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Everything you need to know about wedding dress alterations

November 25, 2025 No Comments

You’ve found your dream dress but it doesn’t sit quite the way you were expecting. While most brides spend hours dreaming about the perfect gown that they’ll walk down the aisle in, what’s not often talked about (or dreamt about) is the logistics of wedding dress alterations.

The fit of your wedding dress is oh-so-important, which makes understanding wedding alterations just as important – but what to know?

Types of wedding dress alterations:

Adding details

If you have the time and the budget, customising your dress to include a range of details that suit your fancy – sleeves, train length, shoulder straps or beading – can be done by a reliable seamstress.

Basic hemming

This is probably the most common type of alteration and can range from hemming the length of the gown to adjusting the fit of the dress. These basic adjustments are a great way to make sure your wedding gown is comfy, looks spectacular on you and leaves you feeling beautiful.

Keep in mind that most wedding gowns will need alterations, which leads us to the next tip: budget.

Planning is everything

Add wedding dress alterations to your budget:

You want to look amazing on your big day and it’s important to remember that you may need wedding dress alterations to ensure that the dress fits you like a glove. Now, some wedding boutiques are heaven-sent and offer free alterations (depending on what you want to be done), however, you may need to add alterations to your budget.

So, how much will it cost? Another important note is that all wedding dress seamstresses are different and will charge their own rate, but you can expect to pay around R2500 (or more) for alterations, so make sure that you add this into your wedding budget. Another aspect to keep in mind – more expensive is always better, so make sure that you shop around.

Timing is everything

No bride needs the extra stress and stressing about whether you’ll receive your wedding gown before you walk down the aisle is stressful. Timing is everything when it comes to alterations, so make sure that you create a timeline that ensures you won’t be pulling your hair from the stress.

If it’s possible, purchase your wedding dress at least 10 months before your date as buying your dress early allows you to have an abundance of time for fittings. Schedule a fitting at least eight to 12 weeks before the wedding and then a second fitting at least two weeks before you walk down the aisle.

Fitting tricks

Bring along your wedding shoes, accessories and undergarments

Bring along your wedding day essentials in order to ensure that you get a proper fit. There’s no question that shoe length, your favourite shapewear and a strapless bra can make all the difference when trying on clothes, and the same goes for your wedding dress. You want to know exactly how it’s going to fit and during your fitting appointments, you’ll get a sense of what you’ll look like on the day.

An extra tip: Your wedding dress is usually altered according to the length of your shoe, so if you’re looking to change into a pair of sneakers during the reception, it’s going to be a bit long and you may find yourself tripping all over the place. To avoid this, make sure that you purchase a shoe that you love and will keep you nice and comfy.

Bring a friend

This may be an unspoken wedding dress shopping rule, but it’s something that is always a good idea to say again. Bring along a supportive friend or family member to help keep your spirits up and help give you a different (but positive) perspective when shopping around or going for fittings. It’s also really nice to have someone to document those memories with a selfie or two before clinking your glass in celebration of finding “the one.”

Happy wedding dress shopping!

ALSO SEE: A Complete Guide to Wedding Dress Styles Every Bride Should Know

A Complete Guide to Wedding Dress Styles Every Bride Should Know

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The Most Breathtaking Wedding Venues in Stellenbosch: Where Love Meets the Cape Winelands

November 20, 2025 No Comments

Few places in South Africa can match the romantic allure of Stellenbosch. With its rolling vineyards, mountain views and old-world charm, the Cape Winelands town has become one of the country’s most sought-after wedding destinations. Whether you dream of exchanging vows in a centuries-old chapel, under a canopy of oak trees, or beside a sleek glass pavilion, Stellenbosch offers a venue for every kind of love story.

Here are some of the most enchanting wedding venues that promise a perfect blend of luxury, nature and South African warmth.

Zorgvliet Wines: Romance in the Valley

Hidden in the Banghoek Valley, Zorgvliet Wines feels like a fairytale come to life. Framed by the Simonsberg and Drakenstein Mountains, this wine estate pairs breathtaking views with understated elegance. Couples can say their “I dos” in a charming chapel before moving to The Oak Room for a refined reception, complete with vineyard views and soft candlelight.

