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    Tips to officiate a wedding like a pro

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    Being asked to officiate a wedding is a pretty big deal. Whether it’s your best friend, your cousin or a sibling tying the knot, being chosen to lead one of the most important moments in someone’s life is equal parts exciting, emotional and slightly terrifying.

    Before you panic-Google “how to marry people”, here’s what you need to know. From legal requirements to speech tips, these are the most important tips for officiating a marriage without turning the ceremony into a rambling TED Talk.

    First things first: Can anyone officiate a wedding in South Africa?

    This is where things get a little tricky.

    In South Africa, not just anyone can legally officiate a marriage. To legally marry a couple, you need to be an authorised marriage officer registered with the Department of Home Affairs.

    This usually includes:

    • Religious leaders
    • Certain government officials
    • Designated marriage officers

    So if your friend asks you to officiate their wedding, you technically cannot legally sign the marriage documents unless you’re officially registered and authorised.

    So what do couples usually do?

    A lot of modern couples choose to split the legal and ceremonial parts of the wedding.

    This means:

    • The legal paperwork is done separately through a registered marriage officer or at Department of Home Affairs
    • Then a friend or family member leads the symbolic ceremony on the wedding day itself

    Honestly? Guests usually never even notice the difference. It allows couples to have a more personal, relaxed and meaningful ceremony led by someone who actually knows them.

    Tips for officiating a marriage without freezing up

    Get the vibe right

    Before you write a single word, chat to the couple properly.

    Ask them:

    • Do they want funny, emotional or formal?
    • Are there religious or cultural traditions involved?
    • Do they want guests to laugh, cry or both?
    • Are there any topics or inside jokes to avoid?

    Some couples want a light-hearted ceremony with personality. Others want something more traditional and sentimental. Your job is to set the tone.

    Start with a strong opening

    The first few lines matter more than you think.

    You do not need to sound like a movie narrator or a royal announcer. Keep it warm and natural.

    Tell their story

    One of the best tips for officiating a marriage is remembering that the ceremony is about the couple, not your stand-up comedy debut.

    Share:

    • How they met
    • What makes their relationship special
    • Small moments that show who they are together
    • Why the people around them love them

    Avoid:

    • Embarrassing stories
    • Ex drama
    • Overly private details
    • Anything that could make grandparents uncomfortable

    If you’re using humour, keep it light and inclusive.

    Include personal touches

    This is where a friend or family member officiating can really shine.

    You can include:

    • Personal vows
    • Readings or poems
    • Cultural traditions
    • A moment of silence for loved ones
    • Guest participation
    • A ring warming ceremony

    Practice more than you think you need to

    Even confident public speakers get nervous at weddings.

    Read your script out loud multiple times before the day. Timing, pacing and pronunciation feel very different in your head compared to saying them aloud in front of 100 people and a crying flower girl.

    A few practical tips:

    • Print your speech out
    • Use larger font sizes
    • Speak slower than normal
    • Pause after emotional moments
    • Keep water nearby
    • Don’t wing it completely

    How long should the ceremony speech be?

    Shorter is usually better.

    Most wedding ceremonies sit comfortably between 15 and 30 minutes depending on:

    • Vows
    • Readings
    • Rituals
    • Religious elements

    If you’re leading a non-religious ceremony, aim for meaningful rather than marathon-length.

    Nobody wants to hear you speaking longer than the reception speeches.

    What should you actually say during the ceremony?

    Most ceremonies follow a simple structure:

    1. Welcome guests
    2. Introduce the couple’s story
    3. Share thoughts about marriage or love
    4. Move into vows
    5. Exchange rings
    6. Official declaration
    7. The kiss
    8. Final introduction of the married couple

    You don’t need fancy language. You just need sincerity.

    ALSO SEE: Nail your wedding speech

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    Brahman Hills Bridal Expo returns to the Midlands this weekend

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    A beautiful wedding is built through thoughtful details, trusted suppliers and thorough planning.

    This Sunday, 24 May 2026, couples are invited to the annual Brahman Hills Bridal Expo in the Midlands. It’s a day designed to make wedding planning feel a little less overwhelming and a lot more exciting. Bringing together some of the industry’s leading suppliers, creatives and wedding experts under one roof, the expo offers couples the chance to move from saved Pinterest boards to real-life planning.

