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    Thinking of making your own wedding cake? With our help, it won’t be as daunting as it seems. We also know that you have flavours you go back to time and time again, but it’s your wedding day, the day to make a splash and to treat your guests, and yourself, to something extra special.

    1. FRENCH VANILLA AND LAVENDER CAKE WITH CARAMELISED WHITE CHOCOLATE GANACHE AND SALTED CARAMEL

    INGREDIENTS
    For the French vanilla and lavender sponge
    2 cups sugar
    4 eggs
    2½ cups flour
    1 cup milk
    ¾ cup vegetable oil
    2¼ tsp baking powder
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    1 tsp lavender essence (ask for it at your local baking store)
    1½ cups white sugar
    1 cup water
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    For the caramelised white chocolate
    200g white chocolate
    200 ml cream
    ½ tsp salt
    For the salted caramel
    ¼ cup water
    200g white sugar
    160 ml cream
    45g butter
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    1 tsp salt

    METHOD
    For the French vanilla and lavender sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and line two 23 cm round cake tins.
    2. Whisk sugar and eggs together until pale. Add flour, milk, oil, baking powder, vanilla and lavender. Beat for 1 minute, until smooth and creamy. Don’t overbeat.
    3. Pour into the prepared tins. Bake for 30-40 minutes, until golden and a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean.
    4. Place sugar, water and vanilla in a saucepan over medium heat. Allow the sugar to dissolve.
    5. Poke holes in the sponge and pour the syrup over the still-hot cake. Cool completely.
    For the caramelised white chocolate
    1. Preheat oven to 130°C.
    2. Place the white chocolate on a baking tray and bake for 45 minutes. Take it out every 10 minutes to mix.
    3. Once the chocolate has reached a deep golden colour, remove and place in a pot with the cream and salt. Bring to a simmer, then remove from heat.
    For the salted caramel
    1. In a medium pot over medium heat, heat the water and sugar. Stir constantly until the sugar has dissolved and starts to bubble.
    2. Increase the heat to high and bring to a boil, stop stirring completely. Let the mixture continue boiling until it turns an amber colour (this can take between 6–10 minutes).
    3. Remove from the heat and slowly whisk in the cream, working very carefully. Finally, mix in the butter, vanilla essence and salt.

    2. PINK CHAMPAGNE CAKE WITH VANILLA PASTRY CREAM AND CHAMPAGNE BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the pink Champagne sponge
    345g flour
    3 tsp baking powder
    1 tsp salt
    150g butter, softened
    325g caster sugar
    3-5 drops soft pink gel food colouring
    250 ml Champagne
    6 egg whites
    ½ tsp vanilla essence
    For the vanilla pastry cream
    1½ cups cream
    ½ cup sugar
    ¼ cup flour
    ¼ tsp salt
    4 large egg yolks
    1 tsp vanilla extract
    For the Champagne buttercream
    115g butter, softened
    380g icing sugar, sifted
    155 ml sparkling white wine

    METHOD
    For the pink Champagne sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Line three 23 cm round cake tins.
    2. Sift together the flour, baking powder and salt.
    3. In a separate bowl, cream the butter and sugar until very light and pale. Mix in the food colouring.
    4. Alternating between flour mixture and Champagne, combine and blend into the creamed butter mixture, until just mixed.
    5. In a large clean bowl, beat the egg whites until stiff peaks form. Gently fold into the mixture in three additions.’
    6. Divide evenly into your prepared pans. Bake for 30–35 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Allow to cool in the tins.
    For the vanilla pastry cream
    1. Warm the cream in a pot until boiling point, then remove from heat.
    2. In a medium bowl, whisk together sugar, flour and salt. Whisk in the egg yolks to form a thick paste.
    3. Pour a little of the hot cream into the egg mixture and whisk to combine. Continue slowly adding the cream, whisking continuously. Then pour everything back into the pot.
    4. Cook over medium heat, whisking continually. When thickened, add the vanilla.
    5. Pass through a sieve to ensure a smooth consistency.
    For the Champagne buttercream
    1. Beat butter in an electric mixer until light and fluffy. Gradually add in the sifted icing sugar.
    2. When the mixture starts to get too thick to mix smoothly, start adding the sparkling wine in three batches, before mixing in more icing sugar.
    3. Continue to beat in icing sugar, and sparkling white wine, until all of the icing sugar is incorporated and desired consistency is reached.

