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    Award-winning musician Zakes Bantwini and actress Nandi Madida are dissolving their marriage contract. After four years of marriage, the pair have recently discovered they entered into the wrong contract and are seeking to rectify the mistake.

    The couple mistakenly married in community of property, which means their estates are joined together. The power couple now plan to dissolve their marriage contract to enter into a new one out of community of property to protect their individual assets.

    Sunday World reported that Bantwini has already filed a court order to remove his wife from their joint estates, which is worth millions.

    In an affidavit, Bantwini explains the contract was mistakenly entered into due to a misunderstanding with the marriage officer.

    “And as a result of a misunderstanding between ourselves and the marriage officer, who conducted the marriage ceremony, we understood incorrectly as it now appears that he would be in a position to ensure that our marriage would be out of community of property without the application of the accrual system,” read the affidavit.

    “At all material times, it was the intention of the second applicant and myself to be married out of community of property without application of the accrual system.”

    Feature image: Instagram / Zakes Bantwini

     

    They say rain is a good omen on your wedding day, but what about lightning? This couple was surprised when the bolt of electricity flashed during their wedding ceremony.

    Aaron Sawitsky and Denice McClure recently tied the knot in front of a small group in Massacheussets, USA.

    As the groom was reading his written vows, guests were treated to a show. During his speech, Sawitsky says: “Let’s face it, 2020 has not been the best year.” Right on cue, Mother Nature cracks her whip and strikes lightning down right behind the wedding altar, as if in warning.

    “Mother nature has one wry sense of humor,” Sawitsky wrote on Instagram. “Thankfully no one got electrocuted and we finished our vows before the rain started!”

    Watch it happen:

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    Since the video was posted, it has gone viral. Many expressed what a memorable moment it is.

    “Now, this is one of the wedding no one forget. Congratulations to you guys and I hope that the remaining part of 2020 is good for all of us,” commented one person.

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    There are so many things that can go wrong on your big day, and sometimes you have to roll with the punches. Or if you’re a wedding planner, you share the fails to social media for some laughs.

    This wedding planner did exactly that when they shared a hilarious picture of their clients wedding cake gone wrong to social media, and the post soon made its way to Reddit.

    “This is why you hire professionals,” the planner wrote in her social media post.

    This error definitely takes the cake.

    While most found the humour in the mistake, one Reddit user made an interesting comment.

    “In these COVID times it actually applies quite well. We just had to decline an invitation to a wedding as we don’t want to spend 6 hrs or more in the same room with 100’s of people. And most of them won’t be wearing a mask. No thanks.’

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    Some weddings are so extravagant they deserve an award. This three-day luxurious Indian wedding in Dubai was so spectacular that it has received a famed international award for wedding planners.

    The wedding won the ‘Wedding Concept Award’ at the Belief Awards, an online contest created to celebrate wedding Planners and designers around the globe. Winners were chosen by a panel of judges selected by Belief Wedding Creators.

    The 13th edition of the awards crowned wedding planners Rahul Kumar and Arun Bablani, from Vivaah Weddings for their extravegant three-day celebration they hosted for couple Prerna and Shaun.

    In 2019, the couple said ‘I do’ in a stunning ceremony in Dubai. The bride and groom are both of Indian descent, and wanted a glamorous wedding infused with tradition.

    The multi-day celebration began with a welcome dinner and afterparty on the first day, followed by the Mehendi afternoon and Sangeet evening on the second day. The couple tied the knot on the third day of celebrations, which ended with a glamorous reception in the evening.

    The celebrations were spread across venues like the Hilton, V Hotel and Habtoor Palace, and featured 350 guests.

    Take a look at their special day:

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    The South African government has gazetted new directives to help regulate gatherings amid the shift to Level 2. The new directives include changes to how weddings may continue during the pandemic.

    According to the new directives, released August 25, there are a host of safety regulations that vendors must follow as the wedding industry reopens. As such, the onus is largely on wedding planners and vendors to make sure guests follow protocol.

    Weddings are still limited to 50 people, and all hygienic conditions and physical distancing measures must be adhered to for the limitation of exposure to COVID-19.

    The person organising the wedding, exhibition or function and the owner or manager of the venue must ensure compliance with the requirement relating to physical distancing of at least one and a half metres and the wearing of a cloth face mask, a homemade item or another appropriate item that covers the nose and mouth, by all attendees.

    A person managing a venue for a wedding, exhibition or other function must:

    – set up screening stations at entrances to facilitate the screening of persons before entry

    – not allow access to a person who is not wearing a cloth mask, or homemade item that covers the nose and mouth or another appropriate item to cover the nose and mouth

    – ensure that every person wears a cloth face mask, a homemade item or another appropriate item that covers the nose and mouth at all times except when eating or drinking

    – ensure that every person sanitises before entry

    – sanitise microphones and podiums after use by every person.