    From dreamy decor and elegant gowns to cakes, photographers, entertainment and ceremony specialists, the expo is packed with inspiration for every part of the big day. More importantly, it’s an opportunity to meet the people behind the brands, ask questions, compare ideas and start piecing together a wedding that feels personal, intentional and beautifully put together.

    “Couples want a wedding that reflects who they are, but they also want peace of mind knowing every detail will be handled with care,” says Onwaba Gonyora, Director at Brahman Hills and wedding expert. “The Brahman Hills Bridal Expo brings that together by connecting couples with trusted suppliers, practical advice and a beautiful setting where ideas can truly come to life.”

    Guests can expect a strong line-up of wedding suppliers, including Enhle Creatives, Magic Thyme, Nxeleshians, Obsessive Cupcake Disorder, Cake House, Posh Events, Weddings by Jackie, Real Beats Entertainment, DJ Ash, DJ Marcel, Conway Photography, Legacy Studios, Photos by Chene, MPMSA Photo, Mawande Kheswa Imaging, Black T Artistry, House of Kym, CC Designs, Dream Ceremonies, Wedding Celebrant, Weddings by Reg Courtney, Mystical Pyrotechnics, Chris Jenkins Saxophonist, Gifts by Rue and Jesus Is King Luxury Gifting Collective.

    The Bridal Expo takes place from 10:00 to 15:00, with tickets priced at R50 per person. Food and drinks will also be available throughout the day.

    Whether you’re newly engaged or busy finalising the finer details, the expo offers more than just inspiration. It’s a chance to connect with experts, discover new ideas and take the next step towards a wedding day that feels meaningful, seamless and uniquely yours.

    To buy tickets, visit Quicket

    ALSO SEE: Upcoming bridal expos & wedding events across South Africa

    Upcoming bridal expos & wedding events across South Africa

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    Thank-you gifts: outdated tradition or wedding must-have?

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    Modern weddings are changing – and fast. Couples are rethinking everything from formal seating plans to bouquet tosses, choosing experiences and intentional details over traditions that no longer feel relevant to them. And somewhere in the middle of that conversation sits the question of wedding thank-you gifts.

    Are they still a meaningful gesture guests appreciate? Or have they quietly become another wedding expense couples feel pressured to include?

    The truth is wedding favours are no longer the automatic “must-have” they once were. But that does not necessarily mean they are outdated either.

    Why wedding thank-you gifts became such a staple

    Wedding favours have long symbolised gratitude, good luck and appreciation. Traditionally, couples would gift guests small keepsakes as a way of thanking them for being part of the celebration.

    Over the years, those gifts evolved into everything from personalised candles and chocolates to miniature olive oil bottles, succulents and custom keyrings. For a while, wedding favours became almost expected – another detail on the never-ending wedding planning checklist.

    But couples are approaching weddings differently now. Budgets are being prioritised more intentionally, guest experiences are taking centre stage, and many couples are asking themselves whether certain traditions still feel meaningful.

    Guests remember the feeling more than the favour

    Here’s the reality: most guests are far more likely to remember the atmosphere of your wedding than the physical favour they took home.

    They will remember:

    • The energy on the dance floor
    • The incredible food
    • The emotional ceremony
    • The thoughtful hosting
    • The way your wedding felt personal and true to you

    That does not mean thank-you gifts cannot add something special – they absolutely can. But the pressure to include them simply because “everyone does” is slowly disappearing.

    And honestly? Guests are not usually leaving a wedding disappointed because they did not receive a monogrammed candle.

    The modern shift toward intentional gifting

    The biggest wedding trend right now is intentionality – and thank-you gifts are no exception.

    Couples are moving away from generic favours that get left behind on reception tables and leaning toward gifts that feel more personal, practical or experience-driven instead.

    Some of the most popular ideas include:

    • Late-night snack stations
    • Handwritten thank-you notes
    • Mini local treats or cultural products
    • Recovery kits for the next morning
    • Personalised drink stirrers or place settings guests can keep
    • Photo booth prints or Polaroid moments

    In many cases, the “gift” is becoming part of the overall guest experience rather than a separate wedding tradition.

    When wedding favours still work beautifully

    There are still plenty of weddings where thank-you gifts feel incredibly thoughtful and well-suited to the celebration.

