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Love looked a whole lot different back in the 1950s. Before Tinder and Instagram DMs, writing letters was the original form of romantic correspondence. This couple accidentally became penpals, and started a great love story in the process.

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The year was 1957. A seaman on the HMS Ganges in Ipswich posted an advertisement in a newspaper looking for a penpal, which a then 15-year-old Shirley Kerrigan responded to. This advertisement turned out to be quite popular. The seaman received many messages, so he passed a few of them on to his fellow shipmate.

This is how Shirley’s letter ended up in the hands of 19-year-old Jack Godley. Crazily enough, Shirley lived only 5 minutes away from Jack’s family in Sheffield, South Yorkshire.

That first initial letter turned into many. A year later, the pair finally met when Jack returned home on leave. They quickly fell in love and married on April 30, 1960.

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Fast forward to 2020 and the couple are now celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary. Shirley, 78, and Jack, 82, have five children together, 10 grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. All this from a simple letter.

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Shirley believes their love was meant to be.

She said: “I’m glad it ended up with him. I do think it was fate. The other sailor got a sack full and he said ‘here you go Ginge’ – that’s what they called Jack in the navy. He said, ‘there’s one from Sheffield you can have that one'”.

Their secret to a long-lasting marriage? Celebrating differences.

“Well we’re opposites aren’t we, me and Shirley. Opposites attract. That’s why we have lasted,” said Jack. “Well, that and doing what I am told.”

While they can’t go out and celebrate their milestone anniversary due to the lockdown, the pair plan to have a special day when the pandemic is over and it’s safe to go outside again.

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This season’s Bridal Fashion Week was nothing like we’ve seen before. Amid the coronavirus pandemic, designers displayed their new Spring 2021 collections virtually instead of on the runway.

Although many designers opted to skip the season entirely, a few soldiered on to present the looks they’ve worked so hard on these last few months. Here are a few standout looks from this season:

Viktor & Rolf Mariage

Pronovias

Amsale

Reem Acra

Savannah Miller

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She’s the Queen B, he’s a rap legend. Together they make one of the most powerful pairs in celebrity history.

Over the last 20 years, Beyoncé and Jay-Z have seen it all. From the highs of career success and babies to the lows of infidelity, here’s a look into this private couple’s relationship.

1999-2000: The Bey-ginning

Bey and Jay met sometime in 1999-2000, when Beyoncé was only 18 years old and Jay 12 years her senior. They began dating over a year later. “We were friends first for a year and a half before we went on any dates,” she told Oprah Winfrey in an interview. “We were on the phone for a year and a half, and that foundation is so important for a relationship. Just to have someone who you just like is so important, and someone [who] is honest.”

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2004-2008: Baby, it’s you

The pair began creating music together, first releasing “’03 Bonnie & Clyde,” then “Crazy in Love”, before their relationship was public. They finally confirm rumours by making their red carpet debut as a couple at the 2004 MTV VMAs in Miami.

Throughout the years, the pair continue to collaborate on more music. However, they remain tight-lipped on their relationship. In 2018, the pair secretly wed in a lowkey ceremony at the rapper’s New York penthouse. Instead of exchanging rings, they got matching IV tattoos on their wedding fingers.

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2010-2013: Highs and lows

Unfortunately, the pair suffered heartbreak when Beyoncé had a miscarriage in 2010. The singer opened up about the ordeal in her 2013 ‘Life Is But A Dream’ documentary.

“About two years ago, I was pregnant for the first time. And I heard the heartbeat, which was the most beautiful music I ever heard in my life. Being pregnant was very much like falling in love. You are so open. You are so overjoyed. There’s no words that can express having a baby growing inside of you, so of course you want to scream it out and tell everyone…I picked out names… I envisioned what my child would look like… I was feeling very maternal.. I flew back to New York to get my check up – and no heartbeat.”

In 2011 Beyoncé stunned the world when she announced her pregnancy at the MTV VMAs in L.A. In 2012, they welcomed daughter Blue Ivy Carter to the world.

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2014: Elevatorgate

The couple had major drama with the slap heard around the world. After attending the Met Gala together, a video captured Jay-Z and Beyoncé’s sister Solange Knowles having a heated argument in an elevator, while Beyoncé watched on the side. Solange then attacked Jay-Z. Many speculate that the argument was about Jay-Z’s alleged infidelity.

While they never spoke about the reason for the altercation, the trio addressed the video in a joint statement.

“There has been a great deal of speculation about what triggered the unfortunate incident. But the most important thing is that our family has worked through it. Jay and Solange each assume their share of responsibility for what has occurred. They both acknowledge their role in this private matter that has played out in the public. They both have apologised to each other and we have moved forward as a united family,” read the statement.

