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    In this series we’ll be featuring Lisa Brown International’s recent styled shoot, paying tribute to the late Karl Lagerfeld, and showcasing her graduate students’ work. First up, we take a look at how incorporating bold hair accessories with sleek, old-Hollywood hair resulted in a timeless hair affair:

    Big, chunky pearl sliders and a glitter barrette keep hair neatly tucked behind your ear.

     

    A single barrette that matches your earrings looks clean and simple, while being functional. Earrings from Jade SA (www.jade-sa.co.za)

     

    Bold hair clips on either side of your parting help keep hair sleek and neat. Use two of the same on either side, or mix and match!

     

    A big headpiece might be daunting, but if the rest is kept simple, it can be quite striking. Earrings from LE RU (www.le-ru.co.za)

     

    It’s sweet and delicate – a detailed hairpiece can be the ideal choice for fine hair while still providing stability.

    All images by Pritti by Migneon Marais Photography

    Make-up and hair by Lisa Brown International
    Dresses all by Cindy Bam
    Styling by Claudia Waschefort from CW Make-up & Styling
    Coordinated by Love Lienkie Events
    Furniture & Decor Styling by Country Daughters
    Shot on location at La Paris Estate, Franschhoek

    Lavender truly is a versatile little bloom. Used to calm and soothe you before bedtime, fill up your garden with sweet scents and pastel colours, or, in your wedding florals. Although it’s not a common first choice when picking blooms for your bouquet, table or installations, it really should be. Here are a few clever ways on how to incorporate lavender into your special day:

    Confetti

    It’s hardy enough to dry without breaking, and won’t litter the environment like plastic and glitter will.

     

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    Lavender – the flower of devotion ?⠀ ⠀ Thank you to the florists and clients who reached out this past year to include some of my lavender as part of their wedding celebrations & decor. Creating a wedding collection as part of my lavender line has been in the books even before we had a lavender in the ground. Now that we have an established crop, my plan for 2020 is to offer couples a collection that includes lavender wedding toss, lavender bouquets, lavender boutonnières, lavender aisle markers, lavender place settings & centerpieces, and of course bunches of lavender for the DIY-er ?.⠀ ⠀ I want to hear from you! ? Brides, Grooms, Florists, Event Planners, and Lavender Lovers….let me know what you want to see! Please share your ideas below?or send me a note✍️! If you are looking for some inspiration, head over ? to my Lavender Wedding Board on Pinterest to see some of my favourite picks. ? Link in bio ?. _ _ _ #lavenderwedding #lavendertoss #lavenderweddingtheme #lavenderweddingflowers #weddingdecorideas #lavenderlove #countrywedding #countryweddings #pembylife #seatoskywedding #whistlerwedding #squamishwedding #rockymountainbride #weddinginthemountains #weddinginthemeadow #themeaningofflowers #fromthegardenshed

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    Bouquet or bridesmaids’ bouquets

    If you’re going for a more dainty, rustic type of aesthetic, lavender is the perfect pick for a long-lasting and budget-friendly addition, or to use alone.

     

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    Congratulations Carrie, you are a beautiful bride! ?: @klaarphotography

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    Add it to your invitation or stationary

    A single sprig of lavender attached to your invitations or escort cards will last longer than most flowers and will subtly scent the paper as well.

    Boutonnieres

    Small and detailed flowers work best for boutonnieres to provide that extra bit of detail to the groom or groomsmen’s ensembles.

     

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    Well, we are moved in! Every muscle hurts, but I’m loving the new place so far! ?❤️ #lavenderboutonniere

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    In your altar or chuppah

    It’s whimsical, a little wild and undeniably romantic. And because you need larger amounts of flowers to fill up the space, lavender offers a wallet-friendly alternative to more expensive flowers.

    Use it in your hair

    Instead of incorporating flowers that are bound to wilt and break off, pin small pieces of lavender sprigs and young blooms to your flower crown, in your updo or in your plait.

     

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    Our dried Lavender hair comb is a beautiful accent for any bride.

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    Decorate your lounge areas and tables

    Take small vases or pots and place bunches of lavender everywhere your guests will be lounging or sitting, perfect for an al fresco setting with the added bonus of being a natural insect repellent. Alternatively, place bunches of fresh lavender along the centre of your tables instead of traditional runners.

