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    Planning Your Own Wedding vs. Hiring a Wedding Planner

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    Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but it can also be overwhelming. One of the first decisions you’ll face is whether to plan your wedding yourself or hire a professional wedding planner. Each approach has its advantages and challenges. This guide will help you weigh the pros and cons, provide insights into effective wedding planning, and offer a basic budget plan to get you started.

    Pros and Cons: DIY Wedding Planning vs. Hiring a Wedding Planner

    DIY Wedding Planning

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    Pros:

    • Cost Savings: Planning your own wedding can save you money, as you won’t need to pay for a wedding planner’s services.

    • Creative Control: You have the freedom to personalize every detail, from the theme to the decor, ensuring the wedding reflects your unique style.

    • Hands-On Experience: Managing the planning process allows you to learn and grow as a couple, strengthening your teamwork skills.

    Cons:

    • Time-Consuming: Wedding planning requires a significant time investment, which can be challenging if you have a busy schedule.

    • Stress and Pressure: Handling all the details can be stressful, especially as the wedding day approaches.

    • Limited Expertise: Without professional experience, you might overlook important details or face challenges in vendor negotiations.

    Hiring a Wedding Planner

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    Pros:

    • Expert Guidance: Wedding planners bring professional experience, helping you navigate the complexities of wedding planning.

    • Vendor Connections: Planners often have established relationships with vendors, potentially securing better deals and reliable services.

    • Stress Reduction: With a planner handling logistics, you can focus on enjoying your engagement and the lead-up to your big day.

    Cons:

    • Additional Cost: Hiring a planner is an added expense, which might strain your budget.

    • Less Personal Control: You may have to compromise on certain aspects to align with the planner’s suggestions or availability.

    Wedding Planning Insights and Tips

    • Start Early: Begin planning at least 12 months in advance to ensure ample time for decision-making and coordination.

    • Set a Realistic Budget: Determine how much you’re willing to spend and allocate funds to different categories accordingly.

    • Choose an Off-Peak Date: Selecting a wedding date during off-peak seasons or weekdays can lead to cost savings. (The Budget Savvy Bride)

    • Limit the Guest List: Reducing the number of guests can significantly decrease costs for catering, seating, and favors.

    • DIY Decor: Consider creating your own decorations or opting for minimalistic designs to save money.

    Basic Wedding Budget Breakdown

    Here’s a general guide to how you might allocate your wedding budget:

    Category Percentage of Total Budget
    Venue 40%
    Catering 20%
    Attire (Bride & Groom) 10%
    Photography/Videography 10%
    Entertainment 5%
    Flowers & Decor 5%
    Stationery 3%
    Miscellaneous 7%

    Note: These percentages are approximate and can be adjusted based on your priorities and preferences.

    Deciding between planning your own wedding and hiring a wedding planner depends on your budget, time, and desire for control. If you have the time and enjoy organizing, a DIY approach can be rewarding. However, if you prefer to reduce stress and benefit from professional expertise, hiring a planner might be the best choice.

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    Proudly South African: Local Designers Making Waves in Bridal Fashion

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    In South Africa, a wedding dress is never just a dress. It’s a symbol of love, a reflection of heritage, and often the centrepiece of a day where family, culture, and celebration collide. Brides here don’t just shop for a gown — they seek a piece of art that speaks to who they are.

    It’s no wonder that our homegrown wedding dress designers are attracting attention from brides across the globe. From couture creations dripping with beadwork to sleek minimalist gowns that let a bride’s natural beauty take centre stage, South Africa’s bridal fashion scene is as diverse and vibrant as the country itself.

    Whether you dream of African prints, timeless elegance, or a modern twist on tradition, here are the local designers that can turn your wedding-day visions into reality.

    Kobus Dippenaar — A Legacy of Elegance

    With decades in the business, Kobus Dippenaar is considered to be the GOAT of South African bridal fashion. Dippenaar’s atelier sits in the heart of Cape Town’s CBD. His gowns blend expert craftsmanship with timeless style, gracing runways and wedding aisles with equal ease. Think soft mermaids slihouettes, cheeky slits, low backs, silky satins and an endless display of intricate details.

    Elbeth Gillis — Couture with Global Recognition

    Elbeth Gillis is synonymous with bridal couture that feels timeless. Using fabrics sourced from around the world, her gowns feature delicate lace, refined silhouettes, and intricate handcrafting. Gillis’s work has earned her awards like Couture Bridal Wear Designer of the Year in South Africa, and her dresses are stocked internationally in countries like Australia, Germany, the UK and Ireland. She’s living proof that elegance speaks every language and crosses borders.

    Vesselina Pentcheva — A Cultural Tapestry

    With roots in African and Eastern European traditions, Vesselina Pentcheva weaves cultural influences into every gown. The result? Dresses that feel deeply personal and globally inspired — perfect for the bride who wants her wedding look to tell her unique story.

    Gavin Rajah — Red-Carpet Glamour Meets Bridal

    Known for his high-fashion couture, Gavin Rajah brings runway glamour to the wedding aisle. His creations feature lavish fabrics, intricate beadwork, and dramatic silhouettes. If you’re looking for the kind of dress that turns your wedding into a fashion event, then you can’t go wrong with one of his gowns.

    Janita Toerien — Your Dream, Hand-Stitched

    For the bride who wants a dress that exists nowhere else in the world, Janita Toerien is a dream-maker. She works closely with each client, transforming personal style into one-of-a-kind couture. No detail is too small, no vision too bold.

    Cindy Bam — Romance in Every Stitch

    Having worked in the industry for nearly 25 years – Cindy Bam’s gowns are all about romance and femininity. Expect flowing silhouettes, soft lace, and intricate beadwork. These are dresses that make you feel like you’ve stepped out of a classic love story — elegant, graceful, and unforgettable.

    Robyn Roberts — Simplicity as the New Luxury

    Robyn Roberts Studio proves that less really can be more. Her gowns embrace clean lines and perfect tailoring, giving brides a look that’s quietly confident. For women who believe their beauty needs no embellishment, Roberts offers the ultimate understated elegance.

