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    One of the most time-honoured traditions still in existence today is the wedding day. Traditional weddings include a host of specific customs that brides typically engage in, one of them being wearing a wedding veil.

    For centuries, lovebirds and strangers have been getting hitched and brides donned the famous headwear. Widely considered just another fashion accessory on your big day, the wedding veil actually has an interesting history.

    The history of the the wedding veil

    The wedding veil is arguably the oldest part of the wedding ensemble. There is some contention over its specific history, but most wedding historians pinpoint ancient Greeks and Romans as the first people to wear the wedding veil. According to Julie Sabatino, expert bridal stylist and founder of the The Stylish Bride, brides of this time wore the wedding veil to disguise themselves from evil spirits aiming to spoil their joy. Some accounts show that veils were red in hue to symbolise the fire of the betrothed’s commitment as well as to ward off evil spirits.

    Wedding historian Susan Waggoner speaks of the Christian symbolism of the veil, telling Brides.com that in ancient times, people “wrapped brides from head to toe to represent the delivery of a modest and untouched maiden.” These were also the days of arranged marriages, when a bride’s virginity was her most important marker. The veil thus became a way of representing modesty and purity. The veil also acted as a method of concealing the bride’s face to the groom to prevent him from getting cold feet and running away from the stranger he was about to marry.

    In Judaism biblical times, the groom would place the veil on his bride as a symbol that he was marrying her for her inner beauty.

    The 18th century saw the veil fall out of fashion as brides opted for caps, bonnets, tiaras, jewels, wreaths and other adornments. However, they came back in style when Queen Victoria donned a four yards (3,7m) by 0.75 yards (0.7m) wide veil during her wedding to Prince Albert on 10 February, 1840. Following her iconic wedding, the veil became a symbol for wealth, status and style. The length, weight and quality of the veil all spoke highly of the status of the bride. This is why royal brides traditionally wore the longest veils.

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    The wedding veil today

    Today, the wedding veil is largely seen as an optional accessory. Many brides opt out of wearing wedding veils. Some consider it too traditional and unnecessary, others just don’t like the look. However, it is still quite popular and is largely used as another fashionable element to your Big Day. Many celebrity brides have famously donned the wedding veil, including Ciara, Princess Diana, Kim Kardashian and Duchess Meghan Markle.

     

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    Slicing the wedding cake has become a time-honoured tradition for couples. It’s the moment all eyes are on these towered treats as the newlyweds share their first dessert as a married couple.

    Of course, the traditional wedding cake will always be in style. Today, however, people are taking more risks when it comes to their wedding confectionary. From donuts to cheese wheels, there are so many alternative options to the traditional wedding cake.

    Here are some alternative wedding cake ideas:

    A cheese cake:

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    A donut cake:

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    An Oreo cake:

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    A macaron cake:

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    A cannoli cake:

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    A croquembouche:

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    A pancake cake:

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    A rice-krispie cake:

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    A beignet tower:

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    A watermelon cake:

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    A meringue tower:

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    Themed cake pops:

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    A British couple took their love for Monty Python to the next level when they centred their wedding theme around the popular surrealist comedy group.

    Superfans John Wood and Gemma Harris from West Sussex wanted their wedding to honour the 50 year anniversary of Monty Python’s Flying Circus’s first broadcast. The extravaganza took two years to plan and cost over £15,000.

    They invited their guests with this unique save-the-date video. In a Facebook post, Harris wrote, “As well as a Monty Python theme, we also had ‘The Wood Party’ as a consistent thread throughout the process which was based on a real Monty Python ‘Wood Party’ sketch and also the ‘Silly Elections.’ This was our Save The Date video.”

    Their wedding, held on October 5, 2019, featured numerous references to the popular show. Harris walked down the aisle to the Python theme song and fart noises in lieu of the wedding march, and a hand of God pointed to the couple throughout the ceremony. They even recreated the ‘Buying a Bed’ sketch at their ceremony.

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    “There was a 9ft parrot, a handmade albatross, all sorts of things. We commissioned artists to make some of the props, but most things we did ourselves,” says Wood.

    Facebook/Gemma Wood

    “Instead of saying ‘I do’, I said ‘perhaps’, to which Gemma replied: ‘Oh, say you do!’ To which I replied: ‘Oh, all right then.’”

    As a starter, they served guests salmon mousse, which Wood explains to BBC was “a reference to the salmon mousse which kills everybody at the end of ‘The Meaning of Life.'”

    The main course featured spam in reference to another popular sketch. Instead of cutting the cake, they smashed it with a prosthetic foot.

