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    Some will consider former Japanese Princess Mako and her ‘peasant’ husband Kei Komuro the stuff of fairy tales. Upper echelon circles have considered it dishonourable. Either way, for those who may have thought that the kind of love worth sacrificing everything for is dead, it’s a story worth knowing.

    The daughter of the Japanese emperor’s kin has made headlines for breaking the shackles of royal tradition in the name of not only love but also her independence – being the first female Japanese royal to do so.

    Four years ago, the former princess and her college sweetheart, a non-royal, brought a real-life fairy tale into the world’s gaze. Many swooned over the kind of love so powerful it would cause Mako to willingly take on the harsh consequences of marrying a commoner. As the BBC writes, their smiles won over a country.

    But the consequences were brutal as those within Mako’s social class frowned upon the former Princess’s decision. It would mean losing her royal status, forfeiting millions, and facing intense scrutiny at the sacrifice of her mental health – for years.

    But to Mako, Kei Komuro was the sun, famously mentioning that his smile was as warm as the burning star.

    The couple had met at a meeting of students planning to go abroad in 2012 and had become close as university students over five years, even when studying in different countries. Mako’s university journey was also largely her first symbol of abandoning tradition as it marked her leaving the traditional institution of study for royal Japanese family members.

    While it may have seemed as though Mako was taking all the heat for a story films will no doubt be made about, Komuro too had signed up for mass public scrutiny. As VICE reports, intense questioning regarding whether Kumuro would cause Mako to struggle financially in the future came about in the past after an alleged money dispute to do with the young lawyer’s mother and her former fiance.

    However, despite it all, the young lovers have stood by each other through and through and tied the knot yesterday, October 26.

    In a highly anticipated live TV appearance, the former princess defended her marriage decision expressing that:

    “Kei is irreplaceable for me,” she said. “For us, marriage is a necessary choice to live while cherishing our hearts.”

    Mr Komuro also made vows to his love, stating the words that will be quoted by hopeless romantics all over the world:

    “I want to spend the only life I have with the one I love.”

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    Former Miss South Africa Tamaryn Green and her fiancé Zesimdumise Nxumalo, better known as ‘Ze’, have shared snaps from their traditional Zulu ‘umembeso’ ceremony, which took place last weekend.

    The ceremony came seven months after the couple got engaged in the Kruger National Park while on baecation in April, according to Times Live.

    Umembeso is a Zulu traditional wedding ceremony in which the groom’s relatives bring gifts to the bride’s family. The ceremony occurs after the lobola negotiations but prior to the official Zulu traditional wedding.

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    Planning a wedding can be stressful, and while saying “I do” can be a truly magical experience, it’s also sprinkled with a bit of panic and stress too. But the honeymoon or first post-wedding getaway is a time to unwind and enjoy each other’s company and should be nothing short of epic.

    Basically, the honeymoon sets the tone for the adventures you’re bound to have together, so why not start by making it a beautifully wild one.

    Enter Limpopo’s luxurious Abelana Game Reserve, which is ready to make all your wildest adventures and dreams come true.

    Forget the cobble-stoned streets of Europe because Africa is romance personified. Wake up each morning and be serenaded by the sounds of Africa: the distant roaring of lions, the magnificent trumpets of elephants, and the melodic songs of birdlife – is there anything more romantic than that?

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    Abelana Lodge is nestled on 15 000 hectares of unadulterated African beauty, boasting a stylish and newly rebuilt 20-room lodge that overlooks the Selati River. Spend your morning greeting the wildlife that calls this area home, including hippo, crocodiles and a range of birdlife species. Each room is beautifully decorated, offering a comfortable and stylish design that takes nothing away from the landscape. Head out onto the veranda, grab a glass of champagne and cheers as you enjoy Limpopo’s burnt skies and natural brilliance.

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    Booking a stay here is truly the ultimate escape into nature, providing you with the perfect opportunity to spend some much-needed time together after planning a wedding.

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    While booking your stay at Abelana Lodge is a must, theyre treating one lucky couple to a two night overnight stay in one of their luxurious rooms! 

    This incredible prize includes an air-conditioned, en-suite room, together with all meals (yum), a complimentary bottle of house wine at dinner, all the snacks your heart desires, game drives in an open vehicle and mesmerising bush walks, and a romantic sunset gin stop. Now, thats one way to spend your honeymoon, right? 

    Keep in mind that the giveaway will exclude the following: 

    • It’s not transferable for cash. 
    • Transport to and from the lodge is not included. 
    • Subject to availability.
    • Valid for one year from the date of issue. 
    • This prize will, unfortunately, exclude long weekends, public holidays. 
    • All personal expenses (including, but not limited to, curios, soft and alcoholic drinks, telephone charges) are for own account.

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    So, just how do you get your hands on this unbelievable prize? 

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    The Winner will be announced on 1 November.

    Good luck! 

    *Please note that this prize is only available to newlywed couples.


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    QUESTION: How many newly rebuilt rooms will you find at Abelana Game Lodge? 

    A new buzz word going around wedding circles is the “management ring”, if you can’t decipher what it is, we’ll just tell you: an engagement ring for men!

