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    Couples value experiences over material items. Gone are the days of over-the-top, grandiose weddings that are more about the pomp and flash than the couple. As we become more aware of our impact on the environment, couples are making responsible choices when tying the knot.

    A wedding is about love and commitment. What better way to celebrate your love and the environment than in nature itself? One South African establishment, Monate Game Lodge, offers it all. Located in Modimolle in the Waterberg district of Limpopo, Monate is a 4-star luxury bushveld accommodation, conference and wedding venue where you can truly live out your African dream.

    Monate allows couples to fall in love with each other and their surroundings, without the distraction of excess. Whether your wedding is big or small, the team at this 3000 hectare private game reserve will strive to add that personal touch, tailoring each event to every unique pair. Couples can say their ‘I do’s’ underneath their Rock Fig, a majestic Marula tree in a natural cave or in the unique bush boma. If you like traditional, the chapel is at your disposal too.

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    The main lodge offers 38 spacious and comfortable modern double rooms and two luxury villas. For extra privacy, the exclusive Shingwedzi and Skukuza Lodges offer a deluxe upgrade.

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    Naturally, a trip to a game reserve is not complete without a game drive! Unwind after your big day with a guided journey through the bushveld area, taking in the sights of buffalo, giraffe, hippopotamus, zebra, a large variety of antelope, and close to 50% of the bird species found in South Africa.

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    Experience a dream bushveld wedding come true at Monate Game Lodge. A venue where love falls in love again! For their wedding packages, contact 014 718 7000 or [email protected]

    Also read: Now trending: Bushveld weddings

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    Experiencing the world with your loved-one is always a special way to spend your time. If you know a fun-loving couple who are constantly hearing the call of the wild, why not spoil them with gifts for their passion?

    Today, modern couples are putting experiences over material possessions, and seeing the world is on the top of their to-do list. However, there are some items they’ll need when on their travels. Your travel-loving newlyweds will most likely be planning an epic honeymoon, and these gifts will definitely come in handy.

    Packing cube set of 3 – navy – R299 from Superbalist

    Fjällräven Kånken mini – R1 699 from Fjällräven

    Volkano Rhapsody Series Active Noise Cancelling Bluetooth Headphones – R628 on Takealot

    Canvas Barrel Bag – R399.99 from Typo

    Marble Base Monochrome Globe – R399 from Woolworths

    Lifestraw Water Purifier – R399.00 from Outdoor Warehouse

    Matching personalised Heart Photo Fleece Gown – R599.95 each via Netflorist

    Lucky Johnny Bahama Hammock – R499 from Sportsmans Warehouse

    Canon Zoemini Photo Printer – R 1,499 from Takealot

    Vegan leather travel pouch (18c21cm) – R 449.00 each from @Home

    Iconix Inflatable Travel Pillow with Head & Arm Rests – R269 each from Takealot

    Tuff-Luv Electronics Accessories Travel Organize Bag – R278 on Loot

    Bonus: A place-based photoshoot for wherever they plan to travel – price upon request

     

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    Your wedding look is one of the most important parts of your big day, and you want to look your absolute best. That’s why choosing the right look, and the right makeup artist, are so essential. Sometimes, you’re not exactly sure what you want or what would work for you. Your makeup artist should be the one to give advice, help you try out different styles and ultimately just get you.

    We chatted to Rachelle Froneman, Makeup Expert and Retail Manager for Eastgate Partnered Free Standing MAC Cosmetics to get the inside scoop on how to get the best from your makeup artist, so they can make you shine.

    Q: What is trending in wedding makeup in 2020?

    A: Fresh face, soft and romantic colors that enhance your natural beauty. Choosing a classic look for your wedding will never go out of style.

    Q: How do you help a bride decide on her wedding look?

    A: I always ask the bride about her theme and style for the wedding first. Then we can create a look for her, choosing either a lip focus or an eye focus. It’s great when brides come with a reference of a makeup look they like and then we can customize it to her skin tone, eye shape and face shape.

