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    You’re sitting with your fiancé, on the couch with a glass of wine, and chatting about your upcoming wedding. The two of you have compiled lists of people who are to be invited and it’s time for you to combine your lists. Shock and horror ensues as you realise how large your guest list really is!

    You quickly try to find ways to shorten the list. Now you’re wondering (about the age-old question), “who really needs a plus one?”.

    Here are some quick rules to help you decide:

    – Married, engaged, or living together 

    If your friend – whose partner is unknown to you –  is married, engaged, or living with their significant other, then they traditionally receive a plus-one on their invitation.

    – The bridal party 

    The previous rule does not apply to those who are in your bridal party. They should always receive a plus one, no matter what their relationship status is.

    – Be clear about plus-ones 

    Make sure that it is explicitly clear whether your guests are allowed plus-ones. You should indicate this information on the invitation. If you can, add the name of the person you expect that they will bring on the invitation.

    – Seating 

    If you’re being strict about plus-ones, you have to ensure that everyone will be comfortable where they are seated. Don’t seat one individual with only couples. It’s best to have a table or two dedicated to those people who have not be given the privilege of bringing a plus-one. This will make things much less uncomfortable.

    – People who don’t need plus-ones 

    There are certain people who never need a plus one, no matter what the rules are about being married, being engaged or whatever the case may be. Coworkers never need plus ones, guests who are close to you and will know other guests do not need plus ones, and those guests who have a partner who they are only casually dating do not need plus ones. You don’t have to feel bad it!

    – Consider people who do need plus ones 

    This is another one where the previous rules may not apply. If a guest requires assistance, perhaps they are disabled and need physical assistance for example, then they should be given a plus one. You have to be considerate of your guests, you wouldn’t want them to have a horrible time at your wedding.

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    They say the eyes are the windows to the soul, so why not give them some beautiful drapes? Eyelash extensions have been trending in the beauty world for years ever since they first came on the market. Eyelash extensions can give you a flirty, effortless look to your face and majorly cuts down on your prep time in the morning. If you’re considering adding some drama with these flirty fancies, make sure you know what you’re in for.

    Eyelash extensions are semi-permanent false lashes glued on top of your own natural ones by a trained technician. Lashes can be made of mink, sable, faux mink, silk, cashmere or synthetic acrylic. The lashes are applied to individual hairs, making every set fully customisable depending on the clients requirements. A typical appointment takes between 1.5-3 hours to complete.

    Extension styles are typically broken down into two main categories: classic and volume. Classic is when an individual false lash is applied to an individual natural lash, leaving the most realistic final look. Volume curls offer much more drama as 2-6 lashes bonded together are applied to an individual natural lash. You’ll also have to consider what type of curl you’d like your lashes to have. You can choose between a J curl, B curl, C curl or D curl. The curl you choose should mimic the curl of your natural lashes. Lashes vary in length from 8-14mm, and multiple lengths can be used per set.

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    Eyelash extensions typically cost between R350 – R800 depending on the salon / technician you use. Refills are cheaper, typically coming in at R200-R450 per fill.

    Eyelash extensions typically last 5-6 weeks, but you can get refills from as early as 2 weeks after your initial appointment to main fullness. As your own lashes naturally shed, your extensions with fall out along with them.

    There are some that believe that lash extensions cause traction alopecia as the lashes can put weight on your own, but the chance is very slim. This would typically only happen after years of consistent lash extensions and bad aftercare.

    Pre-appointment:

    • Pre appointment, make sure to remove any makeup in your eye area.
    • Ask your technician what ingredients are in the lash adhesive they will be using. Glues that contain formaldehyde will irritate your eye, so best steer clear of that! Instead, look out for ingredients like butyl cyanoacrylate and octyl cyanoacrylate, which are much more gentle on the eye.

    Post appointment:

    • Make sure to avoid getting water on your eyes for the first 12-24 hours after your appointment to allow the glue enough time to set.
    • Use oil-free cleansers to clean your eye area.
    • Gently brush your lashes with a spoolie brush twice daily
    • Don’t apply mascara to your extensions

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    Who doesn’t love a good piece of fruit? Whether is sweet or sour, fruit often reminds us of a warm Summer’s day. Another bonus: fruits make the perfect cake decorations!

    If you’re having a summer wedding, why not lean into it with an adorable fruit-decorated wedding cake? It’s on trend, adds great flavour and is pretty to look at. Make sure to do your research and chose in-season fruits to adorn your sweet treats.