    Gender norms are out the window and equality is in as men are joining in on the bling. Why should women only get exciting jewellery to tell the world they will soon be a Mrs (or just a married Ms)?

    The term “management” doesn’t refer to any high-level oversight a woman has to do on her man. Rather it’s a fun combination of the word man and engagement.

    The trend has becoming increasingly popular especially since it is a common practice among gay men, with each giving the other mean ngagement ring or going to pick out ones together. In addition, a few celebrities have been seen sporting them over the years including Michael Bublé and Ed Sheeran.

    Management rings come in all shapes and sizes, ranging from clumsy-proof silicon to blinged out statement pieces.

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    There are plenty of us who roll our eyes at the very idea of Valentine’s Day. The day of love has become so commercialised that many couples have opted out, and then there’s the argument that “every day should be Valentine’s Day”.

    But this year it’s all different. It’s been a difficult time for most since the onset of COVID-19. Many life partners have been tragically lost, and we’ve all generally had very little quality time with our significant others as we grapple with all the extra demands of living in a global pandemic.

    So if ever there was a Valentine’s Day to celebrate the love of your life, this is it! And here are some great ideas about how to make it special:

    Be day tourists in your city 

    This year, Valentine’s Day falls on a Sunday, making it easy for couples to spend the entire day together. You could use the time to do some safe sight-seeing in your own city. For those in Johannesburg, you could explore the historical sites before grabbing a bite to eat or something to drink in Maboneng.

    If Cape Town is your home, what about a day out enjoying some of a long list of pocket-friendly experiences compiled by Cape Town Tourism. All the details on how to enjoy Cape Town for under just R150 per person can be found here. Or if you’re into art and culture, pop into Zeitz MOCAA for some of the best art on the continent all in one place.

    Make this year the year of the splurge 

    If you’re seeking a really special Valentine’s Day break, then definitely consider booking into one of the world’s top new hotels – Kruger Shalati: The Train on the Bridge. Suspended over the Sabi River in the heart of the Kruger National Park, this hotel assures an exceptionally romantic getaway. Visitors enjoy a unique vantage point from above the river, soaking up unparalleled views of the Kruger National Park and the majestic Sabi River below.

    Do something different from the comfort of home

    Did you know that you can still enjoy a local jazz club’s cocktail hour, experience a cooking experience in France, take part in a dance class in Brazil, get involved in a fun scavenger hunt hosted by someone in the USA, or get your zen on in a meditation session with a Japanese monk – all from the safety of home? With Airbnb’s Online Experiences, you can explore the world from your sitting room, while also helping these Experience hosts continue to earn a living.

    Enjoy a stay-cation

    If you don’t want to venture too far from home, but you are keen to get away, then take a look at what hot deals your local hotels are offering for Valentine’s Day. Many hotels create special Valentine’s Day packages, like Radisson Blu Hotel Waterfront in Cape Town, for example. Their special Valentine’s staycation includes a romantic picnic-style dinner in your room. You can enjoy it while watching the sunset over the ocean from your balcony – the perfect backdrop to a romantic getaway. If you’re not Cape Town-based, just get on to Google and check out the romantic escapes on offer in your own city.

    Have a dance party at home 

    If spending money isn’t on your agenda this Valentine’s Day, what about organising a fun, old-fashioned dance party at home?  Download YouTube music on to a device of your choosing and blast some of your favourite songs – or any songs significant to your relationship. Then take your significant other for a whirl around your living room dance floor! Love is free, after all.

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    Fred Paul and Florence Harvey’s love story ignited 68 years ago when they were just teenagers in Wandsworth, a small town in Canada.

    They were inseparable, spending every moment they could wrapped up in each other’s company. Every night, Paul would flicker his porch light to say good night to Harvey, who lived across the bay.

    She was my first love. My first girlfriend and my first true love,” Paul (84) told CNN.

    After a two year relationship, the pair separated and ended up marrying other people and started their own families. But fate has a way of intervening. In 2017, Harvey’s husband died of cancer and in 2019, Paul’s wife died. While grieving the loss of their loves, they rekindled their old flame.

    Upon hearing the news his wife had passed, Harvey reached out to Paul to comfort him. One phone call became two, which turned into daily calls that would last for hours.

    “I never thought it would go past that,” Harvey, 81, said. “But we went from talking once a week, to twice, to three times, to every day for hours. We had really reconnected even though we hadn’t seen each other in all those years. I knew this was it.”

    Months later, the pair reunited in person and within three days, had decided to get married. They exchanged vows on August 8, 2020 in front of close family and friends.

    “You were the first young man to walk me home in my teens,” Harvey told Paul during the ceremony. “I guess you’ll be the last man to walk me home.”

    The couple now plan to relive their first chapters of love by visiting their childhood town where it all began.

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    While divorce is no laughing matter, Twitter users have seized the Kim and Kanye West divorce rumours as an opportunity to make light of the unconfirmed situation.

    E!News, who aired Keeping up with the Kardashians for its entirety, said that while the couple haven’t filed for divorce, they are officially separating while they figure things out.