    Jacqui Emmanuel — Fashion with a Conscience

    In an age where sustainability matters, Jacqui Emmanuel blends style with responsibility. Having won the: Bespoke Designer of the Year  at the South African Fashion Awards, her gowns are created with ethically sourced materials and eco-friendly techniques, proving that luxury and environmental awareness can walk down the aisle together.

    Why South African Bridal Fashion Is on the Rise

    On social media, South African brides are proudly showcasing their gowns, celebrating the blend of cultural heritage and cutting-edge fashion. Internationally, our designers are gaining recognition not just for their artistry, but for the way they capture the spirit of celebration.

    So, when you start hunting for the dress, remember: your perfect gown might be closer to home than you think. And in South Africa, the designers are ready to turn your wedding dreams into reality.

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    Destination Feature: The Eastern Cape’s Most Breathtaking Wedding Venues

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    Where Coastal Romance Meets Wild Beauty: Eastern Cape’s Most Breathtaking Wedding Venues

    The Eastern Cape is one of South Africa’s most underrated wedding destinations. It’s a place where the dramatic Wild Coast meets gentle, sun-warmed beaches, where forest chapels hide beneath canopies of green, and where safari lodges offer once-in-a-lifetime moments beneath the African sky. With an 800km coastline, malaria-free game reserves, charming historic towns, and a climate that feels like summer most of the year, the Eastern Cape is a dream setting for saying “I do.”

    It’s not just the landscapes that make this province special, it’s the mix of cultures, warm hospitality, and rich heritage that turn a wedding here into an unforgettable experience. Whether you’re drawn to the Indian Ocean breeze, the quiet romance of the Karoo, or the call of the wild, there’s a venue here that will feel like it was made for your love story.

    So, let’s get started and help you find the perfect venue to host your dream wedding in the Eastern Cape.

    For the Nature-Loving Couple

    The Plantation – Port Elizabeth’s Fairytale Forest

    Source: The Plantation on Instagram

    Hidden in an indigenous forest just outside Port Elizabeth, The Plantation is where wedding dreams meet nature’s magic. Voted the “Wedding Venue of the Year – South Africa” in 2023/2024 and “Wedding Venue of the Year 2024 – Eastern Cape,” The Plantation has made quite a name for itself.

    Its open-sided chapel lets the forest in, with sunlight spilling across the aisle and birdsong as your wedding soundtrack. Reception spaces spill onto wrap-around porches, while fairy lights twinkle through the trees.

    The Plantation is known for stress-free, all-inclusive wedding packages – a lifesaver for couples planning their wedding from afar. One of their unique selling points is that their wedding packages are fully customisable and flexible. Their kitchen is famous for exquisite wedding feasts, and the venue’s location makes it perfect for honeymooning along the Garden Route.

    The venue is large and spacious and can accommodate between 10 and 200 people comfortably. There’s also various accommodate available with shuttle services to get your guests to the venue from their accommodation without any hick ups.

    For the Wild at Heart

    Inkwenkwezi Private Game Reserve – A Safari Wedding to Remember

     

    Source: Inkwenkwezi Private Game Reserve

    Thirty kilometres from East London, at the gateway to the Wild Coast, lies Inkwenkwezi Private Game Reserve. Here, vows are exchanged in a quaint chapel before guests stroll along a red carpet to a lodge transformed into a wedding wonderland.

    Their wedding package includes the venue hire, decor, sound equipment and catering. As an added bonus they offer complimentary overnight accommodation for the bride and groom in their luxury Honeymoon suite.

    And it includes a complimentary mini Game drive after an enjoyable breakfast the day after your wedding! What’s not to love?

    The reserve is home to four of the Big Five – including a pride of rare white lions – and offers 5 types of luxury tented accommodation beneath indigenous trees. The wedding feast is prepared by in-house chefs for up to 300 guests, and game drives the next morning mean your celebration truly becomes an African adventure.

    For Ocean Lovers

    St Francis Links – Seaside Elegance with a Golf Course View

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    Overlooking one of South Africa’s top golf courses and the Indian Ocean, St Francis Links blends glamour with a relaxed coastal feel. Located just 30 minutes from Jeffrey’s Bay and only 1 hour away from P.E, in the quiet town of St Francis Bay, this is the perfect coastal venue.

    Guests have come as far as New York, New Zealand, and Khazakstan to celebrate their special day at St Francis Links, which says a lot.

    Whether you want an intimate gathering or an elaborate 200-guest celebration, the venue offers world-class catering with customs menus designed by their head chef, weekend-long wedding packages, and even pre-wedding golf days.

    With 12 on-site accommodation options and a spa, your wedding weekend can be as indulgent as it is memorable.

    Ocean View Hotel – Coffee Bay’s Wild Coast Romance

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    Perched in one of the Wild Coast’s most breathtaking bays, the Ocean View Hotel in Coffee Bay offers a wedding backdrop of towering cliffs, golden sands, and rolling waves. Amongst all the outstanding coastal venues in country it’s a pretty hard backdrop to beat.

    The journey here takes you through rural countryside and dramatic landscapes – a fitting prelude to a wedding that feels worlds away from the ordinary.

    With activities such as fishing, diving, boat charters, guided tours and more, you won’t even have to go anywhere else for your honeymoon, as this venue has got it all.

    For Historic Charm

    The Drostdy Hotel – Graaff-Reinet’s Karoo Elegance

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    Situated in the heart of the Karoo, The Drostdy Hotel offers timeless sophistication and a one of a kind backdrop for your big day. You’re spoilt for choice with lush gardens, intimate gallery spaces, or candlelit terraces beneath the stars.

    They offer a special Africology Bridal Spa option, to make sure that you’re left feeling refreshed, pampered and glowing for your big day. They even have a special kiddies spa menu, for the little ring bearers to make sure they don’t miss out on all the fun.

    With two venues able to accomodate between 60 and 120 people, and 48 luxurious rooms available, you and your guests are ensured a comfortable stay and memorable experience.

    With the Karoo’s dramatic beauty and old-world charm, there’s set to be some extra romance to your wedding photographs.

