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    For years, destination weddings were seen as the ultimate modern fairytale: oceanfront vows, multi-day celebrations and Instagram-worthy scenery far away from home. But in 2026, couples are asking a much more practical question – are destination weddings still actually worth it?

    The answer is no longer as straightforward as it used to be. Between rising travel costs, guest fatigue and the growing shift towards intentional weddings, destination celebrations are evolving fast. Yet despite the challenges, they remain incredibly popular – just in a very different form than before.

    Destination weddings aren’t disappearing, they’re getting smaller

    One of the biggest misconceptions about destination weddings is that they’re fading out. In reality, they’re simply becoming more intimate.

    Across wedding trend reports, planners are seeing couples move away from huge overseas guest lists in favour of smaller, experience-focused celebrations with close family and friends only.

    The modern destination wedding is less about showing off and more about creating quality time. Instead of inviting 200 guests, many couples are hosting 30 to 70 people and investing more intentionally in the experience itself – boutique accommodation, curated dinners, welcome events and extended weekends together.

    Ironically, smaller guest lists are making destination weddings feel more luxurious and personal than ever.

    The cost conversation is changing

    The idea that destination weddings are always cheaper than traditional weddings is becoming increasingly outdated. While a smaller guest list can reduce overall costs, destination weddings come with their own financial pressures: travel logistics, accommodation coordination, vendor transport and multi-day hosting expectations.

    According to recent wedding budget breakdowns, destination weddings in 2026 can range anywhere from mid-tier affordability to ultra-luxury pricing depending on the location and guest count.

    At the same time, guests are becoming more vocal about the financial strain of attending weddings that require flights, leave days and expensive accommodation. Online discussions around “wedding guest fatigue” have exploded, with many people admitting they now decline destination weddings due to costs.

    That shift is forcing couples to think more carefully about accessibility, affordability and whether their dream location genuinely works for the people they want there most.

    Guest experience now matters more than aesthetics

    Perhaps the biggest shift in 2026 wedding culture is that couples are prioritising how a wedding feels – not just how it photographs.

    Wedding experts say guest experience has become one of the defining priorities for modern weddings.

    That means destination weddings only really work when logistics are handled thoughtfully. Couples are increasingly choosing destinations with easier travel access, group accommodation options and activities that feel worthwhile for guests making the trip.

    There’s also growing resistance to weddings that unintentionally burden guests financially. Viral social media debates and Reddit threads regularly criticise destination weddings that expect guests to overspend or navigate complicated travel arrangements with little support from the couple.

    In other words: the “worth it” factor often depends less on the destination itself and more on how considerate the planning is.

    Social media changed destination weddings, and couples are noticing

    For years, destination weddings exploded partly because of aspirational wedding content online. Beautiful villas in Italy, beach ceremonies in Bali and cliffside receptions in Greece became part of the modern wedding fantasy.

    But in 2026, there’s noticeable pushback against weddings designed primarily for aesthetics or content creation. Industry reports show couples are leaning towards more authentic, personal celebrations instead of recreating viral Pinterest weddings.

    That doesn’t mean destination weddings are “out.” It simply means couples are becoming more intentional about why they’re choosing them.

    A meaningful location, cultural connection or intimate travel experience now tends to resonate more strongly than choosing a venue purely because it’s trending online.

    So… are destination weddings still worth it?

    For the right couple, absolutely.

    Destination weddings still offer something traditional weddings often struggle to replicate – uninterrupted time with loved ones, immersive experiences and the feeling of stepping away from everyday life completely.

    But in 2026, successful destination weddings require balance. Couples are increasingly expected to think about guest budgets, convenience, genuine experience and not just aesthetics.

    The destination weddings that work best today are the ones rooted in intentionality rather than excess. Smaller guest lists, meaningful locations and carefully considered experiences are replacing the pressure to create the biggest or most extravagant celebration possible.

    And honestly? That shift might be what saves destination weddings from becoming just another passing trend.

    ALSO SEE: Honeymoon in Your Backyard: Luxury Destinations in South Africa That Couples Overlook

    Honeymoon in Your Backyard: Luxury Destinations in South Africa That Couples Overlook

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    How wedding dress trends have changed through the decades

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    Wedding dresses have always been a reflection of their time. Bridal fashion has shifted with culture, politics, and pop-culture icons shaping what brides wear down the aisle. Here’s how the look of “the modern bride” has evolved decade by decade.

