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    Getting married is a large step in life, one that some brides start preparing for years in advance. In many cultures, it is common for women to have a bridal trousseau, a collection of items that will ease them into married life.

    Trousseau is derived from the old French diminutive trousse, which means ‘to wrap or bundle in a package’. While the contents may differ from bride to bride, the overarching idea behind the trousseau is to start your wedding and marriage on the right foot. Items that often feature in a bridal trousseau include clothing, jewelry, linens, bedding, pottery, and household appliances. These items are traditionally kept safe in a cedar hope chest or trunk.

    The bridal trousseau can be dated back hundreds of years and across various cultures, and was often considered a symbol of status. This practice saw its early roots in the form of dowries, and has been witnessed in ancient civilizations including Babylon, Greece, and the Roman Empire.

    It reached its peak in popularity during the Renaissance, specifically in France. Brides with wealthy families would fill a chest with items like linens, dresses, bedding and homeware to prepare her for her future marriage. The fuller and more ornate the trousseau, the higher the bride’s status. Those from a lower economic class often hand-made items to put into the trousseau.

    A bridal handkerchief was a must-have item in these days. Historically, the Romans were said to wet the handkerchief with perfume and brides would wear it over their shoulders or neck. Once the French got hold of this, it became a practice reserved for royalty or the upper class.

    By the mid-19th century, brides of all classes had adopted this trend and began sporting handkerchiefs customised with the initials of the bride and groom, interlaced as a representation of their union.

    The trousseau tradition has waned in popularity over the years, and shed its connotations with wealth and class. It is still commonly witnessed in Indian culture, and some Cape Malay families in South Africa also uphold the practice.

    A modern version of this concept is experienced through the process of registering for wedding gifts, hosting a bridal shower, and saving family heirlooms.

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    The most iconic wedding dress in history is making its Netflix debut. The highly anticipated fourth season of The Crown will tell the story of when Prince Charles met and married Princess Diana, and fans cannot wait to see the dress brought to life.

    Actress Emma Corrin will step into the shoes of the iconic Diana in the new season, and Netflix has just shared the first look of the famous wedding dress.

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    The dress was created by award-winning costume designer Amy Roberts, in collaboration with one of the original dresses designers, David Emmanuel.

    “Without access to the original patterns, Amy collaborated with David Emmanuel. He was enormously helpful, talking the design team through the detail of many of the original drawings to help them create this gown for Emma Corrin,” Netflix explained.

    “Four months and five fittings later, with three people spending a collective 600 hours working, they had a dress. It’s made of 95 metres of fabric and 100 metres of lace, with a train that is approximately 30 metres long.

    “The Nottingham based team who made the lace on the Emmanuel’s original dress also made the lace for this one. Sadly the man who worked on the real-life dress passed away, but it’s his son who worked on the one you’ll see in The Crown,” Netflix added.

    Netflix’s The Crown will be released on the platform on November 15. Watch the trailer for the new season below.

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    KFM host Tracey Lange is a married woman. The radio presenter said ‘I do’ to longterm partner Avukile Mabambo after being engaged for a year.

    The pair tied the knot on Thursday, October 1 at the Old Foundry Hotel in Cape Town. For her special day, Lange opted for a tea-length Anene Ferreira dress that was made in 26 days.

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    Her bouquet was an ode to her deceased father.

    “When my Dad passed away, Kyra told my Mom to save a few of his ties for one day when I get married,” she explained on her social media. “How lovely that on his birthday on Thursday, we could wrap that tie around the stems of my bouquet. It felt like he was holding my hand throughout the day.”

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    After their vows, the newlyweds used the City of Cape Town as their backdrop for their wedding photos. They posed on the iconic Red Bus, and strolled through the. Mother City streets.

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    Congratulations to the happy couple!

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    Afrojack is a married man. The world renowned DJ tied the knot with Italian heiress Elettra Lamborghini in a lavish ceremony on Saturday, September 26.

    The pair said ‘I do’ at the Villa Balbiano in Lake Como, Italy. Elettra wore a sheer white fishtail gown with lace detailing by Galia Lahav for the reception, and had multiple changes throughout the day.

