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    The Church of England could soon change its stance on same-sex marriage and other issues relating to sexuality.

    The church’s House of Bishops announced on Monday [November 9] that they would soon begin a formal decision-making process on questions of identity, sexuality, relationships and marriage.

    “A group of bishops, chaired by the Bishop of London, Sarah Mullally, will lead the process of discernment and decision-making about a way forward for the church in relation to human identity, sexuality, relationships and marriage,” said the Church in a statement.

    This engagement is expected to take place during 2021, and final decisions would be concluded in 2022 and set before the Church’s General Synod.

    Currently, the Church of England does not recognise same-sex marriage or officially bless same-sex civil marriages. However, they do allow clergy members to be in same-sex relationships if they are sexually abstinent. The Church still describes sex as between a heterosexual male and female.

    In the foreword in a newly published set of resources drawing together the Bible, theology, science and history called “Living in Love and Faith”, the Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby, and Archbishop of York, Stephen Cottrell, acknowledge and apologise for the “huge damage and hurt” that has been caused particularly to LGBTI+ people within the Church.

    “At the heart of our failure is the absence of a genuine love for those whom God loves in Christ, knowing as God does every aspect of all of our lives,” they write. “Our prayer for the Church through this work is that collectively we demonstrate the same love to one another that we have experienced from God.”

    The Bishop of Coventry, Christopher Cocksworth, who oversaw the Living in Love and Faith project, said: “Questions of identity, sexuality, relationships and marriage are deeply personal with real life consequences. Engaging with these resources will be enriching and, at different points for different people, deeply challenging and uncomfortable.

    “They ask us to examine afresh what it means for Christians to live in love and faith. We offer them in the hope that the whole of the Church of England will embrace this opportunity to learn and reflect together across difference for the sake of our unity in Christ.”

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    A wedding bouquet should reflect your personality and fit the theme, but not steal your thunder. We love the elegance of white flowers, and the simplicity it brings.

    Here are some ides if you’re thinking to go with an all-white bouquet. If white on its own is too plain for you, add some subtle pastel colours to the mix. Also feel free to experiment with accessories to add a special touch to the flowers like dried botanical pieces, wispy feathers, and jewels.

    Take a look at these riveting bouquets.

     

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    A man appeared to have married four brides during one ceremony in Limpopo this past weekend. In a video circulating on social media, the groom and his four brides can be seen enjoying their recent nuptials.

    The wedding is believed to have taken place in a village in Limpopo called Ga-Makgeru on November 8, 2020. In the video, the four brides and the groom are captured happily dancing into the tent packed with amused guests where the ceremony was going to be.

    Three of the brides were wearing similar dresses and one of the four stood out in a long sleeve dress.

    Polygamy is no foreign concept in most South African cultures, but it is unusual for mutiple marriages to occur on the same day. Typically, couples host seperate ceremonies over time.

    While bigamy is a punishable offence in South Africa, customary marriages operate differently. According to Home Affairs, if a male person is already in a customary marriage and wishes to enter into another customary marriage he has to, at his own cost, get a court order from a competent court which will regulate his future matrimonial property system.

    It is also possible for a male person who is already in a customary marriage to enter into a civil marriage. They should follow the normal procedure for civil marriages.

    Polygamy is legal under certain circumstances in South Africa. The circumstances include practices of various cultures and religions in South Africa. There are no religions or cultures that recognise a woman having multiple husbands, so polygamy is typically understood as one man having mutiple wives.

    Also read: What you need to know about polygamy in South Africa

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    A wedding hosted in Long Island, New York has resulted in dozens of people testing positive for COVID-19 and over 150 people needing to quarantine. Several local schools have temporarily closed to contain the spread.

    North Fork Country Club, where the event was hosted on October 17, has had its liquor licence revoked by the state of New York. This comes after they hosted a wedding with 113 guests in attendance, way above the 50-person threshold allowed under New York Governor Andrew Cuomo’s executive order limiting gatherings.

    They also face $30,000 (R463 962) in fines due to “multiple counts of failure to comply” with COVID-19 regulations.

    Since the wedding, about 30 people tested positive for COVID-19, including three employees at the country club and a wedding vendor. An estimated 159 people who were present may have been exposed to the virus, and have gone into a two-week quarantine. Multiple schools in the area even temporarily shut down over fears of a further outbreak. 

    “As we have seen in weddings and similar events across the country during this pandemic, large gatherings can easily be super-spreader events, too often with dire consequences,” Cuomo said. “Hosting one of these events after all New York has been through is obnoxious and irresponsible—not to mention illegal.”

