Author

Kirsten Jacobs

Browsing

Being a wedding photographer is a tough job. Tasked with capturing one of the most special days in a person’s life can be daunting, but South Africa has a wealth of talented individuals ready to rise to the occasion.

Photographers, like all wedding vendors, have been deeply impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic. For months, photographers were left without gigs as infections surged and people stayed indoors to avoid contracting the virus.

As the industry slowly reopens under Level 2 lockdown, vendors will have to adjust to the new reality. Wedding ETC spoke to Cape Town-based photographer Micaela Peters of Micaela Sling Photography to hear the reality of weddings in lockdown.

Peters has been seriously shooting for about a year, and her love for the art form is continuously growing. What started out as her being tired of being in front of the camera as a model and blogger turned into a more permanent post.

However, the lockdown was a massive blow, forcing her to change tactics.

“Lockdown has impacted my business immensely. At the beginning, no photoshoots were allowed at all, meaning no income for photographers – and we had to adapt by doing product shoots for business that continued their digital marketing.

“With companies losing profits and people losing their jobs, many stopped doing photoshoots. Weddings that were planned were cancelled or postponed, which made it really tough for photographers who relied solely on photography as their income.”

Weddings are now allowed under Level 2 lockdown, however strict health and safety regulations must be in place. No more than 50 may gather, and all guests are required to wear a mask at all times except when eating and drinking.

Weddings in lockdown from a photographer's lens

A wedding is all about love, laughter and joy. How does one go about this big day when you’re not supposed to hug and kiss? Peters recently shot a lockdown wedding, and the experience was unique, to say the least.

“I think one thing that stood out for me was how impersonal some pictures had to be when it came to the elderly. The wearing of the masks, the sanitisers, social distancing has become a norm. However, its tough for people to abide by these laws at a wedding because they’re around close friends and family whom they ‘trust.’ The churches are less full, and more impersonal during the wedding because guests need to social distance, therefore you need to be more creative with making the pictures not look impersonal.”

Weddings in lockdown from a photographer's lens

She continues: “Photographers are needing to adapt their lens to keep a distance, as well as constantly sanitising to protect themselves and others. Wedding parties are smaller, and extremely intimate, making you ease up and be more comfortable with people, making it easy to forget about coronavirus.”
In general, photographers have had to change their tactics in light of the pandemic, but not that much has changed. Peters explains that it has, however, forced her to become a lot more creative and resourceful.
Weddings in lockdown from a photographer's lens

“Location scouting has been tough, especially because so many restaurants and locations have closed down due to the pandemic, resulting in more research being required. Other than those, shooting in the pandemic is not a major change.

“Taking precautions have just become a norm, and being responsible when it comes to sanitising yourself and letting your client know if you’re feeling sick and need to postpone or having an open conversation with them about their health. “

Now that weddings are back on the cards, it’s important for couples to do their research before booking a photographer. Here are Micaela’s top tips:

– Check the photographer’s previous work before agreeing to the shoot as once the 50% is paid, you can’t get it back if you don’t like their work.

– Skype calls or meet ups are important to clarify expectations and what the package entitles couples to

– Some wedding photographers are willing to negotiate the prices or adapt the package to accompany your needs and budget (many have had financial strain during lockdown)

– Signing of a contract protects both you and the photographer, so make sure to read it carefully

– Do a couples shoot before the wedding to build a good chemistry with the photographer and get to know them.

If you’re in need of a wedding photographer, Micaela is your girl. Besides weddings, she also does lifestyle photography and works with bloggers. If you would like to work with her, find her Wedding Package HERE. Check out her work on her Instagram page, at Micaela Sling Photography or her Facebook page. Also make sure to visit her website www.micaelasling.co.za  
Images: Supplied

Award-winning musician Zakes Bantwini and actress Nandi Madida are dissolving their marriage contract. After four years of marriage, the pair have recently discovered they entered into the wrong contract and are seeking to rectify the mistake.

The couple mistakenly married in community of property, which means their estates are joined together. The power couple now plan to dissolve their marriage contract to enter into a new one out of community of property to protect their individual assets.

Sunday World reported that Bantwini has already filed a court order to remove his wife from their joint estates, which is worth millions.

In an affidavit, Bantwini explains the contract was mistakenly entered into due to a misunderstanding with the marriage officer.

“And as a result of a misunderstanding between ourselves and the marriage officer, who conducted the marriage ceremony, we understood incorrectly as it now appears that he would be in a position to ensure that our marriage would be out of community of property without the application of the accrual system,” read the affidavit.

