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    Once upon a time, saying “I do” in your early twenties felt like a given. Today? Not so much. South Africans are rewriting the rules of romance, choosing to marry later, more intentionally, and often with a clearer sense of self.

    ALSO SEE: The latest marriage statistics in South Africa

    The latest marriage statistics in South Africa

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    New data from Statistics South Africa (Stats SA) highlights a clear shift in South Africa’s relationship landscape: fewer people are getting married, while divorce rates are increasing, with women continuing to file for the majority of cases.

    But beyond the numbers, the data also points to something more meaningful: couples are approaching marriage with greater intention, and individuals are making more informed decisions about long-term commitment.

    Marriages continue to decline

    In 2024, South Africa recorded 102 373 marriages and unions, down 2.6% from 2023. Since 2015, marriages have decreased by 28.5%.

    Civil marriages followed the same pattern, declining to 97 510 in 2024. This steady drop suggests that many couples are choosing to marry later, taking more time before formalising their relationships.

    Divorce numbers are rising

    A total of 24 202 divorces were granted in 2024 — an 8.9% increase from the previous year.

    Women filed for 57.2% of these divorces, continuing a consistent trend. This reflects greater access to legal processes, as well as increased financial independence and decision-making power.

    Provincial breakdown

    Divorce cases initiated by women were highest in Gauteng (31.0%), followed by the Western Cape (18.6%) and KwaZulu-Natal (13.8%).

    Who is filing for divorce?

    Most women filing for divorce in 2024 were ending their first marriage (89.1%). The highest number of divorces occurred among women aged 40 to 44, followed by those aged 35 to 39.

    In most cases (70.7%), women were younger than their spouses.

    Employment and independence

    Of the women who filed for divorce, 44.6% were employed, many in professional, technical, managerial, and administrative roles. Financial stability gives individuals more control over major life decisions, including whether to stay in a marriage.

    When marriages end

    The largest share of divorces (26.7%) occurred in marriages lasting five to nine years, followed by 10 to 14 years (21.3%). Overall, 41.7% of divorces involved marriages that lasted less than a decade.

    A shift towards intentional commitment

    While the number of marriages is declining, the data suggests a move towards more considered, intentional unions. Many couples are choosing to marry later, after establishing careers and gaining life experience.

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    (Don’t) put a ring on it

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    When images of Zendaya and Tom Holland seemingly tying the knot began circulating online, fans didn’t hesitate to believe the fairytale. Set against the romantic stillness of Lake Como, the pictures looked convincingly real.

    There was just one catch: every single image was AI-generated.

    A viral illusion

    The photos spread like wildfire across Instagram and X, with millions liking, sharing and — crucially — believing what they were seeing. While some posts included small disclaimers labelling the images as “artistic recreations,” the detail was easy to miss in a sea of double taps.

    “They’re not real”

    Speaking on Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Zendaya addressed the moment with a kind of amused disbelief that feels very on-brand.

    While she was out in the real world, people were stopping her to gush over her “wedding photos”. Her response was simple: the images weren’t real.

    Even more surprising? It wasn’t just fans who were convinced. People in her own circle had seen the images and assumed they were legitimate, with some jokingly offended that they hadn’t been invited.

    Of course, the internet didn’t pull this narrative out of thin air. Rumours around the couple’s relationship have been quietly building for a while. Stylist Law Roach previously hinted that a wedding may have already taken place.

    Then came Paris Fashion Week, where Zendaya stepped out wearing a gold band, and suddenly speculation had something visual to latch onto.

     

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    The reality behind the romance

    Zendaya and Holland’s real-life love story began on the set of Spider-Man: Homecoming, and since then, they’ve become one of Hollywood’s most quietly adored couples.

    They’re set to reunite again in Spider-Man: Brand New Day, with more shared screen time on the horizon, including The Odyssey.

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    Lily Collins reunited with her engagement ring three years after it was stolen

    Source: Adapted from reporting by BBC News.

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    Wedding trends rarely land the same way across borders, and in South Africa, couples tend to favour celebrations that feel grounded, expressive and connected to place. Weddings are becoming less about spectacle and more about intention, with design choices that balance beauty, meaning and practicality.

    These 2026 wedding trends reflect how South African couples are redefining their wedding days in ways that feel considered, personal and distinctly local.

    A richer approach to colour

    Neutral palettes remain popular, but in 2026 they are being layered with deeper, earth-led tones. Shades such as olive, terracotta, chocolate brown and warm caramel are appearing across florals, stationery and table styling, often lifted with a subtle accent colour rather than bold contrast.

