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How to incorporate black into your wedding

October 29, 2019 No Comments

Black is not just a colour for mourning. For decades, white has been synonymous with weddings for its symbolism of purity. White is traditionally expected. However, while many are afraid of including this dark-hued colour in weddings, black can actually bring much class and sophistication to your big day. Take a walk on the dark side and think of bringing this dark tone into your wedding.

Here are a few way to incorporate black into your wedding that won’t look morbid.

Invites:

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The order of events:

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Your dress:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4BE3UaB4F0/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

All-black suit:

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwnb-VLlKmq/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Your bouquet:

https://www.instagram.com/p/Be5psRSDAKV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Wedding arch:

https://www.instagram.com/p/ByfsMh8Icvh/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Black tables:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4BLZ5tApR3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Seating:

https://www.instagram.com/p/Be6R4rajYub/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Candles:

https://www.instagram.com/p/ByOktlUglIF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Escort cards:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BxkJWYlAPtJ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Napkins:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2O0ueNhGmN/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Plating:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B1966ucD3FR/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Your cake:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B36Z3gvFu53/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Image: Unsplash

In Advice

The pros and cons of having a garden wedding

October 24, 2019 No Comments

There’s nothing quite like being in a beautiful and lush environment. If you love nature and want to make use of its beauty then a garden wedding could be perfect for you. However, as with any wedding venue, there will be upsides and downsides and you will need to decide for yourself if the negatives outweigh the positives when it comes to planning a garden wedding.

The location

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Gardens generally have plenty of space and can therefore accommodate all your guests easily. The setting itself is already natural and beautiful and so you will not have to worry too much about decoration. You will most likely be able to have your ceremony as well as your reception in the garden which cuts out travel for yourself and your guests.

If you’re lucky and a family member or close friend has a stunning garden, they might allow you to have your wedding there and that will save you tons of money.

However, if you are planning on holding your reception in the garden, you might want to hire a marquee to protect yourself and your guests from the elements and bugs. You should also have a back up plan in case it is incredibly windy or happens to rain on the day.

If you’re looking at a public garden, it won’t be private and you may have trouble booking it during season as it will be in demand.

The vibe

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A garden wedding invokes a casual vibe and is also a much more family-friendly wedding venue. Kids can run around and play without getting bored and wanting to go home and you can set up lawn games for the adults’ entertainment.

On the downside, if you’re wanting a full set up then you will most likely have to rent everything including seating, sound equipment and a power source since there won’t be any electrical outlets in a public garden. If it’s in the garden of someone’s home, you can get away with running extension cables from the house to power everything you need.

The logistics

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The nice part about garden weddings is that you will be free to use vendors of your choice. You might be able to find good deals with unattached vendors rather than using sponsored vendors and then having to put up with their pricing.

As with any open space, however, there is the issue of sound getting lost, especially if there is a breeze. If you’re under a marquee, then this shouldn’t be a problem.

These are just a few things to consider when you are planning a garden wedding. There are wedding venues that have garden locations within them that will have all the necessary equipment that you would need, but you might end up paying heavily for this type of venue.

Feature image: Unsplash

In Fashion

Rocking bridesmaid dresses for 2020

October 24, 2019 No Comments

Bridesmaid dresses are a tricky one. There’s a delicate balance between wanting them to look gorgeous, and not wanting them to upstage you on your big day. Here’s some good news: You can get both. The latest trends for bridesmaids are absolutely stunning, but not at all overpowering and will complement your bridal party perfectly. Your bridesmaids will feel great and love you for it. Here are some non-traditional outfits that are stylish, classy and sweet.

The two-piece

Two pieces can be just as beautiful and formal as you want them to be. Long skirts with halter tops are very in, especially loose fitting pieces that have a soft, flowing effect. Opt for a darker colour at the bottom and a light colour at the top. The top can be either tucked in or not. Lace is popular, and will fit in nicely if you have lace in your own wedding dress.

The embroidered dress

Embroidery is one of those things that used to be old-fashioned, then everybody realised how beautiful it is and brought it back big time. It has a feminine touch and goes well with pastel colours. Florals are always a favourite, but it doesn’t have to bind you. We’re loving this blue mullet dress with netted under layers.

The tiered dress

Layers are good on everyone if you do them right. Tiered dresses are super fun and work well with short or midi dresses. It has a fashionable vibe and depending on the material you opt for, can be elegant or playful.

