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Get inspired by nature and incorporate your favourite plants into your wedding decor. These invites are bursting with natural beauty yet modern and elegant.

Greenery is a popular trend in 2020 and you can incorporate it into your big day from your wedding invites all the way to your take-home favours. Botanical-inspired wedding invitations add a fresh, lively look that is the perfect way to introduce your wedding day in style. Here are some ideas to guide your way:

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Also read: Botanical wedding inspiration for nature lovers

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Your walk down the aisle is a magical moment, and you’ll want the scenery to reflect that. Line your path with stunning decor that beautifully pave your way to your loved one.

Considering the small space of an aisle, you don’t need to go big with decor. Simple floral bouquets or even signs will do wonders. Extend your wedding theme with specific flowers and colours to connect your ceremony to your reception.

Gather some inspiration from these wonderful walkways.

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Who doesn’t love a good glow? For the last few years, highlighter has become a crucial makeup step for many beauty lovers. Show off those popping cheekbones with a shimmering streak of highlighter that will liven up your look on your big day.

Highlighters come in a variety of shades to work for any skin tone. Whether you’re looking for a rose gold, pearl, golden or bronze finish, these tried and tested formulas will leave you looking like a glowing goddess. Here are our top picks:

Wet n Wild Megaglo Highlighting Powder Blossom Glow – R64.95 from Clicks

MAC Extra Dimension Skin Finish – R 495.00 from MAC South Africa

NYX Professional Makeup Born To Glow Liquid Illuminator Pure Gold – R159.95 from Clicks

Maybelline Master Chrome Metallic Highlighter – R 265 from Dischem

Benefit High Beam Liquid Highlighter – R195 from Edgars

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The million dollar question! If you were in a serious relationship before dating your current partner, you might wonder how to go about it. You can’t deny that they were a significant part of your life, but you also don’t want to create unnecessary tension or make anyone uncomfortable, least of all yourself or your new partner.

So, if it’s something you’re considering, it largely depends on a few factors. Keep these in mind when making your decision:

Do you have a relaxed friendship with them? If so, and hopefully in that case they are friends with your current partner too, of course you should invite them. That probably means you broke up on good terms and have put the past behind you. We say go for it.

If, however, things did not end on a good note and there is unfinished business, or unresolved feelings from their side (hopefully not from yours!), then it might be a no-go. You might think you are just being polite, but the truth is, you don’t owe them anything. Having them there might just create opportunity for a scene you don’t want.

If they are the plus-one of an invited guest, but you did not actually plan on inviting your ex, discuss this with your partner and the invited guest. If it makes you or your spouse uncomfortable, you can talk to the guest and sensitively explain why you don’t think it’s a good idea. Any reasonable person would understand if they are made aware of the situation.

Lastly, in which ever scenario you find yourself, avoid two things: Trying to make your ex jealous with your new partner, and disregarding your new partner’s feelings. If you’re trying to make anyone jealous, you might have to work on some issues and make sure you really are over your ex. Remember, your new life with your new partner should kick off with a happy start and if it would hurt them, we say don’t go there. It’s not worth it.

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Livingstone is one of the most popularly visited locations in Zambia. The town is only 10 kilometres from the Zambezi River and is the hub for tourists looking to visit the Victoria Falls.

Boasting the title of home to one of the Seven Natural Wonders of the World, the town is perfect for a romantic getaway. Not only is there stunning natural elements, but the town is steeped in history too.

Here are some things you should get up to with your partner when you visit Livingstone:

– Visit the Victoria Falls 

Being one of the Seven Natural Wonders of the World, it would be a huge mistake to miss the Victoria Falls. It’s not every day you get to witness things like this, and to see it with your loved one by your side makes it that much more special.

It’s likely that you’ll catch a very special rainbow show too – the side effect of tons of water flowing over the edge of the cliff.

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– Take a dip in the Devil’s Pool 

While the name sounds scary, the activity is a must-do. It is the perfect way to top off your visit to the Victoria Falls.

The pool is located on the very edge of the waterfall. Get your heart racing as you stare down at the unnervingly drop, and get the adrenaline rush that’ll make your romantic getaway unforgettable.

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– Visit The Elephant Café

This sanctuary allows you to get a glimpse of some wildlife, ethically. The elephants have been rescued from dangerous situations such as culling and drought and are kept here where they roam freely.

After spending some time with these gentle giants, you can have a delicious meal at the café. Relax on the wooden deck and experience a meal like you never have before.

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– Take a sunset cruise on the Zambezi River 

Sit back, relax, and take in the views with a drink in hand. Sundowners are a staple of any getaway, but sundowners on a river cruise makes for the perfect romantic activity.