    This approach works particularly well in natural settings, whether in the Winelands, along the coast or in the bush, where colour can enhance the environment rather than compete with it.

    Bridal fashion with individuality

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    South African brides are increasingly confident in their choices. Structured bodices, detachable skirts, statement sleeves and refined detailing are replacing overly embellished gowns. While white remains dominant, softer tones and textural fabrics are becoming more visible, especially for second looks or smaller celebrations.

    Dress codes are also loosening, allowing guests to interpret the aesthetic while still respecting the formality of the day.

    Food that reflects place and season

    Dining continues to move away from lengthy, formal sit-down meals. In 2026, couples are favouring seasonal menus, shared-style dining and relaxed pacing that allows guests to move, mingle and enjoy the atmosphere.

    Locally sourced ingredients, open-fire cooking, curated wine pairings and thoughtful late-night offerings reflect a growing appreciation for food as part of the overall experience, without becoming overly performative.

    Tablescapes that feel natural, not overstyled

    Long tables, considered linen choices and layered textures remain central to reception styling. Rather than highly theatrical setups, South African weddings lean towards tablescapes that feel refined yet effortless.

    Ceramic tableware, glassware with character and floral arrangements that echo the surrounding landscape create settings that photograph beautifully while remaining functional and welcoming.

    Florals with purpose

    Floral design in 2026 is less about abundance for its own sake and more about placement and impact. Grounded installations, sculptural arrangements and aisle meadows are favoured over towering structures.

    Florals are increasingly used to guide guests through a space, frame key moments or highlight architectural features, particularly at venues where the natural backdrop already does much of the work.

    Private vows gain popularity

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    Private vow exchanges are becoming one of the most meaningful 2026 wedding trends. Many couples are choosing to share their vows quietly before the ceremony, allowing for an intimate moment away from guests and cameras.

    Personalisation without excess

    Rather than personalised everything, couples are choosing a few meaningful details and doing them well. Handwritten notes, subtle monograms, custom menus or a carefully chosen ceremony reading often replace multiple decorative elements.

    Photography with an editorial eye

    South African photographers continue to lead the shift towards a documentary, editorial style. Natural light, movement and unposed moments are prioritised, resulting in imagery that feels timeless and emotive rather than overly styled.

    Smaller guest lists, stronger experiences

    While large weddings still have their place, many 2026 celebrations are becoming more intimate. Smaller guest lists allow couples to invest in quality, detail and time with their guests, particularly at destination venues.

    What’s quietly fading

    Highly coordinated bridal parties, rigid timelines and overly formal traditions are becoming less common. Couples are choosing flexibility, comfort and authenticity, shaping days that feel reflective of who they are rather than what’s expected.

    ALSO SEE: The wedding colour trend that quietly won us over in 2025

    The wedding colour trend that quietly won us over in 2025

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    Kim Cattrall has married her partner of nearly a decade, marking a joyful new chapter for the 69-year-old star best known for her role as Samantha Jones in Sex and the City.

    The actress tied the knot with audio engineer Russell Thomas on 4 December in a small ceremony attended by just 12 guests. Styled by iconic Sex and the City costume designer Patricia Field, Cattrall’s wedding look added a nostalgic nod to the character that made her a global favourite.

    Cattrall and Thomas first met in 2016 when she appeared on BBC Radio’s Woman’s Hour, where he was working behind the scenes. The pair kept in touch, began dating shortly after, and have been together for nine years. Thomas, 14 years younger than Cattrall, has been described by her as “a rebel” with a wicked sense of humour.

    In a recent interview, she said their relationship is defined by its ease. “I’m very comfortable around him. He’s a firecracker… and he’s easy on the eyes,” she told People.

     

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    A colourful romantic history

    Cattrall has been married three times before. Her first marriage, to writer Larry Davis, was annulled in 1979. She went on to marry German architect Andre J. Lyson in 1982, with the couple divorcing seven years later. Her third marriage, to musician Mark Levinson, began in 1998 and included their much-publicised collaboration on the 2002 book Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm. They split in 2004.

    Over the years, she has also been linked to notable figures, including Pierre Trudeau, Daniel Benzali, Gerald Casale and Bernard-Henri Lévy.

    Open about a child-free life

    Cattrall has long spoken honestly about choosing not to have children, explaining that maternal fulfilment can take many forms. “I am not a biological parent, but I am a parent,” she has said, citing her close relationships with mentees, nieces and nephews. In past essays, she noted that societal pressure once made her question her path, but ultimately she chose a life aligned with her instincts, not expectations.