    1920s: Flapper-inspired glamour and beaded detail

    The 1920s bride embraced freedom in silhouette and movement. Waistlines dropped, fabrics softened, and dresses took on a loose, straight shape that felt modern for the time.

    Intricate beadwork, embroidery, and lace detailing defined the era, adding texture and elegance. Brides often completed the look with statement headpieces (think tiaras, floral accents, and decorative hairpins), usually paired with a soft, flowing veil.

     

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    1930s: Elegant silhouettes and Hollywood-inspired

    By the 1930s, wedding dresses became more refined and understated. Influenced by Hollywood glamour, brides favoured long, streamlined silhouettes with subtle waist definition.

    Satin and silk were popular fabrics, often styled with long sleeves and minimal embellishment. Soft detailing like embroidery or appliqué added sophistication, while dramatic “shower bouquets” (long, trailing floral arrangements) became a signature bridal accessory.

     

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    1940s: Wartime simplicity and practical bridalwear

    The 1940s brought practicality into bridal fashion. With wartime restrictions and limited resources, many brides wore suits, borrowed dresses, or reworked garments they already owned.

    Looks were simple and functional, with little decoration. Even so, brides still added meaningful details like veils, corsages, or small floral touches to signal the occasion and elevate everyday pieces.

     

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    1950s: Full skirts, cinched waists and fairytale glamour

    After the war, bridal fashion returned to grandeur. The 1950s bride embraced feminine, structured silhouettes with fitted bodices and full, voluminous skirts.

    Inspired by Hollywood icons and Dior’s “New Look,” dresses were often dramatic and ultra-feminine. Tea-length gowns also gained popularity, layered with petticoats, lace, satin, and structured detailing that created a distinctly romantic feel.

    1960s: Mod minis, structured dresses and style experimentation

    The 1960s brought contrast. Early in the decade, brides favoured structured gowns with clean lines, high necklines, and shorter veils, often influenced by Jacqueline Kennedy’s timeless elegance.

    As the decade progressed, fashion became more experimental. Mini dresses, bold silhouettes, and even coloured gowns emerged. Flower crowns, headbands, and natural styling began replacing traditional veils.

     

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    1970s: Boho brides, bell sleeves and relaxed silhouettes

    The 1970s bridal look was relaxed, expressive, and deeply influenced by bohemian style. Flowing fabrics, bell sleeves, and soft silhouettes defined the decade.

    Brides moved away from traditional formality, often opting for hats, ribbons, or loose natural hair instead of veils. Some even chose tailored suits or unconventional white ensembles, embracing individuality over tradition.

     

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    1980s: Statement sleeves, volume and maximalist bridal fashion

    The 1980s was the era of “more is more.” Bridal gowns became dramatic with puffed sleeves, full skirts, and long cathedral trains.

    Lace, taffeta, and structured fabrics dominated, while oversized silhouettes created a bold, high-impact look. Influenced heavily by royal weddings and pop culture, this decade defined the iconic “princess bride” aesthetic.

     

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    1990s: Minimalist silhouettes and sleek bridalwear

    The go-big-or-go-home trend seeped over into the 90s. However, as we drew closer to the 2000s, it shifted toward simplicity. Brides embraced clean lines, understated elegance, and pared-back silhouettes.

    Slip dresses, satin fabrics, and fitted gowns became popular, often paired with minimal accessories. The focus moved away from volume and embellishment and toward effortless, modern refinement.

     

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    2000s: Strapless gowns and structured glamour

    The early 2000s were defined by strapless wedding dresses. Corset-style bodices, crystal embellishments, and full skirts dominated bridal fashion.

    As the decade progressed, designs began to soften, with more classic and vintage-inspired gowns entering the mainstream alongside the still-popular structured silhouettes.

     

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    2010s–present: Modern minimalism and personalised bridal style

    Today’s bridal fashion is less about following a single trend and more about personal expression. Minimalist gowns, lace sleeves, and modern tailoring all sit side by side.

    Brides are now choosing looks that reflect their personality, whether that’s sleek and simple, vintage-inspired, fashion-forward, or dramatically detailed. The modern wedding dress is no longer defined by one rule, but by individuality.

     

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    ALSO SEE: Wedding dress inspo for autumn and winter brides

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    When planning your wedding reception, few decisions shape the atmosphere quite like the drink’s menu. From champagne towers to personalised cocktails named after your pets, modern weddings are moving far beyond the standard “red or white?” approach.