    E! News said that a source close to the couple explained that they are “trying to work through things” in marriage counseling. “Divorce has been discussed, but Kim wants more than anything for their relationship to work.”

    Twitter users are doing what they are known to do and are making a joke of it all:

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    TV host/ musician Sipho ‘Psyfo’ Ngwenya and his girlfriend Aamirah Mirah tied the knot in an intimate wedding ceremony this past weekend, attended by family only.

    The pair met in 2017, dated for two years, and got engaged on August 9, 2019.

    Sipho and Aamirah shared pictures of their intimate wedding where everyone was wearing white. They had their beautiful ceremony on top of a hill at Aamirah’s hometown.

    Sipho posted: ‘Officially Mr and Mrs! I could not have wanted a better partner to do this with. I love you very much Mrs Ngwenya’.

     

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    Aamirah went full-on with beautiful pictures and a heartwarming caption.

    “Good people ? This past Saturday (21/11/2020), was the most beautiful day of my life. I got married to my best friend on top of a mountain, in my home province and I don’t have all the words to express how happy and in love I am with this man who has been so committed and loyal to me.

    She added: “I have many interesting and funny stories to share about our special day. Overall, I can’t believe we did it mate.”

     

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    The brid,e who wore unconventional black and white pants suits and sneakers, also posted pictures of the family and the setting of the wedding.

     

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    Monate Game Lodge is a haven of peace and tranquility just waiting to be discovered. Nestled in manicured natural gardens on approximately 3000-hectare private game reserve in the Limpopo Province within 2 hours reach of Pretoria and Johannesburg – 30 minutes from Kranskop Tollgate, Modimolle/Nylstroom – it is the perfect place for corporate conferencing, weddings or just a weekend getaway.

    Monate Game Lodge offers luxurious accommodation in 38 modern double rooms and two luxury villas situated at the Main Lodge. The exclusive Shingwedzi and Skukuza Lodges are deluxe two bedroom lodges situated within walking distance from the Main Lodge offering a high level of privacy.

    Monate Game Lodge caters to every couple’s wedding whims and desires. Big, medium or small – they host them all in a way that you will treasure forever.

    Whether you wish to declare your eternal love beneath their breath-taking Rock Fig, promise to always be true under a majestic Marula tree, echo your “I do’s” in a natural cave or celebrate your union in a traditional chapel – Monate is the venue where love falls in love again.

    Unique dining experiences in a variety of locations are available such as our natural cave, or the Bush Boma.  Exclusive use of the lodge ensures your guests can relax and enjoy the occasion while the couple can focus on their special day, knowing their guests are cared for and looked after.

    Monate Game Lodge has many breath-taking photo opportunities for bridal parties. Whether you are looking for something in the middle of the wild or prefer their magnificent sunset backdrops, their list to choose from is endless. Spring, summer, autumn or winter, they have the perfect setting for you.

    Monate Game Lodge offers a wide variety of activities for you to enjoy. They promise a peaceful time in nature filled with interesting facts from their Rangers on either a day or night game drive. Soak off your stress in the Jacuzzi leaving you relaxed and refreshed.

    Try your hand at putt-putt, watch the sports in the bar on the big screen, or quietly disappear with a nice read in the serenity of the lounge, visit their archaeological heritage Stone Age sites or try your hand at clay pigeon shooting.

    Monate address:

    Portion 1, Farm Witkoppies,

    Tuinplaas

    Modimolle

    0510

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    Golden Globe and Academy Award nominated actress Gabourey Sidibe has announced that she isengaged to her branding and marketing expert boyfriend Brandon Frankel.

    Sidibe, famous for her role in the acclaimed film Precious, took to Instagram to show her followers her beautiful ring.

    She captioned her post: “It’s weird that people think we’re already married but I guess our hearts and intentions for each other are just that clear to see, My BFF proposed and now I get to hold him forever. The funniest man I’ve ever met. The sweetest human to exist. @brandontour made up a song for when i put my bonnet on at night. The second I look a bit stressed and overwhelmed, he jumps into action to take over what he can for me. Every moment with him is a joy.”

     

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    Brandon posted his own pictures showing their engagement, he also showed a glimpse of how he proposed.

    He put a ‘Will you marry my daddy’ around their cat Ronald’s neck.

    “I asked my best friend to marry me, and she said “YES”! So excited to spend the rest of my life with the most amazing, hilarious, beautiful, and inspiring woman I’ve ever known. I couldn’t imagine a life without you. We make the best team, and we make everything fun and memorable. I liked it, so I put a ? on it. Love you to the moon and back,” he wrote.

     

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    The beautiful ring has a round centre diamond on a delicate white gold, pavé band. According to Brilliant Earth’s SVP of Merchandising and Retail Expansion, Kathryn Money, it appears to be a 1.5-to-2-carat diamond. It is estimated to cost between approximately $15,000 to $40,000. ( R 227 606,25 – R 607 306,00). 

    The two started dating around May of 2019, and have been inseparable ever since. They have been quarantining together since the pandemic forced a shutdown this year.

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