    They tend to work especially well when:

    • The wedding is intimate and highly personalised
    • Guests are travelling long distances
    • The couple wants to honour cultural traditions
    • The favour ties naturally into the wedding aesthetic
    • The gift feels useful or genuinely memorable

    Destination weddings often benefit from welcome bags or locally inspired gifts that help guests feel looked after from the moment they arrive.

    Couples are no longer afraid to skip traditions

    One of the best things about current weddings is that couples are becoming far more comfortable choosing what matters to them.

    Not every wedding needs:

    • A cake cutting
    • Matching bridesmaid dresses
    • A bouquet toss
    • Wedding favours
    • Or even a perfectly traditional timeline

    The pressure to “do everything” is fading – and weddings are becoming better for it.

    If thank-you gifts fit naturally into your budget and vision, they can absolutely elevate the experience. But if they feel forced, unnecessary or financially stressful, couples should feel completely comfortable skipping them.

    So… outdated tradition or wedding must-have?

    Wedding thank-you gifts are no longer an expectation – and perhaps that is exactly why the meaningful ones still stand out.

    The modern approach is less about obligation and more about thoughtfulness. If your favours genuinely reflect your personality, your guests or your wedding experience, they can still leave a lasting impression.

    But at the end of the day, guests will always remember how your wedding made them feel far more than the gift they carried home.

    ALSO SEE: 6 DIY thank-you gifts that won’t break the bank

    6 DIY thank-you gifts that won’t break the bank

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    Non-white wedding dresses are no longer a bridal taboo

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    There was a time when walking down the aisle in anything other than crisp ivory or bridal white would have caused a few gasps from the front row. But modern brides are rewriting the rulebook.

    Why brides are choosing a non-white wedding dress

    The rise of the non-white wedding dress says a lot about where weddings are headed in general. Brides are moving away from tradition for tradition’s sake and leaning into choices that feel a bit more authentic and emotionally connected to their personalities.

    For some, white simply does not feel flattering. For others, it feels too expected.

    A soft sage gown may suit a nature-loving bride far more than bright white ever could. A champagne dress can feel timeless yet warmer against certain skin tones. A black wedding dress might perfectly suit a fashion-forward city celebration. And then there are brides who simply want the freedom to wear colour because they adore it.

    The colours brides are loving right now

     

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    The beauty of a colour wedding dress is that there are no limits. Some brides choose the subtlest hint of colour, while others embrace dramatic statement shades.

    Popular options include:

    • Soft blush pink
    • Champagne and nude tones
    • Dusty blue
    • Sage green
    • Lilac and lavender
    • Floral appliqué gowns
    • Ombre detailing
    • Black wedding dresses
    • Gold or metallic finishes
    • Rich jewel tones for winter weddings

    Which brides tend to choose colourful wedding dresses?

    Interestingly, colourful wedding dresses are no longer reserved for unconventional weddings only.

    You will often spot non-white gowns at:

    • Garden weddings
    • Destination weddings
    • Intimate weddings
    • Art-inspired weddings
    • Modern city weddings
    • Second marriages
    • Fashion-forward luxury weddings
    • Cultural fusion celebrations

    They also appeal to brides who:

    • Love fashion
    • Want standout wedding photos
    • Feel disconnected from strict traditions
    • Want a dress they may realistically rewear
    • Prefer individuality over convention

    And perhaps most importantly, many brides choosing non-white gowns say the dress simply feels more like them.

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    Not every bride wants a bright pink ballgown — and that is perfectly fine.

    If you love the idea of a non-white wedding dress but still want something timeless, consider:

    • Champagne instead of white
    • Floral embroidery over ivory
    • A soft blush underlayer
    • Coloured gloves or a cape
    • A pastel overskirt
    • Delicate blue or silver detailing
    • A dramatic second reception dress

    ALSO SEE: High-neck wedding dresses we love

    High-neck wedding dresses we love

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    5 Wedding morning mistakes brides always regret

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    For all the energy that goes into planning the perfect wedding, the wedding morning itself is often treated like an afterthought. But ask almost any bride, photographer or makeup artist, and they’ll tell you the same thing: the tone of the morning sets the tone for the entire day.

    And while social media tends to romanticise matching robes, champagne towers and perfectly curated flat lays, the reality is that wedding mornings can become overwhelming very quickly.

    The good news? Most of the stress brides experience before the ceremony comes from a few very avoidable mistakes.

