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    In the summer time, the thought of wearing a full suit for an entire day will have you sweating before you’re even dressed. There is a solution however, if you’re brave!

    A shorts suit will bring out your best boyish charm and keep you cool all at once. With a larger variety of colours than the average suit, you have more to work with too.

    If you’re having a summer wedding, this is perfect as they often come in light fabrics such as linen. For a beach wedding you shouldn’t even have to think twice!

    Musician and producer Pharell is well known for these types of suits, incase you were worried you may look “uncool”.

    Find your shorts suit inspiration here:

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    If you’ve ever felt like your love would light up the city, it looks like you’re not alone. A Seattle man made this literal by incorporating the lights of a hotel into his surprise proposal.

    The COVID-19 pandemic has resulted in closed doors for most businesses, especially those in the travel and hospitality industries. The Hyatt Regency Seattle is one of those businesses. They have been closed for operations for a while. Every night, however, they light up their windows in the shape of a heart – supposedly to life the spirits of all the people stuck in lockdown.

    Mitesh and Apoorva are able to see the light show from their apartment. Since Mitesh was planning to propose, he thought he should use the lights on the hotel in his favour.

    According to Fox 56, Mitesh approached the Hyatt to ask for their assistance, and they happily obliged.

    “Hence, we can see the beautiful heart sign that the hotel shows with the use of lights in individual rooms,” Mitesh said. “It would probably be the best proposal that I could ever hope for!”

    The Hyatt adjusted their lights to read “I (heart) you”, with Apoorva’s initials (AP) in the heart. How sweet!

    Of course, she said yes!

    Congrats to Mitesh and Apoorva!

    Image: Facebook / Hyatt Regency Seattle

    The wedding exit photo is an important one! It symbolises you, as a newly-wed couple, taking your first steps out into the world as a unit. Many couples go all out for wedding exists, from leaving in a tractor to escaping in a helicopter.

    If you want to keep it simple but still make it special there are tons of options too! There’s no need to stress about an over-the-top exist that, in the end, burns an unnecessary hole in your pocket.

    Here are some simple but stunning ideas to inspire you:

    Classic: 

    (Many people are now against confetti and instead use biodegradable versions like this couple who are using “Floralfetti”)

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    Sparklers: 

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    Bubbles: 

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    Through your bridal party:

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    Ribbons: 

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    Light Sabers: 

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    Pom-poms: 

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    Glow sticks: 

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    Sports references:

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    Flower petals: 

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    Sex and The City actress Sarah Jessica Parker and husband Matthew Broderick, famous for his role in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, celebrated their 23rd wedding anniversary on May 19. Parker celebrated their long-lasting love with a tribute in the form of a throwback.

    The actress took to Instagram to share a black and white picture of the pair to mark the milestone they have reached together. Alongside the photo, Parker wrote: “May 19th, 2020 23 years. We’ve come a long way baby, X, SJ.”

    Many congratulations poured in, including some from other celebrities such as Billy Eichner, Reese Witherspoon, and Adam Shankman who wrote an especially joyful message.  “Oh my goooddd!! Congrats!!! I remember it all like it was yesterday, including midnight wedding dress covert ops….what a wonderful time it was! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️,” he exclaimed.

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    Broadway was the beginning of both of their careers. In November 1991, Broderick directed a play for a theatre company which happened to be owned by Parker’s brothers.

    At this time, Parker had just concluded a relationship with Robert Downey Jr. She was then introduced to Broderick by one of her brothers.

    Broderick once implied that their first meeting was one-in-a-million, and unforgettable. “I do remember first meeting her,” Broderick told the YES Network. “I still remember very clearly seeing her walk down the street toward the movie theater…it’s very unique, because I wouldn’t remember most people the first time I saw them come down the street. [But] I remember it as clear as day.”

    According to the New York Times, the pair had their first date around February 1, 1992 when Broderick finally had the guts to ask her out.

    Broderick and Parker tied the knot on May 19, 1997, in Manhattan’s Lower East Side. Their ceremony was officiated by Broderick’s sister.

