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    Your wedding vows is a time to express how much you love your partner. Now is the time to be as honest and heartfelt as possible.

    However, being so emotional is not easy for everyone. So why not refer to the experts? If you’re in need of inspiration, simply turn to your favourite musician. There is a wealth of love songs that perfectly explain your deepest feelings.

    Here are a few special songs that give us all the feels:

    Your Song – Elton John

    Best line: ‘I hope you don’t mind / That I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world’

    Best Part – Daniel Caesar

    Best line: ‘You’re the coffee that I need in the morning / You’re my sunshine in the rain when it’s pouring’

    The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face – Roberta Flack

    Best line: ‘The first time ever I saw your face / I thought the sun rose in your eyes’

    Stuck on You – Lionel Richie

    Best line: ‘Stuck on you / I’ve got this feeling down deep in my soul that I just can’t lose’

    Dangerously in Love – Destiny’s Child

    Best line: ‘Baby, I love you, you are my life / My happiest moments weren’t complete if you weren’t by my side / You’re my relation in connection to the sun / With you next to me there’s no darkness I can’t overcome’

    At Last – Etta James

    Best line: ‘At last my love has come along / My lonely days are over and life is like a song, oh yeah’

    I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz

    Best line: ‘I won’t give up on us / Even if the skies get rough / I’m giving you all my love / I’m still looking up’

    Waiting For A Girl Like You – Foreigner

    Best line: ‘I’ve been waiting for a girl like you to come into my life / I’ve been waiting for a girl like you, your loving will survive / I’ve been waiting for someone new to make me feel alive’

    (They Long To Be) Close To You – The Carpenters

    Best line: ‘On the day that you were born the angels got together / And decided to create a dream come true / So they sprinkled moon dust in your hair of gold and starlight in your eyes of blue’

    Back At One – Brian McKnight

    Best line: ‘One / You’re like a dream come true / Two / Just want to be with you / Three / Girl, it’s plain to see / That you’re the only one for me’

    Make You Feel My Love – Adele

    Best line: ‘I’d go hungry; I’d go black and blue / And I’d go crawling down the avenue / No, there’s nothing that I wouldn’t do / To make you feel my love’

    All of Me – John Legend

    Best line: ‘‘Cause all of me / Loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges / All your perfect imperfections’

    Songbird – Fleetwood Mac

    Best line: ‘To you I would give the world / To you I’d never be cold / ‘Cause I feel that when I’m with you / It’s all right I know it’s right’

    Come What May – Moulin Rouge soundtrack

    Best line: ‘Seasons may change, winter to spring / But I love you until the end of time’

    Such Great Heights – The Postal Service

    Best line: ‘I am thinking it’s a sign / That the freckles in our eyes / Are mirror images / And when we kiss they’re perfectly aligned’

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    All the focus in going to be on your hands as you show off your ring on your wedding day. Keep your fingers in tip top shape with some adorable nail art.

    A massive trend right now is tip-focused nail art. It’s basically a modern take on the French manicure. Instead of framing nail tips in white, people are opting for fun detail. There is no limits to this design. You can incorporate print, colour or even an ombré finish.

    This nail art trend is great for the bride who wants some type of detail but in a more subtle way. It can be classic or bold, depending on the detail you opt for.

    Here are some tip-tastic ideas to inspire you:

     

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    Not one for heels? Or maybe you’re planning on dancing the night away at your reception? Not to worry, brides all over are ditching the stilettos for comfy shoes that are both stylish and practical.

    Walk a mile in one of these comfier alternative footwear options.

    Boots

     

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    If it’s a rainy day, wear Wellingtons. If it’s in a country setting, channel your inner cowgirl. If you’re a daring fashionista, get out the best designer knee-high boots you have and kick it in style. Whatever you do, you’ll prove that boots are one of the most varied, versatile and fun types of footwear available.

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    Planning a beach ceremony in a hot and sunny location? Not the best spot for those sky-high heels then. A pretty pair of espadrilles will get you through the day, whether it’s a whirlwind soiree or a low-key affair.

    Sneakers

     

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    Colourful, comfy, and with far less risk of causing a fall, a pair of sneakers will add some quirk to your get-up. They’re also great to wear to your reception where you’ll be able to show off your killer dance moves without falling flat on your face.

    Ballet pumps

     

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    These are not the least conventional item of footwear you can wear, but they’re still an interesting choice for your wedding. While some brides choose to counter a white dress with colourful footwear, you might be looking for something more subtle but still eye-catching so opt for embellished pumps instead.

    Barefoot jewellery

     

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    Going without any footwear is a great move if you want a particularly laid-back wedding or are planning nuptials on the beach, but there are ways to spruce up your feet without worrying about what shoe will fit. One example is ornate jewellery made specifically for the feet.