    For Countryside Romance

    Mooihoek Berry Barn– Rustic Charm in the Gamtoos Valley

    Source: Mooihoek Berry Barn on Instagram 

    Family-run for three generations, Mooihoek Farm’s Berry Barn is perfect for intimate weddings of up to 80 guests. With sweeping valley views, homely hospitality, and seasonal farm-to-table food, it’s ideal for couples seeking a laid-back but beautiful countryside celebration. Situated in the small town of Hankey, it’s only 45 minutes away from Jeffrey’s Bay and 1 hour way from P.E, making it easy to access.

    They offer a brides dressing room and additional accomodation as well, so you and your bridal party don’t have to worry about being late for your big day.

    Gonubie Manor – A Grand Old Lady of the Eastern Cape

    Source: Ganubie Manor on Instagram 

    Once a historic stopover for travellers in the 1800s, Gonubie Manor now hosts weddings in its manicured gardens and elegant halls, accommodating anything from 120 to 450 guests. So if you’ve got a big family that needs to be accommodated, then this venue is for you. From rustic ox wagon backdrops to chandelier-lit receptions, it’s a versatile venue steeped in history.

    You can customise your wedding menu, so whether you want more traditional South African dishes or a 5-course menu, their catering team’s got you covered.

    With self catering accomodation, cottages and luxury suites all on site, your guests won’t have to worry about where they’ll stay and how they’ll get to your wedding on time.

    For a Luxury Safari Celebration

    Bukela Game Lodge – Romance in the Wild

    Source: Bukela Game Reserve on Instagram 

    Set in the Amakhala Game Reserve in Addo, Bukela offers luxury safari weddings surrounded by the sights and sounds of Africa. Exchange vows overlooking sweeping valleys, celebrate under the stars, and wake to the calls of elephants and buffalo. With both suites and safari tents, your guests can enjoy the perfect blend of wilderness and comfort.

    With a luxurious spa, numerous safari experiences, and other guided activities, you can enjoy your wedding and honeymoon all in one location.

    Why the Eastern Cape is a Wedding Gem

    The Eastern Cape offers something few wedding destinations can match – variety. You can marry barefoot on the beach, beneath a forest canopy, in a luxury lodge, or on a Karoo estate. Venues here are generally more affordable than those in Cape Town or Durban, yet the quality and natural beauty are world-class.

    Social media is filled with glowing reviews from newlyweds who tied the knot here – from Johannesburg couples seeking a coastal escape to international guests flying in for a safari celebration. The warm local hospitality, combined with the province’s jaw-dropping scenery, makes it an unbeatable choice for couples who want more than just a venue – they want a place that tells a story.

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    Wedding Insurance in South Africa: Is It Worth It?

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    Wedding Insurance: Covering Weather, Vendor Issues, and Unexpected Circumstances

    Wedding insurance might not sound romantic at all. But in a country where a summer storm can roll in out of nowhere and load shedding can hit in the middle of your first dance, it’s a conversation worth having and more and more couples are covering themselves on all fronts.

    What should you look out for? Is wedding insurance really neccessary. Stick around to find out as we’ll dive in to all the nitty gritty details about wedding insurance in South Africa.

    Why Wedding Insurance Is Becoming a Talking Point

    Weddings aren’t just love stories — they’re major investments. In South Africa, a full‑scale celebration can easily run into the hundreds of thousands of rand if budgets are left unchecked. And yet, many couples are relying purely on hope and crossed fingers to protect that investment.

    From Cape Town to Johannesburg and beyond, social media is full of stories from couples blindsided by last‑minute disasters: a photographer who simply didn’t show, a caterer who closed down days before the reception, or a venue suddenly deemed unusable due to flooding. The list goes on…

    Without wedding insurance, those non‑refundable deposits and frantic last‑minute suprises come straight out of your own pocket.

    The Unpredictable South African Factor – The Weather…

    South Africans know our weather likes to keep us guessing. Picture this: you’ve planned a picture‑perfect outdoor ceremony in the Winelands, only for the heavens to open in a freak midsummer thunderstorm. Or you’ve booked a beachfront ceremony in Durban, and a sudden cold front brings gale‑force winds.

    Even indoor weddings aren’t immune to Murphy’s law. Power cuts during peak load shedding can disrupt lighting, sound systems and catering. On the other hand, heavy rain or wind can delay guests, vendors or even your arrival and throw the rest of the wedding progamme out completely.

    What Wedding Insurance Actually Covers

    Wedding insurance generally comes in two main types:

    • Cancellation or Postponement Cover
      This type of cover  protects you financially if you need to cancel or delay your wedding due to illness, extreme weather, vendor collapse or other unforeseen events.

    • Liability Cover
      This covers property damage or injury claims that may arise during your wedding. Many South African venues now require couples to have liability insurance before confirming a booking.

    Some policies also cover lost or stolen wedding attire, damaged décor, vendor no‑shows, and even unexpected travel disruptions for destination weddings. You’ll need to read through everything carefully to know exactly what you’re covered for just incase anything happens and also so that there’s no misunderstandings.

    Local Couples Share Their Take

    In wedding planning forums, there’s a clear divide. Some say the peace of mind is priceless. One Joburg bride wrote: “Our DJ’s car broke down on the way to our wedding in Magaliesburg. The insurance paid for a last‑minute replacement — we didn’t miss a beat.”

    Others see it as unnecessary. A Cape Town groom commented: “We had a small backyard wedding. We didn’t think it was worth the extra cost. But if we’d been at a big venue, I’d have reconsidered.”

    Questions to Ask Before You Buy

    If you’re considering wedding insurance, don’t just tick a box — make sure it suits your wedding. Ask:

    • What specific risks does it cover?

    • Does it include outdoor or destination weddings?

    • What are the payout limits and excess fees?

    • Does it cover all your vendors, including subcontractors?

    • How fast are claims processed?

    So, Is It Worth It?

    If your wedding budget represents a significant portion of your savings, or if you’re planning an elaborate event with multiple vendors and moving parts, the answer often leans toward yes. It’s not about expecting disaster, but about protecting your once‑in‑a‑lifetime celebration from forces beyond your control.

    In South Africa, where the weather can change in an instant and service providers may face sudden challenges, wedding insurance can be the safety net that keeps your big day intact — or at least ensures you can bounce back quickly if something goes wrong.

