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Busted! 5 Common engagement ring myths debunked

November 27, 2025 No Comments

Similar to coconut water and good skin, tradition and weddings go hand-in-hand, and there’s nothing more traditional than forking out thousands for a jaw-dropping engagement ring. We’ve been conditioned to believe that the perfect wedding or engagement ring should look a particular way, but that isn’t necessarily the case.

We’re busting five myths that may soothe your anxious heart and help inspire you to break away from tradition:

The bigger the diamond, the better the ring

Incredible marketing in the 1980s epitomised the luxury status that came with owning a giant diamond ring, and celebrities such as the Kardashians haven’t helped dissuade this sentiment either. However, picking out something quaint and delicate can be just as beautiful and can still make a statement.

There are also plenty of advantages to choosing a ring that doesn’t weigh as much as a small gerbil, which includes affordability and everyday wear and tear. If your sparkler is 1 carat or under, try choosing a design where the diamond is front and centre while exploring various shapes that suit your style.

Engagement rings should be bland

Who said your engagement ring shouldn’t have a pop of colour? A recent trend we’ve been seeing lately is a move away from the traditional clear precious gemstones and towards blues, reds and greens.

Traditionally, coloured gemstones are often associated with royals. Think, the late Princess Diana’s gorgeous blue sapphire engagement ring. However, more brides-to-be are indulging in a little colour when it comes to their wedding rings with vibrant blood-red rubies and shimmering green emeralds at the top of the list. Just make sure that when you’re picking out your favourite precious gemstone, you stick with stones that are 7-10 on the MOHs hardness scale to ensure it doesn’t get damaged.

Any stone will work well for an engagement ring

We know that the affordable moonstone engagement ring you saw online looks fantastic, but you’ll need to consider the durability of the stone you’ll be purchasing. Your engagement ring is going to take a beating, and between doing the dishes every evening to exercising, certain stones are just not durable enough. Stones such as opal and pearls can be a great alternative to the traditional engagement ring, but these precious stones are often considered “soft,” especially when compared to the MOHs hardness scale.

For example, pearls are ranked 2.5 on MOHs hardness scale, so care will need to be taken to avoid scratching or damaging this precious gem. However, diamonds are ranked 10 on this hardness scale, so they can be quite durable.

There are no ethical engagement rings out there

Times have certainly changed, and so have consumer habits. It’s the age of the conscious shopper and shopping ethically and sustainably has become a top priority as people around the world attempt to contribute to a sustainable future for all. While you may think that finding an ethically sourced engagement ring might be tough, more jewellers have shifted their focus to one that conserves the resources of the planet and caters to those looking to ensure a greener future.

Traceable gemstones, recycled gemstones, lab-grown gemstones and recycled gold are just a few options for the sustainable wedding couple.

The jeweller isn’t always right

Oftentimes, you’re buying an engagement ring for the first time, so what could you possibly know. Jewellers are there to give you advice when it comes to a few important details, including a diamond’s 4 C’s, price comparisons, durability and craftsmanship. Be wary of jewellers who are steering you towards a ring that you may not feel comfortable with, only you know your future fiance’s style and wants, so keep that in mind when browsing. And don’t forget to take your time!

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Things you should know about premarital counselling

November 27, 2025 No Comments

In the past, premarital counselling was mainly carried out in religious institutions. These days, however, it has become more popular with non-religious couples too. Couples go to seek guidance and advice in the hopes of preventing divorce.

According to the Mayo Clinic, “Premarital counseling is a type of therapy that helps couples prepare for marriage. Premarital counseling can help ensure that you and your partner have a strong, healthy relationship — giving you a better chance for a stable and satisfying marriage”. They add that the sessions will assist you in identifying weaknesses that could result in trouble for you as a couple further down the road.

What to expect from premarital counselling:

The counselling is usually carried out by a licensed therapist. You’ll sit in the therapists office with your partner by your side discussing a variety of topics related to marriage. Some of these topics include: Money, quality time together, sex, roles in marriage, children, extended family, beliefs and values, and goals.

