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    If the idea of a cookie-cutter wedding look feels a little… predictable, you’re not alone. More couples are stepping away from traditional bridalwear rules, not only to create something more personal, but also to keep costs down without sacrificing style.

    DIY wedding fashion is no longer just about crafty extras on the side. It’s becoming a full style approach for couples who want to experiment, repurpose, personalise and completely rethink what “wedding attire” is supposed to look like.

    Rethinking the wedding outfit entirely

    Before you even get to embellishments and accessories, the biggest shift is letting go of the idea that you need a traditional wedding dress or suit. Here are some alternative ways couples are building their looks:

    High-street + handmade mix
    Pair an affordable base piece with DIY details like altered hems, added sleeves or custom trims.

    Second-hand styling
    Thrifted dresses, vintage suits or even family heirlooms become the starting point for something completely new.

    Non-bridal pieces
    Think slip dresses, tailored trousers, jumpsuits, oversized shirts or even coordinated two-piece sets. If it fits well and feels good, it works.

    Rent and reinvent
    Start with a rental piece and personalise it temporarily with accessories, layering or detachable add-ons.

    The magic is in the customisation

    This is where DIY really comes alive. Small changes can completely transform a simple outfit into something that feels designer-level personal.

    Alterations with attitude
    Shorten a hem, add a slit, change a neckline or restructure sleeves. A good seamstress can turn “almost right” into perfect.

    Colour experimentation
    Soft dyeing, dip-dye effects or subtle tinting can take a plain white or cream piece into something far more interesting.

    Fabric layering
    Add sheer overlays, lace panels, organza skirts or detachable capes for movement and drama without buying a whole new outfit.

    Statement accessories that don’t break the bank

    Accessories are where DIY wedding fashion becomes fun instead of stressful.

    Veils with personality
    Add embroidery, printed phrases, coloured edges or even hand-sewn motifs that mean something to you as a couple.

    Repurposed jewellery
    Turn old family jewellery into hairpins, brooches or necklace details instead of buying new.

    DIY belts and waist details
    A simple ribbon, scarf or vintage chain can completely change the silhouette of a dress or suit.

    Handmade bags or pouches
    Small clutch bags can be painted, beaded or stitched with initials or wedding dates.

    Groom and groom-style DIY ideas too

    This isn’t just a bridal moment — it’s for anyone getting married.

    Custom suit lining
    A subtle but powerful detail: add prints, messages or meaningful fabric inside a jacket.

    Personalised ties and bow ties
    From bold patterns to embroidered initials or even inside jokes.

    Statement socks or shoes
    Colour, print or custom embroidery hidden under a formal look keeps things playful.

    Reworked vintage suits
    Oversized vintage tailoring can be altered into modern, perfectly fitted wedding wear at a much lower cost.

    Shoes that don’t behave (in the best way)

    Wedding shoes are often overpriced for what they are — which makes them perfect for DIY transformation.

    • Paint plain heels or sneakers to match your theme
    • Add pearls, rhinestones or fabric flowers
    • Replace laces with satin ribbons or velvet ties
    • Use fabric scraps from your outfit for cohesion
    • Restore vintage shoes and modernise them with small details

    Comfort matters too — especially if you’re planning to dance all night.

    Unexpected DIY fashion ideas

    If you really want to step away from tradition, these ideas push things further:

    Convertible outfits
    A skirt that comes off, sleeves that detach, or a cape that transforms your silhouette from ceremony to reception.

    Statement jackets for both partners
    Denim, leather or tailored blazers painted or embroidered with your story.

    Temporary fashion details
    Temporary tattoos, face gems or body art that match your wedding theme.

    Hidden messages
    Embroidery inside garments, stitched dates or secret notes only you know about.

    DIY fashion that actually saves money

    Not every DIY idea is about artistry — some are simply practical.

    • Buying second-hand and altering instead of buying new
    • Using one outfit in multiple ways with detachable layers
    • Sharing styling pieces between ceremony and reception
    • Renting key garments and customising them lightly
    • Choosing simple base pieces and upgrading them with DIY detail instead of designer labels

    It all adds up — especially when weddings already come with a long list of expenses.

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    Buying vs hiring your wedding dress in South Africa: The 2026 bride’s guide to cost, style & smart choices

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    Say your I-dos under this fresh, fun balloon wedding arch. Prepare the wire structure and balloons the day before, then just add greenery in the morning.