The nearby Country Lodge sleeps 36 guests, making it easy for loved ones to linger for a weekend of celebration. From picnics on the lawns to sunset braais under the stars, Zorgvliet knows how to turn a wedding into an experience.Image Sources: Zorgvliet Wines

Eikenhof Estate: Where Nature Meets Style

Situated just off Bottelary Road, Eikenhof Estate offers a tranquil escape while remaining close to Stellenbosch, Brackenfell and Kuilsriver. The venue’s Cap Classique Hall combines rustic charm with modern touches—wooden pergolas, natural stone walls, chandeliers and a warm indoor fireplace.

The lawn and patio area are perfect for cocktails or a marquee-style celebration, while the on-site manor and guest villa make it ideal for multi-day festivities. As locals say, Eikenhof blends “nature and perfection” in the most effortless way.Image Source: Eikenhof Estate on Instagram

Landtscap: A Modern Canvas in the Winelands

For couples craving a contemporary touch, Landtscap offers a light-filled venue overlooking the vineyards and mountains. The floor-to-ceiling glass windows frame 180-degree views, ensuring nature remains part of the décor.

The venue can host up to 190 guests and provides stylish designer tables, crystal glassware, and oak furnishings. With multiple spaces—including ceremony lawns and decks—it’s an adaptable venue for couples who want a bespoke celebration. The on-site accommodation, Fransmanshuijs and Fransmans Cottage, add a touch of luxury with wood-fired hot tubs and panoramic patios—perfect for pre-wedding relaxation.
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Highberry Vineyards: For Lovers of Privacy and Beauty

At Highberry Vineyards, nature takes centre stage. The 60-hectare farm sits among lakes, paddocks and the Hottentots Holland Mountains, offering endless backdrops for photos. Known for restoring 12 hectares of indigenous Renosterveld, Highberry radiates a sense of peace and authenticity that’s hard to find elsewhere.

Couples love the venue’s intimacy, with its elegant farmhouse and manicured gardens serving as the perfect bridal prep space. It’s a favourite among nature-loving couples who want an eco-conscious yet luxurious wedding.Source: Highberry on Instagram

Middelvlei Wine Estate: Authentic Stellenbosch Charm

Family-owned since 1919, Middelvlei Wine Estate brings a timeless warmth to any celebration. Just 4km from Stellenbosch town, this working wine farm exudes old-world charm with its rustic Wine Barn that accommodates up to 120 guests.

Known for hearty South African dishes, fine wine, and genuine hospitality, Middelvlei’s relaxed atmosphere captures the heart of the Winelands. For smaller weddings, the Barrel Cellar offers an intimate space that feels both romantic and real—a place where stories are made to last generations.

Cultivar Guest Lodge: Elegant Simplicity

Nestled in the heart of the Winelands, Cultivar Guest Lodge offers couples the flexibility of hosting both ceremony and reception on-site. Whether you choose a garden ceremony by the pool or a reception in the elegant Napoleon Hall, every detail is curated to suit your style and budget.

With a focus on stress-free planning, Cultivar’s in-house team can handle everything from décor and catering to sound and photography. The panoramic mountain views from the balcony seal the deal for couples seeking an intimate yet unforgettable setting.

Hazendal Wine Estate: Grandeur Meets Modern Design

Blending history with innovation, Hazendal Wine Estate is one of Stellenbosch’s most versatile wedding venues. Each space offers its own character—from the ethereal Floating Pavilion set on a pond to the sophisticated Grand Hall that can host 250 guests.

Couples can also exchange vows in The Glasshouse or celebrate outdoors on The Lawn with mountain views. The estate’s boutique hotel, The Hazendal, adds a luxurious stay for guests, while the estate’s mix of architecture, art, and fine dining creates a truly world-class experience.

A Winelands Fairytale Awaits

Whether your heart leans toward modern minimalism, rustic romance, or classic elegance, Stellenbosch’s wedding venues promise something unforgettable. Each estate tells its own story—a story of heritage, landscape and love.

As one recent bride shared on social media, “There’s something magical about saying ‘I do’ where the vines meet the mountains—it’s the kind of beauty that stays with you forever.”

So, as you plan your special day, remember: in Stellenbosch, love isn’t just celebrated—it’s beautifully cultivated.

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In Advice

How to Renew Your Wedding Vows: A Guide to Rekindling Love and Creating New Memories

November 19, 2025 No Comments

Renewing your wedding vows is one of the most heartfelt ways to celebrate love — whether you’ve been married for one year or fifty. It’s not about redoing your wedding day; it’s about reflecting on how far you’ve come, the life you’ve built, and the promises that still hold you together.

In South Africa, more couples are embracing vow renewals as a way to reconnect after challenges, mark milestone anniversaries, or simply reaffirm the commitment that first brought them together. Whether it’s an intimate sunset ceremony on Clifton Beach or a family gathering in your backyard, it’s your love story — rewritten in your own way.