Some therapists may have you fill out questionnaires separately. The questionnaire will have you answer questions about each other. Thereafter, the therapist will help you to work through the results together.

Benefits of premarital counselling:

– Helps guide the conversation

Discussing heavy topics such as religion, sex, or kids, can result in both partners getting emotional and therefore losing focus of the topic at hand. A counsellor will help to guide the conversation. They also ensure you don’t get angry or misinterpret each other.

– Teaches communication

An important thing to know is that different people respond in different ways to tones and speech patterns. You must be aware of how your partner needs to be spoken to, in order to feel understood, supported, and heard. Premarital counselling also teaches you how to communicate in a healthy and productive way.

– Helps you prepare for your future together

You will be made aware of which expectations are realistic and which are not. You will also get an idea of your timing and goals as a couple, for example when you both want to have kids, or when you want to move to a bigger house. Additionally, your anxieties and fears will be lessened as a result of how well counselling demystifies marriage. It also ensure’s that you avoid many potential conflicts in the future.

– You’ll learn more about yourself and your partner

Often, counselling is an eye opening experience. You discover things about yourself you’ve never known because the mental health professional is guiding you towards these realisations. When you and your partner have these experiences together, it also becomes a sort of bonding experience.

Tips for successful premarital counselling:

– Know that it will be tough

You’ll be dealing with very touchy subjects. Be sure to be as open as you can and don’t be scared to be vulnerable. Most importantly, don’t give up because it’s uncomfortable! Remember that in the end, this will only grow and strengthen your relationship.

– Don’t say what you think they want to hear

Avoid saying things that downplay your emotions or opinions, don’t answer in a way that you think is correct (there are no right or wrong answers). You should also avoid saying things just because it makes you seem more compatible with your significant other. If you do that, there will be no real progress.

– It’s not a competition

There is no winner or loser, and there should be no “I told you so” at the end of the session.

Be open to listening and accepting that you are both capable of being better.

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The pocket guide for announcing your engagement on social media

November 26, 2025 No Comments

In the digital era, making announcements for any occasion is pretty common. You know your friend from high school has declared a certain breakfast spot ‘utterly ideal’, your co-worker’s announcement of their newest plant-child, and your younger sibling’s every move.

However, there are some announcements that still remain somewhat sacred in the land of social media, and your wedding or engagement announcement sits at the top of the tree.

So, how do you do it ‘right?’ As in, how do you not come off as obnoxious, or how do you meander coming across a little too nonchalant (to the point where people might wonder if you’re even excited?)

Do you go for the flashy carousal post where everyone gets to see the entire story – from the spot you thought you were simply having dinner at to the ultimate star on your finger, or do you play it lowkey and post a snippet of the magic?

Here are some tips to keep in your back pocket on how to announce your special news on social media:

1. Make sure those closest to your heart about it before you go live on socials:

The last thing you want to rain on your engagement parade is an unhappy friend or family member. Before you break the internet, make sure you tell those closest to your heart first, and especially those who will certainly see it on social media first.

2. Use photos that are meaningful to you, or do a shoot

Not everyone grabs perfect photos from their engagement moment. Your nails might not be on point, your partner may be wearing the same outfit as in your last post, or all the photos are blurry. Now, you may be part of a pretty funky couple that sees these as part of their own chill aesthetic, and if that sounds like your relationship then go for it in posting. Instagram especially is long past its curated look, with photo-dumps showing more organic life ruling the roost. However, if you really want to go the full 9-yards and have a little shoot (either professionally or at the trust hands of your phone camera on timer) then that’s amazing too. The bottom line here is to use photos that are meaningful to your relationship – not glossy photos that aren’t you or your partner, or an obscure ring that isn’t even yours found on the Internet.

