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    A new policy is in the works at the Department of Home Affairs (DHA) that will bring changes to marriage laws in South Africa.

    The DHA, during a presentation to parliament, argued that the existing policies which deal with marriages are not rooted in consitutional values such as nondiscrimination and equality.

    According to Business Tech, the DHA said that while there have been many changes since 1994, there are still many flaws in the existing legislation. “For instance, the current legislation does not regulate some religious marriages such as the Hindu, Muslim and other customary marriages that are practised in some African or royal families,” they said.

    They acknowlegded that due to the diversity in this country, it would be very difficult to draw up laws which regulate every existing cultural marriage. However, they have begun a process of creating a marriage policy which they hope will “lay a policy foundation for drafting a new single or omnibus legislation.”

    Business Tech reported some of the key changes which will be instituted by the policy:

    • The new Marriage Act will enable South Africans of different sexual orientation, religious and cultural persuasions to conclude legal marriages;
    • The introduction of strict rules around the age of marriage (including the alignment of age of majority in the marriage legislation to the Children’s Act);
    • It will align the marriage, matrimonial property and divorce legislation to address matrimonial property and intestate succession matters in the event of the marriage dissolution;
    • It will allow for equitable treatment and respect for religious and customary beliefs in line with Section 15 of the Constitution.
    • It will deal with the solemnisation and registration of marriages that involve foreign nationals;
    • It will deal with the solemnisation and registration of customary marriages that involve non-citizens especially cross-border communities or citizens of our neighbouring countries.

    The DHA said that the new policy is to be gazetted in the 2020/21 financial year, for the purpose of consultation from the public. Thereafter, it will be submitted to cabinet by the end of March 2021, in order to be approved.

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    Even though we can’t have formal weddings right now, doesn’t mean you can’t still have an at-home celebration!

    Many couples have taken to livestreaming their big day via Zoom or social media to share their wedding with loved ones. If you plan on doing the same, you’ll want your bridal look to be on point.

    Unfortunately, since you can’t have a professional hairstylist do your hair right now, you’ll have to do that part yourself. Luckily, there are tons of easy-to-follow Youtube tutorials that can help even the most uncoordinated person look sleek and stylish.

    Here are a few different styles you might want to try out:

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    Get ready to plan your wedding without leaving your home. SA Bridal Fairs is hosting the country’s first ever virtual bridal fair, allowing people to still plan their big day during lockdown.

    Brides and grooms can attend this virtual fair to get expert help on everything wedding, from wedding cakes, dresses, photographers, catering, venues, wedding planners, and much more, all from the comfort of your couch.

    How it works:

    On the day of the event, you will use your Registration Username & Password to enter the Virtual Bridal Fair.  Attendees will then work their way through each exhibitors page, interacting with those you wish to, entering the competitions and so on.

    There are three ‘halls’ featuring approximately 30-50 suppliers depending on province. Exhibitors at the Virtual Bridal Fair will be available to chat to brides and grooms via Live Chat channels. There is also the Bridal & Bridesmaids Gowns Show, showcasing a number of designs from local bridal boutiques and dressmakers, as well as the Bridal Information Pack Area.

    You will also find the Magazine zone and the Quick Quote System – On the last page you will be able to click on the exhibitor booth of any particular exhibitor to go back to ‘find out more’ etc.

    The SA Virtual Bridal Fairs events will take place on the following dates:

    Sunday 17th May – KZN

    Sunday 24th May – Gauteng

    Sunday 31st May – Western Cape

    Sunday 14th June – Free State

    Sunday 21st June – Mpumalanga

    Sunday 28th June – Eastern Cape

    To attend, simply register on the Bridal Fairs website and purchase your tickets. Each Registration Pass recipient will also receive a free Bridal Information Pack which includes the 75+ page Wedding Planning Template Bundle, the Wedding Planning Roadmap, the Weddings Suppliers Printable Directory, the SA Bridal Deals Ebook and more.