Why Couples Choose to Renew Their Vows

Every couple’s reason for renewing their vows is different — and that’s the beauty of it. Some do it to mark a milestone, like a 10th or 25th anniversary. Others plan a second celebration after years of marriage because their first wedding was small, rushed, or financially constrained.

For some, it’s deeply emotional — a way to celebrate overcoming illness, personal loss, or infidelity. For others, it’s romantic — a chance to reignite the spark and say “I still choose you” in front of loved ones. There have even been touching moments where couples renew vows in hospital rooms or retirement homes, surrounded by family and memories.

Many couples have shared that the experience brought a sense of closure, gratitude, and excitement for the next chapter. It’s not about perfection this time — it’s about authenticity.

When Is the Best Time to Renew Your Vows?

There’s no official rule. Some couples prefer milestone anniversaries, while others do it whenever they feel the moment is right. The right time might come after overcoming a shared struggle, reaching a family milestone, or simply wanting to celebrate the calm after life’s storms.

What matters most is that it feels genuine. If you’re both in a place of reflection and gratitude, that’s your cue.

Do You Need a License or Officiant?

Unlike your wedding day, a vow renewal isn’t a legal ceremony. You don’t need a marriage license, witnesses, or even an officiant. That means total freedom — no red tape, just heart.

You can hold your ceremony anywhere: in a chapel, at a beach picnic, or even in your own living room. A friend, family member, or even one of your children can lead the renewal. Some couples create a “vow renewal certificate” as a keepsake, just for fun.

It’s a celebration, not a legal procedure — and that’s what makes it beautifully personal.

How to Plan a Meaningful Vow Renewal

The best part of planning a vow renewal is that it’s entirely on your terms. Here’s how to make it memorable:

1.Decide on the Type of Celebration

Think about what feels right — a small, candlelit ceremony or a full-on destination celebration. Some couples prefer quiet garden ceremonies, while others throw elegant soirées at local venues or wine estates.

2.Create Your Guest List

It could just be the two of you, or a full family affair with children, grandchildren, and close friends. Keep in mind: gifts aren’t expected, but you can exchange new or upgraded rings as symbols of continued love.

3.Choose Your Date and Location

Pick a spot that means something to you — maybe where you first met, your honeymoon destination, or a scenic escape you’ve always dreamed of visiting together. Once you have your date, send out simple but thoughtful invitations that reflect the tone of your event.

4.Capture the Moment

Even if it’s just a small gathering, consider hiring a photographer. You’ll want to look back on these photos as a visual story of your shared journey.

5.Dress for the Moment

Forget the rules. You don’t need a gown or tux — unless you want to. Many couples opt for elegant yet relaxed outfits that match the mood of their renewal. Think linen suits, silk dresses, or coordinating colours that photograph beautifully.

Writing Your Renewal Vows

This is where emotion takes centre stage. Unlike your original wedding vows, these should reflect the years of experience, lessons, and laughter you’ve shared. Speak from the heart — acknowledge how you’ve grown and what you still promise for the future.

Some couples revisit their original vows and update them, while others write something completely new. Keep it honest and personal — your story is what makes it special.

Example inspiration:
“I still choose you — through every laugh, every challenge, and every dream we’ve chased together. You are my home, my heart, and my favourite adventure.”

Making It Your Own

Whether you celebrate privately or throw a full-blown family affair, your vow renewal should feel like an authentic reflection of your journey. Add a soundtrack that tells your story, serve your favourite food, or recreate a special photo from your wedding day.

As one couple shared online after their 20-year renewal: “We didn’t just say ‘I do’ again — we said ‘we still do.’ And that’s what made it magic.”

In the end, a vow renewal isn’t about the dress, the décor, or the number of guests — it’s about the two people who kept showing up for each other, every single day.

Because real love isn’t found in the first ‘I do.’ It’s in all the ones that come after.

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7 Core Values Every Couple Should Agree On Before Saying “I Do”

November 12, 2025 No Comments

Before the wedding bells ring and the vows are exchanged, it’s worth asking: are you and your partner truly aligned on what matters most? Beyond flowers, venues, and guest lists, it’s the invisible glue of shared values that determines whether your marriage will thrive long after the honeymoon phase ends.

In South Africa, where diverse cultures meet and marriage often brings two families together, shared principles aren’t just about personal happiness — they shape how you grow as a unit, navigate challenges, and even raise future generations.