    Read the new gazette here: Tourism-Gazette-weddings-events

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    As the COVID-19 pandemic continues across the world, people have learned the importance of lending a helping hand. This couple really wanted to make a difference, and donated their wedding food to a shelter. Not only that, they also spent their wedding day serving the food to those in need.

    Melanie and Tyler Tapajna from Ohio, USA were meant to have a 150-guest wedding. They paid in advance to secure their venue, DJ and food. However, the venue cancelled due to the pandemic and they had to make new arrangements.

    A bit disappointed but not surprised, the couple decided to put their money to good use.

    “Since we’d prepaid for the food, we could have had the wedding somewhere else and still invited everyone, but it didn’t make sense,” Melanie tells the Washington Post. “I turned to Tyler and said, ‘What would you think of donating the food instead?’ ”

    The couple got in contact with Laura’s Home, a shelter in Cleveland for single women and mothers with children, and organised to have food worth $2000 (R33 751) delivered to serve 135 people.

    Their only request was that, following their small ceremony, they could serve the food at the home themselves.

    Melanie and Tyler tied the knot on August 15 in the bride’s grandparents’ backyard, with a dozen family members present. After the ceremony and still in their wedding attire, they made their way down to the shelter to serve their wedding meal, provide by food truck Betty’s Bomb-A** Burgers.

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    Maintaining social distancing and hygiene measures, the pair spent their wedding day serving food to those in need. And they wouldn’t have it any other way.

    “We just felt it was wrong to have a big wedding during this time, especially when so many people are struggling,” Said Melanie.

    They plan to continue this spirit of giving back by donating to a charity every year on their wedding anniversary. They hope their big day inspires others to do the same.

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    As the pandemic continues, long-distance couples are kept apart even longer. For many, it has been at least five months since they’ve physically seen their partner. A new movement is growing across the world to reunite these lovers.

    Called the ‘Love is Not Tourism‘ movement, they are speaking out against rules in various countries preventing international travel and keeping them apart.

    “The closure of international borders in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic was – and still is – sensible and even necessary. It is obvious that we must halt tourism to protect us and others,” the movement explains on their website. “But love is not tourism. This is not just about a summer holiday, it is about mental health and the future of people all around the world.

    “We as international lovers and families, urge governments of all states to amend their travel restrictions. Allow the un-bureaucratic and safe reunion of partners in long distance relationships as well as family members.”

    They also say they are willing to submit to appropriate safety regulations, self-pay for a test upon arrival and quarantine until a negative result is received or a 14-day strict quarantine, as long as unmarried couples and families can visit their most important people.

    Countries like Denmark, Iceland, Germany, France and Spain have already introduced measures to allow couples and families to meet up. The movement is calling for other countries in the world to follow suit.

    Most regulations protect married couples, but engaged or unmarried couples are not included. Kana Ishii from Toyo and Jarran Muse from New Jersey were meant to marry this year, but COVID-19 halted their plans. In an interview with NBC New York, they explain their separation has left them drained. They are heartbroken that government will not recognise their love just because they are not married yet.

    In South Africa, the Facebook page ‘Love is Not Tourism SA’ is quickly gaining traction. Couples separated by borders come to share their stories, as well as any resources they have in their fight to be reunited with their loved one.

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    Wedding drone photographers in Mauritius are mobilising to help do their part to reduce the massive oil spill off the coast of the island country.

    On July 25, a Japanese ship crashed into a coral reef and began leaking oil into Mauritian waters from its cracked hull after it ran aground. The ship was carrying nearly 4000 tonnes of fuel, which is now threatening the island’s marine habitat and coastal ecosystem, according to Al Jazeera. It is the country’s worst ecological disaster in history.

    Many residents quickly sprung to action to help, creating makeshift oil spill barriers out of fabric sacks filled with sugar cane leaves.

    Wedding drone photographers have also been a massive help. Being a popular wedding and honeymoon destination, Mauritius has a big wedding industry. Many amateur drone pilots form part of the commercial drone market, and are now using their talents to assist in cleanup operations.

    Mauritus does not have a Navy or Air Force, which means they could not get effective hyper-local aerial footage of the scene, reports Forbes.

    Drone pilots are now filling the gap by flying their drones over the area to identify where the oil spill may be heading, thus helping co-ordinate where the team of volunteers on the ground need to focus on.

    With less international business coming in due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Mauritian wedding drone photographers have found a way to still use their skills and make a difference.

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    The Hallmark Channel is famed for its cheesy straight-to-TV movies. For the first time ever, a storyline on the network will include a lesbian marriage.