    A happy ending

    After decades of navigating love in the public eye, Cattrall’s fourth marriage marks a fresh start with a partner she describes as both grounding and adventurous. Nearly 20 years after Sex and the City ended, the actress who embodied one of TV’s most commitment-averse characters appears to have found her perfect match — and a love story all her own.

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    Venus Williams shares the sweetest engagement moments

    Written by Jade McGee for Woman&Home.

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    A rare Dom Pérignon Vintage 1961, created for the wedding of H.R.H. The Prince of Wales and Lady Diana, will soon go on auction at Bruun Rasmussen. The bottle is one of the few remaining from the royal celebration and is expected to draw major interest.

    A royal bottle with a big price tag

    The 1981 wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana is still known as the “Wedding of the Century.” Now, more than 40 years later, collectors can buy a piece of that moment. Bruun Rasmussen will offer a magnum of Dom Pérignon Vintage 1961 on 11 December. It carries an estimated value of EUR 67,000–80,000, which is roughly R1.3 million to R1.55 million.

    Dom Pérignon created this special release for the royal wedding on 29 July 1981. Guests enjoyed it after the ceremony at St Paul’s Cathedral and during the reception at Buckingham Palace.

    “Vintage 1961 is one of Dom Pérignon’s most celebrated vintages. The bottles for the royal wedding came from a very small run, which makes them extremely rare,” says Thomas Rosendahl, Head of the Wine Department at Bruun Rasmussen.

    Each bottle was disgorged in 1981 and finished with a commemorative label marking the occasion. This detail makes the release even more collectible.

    Rosendahl explains why the bottle is such a standout piece:
    “It’s more than a great vintage. It’s a cultural artefact linked to an unforgettable royal event. We expect strong international interest from wine collectors and fans of royal memorabilia.”

    The magnum will appear at the Bruun Rasmussen auction on 11 December.

    ALSO SEE: What Wines & Drinks to Serve at Weddings in 2025

    What Wines & Drinks to Serve at Weddings in 2025

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    In the digital era, making announcements for any occasion is pretty common. You know your friend from high school has declared a certain breakfast spot ‘utterly ideal’, your co-worker’s announcement of their newest plant-child, and your younger sibling’s every move.

    However, there are some announcements that still remain somewhat sacred in the land of social media, and your wedding or engagement announcement sits at the top of the tree.

    So, how do you do it ‘right?’ As in, how do you not come off as obnoxious, or how do you meander coming across a little too nonchalant (to the point where people might wonder if you’re even excited?)

    Do you go for the flashy carousal post where everyone gets to see the entire story – from the spot you thought you were simply having dinner at to the ultimate star on your finger, or do you play it lowkey and post a snippet of the magic?

    Here are some tips to keep in your back pocket on how to announce your special news on social media: 

    1. Make sure those closest to your heart about it before you go live on socials:

    The last thing you want to rain on your engagement parade is an unhappy friend or family member. Before you break the internet, make sure you tell those closest to your heart first, and especially those who will certainly see it on social media first.

    2. Use photos that are meaningful to you, or do a shoot

    Not everyone grabs perfect photos from their engagement moment. Your nails might not be on point, your partner may be wearing the same outfit as in your last post, or all the photos are blurry. Now, you may be part of a pretty funky couple that sees these as part of their own chill aesthetic, and if that sounds like your relationship then go for it in posting. Instagram especially is long past its curated look, with photo-dumps showing more organic life ruling the roost. However, if you really want to go the full 9-yards and have a little shoot (either professionally or at the trust hands of your phone camera on timer) then that’s amazing too. The bottom line here is to use photos that are meaningful to your relationship – not glossy photos that aren’t you or your partner, or an obscure ring that isn’t even yours found on the Internet.

    3. Use a caption that speaks to your relationship and your audience simultaneously

    It’s a special announcement and so no matter which platform you’re using (par Twitter) a longer caption is more than allowed. However, you can also keep it short and sweet by using a quote from a song, film or book that says it all. You can even stick to the same emoji you have next to your partner’s name on your phone if you want, but the key focus here is using a caption that again, is special to your relationship and won’t be uncomfortable for your audience. Ie: Telling your audience that you’re better than everyone else because you won’t die alone is probably not a good way to announce your special news.

    4. Make a story highlight for the build-up to the big day, not necessarily separate posts

    We know you’re excited, and most of your close friends and followers will be too! However, that doesn’t mean that everyone expects or wants a daily update on what you’re doing for the wedding. If you do want to document the big build up, all the cake flavours you tried and wedding locations you scouted, put them on your stories (either Facebook or Instagram) and compile them in a highlight. The bonus of collecting all these moments is that you’ll have a whole trailer before the wedding, and it could also make an incredible TikTok.