    One of the biggest questions couples face is whether to go all out with an open bar or opt for curated signature cocktails instead. While both options create a memorable guest experience, the right choice often comes down to your budget, guest list, venue style and the kind of celebration you want to create.

    So – which one actually works best?

    The case for an open bar

    An open bar is exactly what it sounds like: guests can order drinks throughout the reception without paying for them directly. Depending on your package, this could include everything from wine and beer to premium spirits and cocktails.

    For many couples, an open bar feels generous, luxurious and effortless. Guests don’t have to think about carrying cash or limiting themselves, which naturally creates a more relaxed and celebratory atmosphere.

    Why couples love it:

    • It feels inclusive and hospitality-driven
    • Guests have freedom to choose their preferred drinks
    • It keeps energy levels high during the reception
    • It suits large, social celebrations
    • Open bars also work especially well for formal evening weddings where the reception is expected to continue late into the night.

    The downsides of an open bar

    Of course, there’s a reason many couples hesitate before committing to one: cost.

    Open bars can become expensive very quickly, especially with larger guest lists or premium liquor selections. Some venues charge per person, while others bill based on consumption – which can make budgeting unpredictable.

    There’s also the reality that not every guest drinks equally. In some cases, couples end up paying significantly more for options many guests never touch.

    Another consideration is pacing. While most guests drink responsibly, unlimited access can occasionally lead to overindulgence, particularly at long receptions.

    Why signature cocktails are having a moment

    Signature cocktails have become one of the biggest modern wedding trends – and for good reason.

    Instead of offering a full open bar, couples create a smaller, curated drinks experience featuring one to three custom cocktails. These drinks are often personalised to reflect the couple’s personalities, relationship story or wedding aesthetic.

    Think:

    • A spicy margarita inspired by your first holiday together
    • His-and-hers cocktails
    • A mocktail option for non-drinkers
    • Drinks named after pets, favourite cities or inside jokes

    Signature cocktails instantly make a wedding feel more intentional and personal. They also photograph beautifully, which certainly doesn’t hurt in the Instagram era.

    The biggest advantage? Budget control

    For many couples, signature cocktails offer the perfect middle ground between elevated and affordable.

    Because the menu is limited, costs become easier to manage. Bartenders can prepare drinks faster, ingredients can be purchased in bulk, and couples avoid paying for dozens of different spirits and mixers.

    This option also works particularly well for:

    • Daytime weddings
    • Intimate celebrations
    • Destination weddings
    • Garden or outdoor receptions
    • Couples prioritising aesthetics and experience over excess

    But will guests feel limited?

    That depends entirely on execution.

    Guests generally don’t mind a limited menu if the drinks feel thoughtful and well-designed. The key is variety. Offering one refreshing option, one stronger cocktail and a non-alcoholic choice usually keeps everyone happy.

    Problems only arise when couples overcomplicate the menu or choose drinks based solely on personal taste without considering guests.

    For example, a highly niche cocktail with unusual ingredients may sound exciting in theory, but not everyone wants smoked rosemary tequila at 2pm.

    The best signature cocktail menus balance personality with crowd appeal.

    So, what works best?

    There’s no universal answer – only what works best for your wedding style, priorities and budget.

    An open bar may suit you if:

    • You’re hosting a large evening reception
    • Guest experience is your top priority
    • Your budget allows flexibility
    • You want a traditional party atmosphere

    Signature cocktails may work better if:

    • You want a more curated, modern experience
    • You’re working within a tighter budget
    • You love personalised details
    • Your wedding aesthetic is experience-focused

    And honestly? Many couples are choosing a hybrid approach.

    A limited open bar paired with one or two signature cocktails often gives guests the best of both worlds. It keeps costs manageable while still creating a memorable, elevated experience.

    The final sip

    At the end of the day, your drinks menu should reflect the kind of celebration you want – not what social media says a wedding “needs.” Guests rarely remember whether the bar carried twelve whiskey options. They do remember how the wedding felt: welcoming, thoughtful and fun.

    Whether that comes through endless espresso martinis or one perfectly crafted signature cocktail is entirely up to you.

    SEE MORE: Creative ways to serve your wedding drinks

    Creative ways to serve your wedding drinks

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    There are many popular diamond shapes to choose from when it comes to engagement rings. The top ten are: round, princess, oval, marquise, pear, cushion, emerald, asscher, radiant and heart.