    The happy couple have three children together, and their relationship has truly stood the test of time.

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    Image: Instagram / Sarah Jessica Parker

    Thomas Hardy, an English novelist and poet, is quoted by his second wife, Florence Hardy, saying that “Poetry is emotion put into measure”. If we consider it, poetry is one of the best means by which to express feelings. The flow of words which sound like a melody will be like music to your partners ears.

    Including poetry into your wedding vows could be a great way to elevate them and make them more special. If you’re struggling to find the perfect words to say, this is also a good work-around. You could base your vows off of the perfect quote, or add in a quote to precisely and lyrically express the message you’d like to get across.

    After all, poetry is known to cause swooning. Who better to look to for help with your vows, one of the most romantic things you should ever write, than the legendary wordsmiths themselves.

    Here are some poetry quotes to add to your vows:

    – Sonnet XVII by Pablo Neruda

    “I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
    I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
    so I love you because I know no other way”

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    “You were you,
    and I was I;
    we were two
    before our time.

    I was yours
    before I knew,
    and you have always
    been mine too.”

    [i carry your heart with me(i carry it in] by e. e. cummings

    “i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
    my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
    i go you go, my dear;and whatever is done
    by only me is your doing, my darling)”

    – To Be One With Each Other by George Eliot

    “What greater thing is there for two human souls
    than to feel that they are joined together to strengthen
    each other in all labor, to minister to each other in all sorrow,
    to share with each other in all gladness,
    to be one with each other in the
    silent unspoken memories?”

    Our Souls are Mirrors by Rupi Kaur 

    “when i look in the mirror
    i am looking at you
    when you breathe
    my own lungs fill with air
    that we just met but we
    have known each other our whole lives
    if we were not made as one to begin with”

    – Loves Philosophy by Percy Bysshe Shelly 

    “And the sunlight clasps the earth
    And the moonbeams kiss the sea;
    What is all this sweet work worth
    If thou kiss not me?”

    In and Out of Time by Maya Angelou

    “We see in the distance…
    our long way home.
    I was always yours to have.
    You were always mine.
    We have loved each other in and out of time”

    “La Reina” (“The Queen”) – Pablo Neruda

    “And when you appear
    All the rivers sound
    In my body, bells
    Shake the sky,
    And a hymn fills the world.
    Only you and I,
    Only you and I, my love,
    Listen to me.”

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    Home Affairs are considering registration of marriages to be allowed under Level 3 of the national lockdown.

    The department is currently dealing with a tremendous backlog in birth registrations which have accumulated during Level 5, according to News24.  They restarted these registrations on May 1.

    “The department had an estimated backlog of 81 650 [registrations] at the beginning of Level 4 lockdown,” its acting director-general, Jackie MacKay, told the committee.

    “Of the aforementioned backlog, the department registered 46 541 births which represent 57% of the above, estimated backlog.”

    MacKay added that 35 109 births are yet to be registered and that demand was high for re-issuing of birth certificates and temporary ID certificates.

    Finally, MacKay noted that a growing demand for all services provided by the department has led to a discussion about the identification of areas which are to be relaxed as we move through the levels of the national lockdown.

    As a result, Home Affairs proposed that the registration of marriages be allowed during Level 3. According to The Citizen, these registrations, if they should be allowed, will happen through appointments.

    While we are still unsure of when lockdown Level 3 will be put in place, Ramaphosa has hinted at the chance of it coming before the end of the month.

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    As the traditional diamond engagement or wedding ring slowly loses popularity, various alternatives are being used in its place. One newbie on the scene, be it a bit uncommon, is the birthstone.

    Elle reported that in 2019, Etsy named birthstone engagement rings as one of their breakout wedding trends. “On Etsy, we’ve seen 34K searches for ‘birthstone engagement rings’ in the last three months, and I predict the trend will continue to grow,” Etsy’s trend expert Dayna Isom Johnson explained at the time.

    According to The Jewellery Editor, there are a few things to consider when opting for the birthstone engagement ring, which could mean that you’re walking down a path that comes with many more decisions. However, they claim that this option is becoming more and more popular.