Let’s explore the seven non-negotiable values every couple should talk about before saying “I do.”

Communication

Every strong marriage begins with communication. Being able to speak honestly, listen actively, and understand one another prevents small misunderstandings from turning into big issues. Healthy communication means saying what you mean — and meaning what you say — without blame or judgment.

Couples who talk openly about their worries, goals, and expectations tend to feel more connected and respected. Remember, communication isn’t just about solving problems; it’s about staying emotionally in tune.

Respect

Respect is what keeps love grounded. It’s found in everyday acts — listening when your partner speaks, supporting their dreams, and valuing their opinions even when you disagree. Without respect, affection fades and resentment takes its place.

When couples treat each other as equals, they create an environment where both can thrive. Mutual respect keeps your marriage balanced, especially when life throws challenges your way.

Trust

Trust is the quiet assurance that your partner has your back, no matter the distance or the doubt. It’s the foundation of emotional security, allowing both people to show up as their authentic selves.

If trust breaks down, everything else starts to crumble. Building and maintaining trust takes consistency and transparency — it’s a daily choice to believe in your partner and in the bond you share.

Forgiveness

Every couple fights, but the healthiest ones know how to forgive. Letting go of grudges doesn’t erase the hurt; it allows both of you to heal and move forward. Holding onto resentment only creates emotional distance.

Forgiveness means prioritizing love over pride and choosing to grow together rather than apart. It’s an act of courage and compassion that keeps relationships alive through even the hardest seasons.

Boundaries

In love, boundaries aren’t barriers — they’re protection. They remind you that it’s okay to say no, to ask for space, and to nurture your individuality within the relationship. Without boundaries, it’s easy to lose yourself in trying to please your partner.

Setting healthy limits builds respect and trust. It shows that you value your wellbeing and your partner’s too. When both people know where they stand, the relationship becomes a space of freedom instead of pressure.

Honesty

Honesty is more than telling the truth — it’s about being authentic. When you’re honest with your partner, you create a bond rooted in transparency and emotional intimacy. There’s no second-guessing, no pretending, just real connection.

Of course, honesty can be uncomfortable, especially when tough conversations arise. But facing truth with empathy builds strength and deepens mutual understanding. In marriage, that’s priceless.

Religion

Faith often shapes family traditions, holidays, and daily routines — especially in South Africa, where spiritual diversity runs deep. Whether you share the same religion or come from different beliefs, conversations about faith are vital before marriage.

Discuss how you’ll celebrate religious holidays, raise children, or attend services. These discussions don’t have to divide you; they can help you create a shared spiritual foundation that reflects both your worlds.

Moving Forward

Marriage isn’t just about love — it’s about alignment. When two people share core values, they create a partnership that can weather any storm. Before walking down the aisle, take the time to talk deeply about what truly matters. Because when your values match, your love only grows stronger.

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What to Wear to a Wedding Rehearsal Dinner: Your Complete Guest Style Guide

October 29, 2025 No Comments

The wedding rehearsal dinner may not be the main event, but it’s often where the love, laughter, and nerves of the big day first come together. It’s a night reserved for close family and friends — a moment to toast the couple before the aisle walk. And while the focus is on the celebration, guests often face one burning question: What should I wear?

From venue cues to dress code dos and don’ts, here’s how to show up in style without stealing the spotlight.

Understanding The Rehearsal Dinner

Traditionally, the rehearsal dinner happens after the wedding rehearsal itself, bringing together those closest to the couple — the bridal party, parents, and loved ones who’ve been part of the journey. It’s a little more formal than your average dinner, but it doesn’t have to mean stiff fashion choices. Think elevated comfort: something that feels special without looking overdone.

The tone of the evening often mirrors the couple’s personality. A candlelit dinner at a wine estate might call for cocktail attire, while a backyard braai or seaside soiree invites a more relaxed, stylish ease.

Follow The Dress Code

If the invitation lists a dress code, consider that your ultimate guide. Whether it’s “cocktail chic,” “garden party,” or “mountain casual,” the couple’s vision will tell you everything you need to know.

A tailored suit or a fun, flowy dress is perfect for cocktail attire, while a themed dinner (like “coastal elegance”) might welcome lighter fabrics and softer tones. If no dress code is mentioned, it’s always safe to check in discreetly with a member of the wedding party rather than the couple themselves — they’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness in wanting to blend in with their aesthetic.

