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    Do you know which scent you want to wear on your big day? No? Choose a wedding fragrance that’s as fun, flirtatious or sensual as you are. Here are some of our favourites.

    1. Jimmy Choo Illicit EDP (100 ml) – A provocative juice with seductive notes of bitter orange, sambac jasmine and honey amber.

    2. Azzaro Pour Elle Extrême EDP (75 ml) – Warm, sensual and deeply enveloping, this elegant scent is an evening delight.

    3. Juicy Couture Viva La Juicy Rosé EDP (100 ml) – For something that’s simply sparkling, this fruity floral is fun and just a little flirtatious.

    4. Repetto Eau Florale EDT (80 ml) – A pretty pink juice with feminine notes of grapefruit, plum blossom and rose.

    5. Oscar de la Renta Oscar Velvet Noir EDP (100 ml) – Classic and sexy with beautiful notes of osmanthus, ginger and warm amber. 

    6. Dunhill Icon Absolute EDP (100 ml) – A modern-day ode to all things woody and spicy for the discerning and stylish groom.

    7. Giorgio Armani Armani Code Profumo Pour Homme (60 ml) – Perfect for the classic gentleman, a scent with a decidedly rich and sophisticated air.

    SA Weddings and Alexa Lily have teamed up to create the ultimate wedding planner for brides-to-be! Your Bridal Edit contains all the necessities a bride will need to plan her big day. It is also the first planner to hit the South African Market.

    ‘We are incredibly happy that we could partner with a company such as Alexa Lily and create such a magical product for brides-to-be. We’ve seen a gap in the market and we know that this planner will go a long way in helping a bride plan her dream wedding with little stress and so much enjoyment – as it should be,’ says Katherine Ballantyne from SA Weddings

    This incredible planner will help any bride plan her special day in the most simplified way. Think of it as one book that will capture all your to-do lists as well as any other essential planning information.

    So what can you expect from Your Bridal Edit?

    1. Invaluable advice from top wedding industry professionals
    2. An undated calendar year planner (so you can start using Your Bridal Edit anytime of year – right when you get engaged!)
    3. Monthly wedding to-do check-ins
    4. A large space on every weekly spread to write your wedding related notes and to-dos
    5. An incredible MY WEDDING divider with all the content, checklists, and things to remember that you might need to plan your wedding (think space to write down your bridal party names and measurements, your service providers’ details, a two page spread to plan your wedding budget, helpful advice on putting together your seating arrangements, space to write down your important wedding songs, and many many checklists that you never knew you needed)

    Shop it here!

    Since your bridesmaids and groomsmen will help ensure everything goes according to plan, why not show your appreciation for them with a small token of gratitude? Take your pick from these thoughtful and creative thank you gift ideas.

    FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS

    1. Transform an old glass jar into a lucky packet of pampering essentials or buy a cute zippered purse and fill it with her favourite items: lip gloss, mints, chocolate, a perfume sample, a hand mirror. Add a tag with a loving note and voila!

    2. If you’re having a winter wedding, consider gifting each bridesmaid with a pashmina or shawl in a colour that matches their dress or your overall colour scheme.

    3. For summer, try getting hold of paper fans. These will not only come in handy when the heat gets too much to bear, but can also serve as awesome props for photographs!

    4. If you and your bridesmaids are getting ready together, a cute silk robe is a nice gift and will foster bonding between you while you get ready.

    FOR THE GROOMSMEN

    1. Personalise a wooden box by filling it with a handy shaving kit: a brush, shaving cream and a delicious-smelling aftershave.

    2. An accessory such as a bow tie, cufflinks, pocket square or socks is an awesome addition to your groomsmen’s attire and will remind them of the day whenever they wear it.

    3. Customise a leather bracelet or keychain with each groomsman’s name.

    4. An instant camera will help encourage them to document your wedding in their own unique way.

    5. Buy inexpensive T-shirts or hoodies and get them monogrammed with a fun quote or saying that means something to all of you.