    WHAT YOU’LL NEED

    6 m chicken wire
    Florist’s wire
    Wooden rods or fishing line
    Florist’s foam
    Balloons
    Flowers and leaves

    INSTRUCTIONS

    Step 1

    Roll your chicken wire lengthways into a tube and bend in the centre to create an arch. Keep the arch together by tying florist’s wire at intervals along it.

    Step 2

    If the arch is going outside, use sturdy wooden rods or poles to stand it upright. Insert one end of each rod into the ground at least 20 cm deep. Place the bottom ends of the arch over the rods and secure with florist’s wire. If the arch will be placed indoors, suspend it from the ceiling with fishing line.

    Step 3

    Insert bits of damp florist’s foam into the arch, ensuring they are hidden.

    Step 4

    Blow up as many balloons as you like (we used 150) and attach to the arch using florist’s wire.

    Step 5

    Insert your flowers and leaves into the foam, using florist’s wire to hold them in place.

    Step 6

    Cover any exposed florist’s foam with balloons or flowers.

    ALSO SEE: How to make your own flower petal confetti

    How to make your own flower petal confetti

    Wedding favours are having a quieter, more intentional moment — and thank-you shortbread biscuits are leading the way. Delicate, nostalgic, and effortlessly elegant, these buttery treats add a personal touch to your celebration while giving guests something genuinely memorable to take home. Whether beautifully boxed, ribbon-tied, or displayed alongside your reception décor, shortbread biscuits are proof that the sweetest details are often the simplest.

    WHAT YOU’LL NEED
    250g butter, at room temperature
    ½ cup caster sugar, plus extra to dust
    1 vanilla pod, seeds only
    2 cups flour
    ½ cup cornflour
    Custom-made rubber stamps
    Biscuit cutters

    METHOD
    1. Have your rubber stamps made with the greetings of your choice (you can order stamps from rubberstampsa.co.za).
    2. Preheat oven to 160°C and grease a 20 cm baking tray.
    3. Beat the butter until soft, then beat in the caster sugar and vanilla seeds until light and fluffy. Mix in the rest of the ingredients to form a stiff dough.
    4. Roll the dough out on the baking tray so you don’t have to move it afterwards and cut them with your cookie cutters. Stamp each one with your rubber stamp.
    5. Bake for 30 minutes, or until golden. Remove from the oven and immediately dust with caster sugar.
    6. Carefully remove the shortbread fingers from the tray and transfer to a wire rack to cool before serving.
    7. Once they’ve cooled completely, you can put your biscuits in gift boxes or tie them up with cellophane and a pretty ribbon.

    In a world of elaborate wedding trends and over-the-top details, there’s something undeniably charming about a buttery shortbread biscuit wrapped with intention. Equal parts nostalgic and thoughtful, these sweet treats prove that wedding favours don’t need to be extravagant to leave a lasting impression. Sometimes, the most memorable gestures are the simplest ones – made with love, shared with gratitude, and enjoyed one crumb at a time.

    ALSO SEE: Budget-friendly wedding favours you can DIY

    Budget-friendly wedding favours you can DIY

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    There’s one specific wedding moment that never really gets old: the confetti toss. Dried flower petals as confetti is surprisingly easy to make yourself. Plus, it turns something fleeting into something personal, especially if the flowers come from your garden, your bouquet, or a place that means something to you.

    Here’s how to do it properly, without overcomplicating things:

    Why flower petal confetti works so well

    Petal confetti has become a wedding favourite for good reason. It looks softer in photos and it’s biodegradable.

    It’s also:

    • More sustainable than paper confetti
    • Easy to make in bulk
    • Naturally colour-customisable
    • Far more “organic” in movement when thrown

    And if you plan it right, it can even become part of your wedding prep ritual: a slow, satisfying DIY in the weeks leading up to the day.

    The best flowers to use (and how they behave when dried)

    Not all petals dry equally well. Some hold their colour beautifully, while others fade or become too brittle. The trick is choosing flowers that dry flat, light, and still visually interesting.

    Roses (the classic)

    Drying time: 1–3 weeks

    Roses are the go-to for a reason. They dry well, hold their shape, and keep a romantic softness that works in almost any colour palette.

    • Best for: blush, white, red, and peach tones
    • Tip: separate petals before drying for faster results
    • Result: soft, slightly curled petals with great colour retention

    Lavender (for texture and scent)

    Drying time: 1–2 weeks

    Lavender brings something extra — not just colour, but fragrance and texture.