    Tie it to your chairs

    Small bunches of lavender tied to your seating area or along your aisle make for a fragrant sillage that will envelop while your guests are seated.

     

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    Bundles of rosemary and lavender to accent the ceremony aisle ~ best smelling aisle!

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    Add it to your dessert table or cocktails

    Food-grade lavender sprigs add a floral and slightly sweet flavour to your cake, tiny desserts, and even your cocktails and G&Ts.

    Give individual plants or seeds as favours

    A gift that keeps on giving is the ultimate gift. Give your guests seed pods or a small lavender plant to take home with them, plant and eventually harvest.

     

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    Lavender season #lavender #lavenderseason #lavenderfavors #weddingfavors #marturii #nunta #botez #marturiinunta #marturiibotez

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    When it comes to ‘business in the front and party at the back’, wedding dresses with gorgeous back detail have got it down.

    Whether you’re looking for something simple, modern or over the top, we’ve got all the (local!) inspiration you need for your dream wedding dress right here:

    Elbeth Gillis

    Robyn Roberts

     

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    Introducing: ✨ P E R L A ✨ Designed to appeal to the modern, relaxed bride who is looking for something a little bit different but still wants to feel comfortable on her wedding day. The geometric lace used for Perla’s bodice is really unique and we have a limited amount available. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Perla is part of our NEW Macao collection and is available to try on in our studio now ✨ by appointment only, visit www.robynroberts.co.za ✨ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #wedressdreams ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Can we also just take a moment to give some love to @nicola_katie who photographed our most recent shoot? She captured the delicacy of our dresses so beautifully and with such an artistic eye. We love your work, Nicola!

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    Anna Georgina

    Lena Lisa

    Cindy Bam

     

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    #cindybambride “I felt so amazing in my dress and loved working with you.” Laura

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    Vagabond

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    With so many beauty trends out there, constantly being reinvented, it’s difficult to choose exactly what you want your make-up to look like on your wedding day. Take these 4 looks, straight from the runway, as inspiration for a look that will be striking and timeless to boot.

    Berta Bridal

     

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    The @berta Show ❤️ Pics @collinpierson

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    Clean, polished skin is enhanced with the slightest contour and the perfect feline flick. Round it off with a nude, matte lip.

    Ines Di Santo

    Skin is prepped to look fresh and dewy, only covering imperfections, and finished off with a smattering of glitter on the lids and a nude lipgloss.

    Jenny Yoo

    Softly smoked out lids and subtle bronzer make for a perfectly classic combo. A touch of peachy lipstick completes the look.

    Justin Alexander

    Don’t be afraid of a bold lip – just keep the rest simple. Bold brows make for the perfect addition to tangerine-stained lips, along with fresh rosy cheeks.

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    Choosing a signature fragrance that represents who you are as a person is one thing, but finding a special one, separate from your everyday life, is another. If you’re planning to buy a special fragrance for your wedding day, take these thoughts into consideration:

    What do you like?

    Consider the type of fragrance you’re usually drawn to, and eliminate the ones you absolutely don’t like. If you want to try something new and different, make sure to get a sample of the fragrance so that you can wear it beforehand and figure out if it suits you. Remember, fragrances smell different on you than it does in a bottle. Furthermore, experiment and try out scents with different notes, but from the fragrance families you like. So if you usually wear a floral fragrance, try something with citrus notes – perfect for a summer ceremony al fresco. Or if you want something warmer for an evening reception, try jasmine, amber or musk notes.

    What flowers will you have at your wedding?

    Taking inspiration from your floral arrangements or bouquet is a clever way of tying your elements together, as well as creating a special scent memory. You’ll likely have beautifully fragrant flowers throughout your wedding space, so choose a fragrance that carries those same notes. If you’re having roses, choose a scent with geranium as one of the heart notes. If you’re having a forest of eucalyptus, choose a scent with fresh, herbaceous notes such as bergamot and pine. And if you’re using local fynbos and Proteas as your floral focus, go for a fragrance with woody or earthy notes such as vanilla, sandalwood and oud.

    Will you and your partner share the fragrance?

