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    Planning a wedding with a baby on the way is difficult enough with the pregnancy hormones getting in the way of a clear mind. Finding your dream dress during this time may be stressing you out even more. You’re probably wondering if the baby bump will be in the way.

    Not to worry! A baby bump is beautiful and all you need is know the best way to shop for it. Here are some tips to ensure your shopping experience is as pleasant as possible:

    – Consider flowy styles (if you want to lessen the appearance of the bump) 

    Of course it’s not necessary to hide your baby bump, you’re pregnant and proud! However, if it makes you more comfortable then an empire waist dress with lace or tulle is a great choice. Since they’re fitted at the bust, they leave a lot of room for your growing baby belly. It also will require less alterations and guessing about extra room in the dress.

    – Remember that you’ll grow 

    An important consideration in choosing a dress is how far along you’ll be on your wedding day. Experts have recommended that going two sizes up is best. This is because it’s easier to take a dress in, than to expand the width later.

    – Choose your fabrics wisely 

    Lighter fabrics will ensure you’re more comfortable. Never rule out comfort, it’s one of the most important things!

    – Shoes are part of your outfit too 

    Remember that just as your baby is growing, so are your feet. Consider the implications of choosing stilettos while carrying a baby, it may not be the smartest idea. Also remember that your shoe size may get bigger as you’re further along your pregnancy.

    – Don’t confine yourself to pregnancy options 

    You don’t have to shop in the maternity section if you don’t want to. It’s totally possible to still have that form fitting dress you’ve always dreamed of! You could even get creative and go for a two-piece or jumpsuit and forget the dress entirely, the options are endless and the choice is all yours.

    – Final fitting 

    Try to have your final fitting appointment as late as possible, maybe even in the week of the wedding. This allows for last minute adjustments, and your body is unlikely to change very much in the few days after the appointment until the wedding.

    – Embrace the extras 

    If you get to your final appointment and your dress doesn’t fit, don’t panic! Panels and corsets are easy solutions to this problem.

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    Fruitcake. It’s a confection that seems to generate a lot of debate; people either love it or hate it. The royals, however, seem to be dedicated to these fragrantly spiced, fruit infused cakes.

    When Prince Harry and Meghan Markle broke tradition in 2018 with their Amalfi lemon and English elderflower cake, they broke a fruitcake tradition that has spanned over centuries. This royal custom dates back to the Middle Ages.

    Chris Dodd, a London based pastry chef, explain to Vogue that the traditional English wedding fruitcake is, “an elaborate mixture of re-constituted dried fruits, which have been soaked in fruit juices and an alcoholic beverage such as port, sherry, rum, or even whiskey. To these, a dark brown sugar is added, together with a mix of fragrant spices, butter, and flour. The final product is then coated in a marzipan layer, followed by royal icing, to create a smooth and elegant finish.”

    Queen Victoria, Queen Elizabeth and Price Philip, Prince Charles and Princess Diana, Prince Andrew and Sarah Ferguson, and Prince William and Kate Middleton all stuck to the age-old tradition. But where does this convention come from?

    Fruitcakes were served at medieval feasts, and thereafter was served at all important celebrations such as Easter, Christmas, weddings, and christenings. First and foremost, the cake rose in popularity because it remained in good condition for a long time (since there were no refrigerators).

    There are, however, some more superficial reasons for the persistence of the ancient cake flavour through time. Apparently, the fruitcake was a symbol of wealth and prosperity because of the ingredients used to make it. Similarly, the cake was said to be a representation of the British empire – it comprised of  ingredients (spices for example) that came from all over the world.

    One other, huge reason is that a fruitcake allows the confectioners much more time to elaborately adorn the cake. We’re all aware that the royals are known for their massive, multi-tiered, over-the-top cakes. Creating those masterpieces takes time! The sugar-paste flowers which were used to decorate Prince William and Kate Middleton’s cake took five weeks to make. If they used a cake that goes off quickly, it wouldn’t have been edible by the time the wedding day arrived.

    Finally, the royals have a tendency to stick to tradition. Once it starts, it’s pretty difficult to break.

    Also read: Royal wedding cakes throughout history 

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    The big trend for bridesmaid dresses is simple: individuality. Allow your best girls to wear styles that flatter them. However, giving too much leeway with fashion can leave your bridal party looking disjointed. The solution? Multiway bridesmaid dresses.

