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    In a win for LGBT couples in South Africa, President Cyril Ramaphosa has signed the Civil Amendment Act of 2020, making it illegal for state marriage officers and magistrates to refuse to solemnise a civil union between same-sex couples.

    The act, which was signed and passed on October 22, repeals Section 6 of the Civil Union Act, 2006 which previously allowed marriage officers to object to marrying same-sex couples.

    The act also requires that the Minister must ensure that there is a marriage officer, other than a marriage officer referred to in section 5 of the principal Act, available to solemnise a civil union at every Department of Home Affairs office.

    The new act states that any marriage officer who has been granted an exemption by the Minister in terms of section 6 of the principal Act, prior to the commencement of this Act, lapses 24 months from the date of commencement of this Act.

    This move follows after many controversial cases of marriage officers refusing to solemnise same-sex civil unions because it was contrary to their beliefs.

    Non-profit Christian organisation Freedom of Religion South Africa (FOR SA) has opposed the President’s decision, calling it ‘unconstitutional’.

    “The Amendment Act removes the right of State-employed marriage officers and magistrates to object – on grounds of their sincerely held conscience, religion, and belief (which are protected by section 15 of the Constitution) – to being personally forced to solemnise same-sex marriages.  The Amendment Act fails to replace it with another remedy that meets constitutional standards,” said Daniela Ellerbeck, Legal Advisor of FOR SA.

    Read the Act here:Act_8_of_2020_Civil_Union_Amendment_Act

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    When you tie the knot, you enter into a legally binding agreement. With all the paperwork required, it’s important to do things right the first time to avoid any further legal issues.

    All marriages in South Africa must be registered at the Department of Home Affairs. There are three types of marriages that are recognised under South African law: civil marriages, customary marriages and civil unions. Each one has different paperwork requirements, so couples need to know which one they plan to enter into.

    If you are planning on having a civil marriage, you must:

    – ensure that you are legally allowed to marry

    – understand the legal consequences of a marriage, particularly that marriages in South Africa are automatically in community of property, unless a valid ante-nuptial contract has been entered into before the marriage, and

    – make sure that your marriage will comply with all the legal requirements for a valid marriage

    Should you be unsure of any of these, legal counsel should be sought before the marriage is entered into.

    On the day of the marriage, a couple must present the following documents to the person officiating at the wedding:

    – Identity documents(for each person getting married)

    – If a foreign national is marrying a South African citizen, they should both present their valid passports as well as well as a completed BI-31 Form (Declaration for the Purpose of Marriage, Letter of no impediment)

    – If the wedding is for a minor (a person under the age of 18 years), the written consent of both parents/ legal guardian or the Commissioner of Child Welfare or a judge should be submitted on Form DHA-32 as well. If the minors getting married are under the ages of 18 for boys or 15 for girls, the written consent from the Minister of Home Affairs will also be required

    – If any of the persons getting married are divorced, then the final decree of divorce should be furnished

    – If any of the persons getting married are widowed, the deceased spouse’s death certificate must be submitted.

    Marriage certificates

    Two witnesses and the marriage officer must sign the marriage register after the solemnisation of a marriage. Then the marriage officer must issue the parties with a handwritten marriage certificate (BI-27) free of charge.

    The marriage officer must then submit the marriage register to the nearest office of the Department of Home Affairs, where the marriage details will be recorded in the National Population Register (NPR).

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    Weddings are special days, and it’s natural one would want it to be absolutely perfect. Unfortunately, perfect can be quite expensive.

    With all the moving parts of a wedding, it’s easy to go over budget. It’s important to get creative and think of ways to limit your spending while still delivering an epic day.

    One way to do that is to use the things around you. Items like chopping boards, leaves, wine bottles and mismatched photo frames are easily accessible as we’re likely to already have them in our homes. You could even ask close friends and family to donate a few items to increase your supply.

    Here are a few ordinary items that can be given new life and act as a truly unique wedding seating chart:

     

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    A 75-year-old wedding gown is now standing proud as part of the Cradle Of Aviation Museum’s collection on Long Island. This dress is made of the silk of a parachute that once saved a man’s life.

    The gown was made in 1945 for a woman named Evelyn, the mother of Kate and Mike Braet. It was fashioned out of a World War II parachute that saved their father’s life.

    The siblings’ father, George, was a young army pilot. He was on a mission to defeat Hitler in Europe when his plane took on enemy fire. His parachute saved his life, although it was punctured by flying debris from the enemy attack.

    Speaking to CBS2, Kate explains: “My father came home with this parachute filled with holes. If the parachute were not there, it would have killed him.”

    He survived and he tied the knot with his love, Evelyn. During the war, silk was in short supply so Evelyn had the idea to transform the silk parachute into a wedding dress. She removed the Army/Navy lettering and salvaged the tattered pieces to create a stunning gown to walk down the aisle in.

    “Something that was meant to save somebody from a crashing plane, then became the parachute that carried them throughout their marriage,” said Kate.

    Decades later, the dress has now been donated to the Cradle of Aviation Museum to educate people on the reality of the war and how it impacted people.