    The Bottom Line:

    You’ll never regret having wedding insurance if you need it. And if you don’t? Well, that’s the best‑case scenario — and a small price to pay for peace of mind.

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    Seasonal Wedding Planning: Why Autumn 2026 Bookings Are Heating Up

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    Wedding planning is exciting and South African couples are finding themselves enchanted by autumn. And for good reason. Between March and May, the country transforms into a painter’s palette of golden leaves, gentle breezes and soft, romantic light. For brides and grooms-to-be, it’s a season that offers charm without the sweltering heat of summer or the chill of winter.

    But here’s the catch — word is out. With everyone hoping to take advantage of cooler temperatures, lower prices and shoulder season, Venues and photographers are already reporting a spike in 2026 autumn wedding bookings, with some prime dates disappearing faster than you can say “I do”.

    With bookings filling up fast,  you might feel a slightly overwhelmed planning your autumn wedding. Fear not though. We’ll guide you through every you need to know to sucessfully plan your whimsical autumn wedding.

    The Romance of Autumn

    Photo by Matthew Buchanan on Unsplash

    Ask any couple who tied the knot in autumn and they’ll tell you — there’s something almost cinematic about it. The air is cooler but not cold, the sunlight takes on a dreamy golden hue, and the colours of the landscape seem made for wedding photos.

    This is the kind of atmosphere that has made March to May the “it” season for South African weddings. From Stellenbosch wine farms to Mpumalanga’s highland lodges, autumn offers settings that feel straight out of a fairytale.

    Why 2026 Autumn Dates are Going Fast

    Traditionally, summer has been South Africa’s most popular wedding season. But in recent years, autumn has surged in popularity. The reasons are clear:

    Perfect Weather Balance:

    Let’s face it, no one wants to be sweating like mad in summer or freezing to death in winter on your wedding day. Autumn offers strikes the perfect balance between the two. Milder than summer, but warmer than winter, you can’t really go wrong.

    Golden Hour Photography:

    Everyone knows that golden hour is the best time to take photos. But what many people don’t know is that there’s a big difference between golden hour during summer and autumn.

    Golden hour during summers brings about bright, warm rays that give you an instant glow and can take any picture from average to drop dead gorgeous. The downside is that there’s a limited time period to get those perfect golden hour photos.

    Autumn’s golden hour on the other hand brings about unique opportunities.  Autumn sunsets have a special softness, ideal for capturing portraits and landscapes. Lower shadows and rich colours create deeper contrasting back drops that are bound to leave anyone breathless once they see you’re wedding album.

    Seasonal Menus:

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    Having your wedding in Autumn presents you with a unique opportunity to play around with a seasonal menu. With slightly cooler temperatures creeping in, you can’t go wrong with some hearty comfort food.

    Think rich butternut soup, roasted seasonal veg, and hearty main dishes. And for dessert, who doesn’t love a good malva or sticky toffee pudding?

    Unique Seasonal Decorations:

    Photo by Nicole Geri on Unsplash

    One of the best things about having an Autumn wedding is the opportunity incorporate some of the seasons natural beauty into your wedding decor. A mix of red, oranges, yellows, and browns can create an extraordinary visual experience for you and your guests.

    Cost Savings (Sometimes):

    Shoulder seasons, usually mean fewer tourist crowds. This could mean better rates for venues and vendors. But, with shoulder season tourism beginning to take off, it’s best to not leave things too late so be sure to book your venue and everything else well in advance.

    The Ups and Downs of Planning an Autumn Wedding

    While we might have convinced you thus far to move your wedding date to Autumn, it’s worth remembering that the season comes with its own set of quirks:

    Weather Can be Unpredictable:

    Bad weather on your wedding day is pretty much everyone’s worst fear. In places like Cape Town where you can experience all four seasons in one day, having a back up plan in case the weather acts up – is crucial. So try and select an indoor venue, or a venue with a covered area.

    Shorter Days:

    As the sun starts setting earlier, this could potentially be a game changer during the planning stages of your wedding. Shorter day means that you’ll need to be strategic about ceremony times and

    Public Holidays:

    While you and your guests might not need to put in leave for your wedding day, public holidays can pose a problem. Easter, Freedom Day and other long weekends can affect guest and venue availability and travel costs. So, if you are planning on having your wedding on a public holiday, be sure to keep this in mind and book early.

    An Autumn Wedding – Is it Worth it?

    Autumn is a special time of the year. While the weather and other factors might play a big role in your decision to have your wedding in autumn or not, don’t write Autumn off completely.

    With careful planning and contingency plans in place, Autumn might just be the season for your dream wedding. Many couples say the trade-off is worth it for the romantic atmosphere alone.

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    Wedding Gift Ideas 2025: Thoughtful & Practical Presents for Every Couple

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    A Guide for Meaningful, Memorable, and Modern Wedding Gifts

    As we dive into 2025, wedding gifts are evolving beyond conventional registry items. Today’s couples prioritize meaning, sustainability, and shared experiences over generic household goods. Here’s how to gift with intention in 2025.

    Practical Everyday Gifts

    Couples still appreciate functional items that seamlessly fit into their daily lives. In 2025, the trend favors compact, high-quality kitchen appliances over bulky legacy items, think rice cookers, knife sets, air fryers, and cordless vacuums rather than traditional stand mixers or large cookware. These choices reflect the realities of modern living spaces and shared households.

    Popular registry staples include:

    • High-end knife block sets (e.g., Wüsthof)

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    • Compact appliances like air fryers, multifunction immersion blenders, and robot vacuums
      Reddit users often cite knives and vacuums as the most useful gifts they own.

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    Experience-Based & Subscription Gifts

    Rather than physical items, couples increasingly cherish experiential gifts, those that help them create lasting memories together.

    Top ideas include:

    • Cooking classes, wine-tasting tours, hot air balloon rides, culinary adventures

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    • Spa getaways or weekend travel experiences

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    • Online subscriptions: wine clubs, coffee deliveries, at-home spa kits, or escape room experiences

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    Why it works: More than half of 2025 couples include at least one experiential gift on their registry. These thoughtful options align with meaningful preferences and lifestyle priorities.