    Q: What part of doing a client’s makeup is the hardest for artists?

    A: When the client is unsure of what she wants, it feels like a guessing game and can sometimes get frustrating for both the client and the artist.

    Q: What do brides do that makes your job harder?

    A: Telling us what to do in every aspect of the makeup application. It makes the artist feel like the bride would rather just do it themselves!

    Q: What are things brides should keep in mind when hiring a makeup artist?

    Cancelling at the last minute makes things really hard on everyone. Also keep in mind that you booked your artist for a specific time frame to be able to finish the makeup and asking them to also just “quickly” do the cousin’s makeup too and the aunt and three other bridesmaids for free, is not cool. Makeup is a skill that artists study and practice for years, and it would be unfair to expect the artists to do more than you pay for.

    Q: What is your favorite part of doing makeup for a wedding?

    The end result! Seeing everything come together and the look on the bride’s face. It really is a glow like no other.

    Q: And your least favourite part? Why?

    Cleaning make up brushes…it looks like a makeup explosion in your kit.

    Q: Any interesting requests you have had?

    Nothing funny or weird, but brides always want you to drink champagne with them and celebrate! And most times the bride wants to take you home with them to be their personal makeup artist, which is quite a compliment.

    Here are some looks created by Rachelle:

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    Mismatched bridesmaid dresses have been trending for years now, and its easy to see why. Allowing your favourite girls and guys to find their perfect fit and complimentary colour does wonders for a bridal party.

    Whether it’s with varying tones or textures, there are many ways to pull off a mismatched bridal party. Here are a few ideas to inspire you.

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    Also read: How to pull off mismatched bridesmaid dresses

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    Get inspired by nature and incorporate your favourite plants into your wedding decor. These invites are bursting with natural beauty yet modern and elegant.

    Greenery is a popular trend in 2020 and you can incorporate it into your big day from your wedding invites all the way to your take-home favours. Botanical-inspired wedding invitations add a fresh, lively look that is the perfect way to introduce your wedding day in style. Here are some ideas to guide your way:

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    Also read: Botanical wedding inspiration for nature lovers

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    Your walk down the aisle is a magical moment, and you’ll want the scenery to reflect that. Line your path with stunning decor that beautifully pave your way to your loved one.

    Considering the small space of an aisle, you don’t need to go big with decor. Simple floral bouquets or even signs will do wonders. Extend your wedding theme with specific flowers and colours to connect your ceremony to your reception.

    Gather some inspiration from these wonderful walkways.

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    Who doesn’t love a good glow? For the last few years, highlighter has become a crucial makeup step for many beauty lovers. Show off those popping cheekbones with a shimmering streak of highlighter that will liven up your look on your big day.

    Highlighters come in a variety of shades to work for any skin tone. Whether you’re looking for a rose gold, pearl, golden or bronze finish, these tried and tested formulas will leave you looking like a glowing goddess. Here are our top picks:

    Wet n Wild Megaglo Highlighting Powder Blossom Glow – R64.95 from Clicks

    MAC Extra Dimension Skin Finish – R 495.00 from MAC South Africa

    NYX Professional Makeup Born To Glow Liquid Illuminator Pure Gold – R159.95 from Clicks

    Maybelline Master Chrome Metallic Highlighter – R 265 from Dischem

    Benefit High Beam Liquid Highlighter – R195 from Edgars

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    The million dollar question! If you were in a serious relationship before dating your current partner, you might wonder how to go about it. You can’t deny that they were a significant part of your life, but you also don’t want to create unnecessary tension or make anyone uncomfortable, least of all yourself or your new partner.

    So, if it’s something you’re considering, it largely depends on a few factors. Keep these in mind when making your decision:

    Do you have a relaxed friendship with them? If so, and hopefully in that case they are friends with your current partner too, of course you should invite them. That probably means you broke up on good terms and have put the past behind you. We say go for it.