    Although you and your partner probably don’t usually share the same fragrance, it’s a good idea to do that for your wedding. Your sense of smell is directly linked to the olfactory processing system in the memory part of your brain, which is why a certain fragrance can immediately take you back to a certain moment in your life. With this olfactory element, it also triggers emotions, which your wedding day will definitely be filled with. Choose a fragrance that will represent both your personalities, with an added element that represents you as a couple, too. If you like a floral fragrance, and your partner likes something spicy, combine the two, then add a note of something you both like, like the smoky scent of a campfire or the crisp scent of freshly cut grass.

    Carry your scent through

    After you’ve picked your wedding fragrance, whether you and your partner will share it or not, carry the fragrance through to the rest of the space as well. A lot of fragrance houses have candles and diffusers within the same fragrance range, so place these elements on the tables, in the bathrooms or in spaces where guests will be spending a lot of time to create a sillage that goes beyond just you.

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    You wake up on the day of your wedding and your skin is on fire. Although it’s not ideal, there are easy ways to soothe and calm skin down in a flash by following a few simple steps and being prepared.

    In advance

    It’s an absolute fact that stress and anxiety causes inflammation, which could potentially worsen conditions like eczema, psoriasis and general sensitivity. It also disrupts your sleep pattern, leading to less efficient time for your skin to recover and, thus, a duller appearance. However, saying you should reduce stress and actually doing it are two very different things. But it is crucial to your skin’s sanity. Helping your body and mind relax a little could be as simple as going for a walk, taking a well-deserved nap or starting your day with a few minutes of meditation. This will help reduce cortisol levels which will bring down inflammation. Along with that, make sure you drink enough water to keep your skin hydrated from the inside and up your energy levels.

    The day before

    Try to keep your skin as clean as possible the day before – that means no make-up, no harsh products, and no crazy masks or treatments. Also, stay out of the sun completely. Avoid salty food and alcohol as this can cause further puffiness. Before you go to bed, make sure your skin is properly cleansed and do a very light exfoliation with a formula that you trust. Lastly, seal in moisture with a good, hydrating moisturiser while your skin is still damp, then call it an early night.

    The day of

    If you’ve been taking proper care of your skin in the months and days leading up to the big day, you should be fine – but Murphy’s Law always has something else planned. Don’t fear, just reach for the ice. Should you wake up with red, itchy and inflamed skin on the morning of your wedding, wash your face with a gentle cream cleanser. It should contain ingredients such as chamomile, aloe vera, and lavender for an ultra calming effect. Then, take a few ice blocks and wrap them in a soft, damp face cloth or muslin cloth. Gently press the ice to irritated areas on your face for a good few minutes to help calm down inflammation and constrict blood vessels. Take this time to relax and lie down, or take a cool bath. Apply a soothing mask with a high aloe vera content afterward and keep it on until you need to start getting your make-up done.

    Our favourite redness-reducing heroes:

    Bioderma Cicabio Creme R236.95 Available at Clicks. Picture: Supplied
    The Body Shop Aloe Soothing Rescue Cream Mask R210 Available at The Body Shop Picture: Supplied
    Aloe Unique Aloe & Honey Gel Mask R119 Available online at aloeunique.co.za Picture: Supplied
    Dermalogica Calm Water Gel R949 Available online at dermalogica.co.za Picture: Supplied

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    The wedding between Prince Charles and Lady Diana was anything but happily ever after. To the avid royal follower, it was nothing short of a fairytale. From her dreamy ivory silk taffeta and antique lace gown, to her impressive 7.62m train and a 1.4m tulle veil – it was picture-perfect.

    What most didn’t know is that there were a string of unfortunate incidents throughout the day – even a princess has mishaps on her special day. Here are a few rather interesting things that didn’t go according to plan.

    Princess Diana Spilled perfume on the front of her dress. Picture: Fox Photos/Getty Images

    1. Spilled perfume

    After Diana put her gown on she tried to dab some perfume onto her pulse points and mistakenly dropped the bottle on her dress. According to her makeup artist, Barbara Daly, the signature scent created especially for her big day spilled down the front of the wedding gown. Daly tried frantically to wipe the dress but it left a large stain behind. The best advice Daly could give the princess was to hold the dress where the scent had spilled and pretend as though she is lifting it up to avoid tripping over it. Luckily, no one even noticed.