    Purchase your tickets HERE. Early bird tickets cost as little as R25.

    Visit the SA Bridal Fairs website for more information.

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    The world recently celebrated Mother’s Day and former First Lady Hillary Clinton delighted Instagram followers with a very special picture.

    Taken at her and former US president Bill Clinton’s daughter Chelsey’s 2010 wedding to Marc Mezvinsky, the stunning picture shows three generations with Hillary, her late mother Dorothy Howell Rodham and Chelsey. The picture was captioned “Happy Mother’s Day to these two mothers dearest to my heart. ”

    The bride stole the limelight in her Vera Wang dress, while Hillary wore a magical pink ombré gown from Oscar de la Renta.

     

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    Happy Mother’s Day to these two mothers dearest to my heart. ?

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    A cake topper from Guns n Roses guitarist Slash’s wedding is currently for sale on eBay for $3000. The decoration reportedly features his actual hair.

    The cake topper shows the figurines of a man and woman. The woman’s arms are outstretched seemingly pulling the man back toward her.

    The decor has been certified by Julien’s Auctions to be from Slash’s 2001 wedding to Perla Ferrar. Upon the couple’s divorce in 2018, the cake topper was given to the auction house.

    “Lot 112 is a sculpted plastic wedding cake topper custom fitted with top hat, veil and hair to represent Slash and Perla,” reads the text. “We are herein stating in writing that when Perla Hudson cosigned this property to Julien’s Auctions, she indeed told us that the hair on the cake topper belonged to Slash.”

    If you’d like to purchase this topper, here’s the link to eBay.

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    Many couples are no longer willing to wait for the nationwide lockdown to come to a close to have their wedding. Most are now opting for a livestream wedding, which allows their guests to attend their nuptials while safely social distancing.

    If you’re one of those who are in love and eager to get your married life started, then perhaps you’re leaning towards a Zoom ceremony. But since this is one of the most common wedding trends these days, you’ll likely want to do something to ensure that yours stands out from the rest.

    Here are some ways to make your livestream wedding special:

    Invite everyone

    Since you no longer have to be held back by the finances that comes with inviting people, you’re now able to invite absolutely everyone. The more the merrier! You’ll feel extra special once you see how many people turn out for your special day.

    Have everyone dress for the occassion

    This includes you. Everyone should be in their very best attire (no sweats allowed!).  After all, it’s one of the most important days of your life. If everyone gets dressed up, it’ll truly feel like a celebration.

    Don’t skip the toasts

    Your best man, maid of honour, and whoever else was going to give a toast should all still do so. Many people have slacked on the formalities on Zoom weddings, so to take it up a notch from the rest keep as much from the original plan as possible.

    Decorate

    Create a pretty backdrop for your wedding. Light some candles, play some music, add some fairy lights, do as much as you can!

    Consider all platforms 

    Some couples who have used Zoom found that the free version only allows for 40 minutes before it times out. If you don’t want a forced intermission, consider paying for the full version or using a different platform.

    Also read: The legality of Zoom weddings in SA 

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    Although her wedding to SNL writer Dave McCrary was postponed due to the coronavirus pandemic, Emma Stone’s latest appearance has many thinking she secretely tied the knot.

    During an interview with Reese Witherspoon and psychiatriatrist Harold S. Koplewicz on the Reese Witherspoon x Hello Sunshine YouTube channel, the actresses discussed living with anxiety during the pandemic. Stone appeared wearing a wedding band that looks very different to her pearl engagement ring.

    During the interview, Dr Koplewicz, who  speaks of associative mating and says, “If you marry an anxious man, you’re gonna have to know me the rest of my life.” Stone laughingly responds, “Thankfully I didn’t do that.”

    Fans immediately began speculating that the pair secretly got married during quarantine.

    Stone and McCrary announced thei engagment in December 2019. Stone’s vintage-inspired ring was designed by Tokyo-based designer Kataoka and features an eight-millimeter pearl at its center, surrounded by tiny diamonds.

