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    If you’re someone who’s creative and loves to put their thoughts together in a collage, creating a DIY wedding journal for your big day is the way to go for organising, planning and brainstorming. Depending on your personal style, you can create your wedding journal in a number of ways:

    1. MESSY COLLAGE

    If you love doodling, pasting down pictures, using real-life references, like petals and fabrics, using a blank journal is the perfect start for you to create your wedding planner. You can create your own headings, lists, style references, and more to suit your creativity and make a wedding journal that is worth saving as a fond memory.

    2. PLANNING DIARY

    For someone who prefers neater, more organised and structured methods of planning, creating a wedding journal with matching fonts, colours and headings is definitely the best option. Nowadays, you can purchase digital wedding journals to download and put together yourself – still giving you the freedom to choose your base and play around with styles you prefer.

    3. BUDGET-SAVVY

    If all you’ve got are some pens and a notebook, but loads of creative talent, you can design a beautiful and personal wedding journal filled with doodles, lists, contact details, ideas and everything you want to put down to plan your big day.

    Images: Pinterest

    With a strong emphasis on living a sustainable life, there is more and more pressure to go green in all aspects of our lives – and that includes your wedding day. But going green for your big day is a lot easier than you think, and will give you plenty of options to play around with to create a unique event. From everything including your food down to your dress, check out our top 10 ways you can make your wedding more green.

    1. LOCATION

    Your wedding venue plays a big part in how your day will look, feel and be represented, but it’s also one of the key ways to making your wedding greener. Aim to choose a location that is already promoting sustainability with their food, electricity, water usage, etc. This will make it easier for you when sorting out your decor and catering. To save on fuel, try to find a venue that is more central so that most of your guests can carpool and travel shorter distances.

    2. STATIONERY

    When it comes to creating greener stationery, there’s plenty to play around with. Apart from it being a major trend in the digital era, creating a wedding website where your guests can find all the details and RSVP saves you on paper (and printing costs). As for the menus, seating charts and stationery present at the wedding, you can get creative with materials like recycled cotton for that high-end look. You can also get away with only one menu per table, instead of giving one to each individual guest.

    3. DIY

    While DIY doesn’t necessarily equal planet-friendly, creating things yourself will help you keep track of the materials and methods you’re using so that you can avoid anything harmful. Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends and family for second-hand or recycled goods that can be used to for your wedding decor. For example, placing candles or organic flowers inside old mason jars can create a rustic look on the tables for your wedding reception.

    4. FLOWERS

    Source the flowers for your wedding from a local organic florist, or even plant them and pick them yourself from your garden. Try to use florals that don’t require a lot of water – succulents are beautiful and modern – and create a beautifully unique arrangement. They can even serve as your wedding favours too, so your guests can take them home and plant them in their own gardens.

    5. FAVOURS

    There is a wide variety of thoughtful and fun wedding favours when it comes to sticking to green options. Spoil your guests with some herbal tea leaves and a personalised ‘Thank You’ note, or offer them organic seeds that they can grow at home to symbolise your new journey of growth with your loved one. Plants, birdseed or homemade organic beauty products are also lovely options.

    6. THE DRESS

    Every bride wants that special and unique dress that feels perfectly made for her, but this can be an expensive and taxing reality. It’s much greener and cheaper to hire a dress or have a vintage one altered to suit you. However, if you do plan on buying a dress or having one made, aim to use more planet-friendly materials and create a piece that you will be able to wear again or pass down.

    7. FOOD

    If your venue is sustainable and offers catering, it’s a perfect deal! If not, look for a caterer that makes use of organic produce. Maybe even opt for going completely meat-free for your wedding menu and serve colourful fresh foods for your guests to enjoy that have a lower impact on the environment.

    8. CONFETTI

    Instead of plastic or paper confetti, opt for flower petals (which are much softer), birdseed, grains or plant seeds. These make light and pretty confetti pieces that can be carried in hand-woven baskets or bowls to save on plastic or paper cups. They are also affordable, easy to find and utterly unique.

    9. DECOR

    Try to avoid any paper or plastic use. Rather use proper cotton napkins, bare tables and chairs, and lots of greenery. Write your table numbers on rocks, pebbles or shells, and ask friends and family for spare decorations and table settings that you can borrow just for the day. Mismatched decor may just be the next trend!

    10. RINGS

    A family heirloom or vintage ring is the perfect way to lower your environmental impact on the planet, while still spoiling your other half with something precious. Alternatively, you can source your ring from companies that work with recycled metals and gemstones and have fair trade labour practices to create a sustainable option for you and your partner.

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    Combining her love of luxury with his passion for South African cuisine, Jana van der Spuy and MC Leonard’s wedding featured the best of both worlds.