    Here are five wedding morning mistakes brides often regret – and what to do instead.

    Trying to manage the entire wedding from the bridal suite

    If you’re answering supplier calls while getting your hair done, your morning is already becoming more stressful than it needs to be. One of the biggest mistakes brides make is feeling like they need to oversee every detail until the very last second.

    But the truth is, your wedding morning is not the time to coordinate logistics, troubleshoot décor issues or respond to timeline questions.

    That’s exactly why coordinators, bridesmaids and trusted family members exist. Choose one person to handle any problems or supplier communication on the day and let them protect your peace a little. Most issues can be solved without involving you at all.

    Because the reality is: you only get this morning once. You deserve to experience it.

    Forgetting to eat and hydrate

    It sounds obvious, but this happens far more often than people realise. Between nerves, excitement and early glam call times, many brides unintentionally survive the morning on coffee, champagne and adrenaline alone – which usually catches up to them halfway through photos or during the ceremony itself.

    Low energy, headaches, dizziness and emotional overwhelm are often made worse simply because the body hasn’t been looked after properly.

    A proper breakfast and consistent hydration genuinely make a difference. Nothing overly heavy – just enough to keep your energy stable throughout the day.

    Your makeup will sit better, your body will feel better, and you’ll enjoy the celebration instead of trying to recover from exhaustion by sunset.

    Turning the bridal suite into a Pinterest set

    There’s nothing wrong with wanting beautiful details and aesthetic moments. That’s part of the fun. But sometimes wedding mornings become so focused on creating content that the atmosphere starts feeling chaotic instead of calm.

    Too many personalised items, unnecessary props, overcrowded spaces and excessive décor can quickly make the room feel stressful – especially once photographers, hairstylists, makeup artists and bridesmaids are all moving around simultaneously.

    Ironically, the most beautiful wedding morning photos usually come from spaces that feel natural, relaxed and emotionally present.

    Keep the meaningful details. Let go of the pressure to make every corner “Instagram-worthy.”

    Not leaving enough buffer time

    Wedding mornings almost always take longer than expected. Someone forgets earrings. Hair takes an extra thirty minutes. Steamers stop working. A bridesmaid suddenly needs safety pins. Something will happen.

    And when the schedule is too tight, even small delays create unnecessary panic.

    One of the smartest things couples can do is intentionally build breathing room into the timeline. Aim to be ready earlier than necessary instead of exactly on time.

    Because rushing changes the entire energy of the morning – and, unfortunately, it’s often one of the things brides remember most afterwards.

    Forgetting to be present in the moment

    This is probably the biggest one of all.

    The wedding morning moves fast – faster than most brides expect. One minute you’re sitting in pyjamas with coffee, and the next you’re stepping into your dress preparing to walk down the aisle. And somewhere between the glam, timelines and excitement, many brides forget to pause and absorb what’s happening.

    Take a few quiet moments if you can. Put your phone down occasionally. Look around the room. Hug your people properly. Let yourself feel the day instead of racing through it. Because years from now, you probably won’t remember every tiny detail that went right or wrong.

    But you will remember how the morning felt.

    The best wedding mornings rarely look perfect

    Ironically, the wedding mornings people remember most fondly are usually the ones that felt genuine – not flawless.

    It’s the laughter while getting ready. Your mom crying while saying, “But you were just a little girl yesterday.” The “this is the last time we’re doing this before you’re a wife” comments, or a sibling casually stealing your glass of water while you’re trying not to smudge your lipstick. The quiet, intimate presence of the people you love surrounding you while everything is about to change.

    Not because everything was perfectly in place, but because everything was felt deeply.

    Raw emotion. Real connection. Authentic love in a room that will never feel exactly like that again. And somehow, that’s what stays with you the most.

    ALSO SEE: 5 Ways to practice self care while planning your wedding

    5 Ways to practice self care while planning your wedding

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    A modern guide to choosing wedding bands together

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    Choosing wedding bands used to feel fairly straightforward: walk into a jewellery store, choose a classic gold band and leave with a matching set before the afternoon was over. But much like weddings themselves, the process has become far more personal. Today’s couples are approaching wedding bands with a different mindset. Beyond tradition, there’s now a stronger focus on individuality, lifestyle and finding pieces that feel reflective of the relationship itself. For some, that means timeless matching bands. For others, it’s mixed metals, custom engravings or completely different styles altogether.