Dress For The Season And Location

One of the most overlooked details is the weather. South African weddings, for instance, can swing from blazing afternoon heat to cool evening breezes. A summer rehearsal dinner in Durban might call for a sleeveless jumpsuit or linen dress, while a winter soirée in the Cape Winelands pairs beautifully with a velvet wrap dress or structured blazer.

Always check the forecast a few days before the event — and if you’re traveling, pack a backup outfit just in case the weather pulls a surprise.

Consider The Venue

The setting says a lot about what to wear. An intimate restaurant dinner may lean formal, while an outdoor gathering on a wine farm or coastal deck invites lighter, more practical fabrics.

If the event takes place on grass or sand, skip the stilettos for block heels or elegant flats. Pack a shawl, blazer, or pashmina for outdoor or evening events — it’s not only functional but adds a layer of sophistication to your look.

What Not To Wear

A general rule? Avoid anything that clashes with the dress code or draws unnecessary attention. That means steering clear of white, cream, or ivory — those shades are reserved for the bride. Jeans are a no-go unless the invitation says otherwise, and overly casual pieces (like sneakers or T-shirts) should stay home.

When in doubt, lean toward understated elegance. You want to look like part of the couple’s celebration, not a distraction from it.

What Will You Wear?

A rehearsal dinner may be a smaller affair, but it’s no less meaningful. It’s where toasts are made, laughter flows, and the anticipation of the wedding day begins to build. Dressing thoughtfully for this occasion shows respect for the couple’s journey — and ensures you feel just as special as the evening itself.

Whether it’s a sunset dinner on a vineyard or a modern urban gathering, the golden rule remains the same: dress with intention, confidence, and care.

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In Celebs

Inside Carly Rae Jepsen’s Intimate Chelsea Hotel Wedding to Music Producer Cole M.G.N.

October 28, 2025 No Comments

Carly Rae Jepsen has officially entered her next era — as a married woman. The “Call Me Maybe” hitmaker, who became a global pop phenomenon in the 2010s, tied the knot with longtime partner and collaborator Cole M.G.N. (real name Cole Marsden Greif-Neill) in a private ceremony at New York City’s iconic Chelsea Hotel earlier this month.

A Love Story Rooted in Music

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Jepsen and Cole’s relationship began in the studio while working on her 2023 album The Loveliest Time. What started as creative chemistry blossomed into something much deeper. Their collaboration produced the song “So Right,” which Jepsen later described as their “meet-cute.”

“You have to get to a certain level of comfort with somebody before you can get to those playful, experimental places,” she told People at the time. It seems that comfort soon turned into love — and now, marriage.

A Wedding with Artistic Soul

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On October 4, Jepsen and Cole exchanged vows in the Bard Room of the Chelsea Hotel — a venue rich with artistic history, once home to icons like Leonard Cohen, Patti Smith, and Bob Dylan. The space, known for its bohemian charm, perfectly reflected the couple’s creative spirits.

“We knew we wanted a location that meant something to us,” Jepsen told Vogue. “The Chelsea Hotel had become a home away from home every time we were in New York.”

Her wedding day style was equally thoughtful. She wore a strapless corseted gown with a draped skirt by Australian designer Toni Maticevski for the ceremony, later changing into a dreamy tiered dress from New York designer Danielle Frankel. In a sentimental touch, she accessorized with pearl earrings handmade by her mother, Alexandra Lanzarott.

A Once-in-a-Lifetime New York Moment

Source: Carly Rae Jepsen on Instagram

The evening’s standout moment came when musician Rufus Wainwright surprised the guests with an a cappella rendition of Leonard Cohen’s “Chelsea Hotel #2.” For Jepsen — a longtime admirer of the hotel’s artistic legacy — it was a serendipitous full-circle moment. “This felt like a once-in-a-lifetime New York moment,” she said.

From Engagement to “I Do”

Jepsen first announced her engagement to Cole in September 2024, sharing a series of photos on Instagram with the caption, “Very engaged over here .” Fans flooded the comments with excitement, celebrating the couple’s low-key yet heartfelt reveal.

In the months that followed, Jepsen gave glimpses of her wedding preparations — from taste-testing cakes (“Mostly fighting about cake,” she joked) to celebrating her bachelorette with friends in colorful wigs. Each post carried her signature humor and warmth, traits fans have long adored.

The Start Of A New Chapter

While Jepsen has yet to share full wedding photos, her fans are already speculating about new music inspired by this next chapter. The Grammy-nominated singer has always channeled her emotions into her work — from heartbreak anthems to euphoric pop bangers.