    Your ultimate skincare countdown to your wedding day to ensure your skin is the best it can be on your big day, plus our must-haves!

    6 MONTHS BEFORE

    If you’re looking to overhaul your skin in a matter of months, chemicals peels are one of the best and most cost-effective methods for facial rejuvenation. They target everything from tone, texture and fine lines to breakouts and general radiance – something every bride wants! Start with a course of four to six peels over the first month or so, followed by monthly maintenance sessions to keep your skin gorgeous.

    Kiehl’s Dermatologist Solutions Nightly Refining Micro-Peel Concentrate

    Chanel UV Essentiel Daily UV Care Multi-Protection Anti-Pollution SPF50+

    3 MONTHS BEFORE

    Looking for one ingredient that will change your skin in a big way? Retinol is a powerful antioxidant that refines texture, improves tone, boosts both cell renewal and collagen, and puts any embarrassing blemishes to bed. Start off slowly once a week to get your skin used to it and avoid unpleasant reactions, upping the dose as the weeks and months go by, and your skin gets stronger.

    OptiPhi Intense Retinol Serum

    Dr Dermal MicroRetinol 5 Rich Repair

    1 WEEK BEFORE

    And on the seventh day, she rested! Now is the time to stop stressing and start sleeping. Getting enough Zs in the week before your wedding is a crucial skincare step to give your skin time to repair itself and allow you to wake up feeling rested and energised.

    Elemis Biotec Skin Energising Night Cream

    The Body Shop Oils of Life Intensely Revitalising Sleeping Cream

    1 DAY BEFORE

    It’s almost here! The big day is only a sleep away, so give your skin some final TLC by applying a hydrating skincare serum or ampoule, followed by a moisturising mask. The combination will help to hydrate and plump up your skin, which allows your make-up to apply smoother and look fresher.

    Bioderma Hydrabio Masque Moisturising Mask

    Babor Hydra Plus Active Fluid Ampoule Concentrates

    Thinking of making your own wedding cake? With our help, it won’t be as daunting as it seems. We also know that you have flavours you go back to time and time again, but it’s your wedding day, the day to make a splash and to treat your guests, and yourself, to something extra special.

    1. FRENCH VANILLA AND LAVENDER CAKE WITH CARAMELISED WHITE CHOCOLATE GANACHE AND SALTED CARAMEL

    INGREDIENTS
    For the French vanilla and lavender sponge
    2 cups sugar
    4 eggs
    2½ cups flour
    1 cup milk
    ¾ cup vegetable oil
    2¼ tsp baking powder
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    1 tsp lavender essence (ask for it at your local baking store)
    1½ cups white sugar
    1 cup water
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    For the caramelised white chocolate
    200g white chocolate
    200 ml cream
    ½ tsp salt
    For the salted caramel
    ¼ cup water
    200g white sugar
    160 ml cream
    45g butter
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    1 tsp salt

    METHOD
    For the French vanilla and lavender sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and line two 23 cm round cake tins.
    2. Whisk sugar and eggs together until pale. Add flour, milk, oil, baking powder, vanilla and lavender. Beat for 1 minute, until smooth and creamy. Don’t overbeat.
    3. Pour into the prepared tins. Bake for 30-40 minutes, until golden and a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean.
    4. Place sugar, water and vanilla in a saucepan over medium heat. Allow the sugar to dissolve.
    5. Poke holes in the sponge and pour the syrup over the still-hot cake. Cool completely.
    For the caramelised white chocolate
    1. Preheat oven to 130°C.
    2. Place the white chocolate on a baking tray and bake for 45 minutes. Take it out every 10 minutes to mix.
    3. Once the chocolate has reached a deep golden colour, remove and place in a pot with the cream and salt. Bring to a simmer, then remove from heat.
    For the salted caramel
    1. In a medium pot over medium heat, heat the water and sugar. Stir constantly until the sugar has dissolved and starts to bubble.
    2. Increase the heat to high and bring to a boil, stop stirring completely. Let the mixture continue boiling until it turns an amber colour (this can take between 6–10 minutes).
    3. Remove from the heat and slowly whisk in the cream, working very carefully. Finally, mix in the butter, vanilla essence and salt.