    2. The tiny carriage wrinkled her dress

    The ideal arrival is a horse-drawn carriage… unless you are wearing a massive ballgown with a 7.6m train and big puffy sleeves, of course. Lady Diana and her father John Spencer were transported to St Paul’s Cathedral in the Queen’s ceremonial glass coach. While very beautiful, the carriage is also rather small. When Diana hopped out of the carriage, her dress and train was noticeably creased. Alas, she had to walk down the aisle all a little wrinkled.

    3. Getting married was a headache

    Quite literally, according to Charles Spence, Diana’s brother, she had a massive headache the entire day because of the heavy tiara. While it is tradition to wear one of the Queen’s tiaras, Diana instead opted for a Spencer family heirloom, which weighed heavily on her head.

    4. The wrong name

    All of England loved her for it – when it came time to recite her vows at the alter, in front of the entire world watching, Diana mistakenly called the Prince, “Philip Charles” Arthur George, instead of “Charles Philip” Arthur George. A tongue twister of note, and with so many people watching, all was forgiven.

    5. Charles returned the favour

    Charles laughed off Diana’s faux pax, then returned the favour. While reciting his vows to her, he ‘accidentally’ changed the wording – instead of “my worldly goods,” he said “thy goods”.

    The lesson from all of these missteps? Some things will always go wrong – even fairytales don’t have it all together.

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    By Keenan Martin

    Traditionally, wearing white to someone else’s wedding would be a definite no-no, but as weddings become more contemporary, modern brides will often not even always wear white themselves, and wearing white if you’re not the bride seems to be less of a taboo, too. With that said, it’s always a good idea to ask the bride for permission, but we know how stressful weddings can be and those daring enough to bother the bride days before her wedding are braver than the marines. So we’ve put together four ways to wear white to someone else’s wedding, tastefully.

    Layering

    If white is going to be your main colour for your ensemble, try and break it up with some colour-blocked layering. Opt for coloured jackets, coats or shoes so you have something that will draw attention away from the fact that you’re wearing white.

    Prints

    If a solid-white garment seems too inappropriate, why not opt for a white-based print instead. Bold prints with vivid colours help make the overall whiteness of your ensemble less apparent.

    Silhouettes

     

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    It’s slightly easier to get away with wearing white at someone else’s wedding if the silhouettes and fabric of your outfit steer clear of those of traditional dresses, or whatever the bride and bridesmaids might be wearing.

    Accessories

     

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    ?: @thestylestalkercom PFW spring/summer 2020

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    Pile on the bold and colourful accessories – and watch your outfit transform as you make your white ensemble the canvas for the main attractions.

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    These are some of the biggest trends in wedding florals right now, and we don’t know which one we love most:

     

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    Long stem blooms and full skirts ❤️ ?@whitevinephotography

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    Long stem bouquets

    They’re elegant, classic and evoke a slightly more relaxed feel, as if you picked the flowers yourself just before the wedding. Stick to one type of flower, such as big white roses, or mix and match for a more bohemian vibe.

     

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    The joy, the light, the boho vibes. Perfect #fridaynight⠀ .⠀ Feature https://www.rockmywedding.co.uk/boho-wedding-dress/ .⠀ Photographer @jobradburyphotography⠀ Venue @wilderness_wedding_venue⠀ Styling @butlerwhiteweddings⠀ Florist @sassflower⠀ Rentals @cohire @toasthq & @butlerwhiteweddings⠀ Stationery @wonderland_invites⠀ Grazing Tabl @grapeandfig⠀ Naked Tipi @apache_events⠀ Dresses @ruedeseine⠀ Boutique @thewildheartlife⠀ Jewellery @thevamoose⠀ Hair @louise.e.hill⠀ Make-Up @amy.george.makeup⠀ Grooms Suit @mossbros⠀ Couple @jessica_dessica & @sbarham⠀ Workshop Organised by @wildonescommunity⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #bohoweddingdress #bohowedding #bohobride #bohostyle #bohemianwedding #bohemianweddingdress #behemianbride #driedweddingflowers #pampasgrass #moroccanrug #kentweddingvenue #outdoorwedding #wildernessweddings #weddingdecor #weddingideas #weddinginspiration #ruedeseinebride #ruedeseineweddingdress #weddingdress #weddinggown #bridalgown #weddingday #weddingseason #summerwedding #grazingtable #rockmywedding #yourdayyourway #RMWthelist #whenyousayyes

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    Dried leaves and petals

    If you love a more rustic feel, this trend is right up your alley. Use it in addition to the rest of your floral arrangements, or make it the main attraction by using pampas grass, dried and pressed flowers, sheaves, and hops.