3. Use a caption that speaks to your relationship and your audience simultaneously

It’s a special announcement and so no matter which platform you’re using (par Twitter) a longer caption is more than allowed. However, you can also keep it short and sweet by using a quote from a song, film or book that says it all. You can even stick to the same emoji you have next to your partner’s name on your phone if you want, but the key focus here is using a caption that again, is special to your relationship and won’t be uncomfortable for your audience. Ie: Telling your audience that you’re better than everyone else because you won’t die alone is probably not a good way to announce your special news.

4. Make a story highlight for the build-up to the big day, not necessarily separate posts

We know you’re excited, and most of your close friends and followers will be too! However, that doesn’t mean that everyone expects or wants a daily update on what you’re doing for the wedding. If you do want to document the big build up, all the cake flavours you tried and wedding locations you scouted, put them on your stories (either Facebook or Instagram) and compile them in a highlight. The bonus of collecting all these moments is that you’ll have a whole trailer before the wedding, and it could also make an incredible TikTok.

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Sweet inscriptions to have engraved in your ring

November 25, 2025 No Comments

Having your ring engraved is an excellent way to personalise your engagement ring. It allows couples to write sweet messages of devotion to one another, and keep it close to their hearts.

But what do you inscribe on such an important piece of jewellery? Considering you will (hopefully) wear your ring forever, you’ll want something meaningful to look back on.

You don’t have that much space on a ring, so a shorter phrase is ideal. Here are some cute words to have permanently written on your ring.

Dates and symbols

Your wedding date
The date you met
Your initials
Co-ordinates to where you first met

Words and phrases

I Love You
Always and forever
Until eternity
Never to part
Perfect fit
Finders keepers
Je t’aime
Better together
Till death
I do

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Everything you need to know about wedding dress alterations

November 25, 2025 No Comments

You’ve found your dream dress but it doesn’t sit quite the way you were expecting. While most brides spend hours dreaming about the perfect gown that they’ll walk down the aisle in, what’s not often talked about (or dreamt about) is the logistics of wedding dress alterations.

The fit of your wedding dress is oh-so-important, which makes understanding wedding alterations just as important – but what to know?

Types of wedding dress alterations:

Adding details

If you have the time and the budget, customising your dress to include a range of details that suit your fancy – sleeves, train length, shoulder straps or beading – can be done by a reliable seamstress.

Basic hemming

This is probably the most common type of alteration and can range from hemming the length of the gown to adjusting the fit of the dress. These basic adjustments are a great way to make sure your wedding gown is comfy, looks spectacular on you and leaves you feeling beautiful.

Keep in mind that most wedding gowns will need alterations, which leads us to the next tip: budget.

Planning is everything

Add wedding dress alterations to your budget:

You want to look amazing on your big day and it’s important to remember that you may need wedding dress alterations to ensure that the dress fits you like a glove. Now, some wedding boutiques are heaven-sent and offer free alterations (depending on what you want to be done), however, you may need to add alterations to your budget.

So, how much will it cost? Another important note is that all wedding dress seamstresses are different and will charge their own rate, but you can expect to pay around R2500 (or more) for alterations, so make sure that you add this into your wedding budget. Another aspect to keep in mind – more expensive is always better, so make sure that you shop around.

Timing is everything

No bride needs the extra stress and stressing about whether you’ll receive your wedding gown before you walk down the aisle is stressful. Timing is everything when it comes to alterations, so make sure that you create a timeline that ensures you won’t be pulling your hair from the stress.

If it’s possible, purchase your wedding dress at least 10 months before your date as buying your dress early allows you to have an abundance of time for fittings. Schedule a fitting at least eight to 12 weeks before the wedding and then a second fitting at least two weeks before you walk down the aisle.

Fitting tricks

Bring along your wedding shoes, accessories and undergarments

Bring along your wedding day essentials in order to ensure that you get a proper fit. There’s no question that shoe length, your favourite shapewear and a strapless bra can make all the difference when trying on clothes, and the same goes for your wedding dress. You want to know exactly how it’s going to fit and during your fitting appointments, you’ll get a sense of what you’ll look like on the day.