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    If you love the sound of crashing waves and the feeling of sand between your toes, you should consider having a beach wedding. It’s important to spend your special day in a place that makes you and your partner happy. So, with summer fast approaching, why not celebrate your nuptials tropical-style?

    Tropical beaches are specific to certain geographic areas throughout the world that are near the equator. The hot, sunny and humid climate in these regions make for splendid tropical fruits and flowers. For a wedding in this vein, think bright colours, large flowers and leaves and fresh, juicy fruits. Oh, and coconuts, of course.

    This theme will fit a laid-back couple perfectly as it allows for a more casual setting. However, it is easy to spice up if you would like it to be more formal.

    Here are some key components to keep in mind:

    Decor

    The decor should rely on the natural surroundings. White sand, blue water and green palm trees or other vegetation are likely to already be part of the setting. Add some bold extras that tie in with the theme such as yellow and pink by using fruits and flowers.

    Dress

    Typically, comfortable attire will blend in well with the beach. Opt for a short dress or a two-piece in light, flowing fabric to avoid the heat. However, if you are keen on rocking that perfect diamond-studded princess dress, don’t let anyone stop you!

    Shoes

    Consider where you will be walking. If there is a pathway to the altar and the reception is indoors, high heels will work. But if you plan on getting onto the sand, grass or rocks, release your inner child and go bare foot! You can also go with flats or pumps.

    Bouquet

    Tropical beaches are teeming with brilliant flowers. Use a professional florist to help you choose your selection of flora, and refrain from picking them straight from the environment as it might be illegal. Some beautiful tropical flowers to consider are:

    – African Violet

    – Blanket Flower

    – Blood Lily

    – Blue Passion Flower

    – Bougainvillea Glabra

    Invitations

    Here you get to go wild! Make sure you have your colour scheme figured out first, then select stationery that complement it. Two or three of your main colours are enough to use, as more might seem overwhelming.

    Reception

    Keep things beachy with the reception and have it on the sand too if the weather is good. Try not to use small decor items that may fall from the tables and get lost in the sand. If it’s very warm, host the reception under trees or a tent, or set up umbrellas to provide shade.

    Drinks

    No tropical island is complete without the necessary drinks. Beautifully crafted cocktails are a must. Serve drinks in hollow coconuts, pineapples or watermelons and add some frozen fruit pieces like berries that can serve as ice.

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    Fashion-forward grooms deserve to take centre stage on their wedding day. Those not afraid to take a risk should wow the crowds in a patterned suit.

    Grooms tend to stick to safe colours and accessories come wedding day. While a black suit is classic and debonair, it’s also a bit predictable. We love it when grooms go big and creative with their fashion, and a patterned suits is an excellent way to do it.

    Depending on your colour palette and pattern, this trend can bring big drama or subtle style. You could choose fabrics with a massive floral print or even glitter to have you shining all day. Another special option is to incorporate a cultural patterns and fabrics like Ndebele print into your groomswear.

    If you’re in need of some inspiration, look no further. Suit up in one of these fancy fits:

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    Genetic testing is a touchy subject because of the implications it brings up with regards to future children. However, knowing the genetic make-up of you and your partner will mean you are more informed when making decisions before getting married or having children.

    What is genetic testing 

    It is testing to see whether a person is a carrier of abnormal genes, which can result in a disease in future children. It is done usually through a blood test.

    Why do genetic testing

    Genetic testing is done to identify if there are any “faulty” or disease-carrying genes present in a person. This is because two sets of the same gene, one from each parent, might not cause a defect for them but when combined could result in a child with a disability or disease.

    It should be noted that a child with a disability or disorder is not inherently a negative outcome. Society has framed it in such a way that it seems like an undesired outcome, but with more inclusivity and support, this no longer has to be the case and of course, does not lessen the value of the child as a human being.

    However, being prepared to care for a child with a possible issue is key for parents. Without this mental and economic preparation there can be serious strain on everyone involved.

    This is why genetic testing can be useful. If parents are identified as being carriers of a specific abnormal gene, they can weigh up their options and decide what is best for them when it comes to future children.

    Who should do genetic testing 

    Diseases such as Sickle Cell Disease, Tay-Sachs and others are commonly found in certain people groups from specific regions of the world. Tay-Sachs is commonly found in people of Jewish descent whose ancestors lived in Eastern Europe, while Sickle Cell is common among those from or with heritage from African or Mediterranean countries.

    Understanding your background will help you find out if you should get tested, although with the mix of backgrounds many come from, it is easier to do it just to be safe.

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    Dessert stands are growing in popularity among modern couples. These stands offer a variety of sweet treats for your guests to pick and choose from.

    A unique way to display your desserts is in tower form. It adds a unique and dramatic finish, and also provides height and variety to your dessert table from a visual standpoint.

    These towers are also easily accessible for your guests, as it is made up of individual treats. They can simply reach out and grab whichever dessert takes their fancy. This also helps move lines along, as people won’t be taking forever to cut a piece of cake or dish out some mousse.