    They had their closest family and friends in attendance.

    Their massive six-tier cake was a true showstopper.

    Elettra (26) is the granddaughter of Ferruccio Lamborghini, the founder of motor company Lamborghini. She is also a former reality star, known best for her appearance on UK show Geordie Shore.

    The couple have been together for two years, and announced their engagement in December 2019. They tied the knot on their second anniversary.

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    The Bieber’s are honouring a special milestone. Although they’ve been married for two years, they recently celebrated the one-year anniversary of their star-studded wedding ceremony.

    The pair, who first married in a small courthouse wedding in 2018, tied the knot with a much larger wedding ceremony in Montage Palmetto Bluff, Bluffton, South Carolina on September 30.

    Taking to social media, the pair both wrote loving messages to honour the occasion.

    “Hailey Bieber. I am so lucky to be YOUR husband! You teach me so much everyday and make me such a better man!” wrote the ‘Baby’ singer. “I am committed for the rest of our lives to empower you to be the woman God has called you to be! My heart is to enable you to achieve all of your wildest dreams! I promise to always put you first, to lead with patience and kindness!! Happy anniversary my beautiful sweet girl”

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    Sharing her own image from their big day, model Hailey wrote: “1 year ago we had the best wedding. Wish I could live this day over and over.”

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    The model wore a lacy white gown designed by Virgil Abloh for Off-White on her special day. The custom gown features an off-the-shoulder neckline with long sleeves and a low back and elegant train. However, the statement piece is the lengthy veil, which has “’till death do us part” stitched onto it in white block lettering. The veil is also lined with lace to match the gown.

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    According to People Magazine, the wedding had 154 guests in attendance including many of the couple’s celebrity friends such as Kendall and Kylie Jenner, Justine Sky, Jaden Smith, Joan Smalls, and Justin’s manager Scooter Braun.

    Grammywinning singer Daniel Caesar performed at the wedding, People confirmed.

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    Another South African celebrity couple is celebrating a special anniversary. It has been one year since rapper Priddy Ugly (real name Ricardo Moloi) and musician and host Bontle Modiselle tied the knot, and the pair seem happier than ever.

    Taking to social media, Priddy Ugly gushed about his wife on their special day.

    “This picture genuinely represents what the last 11 years have felt like, complete bliss,” he wrote on his Instagram page. “MaAfrika Moloi, I am honored to be the man that you chose to travel along this life’s journey with. Witnessing your growth, from when we were teens, to students in tertiary, to being independents, to marriage & parenthood, I couldn’t be more proud of the people we’ve become. Our 1st year of marriage flew by so fast, I’m hoping the next 70 are a lot more prolonged, I’m enjoying the ride.

    Happy 1year Anniversary Beautiful @bontle.modiselle – I Love You ❤️??

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    Bontle also had some sweet words for her longterm love.

    “Ntate Moloi, you’re a very special man to me. A Purposeful life-long friendship and union. You fill my cup. You make me happy. Thank you for the life we continue to share together. Ke ho rata ka pelo le moya. A year in marriage down, a lifetime to go! I love you @priddy_ugly ❤️✨ Happy Anniversary!” she wrote.

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    The pair have been together for over a decade, and tied the knot in a traditional ceremony on September 28 in Kempton Park. At the time, Bontle was pregnant with their first child, Afrika who was born a few months later.

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    When the officiant says ‘Speak now or forever hold your piece’, the only appropriate response is silence. Unfortunately for this couple, the groom’s father had quite a bit to say and used this opportunity to express himself.

    The father ruined his son’s wedding in Detroit, USA when he let his future daughter-in-law know exactly how he felt. In a video shared to Youtube, the father can be heard saying “I know you’re not serious, man. I know you’re not serious,” as the congregation looks on in shock.

    The officiant attempts to ignore him and move on with the vow exchange, but the father persists. The bride, clearly agitated, gets into an argument with the father who refuses to back down.

    The bride even asks someone to escort the father out. “If you did not want to come, you can leave. You shouldn’t have come if you did not want us to get married,” she says through tears.