“At all material times, it was the intention of the second applicant and myself to be married out of community of property without application of the accrual system.”

Feature image: Instagram / Zakes Bantwini

 

Actress and comedian Niecy Nash surprised fans when she announced she is bisexual and has a new wife.

The Claws star posted an image from her recent wedding to musician Jessica Betts, captioning it: “Mrs. Carol Denise Betts” along with #LoveWins.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEkLbNOpNNs/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This is the first time Nash has publicly spoken about her relationship with Betts, as well as her sexual identity.

Nash divorced her husband of eight years Jay Walker in 2019, and spoke of her difficulty in finding herself throughout that process.

While accepting the Vanguard Award at the 2020 Essence Black Women in Hollywood Awards Luncheon, she said: Trust that it is so much easier to walk in your truth than it is to run towards a lie. Make decisions about what you now know. You gotta own the part you play, that’s important. You gotta forgive yourself and others.”

Feature image: Instagram / Niecy Nash

It’s been a year since songstress Ellie Goulding and Caspar Jopling tied the knot in one of Britain’s most lavish non-royal weddings to date.

The private pair married on August 31, 2019 with a grand affair fit for royalty. A-list guests who attended include Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie, Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom, Ed Sheeran and Sienna Miller.

They exchanged vows at the York Minster Cathedral in England and held their reception at Castle Howard, a stately home a few miles away. In true Ellie style, she opted for not one but 5 show-stopping wedding looks, paving the way for ‘royal’ wedding trends to come.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B1623SijRN9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Her ceremony look consisted of a bespoke Chloé gown and a delicate silk tulle veil with an organza collar – featuring her and Caspar’s initials. The veil reportedly took 591 hours to make. The dress itself wasn’t shy of detail either – complete with hand-embroidered White Roses of York and subtle white glass bead embellishments, which took a further 640 hours to create.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2PCeO2jFuo/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Fans speculate that the couple met through their mutual friend, Princess Eugenie. The English singer-songwriter has been engaged to the art dealer since August 2018. Caspar announced the engagement on Instagram.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BmL0UfUBUF4/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

The pair are currently living apart as Goulding works on her upcoming album and Jopling continues his Masters degree at Oxford University.

Feature image: Instagram / Ellie Goulding

Flowers are stunning, but they’re also a bit expected for a wedding day. Why not swop them out for some adorable puppies instead?

Puppy bouquets are a great alternative that offers more than just a few extra cute wedding guests. Couples work with animal shelters and rescues to showcase the sweet pups at their weddings in the hopes that someone in the crowd will adopt them. This way, you help dogs in need find their forever home.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CDtn-KpHU1n/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

If you love this idea and would like to include it in your big day, there are a few things to keep in mind. The health and safety of the dogs must be a top priority, so it is important you have structures in place to protect them.

Before bringing the dogs, make sure a welfare check has been conducted. Things to consider are whether they are old enough to be taken away from their mother, whether they have been vaccinated, and whether any of them have any injuries or anxieties that may affect them being outside.

These puppies are not toys, and not meant to be held throughout the ceremony. Instead of carrying them down the aisle, the bridal party can simply swop out their floral bouquets for the pups during the official wedding photoshoot. This limits the time they have to be held down.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9hi-MEB6kI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

For the photoshoot, make sure to brief your party on the proper way to hold a dog as those without pets may to be familiar how to do it.

It’s also important to be considerate of loud noises. If you plan on having dogs present, a fireworks display is a really bad idea as it can make them very nervous and scared. Loud music, horns or just the general traffic of a busy wedding can all contribute to their anxiety.

Having a safe space where the pups can rest, away from the guests will also be really helpful.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CAiBIOGHRRP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Feature image: Pexels

Great television can make us laugh, and it can make us cry. It makes us feel like we’re friends with fictional characters, encouraging us to celebrate the milestones in their lives.

Wedding episodes are always special as we see our favourite on-screen couples take the next step in their relationship. Over the years, there have been some truly iconic fashion moments on the silver screen.

Here are a few of the most memorable wedding dresses in television history.