    There’s no single “right” way to do it anymore – and honestly, that’s what makes the process feel more meaningful. From practical considerations to personal style, here’s a modern guide to choosing wedding bands together.

    Start with lifestyle before aesthetics

    As tempting as it is to fall straight into Pinterest boards and jewellery inspiration videos, the first thing couples should consider is everyday life. A ring may look beautiful in a velvet box, but how does it fit into your actual routine? Someone who works with their hands daily may prioritise durability and comfort, while someone else may lean towards something more delicate or design focused. Because while aesthetics matter, these are pieces meant to be worn long after the wedding photos have been posted and the flowers have wilted.

    Matching bands are no longer the expectation

    One of the biggest shifts in modern wedding jewellery is the move away from perfectly matching rings. Many couples are now choosing bands that complement one another rather than mirror each other exactly. Think different metals within the same design family, varying textures or completely different widths that still feel cohesive together. For some couples, matching bands feel symbolic and sentimental. For others, choosing individual styles feels more authentic to who they are. Neither approach is more romantic than the other.

    Think about how the wedding band works with the engagement ring

    For brides who wear their engagement ring daily, the wedding band needs to work alongside it rather than compete with it. Some prefer a seamless stacked look, while others intentionally choose contrasting bands to create more dimension and personality. Curved bands, pavé details and mixed-metal combinations continue to grow in popularity for exactly this reason. Trying rings on together also makes a noticeable difference. What works beautifully on its own can feel completely different once paired alongside an engagement ring.

    Metal choice matters more than most people realise

    Gold remains a classic favourite, but modern couples are becoming far more experimental with materials and finishes. Yellow gold continues to dominate thanks to its warm, vintage-inspired appeal, while platinum and white gold offer a cleaner, more contemporary look. Rose gold still offers a softer, romantic feel, while matte finishes, brushed textures and black titanium bands are becoming increasingly popular amongst couples wanting something slightly less traditional. There’s also been a growing interest in heirloom redesigns, incorporating sentimental family jewellery into modern pieces that still carry emotional significance.

    Budget conversations are part of the process

    Wedding bands may seem like a smaller detail compared to venues, florals or fashion, but costs can escalate quickly – especially once customisation enters the picture. Having honest conversations around budget early on makes the entire process far less stressful. For some couples, investing in bespoke craftsmanship or premium metals feels worthwhile. For others, practicality and longevity matter more than luxury branding. At the end of the day, the goal is not to impress people. It’s to choose rings that feel sustainable, personal and true to your relationship.

    Engravings are becoming far more personal

    Classic initials and wedding dates will always have their place, but couples are finding more creative ways to personalise their bands. Coordinates, private phrases, voice-note soundwaves and meaningful lyrics are turning wedding bands into deeply personal keepsakes rather than purely symbolic pieces. And often, it’s those small details that end up meaning the most years later.

    Don’t rush the decision

    Despite how fast-paced wedding planning can feel, choosing wedding bands should never feel rushed. Visit different jewellers. Try on styles you wouldn’t normally consider. Ask questions about maintenance, resizing and durability. And most importantly, choose rings that feel like an honest reflection of both of you – not simply whatever happens to be trending online at the moment.

    Beyond the wedding day

    At its core, choosing wedding bands together is less about tradition and more about intention.

    Some couples will choose timeless matching bands, while others will gravitate towards completely different styles that simply feel right for them individually. There’s no perfect formula anymore — and that’s part of what makes modern weddings feel far more personal than they once did.  The best wedding bands are not necessarily the trendiest or most expensive pieces in the room. They’re the ones that still feel like you years from now: comfortable, meaningful and chosen with care. 

    Because long after the seating charts, floral installations and reception playlists fade into memory, these are the pieces that stay with you every single day. 

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    Viral Cape Town proposal at Maiden’s Cove captures hearts in a moment of Ubuntu

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    Some proposals are beautiful. Some are emotional. And then there are the rare ones that somehow belong to everyone who witnesses them.

    Aqib and Laiqah’s engagement at Maiden’s Cove in Cape Town has become one of South Africa’s most talked-about love stories. Sure, the romantic setting played a role, but it’s also because of what unfolded around them: a spontaneous, overwhelming wave of celebration from complete strangers.