An extra tip: Your wedding dress is usually altered according to the length of your shoe, so if you’re looking to change into a pair of sneakers during the reception, it’s going to be a bit long and you may find yourself tripping all over the place. To avoid this, make sure that you purchase a shoe that you love and will keep you nice and comfy.

Bring a friend

This may be an unspoken wedding dress shopping rule, but it’s something that is always a good idea to say again. Bring along a supportive friend or family member to help keep your spirits up and help give you a different (but positive) perspective when shopping around or going for fittings. It’s also really nice to have someone to document those memories with a selfie or two before clinking your glass in celebration of finding “the one.”

Happy wedding dress shopping!

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The Most Breathtaking Wedding Venues in Stellenbosch: Where Love Meets the Cape Winelands

November 20, 2025 No Comments

Few places in South Africa can match the romantic allure of Stellenbosch. With its rolling vineyards, mountain views and old-world charm, the Cape Winelands town has become one of the country’s most sought-after wedding destinations. Whether you dream of exchanging vows in a centuries-old chapel, under a canopy of oak trees, or beside a sleek glass pavilion, Stellenbosch offers a venue for every kind of love story.

Here are some of the most enchanting wedding venues that promise a perfect blend of luxury, nature and South African warmth.

Zorgvliet Wines: Romance in the Valley

Hidden in the Banghoek Valley, Zorgvliet Wines feels like a fairytale come to life. Framed by the Simonsberg and Drakenstein Mountains, this wine estate pairs breathtaking views with understated elegance. Couples can say their “I dos” in a charming chapel before moving to The Oak Room for a refined reception, complete with vineyard views and soft candlelight.

The nearby Country Lodge sleeps 36 guests, making it easy for loved ones to linger for a weekend of celebration. From picnics on the lawns to sunset braais under the stars, Zorgvliet knows how to turn a wedding into an experience.Image Sources: Zorgvliet Wines

Eikenhof Estate: Where Nature Meets Style

Situated just off Bottelary Road, Eikenhof Estate offers a tranquil escape while remaining close to Stellenbosch, Brackenfell and Kuilsriver. The venue’s Cap Classique Hall combines rustic charm with modern touches—wooden pergolas, natural stone walls, chandeliers and a warm indoor fireplace.

The lawn and patio area are perfect for cocktails or a marquee-style celebration, while the on-site manor and guest villa make it ideal for multi-day festivities. As locals say, Eikenhof blends “nature and perfection” in the most effortless way.Image Source: Eikenhof Estate on Instagram

Landtscap: A Modern Canvas in the Winelands

For couples craving a contemporary touch, Landtscap offers a light-filled venue overlooking the vineyards and mountains. The floor-to-ceiling glass windows frame 180-degree views, ensuring nature remains part of the décor.

The venue can host up to 190 guests and provides stylish designer tables, crystal glassware, and oak furnishings. With multiple spaces—including ceremony lawns and decks—it’s an adaptable venue for couples who want a bespoke celebration. The on-site accommodation, Fransmanshuijs and Fransmans Cottage, add a touch of luxury with wood-fired hot tubs and panoramic patios—perfect for pre-wedding relaxation.
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Highberry Vineyards: For Lovers of Privacy and Beauty

At Highberry Vineyards, nature takes centre stage. The 60-hectare farm sits among lakes, paddocks and the Hottentots Holland Mountains, offering endless backdrops for photos. Known for restoring 12 hectares of indigenous Renosterveld, Highberry radiates a sense of peace and authenticity that’s hard to find elsewhere.

Couples love the venue’s intimacy, with its elegant farmhouse and manicured gardens serving as the perfect bridal prep space. It’s a favourite among nature-loving couples who want an eco-conscious yet luxurious wedding.Source: Highberry on Instagram

Middelvlei Wine Estate: Authentic Stellenbosch Charm

Family-owned since 1919, Middelvlei Wine Estate brings a timeless warmth to any celebration. Just 4km from Stellenbosch town, this working wine farm exudes old-world charm with its rustic Wine Barn that accommodates up to 120 guests.