    Multiway dresses are simple dresses with elongated fabric on the top to allow you to change up the upper half of your dress.  Halterneck, strapless, one shoulder…it’s all possible with this one-hit wonder. These dresses are incredibly versatile, allowing you to change up your style depending on the day.

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    If you’re on the hunt for the perfect one, Kameo’s versatile multiway dresses is the solution for your formal wardrobe needs. Perfect for a romantic date night or formal occasion, these dresses can be worn in over 15 different ways. They make an ideal bridesmaids’ dress too, allowing each member of your bridal party to wear a personalised style in the same fabric and colour. These dresses suit any body type and will have you feeling confident and elegant at any occasion.

    The multiway dresses come in a range of shades, including teal, almond, wine and mauve.

    Check out their website for more information.

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    Maryam Keyhani, a Toronto and Berlin based artist and milliner, is diversifying her creations by now including bridal hats or headpieces. For any bride who is looking to stand out and make a statement, Keyhani’s peices will provide a shock of inspiration.

    In a 2018 interview with Vogue, Keyhani explained her love for hats by saying, “When I wear hats, I feel safe.” She described her use of hats as a shield between herself and the rest of the world. She is now stretching this love of hats all the way into the bridal industry in 2020.

    According to Vogue, the event that inspired the creation of this bridal line was an appointment with a soon-to-be-married client who came in to fit on an ostrich feather crown. Keyhani was taken by the shift in her client’s attitude and outward emotions as she put the crown atop her head.

    “You put on something extraordinary and you feel extraordinary. Isn’t that amazing to feel on your wedding day?,” she said to Vogue on March 10, 2020 .

    About the headpiece line she said, “I spend a lot of time on the other side of reality, so fantasy is very much where these pieces exist.” And fantasy chic is exactly what you see when you lay your eyes on the look book.

    Keyhani said she loves the classic, romantic bride but she also loves massively over-the-top dresses with elegant headpieces. “Whatever the dress a Keyhani creation is worn with, it’s meant to be an invitation to play, and gives a woman the chance to be the bride and the cake,” she said.

    Have a look at her fairy-tale style head wear:

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    Perfume is expensive. How you smell is priceless. What most don’t know is that there is a right and wrong way of using a fragrance. You need to get your money’s worth out of each bottle and we are here to tell you how…

    Apply to hotspots:

    Don’t spray your neck. Let your body work its natural magic and apply perfume to certain heat points. Your belly-button, the small of your back, inside your elbows and the back of your knees and neck are places that work best. Heat points create a sillage that will develop your fragrance as you go about your day.

    Oscar de la Renta’s Bella Blanca (exclusively available at Dis-Chem Pharmacies) is a scintillating floral fragrance with notes of fresh jasmine, tuberose and freesia – and further develops to grounding sandalwood and musk as it warms.

    Spray, don’t rub:

    Ever notice how your scent changes throughout the day? Don’t interrupt the natural process by rubbing your skin. Rather let it simmer to maximise results. Heat-activated enzymes from rubbing prevents your scent from developing properly within each note stage.

    Keep it shady:

    This is important. Don’t expose the bottle to heat. While your fragrance looks beautiful perched on your bathroom cabinet, it won’t last very long. Fragrance is sensitive to light and heat.

    Spray wisely:

    Concentrated fragrances, like Eau de Parfum are slightly more intense than lighter Eau de Cologne or Eau de Toilette solutions. Choose something a little more potent and save on the sprays. Less is more when your fragrance is beautiful and bold.

    A good kind of clingy:

    Spraying perfume onto dry skin or clothing is pointless. Fragrance needs moisture to hold onto, so apply your scent to clean, well-moisturised skin to give it maximum staying power.

    Written by: Robyn Simpson

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    Simple yet oh so good, no one turns down a cookie. This childhood favourite can easily be transformed into a wedding wonder with some creative planning.

    Wedding cookies have been trending for a few years now, and it’s easy to see why. Using icing and unique piping detail, a plain cookie can make quite the statement. Using your wedding style and colours when designing the cookies will also help extend your theme even further. These sweet treats can be served as dessert, used as decor or even presented as a take-home wedding favour! Regardless of how you use them, we’re sure your guests will love them.

    Here are some sweet ideas to inspire you.

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    For a first-time property buyer, when you don’t yet have a solid understanding of the ins-and-outs of the property industry, taking that first step towards home ownership can be daunting.

