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    The coronavirus pandemic has changed life as we know it, forcing us all to find contactless ways to go about our days and the wedding world is no different.

    An Indian couple recently went viral for their inventive way of accepting monetary wedding gifts. Instead of a cash donation, this couple asked wedding guests to scan the QR code of Google Pay and PhonePe on their wedding invite so that they can easily transfer money without physical contact.

    “About 30 persons had used the facility and gave cash as their wedding present,” said T.J.Jeyanthi, the mother of the bride. “This is the first time such a thing has been attempted in our family.”

    Besides being COVID-19 safe, this is also a more eco-friendly option as it eliminates the need for envelopes and cards. It also makes it so much easier for you to save money, as it is already in your bank account.

    Would you try this?

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    The South African Law Reform Commission (SALRC) is considering introducing a single marriage statute for the country. In a discussion paper, two alternative draft bills are being proposed to recognise relationships and marriages by parties, regardless of their unique backgrounds.

    The two bills are:

    – The Protected Relationships Bill; and

    – The Recognition and Registration of Marriages and Life Partnerships Bill.

    “The Bills seek to provide for the recognition of protected relationships or of marriages and life partnerships, entered into by parties regardless of the religious, cultural or any other beliefs of the parties, or the manner in which the relationship was entered into; to provide for the requirements for entering into a protected relationship or a marriage or a life partnership; to provide for the registration of protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships; to provide for the legal consequences of entering into protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships; and to provide for matters incidental thereto,” explains the SALRC.

    The draft bill addresses issues like the age of marriage parties, the role of marriage officers, and regulations for polygynous marriages among others.  Under this new proposed Marriage Act, all South Africans will be able to conclude legal marriages regardless of their different sexual orientation, religious and cultural persuasions. It also focuses on equity within relationships.

    Here are some of the key proposed changes:

    – The validity requirements for a protected relationship, a marriage or a life partnership are that all the parties must be at least 18 years on the date of entering into the relationship; that the parties must give free and informed consent; and must have the capacity to enter into the relationship. If the parties do not comply with the requirements the relationship is void.

    –  If a male party to a subsisting polygynous protected relationship or to a subsisting marriage or life partnership, wishes to enter into a further relationship, he must obtain consent from the wife or wives to enter into a further relationship. If he enters into a further relationship without the consent of all his wives that further relationship entered into will be void. The registering officer must enquire into the existence of such consent having been sought and granted when the further relationship is registered. Where consent for a party entering into a relationship is lacking due to a failure to comply with the proposed legislation, the court must be empowered to make a just property division order about the relationship property of the parties to the relationship.

    – Every person in a protected relationship or a marriage or life partnership must have the capacity to understand the legal consequences of the relationship at the time it was entered into. All parties in a protected relationship or a marriage or life partnership have equal status and capacity.

    –  A court may order the registration of any protected relationship or any marriage or life partnership; or the cancellation or rectification of any registration of a protected relationship or marriage or life partnership. A certificate of registration of a protected relationship or marriage or life partnership issued in terms of the legislation constitutes prima facie proof of the existence of 5 the protected relationship or marriage or life partnership and of the particulars contained in the certificate.

    –  It is possible to prove the existence of a life partnership other than by proof of registration. As regards addressing sham or bogus marriages, the continued involvement of marriage officers who will verify the identification documentation of prospective partners and who will conduct interviews with the parties can play a role in determining whether the relationship is genuine. Registering officers of the DHA will also be able to scrutinise and verify the particulars of the parties when they consider applications for the registration of relationships at DHA registering offices.

    The draft proposal is open for public comment until March 31, 2021. Read the full proposal HERE.

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    Shoe shopping is one of the favourite parts of getting ready for the wedding day. The options are endless. If you want a soft romantic look for the day, consider shoes with bows.

    They can be dainty and cute or bold and brazen – we love ’em all! And, we’ll let you in on a little secret: your shoes don’t have to be white. Take a look at these stunning heels accessorised with bows to lend them a feminine feel.

     

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    Wedding stationery is a traditional way of inviting guests to join your special day, but many have replaced the paper invites with electronic ones. However, there is something personal about holding a beautiful card in your hand. It’s a keepsake and memory.