Known for hearty South African dishes, fine wine, and genuine hospitality, Middelvlei’s relaxed atmosphere captures the heart of the Winelands. For smaller weddings, the Barrel Cellar offers an intimate space that feels both romantic and real—a place where stories are made to last generations.

Cultivar Guest Lodge: Elegant Simplicity

Nestled in the heart of the Winelands, Cultivar Guest Lodge offers couples the flexibility of hosting both ceremony and reception on-site. Whether you choose a garden ceremony by the pool or a reception in the elegant Napoleon Hall, every detail is curated to suit your style and budget.

With a focus on stress-free planning, Cultivar’s in-house team can handle everything from décor and catering to sound and photography. The panoramic mountain views from the balcony seal the deal for couples seeking an intimate yet unforgettable setting.

Hazendal Wine Estate: Grandeur Meets Modern Design

Blending history with innovation, Hazendal Wine Estate is one of Stellenbosch’s most versatile wedding venues. Each space offers its own character—from the ethereal Floating Pavilion set on a pond to the sophisticated Grand Hall that can host 250 guests.

Couples can also exchange vows in The Glasshouse or celebrate outdoors on The Lawn with mountain views. The estate’s boutique hotel, The Hazendal, adds a luxurious stay for guests, while the estate’s mix of architecture, art, and fine dining creates a truly world-class experience.

A Winelands Fairytale Awaits

Whether your heart leans toward modern minimalism, rustic romance, or classic elegance, Stellenbosch’s wedding venues promise something unforgettable. Each estate tells its own story—a story of heritage, landscape and love.

As one recent bride shared on social media, “There’s something magical about saying ‘I do’ where the vines meet the mountains—it’s the kind of beauty that stays with you forever.”

So, as you plan your special day, remember: in Stellenbosch, love isn’t just celebrated—it’s beautifully cultivated.

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How to Renew Your Wedding Vows: A Guide to Rekindling Love and Creating New Memories

November 19, 2025 No Comments

Renewing your wedding vows is one of the most heartfelt ways to celebrate love — whether you’ve been married for one year or fifty. It’s not about redoing your wedding day; it’s about reflecting on how far you’ve come, the life you’ve built, and the promises that still hold you together.

In South Africa, more couples are embracing vow renewals as a way to reconnect after challenges, mark milestone anniversaries, or simply reaffirm the commitment that first brought them together. Whether it’s an intimate sunset ceremony on Clifton Beach or a family gathering in your backyard, it’s your love story — rewritten in your own way.

Why Couples Choose to Renew Their Vows

Every couple’s reason for renewing their vows is different — and that’s the beauty of it. Some do it to mark a milestone, like a 10th or 25th anniversary. Others plan a second celebration after years of marriage because their first wedding was small, rushed, or financially constrained.

For some, it’s deeply emotional — a way to celebrate overcoming illness, personal loss, or infidelity. For others, it’s romantic — a chance to reignite the spark and say “I still choose you” in front of loved ones. There have even been touching moments where couples renew vows in hospital rooms or retirement homes, surrounded by family and memories.

Many couples have shared that the experience brought a sense of closure, gratitude, and excitement for the next chapter. It’s not about perfection this time — it’s about authenticity.

When Is the Best Time to Renew Your Vows?

There’s no official rule. Some couples prefer milestone anniversaries, while others do it whenever they feel the moment is right. The right time might come after overcoming a shared struggle, reaching a family milestone, or simply wanting to celebrate the calm after life’s storms.

What matters most is that it feels genuine. If you’re both in a place of reflection and gratitude, that’s your cue.

Do You Need a License or Officiant?

Unlike your wedding day, a vow renewal isn’t a legal ceremony. You don’t need a marriage license, witnesses, or even an officiant. That means total freedom — no red tape, just heart.

You can hold your ceremony anywhere: in a chapel, at a beach picnic, or even in your own living room. A friend, family member, or even one of your children can lead the renewal. Some couples create a “vow renewal certificate” as a keepsake, just for fun.