    There’s a lot to consider before stepping onto the property ladder. And it isn’t as simple as going from the bottom to the top. You have to climb one ring at a time: do your research, ask questions and put yourself in the hands of people with in-depth industry knowledge.

    One concern that comes up for most potential property buyers is the issue of affordability. Carl Coetzee, CEO of BetterBond, says that it might be wise to consider co-ownership ‒ an accessible and certainly a more cost-effective way for people to enter the property market.

    “Assessing affordability is the first rung on the ladder to qualifying for a bond. One way to make it more affordable is to purchase property with a friend, partner or parent,” says Coetzee.

    The bond originator encourages people to apply for pre-qualification as the very first step to securing a bond. Pre-qualification is the process whereby the size of the bond the individual qualifies for is determined. A pre-qualification certificate can be issued within 24 hours and is typically valid for three months, assuming your financial position remains the same in those three months.

    Coetzee adds that a key benefit of pre-qualification is that it demonstrates to sellers that you are a serious buyer as you have already gone through the process of thoroughly assessing how much you qualify for.

    BetterBond handles clients’ home loan applications (at no charge), submitting to multiple banks to find the best deal available. They also offer free services online, including an affordability calculator which calculates the size of bond you could potentially qualify for based on your current income and expenses.

    So, what are the pros, cons and considerations of property co-ownership?

    According to the Stats SA General Household Survey 2018, around 35% of South African households own their property (with 18.3% owned by an individual and 17% owned jointly).

    Coetzee explains that there are obvious benefits such as sharing the costs and maintenance of a property, but it is very important for applicants to know exactly what they are getting into.

    “There are certain things you should consider when deciding if co-ownership is for you. For example, is the person you are looking to purchase property with someone you are willing to enter into a financial agreement with? Trust is very important,” he says.

    “You have to ask the right questions and ensure you are well informed before going into this kind of partnership. Once you have decided to go ahead, a written agreement must be drawn up at the outset outlining every detail of the arrangement,” Coetzee explains.

    “All terms must be agreed upon in this legally binding contract to avoid any potential issues or confusion down the line, especially if all partners are equal in the contract as no one party then has the authority to make decisions unless all are in agreement.”

    The co-ownership agreement should entail who will live on the property; who will pay or contribute towards deposits and initial payments for the property; how ownership will be shared (it is automatically equal if not stated otherwise); who will be allowed to draw funds from the bond; what will happen in the event of the death or incapacitation of one of the co-owners; what will happen if one or more parties in the contract wish to part ways or sell the property; how profits or losses on the property will be split; and anything else that might result in potential disputes.

    “Co-ownership makes it significantly easier to enter the property market, especially in light of the current economy where money is tight for most. But before entering into such an agreement, you have to consider all factors of the arrangement carefully and in great detail,” says Coetzee.

    “Clarity is key to a successful co-ownership agreement. All co-owners must agree on how things will work upfront, leaving no room for ambiguity.”

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    So you’ve been given the title of Maid of Honour and it’s such an important role in the wedding, it comes with several duties. With great power comes great responsibility.

    Hopefully you aren’t too stressed out about the part you have to play in the wedding. More than anything else, you’re the rock that needs to support the bride.

    If you’re a bit worried about what else you’ll need to do, here is a checklist to help you remember your duties.

    – Head of Bridesmaids 

    The maid of honour should be the go-to for the rest of the bridesmaids. If there are conflicts, tasks, or pre-wedding events that the bridesmaids are involved in, the maid of honour should organise them and ensure that everything is running smoothly.

    – Party planner 

    From the bridal shower to the bachelorette party, and any other pre-wedding celebrations in between, the maid of honour should have a heavy hand in the planning process.

    – Shopping assistant 

    Wedding dresses, bridesmaids dresses, decor, and much more. Shopping for all the things a bride needs can become very tiring. The maid of honour should be by the brides side as much as possible for this, providing opinions, support, and helping to carry those heavy shopping bags!

    – Speech maker 

    Often, the maid of honour is expected to give a toast at either the wedding or the rehearsal dinner. Be prepared!

    – Right hand to the bride 

    On the day of the wedding, the bride will need you for lots of small things. Lipstick checks, bathroom breaks, holding the bouquet when she walks down the aisle, providing water and snacks, and personal social media manager are all tasks the maid of honour can be expected to do on the big day. It may sound like a lot, but many of these things come naturally as the day passes by, you’ll see!