    Personalized and Sentimental Keepsakes

    Personal gifts continue to capture hearts by reflecting couples’ unique stories.

    Examples:

    • Custom artwork (portraits, illustrated maps of their wedding date or location)

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    • Engraved charcuterie or serving boards

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    • Soundwave art of their first dance song or vow excerpts

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    • Memory kits/time capsule sets where the couple can preserve notes, tokens, and mementos from their first year of marriage

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    These gifts transform everyday objects into emotionally meaningful treasures, keepsakes that last a lifetime.

    Eco‑Friendly & Sustainable Options

    Sustainability is no longer a niche, it’s central to gift choices in 2025. Couples are increasingly asking for environmentally responsible options.

    Popular sustainable gift types:

    • Reusable kitchenware: beeswax wraps, glass storage containers, bamboo serving trays

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    • Organic cotton bedding or towels

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    • Solar-powered or energy-efficient gadgets

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    • Artisan handcrafted items made from recycled or low-impact materials

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    Including at least one eco-friendly item on a registry is now common about 70% do so.

    Wellness & Self‑Care Gifts

    With wellness front-and-center in many couples’ values, gifts that foster self-care and relaxation are trending.

    Examples include:

    • Aromatherapy diffusers, soft throws or weighted blankets

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    • Yoga mats or subscription-based meditation/yoga platforms for couples

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    • Home massage devices or wellness kits for shared pampering moments

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    Smart & Tech-Savvy Home Essentials

    Modern couples appreciate high-tech gifts that simplify daily routines and enhance comfort.

    Top tech gift picks:

    • Voice-controlled smart hubs (Echo Show, Google Nest)

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    • Smart lighting or home monitoring systems

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    • App-based coffee brewers or smart thermostats

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    • Robot vacuum cleaners or air purifiers
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    These gifts are both practical and forward-looking, ideal for newlyweds building a connected home.

    Group Gifting & Big-Ticket Items

    Friends or family gifts pooled together can bring luxury-level items within reach:

    • Designer furniture

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    • A premium BBQ grill

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    • A vacation credit or large-scale cookware sets like Le Creuset

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    Group gifting via registries or platforms streamlines contributions toward big-ticket items.

    Quick Overview: Top Wedding Gift Categories 2025

    Category Examples Best For
    Practical Daily Items Knife sets, rice cooker, air fryer, robotic vacuum Useful and long-lasting household staples
    Experience & Subscription Cooking class, spa voucher, wine delivery, dinner kits Experience-driven couples
    Personalized Keepsakes Custom art, engraved boards, soundwave prints, time capsule kits Sentimental gifts to treasure forever
    Eco-Friendly Products Recycled servingware, organic bedding, beeswax wraps Conscious and sustainable gifting
    Wellness & Relaxation Diffusers, blankets, yoga subscriptions, massage devices Couples prioritizing self-care
    Smart Home & Tech Gadgets Smart assistants, coffee systems, smart lights, robot vacuums Tech-savvy and convenience-minded couples
    Group Gifting Options Furniture, luxury cookware, honeymoon credits High-value registry items via pooling

    The best wedding gift in 2025 balances practicality, personality, sustainability, and thoughtfulness. Whether you’re choosing an experiential gift that fosters lifelong memories or a timeless heirloom-quality piece, align your choice with the couple’s values and lifestyle. From smart gadgets to artisan keepsakes or curated adventures, they’ll appreciate the intention behind it.

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    Beach Wedding Reality Check: Western Cape vs KwaZulu‑Natal Coastal Venues

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    Dreaming of an ocean‑front “I do” in 2025? Here’s a brutally honest breakdown of Western Cape vs KwaZulu‑Natal venues so you can make an informed decision (before thousands go on décor and sneaky permit fees).

    The Beach Wedding Dream vs. Coastal Reality

    A beach wedding calls to mind barefoot brides, sunset walkways, and soft ocean breezes. It’s Instagram‑perfect in concept, relaxed, romantic, budget‑smart.

    But anyone who’s run sand through a pair of heels knows the beach bar vibe doesn’t come without thorny logistics:

    • Permits & bylaws: Most public beaches require municipal approval. (No permit = no ceremony.)

    • Weather surprises: gusty wind on the Atlantic side or humidity and bugs on the Indian Ocean coast.

    • Noise & privacy issues: waves drown out sound, and public beaches = unpredictable foot traffic.

    • Vendor challenges: transporting gear across dunes, generator needs, and finding reliable local teams.

    So let’s dig into the two leading coastal provinces where most couples are drawn for their “wedding‑day forever” shots… and sometimes, one too many course corrections.

    Western Cape Coastal Venues: Gorgeous, but Demanding

    📍 Popular Picks

    Camps Bay, Llandudno, Noordhoek, Hermanus‑area beaches like Grotto, and Paternoster Coast make the top list due to dramatic mountain‑by‑sea views and upscale nearby venues.

    Sourced: thebayhotel.com

    • The Bay Hotel in Camps Bay, for example, offers a full beach‑wedding package including beach gazebo, planner, photographer, but enforces strict no‑alcohol policies on the public sand area and helps with permits from the City of Cape Town. (thebayhotel.com)

    Sourced: @stm_travel

    • Camps Bay Retreat Boutique requires exclusive property booking and no more than ~50 guests on the actual sand strand for exclusivity.(campsbayretreat.com)

    Sourced: campsbayretreat.com

    Pros

    1. Photogenic vistas: Table Mountain backdrop + wide white sand—perfect light, year‑round.

    2. Reliable vendors: Cape Town is wedding‑central in SA; planning companies, photographers, caterers, transport and packing are premium and plentiful.

    3. More settled flow of guests: Domestic/international flights into Cape Town more frequent and accessible.

    4. Cool, dry summers: Most weddings held between late October and early April for warm sun and minimal rain.

    Cons

    1. Wind worries: The notorious Cape Doctor can roar through midday; March–April may offer calmer weather but still requires contingency.

    2. Cold Atlantic Ocean: Most people in Turks or floaties once snapping toes. Swimming is not the highlight.

    3. Permit hurdles: You’ll need a permit for most public beaches; costs vary from R 300 – R 6 000+, must be filed at least one week in advance; no guarantee of exclusivity.