    Canadian jeweller Kat Florence, who launched her own brand of jewellery specialising in unusual gemstones and owns a store in London, told The Jewellery Editor that “a lot of people are going in that direction”, adding that “Everyone feels attracted to their birthstone, and jewellery represents who we are, so birthstones are the perfect point to begin.”

    Of the things which need to be considered, one of the most important is the hardness of the stone. When selecting the birthstone as the gem for a ring, depending on your partner’s birth month, they may end up with a stone which is not durable. For example, it is not recommended that opal be used for a ring, as it is a fragile stone. We’re sure you want the ring to last a lifetime! So keep this in mind when making your final choice, and be sure to ask your jeweller about durability, hardness, and inclination to be damaged with scratches.

    It is reported that any stone which ranks above 7.5 on the Moh’s Hardness scale, which measures how easily you can scratch a gem, is a good option. Those below 7.5, of course, can be used for a ring too. However, you’d have to be much more careful with your ring.

    Regardless, birthstones are pretty, colourful, meaningful and trendy. If you love the idea of a ring that represents you and when you were brought into the world, then perhaps your mind is already made up.

    Here is a guide to your options, including Moh’s Scale values from Gem Rock Auctions, for birthstone engagement rings: 

    January:  Garnet (6.5 – 7.5 Mohs)

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    February: Amythyst (6.5 – 7.5 Mohs)

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    Also read: Stone of the Gods: Amazing amethyst rings

    March: Aquamarine (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    Also read: Amazing aquamarine engagement rings

    April: Diamond (10 Mohs)

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    Also read: How to choose the right diamond for you

    May: Emerald (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    Also read: Enchanting emerald engagement rings

    June: Pearl (2.5 Mohs)

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    Moonstone (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    Alexdandrite (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    July: Ruby (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    Also read: The fiery king of gems: Romantic rubies

    August: Peridot (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    Sardonyx (7.0 Mohs)

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    Spinel (7.5 – 8.0 Mohs)

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    September: Sapphire (9.0 Mohs)

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    Also read:The royal touch: Sophisticated sapphire rings

    October: Opal (5.5 – 6.5 Mohs)

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    Also read:The Queen of the gems: Opulent opals

    Tourmaline (9.0 Mohs)

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    November: Citrine (7.0 Mohs)

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    Topaz (8.0 Mohs)

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    December: Tanzanite (6.5 – 7.0 Mohs)

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    Also read: Say ‘I do’ to tantalising Tanzanite

    Blue zircon(7.5 Mohs)

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    Turqouise (5.0 – 6.0 Mohs)

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    Blue Topaz (8.0 Mohs)

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    Also read: Why we wear diamond engagement rings

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    Beloftebos, a wedding venue in the Western Cape who made headlines in January for refusing to host a same-sex wedding ceremony on religious grounds, are now claiming that they are being discriminated against by the SA Human Rights Commission (SAHRC).

    On Monday [May 18], the owners of the establishment claimed that they had filed papers with the Equality Court, opposing the fact that they have discriminated against LGBTI+ people, reports Times Live. This means they are arguing that their policy which states that they will not host same-sex weddings is not discriminatory.

    Michael Swain, executive director of Freedom of Religion South Africa said that Beloftebos are “asking the Equality Court to find that the SAHRC unfairly discriminated against them on grounds of conscience, religion and belief, and that the commission is biased and prejudiced in its treatment of them and their belief system”.

    The commission launched an application against the owners in March, following several complaints about the venue. The Comissioner, André Gaum, explained that the outcome they hope to achieve includes that the venue’s policy be declared discriminatory, and that they are forced to host same-sex marriages. He said that the policy is unconstitutional and amounts to unfair discrimination.

    According to Times Live, the owners claim that the ruling will have far-reaching consequences for them. “If the court decides against them, the owners of Beloftebos will be forced to participate in and celebrate events that violate their conscience, religion and belief — or alternatively be forced to close their venue and cease to offer their services,” said Swain.