    – Point person for guests 

    The last thing a bride wants to do is answer endless questions about the registry, the location of the wedding, and other logistical issues. Guests should be directed to the maid of honour for all of these queries.

    – Time and record keeper

    You need to ensure that the bride is staying on track, she won’t be able to do it herself.

    Additionally, for any gifts and cards that are received, the maid of honour should do her best to keep a record of who gave what – this will be a huge help to the bride and will save her much stress after the wedding.

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    You’re sitting with your fiancé, on the couch with a glass of wine, and chatting about your upcoming wedding. The two of you have compiled lists of people who are to be invited and it’s time for you to combine your lists. Shock and horror ensues as you realise how large your guest list really is!

    You quickly try to find ways to shorten the list. Now you’re wondering (about the age-old question), “who really needs a plus one?”.

    Here are some quick rules to help you decide:

    – Married, engaged, or living together 

    If your friend – whose partner is unknown to you –  is married, engaged, or living with their significant other, then they traditionally receive a plus-one on their invitation.

    – The bridal party 

    The previous rule does not apply to those who are in your bridal party. They should always receive a plus one, no matter what their relationship status is.

    – Be clear about plus-ones 

    Make sure that it is explicitly clear whether your guests are allowed plus-ones. You should indicate this information on the invitation. If you can, add the name of the person you expect that they will bring on the invitation.

    – Seating 

    If you’re being strict about plus-ones, you have to ensure that everyone will be comfortable where they are seated. Don’t seat one individual with only couples. It’s best to have a table or two dedicated to those people who have not be given the privilege of bringing a plus-one. This will make things much less uncomfortable.

    – People who don’t need plus-ones 

    There are certain people who never need a plus one, no matter what the rules are about being married, being engaged or whatever the case may be. Coworkers never need plus ones, guests who are close to you and will know other guests do not need plus ones, and those guests who have a partner who they are only casually dating do not need plus ones. You don’t have to feel bad it!

    – Consider people who do need plus ones 

    This is another one where the previous rules may not apply. If a guest requires assistance, perhaps they are disabled and need physical assistance for example, then they should be given a plus one. You have to be considerate of your guests, you wouldn’t want them to have a horrible time at your wedding.

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    Choosing your bridal bouquet may seem like one of the simplest things to do for your wedding but it may not be. Flower types, matching with your dress, and arrangements are all things you have to consider.

    Another thing you should keep in mind is the shape you’d prefer. If you’re not sure what shapes are available, then this may be of some help to you.

    Here are some shape options for your bridal bouquet:

    – Composite Bouquet 

    Constructed using hundreds of single petals all wired together, this bouquet is made to look like one extra large flower. This can end up being quite and expensive option, but it adds a unique touch of elegance that you don’t often see.

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    – Cascade bouquet

    Also known as a shower bouquet, this one is quite traditional and very stylish. The flowers are arranged in such a way that they seem as though they’re flowing over the bride’s hands. Often, these bouquets are quite large, and so may be a little inconvenient to lug around on your wedding day. They are, however, great for photos.

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    – Fan bouquet 

    Adding a vintage-feel, this bouquet is simply a plastic fan intertwined with flowers and leaves. This one will stand out from the rest, as it is a very uncommon choice.

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    – Basket Bouquet

    If you’re having a garden wedding, this one is perfect for you. Flowers are arranged in a basket of whatever shape you prefer. Not only does it add a touch of rustic-vibes, it also generally ensures that your bridal flowers don’t wild and thus last longer.

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    – Presentation Bouquet 

    This one is perfect for the glamorous bride. Otherwise known as the sheath bouquet, this one is striking because of the long stemmed flowers used to create it. A bride carries a presentation bouquet in a specific way – cradled in her arms like a beauty queen who just received her prize.

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    – Pomander bouquet 

    While this one is quite uncommon for brides, it could add a touch of originality to your outfit. The pomander is a ball of flowers carried by a loop of ribbon.

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    – Biedermeier Bouquet 

    Named after a European style of interior design, the biedermeier bouquet is all about symmetry and drama. Flowers are organised in tight, concentric circles of contrasting coloured blooms.

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    – Nosegay Bouquet 

    One of the more structured shapes of bouquets, this one is smaller and easy to carry. Flowers are cut to the same length, tightly packed together, and wrapped in ribbon or lace.

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    – Hand-tied bouquets 

    Also known as a posy, this bouquet is exactly as it’s name suggests – a bunch of flowers, grouped together in an unstructured manner, and tied.

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