It’s a celebration, not a legal procedure — and that’s what makes it beautifully personal.

How to Plan a Meaningful Vow Renewal

The best part of planning a vow renewal is that it’s entirely on your terms. Here’s how to make it memorable:

1.Decide on the Type of Celebration

Think about what feels right — a small, candlelit ceremony or a full-on destination celebration. Some couples prefer quiet garden ceremonies, while others throw elegant soirées at local venues or wine estates.

2.Create Your Guest List

It could just be the two of you, or a full family affair with children, grandchildren, and close friends. Keep in mind: gifts aren’t expected, but you can exchange new or upgraded rings as symbols of continued love.

3.Choose Your Date and Location

Pick a spot that means something to you — maybe where you first met, your honeymoon destination, or a scenic escape you’ve always dreamed of visiting together. Once you have your date, send out simple but thoughtful invitations that reflect the tone of your event.

4.Capture the Moment

Even if it’s just a small gathering, consider hiring a photographer. You’ll want to look back on these photos as a visual story of your shared journey.

5.Dress for the Moment

Forget the rules. You don’t need a gown or tux — unless you want to. Many couples opt for elegant yet relaxed outfits that match the mood of their renewal. Think linen suits, silk dresses, or coordinating colours that photograph beautifully.

Writing Your Renewal Vows

This is where emotion takes centre stage. Unlike your original wedding vows, these should reflect the years of experience, lessons, and laughter you’ve shared. Speak from the heart — acknowledge how you’ve grown and what you still promise for the future.

Some couples revisit their original vows and update them, while others write something completely new. Keep it honest and personal — your story is what makes it special.

Example inspiration:
“I still choose you — through every laugh, every challenge, and every dream we’ve chased together. You are my home, my heart, and my favourite adventure.”

Making It Your Own

Whether you celebrate privately or throw a full-blown family affair, your vow renewal should feel like an authentic reflection of your journey. Add a soundtrack that tells your story, serve your favourite food, or recreate a special photo from your wedding day.

As one couple shared online after their 20-year renewal: “We didn’t just say ‘I do’ again — we said ‘we still do.’ And that’s what made it magic.”

In the end, a vow renewal isn’t about the dress, the décor, or the number of guests — it’s about the two people who kept showing up for each other, every single day.

Because real love isn’t found in the first ‘I do.’ It’s in all the ones that come after.

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7 Core Values Every Couple Should Agree On Before Saying “I Do”

November 12, 2025 No Comments

Before the wedding bells ring and the vows are exchanged, it’s worth asking: are you and your partner truly aligned on what matters most? Beyond flowers, venues, and guest lists, it’s the invisible glue of shared values that determines whether your marriage will thrive long after the honeymoon phase ends.

In South Africa, where diverse cultures meet and marriage often brings two families together, shared principles aren’t just about personal happiness — they shape how you grow as a unit, navigate challenges, and even raise future generations.

Let’s explore the seven non-negotiable values every couple should talk about before saying “I do.”

Communication

Every strong marriage begins with communication. Being able to speak honestly, listen actively, and understand one another prevents small misunderstandings from turning into big issues. Healthy communication means saying what you mean — and meaning what you say — without blame or judgment.

Couples who talk openly about their worries, goals, and expectations tend to feel more connected and respected. Remember, communication isn’t just about solving problems; it’s about staying emotionally in tune.

Respect

Respect is what keeps love grounded. It’s found in everyday acts — listening when your partner speaks, supporting their dreams, and valuing their opinions even when you disagree. Without respect, affection fades and resentment takes its place.

When couples treat each other as equals, they create an environment where both can thrive. Mutual respect keeps your marriage balanced, especially when life throws challenges your way.

Trust

Trust is the quiet assurance that your partner has your back, no matter the distance or the doubt. It’s the foundation of emotional security, allowing both people to show up as their authentic selves.