Remember, it’s your day and your bridesmaids should make your day more beautiful, not take the attention off your dress. But that doesn’t mean they can’t be stunning too!

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In News

When a wedding planner gets married

October 23, 2019 No Comments

You might think that a wedding planner wouldn’t want to do the work of planning his/her own wedding, since that’s what they do for a living. But actually, that’s the perfect reason for them to do it. They know all the ins and outs, the tricks and tips and most importantly, they have contacts in the industry.

One such lucky lady, California-based Erica España, recently threw her own wedding when she got hitched to her long-time best friend and high school sweetheart Dustin Lakin. They said their vows in the lovely English Gardens of Greystone Mansion in Beverly Hills. And here’s the best part: There was no one at the ceremony.

Afterward the ceremony, they invited 30 family members for an intimate dinner at a hotel in Downton LA.

Erica told Brides that she called in some favours for her big day. The couple’s custom invitation suite featured calligraphy and bright, cheerful botanicals. It also included elements that hinted at reception elements to come. She asked bakers she often worked with to make cookies and macaroons that matched the invitation suite. The treats were packaged in mini velvet bags, the same material used to line the envelopes.

After the stately dinner, they threw a dance party for 90 guests. “I didn’t stop dancing until the wedding was over!” said Erica.

As a wedding planner AND a married woman, we are eager to get some wedding advice from her. Her mantra is easy enough: “Go with your gut and do what makes you feel comfortable. When guests see that you’re relaxed and having fun, they’ll follow suit.”

Picture: Brides/Mike Radford

In Decor

Unique wedding seating chart ideas

October 23, 2019 No Comments

When it comes to wedding decor, your seating chart is one of the most practical aspects. However, it does not have to be a boring one. Once you have settled on your final seating arrangements, you can start to have fun with the display.

Many couples have taken to using their seating charts as another focal point in their wedding. As one of the first things guests will see as they enter, you want them to get the theme immediately.

Whether your wedding theme is glamorous, rustic, minimalist or art deco, there is a fun and unique seating chart for you. Here are some fun and different wedding seating chart ideas.

Quirky:

Want to have some fun with your wedding? Get punny! This simple yet striking sign adds personality to an event that can be very formal at times. Incorporate flowers and fruit for a dynamic and fresh take on the traditional seating chart.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2fU11og8hG/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Mismatched frames:

For a dynamic seating chart perfect for garden weddings, consider using mismatched frames. Mirrors, photo frames and chalkboards provide a beautiful farmhouse feel with a touch of glamour.

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Leather:

If you’re into the rustic farmhouse style then you will love this seating chart! This creative chart makes use of brown leather cloth hung up on a rose gold frame as a seating chart. With simple script and no other decor, this chart maintains a minimalist yet striking look.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B097P6zDJr3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Linen banner:

This one is for the minimalist bride. If you’re not into frills and fancies, consider making use of a linen banner for your seating chart. We love how simplistic yet powerful this chart looks.

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzsivc3IWSg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Bottles:

If you love a particular beverage, why not include it in your wedding decor? Make use of glass bottles, with all stickers removed, as a seating chart. Each bottle represents a different table. For added decor, place baby’s breath flowers inside the bottle.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B16KybAiGii/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Wood stumps:

Lovers of the outdoors can show their passion with these wooden stump charts! Soften the look with an array of flowers and an antique mirror.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3nLQMBIAb6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Delicious Monster:

Greenery has been having a moment in decor for a long time, and it is not going anywhere. Use single leaves of Delicious Monster with gold lettering to guide your guests to their seats.

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Records:

Use old records for a pun-intended take on seating charts. Have the table numbers and guest names written in the middle of the record. We promise it will get your wedding started on the right note!

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Perspex:

For a glamorous yet classic look, make use of perspex stands with floral bouquets inside. Because the flowers can be quite busy, make use of simple block lettering.

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Monopoly:

This Monopoly-inspired seating chart adds a dose of whimsy to a wedding. Encourage your guests to “Collect canapes as you pass Go ,” sip on some “Free drinks” and “Go to the Dance Floor”.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3716Mon67F/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Picture: Unsplash

In Advice

Decor inspiration for a minimalist wedding

October 23, 2019 No Comments

Recent wedding trends have focused on dramatic, colourful and opulent finishes. However, it is not for everyone. Many couples are drawn to simplistic finishes. You don’t always need tonnes of decor to make a statement.