    2. PINK CHAMPAGNE CAKE WITH VANILLA PASTRY CREAM AND CHAMPAGNE BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the pink Champagne sponge
    345g flour
    3 tsp baking powder
    1 tsp salt
    150g butter, softened
    325g caster sugar
    3-5 drops soft pink gel food colouring
    250 ml Champagne
    6 egg whites
    ½ tsp vanilla essence
    For the vanilla pastry cream
    1½ cups cream
    ½ cup sugar
    ¼ cup flour
    ¼ tsp salt
    4 large egg yolks
    1 tsp vanilla extract
    For the Champagne buttercream
    115g butter, softened
    380g icing sugar, sifted
    155 ml sparkling white wine

    METHOD
    For the pink Champagne sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Line three 23 cm round cake tins.
    2. Sift together the flour, baking powder and salt.
    3. In a separate bowl, cream the butter and sugar until very light and pale. Mix in the food colouring.
    4. Alternating between flour mixture and Champagne, combine and blend into the creamed butter mixture, until just mixed.
    5. In a large clean bowl, beat the egg whites until stiff peaks form. Gently fold into the mixture in three additions.’
    6. Divide evenly into your prepared pans. Bake for 30–35 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Allow to cool in the tins.
    For the vanilla pastry cream
    1. Warm the cream in a pot until boiling point, then remove from heat.
    2. In a medium bowl, whisk together sugar, flour and salt. Whisk in the egg yolks to form a thick paste.
    3. Pour a little of the hot cream into the egg mixture and whisk to combine. Continue slowly adding the cream, whisking continuously. Then pour everything back into the pot.
    4. Cook over medium heat, whisking continually. When thickened, add the vanilla.
    5. Pass through a sieve to ensure a smooth consistency.
    For the Champagne buttercream
    1. Beat butter in an electric mixer until light and fluffy. Gradually add in the sifted icing sugar.
    2. When the mixture starts to get too thick to mix smoothly, start adding the sparkling wine in three batches, before mixing in more icing sugar.
    3. Continue to beat in icing sugar, and sparkling white wine, until all of the icing sugar is incorporated and desired consistency is reached.

    3. PINOT NOIR CAKE WITH DARK CHOCOLATE ITALIAN PASTRY CREAM AND CHOCOLATE ESPRESSO BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the Pinot Noir sponge
    400 ml Pinot Noir
    ½ cup sugar
    3-4 drops red food colouring (optional)
    400g white sugar
    ⅔ cup vegetable oil
    4 large eggs
    1 tsp vanilla extract
    400g cake flour
    ½ tsp salt
    1½ tsp baking powder
    1 tsp bicarbonate of soda
    120 ml buttermilk
    110g sour cream
    For the dark chocolate Italian pastry cream
    100g dark chocolate
    ¾ cup full-cream milk
    ¾ cup cream
    4 egg yolks
    ½ cup sugar
    ¼ cup flour
    For the chocolate espresso buttercream
    1 cup butter, softened
    4 cups icing sugar
    ¾ cup cocoa powder
    2-3 tsp vanilla essence
    3-4 tbsp espresso
    ½ cup ground coffee, optional