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– Visit the Livingstone Museum 

Learn about the town, its history and its culture. You’ll gain some interesting knowledge and see some cool exhibitions, including a life-sized village display. Add a dose of culture to your romantic getaway!

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– Have a fancy meal on a steam train 

Taking you on a sunset ride on the Victoria Falls Bridge,  the Royal Livingston Express will be a trip that you never forget. Indulge in some fancy, local cuisine as you take in the sights and sounds from the window of the old school train.

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If your friend loves to have a good time, you might as well join the party. Get creative with your wedding present by gifting something that will add to the festivities. From a racy game of Cards Against Humanity to a Fujifilm Instax mini camera, these gifts are sure to have your newlyweds loving their new lives.

Spoil the host with the most in your life with one of these fun gifts.

Personalised Cheeseboard with Knives – R599.95 on Netflorist

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2l carafe with oak stopper – R549 on Superbalist

Cards Against Humanity – R995 on Wizards

Crystal White Wine Glasses (set of 4) – R260 on Woolworths

SA Craft Gin Tasting Box – R600 from The Gin Box

Nachtmann Noblesse Shot Glasses (Set of 4) – R249 on YuppieChef

Fujifilm Instax Mini 9 Camera – R1 089 on Takealot

JBL GO 2 Waterproof Bluetooth Speakers – R499.90 on Sportsmans Warehouse

Mellerware Popcorn Maker – R549 on Makro

Nespresso Cappuccino Cups (set of 2) – R449 on Nespresso

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Brides opt to do their own makeup for a multitude of reasons. Maybe you want to save more money, maybe there’s a specific look you want or maybe you just enjoy doing makeup. Regardless of the reason, you’ll want to make sure you’re prepared to take on this task.

Here are some tips to have you looking your best on your big day.

Keep your location, theme, wedding dress and weather in mind:

First things first, think logistics. If you’re going for a specific theme for your wedding, you don’t want to stick out like a sore thumb with your makeup. For example, a bold smokey eye might clash with a botanical-inspired wedding in a local garden. You also have to consider how the wedding might affect your face beat. If it’s going to be hot, you’ll want to use products that reduce oil and won’t melt too drastically in the heat.

Start with eyes first:

If you’re doing a specific eye look, its best to start there first before applying your face makeup. This way, you can clean up any fallout and avoid the dreaded mascara flecks on your under eyes.

Don’t go beyond your abilities:

Love a bold winged liner but whenever you try, it ends up looking like a chunky piece of liquorice on your eye? You’re not alone. Yes, there are so many trends and looks that are beautiful but if you can’t do it, you’ll end up frustrating yourself on what is meant to be a happy day. Stick to what you know and you won’t start your day cursing the heavens above for your wonky cut-crease.

Practice, practice, practice:

Ideally, you want your makeup application to be stress-free and easy. The best way to do this is to practice your final look a few times so that it becomes second nature. Before your wedding day, make sure to give your application three trial runs in which you time yourself to see how long it takes to complete your look. Make sure to also wear your look throughout the day to see how it wears, and take photos under a variety of lighting to see how your look will photograph. No one wants flashback on their big day!

Blend the day away:

Every part of your makeup will be made so much better if you remember the cardinal rule: blend! Want flawless skin? Blend. Perfectly diffused eyeshadow? Blend. Remember to blend your foundation down your neck, chest and even onto your ears to maintain an even finish.

Give yourself time:

Please, please do not leave doing your makeup to the last minute. You might end up feeling rushed and end up not doing as great a job as you would have liked. Ideally, you should set aside an hour and a half to do your makeup, and still have plenty of time afterwards for any final touches once you’ve got your full look on. Remember, this is your big day and you want to look your best!

Also read: How to find your best foundation fit

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Child-free weddings are the best option for some. But if you’re somebody with lots of kids in your life, like little nieces and nephews, then you probably want to have them around on your special day.

There are a couple of things you need to consider if you’re having a kid-friendly wedding. First, weddings can be long and overwhelming for kids. In all likelihood, there will be a few tantrums. Second, you want the parents to enjoy the occasion and not be running after their kids all day.

In order to minimise tantrums and keep the kids occupied, you should provide some sort of entertainment. Here are some fun ways to keep them busy:

– Kids tables 

Let them keep each other company! The kids can make new friends and play together as the adults catch-up and enjoy the festivities. You’d be surprised how well this works, it’s like a day-long play date.

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– Games galore 

If you’re having a summer wedding, or if the winter weather allows, ensure that you have lots of outdoor games. Running around in the fresh air, playing games in the sun will keep the kids busy and might even tire them out.