Christina Yang – Greys Anatomy

Never one to follow the rules, Dr. Christina Yang ignored tradition and went for a deep-red dress to marry Dr. Owen Hunt. She even hosted the ceremony right in her living room.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Blair Waldorf – Gossip Girl

Ever the fashionista, Blair Waldorf stunned in a light blue embellished Elie Saab gown to tie the knot with on-again off-again love Chuck Bass. The dress screamed old world glamour mixed with contemporary high fashion.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Olivia Pope – Scandal

The long-awaited wedding of Olivia Pope and former President Fitzgerald Grant III finally arrived in the show’s Season 6 finale. Pope stunned in an off-the-shoulder Anne Barge wedding gown that featured a fitted bodice and full skirt. She accessorised with pearl pins in her bridal updo and a long veil.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Serena van der Woodsen – Gossip Girl

It-girl Serena van der Woodsen married Lonely Boy Dan Humphreys in the show’s final episode. For their nuptials, she went bold in a Georges Chakra couture strapless metallic gold gown.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Margaery Tyrel – Game of Thrones

While this wedding day was slightly eclipsed by the long awaited murder of King Jeoffrey, we have to shine a light on Queen Margaery’s gown. For her second (and not final) wedding, Margery wore a gown made of linen silk featuring woven leaves and hand rolled and stitched roses cascading down the back of the skirt. The roses honoured the Tryel family sigil.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Liz Lemon – 30 Rock

Liz Lemon’s wedding was just as quirky as her personality. After deciding to get married on a whim to be more attractive to adoption agencies, Liz took the concept of a princess gown quite literally. She wore a replica of Princess Leia’s wedding dress from Star Wars to marry Jack.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Cece – New Girl

After a few to many glasses of bubbly, Cece and pal Winston bought a dress their crew deemed the ugliest wedding gown in existence. Best friend Jess turned the dress inside out and transformed it into a stunning gown draped in gold lace. Her shawl had a red lace trim in honour of her Indian culture.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history
Credit: Pinterest

Leslie Knope – Parks and Recreation

As one of the most sentimental characters to ever grace the small screen, Leslie Knope’s wedding dress was never going to be dull. Her homemade knee-length dress was decorated with newspaper clippings from all the times Leslie had been written about for her accomplishments. The skirt also featured campaign flyers and portraits of her role models like Michelle Obama and Madeleine Albright.

Most memorable wedding dresses from television history

Feature image: Instagram / New Girl

Famed Bring It On actress Gabrielle Union and retired basketball icon Dwyane Wade are celebrating six years of marriage. The beloved couple took to social media on Sunday, August 30 to write sweet tributes to one another on their special day.

I just reaaalllllly love you. And as much as I love you, I LIKE you even more. 6 down. A lifetime to go. Happy Anniversary bae,” wrote Union alongside a slideshow of pictures of the two of them.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEh6kaTpgvv/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

“Still floating from this day. When my BFF became husbae,” she wrote in another post.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEiRRrZp0NA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Wade shared his own video from their big day, captioning it “6 years and counting……”

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEhrRjonla3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Union and Wade began dating in 2009 and tied the knot on August 30, 2014 in Miami, Florida. Union is stepmother to Wade’s three children Zaire Blessing Dwyane (18), Zaya (13) and Xavier Zechariah (6). In 2018, they welcomed their first child together, daughter Kaavia James (2) via surrogacy.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CD_6fdiJKJb/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

The pair explained that being supportive of one another is the key to a successful marriage. Speaking to People Magazine, Wade said: “She is her own boss and has her own career, her own bank account and all that. She has her own life and she allows me to live my life and be me, and she doesn’t try to stop my growth or change who I am.”

“We both work very hard for our families and we love that about each other,” he added. “We love that we grind, we go for it, we work, but we still find time for our family and find time to spend time together and love each other.”

Feature image: Instagram / Gabrielle Union

The world is mourning the loss of Black Panther actor Chadwick Boseman, who inspired a generation as the first black Superhero. Boseman was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2016 and fought through his illness to star in a host of  box office hits.

A few months before his passing, Boseman and his longtime girlfriend Taylor Simone Ledward secretly tied the knot.

The pair have been together since 2015. Ledward is a music industry studies graduate from California State Polytechnic University. She has been by his side ever since. In October 2019, they reportedly became engaged and were rumoured to marry in early 2020.

While there is no news on when exactly they tied the knot, their marriage was confirmed during the announcement of Boseman’s death.