    The tri-state area, which includes New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut, is bracing for a second wave of the virus. New citywide restrictions have been imposed in New Jersey and may soon be imposed in New York, which could include a shutdown of nonessential businesses if the average infection rate continues to climb as it has been over the last week, according to the city’s health department.

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    There are two reasons why people come to a wedding, other than to celebrate eternal love of course. Those two reasons are: Free food and free booze.

    Alcohol and food go hand-in-hand in that you want to ensure your guests have lined their stomachs enough before the drinking begins.

    There is an art though, to ensure all your guests dietary requirements are met. While you can make exceptions for the mains, the grazing table is a beast of its own.

    You have to consider the vegetarians, vegans, carnivores, gluten-free, sugar-free and everything else in between-free.

    To kill 6 birds with one table, here are some tips on what to include in the ultimate grazing table, without anything going to waste.

    1. Cheese and crackers

    No this is not the most boring combination on Earth. Cheese and crackers are the unsung hero of a grazing table. You’ve essentially covered every single dietary requirement except the vegans. Wheels of cheese are not only the thing dreams are made of but they are also super helpful in feeding en mass. Throw in some vegan cheese options, salt and pepper, rye and gluten-free cracker options and voila! A feast is born.

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    2. Fruit that isn’t fermented

    Wine is a guarantee on the day but the only grapes on the grazing table should not be fermented. Red grapes pair with literally anything, especially cheese, to add a bit of sweetness. If you want to add more pzaz than the old faithful grapes, consider some aesthetically pleasing fruits that won’t grow warm and overripe. Most berries such as blueberries, raspberries, gooseberries and strawberries look beautiful on a massive table. Seasonal availability will need to be considered. If you’re having a Summer wedding, think mangoes, litchis, watermelon, sliced white nectarines and other stone fruit. The options are endless. It gives the vegans a variety of yummy foods to choose from too.

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    3. Cold meat’s a treat!

    Cold meat cuts are generally a crowd pleaser for those who still consume them. Anything Italian or German is sure to go down well. The meat section of your grazing table will pair nicely with the cheese section, so long as it is nowhere near the vegan cheese options. The protein will help to subdue the hunger pangs enough for the long wait that is the post-wedding ceremony photoshoot.

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    4. The side pieces

    The only side piece one wants at their wedding are those awkward foods that make up a grazing table. Thing gherkins, capers, carrot and cucumber sticks, saucers of olives, baby tomatoes, lemon slices: Those sorts of fruit and veg that aren’t necessarily aesthetically pleasing but can act as a glorified cracker or filling nonetheless.

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    4. It’s all about the SAUCE!

    Sauces are essential on a grazing table. While they don’t necessarily need to be their own separate amenity, honey drizzles over some figs, some sweet chili over the chevin, and a patê or 5 will go down very well. They also force guests to pair it with a carb, or glorified cracker, which will help line the stomachs BB (Before Booze).

    5. Extra additions

    If you want to spoil your guests, throw in a few freshly baked breads sliced to perfection. Bread will load them up with carbs and essentially get your guests to consume more of the toppings, so nothing goes to waste on the day!

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    ‘The Bachelorette’ star Clare Crawley is engaged to Dale Moss. The pair got married a few months ago but have kept it away from the public until Thursday, November 5.

    On this week’s drama-filled show, the viewers witnessed Clare become engaged to Dale, just four episodes into the series, and Tayshia Adams being brought in to replace her.

     

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    It’s official!! Love wins!!!! ?❤️!!! I love you @dalemoss13 !!!!

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    Clare said that it was love at first sight for her, she knew that Dale was her future husband “the moment he walked into the show.”

    “After the first night, and I even said it the first time I knew it was special, but after we had our first group date, in my mind and in my heart, everything was already written,” Dale said in an interview with, Good morning America.

    With just four episodes in, Clare had already made up her mind on who she was going to pick and for her entertaining other possible suitors was a complete waste of time. This led to her receiving backlash on social media for being unfair to others and the viewers.

     

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    Never a point I won’t show up for you @clarecrawley ? ?.

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    Dale proposed to Clare with a 4.5 carats Neil Lane ring. After the big reveal, they have been spotted together and they have been sharing content on their social media accounts being together.

     

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    This is everything ? . Finally the VIP Tour of Sacramento! #Hometown

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    Where we headed next @clarecrawley ?

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    Clare is no stranger to the show. She first turned up on ‘The Bachelor’ in 2014, when she competed for the affection of bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis and turned into a Bachelor Nation legend. This time, however, it worked out for the best.