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    Carol Cleveland, an actress well known for her work with Monty Python, even made an appearance at the wedding.

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    The British surrealist group entertained viewers with their Monty Python’s Flying Circus TV show from 1969 to 1974, as well as several movies. Members of the group included John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Eric Idle, Terry Jones, Graham Chapman, and Michael Palin.

    Monty Python is incredibly important to Wood, who was once married to a woman that did not like the show.

    “The way I look at the world, everything reminds me of it,” he told The Guardian UK. “I wanted a woman who likes and understands Monty Python. It was the most important thing in my search for a new partner.”

    He took his search very seriously, even setting up a Monty Python themed Facebook group called Pythonesque Dating to help Python-heads find love with each other. It was here that he met his future wife, Gemma Harris.

    The couple became engaged in front of Monty Python stars Michael Palin and Terry Gilliam at a fundraising event in London.

    Picture: Facebook/Gemma Wood

    Planning a wedding can be stressful. Everyone needs to be treated once in a while, and now is the perfect time. Here is your chance to win some well-deserved me-time with Mangwanani Boutique Spa.

    From massages to facials, indulge your senses at this premier South African Spa.

    Prize details: Two lucky people will each win a Mangwanani Boutique Spa voucher to the value of R1 200.

     

    Our winners:

    Jenny Hannington and Ipeleng Mokoka.

     

    How to enter: Fill in the form below.

    Competition ends: 18 October 2019

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    Every wedding needs a first-dance song. Music inspires and moves us every day, and your wedding should be no different.

    Regardless of your wedding style, we’ve got some romantic melodies to get you in the mood for love. Here are 50 romantic first-dance songs, or just songs to add to your wedding playlist.

    • Your Song – Elton John
    • (Everything I Do) I Do For You – Bryan Adams
    • Best Part – Daniel Caesar

    • (They Long to be) Close to You – The Carpenters
    • Teen Heat – Kimbra
    • Dangerously in Love – Destiny’s Child
    • Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
    • You’re Still the One – Shania Twain
    • Come What May – Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor (Moulin Rouge soundtrack)

    • Songbird – Eva Cassidy
    • Honey – Kehlani
    • Differences – Genuwine
    • Make You Feel My Love – Adele
    • How long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding
    • While We’re Young – Jhené Aiko

    • You Give Me Something – James Morrison
    • You Make Me Feel Like Dancing – Leo Sayer
    • Crazy Little Thing Called Love – Queen
    • I.F.L.Y – Bazzi
    • When We Were Young – Adele
    • Love on Top – Beyoncé
    • You Make My Dreams – Hall & Oats
    • Be my Baby – The Ronettes
    • If I Ain’t Got You – Alicia Keys
    • Adorn – Miguel

    • Have I Told You Lately – Van Morrison
    • Shut Up and Dance – Walk The Moon
    • Teenage Dream – Katy Perry
    • Always Be My Baby – Mariah Carey
    • I’m Yours – Jason Mraz

    • When a Man Loves a Woman – Percy Sledge
    • Up Where We Belong – Joe Cocker and Jennifer Warner
    • Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran
    • A Thousand Years – Christina Perry
    • Like I’m Gonna Lose You – Meghan Trainor feat. John Legend
    • All of Me – John Legend
    • Love Someone – Lukas Graham
    • Always Remember Us This Way – Lady Gaga

    • Ho Hey – The Lumineers
    • All My Life – K-Ci & JoJo
    • Kiss Me – Sixpence None The Richer
    • I Like Me Better – Lauv
    • Beyond – Leon Bridges

    • Waiting for a Girl Like You – Foreigner
    • We Belong – Pat Benatar
    • Sucker – The Jonas Brothers
    • Stuck On You – Lionel Richie
    • I Don’t Care – Ed Sheeran feat. Justin Bieber
    • Speechless – Dan + Shay
    • Better – Khalid

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    The wedding cake is the cherry on top of a beautiful day. Who doesn’t love to share a sweet treat with loved ones? Over the years, cake decorators have been wowing us with their incredible creations and taking the art of the wedding cake to new levels.

    Unfortunately, however, we cannot all be cake extraordinaires. Sometimes, people get it wrong. Here are some of the most…unique wedding cake fails.

    The Bubble Blunder

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    The Drip Disaster

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    The Tiffany’s Terror

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    The Gradient Gremlin

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    The Floral Fright

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    The Weedy Wonder

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    The Misspelt Malice

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    The Peacock Perplexity

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    The Layered Lump

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    Yvonne Chaka Chaka and her husband, Dr Mhinga, recently celebrated 30 years of marriage, proving to us all that love is not dead.