    The shape of the diamond refers the basic outline when viewed face up. The cut of a diamond refers to how the diamond’s facets are arranged and its ability to reflect light. The most common cutting style is brilliant (cut with 57 or 58 facets to maximise sparkle) and then there is also the step cut which is generally used when cutting square and rectangular shapes (used for cutting emerald and asscher shapes).

    Considering the 4 C’s — cut, colour, clarity and carat weight — alongside your budget is important when deciding on a diamond shape. Ultimately, though, it comes down to personal preference, as each shape offers its own unique charm and character.

    Round

    A round shaped diamond is the most popular choice for an engagement ring as it looks good on most hands and in most settings. Almost all round diamonds are cut brilliant which maximises the potential brightness. However, due to the high demand of this shape, the cost per carat is higher than other shapes.

    Princess

    This shape is also very popular due to the fact that it has a unique shape and has a slightly lower price per carat than the round shape. It also works in most ring setting styles, although it should be set with 4 prongs to protect all four corners. A brilliant cut princess diamond rivals the brilliant round because it offers that sparkle at a lower price. Its square shape also easily disguises imperfections meaning that you can choose pretty much any carat size.

    Oval

    This shape is becoming more popular and it is an adaptation of the brilliant cut round shape so it is perfect for those who like the sparkle of the round but want something a bit more unique. The elongated shape creates the illusion of a larger size and makes the finger appear longer and slimmer. It is also flexible in terms of setting styles and hides small imperfections.

     

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    Marquise

    This long and narrow shape has one of the largest surface areas in the upper part of the diamond of all the shapes. It makes the size appear larger than it is and makes the finger seem longer and slimmer, like the oval. Symmetry is important when cutting this shape as the two end points should align and the right and left sides should form a mirror image. It should be set with 2 prongs to protect the two points.

    Pear

    This shape is a combination of the round and marquise shapes with a tapered point on the one end. It also has the lengthening and slimming effect on the finger due to its asymmetry. It is feminine, unique and elegant. This shape also needs to be symmetrical and set with a prong at the point for protection. You can decide which direction you would like the point to face but positioning the point to face the fingernails is more flattering on the hand.

    Cushion

    Cushion cut is a square shape with rounded corners. This style shows clarity (imperfections) well which is something to take into consideration when deciding which of the 4 c’s is most important to you – high clarity in this case. This shape works well in vintage settings.

     

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    Emerald

    This shape was originally for cutting emeralds, hence the name. Due to the way it’s cut, it produces a hall of mirrors effect rather than the sparkle that comes with brilliant cuts. It also emphasises the symmetry that comes with this shape. It is flattering on the hand and the long lines and flashes of light that come with this shape bring a sense of elegance. It is not such a common choice for an engagement ring meaning that you can find more affordable options in higher quality than other shapes. However, this shape does not hide imperfections as well as shapes that are cut brilliant.

     

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    Asscher

    This shape has an antique feel to it and is similar to the square emerald but with larger facets. The more facets, the more sparkle. But like the emerald and because of the open and square cut corners, it does not hide imperfections well and so a high clarity is necessary.

     

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    Radiant

    This shape is the first square shape to be cut brilliant, the second being princess. A square radiant shape is similar to princess but with cropped corners. It will often look the same as princess if it is set with four prongs covering each corner. A rectangular radiant shape is perfect for those who like the look of the emerald shape but want the shine that comes with the brilliant cut. Clarity is less of a concern with this shape as the many facets hide imperfections.

     

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    Heart

    This shape is a classic symbol of love but carat weight is important as the shape is difficult to achieve in diamonds smaller than 0.50 carats. Symmetry is also important in this shape. The irregular shape of a heart cut means it will need to be set with more prongs to protect the stone. The many facets that come with the cutting of this shape will ensure a lot of sparkle.

    Ultimately, choosing a diamond shape comes down to balancing personal style, practicality and budget. Some shapes maximise sparkle, others create the illusion of a larger stone, while certain cuts highlight clarity and symmetry more than others.

    If you love brilliance and shine, opt for a brilliant-cut shape like round, princess or radiant. If you prefer elegance and finger-lengthening silhouettes, oval, marquise and emerald cuts are timeless choices. And if vintage-inspired or distinctive styles appeal to you, cushion, asscher or pear shapes offer plenty of character.

    The best way to decide? Narrow your favourites down to two or three shapes and try them on in person. Seeing how each shape looks and feels on your hand will ultimately tell you more than any guide can.