    METHOD
    For the Pinot Noir sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and flour three 23 cm cake tins.
    2. Start the syrup by placing the Pinot Noir and the ½ cup sugar in a pot. Simmer until the sugar is dissolved. Set aside to cool. Mix in the food colouring.
    3. Beat the sugar, oil, eggs and vanilla for one minute until combined. Sift in the flour, salt, baking powder and bicarb. Whisk until just combined.
    4. Whisk together the buttermilk, sour cream and Pinot Noir syrup until combined. Gradually add the sugar and flour mixture.
    5. Divide between the prepared tins and bake for 25-30 minutes, until a toothpick comes out clean. Cool in the tins for 10 minutes and then turn out on to wire racks to cool.
    For the dark chocolate Italian pastry cream
    1. Melt chocolate either in the microwave or in a glass bowl over a pot of boiling water. Set aside to cool to warm.
    2. In a pot, heat the milk and cream (do not boil). Remove from the heat and set aside.
    3. In a bowl, whisk the egg yolks, sugar and flour. Pour a little of the hot cream into the egg mixture and whisk to combine. Then slowly add the rest, whisking continuously. Pour everything back into the pot over medium heat and whisk until thickened.
    4. Fold in the melted chocolate.
    For the chocolate espresso buttercream
    1. Combine all the ingredients in a bowl and beat for 5-7 minutes, until light and fluffy.
    2. Add more icing sugar if you want a heavier icing, or a dash of milk to thin it out.

    4. HUMMINGBIRD CAKE WITH POPPYSEED CREAM CHEESE AND SALTED HONEY BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the hummingbird sponge
    1 cup pecans or walnuts, chopped
    370g cake flour
    1 tsp  bicarbonate of soda
    1 tsp baking powder
    1½ tsp ground cinnamon
    ½ tsp allspice
    ½ tsp salt
    2 cups mashed banana (4 ripe bananas)
    230g crushed pineapple
    3 large eggs, at room temperature
    160 ml vegetable oil
    350g brown sugar
    2 tsp vanilla essence
    For the poppyseed cream cheese
    230g cream cheese
    Zest of 1 lemon
    1 tsp poppy seeds
    ¼ cup icing sugar
    For the salted honey buttercream
    1 cup butter, softened
    5 cups icing sugar
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    75 ml cream
    4 tbsp honey, optional
    ½ tsp sea salt flakes

    METHOD
    For the hummingbird sponge
    1. Preheat the oven to 150°C.
    2. Spread the nuts on a lined baking tray. Toast for 8 minutes. Remove from the oven.
    3. Turn oven up to 180°C. Grease and lightly flour three 23 cm cake tins.
    4. In a large bowl, whisk the flour, bicarb, baking powder, cinnamon, allspice and salt.
    5. Place the remaining ingredients in a blender and blend until just combined.
    6. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry and whisk until completely combined. Fold in the toasted nuts.
    7. Divide the batter evenly between the cake tins. Bake for 25-30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the centre comes out clean.
    8. Remove cakes from the oven and allow to cool completely in the tins set on a wire rack.
    For the poppyseed cream cheese
    1. Whisk all the ingredients together until well combined.
    For the salted honey buttercream
    1. In a bowl, combine all the ingredients. Beat for 5-7 minutes, until light and fluffy.

    5. CHOCOLATE MUD CAKE WITH GRAPEFRUIT CURD AND ITALIAN MERINGUE

    INGREDIENTS
    For the chocolate mud sponge
    1 cup unsalted butter
    200g dark chocolate (we used 70%)
    2 cups white sugar
    ½ cup cocoa powder
    300 ml strong hot coffee
    1 tbsp vanilla essence
    3 large eggs
    285g flour
    1 tsp baking powder
    ½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
    ½ tsp salt
    For the grapefruit curd
    ¼ cup cornflour
    2 cups grapefruit juice
    6 egg yolks
    Zest of 1 grapefruit
    1¼ cups white sugar
    ¼ tsp salt
    200g chilled butter
    For the Italian meringue
    2 egg whites
    1 cup sugar
    ½ cup water
    1 tbsp icing sugar