    THE VENUE

    Our venue, Cabrières, was a dream come true! Not only was it the views that sealed the deal, but it was the lovely Jane Jordaan who kept us there. The venue was chic enough for me and down-to-earth enough for my husband.

    THE THEME

    We didn’t really have a theme, however, we tried to incorporate both our passions – style and luxury, with comfort and a braai! We wanted our wedding to really represent us as a couple, and I think we completely nailed it.

    THE DRESSES

    Both of my incredible dresses were made by Cindy Bam, who happens to be one of my best friends,  so I may be slightly biased! I can’t imagine anyone else making my dream wedding dress come to life the way she did. As my traditional wedding dress was quite dramatic, we opted for a very simple silk-chiffon tattoo-lace dress for the reception party.

    THE DECOR

    Our wedding decor was mostly inspired by the less-is-more look, with lots of candles in gold candlesticks and home-made pink flower candle holders. Each table setting had a personalised handwritten letter with an accompanying menu and napkin. At the venue entrance, guests were greeted to 1.5m candelabras and a huge flower bouquet.

    THE FOOD

    We both have a slight obsession with braaiing, so our canapés, which were plankiesteak, mini roosterkoek and chicken kebabs, were made in this way and served alongside salad. Our main meal consisted of lamb roulade filled with spinach, feta and mushrooms, and roast veggies, a green salad and pumpkin fritters.

    THE DETAILS

    My dad passed away just before my 16th birthday and, for obvious reasons, walking down the aisle was quite a heart-wrenching idea for me. However, my mom walked me down the aisle with my dad there in spirit – my sister-in-law, Laurika, gave me a locket with a picture of my dad to tie around my bouquet. Other than my wedding band, it’s one of my most treasured gifts, and when I have a tough day, I wear it around my neck for support.

    THE FIRST DANCE

    We opened the dance floor with ‘I Love You Will Still Sound The Same’ by Oh Honey. It was a challenge for us to decide on a song that we both loved and that could stand the test of time. We bought confetti cannons and asked two of our friends to pop them for us during the dance.

    LITTLE BLACK BOOK

    Dresses: Cindy Bam
    Hair: Carma Hair Studio
    Rings: Black Key Diamonds
    Flowers: Christa Chambers and Jane Jordaan at Detail Me Pretty
    Decor & stationery: IC Graphix
    Lighting: Best Event
    Venue & catering: Cabrières
    Audio-visual & DJ: Prime Audio
    Photography: Duane Smith Photography
    Videography: MW Productions
    Hiring: Functions4U and Detail Me Pretty

    Weddings are all about celebration and coming together. But most of all, weddings are about love. Finding all of these elements in one song that you and your partner both enjoy is no easy feat, which is why we tend to fall back on old wedding classics (or every single Ed Sheeran song). While there is absolutely nothing wrong with this, it’s important to remember the tune you pick will hold memories that last a lifetime, and to hear your wedding song blasted on the radio for months on end can be a bit – well – annoying.

    If you really want to opt for a wedding classic for your song, consider using a cover or having someone perform the track on the day for a more personal experience. But for those who prefer something out of the ordinary, see our top 10 picks of wedding songs for the alternative couple.

    1. Issues – Julia Michaels

    2. Magic – Coldplay

    3. Home – Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeros

    4. I Will Follow You Into The Dark – Death Cab For Cutie

    5. Mango Tree by Angus & Julia Stone

    6. I Would Do Anything For You – Foster The People

    7. How Long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding

    8. Video Games – Lana Del Rey

    9. Make You Feel My Love – Adele

    10. Better Together – Jack Johnson

    Picture: Pixabay

    With more and more brides opting for a budget-friendly wedding, DIY wedding decor has been (and will always be) trending. Putting together an elegant wedding with stunning decor shouldn’t break the bank or put a hole in your pocket. In most cases the way you envisioned the decor for your big day makes you realise that some ideas and dreams can’t be bought, so why not do it yourself?

    1. WINE CORK SEATING CHART

    Ebriderides wants their dream wedding to be unique in its own way. Instead of paying someone to compile your seating chart using expensive materials, try collecting all your wine bottle corks and put them to good use.

    2. HAND-PAINTED BALLOONS

    Who said balloons are only meant for birthday parties? Balloons have taken the wedding world by storm. Brides are now opting to have wedding balloons as a part of their ceremonies and receptions. Instead of buying all the fancy balloons you see online, simply purchase the balloons of your choice, and make them unique with some hand-crafted paint and stencils for a minimalistic decor feel.

    3. LIGHT BULB FLORAL ARRANGEMENTS

    Floral arrangements tend to be quite pricey. Keep all your blown light bulbs, remove the inside elements and give them a good wash. Hang them up in your reception area and add some small blooms. This look really brings some out-of-this-world elegance to any area.