    ALSO SEE: Unique wedding rings designed by local jewellers

    Unique wedding rings designed by local jewellers

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    Bridal shoes on a budget (8 options for under R600 each)

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    You do not need to spend your entire wedding budget on one pair of shoes you will wear for a few hours. These days, budget-friendly bridal shoes are proving that style, comfort and affordability can absolutely go hand in hand.

    There are plenty of bridal shoes under R600 that look just as dreamy walking down the aisle as they do styled with jeans, dresses or tailored pants long after the wedding day is over. Because honestly, if you can rewear your wedding accessories after the big day, that is a win.

    We rounded up beautiful bridal shoes under R600 that are wedding-worthy, wearable beyond the aisle and proof that looking chic on your big day does not have to cost an arm, a leg or your two front teeth.

    Tori Satin 9cm Heel With Netted Trim Court Shoe, R550, Lamara Paris

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    Pointy Slingback Kitten Heels, R459, Foschini

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    Jayna Block Ankle Strap Heel, R519, Superbalist

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    Rasa Embroidered Slingback Pointed 4.5cm Heel, R500, Lamara Paris

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    Peeptoe Ankle Tie Heels, R499, Foschini

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    Misty Block 9cm Heel Open Waist Cross Over Belts Glitter, R499, Lamara Paris

    Women’s Iconography Strappy Block Heel, R599, BASH

    Mesh And Beaded Shoe With Ankle Strap, R550, Queenspark

    ALSO SEE: Non-white wedding dresses are no longer a bridal taboo

    Non-white wedding dresses are no longer a bridal taboo

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    The ultimate guide to honeymoon road-tripping

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    There’s nothing quite like the feeling of freedom that comes with the open road – and there’s no better person to share it with than your new spouse. Just married, chasing adventure with good music, scenic stops, and uninterrupted conversation? That’s honeymoon magic.

    If you’re planning a honeymoon road trip, here are a few things to keep in mind before you hit the highway.

    Avoid Breakdowns and Breakouts

    Before you embark on your journey, make sure your car is properly serviced – especially the filters, fluid levels, brakes, tyres, belts, oil, and water. Check that your tyre pressure is correct and inspect your wiper blades, indicators, brake lights, and headlights.

    If you’re travelling through different climates or remote areas, ensure your vehicle is prepared for changing weather conditions. And if you’re road-tripping during a South African summer, don’t forget to check the air conditioner – nothing kills romance faster than being stuck in traffic in unbearable heat.

    It’s also worth downloading offline maps ahead of time in case signal drops along your route.

    Clean Up, Stock Up

    There’s no better way to begin your honeymoon than in a freshly cleaned car. Turn the pre-trip prep into part of the fun with a quick car wash date before departure.

    Stock up on snacks, padkos, and plenty of water – buying from grocery stores beforehand is usually far cheaper than relying on petrol station convenience stops. Pack blankets and pillows for extra comfort, especially if one of you wants to nap between destinations.

    Finally, don’t skip the emergency kit. Include essentials like:

    • A flashlight and extra batteries
    • Jumper cables
    • A first aid kit
    • Spare tyre and tyre repair kit
    • Portable phone charger or power bank
    • Emergency contact numbers
    • Being over-prepared is always better than being stranded.

    If You’re Renting

    If you’re renting a car, companies like Hertz, Avis, Budget, and Thrifty offer a variety of vehicle options and pickup locations.

    Look out for package deals that combine flights, accommodation, and car rental – they can save you a significant amount on honeymoon costs.

    If you’re renting abroad, check whether your destination requires an International Driving Permit (IDP). It’s also important to note that manual transmission vehicles are still standard in many countries. If you’re used to driving automatic, reserve one well in advance, as availability can be limited and rates are often higher.

    And yes – screenshot or print your booking confirmation. Airport Wi-Fi has a habit of failing exactly when you need it most.

    Are We There Yet?

    Planning the time spent in the car together can be just as important as planning the destinations themselves. A long drive can either become part of the adventure – or feel very, very long.

    Prepare some entertainment ahead of time to keep the energy fun and relaxed. Think curated playlists, nostalgic singalongs, podcasts, audiobooks, or even a few classic road-trip games.

    Here are a few ideas to make the journey more memorable:

    • Car games

    They’re not just for kids. Classics like I Spy or the licence plate game are surprisingly entertaining when the kilometres start blending.

    • Story time

    Take turns reading aloud from a book, sharing funny memories, or even telling each other stories you’ve never heard before.