The minimalist trend is all about less-is-more. Think neutral colours, natural fabrics, organic elements, accent metals and lots of glass pieces. Clean lines and key pieces create a sophisticated look perfect for weddings.

Minimalist wedding decor directs attention to where it should be: the newlyweds. Here is some decor inspiration that prove that there is beauty in simplicity.

Invitations:

Quality white paper and simple black script are a perfect pair. Add flair with some dried botanicals and a unique letter stamp.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3zH5MKFPl6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Welcome sign:

Welcome your guests in perfect minimalist style. Your welcome sign can feature lots of blank space and minimal words to achieve this simple yet striking finish.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3V-2azAoBi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Venue:

High ceilings, exposed wood and white walls work best for a minimalist wedding venue. We love how just some string lights and greenery take this venue from drab to fab.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2D4OvCnB1A/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Backdrop:

For a beautiful yet simple photo backdrop, consider a wall of hanging lights. Your images will be stunningly and romantically lit, and its very affordable.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3au7IYBYGt/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Seating arrangements:

Fabric banners are wonderfully minimalist. Use simple lettering, shapes and blank spaces to get the look.

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzsivc3IWSg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Seating numbers:

If you’re having multiple tables, let your guests know the number with these minimalist table signs. A clear card with block lettering works very well for this theme.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B32pdoslTk6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Sweetheart table:

Minimalism does not have to be boring! With just a few candles, flowers and a frame, this sweetheart table has achieved picturesque perfection. The flowers add a softness to the angular frame that dominates the table, giving a great balance to the overall effect.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3eecPNnZxU/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Table arrangements:

Long tables work best for a minimalist wedding. Decorate them with white candles, and dried botanicals to achieve this simplistic yet stunning look.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3A-eCajFOR/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Plating:

Simple, white plating is all you need for a minimalist wedding. Have some fun with the menu by using curlycue scripts.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3tUul9DtCt/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Table decor:

Place single leaves of greenery in modern terrariums or vases for some minimalist decoration. These table decorations are soft yet modern, creating a wonderful juxtaposition.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3xF8ongqRA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Signage:

A natural linen banner makes for perfect signage. Print a short slogan on the banner for some simplistic decor.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3Xnvm5Fhy5/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Cake:

Cakes have become very extravagant in recent years. Take it back to simplicity with this minimalist design. We love how they incorporated a simple vine into this layered cake.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BE910O-Q0aP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Picture: Unsplash

In Advice

The pros and cons of having a church wedding

October 22, 2019 No Comments

Having your wedding ceremony in a church or House of Worship is a beautiful thing for couples who feel connected to their religion and would like to keep religion in their marriage. Since the ceremony is in a religious setting, you will be bound by certain rules that govern the building.

The location

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Churches and Houses of Worship are designed to house lots of people meaning there will be more than enough seating for your guests. Since it is indoors, you will not have to worry about the weather on the day of the ceremony. There will most likely be musical instruments that can be used during the ceremony however you might be only be allowed to play songs that are approved by the church.

The ceremony will certainly be traditional but it might not feel very personal as you might not be able to bring in your own decor and make the place unique to you.

The cost

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While the cost to have your ceremony in a Church is relatively low, you will end up having to pay for another location if you are wanting to have a reception after the ceremony. You also might be charged more for guests who are not members of the church.

An officiant will be included in the price which is also a bit of a save but you will not be able to choose your officiant as it will be whoever is available on the day. This can be very upsetting if you want to be married by the same person who married your parents.

The pictures

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Despite the fact that you are limited in terms of decor, Churches are already made beautiful and so it will be a classic backdrop for your wedding photographs. The only problem that could occur is that your photos might only be from one or two angles as the photographer might not be allowed to move around the room as he/she sees fit. There is also the possibility that the Church does not allow flash inside so unless the Church has lots of windows and natural lighting, the photographs from your special day might not turn out as well as you’d hoped.

If you want your wedding to be classic and traditional, then the limitations that come with a Church wedding won’t bother you. If you’re looking for something unique, maybe find another location.

