• South African celebrity couple Moshe Ndiki and Phelo Bala shocked fans when they recently announced they secretly tied the knot a year ago. The pair have just shared another never-before-seen look into their special day.

    Ndiki and Bala said ‘I do’ on October 31, 2019, in a secret ceremony.  In an Instagram post, Moshe shared their anniversary news and a collage of images from their time together, captioning the post: “Happy 1 year Wedding anniversary to us♥️ “What God Has Put Together Let No Man Put Asunder” Matthew 19:6Happy One year wedding anniversary my love, always has been you, always will be you.”

    In another video recently shared, Ndiki posted a clip from their actual wedding day. Surrounded by family and friends, the pair lovingly say their vows to one another.

    “I promise to love you in this life and the next (lifetime),” Ndiki says in the clip.

    “The kind of love I have for you is the Godly love…it’s unwavering…baby I love you…I really love you,” Bala expresses. “I love you today, I love you tomorrow and we’re still going to go through things and I will still love you then.

     

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    I still get those butterflies , crazy after all this time…

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    The secretive couple have been together on and off since 2010 and got engaged in September 2019 when Bala went down on one knee. Two months later, unknown to the general public, they tied the knot.

    Since then, they have had a whirlwind few months. In June, reports emerged that Ndiki had allegedly assaulted Bala with a candle stand, leading Bala to obtain an interim court order against Ndiki.

    In a statement, Ndiki denied the rumours and later filed a counter case, claiming that Bala had been abusive towards him on numerous occasions.

    Picture: Instagram / Phelo Bala

    Bachelorette parties are best known as a night out with your best friends, drinking at a bar while dressed up in all sorts of bright and fluffy accessories. While this is appealing to some, others may not find running from bar to bar to be a good night out.

    Luckily, bachelorettes don’t have to conform to any plain standard anymore. If you’re more of an active person who likes to get out there and do some exciting activity, why not make your bachelorette about that. Group activities are also a great way to bond with your friends before the big day.

    Zip-lining 

    Flying through trees or over large ravines is always a thrill but isn’t quite as high risk as bungee jumping which makes it perfect for the thrill-seeker who may have friends who aren’t quite as adventurous. There are many zip lining experiences all over South Africa so you won’t be out of options when it comes to the kind you would like to do.

    Stand-up paddle boarding 

    A more recent sport that has risen to popularity, stand-up paddle boarding gives you all the excitement of surfing without the stress of having to learn to pop-up. You can paddle your way through a canal or out in the ocean beyond the break with your friends and an instructor. If you’re feeling really adventurous, you could even try paddle-board yoga before a relaxing brunch.

    Hike

    This one is quite simple, if you’re into hiking why not pick your favourite hike and go with your friends. Try keep the route do-able for everyone and take some snacks to have a picnic at the top before making your way down.  Hikes give you loads of time to catch-up and talk as you marvel at nature around you and don’t leave you with a painful hangover.

    Paintball

    Who said paintball is just for the men. Traditionally part of many male bachelor parties, this could be a great way to get out some wedding stress and have fun with your friends. While going with a mixed group can often be stressful when things get competitive, you can set the tone when it comes to your paintball day.

    Kayaking 

    Whether it’s down a river or out in the ocean, kayaking is a really peaceful activity that can be done by most people. There are many companies that give you all the tools you need and instruct you on how to paddle properly so you don’t get stuck in one place. It makes for a great morning or afternoon out and can be followed by a lunch, brunch or drinks.

    Pole Dancing Class

    This one is almost a staple for the adventurous bride who has a decent amount of upper body strength. Pole dancing studios have been popping up all over the place and many offer a bachelorette package to show you some sexy, and acrobatic moves. Partially a workout, partially a laugh with your friends when you struggle, this is a great time to try if you’ve never done it. 

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    Three years of marriage is no small feat. While the honeymoon period is over and you’ve likely settled into wedded bliss, it is still important to honour every moment.

    Every year is a special year for a married couple, as it marks another 365 days of their union. However, each anniversary has its own special meaning, according to tradition.

    The third wedding anniversary is symbolised by leather, meant to represent strength and security. At this stage in your relationship, you’ve developed habits and patterns that have solidified, and you’ve faced ups and downs. Like leather, your love is durable and resilient.

    Of course, it does not have to be real leather. You can easily opt for vegan leather alternatives to stay on tradition while not compromising your principles.

    Here are some leather-related gift ideas to honour the day:

    – A handbag

    – A monogrammed wallet

    – An office chair

    – Boots

    – Driving gloves

    – Camera strap

    – A leather-bound notebook

    – Matching bracelets

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    Controversial duo Mampintsha and Babes Wodumo got engaged last week Thursday during a live interview on Gagasi FM’s drive show.

    They took too social media to let their fans in on their joy. In a video, Mampintsha can be heard saying in isiZulu, “I would like to say please make me man amongst man, we have been together for a very long time now.”

     

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    The couple has a history of a violent past. There were allegations of Mampintsha physically abusing Babes, which was later shown in a video recording.

    Despite this, the couple are still together and appear happy. As Babes said on her Instagram “Within a blink of an eye and now I’m left speechless, the journey wasn’t easy, but we stuck together through thick and thin”.

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