2016: Lemons into Lemonade

In her sixth studio album, Lemonade, Beyoncé explored themes of infidelity and forgiveness, prompting many to believe it was about her husband’s betrayal. The track list featured songs like “Don’t Hurt Yourself”, “Hold Up” and “Sorry”, taking the listener through stages of grief, anger and denial.

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2017: The twins 

Beyoncé announces that she is pregnant with twins in an iconic Instagram picture that quickly became the most liked image.

“We would like to share our love and happiness. We have been blessed two times over. We are incredibly grateful that our family will be growing by two, and we thank you for your well wishes. – The Carters”, they captioned the image.

Beyoncé gave birth to twins Rumi and Sir in June later that same year.

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In the same year, Jay-Z released his album 4:44, in which he addresses cheating on Beyoncé in the past.

In an interview with T Magazine, he opened up about the betrayal.

“You know, most people walk away, and like divorce rate is like 50 percent or something ’cause most people can’t see themselves. The hardest thing is seeing pain on someone’s face that you caused, and then have to deal with yourself,” he said. “So, you know, most people don’t want to do that. You don’t want to look inside yourself. And so you walk away.”

2018: Everything is Love

The couple seem to have worked through their issues and have come out stronger than ever. In 2018, they release their joint album Everything is Love in celebration of the triumphs and failures they’ve experienced, both together and personally.

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Newlyweds Bindi Irwin and Chandler Powell are honeymooning at home amid the coronavirus pandemic. However, their home is a bit different to the usual one, as they are staying at the Australia Zoo.

The pair have been isolating in Australia Zoo with Irwin’s family to take care of the animals throughout the pandemic. After COVID-19 forced their plans to change, they said their I dos at the zoo in a last minute ceremony in March and are now honeymooning there too.

Taking to Instagram, Irwin shared a snap from their honeymoon. She captioned the image, “Our honeymoon may not have turned out as we’d planned but we’re grateful to be spending time with our beautiful animals @AustraliaZoo. Things are incredibly busy here while we’re temporarily not open. We’re all working together to make sure our animal family is happy. ??”

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Fans of the famous family will soon be able to tune into the couple’s wedding special, which will air on May 23 at 6.30pm on Foxtel’s Animal Planet.

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Princess Eugenie of York shared a sweet, never-before-seen image from her 2018 wedding to Jack Brooksbank in honour of his 34th birthday.

Taking to Instagram, the princess simply captioned the image “Happy Birthday my love ?… xx”

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The first image shows the pair excitedly grinning soon after tying the knot during their October 2018 wedding. The second captures a personal moment of Brooksbank strolling through a garden on a sunny day.

Princess Eugenie’s mother Sarah Ferguson also joined in on the festivities. She took to Instagram to wish Brooskbank a happy birthday.

“Happy Birthday my ‘James Bond’ son-in-law .. you are such a huge heart of goodness” she captioned the image.

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Couples determined to marry amid the coronavirs pandemic have been forced to get creative with their nuptials. One pair opted for a unique drive-in movie theatre as the perfect location to bring the love and encourage social distancing.

Bri and Lindsey Leaverton from Austin, Texas were meant to marry on April 10, 2020. However, the ongoing coronavirus pandemic threw a spanner in the works.

“We had everything planned down to a tee,” Lindsey told Buzzfeed News. “We were supposed to get married on 4.10.20, Good Friday, because nothing says, ‘Happy Easter’ like a good old lesbian wedding.”

Their wedding planner then came up with the idea of having the wedding at a  drive-in movie theatre, which will allow more guests and follow social distancing rules.

They settled on Doc’s Drive In Theatre in nearby Buda, Texas, which was marked as an essential service and thus allowed to remain open as they also serve food for pickup.

They tied the knot on April 28, with about 85 cars of guests in attendance. Guests stayed in their cars for the entire event. They also decorated their cars in celebration, and showed up in their pajamas as per the brides’ requests.Guests were served champagne and popcorn by theatre staff wearing gloves and face masks.

The ceremony was livestreamed on the two theatre screens, as well as on Facebook, Instagram and Youtube so that those not in attendance could still witness the big day.

Following the ceremony, musician Lindsey surprised her new wife with an original song.

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While the wedding was not was they had originally envisioned, it was still a special day they will cherish forever.

“It was above and beyond anything we could’ve dreamed of,” Lindsey told Buzzfeed News. ”I’m so glad it happened the way it did. Our whole theme has been: we’re making some really tasty lemonade out of some really rotten lemons.”

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While the coronavirus pandemic has wrecked havoc in lives across the globe, it has also brought some joy. This homeless couple found love in the time of coronavirus.