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In Advice

5 easy ways to make your wedding stand out

October 22, 2019 No Comments

Your wedding day is the biggest, happiest day of your life. You want it to be extra special and leave a lasting impression. Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to do anything bizarre or expensive to make your day beautiful. These clever and unique ideas with pieces from FF Decor expertly set up by Spectacular Occasions will make yours a wedding to remember. Here are some things to try.

1. Fairy light dome

Fairy lights are nothing new, but the way you set it up makes all the difference. If you have an outdoor wedding, draping the lights in a dome or rectangular hallway structure will create an enchanted forest-atmosphere.

2. Shaped menu

The menu is important so guests know what they’re being served, but sometimes the tables are already so full, you don’t want anything extra to crowd the space. Why not cut the menu in a perfect circle to fit inside the plate? Problem solved.

3. Extended table decor

The table decor make a big contribution towards the overall theme and setting. It should enhance the aesthetics and there’s no reason why it can’t continue when the table ends. If you have floor space, use it for your table decorations as well and let the magic continue.

4. Block colours

Having one colour at your wedding is so last season. But beware of getting trigger happy (unless crazy colours are all you. In that case, go for it!). If you have one or two colours or tones you are going with, but you feel like it just needs that little something, add one block colour (the colour opposite your main colour on the colour wheel). This will have an eye catching and interesting effect.

5. Elevated cake

To top it all off, the cake is always the cherry on top. There are numerous ways to make this even more spectacular by using decor pieces. How about this suspended cake? The wooden plank adds an earthy touch and places this marvellous artwork up high for all to see.

Don’t settle for anything less than the perfect decor. The sky is the limit.

Vendors used in images:

Location: Toadbury Hall
Photographer: Leigh Benson
Make up: Amy Sprawson
Hair: Rhode Truter
Décor: Spectacular Occasions
Lighting: Draping designs by FF Decor
Flowers: The Bloom Room
Dress 1: Fynbos Bridal Boutique
Dress 2: Johan Botha Fashion Design
Cake: Kelly Jane Cakes
Stationery: Trendy Settings Paperworks

Pictures: Supplied

In Advice

Unique alternatives to the wedding getaway car

October 21, 2019 No Comments

Ribbons attached to front windows of cars typically show that a newly married couple is passing by on route to their reception. For those that want to have a little bit of fun with their wedding transport, there are a host of quirky and different ways to ride off into the sunset.

If cars are a bit too played out for you, consider these alternative modes of transport to exit your wedding in style.

Boat:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3wcp_uJisN/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Carriage:

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzz9eslIB2X/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Motorcycle:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B14HQ5WFRDa/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Horse:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3kv53UgkGB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Bus:

https://www.instagram.com/p/Box-Ps2hmRy/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Bicycle:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BYJ8ltMAbNN/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Canoe:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BznA31uDV0a/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Tractor:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BGaOmCRrK7V/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Taxi:

axi:

https://www.instagram.com/p/ByvDU_pIFZj/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

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In Advice

What do weddings in SA cost?

October 18, 2019 No Comments

Now, as with any other event, you can go super small, low key and toned down, or splurge and go way over the top for your wedding. It really is up to you (and your bank account).

Wedding costs vary greatly, from one couple who tied the knot for a mere R6 000 to the infamous Gupta wedding at Sun City, topping the charts with an elaborate wedding of R30 million. Where that money came from is another story altogether. Let’s not dwell on it.

Those are two extreme cases, and most South African couples end up dishing out something between R70 000 and R80 000, according to IOL. There are a number of things to budget for, with the venue, dress and photography being among the most expensive.

Catering does not come cheap, either. Some couples are wonderfully happy with a small get together, maybe at their own or a friend’s home. A savvy aunt might pitch in to make the dress, and the mother-in-law knows someone who bakes. What matters to them is being together, celebrating their choice to journey on together, surrounded by laughter and sunshine.

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However, some will raise an amused eyebrow at the picture painted above. If the bride or groom is rolling in cash, they might have a completely different take on weddings. Think landing in helicopters and photoshoots with tame leopards. Entertainment for guests including classical ballerinas and acrobats. One such lavish wedding took place at Polo Estate, Val de Vie.

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Remember, though, that spending crazy amounts of money on one event could lead to haunting debt for you and your loved one. Rather be realistic about your budget, get creative (and eco-friendly) so you can focus on the other person more than on the material things. There are countless ways of saving money and still have a gorgeous wedding you will remember for the rest of your life.

Picture: Will Cadena Photography