• Set in the picturesque town of Port Alred and along the Sunshine Coast, the Royal St Andrews Hotel prides itself on its luxury service and beautiful facilities. With a range of options at your disposal, you’re spoiled for choice with what’s on offer at this magnificent venue.

    THE VENUE

    The venue hosts up to 160 guests, and couples can arrange to have both their ceremony and reception on site. With a state-of-the-art ballroom, incredible gardens and the exquisite beach backdrop, you’ll have everything you need and more for your dream day. Guests can enjoy canapés and cocktails in the modern and scenic courtyard whilst they await your arrival, before moving to the dining area with high ceilings and glass doors perfect for transforming the wedding reception area.

    THE FOOD

    Being part of the award-winning Manti Collection, the Royal St Andrews Hotel is renowned for its delicious cuisine, hospitality and a one-stop wedding weekend itinerary. The Thistle restaurant boasts a decadent menu and extensive wine list fit for catering to your big day.

    THE ROOMS

    The luxury rooms allow you to get settled in style before your wedding day, and also offer the perfect honeymoon escape. With ten elegant rooms in the Heritage section and another fifty stylish suites, there is more than enough space for your guests and bridal party.

    THE FACILITIES

    Be whisked away on a romantic Kowie River Cruise, or spend your time lounging at the on-site Camelot spa in the outdoor jacuzzi. The hotel also offers croquet, golf and beach horse rides, all suited to a full wedding weekend for you and your guests.

    For more information, visit www.royalstandrews.co.za.

    Sun? Check! Sand? Check! Sexy selfies? Check! When it comes to a beach holiday, Durban ticks all the boxes – year-round! And the stunning four-star Belaire Suites Hotel is situated conveniently along the golden coastline, offering views and entertainment no one can resist!

    THE VENUE

    Gracing Durban’s incredible coastline, Belaire Suites Hotel takes beachfront luxury to a whole new level with sea-facing rooms and a glamorously decorated interior suitable for couples seeking an escape amidst the hustle and bustle of the beachfront. Take in the glorious promenade view and breathtaking sunsets right from your bedroom window in this romantic atmosphere.

    THE ROOMS

    The hotel is comprised of 124 apartments, each containing a kitchenette with a microwave, kettle and fridge to suit everyone’s needs. You’ll be able to take in the stunning views of Durban’s coast while experiencing the luxury of Belaire’s modern set-up, with clean decor and a marble bathroom design. Guests can choose from studio, family, grand family and studio suite apartments or interleading rooms.

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    THE FOOD

    The popular Café Jiran is known for its out-of-this-world coffee and is the perfect spot for a hearty breakfast after a leisurely stroll along the beach or promenade. When it comes to late night dining, the cafe transforms into a glamorous scene offering a delicious fine dining menu for guests to indulge.

    OTHER ACTIVITIES

    Apart from spending time on Durban’s beautiful and warm beaches, the hotel is close to the Moses Mabhida Stadium, Suncoast Casino and uShaka Marine World. They also offer an array of activities that can be arranged for an exciting and fun stay. Think nature reserve tours, shark cage diving, spa retreats and more.

    For more information, visit belairesuites.co.za.

    Images: Belaire Suites Hotel/Facebook

    Surrounded by their nearest and dearest, Ané Bartleman and Marius Eksteen celebrated their special day on a sprawling estate in the Hemel-en-Aarde Valley.

    THE VENUE

    We scoured the internet for a venue, which is where I stumbled across Bona Dea Private Estate. I lined up three venues for us to view around Cape Town in one day, but Bona Dea was our first and last stop. It is truly the most spectacular venue along the Whale Coast. With astonishing views, a lavish ballroom (as well as perfectly groomed gardens), we knew our guests would be entertained at all times.

    THE THEME

    We really wanted an elegant, exciting, fun and comfortable wedding. We all had a blast over a long weekend with wine tasting, great food and even some whale-watching! Our wedding day was even better than we imagined it would be.