     

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    Wildflower about you ✨ . . . . ? @danafernandezphoto ? @mibellarosa HMU @heylovelymakeup

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    More is more

    Be it cascading flowers, an overload of greenery or massive installations to create a feeling of nature, more is more, and modesty is irrelevant.

    Colour overload

    Forget floral arrangements resembling your overall colour scheme. Incorporating tons of vibrant colours and hues into your bouquets, table settings, aisle and backdrops will make a bold statement and add to the overall festive feeling.

    Local flavour

    Instead of shelling out on imported or out-of-season flowers, have a look at what’s immediately availabe, locally grown and sustainable. This won’t just save you a lot of money, but will add a special touch to your decor, as well as keep your carbon footprint low.

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    Wedding season is around the corner, and with that, lovely South African summer weddings. And although we love the warm evenings and longer days, a summer wedding does come with its fair share of drawbacks. We’ve gathered some solutions to help you keep your cool, and your guests comfortable.

     

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    Just in time for the heatwave… ? ⠀ ⠀ Themal water is excellent for refreshing, but it can dry your skin out. Try this natural DIY face mist instead! It’s perfect for the hot days, conditioned rooms, and planes: you can bring a small bottle in your carry-on. ⠀ ⠀ ? Moisturizing Rose Water DIY Face Mist ? ⠀ ⠀ You’re going to need:⠀ ? 1 part of distilled water⠀ ? 1 part of rose water⠀ ? 5-7 drops of your favorite essential oil(s), e.g., lavender, jasmine, rose geranium, tea trea, bergamot… ⠀ ⠀ ? Blend all of these together in a spray bottle or mister and spritz on your face whenever you feel like it. Oh, and don’t forget to reapply your SPF and drink another glass of cool water!⠀ ⠀ ? Keep in mind that you may have individual reaction to some essential oils. ⠀ ⠀ #thermalwater #heatwave #staycool #diyfacespray #diyfacemist #facespray #facemist #diy #naturalskincare #naturaldiy #naturalcosmetics #skincareroutine

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    DIY mists

    We love a good DIY project, and this one is particularly practical. It will not only help keep your guests cool (and smelling lovely), but could serve as a nifty little favour as well.  You’ll need:

    • Small bottles with fine-mister nozzles (you can buy them at most bulk plastic suppliers)
    • Distilled water
    • Glycerin (a few drops per bottle)
    • Essential Oils (a few drops per bottle)

    Combine all the ingredients in the bottles, and shake well. Try peppermint, lemongrass or lavender essential oils for a fresh, invigorating scent that repels bugs at the same time.

    Citronella candles

    No matter where you are, mosquitoes always somehow manage to join the party and bring an unwelcome annoyance. Place citronella candles or diffusers with citronella essential oil on tables inside and outside, close to food, or wherever your guests will spend the most of time, to keep the bugs away.

    Drink up!

    Yes, your guests will most likely be sipping champagne, cocktails and the like, but it’s important to also have plenty of water available too. Alcohol causes us to develop a slight flush, even if it’s not noticeable in some people, leading to higher body temperature and dehydration to some degree, and even more so in hot weather. Have jugs and bottles of ice-cold water ready at a dedicated hydration station so guests have no excuse not to stay hydrated.

    Individual parasols and fans

    If you’re having an outside ceremony, it’s essential to provide your guests with some sort of shelter against the blistering sun. If you don’t plan on having umbrellas, provide your guests with individual parasols that they can use during the ceremony. Fans are also ideal to offer your guests to give them the option of fanning themselves during the ceremony as well as the rest of the night during dance breaks.

     

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