    The channel’s upcoming film ‘Wedding Every Weekend’ will be the first time the network features a first same-sex wedding. The plot of the movie centres on two friends who “buddy-up” as guests for a four-week wedding marathon, and then recognise that there’s more between them than trying to catch someone else’s bouquet.

    “Tune in to an all-new premiere! Amanda (Carmel Amit) and Vicky (Makayla Moore) celebrate their special day in one of the many weddings taking place in “Wedding Every Weekend,” Saturday August 15 at 9pm/8c, only on Hallmark Channel,” writes Hallmark on their Facebook page.

    Many have applauded this decision for its inclusive nature, saying it is about time the LGBTQI+ community is represented on the channel.

    THANK YOU Hallmark. We are people too and just want to live our lives like everyone else. This includes all the ‘passages’ in life. Thank you for celebrating our life events,” writes a fan on Facebook.
    Good for you Hallmark! I’m so glad that you guys keep making movies that are all-inclusive! Everyone deserves to be happy and be loved! If people don’t like to bad, they don’t have to watch! As for me and my family we will be watching, and teaching my kids to be kind and not judge others. Love no matter skin color, religion or gender identity!” comments another.

    Some, however, have criticised the network for this decision and believe it goes against the channel’s traditional values.

    Will not be watching. First new movie we will miss. No deviant lifestyles on our TV,” comments one Facebook user.

    Nope. I thought Hallmark was a good clean family Christian channel. Sorry Hallmark had to join the other side and its ok to offend us Christians but not them. Sorry Hallmark I thought you were better than that,” says another.

    One Million Moms, a division of the socially conservative American Family Association, has since criticised the channel and started a petition to encourage people to boycott the channel.

    “The once conservative network has recently caved to LGBTQ pressure and has done a one-eighty from the wholesome content the channel once aired, and the network is now catering to the Left,” reads the petition. “So many people feel betrayed by Hallmark over these past seven months. Hallmark Channel was one of the remaining channels that families could watch without being bombarded by politically correct commercials and the LGBTQ agenda.”

    By Monday, August 10, the petition had amassed over 56 000 signatures.

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    Weddings are meant to be a happy occasion, where couples can celebrate their love for one another with their closest friends and family. Testing positive for COVID-19 afterwards, however, puts a big damper on the day. As the COVID-19 pandemic escalates across the world, more and more cases of wedding ‘super spreaders’ are being reported.

    In South Africa, public gatherings of over 50 are currently banned which means that weddings as we know them cannot currently go ahead. Countries across the world have instilled similar regulations on public gatherings. However, many members of the public have broken these rules and continue to host large events. This has lead to these parties being called ‘super-spreaders’, as one COVID-19 positive person can spread the disease to several others.

    The reality:

    In July, 25 guests who attended a wedding in KwaZulu-Natal tested positive for COVID-19. A couple in San Francisco tried to sneakily have a wedding ceremony in the city’s iconic Saints Peter and Paul Church in August. Dozens of their loved ones, including friends and family, were present at the event and several of them were infected with COVID-19.

    A wedding which took place in the Patna District of Bihar, a state in India, effectively started a COVID-19 chain as 113 people tested positive and the groom passed away. It has been reported that this was the largest chain of infection in the state thus far.

    Breaking the rules:

    In America, weddings are allowed but each state has differing rules on how they may continue. For many in the wedding industry, this has become a great concern as guests don’t follow health and safety regulations.

    “Weddings are so different from going into a store or sitting in a restaurant for 45 minutes,” an anonymous wedding planner told the New York Times. “These receptions last for three, four hours, and everyone is in an indoor space, breathing the air. They aren’t wearing masks and they are dancing. And when they start drinking, it’s like there is no pandemic.”

    “I am scared there is going to be an outbreak at one of my weddings and someone is going to die.”

    While vendors can control the behaviour of their employees, it’s hard to tell a guest what to do. Sanitising stations can be set up, socially distanced seating arranged and a mask-wearing policy encouraged but in reality, it’s up to guests to follow those rules.

    Vendors thus put themselves at risk to fulfill their contractual obligations, but cannot easily rely on strict safety protocols other businesses have enforced.

    The way forward:

    The South African wedding industry is desperate to get back to work after months of inactivity amid the pandemic. Before this happens, government will have to outline strict regulations to prevent further spread of the virus.

    As with sit-down restaurants, wedding guests should be required to wear a mask at all time except for eating and drinking. It is likely that government will also require guests to fill in health questionnaires, and be subjected to temperature testing. This responsibility will fall on wedding vendors.

    The issue is enforcing social distancing on such a special day where people will naturally want to hug one another and celebrate.

    Once weddings do continue, they will be nothing like before. We will all have to adjust our behaviours to celebrate responsibly, and help protect the health of others.

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