    • Best for: rustic, countryside, or Provence-inspired weddings
    • Dries quickly and cleanly
    • Keeps its shape better than most petals

    Marigolds (for bold colour)

    Drying time: 1–2 weeks

    If you want confetti that shows up in photos, marigolds are a strong choice.

    • Bright oranges and yellows stay vibrant
    • Petals dry flat and lightweight
    • Ideal for summer weddings, especially in warm climates

    Hydrangeas (for softness and volume)

    Drying time: 2–3 weeks

    Hydrangeas don’t behave like traditional petals — they dry into delicate fragments that add softness and fullness.

    • Best used in pastel or muted palettes
    • Colours soften slightly when dried
    • Adds a “cloud-like” effect to confetti mixes

    Bougainvillea (a South African favourite)

    Drying time: 1–2 weeks

    Bougainvillea is practically made for confetti.

    • Naturally vibrant pinks, purples, and reds
    • Dries quickly in warm, dry air
    • Thin petals that flutter beautifully when thrown

    Delphinium (for cooler tones)

    Drying time: 2–3 weeks

    Delphinium brings in those softer blues and purples that are often hard to find in dried flowers.

    • Elegant and delicate
    • Works well in coastal or garden weddings
    • Needs gentle handling once dried

    How to dry the petals (the simple way)

    There’s no need for fancy equipment. Air drying works best and keeps the colour intact.

    1. Pick flowers early in the morning when they’re freshest
    2. Gently remove petals from stems
    3. Spread them out in a single layer on baking paper or a mesh tray
    4. Keep them in a cool, dry, shaded space
    5. Turn them every few days so they dry evenly

    Avoid direct sunlight, as it tends to bleach petals and make colours dull.

    Store your dried petals in paper bags or breathable containers until the wedding day.

    ALSO SEE: Locally loved flowers for your wedding bouquet

    Locally loved flowers for your wedding bouquet

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    Losing a family member is heartbreaking – and when it comes to getting married, their absence is often amplified. Acknowledging these special loved ones can become overwhelming, especially when trying to maintain a celebratory atmosphere throughout your day.

    Fortunately, weddings are sentimental occasions, leaving room for a myriad of ways to acknowledge those dearly departed. The trick is to strike a balance – honouring loved ones without turning your big day into a memorial service. Whether the gesture be small and personalised or open and public, there is always a tasteful way to do it.

    Here are five simple and subtle ways to remember someone passed at your wedding:

    Attach a small photo to your bouquet: This is particularly meaningful for a bride who has lost her father – a highly personal yet subtle gesture that is the perfect little reminder that your dad is walking you down the aisle in spirit.

     

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    Incorporate old fabric into your suit or wedding gown: Keep the spirit of your lost loved ones close by – literally. Use mom’s wedding dress to create your own gown, or transform one of dad’s old ties into a trendy pocket square.

     

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    Reserve a seat at the ceremony: Of course nothing compares to having your loved ones physically by your side but reserving them a seat while you say your “I dos” can be a special reminder of their irreplaceable presence. Mark their seat with a favorite flower or sentimental possession.

     

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    Set up a photo display: This is a great option for couples who want to keep their tribute lighthearted. It avoids creating a heavy atmosphere for guests as family members can step aside to acknowledge deceased family members in private.

     

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    Dedicate a song: Whether it is your first dance or just a casual slot on the playlist, dedicate a song to someone no longer around. Levels of discretion can be altered to your personal taste here; make a grand gesture with an announcement or toast or simply appreciate the special moment to yourself.

     

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    The art of paper folding often associated with Japanese culture has long fascinated Westerners – and for good reason. The intricate designs that result look gorgeous and are often a talking point.

    Which is why, inspired by one of the real weddings featured in Issue 1-2017, we found four easy origami napkin styles to wow your guests.

    What you’ll need

    • Square napkins in the colour of your choice

    How to do it

    For the windmill:

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    1 Fold all the corners into the centre of the napkin.

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    2 Fold the bottom of the napkin upwards to meet the middle then do the same for the top.

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    3 Fold the left side to the middle and repeat this on the right, ensuring both sides are equal.

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    4 Turn the napkin over nd pull out the corners from the inside until all four corners are exposed. Repeat for as many napkins as required.

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    Origami napkin windmill KL Nash

    For the heart:

    Origami napkin heart KL Nash

    1 Fold both sides into the middle, ensuring they are equal. Then fold in half lengthways.

    Origami napkin heart KL Nash

    2 Fold the top of the napkin down towards the bottom. The take the top and fold it sideways, creating a 90-degree line. Repeat on the opposite side by folding the bottom towards the top.