    “It’s just one story of millions, I’m sure, of what people went through during the war… and how difficult it was,” said Mike. “My parents are now going to live forever.”

    “The story goes beyond us, because it’s a story of love. It’s a story of bravery. It’s a story of hope. It’s a story of future,” said Kate.

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    A night at the carnival is guaranteed to be a memorable experience, filled with tons of colours, delicious food and exciting rides. Capture the spirit with a carnival-themed wedding. From your decor to your outfit and food, there are so many ways to bring the fun.

    A canival theme is all about being over the top. Go big with a variety of colours and textures, they don’t even have to complement each other.

    Of course, you need to have food stands offering sweet treats. From popcorn and donuts to lemonade and hot dogs, you could incorporate any of your favourite foods.

    Here are some festive ways to fill up your space:

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    New York Bridal Fashion Week kicked off digitally in early October, offering stunning trends for brides-to-be for the 2021 season.

    Although designers were given challenging circumstances with production halted across the world due to the COVID-19 pandemic, they soldiered on to create unique shows to inspire us all.

    A major trend this wedding season appears to be inspired by the pandemic itself. With the various restrictions around the world, many have opted for more relaxed and less traditional looks to reflect the mood of the current climate.

    More jumpsuits and shorter dresses were showcased in shows this season, although they did not sacrifice style. Many designers went theatrical with volume and fabric. Detailed shoulder work, detachable capes and fun fabrics were the moods of the day. Tulle, lace, feathers and ruffles continue to be popular in the wedding world as well.

    Here are a few of our favourite looks that graced the (digital) runway:

    Oscar de la Renta

    Vivienne Westwood

    Elie Saab

    Naeem Khan

    Marchesa

    Jenny Pakham

    Galia Lahav

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    Couples will often go to great lengths for a truly unique wedding photo, but some locations are a step too far. A British couple learned this the hard way and is now under fire for posing on live train tracks in North Yorkshire.

    The unidentified couple is now unwillingly the face of a new campaign to educate people on rail safety.

    In a Twitter post, the national Network Rail in Scotland called the photoshoot ‘plain stupidity’, and urged residents to practice basic rail safety at all times.

    British Transport Police Superintendent Alison Evans explains that anyone walking across a railway line is putting themselves in danger.

    “Every time someone strays onto the rail network they are not only putting themselves at risk of serious, life-threatening injury but also delaying essential journeys.

    “Passenger and freight trains are still using the railway 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, providing much-needed services of transporting people and goods. Please, stay off the track”.

    According to Network Rail and British Transport Police, there have been 5100 trespassing incidents over their summer months, and 1239 incidents recorded in September, their worst recorded month in the last five years.

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    A wedding does not have to be fancy and stuck up. Modern weddings are all about individuality and doing what feels right for you.

    Throw the rule book out of the window and cater your big day to your tastes, literally. If you love comfort foods and childhood favourites like grilled cheese, pizza, and burgers, why not incorporate them into your big day?

    The key here is in how you serve it up. Doing miniature versions of your favourite snacks wrapped up in cute packaging can easily elevate it. Opt for more premium ingredients like gruyère for your grilled cheese, or kobe beef for your sliders to make your canapès more gourmet. Add unique dipping sources and garnishes for a more fancy finish.

    You could also hire food trucks to dish out the foods, adding a fun element to your big day. Another option is to create unique displays like a cookie wall, hanging pretzels, or simply serve your snacks in cute individual bowls.

    Here are some snacking ideas guaranteed to be a big hit.

     

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    A proposal is always a sweet moment, and when it goes perfectly, it can bring some serious tears of joy. This public proposal at a theme park really had people feeling the love, and has since gone viral.

    In a video shared to social media, believed to have been filmed at Hopi Hari theme park in Brazil, a couple can be seenstanding on a flight of stairs when one of the men suddenly goes down on one knee and takes out a white box.

    His partner stands in shock as the proposal ensues. Instead of responding, he walks away and rummages through his bag to pull out a white box of his own.

    Clearly the pair are on the same wavelength, and secretly planned to propose to each other on the exact same day.

    It is uncertain when the video was first shared, but it has since racked up a whopping 28-million views on social media. It went viral when it was reshared to Reddit, and the app’s users could not believe how romantic and sweet the moment was.

    “This really is a testament to their love that they are literally on the same page at the same time,” wrote on Reddit user.

    “That made me cry, too beautiful,” wrote another.

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    Popping the question is a nerve-wracking but special moment, one that you want to go perfectly. Unfortunately for this man, his proposal caused a splash in the wrong way.

    In a video recently shared to social media, an unnamed man can be seen standing on one boat while his partner stands on the other. He walks to the edge of the boat and pulls out a ring to ask for her hand in marriage, which his partner accepts.

    As the pair embrace to celebrate their special moment, the bride-to-be seems to accidentally hit the throttle of her vehicle, causing it to speed off. She falls over in the sudden jolt of the boat, and her husband-to-be makes waves when he lands up in the water.

    Since been shared, the video has gone viral with over 87 000 views and tons of comments from entertained social media users.

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