    METHOD
    For the chocolate mud sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and line three round 23 cm cake tins.
    2. Melt the butter and chocolate together in a microwave-proof bowl. Whisk every 30 seconds until completely melted.
    3. Whisk in the sugar followed by the cocoa powder, until fully incorporated.
    4. Slowly add hot coffee and vanilla whisking until smooth.
    5. Whisk in the eggs one at a time.
    6. Combine the flour, baking powder, bicarb and salt in a large mixer bowl. Gradually pour in the chocolate mixture. Beat on medium speed for 1 minute.
    7. Pour into cake tins and bake for 35-40 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Allow to cool in the tins for 10 minutes, then turn out on to a cooling rack to cool completely.
    For the grapefruit curd
    1. Make a slurry with the cornflour and ½ cup of the grapefruit juice. Set aside.
    2. Mix the egg yolks, zest, sugar, salt and the rest of the grapefruit juice in a pot. Place on medium heat and bring to the boil.
    3. Slowly add the cornflour mixture and allow to thicken for 2–3 minutes, whisking continuously.
    4. Remove from heat and whisk in the butter.
    For the Italian meringue
    1. Place the egg whites in a clean, dry glass bowl. Beat on medium speed until stiff peaks form.Whisk in ¼ cup of the sugar to stabilise.
    2. In a pot, combine water and ¾ cup sugar and place over medium heat. The syrup is ready when thin threads of syrup form when lifting a dipped-in spoon and the last few drops stay on the spoon.
    3. Immediately start adding it to the egg whites in a thin stream, while beating on high.
    4. Beat for a further 5 minutes on low to cool down, then add the icing sugar.

    Want to jet off to a tropical island for your ceremony? Or do you have your heart set on the big-city lights? No matter the location, your destination wedding can go as smoothly as checking off this list.

    RESEARCH FIRST

    The legal side of getting married abroad can be quite lengthy and tedious, with many couples opting to get married legally in South Africa before heading overseas to exchange rings and vows. South Africans who want to get married abroad will need a Certificate of No Impediment from Home Affairs to prove that neither partner is registered as married, a divorce order if one of you was previously married and a Residency Certificate to prove where you currently live. Basically, the government of the country you’re visiting needs to be notified of the marriage in their country before you can get married there. Not all countries will have the same requirements, so it’s best to get in touch with your local Home Affairs branch and contact the foreign country’s South African embassy ahead of the time.

    TIMING IS EVERYTHING

    Unfortunately, most popular wedding destinations are also popular vacation spots, which means more tourists and higher prices. Read up on the best time to visit your venue without sacrificing on great weather. It will also make the experience less stressful if you’ve already spent time planning and meeting with your vendors. Hire a local coordinator instead of bringing one from home. You will feel much more at ease knowing they are familiar with the environment, and they’ll also be able to recommend suitable suppliers.

    A PICTURE (AND REVIEW) IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS

    If the destination you plan to get married at is a resort or offers accommodation, scour the internet for TripAdvisor reviews. This will give you an overall impression of the establishment and you’ll have the added bonus of being able to see photos that aren’t on their official site.

    ACCESS ALL AREAS

    Try and keep the venue central. Make sure it’s convenient for your guests and organise transport for them to the venue to ensure they get there safe and sound. You can also use a free website builder to help keep your guests in the loop every step of the way – without the hassle of back-and-forth texts, emails and calls. Create a page where people can find helpful answers for accommodation options, budgets and travel time. If you have a relatively small wedding party, you can also create a WhatsApp group in the days leading up to the wedding.

    ULTIMATE ADVENTURE

    Add a couple of planned events around the wedding day so your guests can mingle with each other more and explore the destination. This is a great way to show people places they might not have chosen to go and will help them make a holiday from the trip – they are there to celebrate your union but also want to make their trip worthwhile.

    DISASTER MANAGEMENT

    Ensure your dress, groom’s suit and bridesmaids outfits have been taken care of before you leave home. The last thing you want to do is last-minute sewing! Stay on the safe side and pack your dress and his suit in your carry-on luggage, and ask your bridesmaids and groomsmen to do the same. If your luggage does get lost or arrives late, you can rest assured you have the important bits with you.

    PRETTY PREP

    Make appointments for any beauty treatments you plan on getting before you get there. To ensure you look amazing for your photographs, skip the make-up while flying and make sure you drink a lot of water during the flight. It’s also a good idea to have all your wedding stationery– menus, seating charts and place settings –printed beforehand. Be prepared to add an extra suitcase of decor items you think you may need, as you won’t always find everything you want in a foreign place.

