Your big day started with big gestures, and your bridesmaids should be included in these. Here are a few cute ways to ask those closest to you to be part of your wedding party.
In this day and age, it is quite a big ask (as bridesmaids are expected to perform a lot of duties) so asking those closest to you with a personalised gift of sorts makes their experience that much more special. No matter what you choose to gift in the bridesmaid proposal, make sure to include a letter written by yourself to each individual bridesmaid. You are asking them to give up a lot of their free time to be your bridesmaid, you can take the time to write a personal letter about why you would like them to be up there with you on your special day.
Here are 5 ways to ‘propose’ to your bridesmaids:
A cute piece of jewelry
A bottle of wine with a custom label
A bridesmaid hanger or robe
This is a great and easy way for everyone to hang up their dresses while getting ready or wear. It also makes for a great wedding photo with all the bridesmaid hangers and dresses together.
A framed picture of the two of you
A proposal box
You can combine a few of these ideas and create a proposal box filled with goodies that make your bridesmaid feel special. Perhaps include items that will help make their bridesmaid duties a little easier.
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Losing a family member is heartbreaking – and when it comes to getting married, their absence is often amplified. Acknowledging these special people can become overwhelming, especially when trying to maintain a celebratory atmosphere throughout your day.
Fortunately, weddings are sentimental occasions, leaving room for a myriad of ways to acknowledge those dearly departed. The trick is to strike a balance – honouring loved ones without turning your big day into a memorial service. Whether the gesture be small and personalised or open and public, there is always a tasteful way to do it.
Here are five simple and subtle ways to remember someone passed at your wedding:
Attach a small photo to your bouquet: This is particularly meaningful for a bride who has lost her father – a highly personal yet subtle gesture that is the perfect little reminder that your dad is walking you down the aisle in spirit.
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Incorporate old fabric into your suit or wedding gown: Keep the spirit of your lost loved ones close by – literally. Use mom’s wedding dress to create your own gown, or transform one of dad’s old ties into a trendy pocket square.
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Reserve a seat at the ceremony: Of course nothing compares to having your loved ones physically by your side but reserving them a seat while you say your “I dos” can be a special reminder of their irreplaceable presence. Mark their seat with a favorite flower or sentimental possession.
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Set up a photo display: This is a great option for couples who want to keep their tribute lighthearted. It avoids creating a heavy atmosphere for guests as family members can step aside to acknowledge deceased family members in private.
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Dedicate a song: Whether it is your first dance or just a casual slot on the playlist, dedicate a song to someone no longer around. Levels of discretion can be altered to your personal taste here; make a grand gesture with an announcement or toast or simply appreciate the special moment to yourself.
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Want a truly unforgettable wedding day? Of course you do! Pull it all together and throw the best wedding ever with our simple 7-step guide.
1. CONSIDER HIRING A WEDDING PLANNER
Many couples set out thinking they can accomplish planning a wedding on their own. In the case of smaller weddings, this is definitely achievable, but if you have big plans for yours, hiring an experienced professional is the way to go. Other than having the benefit of them taking the reins and allowing you to really enjoy yourselves, wedding planners can customise specific packages according to your needs and budget, and recommend trusted vendors they have worked with in the past.
2. TAKE TIME TO GREET ALL OF YOUR GUESTS
Some of them will have travelled from far just to attend your wedding. Show them just how much you appreciate their presence by taking time to greet everyone. It doesn’t have to be all at once – spread the quality time throughout the evening so you get around to spending time with each person; whether it be a quick chat over a drink, visiting their table during dinner, or shaking it out later on the dance floor.
3. SPEND 20 MINUTES JUST ENJOYING THE MOMENT
It may seem like an obvious thing to do, but you’ll probably be so wrapped up in other aspects of the wedding that you may even forget to just take a deep breath, relax and live in the present moment. Set aside a few minutes to tell your spouse how much you appreciate them and how you’re looking forward to experiencing this next chapter of your lives together.
4. CREATE CHARGING STATIONS
We’re sure you don’t want your guests glued to their phones the entire night, but having a few plug points with chargers available in well-placed areas is a nice (not to mention modern) way to show your guests you care. This will also encourage them to capture some pics for Instagram, so be sure to put up a sign nearby with your wedding hashtag if you have one.
5. HAVE AN MC
While it may seem unnecessarily formal, choosing a family member or friend with a commanding voice to be the master of ceremonies on the day will come in handy for announcements or gathering people for group photos. Try to keep speeches to a minimum to maximise dining and social time.
6. ASK FOR SONG REQUESTS
A great way to make sure your guests are grooving it up on the dance floor until the early hours is to ask them for song ideas. Lock down the ones that are most special to you and your partner first, but pepper the big day with submissions from your friends and family. Ask them to RSVP with their top pick, or allow them to ask the DJ to play their favourite tracks on the day.
7. SERVE LATE-NIGHT SNACKS
If you plan to extend the wedding festivities late into the night, you may want to cater for those still standing. The last thing you want is for your guests to go home hungry, so hire a food truck to dish out midnight snacks, such as boerie rolls, popcorn cones and gourmet sliders, or simply order a few pizzas for the really ravenous. A coffee stand is also a great option – guests will be grateful for a warming pick-me up.
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Known as one of the most famous private game reserves and neighbour to South Africa’s crown jewel the Kruger National Park, Sabi Sands Game Reserve offers guests a safari experience like no other in the world. Enjoy your chance to see the Big Five, luxurious accommodation to suit any taste, spectacular views and bird watching galore.
Sabi Sands Game Reserve was previously agricultural land. Due to all the cattle that appeared in the area, there was a great need for a reliable water source on the farms. In order for this water to be provided, boreholes had to be drilled to ensure that there was a steady supply of water. Years after Sabi Sands Game Reserve was established, all the boreholes that were drilled are still in perfect working condition. They now provide not only the cattle on surrounding farms with water but also all the wildlife on the game reserve, making Sabi Sands a prevalent place for great herds of animals.
Sabi Sands Game Reserve is home to many different lodges that all have something unique to offer. Some are luxurious, while others are simplistic and very affordable. The best part about Sabi Sands accommodation rates is the fact that all meals and safari activities are included.
Chitwa Chitwa Lodge
The style of the lodge is art inspired with a fusion of African tradition and culture. The largest Sabi Sands lakes are in perfect view upon staying at the Chitwa Chitwa lodge. Its design encompasses a large amount of space and cosy camping grounds, which reflects a sophisticated and serene atmosphere. It includes eight suites each with its own plunge pool.
Ulusaba Game Reserve
The reserve includes breathtaking views of soothing greenery such as hills and trees. Ulusaba Private Game Reserve is a member of Virgin Limited Edition’s award-winning compilation of retreats.
Notten’s Bush Camp
The lodge is elegant and tranquil. Notten’s is one of the original family-run lodges in Africa, and is undoubtedly a gem within the Sabi Sands Game Reserve. Being one of the original lodges on the reserve, its atmosphere is magical and offers a unique African safari experience.
Lion Sands Game Reserve
Filled with serenity, the award-winning Lion Sands is the only private reserve to have access to the perennial Sabie River, which it shares with Kruger National Park. You will find five beautiful lodges here, so there’s always one that will suit your taste!
Sabi Sabi Game Reserve
Sabi Sabi focuses on the present, past and future. Within the Sabi Sands, Sabi Sabi comprises three gorgeous themed camps: yesterday’s colonial romance, today’s classic bush experience, and tomorrow’s African renaissance.
Singita Sabi Sands Lodges
Private and conservative, Singita’s guests have the opportunity to explore and experience this amazing part of Africa. It includes 45 000 acres and leopard sightings are a regular experience.
Dulini Game Reserve
The Dulini Game Reserve has some of the most amazing lodges such as Dulini River Lodge, Leadwood Lodge and Dulini Lodge, each providing its own form and taste of luxury in a rugged bushveld setting.
Elephant Plains Lodge
Elephant Plains Lodge offers guests a comfy and stylish stay with reasonably priced luxury. This is a family-owned lodge and can accommodate up to 24 guests at a time.
Arathusa Safari Lodge
The lodge depicts a classic lakeside safari. Arathusa is the place to try out if you’re looking for an affordable wildlife and safari experience in a traditional camping site. The chalets at this lodge have amazing lakeside views, which allow you to grab a chair and watch some of the game right where you stay.
Leopard Hills Lodge
Filled with hilltop grandeur, at this lodge you can expect to see breathtaking views of the African bush. It offers eight luxury suits and the best safari stay, where you are able to relax in your personal swimming pool and watch the sunset from your bedroom.
& Beyond Kirkman’s Kamp
This lodge is known to be a well-known historic camping site that was originally built in the 1920s. It exudes feelings of luxury in an early rural living space, with a touch of classic style and an ambience like no other.
Nkorho Bush Lodge
The lodge is stylish yet modest. This lodge can accommodate 12 guests in stylish thatched-roof chalets, offering guests the attention they require. With en suite bathrooms and spacious rooms, who wouldn’t want to stay here?
Londolozi Game Reserve
Londolozi is one of the groundbreaking Private Game Reserves of the ecotourism commerce in South Africa and is family-run, with the option of five chalets to choose from.
Savanna Game Lodge
Classic with touches of semi-tented Savannah, this lodge is an old time favourite and a true South African lodge. Situated in perfect view of the Big Five at just about any point of the day, it’s definitely a lodge loved by guests.
Idube Game Lodge
This lodge offers an affordable African Safari. Idube Game Lodge is family-owned and located in a crucial game area. An array of animals can be seen close to the lodge daily, with suites that include their own private deck, making them great for guests to view the wildlife.
Inyati Safari Lodge
Inyati Game Lodge is located right on the banks of the Sand River, offering the most amazing views. Recently all of its chalets were refurbished offering a luxurious stay.
Silvan Safari Lodge
The Silvan safari lodge depicts a deep love and understanding for Africa; these are the main elements that characterise the story of Silvan Safari Lodge. If you need your spirit to be uplifted and fall in love with Africa, this is the place to be.
Cheetah Plains Lodge
Soulful and affordable with beautiful ethnic designs and eight luxury rooms, the Cheetah Plains Lodge offers an experience like no other, with amazing service. If you’re looking to experience a raw African safari, this is the perfect place for you.
Umkumble Safari Lodge
Umkumble Safari Lodge promises guests a personal rustic and real safari experience, with six affordable lodges in view of the Sand River.
Mala Game Reserve
With years of experience in service, Mala Game Reserve offers some of the finest safari experiences. Guests are able to relax in a peaceful and scenic environment that is both stylish and elegant.
Simbambili Game Lodge
Simbambili Game Lodge is the perfect lodge themed around Moroccan simplicity and sophistication. Its one of a kind views like no other.
For more information, visit sabi-sands.com
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