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    These days, wedding photography is a tremendously creative business to be in. Couples want extravagant photoshoots, photographs edited to a T, and perfectly put together albums. Wedding photography has come a long way from its humble beginnings.

    The story of wedding photography begins in the early 1840s, when photography had little to no commercial use. Of course, people did have the idea of saving their memories though.

    During this time paper photographs, multiple photographs and wedding albums were non-existant. According to iQ photo, a wedding photography studio based in San Francisco, the only option available was a “daguerreotype portrait on a tiny copper sheet”. (A daguerreotype is a small metal sheet.)

    Due to the size and weight of photography equipment at the time, couples were also restricted to a studio. There were no photoshoots in the forest or in the streets of a bustling city, you only had the one option. On top of that, many didn’t even have the option. Wedding photography was a practice of the wealthy.

    In fact, Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were one of the first couples to smile for the camera in 1854, 14 years after their actual wedding. This was one of the influences for couples to pose for wedding pictures, however they would not be captured in their wedding attire.

    It wasn’t until the 1880s, when some advances (including roll film by Kodak) were made in the industry and photography become more accessible, that couples actually took photos on their wedding day. Still, photos on the day were limited since film was expensive. Couples managed to take a few snap shots with their nearest and dearest,  as well as some images from throughout the day. It was at this point in time that the wedding album came to be.

    In the early to mid 1900s, colour film was introduced. Thereafter, the colour film, in combination with the creation of portable cameras with flashes and a wedding boom which was a result of World War II, sparked the true beginning of the wedding industry.

    For a while after this, it was the styles of wedding photography which grew and changed rather than the technology. It went from a traditional real-life or still-life style, to a more photojournalism style in which photographers aimed for a fly-on-the-wall vibe.

    Once digital photography came to be, the industry changed drastically. Uninhibited by film (or lack thereof) photographers could go wild with their ideas. According to Dreamtime Images, digital cameras could allow deeper coverage of the event, which adds to the freedom of creativity in the field.

    Now, people have out-of-this-world ideas for wedding photoshoots, with intricate details and in a combination of photography styles. In fact, one may call it art more than anything else. From candids and portraits to family shots and creative shots, you can get anything your heart desires.

    Also read: Stunning underwater wedding photography makes waves 

    Also read: Pair pose for cheeky postponed wedding shoot 

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    Dancing brings people together. Whether you’re a professional or you have two left feet, it’s always fun. At weddings, especially the westernized ones, everyone awaits the newlyweds’ first dance and as it happens they watch in awe.

    In other countries around the world, however, there are other dances that are equally – if not more – important. Wedding dance traditions are more diverse and varying than you could ever imagine.

    Here are 5 wedding dance traditions from around the world:

    Halay 

    One of the most common folk dances for Turkish weddings, halay is a dance done to a song which is a cycle of the same melody which starts off slow and increases in speed. People hold hands or are intertwined in some way, and dance (commonly in a line).

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    The Tsamiko, The Zeibekiko, and the Sirtaki

    Traditional Greek wedding dances centre around guests holding hands and dancing in a circle.

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    A Sword Dance

    Scottish weddings come with a few traditions around dance. At the reception the first dance is the bride and groom dancing a traditional reel. Thereafter, the bride dances with a guest who has “the highest rank among the guests”.

    The very last dance is the Sword Dance. As it is performed guests form a circle and sing ‘Auld Lang Syne’, a traditional song.

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    Ceilidh dance

    This is the traditional dance at Irish weddings. It is to be performed with a ceilidh band.

    Some ceilidh dances are named after locations, for example “Seige of Ennis”. Many newly-weds opt for songs which pay homage to the heritage of their family or to their ancestors.

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    The “Horah”

    This is a Middle Eastern/Israeli style of dance usually played as a second dance set.

    Dancing is a big part of Jewish weddings. Often, it is the tradition that guests at the wedding entertain the newly wedded couple through dance, rather than the couple being centre stage.

    The “Horah” is only one Jewish wedding dance traditions. Others include The Krenzl, The Mizinke,  and The Mitzvah tantz.

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