    Your options are endless with dessert towers. You can layer donuts, cupcakes and even cheese to create stunning stacks of treats.

    Here are some ideas to feast your eyes on:

    Donuts:

     

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    Macarons:

     

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    Cupcakes:

     

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    Cake is a wedding tradition, but that doesn’t make it a requirement. For those lacking a sweet tooth, a cake won’t make sense. An excellent alternative is a cheese tower!

    Alternatives like cookies, pancake stacks and fruit cakes have grown in popularity over the years as couples desire something more unique and memorable than a traditional cake. These options are great, but a cheese tower is perfect for those not wanting another sweet dessert.

    If you’re already offering a dessert table with a variety of sweet treats on your big day and don’t want a massive wedding cake, then a cheese tower is a great replacement.

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    Stack your favourite cheese rounds on top of each other to create a unique and delicious tiered cake. From brie to blue, camembert to stilton, there are so many tasty cheeses to choose from.

    Of course, you can still go wild with decorations. Place fruits like figs and grapes on the sides of the tower, and don’t forget about the delicious freshly-baked bread and crackers to accompany. Have jams, honey and more fresh fruit on hand to pair with your cheeses.

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    When stacking the cake, think logically. The heaviest, firmer cheeses should go at the bottom to hold everything else up. Softer cheeses like brie or goats cheese should be saved for the top tier.

    To make things easier when serving the ‘cake’, you could simply cut the tiers into smaller cheese blocks. Or you could incorporate it into your harvest table and let your guests go crazy!

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    Spring is fast approaching in South Africa, bringing with it vibrant colours and sunshine. It is a time of rebirth and to celebrate new beginnings.

    If you’re planning a spring wedding, why not lean into the theme? Spring is all about colour and life. Give your bridal party that extra shine by opting for fun, lively shades like yellows, pinks, greens and blues to represent the season.

    Take inspiration from the West Coast, which is currently blooming as Flower Season reaches its peak. From pastel shades to vibrant hues, any bright colours will match this theme.

    You could go on-the-nose with floral print dresses, or simply incorporate the colours. We also love mismatched bridesmaid dresses for this theme, it will make your best girls look like the blooming beauties they are.

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    There are a handful of days you’ll always want to remember. Your 21st birthday, a graduation and the birth of your first child are likely high up on the list. While these are all exciting moments, your outfit is not really that crucial to them. A wedding day, however, is the biggest, most important day for you to truly look and feel your best.

    Grooms typically have less options to make a statement with their wedding day looks given the traditional suit-and-tie attire that most tend to go for. Luckily, this can easily be jazzed up to add extra style and personality. Here are some must-haves to upgrade your wedding look:

    Watch:

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    A watch will definitely come in handy, not just to make sure you’re on time for your big day. This accessory does more than just tell time: it tells about its wearer. Bold, simple, luxurious, sporty – a watch has a personality of its own, much like a man.

    A watch is an investment piece. It truly stands the test of time, and can be passed down from generation to generation. That’s why it’s crucial to opt for a reliable, quality brand. We love Tomato because this iconic brand constantly pushes boundaries. It perfectly blends fashion trends with timeless style, while still celebrating individualism. At the end of the day, we all want to feel special and that’s what Tomato is all about.

    Neckwear:

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    Grooms have quite a bit of variety in the neckwear department, each offering its own unique vibe. You could go classic with a tie, debonair with a bowtie or get inspired by the wild, wild west with a bolo tie. Each one of these choices can be customized to match your personality or the theme of your wedding.

    Many grooms opt to incorporate their wedding colours into their neckwear. You could also go with a fun pattern or even a graphic option that references your favourite movie or book. If you have a sentimental piece of clothing, you could repurpose a piece of it into neckwear to act as your ‘something old’.

    Boutonnière / pocket square:

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    Your chest is looking a bit bare, so why not dress it up? A boutonnière and pocket square add stunning visual interest to an otherwise simple suit. If you’re not one for big detail, this is how to have some fun without dramatic detail.

    Fresh flowers are always a classic choice when it comes to boutonnière’s, but truly anything goes with this accessory. Pin a mini-figurine to your lapel to show off your love for your favourite franchise, or a unique rope knot to reference your boy Scout days. Opting for a fabric like velvet, lace or suede for your pocket square will add texture and dimension to your final look.

    Shoes:

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    Shoes are a necessity, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with them. Considering you will be doing quite a bit of standing on your wedding day, make sure to pick a shoe that is comfortable and break them in beforehand so that you aren’t left with any unfortunate pains the day after.

    The colour of your shoes will largely depend on your suit. We love a rich brown shoe paired with a black suit for a subtle pop without being too loud. Bolder grooms can add even more flair and opt for an embellished shoe, a velvet loafer or even sneakers. There are no hard and fast rules here, the right choice is whichever shoe speaks to you.

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