uses your vehicle more frequently than you do.

    If it really doesn’t work out:

    If, sadly, the relationship comes to an end, then you should get your own policy as soon as possible, especially if you have one policy between you, but you’re not the main policyholder. Remember, if you’re the additional insured, it’s up to the policyholder to pay you in the event of a claim, which could get difficult if you’re not together anymore.

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    Forget about gym, tan, laundry, it’s about to be all about gym, tan, wedding! Jersey Shore star JWoww, real name Jenni Farley, is engaged to Zack Clayton Carpinello.

    The pair got engaged back in late February, and the reality star took to Instagram on Tuesday, March 9 to announce their exciting news.

    “On 2.27 I said yes on the top of the Empire State Building,” she captioned the images of the pair looking loved up.

     

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    Carpinello posted the same pictures with the caption, “My always and forever. You made me the happiest I’ve ever been. I love you more than anything.”

    The couple has been dating since early 2019 and briefly split up in that same year before reigniting their love. Clayton even appeared alongside JWoww on screen in Jersey Shore Family Vacation.

     

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    This will be Farley’s second walk down the aisle. She was previously married to Roger Mathews, with whom they share daughter Meilani (6) and son Greyson (4). Funnily enough, Carpinello actually attended Farley’s first wedding as he was a longtime friend of the now ex-couple.

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    Nicolas Cage is a married man! The famed actor secretly tied the knot with girlfriend Riko Shibata on February 16 in Las Vegas. This is the actor’s fifth marriage.

    Cage recently confirmed his private nuptials to PEOPLE Magazine, saying “It’s true, and we are very happy.”

    According to his rep, the wedding was a small and intimate affair hosted at the Wynn Hotel in Las Vegas. Their wedding date was specifically chosen to honour Cage’s late father’s birthday.

    Cage rocked a Tom Ford tuxedo while bride Shibata stunned in a handmade Japanese bridal kimono. Joining the festivities was Cage’s ex-wife Alice Kim, with whom he has remained close friends.

    This is the fifth marriage for Nicolas Cage. He was previously married to Patricia Arquette from 1995 to 2001, Lisa Marie Presley from 2002 to 2004, Alice Kim from 2004 to 2006 and Erika Koike for a whopping four days back in 2019.

    ALSO READ: The bizarre marriages of Nicolas Cage

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    Prince Harry and Meghan Markle sat down for a highly anticipated interview with Oprah Winfrey and revealed more than a few bombshells about their relationship and the Royal Family. Among the shockers, they dropped that they secretly tied the knot before they walked down the aisle in front of the world.

    The Duke and Duchess of Sussex admitted to Oprah that they said I do’ to one another in private three days before their televised wedding on May 19, 2018. It was just the two of them and the Archbishop of Canterbury present for the secret nuptials.

    Oprah had asked Meghan what she was excited about in their new life after they officially left the Royal family, and the Duchess replied, “Just being able to live authentically… it’s so basic but it’s really fulfilling.”

    She continued, “I was thinking about it, you know our wedding—three days before our wedding, we got married. No one knows that. We called the Archbishop and we just said, look, this thing, this spectacle is for the world. But we want our union between us, so the vows that we have framed in our room are just the two of us in our backyard with the Archbishop of Canterbury.”

    South Africans wanting to watch the bombshell interview can tune in to MNet at 7.30pm on Monday night.

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    The Department of Home Affairs has officially resumed a wider variety of services, now that the country is back at Level 1 lockdown.

    On Thursday, March 4 the Department began allowing South Africans to apply for and collect their passports, as well as register their marriages among other services. This comes after marriage services were temporarily suspended on January 12.

    The following services will be resumed during Alert Level 1 lockdown:

    • Re-issues of Smart ID Cards and identity documents
    • Registration and solemnisation of marriages
    • Amendments and rectifications
    • Late registration of birth for all categories
    • Applications and collections of passports for all categories

    The citizenship service remains temporarily unavailable. Home Affairs Minister Aaron Motsoaledi urges citizens to remain cautious and follow COVID-19 health and safety protocols when visiting a Home Affairs office.

    “We do not want our offices to be super spreader sites. We urge everyone who visits our offices to observe social distancing, sanitise their hands regularly and to wear their masks properly, covering their noses and mouths,” he said.

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    Your wedding day is a special moment, one you’ll want to look your absolute best for. If you’re not afraid to show some skin and ooze class and sophistication, a glamorous dress is perfect for you.

    Glamour comes in many forms, but ultimately it means to be alluring. As such, design details that pique the interest are key. Think extended trains, a form-fitting silhouette and off-the-shoulder cuts. Add some applique or lace detail to top it all off and you’re set.

    If you’re in need of some inspiration, look no further. Here are some brides giving us ultimate glamour:

     

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    If you already consider yourself a princess, you may as well get the ring to match. The princess-cut is the most popular of the fancy cut diamond shapes, according to Shimansky. It is a timeless shape, with a geometric silhouette that makes the stone appear brighter and whiter.

    A princess-cut diamond has a square-shaped stone with pointed corners and can have up to 78 facets. From the side, it appears as if the stone is the shape of an inverted pyramid.  This cut offers stunning sparkle thanks to its high levels of brilliance and fire.

    This cut requires master craftmanship. In the wrong hands, the stone’s delicate and intricate facets can appear chunky.  It must have a deep cut, a relatively slim girdle and pointed corners. V-shaped prongs hold the body of the stone securely in place while also protecting the corners.

    Go simple with a clean band or add some flair with a pavé finish. You could also angle the princess cut diamond so that the points create the shape of a star instead, for an extra unique look.

    If you’re on the market for a princess cut ring, take a look at these stunners for inspiration:

     

     

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