“It is with immeasurable grief that we confirm the passing of Chadwick Boseman,” the statement read. “Chadwick was diagnosed with stage III colon cancer in 2016 and battled with it these last four years as it progressed to stage IV. A true fighter, Chadwick persevered through it all, and brought you many of the films you have come to love so much. From Marshall to Da 5 Bloods, August Wilson’s Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom and several more, all were filmed during and between countless surgeries and chemotherapy. It was the honor of his career to bring King T’Challa to life in Black Panther. He died in his home, with his wife and family by his side.”

Picture: Instagram

It seems former One Direction star Liam Payne is off the market! The singer has reportedly popped the question to girlfriend Maya Henry after two years of dating.

According to the Daily Mail, Payne proposed with a stunning diamond that cost him a whopping £3 million. The private couple is said to have gotten engaged during lockdown.

While neither of them have confirmed their engagement, the couples were spotted out for dinner in London on Thursday, August 27 and Henry’s dazzling rock was on full display.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B5oEVOqnNCP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Payne and Henry met back in 2015 at a One Direction meet-and-greet fan event when Maya was only 15. Three years later, they were spotted together for the first time in August 2018 after the musician split from Cheryl Cole, with whom he shares a son.

In 2019, the couple went Instagram official just as Payne’s first single ‘Stack It Up’ was released.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2osesKAdAF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

“Sometimes I don’t recognise this happy guy… sure glad you brought him back though. This has been the most amazing release week to date! Massive thank you to all my team for helping setting it all up and making it run smooth,” Payne wrote in an Instagram post.

“Then last but not least this one @maya_henry for always keeping the biggest smile on my face through all the stress and making me realise how perfect my life really is. Love you all let’s stack this sh** up.”

Speaking to MTV News, Payne said that he has had much heartbreak in his life but has finally found his match.

‘I’ve found someone who’s genuinely my best friend, she’s just so relaxed about everything and someone who’s completely got your back with everything is just the wildest thing.”

Feature image: Instagram / Maya Henry

Your wedding vows is a time to express how much you love your partner. Now is the time to be as honest and heartfelt as possible.

However, being so emotional is not easy for everyone. So why not refer to the experts? If you’re in need of inspiration, simply turn to your favourite musician. There is a wealth of love songs that perfectly explain your deepest feelings.

Here are a few special songs that give us all the feels:

Your Song – Elton John

Best line: ‘I hope you don’t mind / That I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world’

Best Part – Daniel Caesar

Best line: ‘You’re the coffee that I need in the morning / You’re my sunshine in the rain when it’s pouring’

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face – Roberta Flack

Best line: ‘The first time ever I saw your face / I thought the sun rose in your eyes’

Stuck on You – Lionel Richie

Best line: ‘Stuck on you / I’ve got this feeling down deep in my soul that I just can’t lose’

Dangerously in Love – Destiny’s Child

Best line: ‘Baby, I love you, you are my life / My happiest moments weren’t complete if you weren’t by my side / You’re my relation in connection to the sun / With you next to me there’s no darkness I can’t overcome’

At Last – Etta James

Best line: ‘At last my love has come along / My lonely days are over and life is like a song, oh yeah’

I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz

Best line: ‘I won’t give up on us / Even if the skies get rough / I’m giving you all my love / I’m still looking up’

Waiting For A Girl Like You – Foreigner

Best line: ‘I’ve been waiting for a girl like you to come into my life / I’ve been waiting for a girl like you, your loving will survive / I’ve been waiting for someone new to make me feel alive’

(They Long To Be) Close To You – The Carpenters

Best line: ‘On the day that you were born the angels got together / And decided to create a dream come true / So they sprinkled moon dust in your hair of gold and starlight in your eyes of blue’

Back At One – Brian McKnight

Best line: ‘One / You’re like a dream come true / Two / Just want to be with you / Three / Girl, it’s plain to see / That you’re the only one for me’

Make You Feel My Love – Adele

Best line: ‘I’d go hungry; I’d go black and blue / And I’d go crawling down the avenue / No, there’s nothing that I wouldn’t do / To make you feel my love’

All of Me – John Legend

Best line: ‘‘Cause all of me / Loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges / All your perfect imperfections’

Songbird – Fleetwood Mac

Best line: ‘To you I would give the world / To you I’d never be cold / ‘Cause I feel that when I’m with you / It’s all right I know it’s right’

Come What May – Moulin Rouge soundtrack

Best line: ‘Seasons may change, winter to spring / But I love you until the end of time’

Such Great Heights – The Postal Service

Best line: ‘I am thinking it’s a sign / That the freckles in our eyes / Are mirror images / And when we kiss they’re perfectly aligned’

Feature image: Pexels