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How to announce your engagement online without making it feel like a performance

June 4, 2026 No Comments

In a world where every milestone seems to come with a social media announcement, sharing your engagement can feel surprisingly complicated.

Do you post immediately? Do you wait? Do you upload a polished carousel, a candid Reel, or simply change your relationship status and call it a day?

The truth is that there’s no single “right” way to announce your engagement online. In fact, one of the biggest trends we’re seeing this year – is couples choosing authenticity over perfection and sharing their news in a way that feels true to their relationship rather than what social media expects.

Here are a few tips to keep in your back pocket before you hit post.

Tell your inner circle first

Before your engagement appears on Instagram, TikTok or Facebook, make sure the people closest to you hear the news directly from you.

Parents, siblings, grandparents and close friends should ideally find out through a phone call, FaceTime or in-person conversation before discovering it on their feed. It’s a small gesture that means a lot and helps avoid hurt feelings later.

Once your VIPs know, you can share the news with the wider world.

Choose photos that actually feel like you

Not everyone has a perfectly captured proposal moment, and that’s okay.

Maybe your partner was wearing their favourite old hoodie. Maybe your nails weren’t done. Maybe the proposal photos are slightly blurry because everyone was too excited to focus.

The good news? Highly polished engagement announcements are no longer the only option.

While professional engagement shoots remain timeless, candid moments, photo dumps and authentic snapshots continue to resonate because they tell a genuine story. Use photos that feel meaningful to your relationship, whether that’s a professionally planned shoot or a spontaneous phone photo from the day itself.

Don’t overthink the caption

Your caption doesn’t need to be a novel.

Some couples love sharing the full proposal story. Others simply post a ring emoji, a date, or a short sentence that says everything.

Whether you choose a heartfelt paragraph, a favourite song lyric or a simple “Forever starts here”, the best captions are the ones that sound like you.

One thing worth avoiding? Anything that feels performative or turns the announcement into a competition. Let the focus stay on the joy of the moment rather than the size of the ring, the extravagance of the proposal or proving anything to anyone.

Consider a Reel, TikTok or soft launch

In 2026, engagement announcements aren’t limited to static photos.

Many couples are creating short Reels featuring proposal clips, reaction videos, behind-the-scenes footage or even a collection of favourite moments from their relationship.

Others are embracing the “soft launch” approach by sharing subtle hints before making an official announcement. Think a glimpse of a ring in a photo dump, a cryptic caption or a casual post that lets followers connect the dots themselves.

If a grand reveal doesn’t feel like your style, that’s perfectly okay too.

Create boundaries around wedding content

Being engaged is exciting, but not every wedding planning update needs its own feed post.

If you want to document venue visits, dress appointments, menu tastings and DIY projects, Stories remain one of the best places to do it. Creating a dedicated highlight allows you to keep those memories in one place without overwhelming your followers.

Remember: your engagement announcement is about sharing a special moment, not creating content on a schedule.

The bottom line

There is no rulebook when it comes to announcing your engagement online. Some couples post within minutes, while others wait days, weeks or even months before sharing the news. Some opt for a cinematic Reel, while others keep it simple with a single photo and a few heartfelt words.

The beauty of modern engagement announcements is that they can look however you want them to. So, whether you’re planning a grand reveal or a quiet soft launch, focus less on what will perform well online and more on what feels right for you. Because long after the likes and comments have faded, you’ll remember the excitement, the love and the moment you said “yes.”

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Busted! 5 Common engagement ring myths debunked

November 27, 2025 No Comments

Similar to coconut water and good skin, tradition and weddings go hand-in-hand, and there’s nothing more traditional than forking out thousands for a jaw-dropping engagement ring. We’ve been conditioned to believe that the perfect wedding or engagement ring should look a particular way, but that isn’t necessarily the case.

We’re busting five myths that may soothe your anxious heart and help inspire you to break away from tradition:

The bigger the diamond, the better the ring

Incredible marketing in the 1980s epitomised the luxury status that came with owning a giant diamond ring, and celebrities such as the Kardashians haven’t helped dissuade this sentiment either. However, picking out something quaint and delicate can be just as beautiful and can still make a statement.

There are also plenty of advantages to choosing a ring that doesn’t weigh as much as a small gerbil, which includes affordability and everyday wear and tear. If your sparkler is 1 carat or under, try choosing a design where the diamond is front and centre while exploring various shapes that suit your style.