    ALL HANDS ON DECK

    Since you are more than likely only going to invite a small crowd of close family and friends to your destination wedding, you’ll know these are the people who you can rely on. They willwant to help where they can, so instead of taking things into your own hands, delegate certain tasks to those who are keen to lend a hand.

    Here in SA, we’re spoilt with beautiful landscapes that make for breathtaking bridal photos. But, with unpredictable weather in many places, it takes solid planning to pull off the perfect outdoor wedding. Use these tips to make sure yours is an affair to remember.

    1. SOUND THE BELLS!

    Whether you decide on a dreamy beach wedding or to say your vows at the edge of a dramatic cliff, get the audio right. The last thing you want is your voice getting lost in the sound of crashing waves or a gentle breeze, leaving your audience (or even your beau!) trying to make out what you’re saying. If you’re using a videographer, bear in mind the quality of the audio during playback. Get a microphone system hooked up to the closest power source, and if you’re using wireless microphones, make sure the batteries are fully charged. The same goes for the music, entertainment and speeches at the reception.

    2. A MONKEY’S WEDDING

    As the saying goes, if the sun is shining and it’s raining, a monkey’s about to get married. So take notes and don’t greenlight your Plan B if it pours on the morning of your big day but your outdoor ceremony or reception is only later in the afternoon. While we agree it’s only practical to let your guests know the venue has changed, the rain may stop in time. Instead, use a canopy or arrange umbrellas if you’re expecting a light drizzle. For longer ceremonies or the chance of heavier rainfall, ensure you have spoken to your venue about a contingency plan. Remember: rain is said to bring good luck to a couple on their wedding day, and can make for some memorable candid photos too.

    3. LIGHT IT UP

    You’ve browsed Pinterest, ogled at different photographers’ sites, and may even be sold on the idea of an outdoor wedding solely because of the beautiful lighting opportunities it lends. Whether you are after a magical enchanted forest look with thousands of fairy lights hanging from trees or a beachy do with strings of Consol jars hung from beams and paper lanterns lodged in the sand, keep it all well lit and as hazard-free as possible. If your ceremony is around twilight, max out on the amazing golden light two hours before sunset. The flattering natural light + your own beautiful additions = mesmerising photo perfection.

    4. EVERYONE’S INVITED!

    Everyone should feel welcome, including your pregnant cousin or frail uncle, so try to make your wedding as accessible as possible. The key here is structure and practicality, and you don’t have to forfeit aesthetics in favour of this. You may be working with an open space, but use lighting and decor to contain it and make sure everyone has a great time. Think about wheelchair access (smooth walkways), steady ground (mats and rugs on the beach, for example) and close proximity to amenities.

    5. SITTING PRETTY

    Make sure there’s enough comfortable seating and mingling space for everyone. This is especially important for a more casual affair. Think couches, benches and swing chairs in neutral colours that you can customise with the textures and colours of the wedding.

    With a nod to this fashion capital, this project is quick and easy for the busy bride. Give a romantic air to a city wedding with these London skyline candle cut-outs.

    WHAT YOU’LL NEED

    Printout of London skyline
    Scissors
    Cutting board
    NT cutter
    Craft glue
    Tea lights

    METHOD

    1. Cut out your picture around the top of the buildings to create the shape of the skyline.

    2. Place your picture on the cutting board and use the NT cutter to cut out any windows, doors or other details.

    3. Glue one end of your skyline to the other to complete the candle shade. Place it around a tea light candle.

    Want to keep your honeymoon local without sacrificing on luxury? Drostdy Hotel in the Eastern Cape town of Graaff-Reinet could be where your memories are made. This boutique hotel features an Africology spa, state-of-the-art gym and choice of three swimming pools surrounded by gardens. If you can drag yourself away from the pampering, there are plenty of historic sites to visit in SA’s fourth oldest town and mesmerising natural beauty in nearby Camdeboo National Park.