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    Planning a wedding is expensive, not to mention the honeymoon and the new life you’ll build together afterward. It’s easily understandable why many couples would prefer a cash gift instead of a physical gift on their wedding day.

    It can sometimes feel a bit classless to ask for money, but it doesn’t need to be. However, it’s important to do it the right way to avoid offending some older family members or putting pressure on anyone to contribute more than they were originally willing to spend on a gift.

    Here are some tips to get that big tip at the end of your big day:

    Don’t ask for money on your wedding invitation

    The wedding invitation is to introduce your upcoming union and is all about the good vibes. Adding a clause that you’re expecting cash from your guests can be construed a bit tasteless. Instead, set up a wedding website where you can include a link to a cash registry or banking details of an account set up specifically for the cash gifts.

    Let your guests know how you plan to spend the money

    While you don’t owe anyone an explanation, giving your guests a general idea of how you plan to spend the money might make them more willing to contribute. For example, if it’s a honeymoon fund for a dream vacation or house renovations fund, your guests will know that their money is going toward something important.

    It could also be a good idea to set up a specific target amount, with a live tracker displaying how close you are to your goal. Some might feel even more willing to contribute if they know you are closer to reaching your dream.

    Use a cash registry

    If you feel awkward asking for money outright, you can easily direct your guests to your cash registry on your wedding website. There are sites that run it all for you, so all you need to do is fill in the details and add the link, and voilà. Try out South African sites like Wrapistry or Gift Tree.

    Set up cash boxes at your reception

    Some people don’t trust online banking or are simply not technologically-savvy. Give your older guests an in-person option by setting up a cash donation box at your reception. You’ll need your wedding planner or a minder to keep an eye over the box throughout the evening to make sure the money stays safe.

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    Summer is officially here in the Mother City, bringing with it happier days and tons of sunshine. The season offers so many fun themes to explore for a wedding day.

    When you think of summer, what comes to mind? For us, it’s the sea, delicious cocktails, and lush green gardens. The pictures that spring to mind can easily be expanded on to create fun summer-inspired escort cards.

    From seashells and coconuts to oyster shucking knives and potted plants, there are so many easily accessible items you can use to add a bright and seasonal twist to your day.

    Here are some unique options to be inspired by:

     

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    Wedding favours are a sweet way to show your guests your appreciation for sharing in your special day. While not essential, it is a nice touch to give your guests an exciting send-off.

    Anyone who has planned a wedding before knows how expensive it can be. Things add up quickly and unexpected costs can crop up at any minute, so it’s best to be financially savvy where you can be.

    If you’re working with a tight budget, fear not. There are tons of affordable wedding favour options to incorporate into your big day. Some of them are easily DIYable, which means you save on labour too.

    From seedlings to tea, hangover kits made of mini bottles of water and painkillers, to DIY tic tac toe, you can make a wedding favour out of pretty much any common household item.

    Here are some ideas that won’t break the bank:

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    South Africa is lucky to have thousands of artisans and brands creating unique products for our everyday lives. From fashion and jewellery to makeup, you can find anything you need from a South African creator.

    While the big brands are familiar, why not support a local business instead? Here are a few of our favourite local beauty brands offering incredible products to enhance your bridal look.

    Swiitch Beauty

     

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    Rabia Ghoor is the mastermind behind Swiitch Beauty, a South African beauty brand born out of the internet. From blush palettes to brow gel, their products are designed to enhance natural beauty. They’re also incredibly affordable and aesthetically pleasing to boot.

    Chick Cosmetics

     

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    what shade is calling your name? ? take a trip with us?✨?

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    Chick Cosmetics, founded by Nomfundo Njibe, is all about cruelty-free ingredients, ethical marketing and sustainable practices. From makeup to skincare and beauty brushes, this is your one-stop shop to complete your bridal look.

    Sorbet

     

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    Sorbet is famed for its beauty salons, and they now offer makeup products. The nationwide beauty therapy hub with over 200 stores countrywide produces makeup and skincare, as well as body products to treat yourself like the queen you are.

    Constance Beauty

     

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    Formally known as Connie Transform, this beauty brand was created by Connie Bhebhe after being as tired of being unable to find lipstick shades to compliment her skin tone.  Her products specifically cater to women of colour, and are also vegan and cruelty free.

    Lulu and Marula

     

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    Lulu and Marula is a natural, ethically produced cruelty-free skin and body care collection developed in Cape Town by Jesslynn Shepherd. It focuses on clean, simple and sustainable ingredients that are free from artificial colours, fragrances, parabens, petrochemicals, synthetics or other harmful ingredients.

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