If her love story with Cole is any indication, her next album might just be her most romantic yet.

In Wedding Gowns

A Complete Guide to Wedding Dress Styles Every Bride Should Know

October 28, 2025 No Comments

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Saying “yes to the dress” is just as defining as saying “yes” to your partner. For many brides, the gown they walk down the aisle in becomes one of the most memorable and photographed moments of their lives. But with rails of lace, satin, tulle, and sequins at every bridal boutique, choosing the right silhouette can feel overwhelming.

Whether you’re dreaming of a princess-style ball gown or something sleek and minimalist, the right wedding dress style can highlight your best features, complement your personality, and set the tone for your celebration. Here’s a breakdown of the most popular wedding dress silhouettes and what makes each one special.

A-Line

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Flattering on just about every body type, the A-line gown has earned its place as a bridal classic. Its fitted bodice gently flares from the waist to create a soft “A” shape. This style is particularly kind to petite or pear-shaped brides, creating a slimming effect while elongating the frame.

In South Africa, where many brides mix cultural traditions with modern designs, A-line silhouettes often blend beautifully with layered beadwork or traditional fabrics like shweshwe, creating a contemporary yet rooted look.

Empire Waist

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The empire waistline sits just beneath the bust and cascades into a long skirt, giving brides an elongated silhouette. It’s a favourite among vintage enthusiasts, often linked to the Regency era (think Bridgerton chic). For petite brides, the higher waistline adds height, while the flowing skirt adds movement and softness.

Empire waist dresses are also popular for beach weddings along the South African coast, thanks to their light, airy feel.

Drop Waist

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A throwback to 1920s glamour, the drop-waist gown sits below the natural waist and hugs the torso before falling into a skirt. Perfect for brides with long legs, this design elongates the body and creates a relaxed yet elegant structure.

It’s less common at traditional church weddings but often seen at Art Deco-themed celebrations or reception after-party looks.

Ball Gown

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If you’ve ever dreamt of arriving like royalty, the ball gown is your ticket. With a fitted bodice and dramatic, voluminous skirt, this style is designed to make a statement. It flatters most body types by cinching the waist and skimming the hips, though petite brides may feel swallowed by its size.

In South African culture, the ball gown often surfaces at large family weddings where grandeur is expected, and it pairs perfectly with cathedral-length veils.

Mermaid

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The mermaid silhouette is figure-hugging from the bust to the knees, flaring dramatically at the bottom. It’s a bold choice for confident brides who want to celebrate their curves. Because of its structure, movement can be a little restricted, so shapewear and careful fittings are key.

Mermaid gowns have been trending on Instagram and TikTok, where South African brides show off dazzling beadwork or illusion lace versions of this sexy design.

Trumpet

Often mistaken for mermaid styles, trumpet gowns hug the body until mid-thigh before flaring in a subtler curve. It’s a go-to for brides who want drama without the full commitment of a mermaid gown. This silhouette works well for hourglass figures, offering balance and freedom of movement.

Fit-And-Flare

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A cousin of the trumpet, fit-and-flare gowns gradually widen from the hips, creating a softer line. They’re ideal for brides who want a curve-hugging look but with comfort and mobility. This style is popular at outdoor weddings where dancing, walking, and mingling are part of the celebration.

Slip

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Minimalist brides love the effortless appeal of slip dresses. Think Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy’s iconic ’90s satin gown: sleek, modern, and timeless. Often made from silk or satin, slip dresses skim the body without much structure, creating a chic and relaxed look.

Sheath

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The sheath gown is a straight, body-skimming style with no defined waistline. It elongates petite brides and defines taller frames, offering a clean and simple silhouette. A sash or belt can add definition for boxier body types.

Brides who don’t want a long train often choose sheath gowns, especially for destination weddings where practicality matters.

Column

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Similar to the sheath, the column gown runs straight down the body but is often made with heavier fabrics like taffeta or brocade for more structure. It’s popular with athletic builds and those who want understated sophistication.

Tea-Length

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Hitting just above the ankle, tea-length gowns are playful, vintage-inspired, and perfect for brides who want to show off their shoes. They work beautifully for daytime ceremonies, garden receptions, or retro-themed weddings.

South African brides are increasingly choosing tea-length dresses for second looks, especially for outdoor summer weddings where comfort and mobility are a priority.

Midi

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Falling mid-calf, the midi dress blends modesty with vintage flair. It first rose to popularity in the 1940s and ’50s and has recently made a comeback for courthouse weddings or small, intimate ceremonies. Tall brides often pull this off best, as the length can shorten the leg line for petite figures.