    THE DRESS

    My dress was made by Casper Bosman of Casper Designer Wear in our hometown of Bloemfontein. I wanted something very simple, fitted and sophisticated. There were times I thought I should add something here or there, but your first instinct is always the best choice.

    THE DECOR

    We wanted decor that wouldn’t date, so went for a clean look and feel with shades of grey, silver and white. Bona Dea has a wide variety of decor options available for a perfectly tailored wedding. We loved everything from the tree branches and fairy lights dangling from the ceiling to the delicate flowers and gorgeous cake stand.

    THE FOOD

    For our entrée, we had a creamy wild mushroom and biltong soup. The main course was beef fillet on a bed of vegetables with pumpkin fritters – absolutely delicious! Our wedding cake was just perfect. I found a picture on Pinterest and we were so lucky to have Charlotte from Krummels Sugar Art make a red velvet cake, with cute cake toppers that looked like Marius and me.

    THE FIRST DANCE

    I’m a dance teacher, so this was crucial. Afrikaans music is great to dance to, so we opted for Juan Boucher’s ‘Gebore Om By Jou Te Wees’.

    LITTLE BLACK BOOK

    Co-ordination, decor & venue: Bona Dea Private
    Photography: Johan Koegelenberg Photography
    Flowers: The Flower Scene
    Cake: Krummels Sugar Art
    Catering: Two Chefs
    Audio-visuals & DJ: Event Music Solutions

    Whether you’re opting for a low-key affair or a lavish celebration, a wedding is going to be costly – but who pays for the wedding? 

    WHAT TRADITION SAYS

    1. The venue

    When it comes to the venue – both the ceremony and the reception – the bride’s family is responsible for the cost. And this doesn’t just mean the venue hire. Budget for all decorations, food, musical accompaniments at the ceremony and the officiant’s fee.

    2. The reception

    If you’re the bride, your parents are probably breaking out in a sweat just thinking about the bill that’s coming their way. But the financial responsibility doesn’t rest solely on their shoulders. The groom’s side normally pays for the DJ and the booze – two important and often pricey aspects of any wedding.

    3. The attire

    Perhaps the most important detail for any bride, the dress also doesn’t come cheap. Butter up Mom and Dad, because they’ll be paying (you hope). But what about dresses for your bridesmaids? Buying their attire is not expected, but it’s a nice gesture. The groom covers the cost of his suit and can choose whether to pay for his groomsmen’s get-up or not. If you’re asking them to buy their own, make sure it’s not expensive!

    4. The small details

    It may seem as though most of the big expenses are for the bride’s parents to cover. However, there are a few smaller but no less important details for the groom’s account too. The most obvious are the bridal bouquets, corsages for the mother-of-the-bride and boutonnières for the groomsmen.

    5. The rings

    It only makes sense that the groom pays for his bride’s wedding band and she does the same for him. If you’re on a tight budget, look at more affordable metals or simply forgo wedding bands altogether.

    6. The honeymoon

    It’s something newlyweds really look forward to, whether it’s an island getaway or a local adventure – and it’s for the groom to plan and pay for! Some couples ask guests to make a contribution to a honeymoon fund rather than buy gifts.

    WHAT WE SAY

    If you choose to buck tradition, split the budget according to who can afford what. Here are some ideas:

    1. Chip in as a couple

    If you have money saved, what better way to spend it than on your wedding? Most of the guests attending will be your friends, so consider covering the music and bar tab, which you know they’ll get the most enjoyment from.

    2. Draw up a budget

    Sit down with all parties involved to discuss splitting the costs equally – it may just be a win-win for everyone.

    3. Pay for your own wedding dress

    Especially if your parents are paying for most of the wedding. You can find ways to cut costs in this department, from buying off the rack or on sale to asking friends or family who are talented seamstresses to help design your gown.

    4. Ask the groom’s family to cover the venue hire

    With the cost of decorations, food and staff, the reception can be a financial sting for the bride’s parents.