• It definitely makes things esier when your parents and parents-in-law get along, but what if they’re a bit too close? Unfortunately, one couple learnt the bad side of this when they had to postpone their wedding after their parents ran off together.

    A young couple from Gujarat, India had to postpone their wedding a month before their big day because the groom’s father and bride’s mother disappeared, and its seems they did so together. The father was reportedly last seen leaving his home in the Katargam area of Surat city, while the mother was last seen leaving her house in Navsari.

    According to a relative, the father of the groom and mother of the bride once dated when they were younger. They believe that the pair must have rekindled their romance and eloped.

    Well, they do say true love never dies…

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    Many couples are unsure about when to have their official wedding photoshoot. Some hold fast to the tradition of seeing each other for the first time when entering the ceremony venue and walking down the aisle. All pictures of the couple then usually follow after the ceremony and before the reception. Others love the idea of the “first look” trend where the see each other privately beforehand, and some then choose to have the entire shoot before the actual wedding.

    We take a look at the pros and cons of both to help you decide which is right for you.

    Before the ceremony

     

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    Pros:
    -It will ease up the nerves

    Your wedding day can have you feeling very nervous, especially in the moments before you head to the ceremony. If you decide to see each other beforehand, it might make you loosen up and have some fun together, before you take the final step.

    -It’s a special, private moment

    Because the day is very emotional for both of you, spending the moment in private together will be extra special. This way, the groom can let his guard down and expose his vulnerable side when he sees you for the first time on the day, which is more intimate than in front of a crowd.

    Cons:

    -It changes tradition

    The longstanding tradition in Western weddings is that the bride and groom don’t see each other before the wedding, with the first time they lay eyes on each other being when the bride walks down the aisle. However, some feel like it might be time to let go of certain rituals and embrace new trends.

    -It influences your timeline

    If you want to incorporate the “first look” and do the photoshoot before the ceremony, you will have to keep in mind that it takes time. Your schedule might have to move up to accommodate a few extra hours.

    After the ceremony

    Pros:

    -You get the best lighting

    If you have the traditional late afternoon ceremony with an evening reception, doing the photoshoot after the ceremony will mean you get that golden hour hue. Of course, you can still split it so you do a first look before the ceremony and then do the rest of the shoot after, so you get the best of both worlds.

    -You capture a different kind of moment

    The groom’s expression when he sees the bride walking down the aisle might not be as private as the first look, but it can be just as special. It captures a special moment of a different kind, and the wonder in his eyes will be just as beautiful.

    Cons:

    -You don’t have privacy

    Depending on how many guests you have, it might be nerve racking to see your partner for the first time in front of all those people. It might make you both feel slightly exposed, but then again, you might want to share the moment with the people you love.

    -You don’t spend time before the ceremony

    If you see each other at the ceremony for the first time, you don’t have the chance to spend some alone time together. The day will probably be busy and you won’t get to take a breath until after the whole wedding.

    In the end, both ways can be wonderful and solely depends on your personal preference. There is no wrong way to do it.

     

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    People get married all the time, so you want to make sure your wedding stands out from the crowd. Adding a personal touch to parts of your wedding makes the day memorable not only for the betrothed couple but also for the guests. It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant. Small touches can make a big difference if done well.

    There are a multitude of ways to add personal touches to your big day. Here are a few ideas:

    Signature drinks

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    Quirky wedding favours

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BrP8fTJFrwR/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Unique cake topper

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B2LVEFeH-LZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Choreograph a dance routine

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BwHnC42hlxb/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    A paw-some ring bearer

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B7h7YswnBGV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Special embroidery

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B5YJehEqB9J/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Set up a wedding hashtag

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B5TkwwTnvB2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Write your own meaningful vows

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B3SLsbvnjzy/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Get punny

    https://www.instagram.com/p/ByiJm3dpom-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Play some games

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BvzZo64jsae/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

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    The pre-wedding festivities have been thriving this past week for former Miss Universe Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters and Tim Tebow. The couple gathered their closest friends and family for a weekend of celebrations in Cape Town.

    Their weekend started with a ‘Welcome to Africa’ cocktail dinner in the winelands to introduce Tebow to South African culture. Nel-Peters wore a stunning white dress by Gert Johan-Coetzee featuring a criss-cross neckline and cut-out detail, while Tebow wore a blush-toned suit.

    https://www.instagram.com/tv/B7dX-CXBvbQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    The following day, the couple held a stunning rehearsal dinner. The couple went for a sophisticated colour scheme, opting for rich purples, reds and black. Nel-Peters stunned in a strapless wine-coloured dress with beading by Anel Botha. The couple’s weekend events are all planned by celebrity planner Zavion Khotze.

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    The way these events have gone, we cannot wait to see the wedding! It is sure to be a spectacular day.

    Feature image: Instagram / Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters