Some believe you make your own luck, others hold fast to age-old traditions and superstitions. We’re not here to judge. In fact, many cultures swear by certain dates and times as being good for marriages, while naming other months as a wedding date will undoubtedly extract a gasp from some.
An old rhyme would guide many in choosing their wedding month through the years (although it does seem to revolve around the weather of the northern hemisphere, so you might want to take it with a pinch of salt). We take a look at some of the months that will see you have a long and happy marriage, and which months to steer clear of.
When to say ‘I do’:
February: “Married in February’s sleepy weather, Life you’ll tread in tune together.”
June: “Married in month of roses – June – Life will be one long honeymoon.”
July: “Married in July, with flowers ablaze, Bitter-sweet mem’ries in after days.”
August: “Married in August’s heat and drowse, Lover and friend in your chosen spouse.”
September: “Married in September’s golden glow, Smooth and serene your life will go.”
November: “Married in veils of November mist, Fortune your wedding-ring has kissed.”
December: “Married in days of December cheer, Love’s star shines brighter from year to year.”
When to say ‘I don’t’
January: “Married in January’s hoar and rime, Widowed you’ll be before your prime.”
March: “Married when March winds shrill and roar, Your home will lie on a distant shore.”
April: “Married ‘neath April’s changeful skies, A chequered path before you lies.”
October: “Married when leaves in October thin, Toil and hardships for you begin.”
The rhyme and its wisdoms sourced from Chest of Books.
Also read: Lucky and unlucky days to get married
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Are you a big fan of happily ever after? Well, why not say ‘I do’ at the happiest place on earth – Disneyland!
Disney darlings will adore this wedding location that brings their favourite movies like Beauty and the Beast and Cinderella to life.
There are Disneyland destinations in Florida, California, Hawaii, Tokyo, Paris and even aboard a Disney cruise. The various Disney theme parks across the world offer multiple wedding packages for engaged couples to pick and choose from.
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“Memories to cherish forever are about to be made. Each Disney wedding destination offers something unique, something any couple can get excited about and something all your guests can enjoy,” says the company. “World-famous theme parks, award-winning Resort hotels and luxury ocean liners can’t help but make your celebration magical and the perfect prelude to the rest of your lives together. Decide where your fairy tale will begin.”
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Couples can arrive in style in Cinderella’s horse-drawn carriage, tie the knot next to Sleeping Beauty’s castle and even enjoy a Disney-themed wedding cake.
Count your favourite Disney characters in as wedding guests! Mickey Mouse, Aladdin, Mulan and a host of other popular characters can make an appearance at your big day. Couples may even arrange private performances by the renowned Disney entertainers for an extra fee.
Disneyland offers in-house wedding experts, including a day-of coordinator – who handle everything involved in the planning process.
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These packages, however, don’t come cheap. The prices typically include location rental, the ceremony fee, reception food and beverages and the wedding specialists. There are a host of additional services couples may choose from to enhance their event.
Location and ceremony fees range from $2,600 – $10,000 depending on the specific venue chosen. Food and drink is per person, and prices range from $145 to $190 per person depending on whether you want brunch, lunch or dinner.
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What’s a wedding without flowers? From the bridal bouquet to centrepiece arrangements, flowers have become an integral part of the big occasion.
While roses are popular for obvious reasons, there are so many stunning flowers with meanings just as romantic. If you’re planning your bouquet, consider one of these flowers.
Salvia
This adorable flower has different meanings depending on its colour. A blue salvia says ‘thinking of you’ while a red one means ‘forever mine’. We think the red varietal is pretty fitting for a wedding day.
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The Sound of Music fans might be even more inclined to incorporate this flower in their bouquet, considering its sweet meaning. The flower stands for courage and devotion, both of which are necessary for a healthy marriage.
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Those keen to tie the knot may now do so during Level 3 lockdown. However, there are strict conditions to stick to.
During a media briefing, Home Affairs minister Aaron Motsoaledi exlained that people may marry at a Home Affairs office or with a marriage officer. No wedding ceremonies are permitted, and a maximum of two witnesses are allowed.
“We are not allowing wedding ceremonies, but people can go to Home Affairs Department to get married,” he said. “We made it very clear about the conditions [for marriages] two people who are getting married and two witnesses, no crowds.”
“Because the majority of marriage officers are ministers of religion, we have also said the same thing – if a minister of religion is going to marry couples in their office, the couple must come with only two witnesses. We don’t allow crowds there.”
Home Affairs will also open other services, such as the registration of births, the re-issuing of birth certificates, and the collection of IDs.
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