    The situation continues to escalate and even becomes physical. Some congregants step in to break the brawl up and the bride walks away in tears. The father eventually exits as well, leaving a pretty awkward wedding ceremony and what we can only imagine was a tense reception.

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    It’s been one whole year since iconic South African couple Somizi Mhlongo and Mohale Motaung first tied the knot in a lavish traditional ceremony.

    The couple, dubbed #SomHale on social media, wed in a lavish traditional African ceremony at Kibler Park, Johannesburg on Saturday, September 28. They had numerous – often matching – outfit changes throughout the day.

    Taking to Instagram, Somizi wrote a sweet message to his husband on the anniversary of their special day.
    “Happy one year wedding anniversary to us……please help me convince my husband that we go on live this evening to share what the first year of marriage feels like and us like…….I feel like theres a lot if things that we are not told about by newly weds that cud be helpful to anyone who is about to get married……but whatever it is that we have experienced got us to where we are today…….I love u MOTAUNG MHLONGO,” he wrote.

     

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    “Last year on this day I got married to the Love Of My Life. ?❤️❤️ #SomhaleTraditionalWedding #28/09/2019,” Mohale wrote on his Instagram.

     

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    Not one to be outdone, the pair followed their traditional wedding up with an extravagent white wedding on Thursday, January 30 and had planned a third wedding in Italy for June 2020 but had to cancel due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

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    Who knew the wrong song could make or break you? According to a new survey, the wedding song you choose for your first dance may heavily impact on your marriage.

    A recent survey by online marketplace OnBuy.com asked 5500 married couples in Britain what their first dance song was and how they would describe their relationship now.

    Elton John’s ‘Can You Feel The Love Tonight’ came out tops as the song with the happiest couples post-wedding. A reported 506 couples chose this song to sway to, and 77% of them are still in a happy marriage.

    Other songs happy couples danced to on their wedding night include:

    – ‘Isn’t She Lovely’ by Stevie Wonder (75%)

    – ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ by Frank Sinatra (74%)

    – ‘A Whole New World’ from Aladdin by Lea Salonga & Brad Kane (71%)

    – ‘At Last’ by Etta James (71%)

    – ‘You Are So Beautiful’ by Westlife (70%)

    – ‘You’ll Be In My Heart’ by Phil Collins (70%)

    – ‘ I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ by Aerosmith (69%)

    – ‘Your Song’ by Elton John (64%)

    – ‘Better Together’ by Jack Johnson (64%)

    Of those who danced the night away to One Direction’s ‘Little Things’, 75% were the most likely to be unhappy, separated or divorced. Other songs that future unhappy couples danced to include:

    – ‘I’m Yours’ by Jason Mraz (61%)

    – ‘Chasing Cars’ by Snow Patrol (56%)

    – ‘Skinny Love’ by Birdy (54%)

    – ‘You’ve Got a Friend In Me’ by Andy Newman (52%)

    – ‘Stay With You’ by John Legend (49%)

    – ‘Everything’ by Michael Bublé (49)

    – ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ by Elvis Presley (48%)

    – ‘Perfect’ by Ed Sheeran (42%)

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    Looking for an uncommon ring setting? We’ve got the perfect one. The bezel setting is an uncommon choice, and offers a highly unique look.

    This setting has been around for decades, and is actually one of the oldest in the history of jewellery design. Poppy Delevigne and Mary-Kate Olsen have rocked this look.

    Also known as the Rubover, this setting gives off an Art Deco aesthetic perfect for a bold bride. Here’s what you need to know.

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    A bezel setting features diamonds that are completely or partially encircled by a thin border of a precious metal holding it in place. The surface of the ring is thus smooth. Also called a tube setting, it helps to accentuate the diamond and offers a contemporary look. This setting works best with round stones, but can be used on any shape from pear to heart.

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    Because the stone is held securely in place, this setting is highly durable and protects the diamond very well. This is perfect for fragile stones. It also prevents anything snagging on the stone or knocking it, making it perfect for a wearer with an active lifestyle.

    However, this setting conceals a large part of the stone. It can also be the more expensive option because it requires much more precious metal and is more labour intensive.

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