    ALSO SEE: Everything You Need To Know About Planning An Engagement Party

    Everything You Need To Know About Planning An Engagement Party

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    Why Couples Choose To Say “I Still Do”

    Marriage isn’t a straight line—it’s a winding journey filled with highs, lows, and countless “we’ll figure it out” moments. Over the years, many couples realise that love looks different than it did on their wedding day. Between raising kids, career changes, or surviving life’s curveballs, your vows become more than poetic promises—they’re proof of endurance.

    That’s why more couples are choosing to renew their vows. It’s not just about romance; it’s a reminder that after everything, you’d still choose each other. Relationship strategist Elizabeth Overstreet calls it “a reaffirmation that the good continues to outweigh the challenges,” a symbolic act of resilience and recommitment.

    The Milestone Years That Matter Most

    Traditionally, couples celebrate milestones every five years: wood for the 5th, silver for the 25th, gold for the 50th. But in reality, the “right” anniversary is deeply personal. Maybe your 12th year felt more meaningful than your 10th because you overcame a rough patch or welcomed your first child.

    Experts say couples often choose the 5th, 10th, 25th, or 50th anniversary as natural points to renew vows. Others prefer moments of personal triumph—such as recovering from illness, surviving financial strain, or simply rediscovering their spark.

    In South Africa, where family remains central to community life, many couples use vow renewals to bring generations together. It’s a way to remind children and loved ones that love, like ubuntu, grows stronger when shared.

    Things To Consider Before Planning A Vow Renewal

    Before diving into Pinterest boards and floral quotes, take a step back. Even small vow renewals need planning, a bit of budgeting, and emotional intention.

    Your Guest List

    Decide who you want to share the moment with. Some couples opt for a quiet exchange under a tree or in their backyard; others invite family and close friends for a full celebration. Wedding planner Alicia Mae says many use vow renewals to do what they couldn’t the first time—whether that means adding personal touches or skipping the stressful parts.

    Budget And Costs

    Vow renewals can range from simple to extravagant. A small garden ceremony may cost just a few thousand rand, while a venue or resort celebration can easily run into tens of thousands. Costs vary depending on location, décor, and photography, but experts say a renewal can be as intimate or lavish as you wish—it’s the meaning that counts.

    Timing And Significance

    Think beyond the numbers. Choose a date that reflects your shared story—maybe the year you survived something tough together, or when you moved cities and started anew. This emotional anchor often makes the ceremony more memorable than the anniversary itself.

    Destination Ideas For Your Vow Renewal

    From vineyards in the Cape Winelands to beaches in St. Lucia, vow renewals today span the globe. Some South Africans even turn their milestone into a travel experience.

    Beach Escapes

    Couples often head to coastal resorts for an intimate “I Do for Two” experience—like a secluded ceremony at sunset with just the sound of waves and champagne in hand.

    Vineyard Celebrations

    Wine farms remain a timeless choice. Places like Franschhoek or Stellenbosch offer breathtaking views, fine wine, and that old-world romance perfect for a small renewal surrounded by nature.

    Family Retreats

    Others choose to rent a small boutique hotel or lodge, bringing their families along for a weekend celebration. It’s less about formality and more about connection—recreating the joy of a wedding without the stress.

    The Heart Of It All

    Whether it’s your 5th or 25th anniversary, renewing your vows isn’t about redoing your wedding—it’s about rediscovering each other. It’s saying, “After all these years, through every version of us, I still choose you.”

    And in a world that often rushes past the quiet, meaningful moments, that might be the most romantic gesture of all.

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    Brides-to-be are always on the hunt for the perfect wedding dress. But those on the hunt also know just how expensive the mission can be with some dream dresses often costing upwards of R10 000.

    However, a Scottish bride-to-be attempted to change this narrative. Katie Louise Rice was set to get married, saying yes to a R13 900 dress from a bridal boutique, but her tune quickly changed after she spotted two gorgeous dresses online that cost £55, or R2000.

    “My dress from my bridal shop is my “traditional” ceremony dress, and I have spent over £800 on that; however, it’s very heavy, and I wanted to try to find something lighter for my evening reception,” she says.

    Picture: Katie Lousie Rice

    The blushing bride purchased her long-sleeved double-layered dress from Shein and is set to don it during her nighttime reception.

    While Katie couldn’t be happier with her purchases, she does caution brides to rethink the idea that wedding dresses need to be expensive.

    “Shop around!

    I kind of wish now I had tried the “cheaper” dresses first, then moved on to the bridal shops,” she says.

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