    3. PINOT NOIR CAKE WITH DARK CHOCOLATE ITALIAN PASTRY CREAM AND CHOCOLATE ESPRESSO BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the Pinot Noir sponge
    400 ml Pinot Noir
    ½ cup sugar
    3-4 drops red food colouring (optional)
    400g white sugar
    ⅔ cup vegetable oil
    4 large eggs
    1 tsp vanilla extract
    400g cake flour
    ½ tsp salt
    1½ tsp baking powder
    1 tsp bicarbonate of soda
    120 ml buttermilk
    110g sour cream
    For the dark chocolate Italian pastry cream
    100g dark chocolate
    ¾ cup full-cream milk
    ¾ cup cream
    4 egg yolks
    ½ cup sugar
    ¼ cup flour
    For the chocolate espresso buttercream
    1 cup butter, softened
    4 cups icing sugar
    ¾ cup cocoa powder
    2-3 tsp vanilla essence
    3-4 tbsp espresso
    ½ cup ground coffee, optional

    METHOD
    For the Pinot Noir sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and flour three 23 cm cake tins.
    2. Start the syrup by placing the Pinot Noir and the ½ cup sugar in a pot. Simmer until the sugar is dissolved. Set aside to cool. Mix in the food colouring.
    3. Beat the sugar, oil, eggs and vanilla for one minute until combined. Sift in the flour, salt, baking powder and bicarb. Whisk until just combined.
    4. Whisk together the buttermilk, sour cream and Pinot Noir syrup until combined. Gradually add the sugar and flour mixture.
    5. Divide between the prepared tins and bake for 25-30 minutes, until a toothpick comes out clean. Cool in the tins for 10 minutes and then turn out on to wire racks to cool.
    For the dark chocolate Italian pastry cream
    1. Melt chocolate either in the microwave or in a glass bowl over a pot of boiling water. Set aside to cool to warm.
    2. In a pot, heat the milk and cream (do not boil). Remove from the heat and set aside.
    3. In a bowl, whisk the egg yolks, sugar and flour. Pour a little of the hot cream into the egg mixture and whisk to combine. Then slowly add the rest, whisking continuously. Pour everything back into the pot over medium heat and whisk until thickened.
    4. Fold in the melted chocolate.
    For the chocolate espresso buttercream
    1. Combine all the ingredients in a bowl and beat for 5-7 minutes, until light and fluffy.
    2. Add more icing sugar if you want a heavier icing, or a dash of milk to thin it out.

    4. HUMMINGBIRD CAKE WITH POPPYSEED CREAM CHEESE AND SALTED HONEY BUTTERCREAM

    INGREDIENTS
    For the hummingbird sponge
    1 cup pecans or walnuts, chopped
    370g cake flour
    1 tsp  bicarbonate of soda
    1 tsp baking powder
    1½ tsp ground cinnamon
    ½ tsp allspice
    ½ tsp salt
    2 cups mashed banana (4 ripe bananas)
    230g crushed pineapple
    3 large eggs, at room temperature
    160 ml vegetable oil
    350g brown sugar
    2 tsp vanilla essence
    For the poppyseed cream cheese
    230g cream cheese
    Zest of 1 lemon
    1 tsp poppy seeds
    ¼ cup icing sugar
    For the salted honey buttercream
    1 cup butter, softened
    5 cups icing sugar
    1 tsp vanilla essence
    75 ml cream
    4 tbsp honey, optional
    ½ tsp sea salt flakes

    METHOD
    For the hummingbird sponge
    1. Preheat the oven to 150°C.
    2. Spread the nuts on a lined baking tray. Toast for 8 minutes. Remove from the oven.
    3. Turn oven up to 180°C. Grease and lightly flour three 23 cm cake tins.
    4. In a large bowl, whisk the flour, bicarb, baking powder, cinnamon, allspice and salt.
    5. Place the remaining ingredients in a blender and blend until just combined.
    6. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry and whisk until completely combined. Fold in the toasted nuts.
    7. Divide the batter evenly between the cake tins. Bake for 25-30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the centre comes out clean.
    8. Remove cakes from the oven and allow to cool completely in the tins set on a wire rack.
    For the poppyseed cream cheese
    1. Whisk all the ingredients together until well combined.
    For the salted honey buttercream
    1. In a bowl, combine all the ingredients. Beat for 5-7 minutes, until light and fluffy.