If trust breaks down, everything else starts to crumble. Building and maintaining trust takes consistency and transparency — it’s a daily choice to believe in your partner and in the bond you share.

Forgiveness

Every couple fights, but the healthiest ones know how to forgive. Letting go of grudges doesn’t erase the hurt; it allows both of you to heal and move forward. Holding onto resentment only creates emotional distance.

Forgiveness means prioritizing love over pride and choosing to grow together rather than apart. It’s an act of courage and compassion that keeps relationships alive through even the hardest seasons.

Boundaries

In love, boundaries aren’t barriers — they’re protection. They remind you that it’s okay to say no, to ask for space, and to nurture your individuality within the relationship. Without boundaries, it’s easy to lose yourself in trying to please your partner.

Setting healthy limits builds respect and trust. It shows that you value your wellbeing and your partner’s too. When both people know where they stand, the relationship becomes a space of freedom instead of pressure.

Honesty

Honesty is more than telling the truth — it’s about being authentic. When you’re honest with your partner, you create a bond rooted in transparency and emotional intimacy. There’s no second-guessing, no pretending, just real connection.

Of course, honesty can be uncomfortable, especially when tough conversations arise. But facing truth with empathy builds strength and deepens mutual understanding. In marriage, that’s priceless.

Religion

Faith often shapes family traditions, holidays, and daily routines — especially in South Africa, where spiritual diversity runs deep. Whether you share the same religion or come from different beliefs, conversations about faith are vital before marriage.

Discuss how you’ll celebrate religious holidays, raise children, or attend services. These discussions don’t have to divide you; they can help you create a shared spiritual foundation that reflects both your worlds.

Moving Forward

Marriage isn’t just about love — it’s about alignment. When two people share core values, they create a partnership that can weather any storm. Before walking down the aisle, take the time to talk deeply about what truly matters. Because when your values match, your love only grows stronger.

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What to Wear to a Wedding Rehearsal Dinner: Your Complete Guest Style Guide

October 29, 2025 No Comments

The wedding rehearsal dinner may not be the main event, but it’s often where the love, laughter, and nerves of the big day first come together. It’s a night reserved for close family and friends — a moment to toast the couple before the aisle walk. And while the focus is on the celebration, guests often face one burning question: What should I wear?

From venue cues to dress code dos and don’ts, here’s how to show up in style without stealing the spotlight.

Understanding The Rehearsal Dinner

Traditionally, the rehearsal dinner happens after the wedding rehearsal itself, bringing together those closest to the couple — the bridal party, parents, and loved ones who’ve been part of the journey. It’s a little more formal than your average dinner, but it doesn’t have to mean stiff fashion choices. Think elevated comfort: something that feels special without looking overdone.

The tone of the evening often mirrors the couple’s personality. A candlelit dinner at a wine estate might call for cocktail attire, while a backyard braai or seaside soiree invites a more relaxed, stylish ease.

Follow The Dress Code

If the invitation lists a dress code, consider that your ultimate guide. Whether it’s “cocktail chic,” “garden party,” or “mountain casual,” the couple’s vision will tell you everything you need to know.

A tailored suit or a fun, flowy dress is perfect for cocktail attire, while a themed dinner (like “coastal elegance”) might welcome lighter fabrics and softer tones. If no dress code is mentioned, it’s always safe to check in discreetly with a member of the wedding party rather than the couple themselves — they’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness in wanting to blend in with their aesthetic.

Dress For The Season And Location

One of the most overlooked details is the weather. South African weddings, for instance, can swing from blazing afternoon heat to cool evening breezes. A summer rehearsal dinner in Durban might call for a sleeveless jumpsuit or linen dress, while a winter soirée in the Cape Winelands pairs beautifully with a velvet wrap dress or structured blazer.

Always check the forecast a few days before the event — and if you’re traveling, pack a backup outfit just in case the weather pulls a surprise.

Consider The Venue

The setting says a lot about what to wear. An intimate restaurant dinner may lean formal, while an outdoor gathering on a wine farm or coastal deck invites lighter, more practical fabrics.