    4. WHEELBARROW DRINKS COOLER

    Serving drinks at your wedding reception doesn’t need to be a nightmare. If your reception area is outside, make use of a wheelbarrow for guests to grab a cold one. Simply clean it out, add some ice and fill it with some beers and coolers. It’s great to avoid the long queues at the bar and an easy grab-and-go for your guests to enjoy.

    Images: Pinterest

    For 2019, brides all around the globe are setting some new trends when it comes to decor by simply going back to the basics. Instead of lavish and expensive decor, they’re settling for a more chic, elegant and stunning look and feel for their big day.

    1. CANDLES

    Although candles may seem like a cliché decor element to add to your wedding day, they are definitely trending this year. Candles give off an amazing vibe and setting to any wedding venue. With many styles, scents and looks to choose from, they fit just about any theme and setting. But of all the types out there, taper candles are winning this year.

    Even though they may seem a bit old school, taper candles have the power to elevate your wedding setting without any effort, and their elegance speaks for itself. They’ll make your table setting feel expensive and luxurious without you actually having to break the bank.

    2. LUXURIOUS FABRICS

    Fabulous fabrics and linen are in! Couples have found a way to add a rich sense of both dimension and texture to their wedding decor. They’re throwing out the traditional fabrics and bringing in more luxurious options, such as velvet, cashmere and corduroy to name a few. Use faux versions for table runners, tablecloths, ribbons on invitations to instantly upgrade your look and feel.

    3. PASTELS MAKE WAY FOR BRIGHT COLOURS

    Out with the muted pastel shades and in with bright vibrant colours. Brides have boldly moved away from light colour schemes to more bold and beautiful shades. Top trending decor colours for 2019 are predicted to be yellow, blue and sea green.

    4. ALL ABOUT ACRYLIC

    This is one medium that will gain much-deserved popularity this year. Use it to make long-lasting, durable invitations, hire acrylic reception furniture perfect for an outdoor affair and make the most of it for all your signage and stationery.

    5. FLORAL CREATIONS ARE GOING GREEN

    In 2018 floral hoops and oversized wreaths trended in wedding decor concepts. This year unique and abstract floral decor is set to take over. Colourful floral arrangements are making way for greenery. Brides are opting for simple, chic and elegant arrangements. Brides are taking more care in selecting wedding venues where the beauty of the location speaks for itself and doesn’t have to be supplemented with too many flowers and extra decor elements. But for your bouquets and wedding arches, go for greenery!

    6. BALLOONS ARE BACK! 

    Confetti and sparklers as the bridal couple leave the ceremony is quickly becoming a thing of the past. Although many look forward to the old-school send-off by showering the couple with confetti, rice or rose petals, brides are finding new and unique ways to make that moment memorable. With plenty of colours to choose from, brides are now opting to use balloons, not only as cost-effective wedding decor, but also as the bridal couple walk down the aisle after the wedding ceremony.

    7. STATEMENT LIGHTING

    Every bride loves some amazing lighting. From a thousand fairy lights to bolder statements lights, which include neon lights and stunning chandeliers, brides are allocating more of their wedding budget to their lighting options.

    Images: Pinterest

    Go bold or go home! Menswear is no longer restricted to a boring black tux – we’re talking bright colour, mixing and matching prints, and show-stopper accessories.

    Julius (left) wears: Shirt, Edgars; jacket, Zara; trousers and bow tie, both Eurosuit
    Nicolas (right) wears: Shirt, Zara; blazer (part of set), trousers (part of set) and bow tie, all Eurosuit

    Hector (left) wears: Shirt, trousers (part of set) and bow tie, all Eurosuit; waistcoat, Edgars;
    sneakers, Pressroom
    Julius (centre) wears: Shirt and waistcoat, both Sello Medupe; blazer and pocket square, both Woolworths; trousers (part of set), Eurosuit; shoes, Old Khaki; rings stylist’s own
    Nicolas (right) wears: Shirt, Topman; blazer, TM Lewin; trousers, Sello Medupe; tie, Thomas & Benno; shoes, Aldo; pocket square stylist’s own

    Hector wears: Shirt and trousers (with belt), both Zara; waistcoat, Edgars; tie, Eurosuit; sandals, Woolworths

    Julius wears: Shirt and trousers, both Sello Medupe; blazer, Zara; sunglasses, Call It Spring; tiepins, Smith Jewellery; pocket square stylist’s own

    Nicolas wears: Shirt, Thomas & Benno; blazer, Topman; pocket square and feather both stylist’s own

    Hector wears: Shirt and bow tie, both Eurosuit; waistcoat, Woolworths; blazerEdgars; pocket square stylist’s own

    Nicolas (left) wears: Shirt (with collar pin), Topman; blazer (part of set), Eurosuit; trousers, David Tlale; shoes, Old Khaki
    Julius (right) wears: Shirt, J Crew at Zando; blazer, David Tlale; trousers (part of set), Eurosuit;
    pocket square 
    and sneakers both stylist’s own