    4. Premium pricing: High demand means bookings open a year in advance and prices rise sharply during December – January.

    What to Consider

    • Latest Cape Town bylaws require environmental & noise clearance for weddings above 50 guests.

    • Access for elderly/elderly‑mobility guests can be tricky on dunes. Many vendors offer beach‑accessible walkways and portable platforms, ask in venue tours.

    KwaZulu‑Natal Coastal Venues: Warm, Lush and Season‑Sensitive

    📍 Well‑Known Spots

    Umhlanga Beach (Oyster Box, Umhlanga Rocks Hotel), Ballito (Salt Rock, Sala Beach House, Baron Beach House), Southbroom, Zinkwazi Beach, and Kosi Bay are popular for their tropical backdrops and warmer water.

    Sourced: Facebook Baron Beach House
    • Oyster Box Hotel offers classic ocean‑front ceremonies with Indian Ocean breezes and wedding planners behind the scenes. Reviews like:

    “If you’re thinking of getting married at OBH, do it, it’s a once in a lifetime experience … Ginny Eslick is the best wedding planner ever.” (tripadvisor.com)

    Sourced: X @Mamu_Travel

    • Baron Beach House in Umhlanga prides itself on being “relaxed without being rustic… upmarket without being pretentious. We marry ‘ballgowns and flip flops’” for the boho‑beach vibe it delivers  (theumhlangamagazine.co.za).

    Sourced: Facebook Baron Beach House

    Pros

    1. Indian Ocean heat: Seawater typically registers ~23–27 °C → great for photos, guests and babes alike.

    2. Tropical greenery & flowers: Indoor/outdoor venue lines fade in lush coastal trees and modern beachfront resorts.

    3. Year‑round warmth: Mild winters (16–24 °C average in May–September; Durban rainfall ~56 mm to ~35 mm).

    4. Lower baseline pricing: Still cheaper than Cape Town premium—even resort‑tier hotels like Ballito stretch staff rates predictably lower. saltrockbeach.co.zasalabeach.co.za.

    Cons

    1. Humidity + bugs: December through February days can reach 28–32 °C highs with high humidity. Mosquitoes and sand flies may appear in beachfront evenings.

    2. Rain risk: KZN’s rainy season peaks between November and April (November ~102 mm average in Durban)
      responsiblevacation.com, weather-and-climate.com.

    3. Occasional storms: Cyclonic activity in coastal KZN can force disruptions in January or early February.

    4. Infrastructure hiccups: While sustained load‑shedding has dropped by 2025 (!), outages remain possible during peak summer demand, backup generator planning is smart.

    5. Vendor variety: Fewer specialist planners or photographers compared to Cape Town, though most resorts partner with local suppliers.

    What to Consider

    • Durban eThekwini municipality requires a wedding permit for public beachfront ceremonies (though many resorts use private beachfront areas), and offshore marine parks (e.g. iSimangaliso) require 10 working days for permit processing, no permits issued in high‑season summer school holidays
      isimangaliso.com.

    • Some venues cut power out of necessity too, ask how much generator backup you’ll need in March/April.

    • Transport: King Shaka Airport (Durban) to Ballito/Umhlanga takes 30–40 min by car. For smaller towns like Zinkwazi or Kosi Bay, budget a 3–4‑hour transfer by road.

    Key Practical Considerations

    Consideration Western Cape (Cape Town region) KwaZulu‑Natal Coast
    Permits & Authority City of Cape Town (1 week+) – public beaches cost R 300–R₶ 6000. For protected areas (SANParks), submit to SANParks as well Pink Book Weddingscapetown.gov.za EThekwini Municipality (public sites). iSimangaliso and other nature reserves need 10 working days permit, not accepted during school holidays isimangaliso.com
    Best Weather Timing Late Oct–Apr (warm, lower rain), calmest Mar–Apr; Oct and Nov shoulder season special rates Pink Book Weddings May–Sep is warmest + driest, but hotel‑rates rise. Summer (Nov‑Apr) hotter/rainy, plan indoor or shade back‑up
    Guest Access Flights into Cape Town, superb infrastructure, many pet‑friendly and large‑hotel options Flights to Durban, then limited connections north, Ballito/Umhlanga are well served
    Vendors & Services Virtually unlimited planners, photographers, cake bakers, rentals Resort packages help; fewer standalone vendors, early booking advised
    Backup Plan Mandatory due to wind/rain risks, tents or indoor backup essential Backup for late‑season storms and electricity drops is recommended
    Budget Expectation Higher per‑head costs during peak season; downward in Mar/Apr Generally better value; all‑inclusive packages with minimal add‑ons
    Water & Climate Atlantic waters ~16–20 °C; windy; photos at golden hour more forgiving Indian Ocean ~23–27 °C; humid; glowing foliage; richer florals, insects possible

    What Real Couples Have to Say

    “If you’re thinking of getting married at OBH, do it, it’s a once‑in‑a‑lifetime experience … Ginny Eslick is the best wedding planner ever.”
    — Oyster Box Hotel reviewer (TripAdvisor), seen winter 2024 tripadvisor.com

    “We are relaxed without being rustic, we are upmarket without being pretentious. We marry ‘ballgowns and flip flops’ … boho beach chic.”
    — The Umhlanga Magazine reviewing Baron Beach House weddings, April 2025 Nubian Bride+1facebook.com+1

    “Marriage officer here. March and April are good in Cape Town—not too hot, not too windy. Still, every couple should budget for alternative venue.”
    — Reddit user, r/capetown (August 2024 thread consulted in spring 2025) reddit.com

    Those sentiments echo our guide: both regions sparkle, but each offers reality checks of its own.

    Who Wins the Coastal Wedding Battle?

    There’s no single winner, just the best fit for your vision, season, and priorities.

    • Chic, polished, and cooler – The Western Cape is ideal if you’ve got a tight timeline (Oct–Apr), want designer coastal views, strong infrastructure, and cold‑water photography magic. Just prepare for stricter permitting and possible wind.

    • Warm, vibrant, and tropical – KZN delivers lush scenery, beach‑swimming comfort, and budget flexibility, particularly if you pick winter (May–September) for drier air and better rates.