If the event takes place on grass or sand, skip the stilettos for block heels or elegant flats. Pack a shawl, blazer, or pashmina for outdoor or evening events — it’s not only functional but adds a layer of sophistication to your look.

What Not To Wear

A general rule? Avoid anything that clashes with the dress code or draws unnecessary attention. That means steering clear of white, cream, or ivory — those shades are reserved for the bride. Jeans are a no-go unless the invitation says otherwise, and overly casual pieces (like sneakers or T-shirts) should stay home.

When in doubt, lean toward understated elegance. You want to look like part of the couple’s celebration, not a distraction from it.

What Will You Wear?

A rehearsal dinner may be a smaller affair, but it’s no less meaningful. It’s where toasts are made, laughter flows, and the anticipation of the wedding day begins to build. Dressing thoughtfully for this occasion shows respect for the couple’s journey — and ensures you feel just as special as the evening itself.

Whether it’s a sunset dinner on a vineyard or a modern urban gathering, the golden rule remains the same: dress with intention, confidence, and care.

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Inside Carly Rae Jepsen’s Intimate Chelsea Hotel Wedding to Music Producer Cole M.G.N.

October 28, 2025 No Comments

Carly Rae Jepsen has officially entered her next era — as a married woman. The “Call Me Maybe” hitmaker, who became a global pop phenomenon in the 2010s, tied the knot with longtime partner and collaborator Cole M.G.N. (real name Cole Marsden Greif-Neill) in a private ceremony at New York City’s iconic Chelsea Hotel earlier this month.

A Love Story Rooted in Music

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Jepsen and Cole’s relationship began in the studio while working on her 2023 album The Loveliest Time. What started as creative chemistry blossomed into something much deeper. Their collaboration produced the song “So Right,” which Jepsen later described as their “meet-cute.”

“You have to get to a certain level of comfort with somebody before you can get to those playful, experimental places,” she told People at the time. It seems that comfort soon turned into love — and now, marriage.

A Wedding with Artistic Soul

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On October 4, Jepsen and Cole exchanged vows in the Bard Room of the Chelsea Hotel — a venue rich with artistic history, once home to icons like Leonard Cohen, Patti Smith, and Bob Dylan. The space, known for its bohemian charm, perfectly reflected the couple’s creative spirits.

“We knew we wanted a location that meant something to us,” Jepsen told Vogue. “The Chelsea Hotel had become a home away from home every time we were in New York.”

Her wedding day style was equally thoughtful. She wore a strapless corseted gown with a draped skirt by Australian designer Toni Maticevski for the ceremony, later changing into a dreamy tiered dress from New York designer Danielle Frankel. In a sentimental touch, she accessorized with pearl earrings handmade by her mother, Alexandra Lanzarott.

A Once-in-a-Lifetime New York Moment

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The evening’s standout moment came when musician Rufus Wainwright surprised the guests with an a cappella rendition of Leonard Cohen’s “Chelsea Hotel #2.” For Jepsen — a longtime admirer of the hotel’s artistic legacy — it was a serendipitous full-circle moment. “This felt like a once-in-a-lifetime New York moment,” she said.

From Engagement to “I Do”

Jepsen first announced her engagement to Cole in September 2024, sharing a series of photos on Instagram with the caption, “Very engaged over here .” Fans flooded the comments with excitement, celebrating the couple’s low-key yet heartfelt reveal.

In the months that followed, Jepsen gave glimpses of her wedding preparations — from taste-testing cakes (“Mostly fighting about cake,” she joked) to celebrating her bachelorette with friends in colorful wigs. Each post carried her signature humor and warmth, traits fans have long adored.

The Start Of A New Chapter

While Jepsen has yet to share full wedding photos, her fans are already speculating about new music inspired by this next chapter. The Grammy-nominated singer has always channeled her emotions into her work — from heartbreak anthems to euphoric pop bangers.

If her love story with Cole is any indication, her next album might just be her most romantic yet.