High-Low

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With a raised hemline in the front and a longer train at the back, high-low gowns are all about movement and fun. They’re perfect for showing off a statement pair of heels and bring a fresh, contemporary twist to bridal fashion.

Brides who want to transition from ceremony to after-party often gravitate to this design for its versatility.

Mini

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Finally, the mini dress: short, playful, and unconventional. Once reserved for after-parties, it has now become a bold choice for civil ceremonies, elopements, and backyard weddings. Petite brides especially love this style because it doesn’t overwhelm their frame.

Which Style Will You Pick?

Your wedding dress is more than fabric and seams; it’s a reflection of your story, your culture, and your celebration of love. Whether you want to look like a queen in a ball gown or keep it understated in a slip dress, remember that comfort and confidence matter most. The best gown is the one that makes you feel like the truest version of yourself.

In Planning

Wedding Planning Countdown: Your 12 → 6 → 3 → 1 Month Checklist for a Seamless South African Wedding

October 21, 2025 No Comments

Planning a wedding can be both exciting and overwhelming. To help you stay organized and ensure nothing is overlooked, we’ve crafted a month-by-month checklist tailored for South African couples. Whether you’re dreaming of a beachside ceremony in Cape Town or a vineyard celebration in Stellenbosch, this guide will keep you on track.

12 Months Before: Laying the Foundation

Set Your Budget: Determine your overall budget and discuss contributions with family members if applicable.
Draft Your Guest List: Start compiling a list of guests to estimate the size of your wedding.
Choose Your Wedding Date: Select a date that works for you and your key vendors.
Research and Book Key Vendors: Secure your venue, photographer, and caterer early, as they can book up quickly.
Create a Wedding Vision Board: Gather inspiration for themes, colors, and styles that resonate with you.

6 Months Before: Finalizing Details

Send Save-the-Dates: Inform your guests about your wedding date and location.
Order Wedding Attire: Begin shopping for your wedding dress and the groom’s attire.
Book Additional Vendors: Secure services like florists, entertainment, and transportation.
Plan the Honeymoon: Research destinations and make necessary bookings.
Register for Gifts: Set up a wedding registry for your guests.

3 Months Before: Confirming Arrangements

Send Invitations: Mail out your wedding invitations with RSVP details.
Finalize Menu and Cake: Confirm your catering choices and cake design.
Schedule Hair and Makeup Trials: Book appointments to test your wedding day look.
Plan the Rehearsal Dinner: Choose a venue and send invitations to the bridal party.
Apply for a Marriage License: Ensure you meet all legal requirements for marriage in South Africa.

1 Month Before: Final Preparations

Confirm RSVPs: Follow up with guests who haven’t responded.
Create a Seating Plan: Organize your seating chart for the reception.
Have Final Dress Fitting: Ensure your wedding attire fits perfectly.
Prepare Payments: Organize payments for vendors and tips for the wedding day.
Pack for the Honeymoon: Get your travel documents and luggage ready.

By following this structured timeline, you can ensure a smooth and memorable wedding day. Remember, the key to a successful wedding is staying organized and enjoying the journey. Happy planning!

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In Drinks

Ginspiration for the Perfect Gin Bar on Your Wedding Day

October 14, 2025 No Comments

South Africa, and more specifically Cape Town, has been ranked among the top 10 wedding destinations in the world, this is according to a study by DC Jewellery.

Gaining much popularity around the world are exclusive gin bars because after all what makes a wedding all the more special is having the perfect drink to cheers with. Gin bars offer a vibe so, you can choose from a classic high tea look, mid-century modern touch or bohemian and base your gin choices around that.

A gin bar doesn’t just make a statement it adds a decorative piece to your big day and special touches like customised cocktails that can tie into you and your partner’s love story.

Musgrave Spirits: The Show-Stopping Gin Cart

Ready to dazzle brides and her guests, premium gin brand Musgrave Spirits elaborate gin cart embellished with fresh pink, red and white roses comes fully stocked with Musgrave Original gin and Musgrave Rose Pink Gin, as well as Musgrave Inspirit which is 0% alcohol for those who don’t drink along with a Musgrave Gin mixologist.

Inspired by founder Simone Musgrave’s love of roses and of course gin they’ve also developed the ideal take home gift for wedding guests in the form of Musgrave miniatures.