    Here are some ideas to inspire you:

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    Although you may hope that those people attending your wedding would know you well enough to get a gift you’ll like, its better not to risk it. Your best bet at getting great gifts that you need (and actually want) is to opt for a registry.

    For those of you who are registry first-timers, as most people are, there’s nothing to be intimidated by. South Africa has some great options for wedding registries, and most are user friendly too.

    Here are some you may want to consider, to get the best gifts for you:

    BANKS  Kitchen Boutique 

    BANKS was established in 1939 in District Six, Cape Town. It was started by Avraham Bank and his son Abba Bank. Today, the store has one of the widest ranges of kitchen appliances, stylish pots and pans, crockery, cutlery, glassware and more. If you’re a couple that loves cooking up a storm, this is the one for you!

    Their registry process is quick and simple too. All you need to do is create an account, add the gifts you’d like to your registry and you’re good to go. For those buying you gifts, BANKS is convenient as they have the option of buying online or in store and they offer delivery as well!

    If that wasn’t enough, BANKS also allows you to have a change of heart. If you’ve registered for and received a gift, but no longer want that item, you’re allowed to exchange it if you so please.

    Wrapistry 

    Wrapistry carries a variety of brands including Carrol Boyes, Sorbet, Le Crueset, Smeg and many more. If you’re looking for something brand specific, check here first.

    – Yuppiechef

    Stocking over 8 600 products from 700 of the world’s leading brand, you’re sure to find exactly what you’re looking for.

    Gift Tree

    This online gift store is a one-stop-shop for handpicked gifts. They carry both leading brands and unique designer pieces,  and you can shop from the comfort of your own home.

    Mr Price Home 

    For homeware at affordable prices, this one is for you. Offering decor, kitchen appliances, and items for your bedroom, bathroom and living room, you can’t go wrong with Mr Price Home. It’s a store that everyone is familiar with too!

    Bespoke 

    Founded in 2012, Bespoke is known for its distinctive finds and accessible luxury. This store carries a curated collection of home decor items and is perfect for those who prefer unique, hand-picked items.

    @home 

    @home is a popular homeware store in South Africa, and their outlets can be found all across the country. You can set your registry up online and it can be managed from there. The store also offers in-store consultations.

    Hirsch’s 

    Hirsch’s started as a family business. Allan Hircsh and his wife Margaret opened their appliance business in Durban in 1979. Today,  it is a huge appliance and home furnishing store and has branches in KZN, Cape Town and Gauteng. They offer the option of an online registry that’ll make your life super easy!

    Also read: Registry mistakes you might be making 

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    Bridesmaids, bride tribe, best friends. Your bridesmaids have been by your side through thick and thin, and there’s no one else you’d want next to you when you marry your person. Your wedding day can go by in the blink of an eye, and its important to take pictures to preserve all the special memories.

    While getting ready and throughout the day, there are so may amazing photo opportunities that will have you and your girls looking fun, powerful and strong. Cement those memories with these amazing group photo ideas:

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    Couples value experiences over material items. Gone are the days of over-the-top, grandiose weddings that are more about the pomp and flash than the couple. As we become more aware of our impact on the environment, couples are making responsible choices when tying the knot.

    A wedding is about love and commitment. What better way to celebrate your love and the environment than in nature itself? One South African establishment, Monate Game Lodge, offers it all. Located in Modimolle in the Waterberg district of Limpopo, Monate is a 4-star luxury bushveld accommodation, conference and wedding venue where you can truly live out your African dream.

    Monate allows couples to fall in love with each other and their surroundings, without the distraction of excess. Whether your wedding is big or small, the team at this 3000 hectare private game reserve will strive to add that personal touch, tailoring each event to every unique pair. Couples can say their ‘I do’s’ underneath their Rock Fig, a majestic Marula tree in a natural cave or in the unique bush boma. If you like traditional, the chapel is at your disposal too.

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    The main lodge offers 38 spacious and comfortable modern double rooms and two luxury villas. For extra privacy, the exclusive Shingwedzi and Skukuza Lodges offer a deluxe upgrade.

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    Naturally, a trip to a game reserve is not complete without a game drive! Unwind after your big day with a guided journey through the bushveld area, taking in the sights of buffalo, giraffe, hippopotamus, zebra, a large variety of antelope, and close to 50% of the bird species found in South Africa.