    5. CHOCOLATE MUD CAKE WITH GRAPEFRUIT CURD AND ITALIAN MERINGUE

    INGREDIENTS
    For the chocolate mud sponge
    1 cup unsalted butter
    200g dark chocolate (we used 70%)
    2 cups white sugar
    ½ cup cocoa powder
    300 ml strong hot coffee
    1 tbsp vanilla essence
    3 large eggs
    285g flour
    1 tsp baking powder
    ½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
    ½ tsp salt
    For the grapefruit curd
    ¼ cup cornflour
    2 cups grapefruit juice
    6 egg yolks
    Zest of 1 grapefruit
    1¼ cups white sugar
    ¼ tsp salt
    200g chilled butter
    For the Italian meringue
    2 egg whites
    1 cup sugar
    ½ cup water
    1 tbsp icing sugar

    METHOD
    For the chocolate mud sponge
    1. Preheat oven to 180°C. Grease and line three round 23 cm cake tins.
    2. Melt the butter and chocolate together in a microwave-proof bowl. Whisk every 30 seconds until completely melted.
    3. Whisk in the sugar followed by the cocoa powder, until fully incorporated.
    4. Slowly add hot coffee and vanilla whisking until smooth.
    5. Whisk in the eggs one at a time.
    6. Combine the flour, baking powder, bicarb and salt in a large mixer bowl. Gradually pour in the chocolate mixture. Beat on medium speed for 1 minute.
    7. Pour into cake tins and bake for 35-40 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Allow to cool in the tins for 10 minutes, then turn out on to a cooling rack to cool completely.
    For the grapefruit curd
    1. Make a slurry with the cornflour and ½ cup of the grapefruit juice. Set aside.
    2. Mix the egg yolks, zest, sugar, salt and the rest of the grapefruit juice in a pot. Place on medium heat and bring to the boil.
    3. Slowly add the cornflour mixture and allow to thicken for 2–3 minutes, whisking continuously.
    4. Remove from heat and whisk in the butter.
    For the Italian meringue
    1. Place the egg whites in a clean, dry glass bowl. Beat on medium speed until stiff peaks form.Whisk in ¼ cup of the sugar to stabilise.
    2. In a pot, combine water and ¾ cup sugar and place over medium heat. The syrup is ready when thin threads of syrup form when lifting a dipped-in spoon and the last few drops stay on the spoon.
    3. Immediately start adding it to the egg whites in a thin stream, while beating on high.
    4. Beat for a further 5 minutes on low to cool down, then add the icing sugar.

    Want to jet off to a tropical island for your ceremony? Or do you have your heart set on the big-city lights? No matter the location, your destination wedding can go as smoothly as checking off this list.

    RESEARCH FIRST

    The legal side of getting married abroad can be quite lengthy and tedious, with many couples opting to get married legally in South Africa before heading overseas to exchange rings and vows. South Africans who want to get married abroad will need a Certificate of No Impediment from Home Affairs to prove that neither partner is registered as married, a divorce order if one of you was previously married and a Residency Certificate to prove where you currently live. Basically, the government of the country you’re visiting needs to be notified of the marriage in their country before you can get married there. Not all countries will have the same requirements, so it’s best to get in touch with your local Home Affairs branch and contact the foreign country’s South African embassy ahead of the time.

    TIMING IS EVERYTHING

    Unfortunately, most popular wedding destinations are also popular vacation spots, which means more tourists and higher prices. Read up on the best time to visit your venue without sacrificing on great weather. It will also make the experience less stressful if you’ve already spent time planning and meeting with your vendors. Hire a local coordinator instead of bringing one from home. You will feel much more at ease knowing they are familiar with the environment, and they’ll also be able to recommend suitable suppliers.