    The moment was captured by photographer Bianca Asher, who later shared the full behind-the-scenes story on her blog. What was meant to be an intimate seaside proposal quickly turned into something far more unexpected, eventually gaining more than 64 000 likes on Instagram and becoming a powerful example of Ubuntu in action.

    When Aqib reached out to me a few months ago to plan his proposal I don’t think either of us could have imagined how everything would unfold. We went back and forth on location ideas – with the main focus being on a beautiful backdrop and catching Laiqah’s reaction. When I arrived at Maiden’s Cove I saw a lot of tour busses and even more people, which was not in the plan of a quiet proposal shoot. Aqib and Laiqah were down the road at Plato grabbing coffees as the decoy plan to go on a walk for the proposal. I was in comms with Aqib and tentatively changing the location to somewhere quieter, but as I was waiting the crowds dispersed around the cove. When he messaged to let me know he was a few minutes out – I just asked a handful of students who were directly in my shot if they wouldn’t mind moving for a few minutes while I captured the moment. They were really excited and asked if they could watch and I said of course, just act natural. I don’t know exactly what happened but I’m assuming a few texts were sent out to other students who were there and as Aqib dropped to his knee – these huge cheers broke out behind us. It was the most incredible moment of Ubuntu and celebration between strangers.

    Instead of the usual quiet anticipation that surrounds a proposal shoot, the cove erupted into cheers as Aqib dropped to one knee, turning an already emotional moment into a shared celebration between strangers, students, tourists and passersby.

    I’m getting goosebumps just typing out what happened. It’s hard to explain how beautiful it is when a community comes together to celebrate strangers. I’ve been capturing proposals for years and I love being part of the best days of people’s lives – but this was something I’ll never forget. There’s nothing like the incredible spirit of South African’s coming together to celebrate joy. Everyone is asking for an invite to the wedding so it seems like we’ll need a stadium to pull this off. It would be incredible to keep this good cause going and raise funds for charities while celebrating their love. If any brands and vendors are keen to get involved – reach out in the comments or email me.

    The reaction online has been just as warm as the moment itself, with South Africans embracing Aqib and Laiqah as “their” couple.

    At its heart, this proposal story is a reminder of how quickly strangers can become a community when something real and joyful unfolds in front of them. And in this case, that joy happened to be two people saying yes to forever, framed by the Atlantic Ocean and a chorus of unexpected cheers.

    ALSO SEE: 8 Romantic engagement ideas to help you pop the question!
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    Looking for the perfect wedding dress? Here are a few tips to find ‘the one’

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    When it comes to finding “the one” and having that movie-magic moment where your bridesmaids break into a sob after just one look of you in the perfect wedding dress, it all comes down to finding the right shape for your body. We’ve turned to the experts for this one, putting our ear close to the ground and listening to the suggestions that dress designers may have for some potential gown stumbling blocks.

    You’re fuller in the hip/thigh area: 

    Choose something you are comfortable in. If you are confident and love your curves, then there are ways to make a fitted dress accentuate all the right areas. If you are more conservative or feel self-conscious, then go with something that cinches in at the waist and naturally flows out from there.

    You have larger than average breasts: 

    Get a fully structured bustier if your bust needs that lift and support, or a daring plunge for those girls stay in place.

    You are petite

    If you are going for lace, something with smaller patterns would be best. If not, choose something streamlined and gorgeous! Even the princess look can work, if done right.

    You don’t look good in classic white or ivory

    Nude, toffee and sand shades are hot this season! Oyster is also a wonderful shade that suits a variety of skin tones.

    You’re not too keen on exposing a lot of skin 

    A beautiful, hand-engineered, appliquéd illusion sleeve is the best of both worlds!

    ALSO SEE: 10 things to know before going dress shopping

    10 things to know before going dress shopping

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    12 South African wedding photographers every couple should know

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    Choosing a wedding photographer feels almost as important as choosing your life partner – and honestly, it makes sense that it would. Long after the flowers have wilted and the dance floor has emptied, your wedding photos become one of the few ways you get to relive the feeling of the day all over again.

    Beyond beautifully posed portraits, the right photographer knows how to capture emotion, atmosphere and all the in-between moments that often end up meaning the most. Every photographer tells a love story differently. Some lean into cinematic storytelling, others favour documentary-style candids or fashion-inspired portraiture – and finding someone whose style fits your personality and aesthetic can feel a little overwhelming.