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– Napping area 

Once they’ve participated in the various activities, and maybe had a snack or two, they may want a nap. Set up a cozy sleeping corner and they’ll be off to dreamland! A mid-wedding nap decreases the likelihood of tantrums, so this one is important.

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– Kid friendly drinks 

Make them feel as though they’re part of the festivities. They’ll see all the adults with drinks in hand, and if they’re given their own little drinks station, they’ll feel included and welcome.

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– Kid friendly snacks 

Kids are not intrested in fancy starters and several course meals. They don’t even want your decadent desserts. It’s best to provide some familiar snacks for the little ones. It may even be cool to set up a buffet table just for them.

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– Hire entertainers 

When in doubt, hire a professional. There are baby-sitters and entertainers who specialise in taking care of kids at weddings. They’ll bring games, costumes for entertainment, and much more. You won’t have to worry about a thing.

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Also read: Should you invite kids to your wedding? 

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We know what you’re thinking. Yes, ruffles can feel very childish, but they can also be incredibly whimsical and fresh. Ruffles add delicate yet lively detail to your wedding dress. Imagine the fun you can have playing with your skirt!

Pierpaolo Piccioli’s Pre-Fall 2019 collection for Valentino saw a resurgence of ruffles, followed by Dior, Comme de Garcons and Marc Jacobs. Ever since then the trend has permeated street style as fashion steers towards a more ‘frou-frou’ aesthetic.

Stay on trend yet classic with these fun and flouncy finishes.

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On your big day, you want to look like the best version of yourself. As the literal base of your makeup, foundation helps to create an even, flawless complexion on which you can build to achieve your perfect look. Foundation is not one-size-fits-all, and its important to find the one that works best for you (if you choose to wear foundation at all).

The type of foundation you choose will depend on the finish you desire, and it can be quite tricky to figure it out if you’re not a beauty guru. Fear not, we’ve got the breakdown. Finding the right foundation for your skin requires you to consider four different elements: coverage, type, finish and shade.

Coverage

Foundation comes in three main types depending on the amount of coverage you want: full, medium and sheer coverage. This is up to personal preference. Full coverage gives you the most even, flawless finish, while a sheer coverage or a tinted moisturiser will mostly give an overall skin-tint and slightly cover a few blemishes. Medium coverage falls somewhere between these two, offering up buildable coverage that evens out your tone while still allowing your skin to shine through.

Type

Once you’ve decided on the coverage you want, you can begin to look at foundation types. Foundation generally come in liquid form, in a stick, as a whipped mousse and as a powder.

Liquid foundation is the easiest and most accessible to use. Liquid glides on easily and blends the best for the most even finish, however it can exaggerate oil-prone skin. It can be applied using a brush, beauty sponge or even your fingers.

A stick foundation is creamier and thicker in consistency than a liquid foundation. However, there is quite a bit of buffing that is required with this foundation to make sure you get an even look. Stick foundations are perfect for contouring and highlighting, as it gives a great colour-payoff that can be blended more naturally into the skin than powder.

A whipped mousse foundation is a liquid foundation that has air incorporated into it, lightening up the texture. This light-weight foundation blends easily and works well for all skin tones.

Powder foundation is easy to apply as it generally requires less blending and comes in a convenient compact case. Powder foundation is perfect for someone who wants a lighter, more matte look. However, it can be quite drying and is generally not great for someone already predisposed to dryness.

Finish

Once you’ve locked down the coverage and type of foundation you want, your second-to-last step is to choose your finish. These are the main foundation finishes:

– Matte foundations eliminate sheen on your face, making it perfect for those with oily skin. Those with blemish or acne-prone skin will like this finish as it provides a poreless filter to the skin. Dry, more mature skin should steer clear of this finish as it can accentuate problem areas.

– Dewy finishes give the wearer a soft, glowing look to the skin and is perfect for dry skin and mature skin as it appears more youthful.

– A Satin finish falls between matte and dewy: close to full coverage but in a more natural way. This finish compliments all skin-types.

Shade match

Unfortunately, the last step is always the hardest. Shade matching your skin to a foundation can be incredibly difficult, especially in store where lighting is not exactly optimal. The key thing to take into account is your skins undertone.Warm undertones reflect traces of red and gold in their skin and typically tan very easily. Cool undertones have hints of ink and blue in their skin and are prone to burn more easily in the sun. A neutral undertone falls in the middle, with an equal mix of cool and warm tones.

When in doubt, many makeup artists create a foundation cocktail, mixing together two or three shades to get the closest match. Don’t be afraid to experiment!

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