    A PICTURE (AND REVIEW) IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS

    If the destination you plan to get married at is a resort or offers accommodation, scour the internet for TripAdvisor reviews. This will give you an overall impression of the establishment and you’ll have the added bonus of being able to see photos that aren’t on their official site.

    ACCESS ALL AREAS

    Try and keep the venue central. Make sure it’s convenient for your guests and organise transport for them to the venue to ensure they get there safe and sound. You can also use a free website builder to help keep your guests in the loop every step of the way – without the hassle of back-and-forth texts, emails and calls. Create a page where people can find helpful answers for accommodation options, budgets and travel time. If you have a relatively small wedding party, you can also create a WhatsApp group in the days leading up to the wedding.

    ULTIMATE ADVENTURE

    Add a couple of planned events around the wedding day so your guests can mingle with each other more and explore the destination. This is a great way to show people places they might not have chosen to go and will help them make a holiday from the trip – they are there to celebrate your union but also want to make their trip worthwhile.

    DISASTER MANAGEMENT

    Ensure your dress, groom’s suit and bridesmaids outfits have been taken care of before you leave home. The last thing you want to do is last-minute sewing! Stay on the safe side and pack your dress and his suit in your carry-on luggage, and ask your bridesmaids and groomsmen to do the same. If your luggage does get lost or arrives late, you can rest assured you have the important bits with you.

    PRETTY PREP

    Make appointments for any beauty treatments you plan on getting before you get there. To ensure you look amazing for your photographs, skip the make-up while flying and make sure you drink a lot of water during the flight. It’s also a good idea to have all your wedding stationery– menus, seating charts and place settings –printed beforehand. Be prepared to add an extra suitcase of decor items you think you may need, as you won’t always find everything you want in a foreign place.

    ALL HANDS ON DECK

    Since you are more than likely only going to invite a small crowd of close family and friends to your destination wedding, you’ll know these are the people who you can rely on. They willwant to help where they can, so instead of taking things into your own hands, delegate certain tasks to those who are keen to lend a hand.

    Here in SA, we’re spoilt with beautiful landscapes that make for breathtaking bridal photos. But, with unpredictable weather in many places, it takes solid planning to pull off the perfect outdoor wedding. Use these tips to make sure yours is an affair to remember.

    1. SOUND THE BELLS!

    Whether you decide on a dreamy beach wedding or to say your vows at the edge of a dramatic cliff, get the audio right. The last thing you want is your voice getting lost in the sound of crashing waves or a gentle breeze, leaving your audience (or even your beau!) trying to make out what you’re saying. If you’re using a videographer, bear in mind the quality of the audio during playback. Get a microphone system hooked up to the closest power source, and if you’re using wireless microphones, make sure the batteries are fully charged. The same goes for the music, entertainment and speeches at the reception.

    2. A MONKEY’S WEDDING

    As the saying goes, if the sun is shining and it’s raining, a monkey’s about to get married. So take notes and don’t greenlight your Plan B if it pours on the morning of your big day but your outdoor ceremony or reception is only later in the afternoon. While we agree it’s only practical to let your guests know the venue has changed, the rain may stop in time. Instead, use a canopy or arrange umbrellas if you’re expecting a light drizzle. For longer ceremonies or the chance of heavier rainfall, ensure you have spoken to your venue about a contingency plan. Remember: rain is said to bring good luck to a couple on their wedding day, and can make for some memorable candid photos too.

    3. LIGHT IT UP

    You’ve browsed Pinterest, ogled at different photographers’ sites, and may even be sold on the idea of an outdoor wedding solely because of the beautiful lighting opportunities it lends. Whether you are after a magical enchanted forest look with thousands of fairy lights hanging from trees or a beachy do with strings of Consol jars hung from beams and paper lanterns lodged in the sand, keep it all well lit and as hazard-free as possible. If your ceremony is around twilight, max out on the amazing golden light two hours before sunset. The flattering natural light + your own beautiful additions = mesmerising photo perfection.