    Origami napkin heart KL Nash

    3 Turn the napkin over then take the top right corner and tuck it in. Repeat this on the left then turn over to see the end result. Repeat for as many napkins as required.

    Origami napkin heart KL Nash

    Origami napkin heart KL Nash

    For the three-fold:

    Origami napkin three-fold KL Nash

    1 Fold the napkin in half from side to side, then fold from top to bottom to create a smaller square.

    Origami napkin three-fold KL Nash

    2 Using the top piece of fabric, roll the right corner into a tube. Do the same with the next two pieces of fabric on the right.

    Origami napkin three-fold KL Nash

    3 Turn the napkin so the tubes of fabric are horizontal then turn over the napkin and fold the right and left corners into the middle until they meet. Turn over once more to see the end result. Repeat for as many napkins as required.

    Origami napkin three-fold KL Nash

    For the sitting fan:

    Origami napkin sitting fan KL Nash

    1 Fold the napkin in half then fold the bottom about 1 cm upwards.

    Origami napkin sitting fan KL Nash

    2 Fold the same section for 1 cm towards the alternate side of the napkin. Continue folding for 1 cm on alternate sides until you have about 3 cm left.

    Origami napkin sitting fan KL Nash

    Origami napkin sitting fan KL Nash

    3 Fold the napkin in half with the folded pieces horizontal. Then fold the leftover fabric into the centre and pull out all the folds into a fan. Repeat for as many napkins as required.

    Origami napkin sitting fan KL Nash

    ALSO SEE: The wedding colour trend that quietly won us over in 2025

    The wedding colour trend that quietly won us over in 2025

    Text Robyn Lane
    Styling Francoise Jeanne de Villiers
    Photography Kendall-Leigh Nash/HMimages.co.za

    A wedding day is a time for celebration. Chances are, however, some might celebrate a bit too hard. Wedding hangovers can be pretty harsh for your guests, so why not help them recover?

    Wedding hangover kits have become popular wedding favours in recent years. What’s great about this favour is that it’s easily DIY’ed, and couples can add whatever they want.

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    If you plan on making your own kit, consider adding some of these items:

    – A bottle of water to prevent a dry throat

    –  An eye mask to reduce puffiness

    – Plasters for those blisters after dancing all night long

    – A granola bar for energy

    – Sunglasses to hide those bloodshot eyes

    – Gum or mouth wash

    – A mini bottle of alcohol because… you know, hair of the dog

    Credit: Pinterest

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    Big fan of Marvel or DC? Let your nerd flag fly with a sweet reference to your favourite comic book character on your big day.

    Add subtle personality to your groom attire with a superhero boutonnière. This is a super easy DIY that you’ll love for years to come.

    Here is how to make a superhero boutonnière, for the superhero groom.

    What you’ll need

    • Small bunch of fresh flowers

    • Elastic band

    • Floral tape

    • Ribbon

    • A superhero figurine (Lego men will work well too)

    Directions

    1. Arrange the flowers in a buttonhole shape – small enough to be wearable by the groom, but big enough to complement and hold your superhero in place.

    2. Fasten the flowers with an elastic band and floral tape, then cover the stems with ribbon or any other fabric of your choice.

    3. The last step is to attach your character to the flowers. You can be creative here and bend it or manoeuvre it in a way that makes the character look more alive.

    Tip: Make sure your character matches the theme and colour scheme of your wedding.

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    With a million things to decide on, from cakes, decor, and venue amongst others, making the decision whether to hire a wedding planner or to do everything yourself is a tricky decision.

    The logistics can take away from the thrill of enjoying your big day. It’s no wonder so many choose to hire a wedding planner to plan their big day so they can focus on the fun.

    While wedding planners are more experienced and flexible, those who want 100% control will probably be better doing doing it themselves.

    If you enjoy planning and doing things yourself then, by all means, you should plan your wedding. This can also be another way to save money because it will cost you less than having to pay a professional.

    Here are the pros and cons of hiring a planner.

    The Pros

    – Your wedding will have an expert look to give it the extra flair and beauty

    – You will not worry about things going wrong, because that is not your responsibility

    – Pros already know who to call and for what  to make your big day amazing

    – Your budget gets a professional eye and you will get a fresh perspective of ideas

    The Cons

    – You will lose some control over the planning of your own wedding

    – You will spend more money paying a professional than you would if you were doing it yourself

    – You may have a difficult time trusting someone with every detail, and have disagreements from time to time

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