    Julius wears: Shirt, Edgars; blazer, Fundudzi by Craig Jacobs; neckpiece, Smith Jewellery; pocket square stylist’s own

    Nicolas wears: Shirt, Edgars; blazer (with spider brooch) and trousers, both Sello Medupe; bow tie stylist’s own; pocket watch, Smith Jewellery; shoes, Madison at Zando

    Fashion: Kim Mitha-Coe
    Photography: Andreas Eiselen/HMimages.co.za
    Grooming: Yumna parker/Buff Make-up
    Models: Hector & Julius/Cover Model Management, Nicolas/20Management

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    We got together with some of the best local bakers around to show you six of our favourite wedding cake trends to help you make sure that your wedding cake… takes the cake!

    1. METALLICS

    Metallic studs – like the ones we see on shoes and clothing on the runway –  add dimension and texture to a cake.

    Mandy Byren from Cake Heaven SA

    2. OMBRE

    Ombre, especially metallic ombré, is still huge on the wedding scene. It’s beautiful in its simplicity and allows for interesting cake toppers.

    Linda Knop from Sugar Cakes

    3. SIMPLICITY

    This season sees wedding cakes relieved of too many decorations and intricacies. A move to simpler yet striking designs like monotone or two-tone cakes is the style of choice. Watercolours and pastels reinforce this idea of less is more.

    Wade van der Merwe from Cakes by Wade

    4. BRUSHSTROKES

    Think drama and flair with strokes painted in chocolate or fondant forming a beautiful portrait. Combine them with natural elements – another top choice – adding a flower or two for a softer, whimsical look.

    Kanya Hunt from The Hunt House Kitchen

    5. MARBLE

    Marble hasn’t left just yet! Apply it interestingly by having a pink, green or even blue marbled tier. Add some metallic ombré or gold dust and have fun with the design!

    Daniella Green from Charly’s Bakery

    6. NATURE

    Along the theme of greenery and the environment, bakers are having fun playing around with different elements such as bark, birds, feathers and leaves (real or edible). These will take your cake from pretty to memorable.

    Robyn Potter from Chocswirl

    Styling: Chiara Turilli & Amerae Vercueil
    Photography:
     Samantha Pinto

     

    Planning your big day is both an exciting and stressful time, with immense pressure to be at your best. Don’t forget to break away from all the organising every now and then for some me-time. These relaxing DIY face masks are the perfect way to take time out for yourself and keep your skin glowing and ready for the wedding.

    Create easy facemasks with simple ingredients in your kitchen for a quick escape that will leave your skin feeling fresh and renewed.

    THE METHOD

    1. Mix all the ingredients together.
    2. Use your hands or a clean make-up brush to apply the mask to your face.
    3. Leave for 15-20 minutes.
    4. Wash off and cleanse and moisturise.

    THE MASKS

    1. Aloe vera mask

    1 tsp aloe vera gel
    2 tbsp rosewater
    2 tbsp coconut oil

    2. Turmeric mask

    1 tsp turmeric
    1 tbsp honey
    2 tbsp coconut oil

    3. Home clay mask

    2 tbsp bentonite clay powder
    2 tbsp apple cider vinegar
    1 tsp vitamin E oil
    2 drops tea tree essential oil

    4. Cucumber mask

    ½ cucumber, blended

    5. Lavender facial scrub

    1-2 tbsp coconut oil
    1 tbsp Epsom salts
    2 drops lavender essential oil

    Image: Unsplash

    With all the details you have to think about while planning your big day, one thing many couples often overlook is the grand getaway. After you’ve wowed your guests with your big entrance, the delicious meal, and that epic dance party, you probably won’t want the night to end. So sweeten the deal and go out with a bang! Here are 6 unique ways to bid adieu to your guests and ride off as newlyweds in style.

    1. Own your exit with an old-fashioned car. Consider renting an old-fashioned car for your grand exit. Tie a few empty cans to the bumper and hang a home-made “just married” sign in the window, and you’re set for a classic sendoff…just like in the movies. The pictures you’ll get from this getaway will look great at the end of your wedding album, hung on the wall of your entryway, or on your thank you notes!

    2. Hop in a horse and buggy. If you love horses or are just into the classic, romantic charm of a horse-drawn carriage ride, this is the getaway for you. Just be sure to have the driver bring a heavy blanket to keep you and your new spouse warm as you leisurely make your way home.

    3. Take a trolley. For couples getting married in a city where trolleys are iconic fixtures (think: New Orleans or San Francisco), leaving in a trolley can be the perfect way to bring your wedding locale’s personality into your wedding. The best part? All of your nearest and dearest can join you when you depart if you’re not ready for the night to end just yet.