Engagement rings should be bland

Who said your engagement ring shouldn’t have a pop of colour? A recent trend we’ve been seeing lately is a move away from the traditional clear precious gemstones and towards blues, reds and greens.

Traditionally, coloured gemstones are often associated with royals. Think, the late Princess Diana’s gorgeous blue sapphire engagement ring. However, more brides-to-be are indulging in a little colour when it comes to their wedding rings with vibrant blood-red rubies and shimmering green emeralds at the top of the list. Just make sure that when you’re picking out your favourite precious gemstone, you stick with stones that are 7-10 on the MOHs hardness scale to ensure it doesn’t get damaged.

Any stone will work well for an engagement ring

We know that the affordable moonstone engagement ring you saw online looks fantastic, but you’ll need to consider the durability of the stone you’ll be purchasing. Your engagement ring is going to take a beating, and between doing the dishes every evening to exercising, certain stones are just not durable enough. Stones such as opal and pearls can be a great alternative to the traditional engagement ring, but these precious stones are often considered “soft,” especially when compared to the MOHs hardness scale.

For example, pearls are ranked 2.5 on MOHs hardness scale, so care will need to be taken to avoid scratching or damaging this precious gem. However, diamonds are ranked 10 on this hardness scale, so they can be quite durable.

There are no ethical engagement rings out there

Times have certainly changed, and so have consumer habits. It’s the age of the conscious shopper and shopping ethically and sustainably has become a top priority as people around the world attempt to contribute to a sustainable future for all. While you may think that finding an ethically sourced engagement ring might be tough, more jewellers have shifted their focus to one that conserves the resources of the planet and caters to those looking to ensure a greener future.

Traceable gemstones, recycled gemstones, lab-grown gemstones and recycled gold are just a few options for the sustainable wedding couple.

The jeweller isn’t always right

Oftentimes, you’re buying an engagement ring for the first time, so what could you possibly know. Jewellers are there to give you advice when it comes to a few important details, including a diamond’s 4 C’s, price comparisons, durability and craftsmanship. Be wary of jewellers who are steering you towards a ring that you may not feel comfortable with, only you know your future fiance’s style and wants, so keep that in mind when browsing. And don’t forget to take your time!

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Which engagement ring style is right for you?

October 9, 2019 No Comments

As the first step in your wedding journey, your engagement is of paramount importance. Before you can plan anything, you have to secure an engagement ring. As jewellery that will (hopefully) be on your partner’s ring finger forever, the engagement ring needs to speak to them as a person.

That said, there are so many ring options to choose from. Princess cut, oval, cushion-cut, carats – it all becomes a blur. It’s easy to become overwhelmed with all the jargon being thrown at you.

Take a breath, and check out our quick guide to engagement ring styles.

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The four C’s:

The four C’s of diamond grading are universally used to describe the quality of diamonds. They refer to:

Cut – the shape of the diamond

Colour – the shade of the diamond

Carat – the weight of the diamond.

Clarity – the quality of the diamonds, specifically the internal appearance of the diamond and surface defects.

Cut:

The cut of your engagement ring refers to the shape of the diamond. There are seven main diamond cuts:

Round: This cut is a more classic, timeless style. It is best suited for someone who wants a traditional finish.

Princess: This cut is square in shape with four bevelled sides that creates an upside-down pyramid shape connecting to the band. It is glamorous and modern, yet utterly romantic.

Emerald: This cut details an elongated rectangular cut and step-cut faceting. It is sophisticated and eye-catching, for the glamorous bride.

Oval: The oval cut ring perfectly accentuates long, slender fingers, and is both trendy yet classic.

Cushion: Also referred to as a pillow-cut, the cushion cut ring features four square-rectangular sides with curved corners and multiple facets. It is feminine and trendy.

Pear: This teardrop-shaped diamond cut is quite unique. It beautifully elongates the fingers and is often the ring for the more adventurous bride.

Marquise: This cut is a more pronounced oval shape, featuring two pointed ends that create a boat hull-esque shape. This cut is for the daring, less traditional bride.

Metals:

The metal chosen often depends on the jewellery your partners often wears and their skin tone. Cooler skin tones are encouraged to wear metals such as platinum, silver, and white gold. Warmer toned skin tones are most suited for yellow-gold and rose-gold metals. But again, there are no rules!

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