    4. EVERYONE’S INVITED!

    Everyone should feel welcome, including your pregnant cousin or frail uncle, so try to make your wedding as accessible as possible. The key here is structure and practicality, and you don’t have to forfeit aesthetics in favour of this. You may be working with an open space, but use lighting and decor to contain it and make sure everyone has a great time. Think about wheelchair access (smooth walkways), steady ground (mats and rugs on the beach, for example) and close proximity to amenities.

    5. SITTING PRETTY

    Make sure there’s enough comfortable seating and mingling space for everyone. This is especially important for a more casual affair. Think couches, benches and swing chairs in neutral colours that you can customise with the textures and colours of the wedding.

    With a nod to this fashion capital, this project is quick and easy for the busy bride. Give a romantic air to a city wedding with these London skyline candle cut-outs.

    WHAT YOU’LL NEED

    Printout of London skyline
    Scissors
    Cutting board
    NT cutter
    Craft glue
    Tea lights

    METHOD

    1. Cut out your picture around the top of the buildings to create the shape of the skyline.

    2. Place your picture on the cutting board and use the NT cutter to cut out any windows, doors or other details.

    3. Glue one end of your skyline to the other to complete the candle shade. Place it around a tea light candle.

    Want to keep your honeymoon local without sacrificing on luxury? Drostdy Hotel in the Eastern Cape town of Graaff-Reinet could be where your memories are made. This boutique hotel features an Africology spa, state-of-the-art gym and choice of three swimming pools surrounded by gardens. If you can drag yourself away from the pampering, there are plenty of historic sites to visit in SA’s fourth oldest town and mesmerising natural beauty in nearby Camdeboo National Park.

    Beyond all the tulle, confetti and clinking of Champagne glasses, there are some less glamorous considerations such as your marriage contract. Let our crash course help simplify all the technical jargon so you can concentrate on more fun things, like choosing the best cake!

    THE TIES THAT BIND

    A marriage contract is the legally binding part of saying ‘I do’. Do your own research (chat to friends or family and search online), then sit down with a lawyer to discuss your options for written agreements that suit you and your fiancé. You may feel loved up enough to speak to the same lawyer, but it’s best to take care of this part of your research as independently as possible. You are signing up for a major change in your everyday life, something that will affect you long after the wedding bells have chimed. So know your options, and have an open and honest discussion with your partner about your own needs for the agreement you’ll both sign.

    LEARN THE LINGO

    In community of property, both spouses have joint responsibility and entitlement to the assets and liabilities gained while married as well as those that existed before the marriage.

    Out of community of property, your assets and liabilities before getting married remain your own and do not become the possession or responsibility of your spouse once you marry.

    With accrual Assets gained by one spouse are shared between the couple and divided if the marriage ends (i.e. what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours).

    Without accrual Assets gained by one spouse during the marriage belong to that person alone and are not shared or divided if the marriage ends (i.e. what’s yours is yours and what’s mine is mine).

    Antenuptial contract (ANC) This contract details the agreement you have made as a couple about the division of your assets should your marriage end in divorce or death. If you decide not to go this route, you’ll be married in community ofproperty without accrual by default. In other words, an ANC offers protection of your assets before you enter into the marriage andprevents any of your spouse’s liabilities (debts) from becoming your responsibility should something happen to them.

    WHEN TO SIGN

    Your marriage contract can be signed before or during your marriage. However, it’s more costly and complicated to sign one once you are already hitched. So set aside time to sit down with your fiancé for an open conversation about this and get on the same page about the legalities of your union. Seek the expertise of an attorney who specialises in family law to get the ball rolling.

    Incorporating Mzansi flavour into your wedding is a lovely way to pay homage to your country or family. Whatever your heritage, here are some of the best ways to stay proudly South African on your big day.

    1. A SENSE OF CEREMONY

    Are there poems, quotes or vows that are particular to your heritage or culture? Incorporate them into your ceremony and make sure to emphasise them in your programme. You could even elaborate on the origin and history of the words you include or ask whoever is marrying you to add these anecdotes as well.