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    Experience a dream bushveld wedding come true at Monate Game Lodge. A venue where love falls in love again! For their wedding packages, contact 014 718 7000 or [email protected]

    Also read: Now trending: Bushveld weddings

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    Experiencing the world with your loved-one is always a special way to spend your time. If you know a fun-loving couple who are constantly hearing the call of the wild, why not spoil them with gifts for their passion?

    Today, modern couples are putting experiences over material possessions, and seeing the world is on the top of their to-do list. However, there are some items they’ll need when on their travels. Your travel-loving newlyweds will most likely be planning an epic honeymoon, and these gifts will definitely come in handy.

    Packing cube set of 3 – navy – R299 from Superbalist

    Fjällräven Kånken mini – R1 699 from Fjällräven

    Volkano Rhapsody Series Active Noise Cancelling Bluetooth Headphones – R628 on Takealot

    Canvas Barrel Bag – R399.99 from Typo

    Marble Base Monochrome Globe – R399 from Woolworths

    Lifestraw Water Purifier – R399.00 from Outdoor Warehouse

    Matching personalised Heart Photo Fleece Gown – R599.95 each via Netflorist

    Lucky Johnny Bahama Hammock – R499 from Sportsmans Warehouse

    Canon Zoemini Photo Printer – R 1,499 from Takealot

    Vegan leather travel pouch (18c21cm) – R 449.00 each from @Home

    Iconix Inflatable Travel Pillow with Head & Arm Rests – R269 each from Takealot

    Tuff-Luv Electronics Accessories Travel Organize Bag – R278 on Loot

    Bonus: A place-based photoshoot for wherever they plan to travel – price upon request

     

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    Your wedding look is one of the most important parts of your big day, and you want to look your absolute best. That’s why choosing the right look, and the right makeup artist, are so essential. Sometimes, you’re not exactly sure what you want or what would work for you. Your makeup artist should be the one to give advice, help you try out different styles and ultimately just get you.

    We chatted to Rachelle Froneman, Makeup Expert and Retail Manager for Eastgate Partnered Free Standing MAC Cosmetics to get the inside scoop on how to get the best from your makeup artist, so they can make you shine.

    Q: What is trending in wedding makeup in 2020?

    A: Fresh face, soft and romantic colors that enhance your natural beauty. Choosing a classic look for your wedding will never go out of style.

    Q: How do you help a bride decide on her wedding look?

    A: I always ask the bride about her theme and style for the wedding first. Then we can create a look for her, choosing either a lip focus or an eye focus. It’s great when brides come with a reference of a makeup look they like and then we can customize it to her skin tone, eye shape and face shape.

    Q: What part of doing a client’s makeup is the hardest for artists?

    A: When the client is unsure of what she wants, it feels like a guessing game and can sometimes get frustrating for both the client and the artist.

    Q: What do brides do that makes your job harder?

    A: Telling us what to do in every aspect of the makeup application. It makes the artist feel like the bride would rather just do it themselves!

    Q: What are things brides should keep in mind when hiring a makeup artist?

    Cancelling at the last minute makes things really hard on everyone. Also keep in mind that you booked your artist for a specific time frame to be able to finish the makeup and asking them to also just “quickly” do the cousin’s makeup too and the aunt and three other bridesmaids for free, is not cool. Makeup is a skill that artists study and practice for years, and it would be unfair to expect the artists to do more than you pay for.

    Q: What is your favorite part of doing makeup for a wedding?

    The end result! Seeing everything come together and the look on the bride’s face. It really is a glow like no other.

    Q: And your least favourite part? Why?

    Cleaning make up brushes…it looks like a makeup explosion in your kit.

    Q: Any interesting requests you have had?

    Nothing funny or weird, but brides always want you to drink champagne with them and celebrate! And most times the bride wants to take you home with them to be their personal makeup artist, which is quite a compliment.

    Here are some looks created by Rachelle:

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    Mismatched bridesmaid dresses have been trending for years now, and its easy to see why. Allowing your favourite girls and guys to find their perfect fit and complimentary colour does wonders for a bridal party.

    Whether it’s with varying tones or textures, there are many ways to pull off a mismatched bridal party. Here are a few ideas to inspire you.

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    Get inspired by nature and incorporate your favourite plants into your wedding decor. These invites are bursting with natural beauty yet modern and elegant.

    Greenery is a popular trend in 2020 and you can incorporate it into your big day from your wedding invites all the way to your take-home favours. Botanical-inspired wedding invitations add a fresh, lively look that is the perfect way to introduce your wedding day in style. Here are some ideas to guide your way:

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    Also read: Botanical wedding inspiration for nature lovers

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