    Often couples choose Cape Town for dramatic landscape shots plus honeymoon stays at vineyards nearby, and KZN if they want tropical wedding brunches and swimming guests. Keep your season in mind: marrying in peak summer (Dec–Jan) increases rain risk in KZN, while in Cape Town, December is crowded and windy.

    Best Tips for Any Beach‑side Couple

    1. Lock in your venue 9–12 months ahead, peak summers sell out early in both regions.

    2. Apply for wedding permits ASAP, especially earlier in school‑holiday season.

    3. Plan a backup (tiers of plan A, B and C: canopy → tent → indoor hall).

    4. Beach‑proof your attire & décor, use wind‑rated décor, shoes, and lighting.

    5. Ask about electricity and backups, winter 2025 promises low load‑shedding risk, but summer surges and storms still carry outage potential.

    6. Visit the beach sites at the planned ceremony hour, preferably at high season, to feel wind/sound/lighting dynamics.

    Final Take

    • Western Cape = sweeping vistas, crisp weather (if timed well), and seamless vendor support.

    • KwaZulu‑Natal = warm water, lush vibes, and better baseline pricing, but be prepared for humidity and rain.

    Your beach wedding should feel dreamy, not disappointing. Visit in person if you can, envision midday and sunset hours, and align your venue with your guest‑comfort goals and finances. With planning and smart timing, both options can deliver a breathtaking coastal wedding experience.

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    Summer Proposal Hotspots: Cape Town’s Most Romantic Locations

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    A Summer 2025 Guide for Couples Planning to Pop the Question

    With the Southern Hemisphere summer in full swing (November–March), Cape Town is filled with possibilities to create a perfect proposal moment, from majestic mountain peaks to serene vineyards and golden beachscapes.

    Table Mountain Sunset Spots

    Say “Yes” with the World at Your Feet

    • Cable Car Summit View: Take your partner on the iconic Table Mountain Aerial Cableway, which lifts you 765 m to sweeping views over Cape Town. It’s an unforgettable setting for a sunset proposal, especially if you pre‑book tickets to avoid queues and take advantage of golden hour light.

    Sourced: X @AuthorAvril

    • Contour Path Picnic: Walk a quieter path along Table Mountain’s ridge and pause at a secluded ledge for a private moment, perfect for those who prefer intimacy with a bit of adventure.

    Sourced: X @kryticworldwide

    • Elevated Extras: Many guides and proposal planners can help coordinate flower arrangements, a musician, or a photographer to capture your moment in style.

    Sourced: Pixels

    Pro Tip: Sunset proposals on Table Mountain create stunning photos and lifelong memories. Book evening cable-car slots, especially between December and February, to avoid mid‑summer wind or clouds.

    Camps Bay Beachfront Bliss

    Romance by the Ocean

    • Best Timing: Arrive early evening so you can watch the sun dip behind the Twelve Apostles mountain chain.

    Sourced: Pixels

    • Proposal Scenes: Consider a cozy beachfront picnic with fairy lights, or a romantic beachside dinner at popular spots like The Bungalow. Don’t overlook quieter gems like Glen Beach or the tidal pools for a more private moment.

    Sourced: Pixels

    • Why It’s Magical: A soft Atlantic breeze, palm trees swaying, ocean waves, and a mountain silhouette backdrop, Camps Bay offers a cinematic setting without the fuss.

    Sourced: Pixels

    Wine Estate Venues in the Cape Winelands

    Vineyard Views & Vintage Love

    Top Estate Picks for 2025:

    • Babylonstoren: Just under an hour from Cape Town, this 17th-century Cape Dutch estate blends lush gardens, a spa, farm‑to‑table cuisine, and elegant accommodations. Proposing amid immaculately manicured vineyards or over a private wine tasting or cellar tour offers intimacy and sophistication.

    Sourced: X @babylonstoren

    • Beau Constantia: Perched above False Bay with sweeping mountain-to-ocean vistas, this boutique wine farm provides scenic spots and a delectable restaurant, Zama, ideal for romantic sunset proposals followed by dinner under the stars.

    Sourced: X @beauconstantia

    • The Cellars‑Hohenort (Constantia Valley): Though no longer a working estate, this elegant 17th‑century manor hotel offers tranquil gardens with towering camphor trees and a rose‑filled landscape. It’s ideal for a garden proposal followed by a gourmet meal or spa treat.

    Sourced: X @DSalernoTravel

    Proposal Ideas:

    • Arrange a vineyard picnic complete with bubbly and blooms.

    • Schedule a private wine cellar tour ending with your proposal at sunset.

    • Book a couples spa followed by a romantic terrace moment overlooking vineyards.

    Pro Tips: Contact the estate in advance to help organise flowers, private setups, and photographers.

    Additional Cape Town Proposal Locations

    Sunset Rock (Fresnaye / Bantry Bay)

    Perched atop Nettleton Drive, Sunset Rock delivers panoramic views of Camps Bay, Lion’s Head, and the Atlantic. From the rock outcrop, the iconic vistas combined with golden-hour light offer a sweeping, dramatic backdrop. According to local couples, “Sunset Rock … is so gorgeous … set up a nice picnic on the boulders” earlier in the day to avoid crowds.

    Signal Hill

    A quick drive up offers sweeping city and ocean views, especially stunning at sunset. Known as a classic romantic spot, many couples propose on a picnic with sunset cocktails. A charming anecdote recalls a cupcake proposal hidden in the icing while watching the sun descend.

    Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens

    Nestled at Table Mountain’s base, this garden paradise features lush lawns, native flora and the treetop Boomslang Walkway. Couples can propose over a chic picnic or while strolling among colorful native flowers.

    Bo‑Kaap Colourful Streets

    For vibrant and playful vibes, Bo‑Kaap’s rainbow-hued houses and cobblestone laneways make a cheerful backdrop. Great for couples who love bold personalities or surprises disguised as a fun photoshoot.

    Clifton & Llandudno Beaches

    • Clifton: With powder-white sands, dramatic boulders, and deluxe sunset views, this area excudes a luxurious coastal vibe.