    The iconic South African singer took to Instagram to announce this momentous anniversary.

    In a post, she writes, “God is amazing all the time. 30 years ago Dr Mhinga asked for my hand in marriage and I said Yes I DO [and] 30 years later [we’re] still together. Today is our 30th wedding anniversary. I can not stop thanking the Lord who brought us together, I was 24. Now I am 54 and we have been together for 30 years. Time flies, [on] 7th October 1989 we said Yes We Do…We Thank You Lord. We thank our families, our children and our friends. And [to] all those who have supported us and encouraged us, a big Thank you. Tiny.”

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    30 years is no small feat. It is equal to 10 950 days, 262,800 hours, or 15,768,000 minutes. In the wedding world, 30 years of marriage is considered a Pearl Wedding.

    Congratulations to this incredible pair!

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    Hailey Bieber has just shared her full wedding look a week after her wedding, and it’s a dramatic masterpiece.

    The supermodel took to Instagram to share the first images of the dress she wore when she married Justin Bieber on September 30. The lacy white gown was designed by Virgil Abloh for Off-White.

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    The custom gown features an off-the-shoulder neckline with long sleeves, a low back and elegant train. However, the statement piece is the lengthy veil, which has “’till death do us part” stitched onto it in white block lettering. The veil is also lined with lace to match the gown.

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    Abloh, the CEO of Off-White and creative director for Louis Vuitton, shared his sketch of the final look to his Instagram page.

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    Image: Instagram / Hailey Bieber

    You’ve finally made it. It’s been months of prepping and planning and now it’s the week of your wedding. However, the work does not end quite yet.

    The week of your wedding is busy. It’s your last chance to make sure everything is secured and plans are in place so that your day runs smoothly. However, in the chaos it’s easy to forget what still needs to get done. Here is a wedding checklist of things to do the week of your wedding to make sure your day is perfect:

     

     Have a full test-run of your look:

    So far, you’ve probably had makeup trials, purchased shoes and secured your wedding gown. But have you put them all together? The week before your wedding is the perfect time to test-drive your wedding look from head to toe. This way, you can actually visualise how you will look and be able to fine-tune any aspects you are not pleased with so that the day of, you can just get dressed and go.

    Break-in your shoes:

    New shoes are great, but they can also be uncomfortable. If you’ll be wearing high-heels, make sure to give yourself a few days to break them in. Doing this will ensure you are as comfortable as possible on your big day.

    Fine-tune the guest list:

    At this point, everyone would have hopefully RSVP’ed. However, there are always people that leave things to the last minute. Now is the time to call people that have not responded to get definitive answers. You can then give the final headcount to hotels and caterers and let them take it from there. You can also then fine-tune the seating charts if need be.

    Inspire your photographer and DJ:

    If you have a specific vision for your wedding photographs, now is the time to let your photographer know. Send your photographer a list of the exact shots you want. Providing them with a mood board makes their job easier and also eases your concerns as you know you’ll get exactly what you want.

    Don’t forget to make sure your DJ knows what song to play for your first dance, as well as what songs you’d like on the playlist. If you have specific songs in mind, provide them with a song list.

    Have your engagement ring cleaned:

    Your ring will be on show on your big day, so you better make sure it’s sparkling. Send your wedding ring in to be cleaned the week of your wedding to ensure that it is looking its best for all your photos.

    Draw up a contact list and schedule:

    Create a contact list of every service you’ll be making use of throughout your day, as well as a schedule of when they are meant to arrive and start working. Share the schedule with your bridal party so that they can help ensure everyone sticks to the timeline.

    Confirm timelines and details:

    It is easy to get wires crossed, especially if you are co-ordinating with many people. Liaise with your photographer, caterer, officiant, florists, cake makers, bartenders and everyone else you’ve hired to be a part of your day to make sure they know exactly when and where to arrive.

    Write your speech:

    If you will be writing your own vows, now is the time to finish them. Dedicate enough time to put your feelings into words. Once you’ve completed writing it, spend enough time learning your speech so that you are more comfortable actually saying it out loud.

    Beautify yourself:

    If you’re planning on having any treatments done prior to your wedding, do them three to five days before. This includes spray-tans, manicures and pedicures, dying or cutting your hair, facials, massages and waxing.

    Pack an emergency kit:

    You never know what you need until you need it. Pack an emergency kit to help solve any issues that may spring up. Things to put in your emergency kit include: a sewing kit, tissues, plasters, medication, gum or mints, deodorant and perfume, make-up wipes, a hairbrush and bobby pins, and a snack.

     

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