• As the COVID-19 pandemic contonies, wedding vendors are looking for easier ways to continue hosting events in a safer way. One easy way is to eliminate crowding and contact.

    Throw the cake out of the window and opt for individually-sized desserts. These single portions are easier to serve and reduce the need for multiple hands to touch a knife in order to cut a cake, which is perfect in these times.

    These individual cakes ar essentially cupcakes, except they are not served in cupcake holders and replicate the look of a full cake. No need to skip your original wedding cake vision, you can still stick with the colours and style although on a smaller scale.

    Here are some sweet treats your guests will love:

     

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    A large diamond is stunning, but it is also costly. If you want the look without the price tag, why not consider composite diamonds?

    A composite diamond is made of of many small diamonds placed together to create the appearance of one large diamond. Thanks to its setting, they often offer the same glitz and glam of a large single stone at a much cheaper cost.

    Since they are made of an array of smaller stones, composite diamonds are much more affordable than one large diamond. You also do not have to be concerned with the four Cs when purchasing these diamonds, since they are quite small so lower grade stones will work perfectly. They also allow for much more intricate detail.

     

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    However, composite diamonds may become costly in time due to maintenance and repairs. If a stone dislodges and goes missing, it may be a struggle to find another one of the appropriate size to replace it. Replacing stones is even more difficult with an invisible setting, as they can only be replaced with notched diamonds, which are not kept in bulk at diamond wholesalers so they may need to be ordered externally.

    When shopping for a composite diamond ring, make sure to speak to your jeweller about possible future repair costs so that you know what to expect.

     

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    While divorce is no laughing matter, Twitter users have seized the Kim and Kanye West divorce rumours as an opportunity to make light of the unconfirmed situation.

    E!News, who aired Keeping up with the Kardashians for its entirety, said that while the couple haven’t filed for divorce, they are officially separating while they figure things out.

    E! News said that a source close to the couple explained that they are “trying to work through things” in marriage counseling. “Divorce has been discussed, but Kim wants more than anything for their relationship to work.”

    Twitter users are doing what they are known to do and are making a joke of it all:

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    Weddings can change even the most rational person into a bridezilla. Unfortunately for these bridesmaids, their bride got a bit too controlling and laid down the law, giving them a 37-rule contract of do’s and don’t to follow in the lead up to the big day.

    According to the Mirror UK, the bride demanded her bridesmaids may not alter their hair colour, gain more than 3kg or intentionally fall pregnant before the wedding.

    Bridesmaids also required a doctor’s note to miss dress fittings or any bridal activities like the bachelorette party.

    The bride even went so far as to ban her bridesmaids from wearing false eyelashes, ban colourful nails and glossy coloured lipstick.

    Here are the rules in full:

    – I will not try to convince the bride to change anything in her wedding.

    – I will not talk negative about anyone in the wedding.

    – I will wear only black or dark brown hair on the day of the wedding (highlights may be accepted with prior approval).

    – I cannot wear any lashes the day of the wedding unless professionally installed.

    – I have to attend the bridal shower and bachelorette party, fitting and rehearsals and wedding (only time this can be missed is death or jail, pregnancy over five months and some sickness with recent doctor’s note).

    – I will take care of my skin, hair and nails from now until the wedding.

    – The bride will choose my make-up artist the day of the wedding.

    – I will agree to wear the dress the bride chooses regardless of my own opinions, style or colour.

    – I will not wear any extra accessories, items of clothing or jewellery the day of the wedding except my wedding or engagement ring.

    – I will not intentionally fall pregnant before the wedding. (Pregnancy under five months will not be excused from attending wedding events.)

    – I will support the bride in everything she chooses.

    – I will not consume more than seven units of alcohol during any event except the bachelorette party (there will be no limit).

    – I will not bring a date to wedding or reception without bridal approval.

    – I will not bring any outside people, except kids, to any meeting.

    – I will not bring my kids to the wedding unless they are a part of the wedding party (no exceptions).

    – I will make sure I have an accountable babysitter the day of all events and I understand that no show for no babysitter will not be an acceptable excuse.

    – I will not make any advances towards males in the wedding party.

    – I will not date anyone in the wedding party that I wasn’t dating before I signed this contract.

    – I will be happy and positive at all times during wedding and reception.

    – I will not grow sensitive and angry with the bride because I understand that she has a bossy attitude.

    – I will not attempt to outdo the bride in any way.

    – I will wear the hairstyle the bride chooses for the wedding day.

    – I understand that I have to purchase my own dress and shoes and hairstyle for the wedding.

    – I understand that the bachelorette party may be a destination getaway.

    – I understand that I have to purchase a bachelorette party T-shirt and fund my own trip if it is away.

    – I understand that the maid and matron of honour will need help funding some of the events.

    – I understand that the bride does not want any suggestion and this agreement is on here twice, two different ways, because the bride wants it to be clear. Only suggestion allowed is a way to get her exact item at a cheaper price.

    – I will not drop out of the wedding party for any of the reasons listed above. If I do not like anything listed, I will not sign the contract and I will be replaced. I understand that if I do not agree to the above terms it will not ruin the bride and I’s friendship. But if I sign and agree and later want to drop out, then it will ruin our friendship.

    – I understand that no friendship to the bride is bigger than anyone in her wedding party and everyone will be treated equally.

    – I understand that I may have to do physical activity at the reception and this requires practices provided by the bride.

    – No coloured contact lenses allowed.

    – No black drawn-on eyebrows or thick drawn-on (matter of fact, revert back to make-up law above).

    – No glossy coloured lipstick allowed (the kind that looks very, very shiny and bright).

    – No colourful nails the day of the wedding. Only colours allowed are American, French or Nudes.

    – I will provide the bride with my normal seven-day schedule within five days of signing this contract.

    – I will agree to save at least $50 (about R740) a month for expenses for the next 14 months.

    Unfortunately for the bride, not all of her bridesmaids were on board with her expectations. Only six of the ten bridesmaids ended up agreeing and signing the contract.

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