    The pair were originally meant to marry in March 2020.

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    A year ago, Joe Jonas and Game of Thrones star Sophie Turner said ‘I do’ in an impromptu Las Vegas ceremony after the Billboard Music Awards.

    The pair married at the Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas in May 2019, in a ceremony officiated by an Elvis impersonator. During a video for GQ Magazine’s “Actually Me” series, Jonas reveals that the reason for this wedding was not that romantic.

    Jonas explains that the pair needed to legally marry in the States, as they planned to tie the knot in a big wedding in the South of France later in 2019.

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    “So we thought it would be really fun to get all of our friends, invite them out (to Vegas), and do an impromptu wedding,” he explained. “And we actually had some people that I didn’t even know that well there.”

    “Some people (in attendance) I am now closer with! Khalid was there! That was cool. And Diplo decided to livestream the whole thing.”

    Following the spontaneous wedding, Jonas did land in a bit of trouble with his parents.

    “My parents called me the next morning and they were like ‘Did you just get married?’ And I realised that I told everybody, but forgot to tell my parents. So, kids, make sure you tell your parents when you’re getting legally married!”

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    Zoom weddings and celebrations have been bringing people from all over the globe together. The trend has even managed to reunite the cast of popular TV show, The Office.

    Actor John Krasinski, who played Jim on The Office, has a YouTube channel called Some Good News. The purpose of his channel to to spread positive stories from across the globe in order to show that even during the toughest of times there are still good things happening and people are showing how we all come together.

    On this weeks episode of Some Good News, Krasinski showed off a newly engaged couple – Susan and John, from Maryland. John had proposed to Susan the same way Jim proposed to Pam in the TV show (outside a petrol station).

    Of course, this warranted Krasinski to get the cast together for a celebration of this special engagement. Additionally, the couple had hoped that Krasinski would attend their wedding, since he inspired their proposal. This was Krasinski’s way of attending the wedding.

    Taking it a step further, he enlisted the help of Jenna Fischer (who played Pam on the show) to be the maid of honour.

    Members of the cast including Jenna Fischer, Steve Carell, Rainn Wilson, Ed Helms, Mindy Kaling, B.J. Novak, Angela Kinsey, Brian Baumgartner, Phyllis Smith, Kate Flannery, Creed Bratton, Oscar Nunez and Ellie Kemper also came together to dance to Forever by Chris Brown. For fans of The Office, you’ll know that they did this at Jim and Pams wedding in the show!

    See the entire celebration below:

    Congrats to this lucky couple!

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    While their marriage was not a fairytale, one of the most iconic weddings to date is that of Princess Diana and Prince Charles. From those puffy sleeves to that trailing train, Princess Diana made many memorable fashion moments with her bridal attire, influencing brides for decades to come.

    In 1981, Lady Diana Spencer said “I do” to Prince Charles, making her a princess, both officially and in people hearts. The shoes she wore to walk down the aisle had a surpringly sweet hidden meaning.

    For her big day, Princess Diana opted to wear flats. Celebrity accessories designer Clive Shilton explains that she did this so that she would not appear taller than her future husband, as they were the exact same height.

    ‘Her main concern was that she wouldn’t appear taller than Prince Charles, and because she was very tall – 5ft 10in – the shoes would have to have a low heel.’

    The shoes were adorned with 500 sequins, over 100 seed pearls, satin and lace. The suede arches featured a sweet, romantic detail painted on them: the letters ‘C’ for Charles and ‘D’ for Diana, with a heart between them.

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    Other royals must have taken inspiration from Princess Diana since then. Megan Markle had fabric from the dress she wore on her first date with Prince Harry sewn onto her wedding gown, and her veil was embroidered with 53 flour and fauna to represent the Commonwealth countries. Kate Middleton’s wedding dress sleeves featuring floral embroidery representing the national emblems of England, Wales, Scotland, and Northern Ireland.

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