    • Create an on-the-road scrapbook

    Snap photos of quirky roadside stops, beautiful scenery, and funny moments along the way. The blurry selfies and petrol station coffee runs often become the best memories later.

    • Tunes for the trail

    A good playlist can completely shape the mood of a road trip. Create one together before you leave, blending both your favourites with songs that feel like the start of a new chapter.

    The journey is the honeymoon

    A honeymoon road trip isn’t about rushing from one destination to the next – it’s about the moments in between. The unexpected stops, terrible padkos combinations, inside jokes, scenic detours, and quiet conversations are often the memories that last the longest.

    So, leave a little room for spontaneity, keep your itinerary flexible, and enjoy the ride together. After all, the best love stories rarely stick perfectly to the route.

    ALSO SEE: How to pick your honeymoon destination

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    Being asked to officiate a wedding is a pretty big deal. Whether it’s your best friend, your cousin or a sibling tying the knot, being chosen to lead one of the most important moments in someone’s life is equal parts exciting, emotional and slightly terrifying.

    Before you panic-Google “how to marry people”, here’s what you need to know. From legal requirements to speech tips, these are the most important tips for officiating a marriage without turning the ceremony into a rambling TED Talk.

    First things first: Can anyone officiate a wedding in South Africa?

    This is where things get a little tricky.

    In South Africa, not just anyone can legally officiate a marriage. To legally marry a couple, you need to be an authorised marriage officer registered with the Department of Home Affairs.

    This usually includes:

    • Religious leaders
    • Certain government officials
    • Designated marriage officers

    So if your friend asks you to officiate their wedding, you technically cannot legally sign the marriage documents unless you’re officially registered and authorised.

    So what do couples usually do?

    A lot of modern couples choose to split the legal and ceremonial parts of the wedding.

    This means:

    • The legal paperwork is done separately through a registered marriage officer or at Department of Home Affairs
    • Then a friend or family member leads the symbolic ceremony on the wedding day itself

    Honestly? Guests usually never even notice the difference. It allows couples to have a more personal, relaxed and meaningful ceremony led by someone who actually knows them.

    Tips for officiating a marriage without freezing up

    Get the vibe right

    Before you write a single word, chat to the couple properly.

    Ask them:

    • Do they want funny, emotional or formal?
    • Are there religious or cultural traditions involved?
    • Do they want guests to laugh, cry or both?
    • Are there any topics or inside jokes to avoid?

    Some couples want a light-hearted ceremony with personality. Others want something more traditional and sentimental. Your job is to set the tone.

    Start with a strong opening

    The first few lines matter more than you think.

    You do not need to sound like a movie narrator or a royal announcer. Keep it warm and natural.

    Tell their story

    One of the best tips for officiating a marriage is remembering that the ceremony is about the couple, not your stand-up comedy debut.

    Share:

    • How they met
    • What makes their relationship special
    • Small moments that show who they are together
    • Why the people around them love them

    Avoid:

    • Embarrassing stories
    • Ex drama
    • Overly private details
    • Anything that could make grandparents uncomfortable

    If you’re using humour, keep it light and inclusive.

    Include personal touches

    This is where a friend or family member officiating can really shine.

    You can include:

    • Personal vows
    • Readings or poems
    • Cultural traditions
    • A moment of silence for loved ones
    • Guest participation
    • A ring warming ceremony

    Practice more than you think you need to

    Even confident public speakers get nervous at weddings.

    Read your script out loud multiple times before the day. Timing, pacing and pronunciation feel very different in your head compared to saying them aloud in front of 100 people and a crying flower girl.

    A few practical tips:

    • Print your speech out
    • Use larger font sizes
    • Speak slower than normal
    • Pause after emotional moments
    • Keep water nearby
    • Don’t wing it completely

    How long should the ceremony speech be?

    Shorter is usually better.

    Most wedding ceremonies sit comfortably between 15 and 30 minutes depending on:

    • Vows
    • Readings
    • Rituals
    • Religious elements

    If you’re leading a non-religious ceremony, aim for meaningful rather than marathon-length.

    Nobody wants to hear you speaking longer than the reception speeches.

    What should you actually say during the ceremony?

    Most ceremonies follow a simple structure:

    1. Welcome guests
    2. Introduce the couple’s story
    3. Share thoughts about marriage or love
    4. Move into vows
    5. Exchange rings
    6. Official declaration
    7. The kiss
    8. Final introduction of the married couple

    You don’t need fancy language. You just need sincerity.