    • Llandudno: Quiet and scenic, ideal for low-tide sunset proposals or climbing to the headland for private panoramic moments.

    Noordhoek Beach (Long Beach)

    A vast stretch of white sand ideal for horse rides or long romantic walks preceding a proposal. The sunset here, viewed from the dunes, is unrivalled in its sweeping simplicity.

    Cape Point & Dias Beach

    Cape Point’s dramatic cliffs and sweeping Atlantic vistas offer a sense of untamed beauty. For greater privacy, head to Dias Beach, a secluded stretch beneath Chapman’s Peak, for understated romance at the edge of the continent.

    Lichtenstein Castle (Hout Bay)

    This private estate, modeled on a German Gothic castle, overlooks Hout Bay. The landscaped gardens and fairy‑tale architecture create an enchanting setting for an elegant proposal, book in advance via appointment-only access.

    Boulders Beach

    For couples craving something uniquely charming and lighthearted, Boulders Beach in Simon’s Town offers the perfect blend of wildlife magic and coastal beauty. Home to a protected colony of African penguins, this serene cove features calm, warm Indian Ocean waters, granite boulders, and sandy inlets ideal for a memorable proposal moment.

    Majik Forest & Newlands Forest

    • Majik Forest: A hidden woodland spot with ponds, ducks, and soft grassy glades ideal for couples who want nature and pet-friendly charm.

    • Newlands Forest: Mossy canopies and filtered light give this forest an atmospheric, private feel, perfect for intimate moments and peaceful strolls.

    Hidden Winelands Gems

    • Hidden Valley Wine Farm: Set on the slopes of Helderberg Mountain, with olive groves and shimmering fynbos views, great picnic and wine‑tasting setting followed by “yes” under the vines.

    • Klein Roosboom Boutique Winery: Nested inside restored underground ‘caves,’ this venue offers candlelit, cozy wine tasting nooks with vintage charm for a uniquely romantic proposal.

    • Lourensford Estate: Stunning views over False Bay, a serene dam with jetty, and sweeping landscape, reminiscent of cinematic romance settings (permission may be required for certain areas)

    Tips for a Perfect Cape Town Summer Proposal

    • Timing Is Everything: Aim for late afternoon or early evening to avoid the midday heat and crowds. Cape Town’s famous “Cape Doctor” wind can sweep in unexpectedly, so have an alternate plan if windy conditions arise.

    • Permit Considerations: Some public parks or beaches require permissions for commercial setups or larger decorations, check with authorities if you’re planning elaborate setups.

    • Proposal Planners: Many planners specialise in Cape Town engagements, handling logistics, décor, photography, and transport so the moment stays magical and stress‑free.

    • Consider Photos: Hiring a local engagement photographer ensures professional photos capturing the golden hour or sunset glow, moments you’ll treasure forever.

    Cape Town in summer offers breathtaking, diverse backdrops for unforgettable proposals. Whether you envision standing high above the city on Table Mountain, toes in the sand in Camps Bay, or surrounded by vines at a wine estate, choose the setting that reflects your love story.

    Plan Your Proposal

    Visit our curated directory of proposal planners, engagement photographers, and romantic stylists in Cape Town for help turning your dream proposal into reality.

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    Bachelor SA’s runner-up says I do!

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    Most people who enter reality competitions naturally want to be winners (whether the prize is love, money or both) but sometimes winning the way we thought we wanted is far from the only way to win.

    The Bachelor SA runner-up, Bridget Marshall found her own Prince Charming after the show, and she said ‘I do’ recently!

    Marshall was the runner-up and never got the final rose in the season finale with Marc Buckner. The season 2 runner-up had her fairy tale dreams shattered when she lost to Marisia van Wyk back in 2020 when the season was televised but little did she know that this was a blessing in disguise.

    She later went on to meet Kobus de Kock, a former Rugby player who would become her now husband. The wedding announcement came out of the blue but fans were truly happy that she got her happily ever after. The two wed in August and Bridget stunned her guests in two breathtaking gowns.

    In a recent Instagram post she shared that: 

    “The way I felt when my Bridal look came together – PRICELESS. My dream of what I wanted from when I was a little girl came to life.”

    Her gorgeous gowns came from The Wedding Boutique and they couldn’t have done better at bringing out the natural beauty she already has. The couple wed in the picturesque valleys of Stellenbosch at a gorgeous wine estate. Friends, loved ones and fans on socials could not get enough of the images shared on Marshall’s Instagram.

    SA’s Bachelorette Qiniso Van Damme said “LOVE YOUR DRESS!!!!!” and yes, she included 5 exclamation marks which only emphasises that this bride looked like an absolute princess.

    We wish the couple all the best on their future together and many more fairy tale moments to come!

    Also see: 

    Keeping things cheap with these budget-friendly wedding trends

    Images: @bridge5m/ Instagram

    Author: Rojaun Devos

     

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    3 Shoes styles for the perfect wedding (guest) ensemble

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    Shoes are possibly one of the most crucial features of an ensemble, especially when stepping out and revelling in the affair that is your bestie’s wedding.

    If you’ve been raking your brain and scrolling through online catalogues to figure out what shoe you’ll be sporting to bring together the perfect wedding ensemble, here are the top three shoes that are a must, as told by stylist, Rojaun Devos!

    Knee-high boot

    A knee-high is one of the shoes that simply make every and any outfit look better. Make sure it is a good length and that you give enough room for your legs to breathe. An investment is definitly a leather or suede pair as these are timeless and will never go out of style, and it also offers the perfect option for a winter wedding.

    Picture: Pinterest

    A nude heel

    Nude is a classic colour, timeless and definitely a must-have when it comes to heels. Sometimes we have to go to work events or even dinner parties which doesn’t always call for pops of colour or anything that is too much of a statement, so it’s the perfect purchase if you’re looking to splurge but still get your money’s worth outside of being a guest at your friend’s wedding.

    Picture: Pinterest

    The pump

    This is the perfect shoe for gals that absolutely hate wearing heels… but, desperate times, call for desperate measures, and pumps are the perfect balance between both words. What we love about this style is that it can go from day to night in a second. Simply swap your jeans for an elegant slip dress, and voila! 

    Picture: Pinterest

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