A Spirit with an African Story

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Musgrave Crafted Spirits in a class of its own and is a must-have on any occasion. Earning its place as trendsetters with the launch of SA’s original pink gin, Musgrave Pink, and award-winning Musgrave Original Gin. Born out of the African explorations of the Musgrave Family at the turn of the 19th Century, the family’s tale is one of adventure and discovery, embodied in the tenacious spirit of patriarch Maurice Boon Musgrave. This pioneering spirit inspired Boon Musgrave’s granddaughter, Simone Musgrave, to look to Africa’s rich land of flavour and aromas to create the truly African expression of spirit in the Musgrave Gin.

A Taste of the African Spice Route

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The Original Musgrave Gin is made up of a selection of 11 botanicals, each reflecting some aspect of the African Spice Route of yesteryear. The Musgrave Gin has expressive top notes of Cardamom, African Ginger, and Grains of Paradise, whilst the citrus and other spices marry together a tale of flavour spanning a continent.

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In Advice

Beyond the Honeymoon Phase: What Happens When the Spark Starts to Settle

October 8, 2025 No Comments

Photo by Nathan Dumlao on Unsplash

Every couple knows that giddy, butterflies-in-your-stomach feeling that comes with a new relationship. The late-night phone calls, the constant affection, and the sense that you’ve found your person—it’s intoxicating. But eventually, that sugar-sweet rush begins to fade, and real life steps in. Welcome to the natural evolution of love beyond the honeymoon phase.

What The Honeymoon Phase Really Is

The honeymoon phase is the early stage of a relationship where everything feels light, fun, and effortless. It’s when your partner can do no wrong, and every moment together feels like a highlight reel. According to relationship experts, this phase usually lasts anywhere between six months and two years.

During this period, couples are still learning about each other—sharing firsts, discovering quirks, and building emotional intimacy. It’s also a time when the brain releases a cocktail of feel-good chemicals like dopamine and oxytocin, giving that euphoric “in love” feeling that makes even ordinary moments feel special.

Do All Couples Experience It?

Not necessarily. Some couples experience an immediate rush of romance, while others build their connection slowly and steadily. And that’s perfectly okay.

Those who don’t have an intense honeymoon phase often end up developing a deeper and more realistic bond early on. Without the distraction of infatuation, they’re able to see their partner clearly—flaws and all. In fact, experts say that slow-burning relationships often lead to longer-lasting love because they’re grounded in emotional compatibility rather than instant chemistry.

As one local therapist put it, “When the spark doesn’t happen instantly, it doesn’t mean it never will—it might just grow over time.”

How To Enjoy The Honeymoon Phase

If you’re in the midst of your honeymoon phase, soak it all in. Go on spontaneous adventures, stay up talking till sunrise, and learn as much as you can about each other. It’s a beautiful time to explore your connection.

But there’s also a gentle word of caution: don’t make huge life decisions while you’re still caught up in the bliss. Experts advise waiting until the emotional fog lifts before moving in together, getting engaged, or signing a joint lease. Enjoy the romance, but keep one foot in reality.

When The Glow Begins To Fade

One day, the rose-tinted glasses slip off. The quirks that once seemed cute might start to irritate you. Small disagreements turn into real arguments. You might even question whether the relationship is as solid as you thought.

This is the point where many couples panic—but they shouldn’t. It’s the moment when the relationship shifts from fantasy to authenticity. You begin to see your partner for who they truly are, and that’s a good thing.

The end of the honeymoon phase doesn’t mean love is fading—it means it’s evolving.

Life After The Honeymoon Phase

Once the initial magic fades, relationships enter their most honest stage. You learn to communicate better, handle conflict, and show love in more meaningful ways. The everyday tasks—like cooking dinner or navigating stress together—become opportunities to build trust and partnership.

In South Africa, where many couples juggle busy city lives and family expectations, this stage often tests how resilient love really is. Whether it’s sharing responsibilities in a small flat or planning for a wedding amid career chaos, couples who weather this shift together tend to come out stronger.

Social media is full of reminders that love is supposed to be fireworks forever, but in reality, the slow, steady warmth that follows the honeymoon phase is far more rewarding.

The Takeaway

The honeymoon phase is fleeting, but love doesn’t have to be. When the glitter settles and you start seeing each other clearly, that’s when your relationship truly begins. Because lasting love isn’t about perfection—it’s about choosing each other, even on the ordinary days.

So, if you’re lucky enough to be in that blissful stage right now, enjoy it. But know that what comes next—the quiet, grounded, grown-up love—is just as beautiful, if not more.