    ALSO SEE: Nail your wedding speech

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    Brahman Hills Bridal Expo returns to the Midlands this weekend

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    A beautiful wedding is built through thoughtful details, trusted suppliers and thorough planning.

    This Sunday, 24 May 2026, couples are invited to the annual Brahman Hills Bridal Expo in the Midlands. It’s a day designed to make wedding planning feel a little less overwhelming and a lot more exciting. Bringing together some of the industry’s leading suppliers, creatives and wedding experts under one roof, the expo offers couples the chance to move from saved Pinterest boards to real-life planning.

    From dreamy decor and elegant gowns to cakes, photographers, entertainment and ceremony specialists, the expo is packed with inspiration for every part of the big day. More importantly, it’s an opportunity to meet the people behind the brands, ask questions, compare ideas and start piecing together a wedding that feels personal, intentional and beautifully put together.

    “Couples want a wedding that reflects who they are, but they also want peace of mind knowing every detail will be handled with care,” says Onwaba Gonyora, Director at Brahman Hills and wedding expert. “The Brahman Hills Bridal Expo brings that together by connecting couples with trusted suppliers, practical advice and a beautiful setting where ideas can truly come to life.”

    Guests can expect a strong line-up of wedding suppliers, including Enhle Creatives, Magic Thyme, Nxeleshians, Obsessive Cupcake Disorder, Cake House, Posh Events, Weddings by Jackie, Real Beats Entertainment, DJ Ash, DJ Marcel, Conway Photography, Legacy Studios, Photos by Chene, MPMSA Photo, Mawande Kheswa Imaging, Black T Artistry, House of Kym, CC Designs, Dream Ceremonies, Wedding Celebrant, Weddings by Reg Courtney, Mystical Pyrotechnics, Chris Jenkins Saxophonist, Gifts by Rue and Jesus Is King Luxury Gifting Collective.

    The Bridal Expo takes place from 10:00 to 15:00, with tickets priced at R50 per person. Food and drinks will also be available throughout the day.

    Whether you’re newly engaged or busy finalising the finer details, the expo offers more than just inspiration. It’s a chance to connect with experts, discover new ideas and take the next step towards a wedding day that feels meaningful, seamless and uniquely yours.

    To buy tickets, visit Quicket

    ALSO SEE: Upcoming bridal expos & wedding events across South Africa

    Upcoming bridal expos & wedding events across South Africa

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    Thank-you gifts: outdated tradition or wedding must-have?

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    Modern weddings are changing – and fast. Couples are rethinking everything from formal seating plans to bouquet tosses, choosing experiences and intentional details over traditions that no longer feel relevant to them. And somewhere in the middle of that conversation sits the question of wedding thank-you gifts.

    Are they still a meaningful gesture guests appreciate? Or have they quietly become another wedding expense couples feel pressured to include?

    The truth is wedding favours are no longer the automatic “must-have” they once were. But that does not necessarily mean they are outdated either.

    Why wedding thank-you gifts became such a staple

    Wedding favours have long symbolised gratitude, good luck and appreciation. Traditionally, couples would gift guests small keepsakes as a way of thanking them for being part of the celebration.

    Over the years, those gifts evolved into everything from personalised candles and chocolates to miniature olive oil bottles, succulents and custom keyrings. For a while, wedding favours became almost expected – another detail on the never-ending wedding planning checklist.

    But couples are approaching weddings differently now. Budgets are being prioritised more intentionally, guest experiences are taking centre stage, and many couples are asking themselves whether certain traditions still feel meaningful.

    Guests remember the feeling more than the favour

    Here’s the reality: most guests are far more likely to remember the atmosphere of your wedding than the physical favour they took home.

    They will remember:

    • The energy on the dance floor
    • The incredible food
    • The emotional ceremony
    • The thoughtful hosting
    • The way your wedding felt personal and true to you

    That does not mean thank-you gifts cannot add something special – they absolutely can. But the pressure to include them simply because “everyone does” is slowly disappearing.

    And honestly? Guests are not usually leaving a wedding disappointed because they did not receive a monogrammed candle.

    The modern shift toward intentional gifting

    The biggest wedding trend right now is intentionality – and thank-you gifts are no exception.

    Couples are moving away from generic favours that get left behind on reception tables and leaning toward gifts that feel more personal, practical or experience-driven instead.