    2. YOUR ATTIRE

    Is there a specific colour or print that has meaning in your family? Try and include it in a subtle way, for example, maybe a hairpin, brooch, pocket square or even a pair of shoes in a colour or pattern that represents your particular heritage.

    3. THE FOOD

    How about serving welcome drinks infused with flavours of well-known South African herbs and plants? Think buchu gin, geranium cordial, rooibos iced tea … the options are endless. And when it comes to food, traditional doesn’t have to mean boring. There are many ways you can transform much-loved homestyle dishes – from bredie to braai – into appetising, intricate canapés and sophisticated mains.

    4. FLOWERS & DECOR

    South Africa is blessed with an abundance of unique, exquisite flora. Instead of trying to get hold of exotic plants and flowers, try using indigenous, seasonal ones that are found in your hometown. Proteas, strelitzias and succulents can look striking paired with simple greenery, and will be a much more cost-effective option too! Consider texture as well: wooden, woven or African-print table runners and underplates work well when combined with minimalist elements.

    5. THE MUSIC

    A wedding playlist is very personal and should include songs from some of your favourite moments together. Add a little twist by including a traditional song somewhere in the playlist – whether it be during your first dance or when people are grooving on the dance floor later.

    From the table settings to the dance floor, let your wedding signage be as playful, stylish or whimsical as you are!

    1. IN LOVE WITH THE DANCE FLOOR

    Faced with a plain ol’ dance floor that needs some prettying up? Why not enlist the help of an arty friend to paint a monogram in your wedding colours? It’ll be easy enough to paint over later.

    2. MAKE AN ENTRANCE

    A sheet of acrylic displaying the couple’s names transforms a simple plinth and floral arrangement into a grand welcome gesture.

    3. TROPICAL FEVER

    Embrace the tropical trend with delicious monster leaves for placemats and banana leaves as place settings (write on them with Posca paint markers).

    4. MR & MRS

    A vintage-style metal ampersand light sign makes a cute photo prop.

    5. TOP THIS

    Don’t be tied down by traditional cake toppers! 

    6. PERFECTLY FRAMED

    A simple frame allows your message to blend in with the rest of your wedding decor.

    Photography: pinterest.com/weddingalbummag

    We all know that minimal make-up has been one of the biggest beauty trends this year, and it’s sure to carry over into 2018. We’re showing you how to pull off the perfect bare (almost) face on your wedding day.

    IT ALL STARTS WITH SKIN

    Undeniably, the biggest component for pulling off a minimalistic appearance is healthy skin. Start with a solid skincare routine well in advance by consulting an expert – this will include serums and treatments galore. However, all your efforts will be useless if you don’t feed your skin from the inside too. Eat clean, cut out sugars and gulp down water to keep your skin hydrated. Not only will you feel light and energized, but your skin will reflect that by showing off your natural glow. And don’t forget to wear sunscreen or, better yet, stay out of the sun to avoid nasty sunburns and long-term damage.

    KNOW WHAT WORKS FOR YOU

    When it comes to choosing your colours, know what works for your skin tone and type. You don’t want to look like a completely different person on your wedding day. Instead, enhance your features and keep it simple. Think highlighted cheekbones, bronzed temples, rosy cheeks and groomed brows. Add a lipstick close to your natural lip colour and avoid piling on the foundation – only conceal where necessary.

    APPLICATION IS KEY

    Apply your make-up with tools that will enhance dewiness and achieve a flawless application. Always start with a clean canvas and make sure to moisturise before anything else. Applying make-up with brushes and sponges that can allow you to build and blend will ensure your look to be effortless. That said, make sure your brushes and tools are clean and free from previous make-up applications.

    MATCH YOUR ELEMENTS

    Match your make-up to your dress colour, your veil (if you’re wearing one) and the overall feel of your wedding. For example, do a bare face with a burgundy lip if you’re having maroon peonies as your flowers. Or do a nude lip and highlighted or bronzed features with an ivory dress. We also love a super low-key look with statement earrings for a subtle yet striking take.

    Photography: pinterest.com