    So, we did the deep dive for you. From editorial elegance to warm, emotive storytelling, here are 11 South African wedding photographers we think every couple should have on their radar.

    Wynand Van Der Merwe 

    If cinematic storytelling is your thing, Wynand Van Der Merwe’s work is guaranteed to stop you mid-scroll. His photography feels emotional without trying too hard, balancing modern editorial composition with genuinely intimate moments. The result? Wedding galleries that feel timeless, elegant and incredibly personal. 

    Nathan Prahl-Andresen

    Nathan Prahl-Andresen captures weddings in a way that feels effortless and deeply human. His documentary-style approach focuses less on perfectly posed moments and more on authentic connection, creating imagery that feels natural, cinematic and full of emotion.

    Anandi Kirsten

    With soft tones, romantic composition and a refined editorial edge, Anandi Kirsten’s photography feels both modern and timeless. Her work has a way of making every frame feel intentional while still preserving the emotion and energy of the moment itself.

    Alysha Bannister

    Alysha Bannister’s photography leans into warmth, emotion and storytelling in the most natural way. Her galleries feel relaxed and intimate, capturing not only the big moments but also the smaller details and candid interactions couples often treasure most.

     

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    Graeme Deacon 

    Through The Frames Collection, Graeme Deacon brings a polished editorial feel to wedding photography. His work blends striking composition with genuine emotion, resulting in imagery that feels elevated, fashion-forward and effortlessly contemporary. 

    Kayla Otto

    Kayla Otto’s work through Misty Kisses Photography feels soft, romantic and deeply heartfelt. Known for dreamy colour tones and natural light imagery, her photography captures weddings with a warmth that feels both personal and timeless.

    Leon Jiber 

    Bold, cinematic and emotionally immersive – Leon Jiber’s photography has a way of making every wedding feel like a beautifully curated visual story. His editorial-inspired style paired with authentic storytelling creates imagery that feels modern without losing the emotion behind each moment. 

    Louise Meyer 

    Louise Meyer brings a fashion-inspired perspective to wedding photography, blending editorial portraiture with real emotion and connection. Her work feels artistic yet effortless, making every gallery look straight out of a modern bridal campaign. 

    Talita Luff 

    Talita Luff’s work through Inka Photography is filled with emotion, atmosphere and cinematic detail. Her storytelling style captures weddings in a way that feels immersive and intentional, balancing artistry with authenticity beautifully. 

    Lotty H. 

    For couples dreaming of something a little less traditional, Lotty H. specialises in adventurous elopements and intimate destination weddings that feel cinematic, immersive and deeply personal. Her work blends breathtaking landscapes with emotionally driven storytelling, creating imagery that feels equal parts editorial and wildly authentic. 

    • Location:  Cape Town / South Africa-based destination photographer
    • Website: https://lottyh.com/

    Lauren Pretorius 

    For couples drawn to soft, romantic imagery, Lauren Pretorius’ photography delivers exactly that. Her use of natural light and understated composition creates timeless galleries that feel elegant, effortless and emotionally rich. 

    Mary-Anne De Jager 

    Mary-Anne De Jager’s photography focuses on connection, emotion and storytelling in its most authentic form. Her work captures both the energy of celebration and the quieter in-between moments, preserving weddings in a way that feels deeply personal and genuine. 

    Whether you love documentary-style storytelling, editorial portraiture or dreamy romantic imagery, choosing the right wedding photographer ultimately comes down to finding someone whose work feels like you. Because at the end of it all, the best wedding photographs don’t just capture how the day looked — they capture how it felt. 

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    The wedding exit photo is an important one! It symbolises you, as a newly-wed couple, taking your first steps out into the world as a unit. Many couples go all out for wedding exists, from leaving in a tractor to escaping in a helicopter.

    If you want to keep it simple but still make it special there are tons of options too! There’s no need to stress about an over-the-top exist that, in the end, burns an unnecessary hole in your pocket.

    Here are some simple but stunning ideas to inspire you:

    Classic: 

    (Many people are now against confetti and instead use biodegradable versions like this couple who are using “Floralfetti”)

    Sparklers: 

    Bubbles: 

    Through your bridal party:

    Ribbons: 

    Light Sabers: 

    Pom-poms: 

     

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    Glow sticks: 

    Sports references:

    Flower petals: 

     

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