    So, if you would like to send out paper invitations, remember to look for sustainable ways to wow your guests. Using recycled paper is eco-friendly and does not take anything new from the environment. Ditch the ribbons, stickers and other add-ons to make sure it is 100% biodegradable.

    Here are some of the most exquisite eco-friendly wedding stationery out there to inspire you.

     

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    Make a bold statement with a tulle wedding dress. Known as the modern-day ‘frothy dress’, this fabric creates a fairytale-like design, encouraging the bride to feel like a little girl playing dress-up.

    Tulle has been a popular fabric for bridal gowns for decades now, and it’s easy to see why. Its versatility is its best asset. It can be chic and glamorous or soft and girly depending on how you style it. Take a look at just a few of the variation we are loving:

     

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    Bring the island vibe to your accessories with a tropical-inspired bridal bouquet. This theme exudes laid-back vibes, perfect for the chilled bride.

    If you’re having a destination wedding, including flowers endemic to that region is a super sweet idea. If you’re not but just love the look, flowers like Birds of Paradise, Phalaenopsis Orchids, and Pin Cushion Proteas are popular choices. Opt for doses of colour to liven the lookup and stay on-trend.

    Of course, you can’t forget to add in some leaves of greenery. Fleshy, large leaves like the Monstera, the Banana leaf and the Fiddleleaf are great additions.

    Here are some beautiful bouquets to inspire you:

     

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    As the COVID-19 pandemic continues, some wedding plans have been put on hold and others happened sooner than expected. If you tied the knot before your planned wedding date, this means you likely missed out on some of the traditional pre-wedding celebrations.

    Typically, a bachelorette party is a celebration of the bride’s last night of singledom. But what if you’re already married?

    In comes the wifelorette. A wifelorette is a party given in honour of a woman who is already married. Generally, this kind of party happens if the bride could not have a bachelorette party before her wedding.

     

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    Wifelorettes are no different than the usual bachelorette, so let your creative juices flow and plan something that is perfect for you and your best friends. From a night out on the town to a weekend away, or even a fun scavenger hunt, anything goes.

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    It’s all fun and games until your hair starts paying for it. To help whip summer-stressed hair back into a healthier shape and prevent any further damage from occurring, we need to take a more gentle approach. Here’s how:

    Recovery mode

    One of the first, most effective treatments to repair sun-damaged hair, is with a hot oil treatment. And better yet, you can do it at home without spending a cent. Mix half a cup of olive oil with two vitamin E capsules and heat up in the microwave for no more than 10 seconds. Then, work the mixture through from the ends upward and leave for about an hour, then shampoo and condition as normal. However, if the damage is particularly bad, it might be time to schedule a trim to get rid of dead ends, prevent split ends from progressing, and stimulate new, healthy growth.

    Repair damage

    While a long dip on a hot day is total bliss, your hair won’t agree. Chlorinated water in swimming pools exposes your hair to harmful chemicals, sea water contributes to dryness, along with the sun being a constant, too. After a swim, always rinse hair thoroughly to keep damage to a minimum, then follow up with a replenishing hair routine. The Wella Fusion range offers exactly that –  a hair recovery range that instantly helps to repair damaged hair and make it more resilient. Not only does it remove impurities, it also penetrates the hair follicle to leave it smoother and more elastic. Did we mention it’s suitable for colour-treated hair, too? Check.
    Shop online or find a salon nearest to you: linktr.ee/wellaprofessionals_sa

    Prevent and protect

    Avoid overwashing and, with that, stripping precious oils from your hair by choosing your products carefully. We know that amped up heat means extra sweat, sunscreen and product build-up, which inevitably feeds the need for extra shampoos on top of your normal routine. When hair is already in a compromised state, focus on putting back, rather than stripping away. Opt for light moisture mists with UV and pollution filters, deep treatment masks once a week combined with lighter conditioners for in-between, and shampoos specifically for your hair type to avoid weighing your locks down or having to wash too often. Oh, and a hat too, for good measure!