Maria Cecilia Osorio and Alfonso Ardila from Colombia met at a homeless shelter in Manizales, the country’s coffee region amid their lockdown period. Osorio, 39, is a missionary, and was left without means to afford her rent as the pandemic escalated and prevented her from working. Ardila, 72, is a construction worker and lost many job opportunities as the country shut down to follow lockdown rules. He too sought refuge at the shelter after being unable to afford his rent.

The connection between the two quickly grew. “I came to this place where no one looked at me or greeted me. But here I found someone who loved me and is worried about me,” Alfonso told Reuters.

They married at the homeless shelter where they met, with two other residents acting as bridesmaids. Their fellow shelter residents helped organise the wedding.

Watch the video of their wedding here:

The pair hope to have a real honeymoon after May 11, when their country’s state of emergency is set to end. However, they are cautious, as they have no jobs to return to once they leave the shelter.

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A cake is enough of a wow factor, but why stop there? If you love making a statement, take it a step further by creating a beautiful backdrop for your sweet treat.

Using a normal plate or cake stand is so yesterday. Many modern couples are opting for unique displays to frame their wedding cakes. Using flowers, frames, swings and tapestries, your cake can be transformed into a work of art.

Here are some ideas to inspire you:

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A few weeks ago, we told you all about LEGO couple Fred and Florence’s romantic backyard wedding. Since then, they’ve naturally followed up their big day with a fun-filled honeymoon.

Captured by creative UK-based photographer Chris Wallace of Carpe Diem Photography, Fred and Florence’s honeymoon was a thrilling one. From ziplining and surfing to cliff-diving at sunset, this was a honeymoon to remember!

Wallace was inspired to create this fun photoshoot after the coronavirus pandemic began to affect his business.

“I am a wedding photographer and overnight all my work stopped, I had no visitors to my website, and everything you read was negative. So I wanted to do something with a little bit of positivity something funny people could read and I wanted to use something everybody could relate to. I already had a few lego sets from when I was a child, and pretty much everything I needed, so decided to photograph a lego wedding, followed shortly after by the Lego Honeymoon.”

Wallace turned to previous personal holidays and pictures from Google to inspire this honeymoon shoot. Each image took about 2-3 hours to set up and edit, so he would take 1-2 photos a day for a week to complete the set.

Take a look at what Fred and Florence got up to below:

Heading out in their LEGO camper van
Soaking up the sun at the beach
Getting adventurous with zip-lining
Surfs up!
A romantic sunset stroll on the beach
A thrilling cliff-dive
They got caught in a snow storm!

“Florence and Fred had an amazing honeymoon spending quality time together,” said Chris. “They are now looking forward to replanning their cancelled holiday for next summer.  Florence has been house hunting online and is also trying to persuade Fred that they should buy or foster a dog, claiming lockdown would be a perfect time whilst they are having to work from home, Fred isnt convinced so she might have to work on him a bit longer or until one can be found on a essential weekly food shop!”

If you want to keep up with Fred and Florence, make sure to follow their Instagram page: @the.legophotographer.

All images taken by Chris Wallace of Carpe Diem Photography. Visit his website for more amazing images.

Long Island couple Sara Pagano and Brian Fenley  were meant to marry the first weekend in May but were forced to postpone due to the ongoing pandemic. Instead, they will put their time and money to good use by helping others during this unprecedented time.

“With all of the positive energy we have received from friends, family and neighbors, we want to channel that into an opportunity to celebrate love in a different but significant way and give back to help our community in need,” the pair explain on Facebook.

“Covid-19 has intensified food insecurity on Long Island, and on Saturday May 2 we are putting on our festive wedding attire and hosting a food drive to benefit Island Harvest and our local families here on LI.”

They plan to dress up, decorate their pick-up truck into a ‘wedding mobile’ and drive around their city picking up food donations for Island Harvest Food Bank.

“We haven’t really even though about ourselves. We’re worried about the fact that we’re still having jobs and money and a place to live and food,” Pagano explains. Because they are in a priviledged position, they want to do all they can to help those in need.

People wishing to donate to the food bank but cannot or do not feel safe dropping it off may sign up online. This couple will then pick up the donations and deliver it to the needy. Food insecurity has heightened amid the coronavirus pandemic, making donations even more important.

“These people are just there, they’re just trying to find out what their next meal is,” Fenley said.

“Since they cannot walk down the aisle this weekend, this amazing couple ❤️ Sara Pags and Brian Paulie ❤️ are channeling positive energy into raising food and funds for Island Harvest Food Bank to help us feed local families affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. We invite everyone to join these would-be newlyweds as they share the love across Long Island in helping us make sure that no one goes hungry. ❤️” wrote Island Harvest Food Bank on their Facebook page. 

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