    Some of the most popular ideas include:

    • Late-night snack stations
    • Handwritten thank-you notes
    • Mini local treats or cultural products
    • Recovery kits for the next morning
    • Personalised drink stirrers or place settings guests can keep
    • Photo booth prints or Polaroid moments

    In many cases, the “gift” is becoming part of the overall guest experience rather than a separate wedding tradition.

    When wedding favours still work beautifully

    There are still plenty of weddings where thank-you gifts feel incredibly thoughtful and well-suited to the celebration.

    They tend to work especially well when:

    • The wedding is intimate and highly personalised
    • Guests are travelling long distances
    • The couple wants to honour cultural traditions
    • The favour ties naturally into the wedding aesthetic
    • The gift feels useful or genuinely memorable

    Destination weddings often benefit from welcome bags or locally inspired gifts that help guests feel looked after from the moment they arrive.

    Couples are no longer afraid to skip traditions

    One of the best things about current weddings is that couples are becoming far more comfortable choosing what matters to them.

    Not every wedding needs:

    • A cake cutting
    • Matching bridesmaid dresses
    • A bouquet toss
    • Wedding favours
    • Or even a perfectly traditional timeline

    The pressure to “do everything” is fading – and weddings are becoming better for it.

    If thank-you gifts fit naturally into your budget and vision, they can absolutely elevate the experience. But if they feel forced, unnecessary or financially stressful, couples should feel completely comfortable skipping them.

    So… outdated tradition or wedding must-have?

    Wedding thank-you gifts are no longer an expectation – and perhaps that is exactly why the meaningful ones still stand out.

    The modern approach is less about obligation and more about thoughtfulness. If your favours genuinely reflect your personality, your guests or your wedding experience, they can still leave a lasting impression.

    But at the end of the day, guests will always remember how your wedding made them feel far more than the gift they carried home.

    ALSO SEE: 6 DIY thank-you gifts that won’t break the bank

    6 DIY thank-you gifts that won’t break the bank

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    Non-white wedding dresses are no longer a bridal taboo

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    There was a time when walking down the aisle in anything other than crisp ivory or bridal white would have caused a few gasps from the front row. But modern brides are rewriting the rulebook.

    Why brides are choosing a non-white wedding dress

    The rise of the non-white wedding dress says a lot about where weddings are headed in general. Brides are moving away from tradition for tradition’s sake and leaning into choices that feel a bit more authentic and emotionally connected to their personalities.

    For some, white simply does not feel flattering. For others, it feels too expected.

    A soft sage gown may suit a nature-loving bride far more than bright white ever could. A champagne dress can feel timeless yet warmer against certain skin tones. A black wedding dress might perfectly suit a fashion-forward city celebration. And then there are brides who simply want the freedom to wear colour because they adore it.

    The colours brides are loving right now

     

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    The beauty of a colour wedding dress is that there are no limits. Some brides choose the subtlest hint of colour, while others embrace dramatic statement shades.

    Popular options include:

    • Soft blush pink
    • Champagne and nude tones
    • Dusty blue
    • Sage green
    • Lilac and lavender
    • Floral appliqué gowns
    • Ombre detailing
    • Black wedding dresses
    • Gold or metallic finishes
    • Rich jewel tones for winter weddings

    Which brides tend to choose colourful wedding dresses?

    Interestingly, colourful wedding dresses are no longer reserved for unconventional weddings only.

    You will often spot non-white gowns at:

    • Garden weddings
    • Destination weddings
    • Intimate weddings
    • Art-inspired weddings
    • Modern city weddings
    • Second marriages
    • Fashion-forward luxury weddings
    • Cultural fusion celebrations

    They also appeal to brides who:

    • Love fashion
    • Want standout wedding photos
    • Feel disconnected from strict traditions
    • Want a dress they may realistically rewear
    • Prefer individuality over convention

    And perhaps most importantly, many brides choosing non-white gowns say the dress simply feels more like them.

    Nervous about going fully colourful? Start subtly

     

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    Not every bride wants a bright pink ballgown — and that is perfectly fine.

    If you love the idea of a non-white wedding dress but still want something timeless, consider:

    • Champagne instead of white
    • Floral embroidery over ivory
    • A soft blush underlayer
    • Coloured gloves or a cape
    • A pastel overskirt
    • Delicate blue or silver detailing
    • A dramatic second reception dress

    ALSO SEE: High-neck wedding dresses we love

    High-neck wedding dresses we love

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