    Rethink styling

    With extra humidity in the air, it’s pointless to try and boost volume or force hair into a perfect style if it’s just going to fall flat anyway. Instead, embrace your natural texture and work with that instead. Reach for a curl cream if you want to tone down frizz on naturally curly hair, a salt spray to add effortless texture to straighter styles, or a finishing oil to boost shine and add extra moisture. This will also avoid unnecessary heat and styling damage, preventing further wear and tear.

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    Home Affairs Minister Aaron Motsoaledi suspended a number of services, including the solemnisation and registration of marriages until further notice. This comes as South Africa continues its second round of lockdown Level 3, as well as a second wave of COVID-19 infections worse than the first.

    In a statement on Tuesday [January 12], the Minister explained that Home Affairs will now only offer priority services, as the crowds that gather daily outside the offices are a massive concern.

    “At the beginning of the pandemic and the subsequent lockdown, certain Home Affairs services were suspended in order to reduce the number of people who visited our offices. This was to limit the risk of their infecting each other and the staff because social distancing is difficult when you have a large crowd,” he said.

    “As the lockdown levels were relaxed, we incrementally reinstated services until 01 October 2020 when we went into lockdown Alert Level 1. This is when almost all services were reinstated. Unfortunately, the impact of what we did on 01 October had the effect of taking us back to pre-COVID-19 days where huge crowds gathered at our offices while not observing any of the protocols, especially social distancing.”

    Out of their 412 offices, 266 had to close at some point since the beginning of the lockdown in March 2020 because of staff members testing positive for COVID-19. Hundreds of employees have tested positive for the virus and in the first 10 days of this year alone, they have already lost seven front office employees.

    “These trends and numbers are going upwards, suggesting there’s going to be an even greater demand for death certificates. Taking all these factors into consideration, the Department of Home Affairs has decided to temporarily suspend certain activities and services until further notice. This is unfortunate but we are forced by circumstances,” added the Minister.

    The following services have been suspended until further notice:

    – Applications of Smart ID Cards, except for matriculants

    – Applications for passports, except for people who fall in the categories permitted to travel in the amended Disaster Management Act Regulations

    – Marriage services such as solemnisation and registration.

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    Celebs, they’re just like us. You would think being rich and famous would make dating slightly easier, but some still need some extra help.

    Luckily, they’ve got great friends to play matchmaker. Here are some celebrity couples who came to be thanks to their cunning pals.

    Prince Harry and Meghan Markle:

    This modern-day fairytale is all thanks to a mutual friend, although their identity has no officially been confirmed.

    “It was definitely a set-up. It was a blind date,” Meghan has previously said of their first encounter. “I didn’t know much about him and so the only thing I had asked her when she said she wanted to set us up was, I had one question, I said ‘Is he nice?'”

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    Emily Blunt and John Krasinski

    This much-loved couple were introduced to each other by fellow actor Anne Hathaway, who Blunt worked with on The Devil Wears Prada.

    “It was one of those things where I wasn’t really looking for a relationship and I was thinking I’m going to take my time in L.A,” Krasinski explained during an interview with Ellen Degeneres. “Then I met her and I was so nervous. I was like, ‘Oh god, I think I’m going to fall in love with her.’ As I shook her hand I went, ‘I like you.'”

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    Benji Madden and Cameron Diaz

    We can thank Nicole Richie for this couple. The actress and reality star, who is married to Benji’s brother Joel, The reality star, who is married to Madden’s brother, Joel, took credit for playing cupid for the couple.

    “I approve of anything that’s going to make Benji happy,” she said during an interview on Watch What Happens Live. “I’m going to take responsibility for everything!”

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    Giselle Bunchen and Tom Brady

    The original supermodel and sports star couple met through a matchmaking mutual friend.

    “This friend told me he knew a girl version of me,” the NFL player said in an interview.

    “I knew Tom was the one straightaway. I could see it in his eyes that he was a man with integrity who believes in the same things I do,” Gisele told Vogue.

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    Joe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara

    This pair were introduced to each other at a party by Vergara’s Modern Family co-star Jesse Tyler Ferguson. Taking it a step further, he even gave Manganiello Vergara’s phone number to make sure they kept in contact.

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