    If, however, things did not end on a good note and there is unfinished business, or unresolved feelings from their side (hopefully not from yours!), then it might be a no-go. You might think you are just being polite, but the truth is, you don’t owe them anything. Having them there might just create opportunity for a scene you don’t want.

    If they are the plus-one of an invited guest, but you did not actually plan on inviting your ex, discuss this with your partner and the invited guest. If it makes you or your spouse uncomfortable, you can talk to the guest and sensitively explain why you don’t think it’s a good idea. Any reasonable person would understand if they are made aware of the situation.

    Lastly, in which ever scenario you find yourself, avoid two things: Trying to make your ex jealous with your new partner, and disregarding your new partner’s feelings. If you’re trying to make anyone jealous, you might have to work on some issues and make sure you really are over your ex. Remember, your new life with your new partner should kick off with a happy start and if it would hurt them, we say don’t go there. It’s not worth it.

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    Livingstone is one of the most popularly visited locations in Zambia. The town is only 10 kilometres from the Zambezi River and is the hub for tourists looking to visit the Victoria Falls.

    Boasting the title of home to one of the Seven Natural Wonders of the World, the town is perfect for a romantic getaway. Not only is there stunning natural elements, but the town is steeped in history too.

    Here are some things you should get up to with your partner when you visit Livingstone:

    – Visit the Victoria Falls 

    Being one of the Seven Natural Wonders of the World, it would be a huge mistake to miss the Victoria Falls. It’s not every day you get to witness things like this, and to see it with your loved one by your side makes it that much more special.

    It’s likely that you’ll catch a very special rainbow show too – the side effect of tons of water flowing over the edge of the cliff.

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    – Take a dip in the Devil’s Pool 

    While the name sounds scary, the activity is a must-do. It is the perfect way to top off your visit to the Victoria Falls.

    The pool is located on the very edge of the waterfall. Get your heart racing as you stare down at the unnervingly drop, and get the adrenaline rush that’ll make your romantic getaway unforgettable.

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    – Visit The Elephant Café

    This sanctuary allows you to get a glimpse of some wildlife, ethically. The elephants have been rescued from dangerous situations such as culling and drought and are kept here where they roam freely.

    After spending some time with these gentle giants, you can have a delicious meal at the café. Relax on the wooden deck and experience a meal like you never have before.

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    – Take a sunset cruise on the Zambezi River 

    Sit back, relax, and take in the views with a drink in hand. Sundowners are a staple of any getaway, but sundowners on a river cruise makes for the perfect romantic activity.

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    – Visit the Livingstone Museum 

    Learn about the town, its history and its culture. You’ll gain some interesting knowledge and see some cool exhibitions, including a life-sized village display. Add a dose of culture to your romantic getaway!

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    – Have a fancy meal on a steam train 

    Taking you on a sunset ride on the Victoria Falls Bridge,  the Royal Livingston Express will be a trip that you never forget. Indulge in some fancy, local cuisine as you take in the sights and sounds from the window of the old school train.

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    If your friend loves to have a good time, you might as well join the party. Get creative with your wedding present by gifting something that will add to the festivities. From a racy game of Cards Against Humanity to a Fujifilm Instax mini camera, these gifts are sure to have your newlyweds loving their new lives.

    Spoil the host with the most in your life with one of these fun gifts.

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    2l carafe with oak stopper – R549 on Superbalist

    Cards Against Humanity – R995 on Wizards

    Crystal White Wine Glasses (set of 4) – R260 on Woolworths

    SA Craft Gin Tasting Box – R600 from The Gin Box

    Nachtmann Noblesse Shot Glasses (Set of 4) – R249 on YuppieChef

    Fujifilm Instax Mini 9 Camera – R1 089 on Takealot

    JBL GO 2 Waterproof Bluetooth Speakers – R499.90 on Sportsmans Warehouse

    Mellerware Popcorn Maker – R549 on Makro

    Nespresso Cappuccino Cups (set of 2) – R449 on Nespresso

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