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    Lavender, mauve, violet and periwinkle are just a few popular shades in the ever-flattering purple family. This colour is soft yet rich, a stunning look for your bridesmaids.

    Picking the right shade is crucial, as you want one that complements your wedding colours and tone, as well as your bridesmaids skintones. Lilac and lavender are light and airy, perfect for spring weddings. Plums and mulberry, on the other end, are deep and make a bold statement.

    You could also throw uniformity out of the window and opt for various shades, to have your bridal party looking like a purple rainbow.

    Here are some purple bridal parties to inspire your own:

     

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    Your marriage officer is an important part of your big day. After all, they’re the ones who make it all legal! It’s not unusual to ask a close family member or friend to officiate a wedding day, as in some parts of the world it’s quite easy to become an ordained minister.

    When you’re famous, it just makes sense to have a fellow star officiate your big day. Here are the celebrities who have stepped into this prestigious role for their Tinseltown mates.

    Adele

    Musician Adele put her smooth voice to another use and officiated the wedding of her best friend, comedian Alan Carr and his partner Paul Drayton back in 2018. She also served as entertainment for the day and serenaded the wedding party.

    “We’ve known her for ages, and when we told her we were getting married, she said, ‘Can I please plan the whole day for you?’” Carr said. “She organized everything. She’s the most kindest, sweetest, most generous person ever.”

    Kris JennerIt seems there is nothing Kris Jenner cannot do. The mogul has officiated multiple weddings, including best friend and “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” star Faye Resnick to Everett Jack Jr., as well as the wedding of The Vampire Diaries star Colton Haynes and Jeff Leatham in 2017.

    Tom Hanks
    All-around good guy Tom Hanks officiated the wedding of Get Out actress Allison Williams and Ricky Van Veen. At the time, Hanks’ wife Rita Wilson played Williams’s mother on the show ‘Girls’ and was already involved as a performer on the big day. Williams made it a family affair by asking Hanks to officiate.

    Jonah Hill
    Actor Jonah Hill officiated the superstar wedding of Maroon 5 frontman Adam Levine and Victoria’s Secret model Behati Prinsloo back in 2014. The pair were childhood best friends and remained close in their adulthood.

    “Jonah was hysterical. He was telling so many jokes, but then in the middle would be so sweet and sincere,” a guest told E! News.
    Jimmy KimmelJimmy Kimmel put his hosting duties to good use and officiated not one but two celebrity weddings. First, he officiated Matt Damon and wife Luciana Barroso’s vow renewal in 2013, then he married Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux in 2015.

    Ian McKellan
    The X-Men star officiated the wedding of a close friend and fellow actor Patrick Stewart to singer Sunny Ozell in 2013.

    Rev. Run from Run DMC

    Legendary musician Rev. Run, also known as Joseph Simmons, from the iconic Run DMC officiated the wedding of Nicole Richie and Joel Madden in 2010.

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    The coronavirus pandemic has changed life as we know it, forcing us all to find contactless ways to go about our days and the wedding world is no different.

    An Indian couple recently went viral for their inventive way of accepting monetary wedding gifts. Instead of a cash donation, this couple asked wedding guests to scan the QR code of Google Pay and PhonePe on their wedding invite so that they can easily transfer money without physical contact.

    “About 30 persons had used the facility and gave cash as their wedding present,” said T.J.Jeyanthi, the mother of the bride. “This is the first time such a thing has been attempted in our family.”

    Besides being COVID-19 safe, this is also a more eco-friendly option as it eliminates the need for envelopes and cards. It also makes it so much easier for you to save money, as it is already in your bank account.

    Would you try this?

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    The South African Law Reform Commission (SALRC) is considering introducing a single marriage statute for the country. In a discussion paper, two alternative draft bills are being proposed to recognise relationships and marriages by parties, regardless of their unique backgrounds.

    The two bills are:

    – The Protected Relationships Bill; and

    – The Recognition and Registration of Marriages and Life Partnerships Bill.

    “The Bills seek to provide for the recognition of protected relationships or of marriages and life partnerships, entered into by parties regardless of the religious, cultural or any other beliefs of the parties, or the manner in which the relationship was entered into; to provide for the requirements for entering into a protected relationship or a marriage or a life partnership; to provide for the registration of protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships; to provide for the legal consequences of entering into protected relationships or marriages and life partnerships; and to provide for matters incidental thereto,” explains the SALRC.

    The draft bill addresses issues like the age of marriage parties, the role of marriage officers, and regulations for polygynous marriages among others.  Under this new proposed Marriage Act, all South Africans will be able to conclude legal marriages regardless of their different sexual orientation, religious and cultural persuasions. It also focuses on equity within relationships.

    Here are some of the key proposed changes:

    – The validity requirements for a protected relationship, a marriage or a life partnership are that all the parties must be at least 18 years on the date of entering into the relationship; that the parties must give free and informed consent; and must have the capacity to enter into the relationship. If the parties do not comply with the requirements the relationship is void.

    –  If a male party to a subsisting polygynous protected relationship or to a subsisting marriage or life partnership, wishes to enter into a further relationship, he must obtain consent from the wife or wives to enter into a further relationship. If he enters into a further relationship without the consent of all his wives that further relationship entered into will be void. The registering officer must enquire into the existence of such consent having been sought and granted when the further relationship is registered. Where consent for a party entering into a relationship is lacking due to a failure to comply with the proposed legislation, the court must be empowered to make a just property division order about the relationship property of the parties to the relationship.

    – Every person in a protected relationship or a marriage or life partnership must have the capacity to understand the legal consequences of the relationship at the time it was entered into. All parties in a protected relationship or a marriage or life partnership have equal status and capacity.

    –  A court may order the registration of any protected relationship or any marriage or life partnership; or the cancellation or rectification of any registration of a protected relationship or marriage or life partnership. A certificate of registration of a protected relationship or marriage or life partnership issued in terms of the legislation constitutes prima facie proof of the existence of 5 the protected relationship or marriage or life partnership and of the particulars contained in the certificate.

    –  It is possible to prove the existence of a life partnership other than by proof of registration. As regards addressing sham or bogus marriages, the continued involvement of marriage officers who will verify the identification documentation of prospective partners and who will conduct interviews with the parties can play a role in determining whether the relationship is genuine. Registering officers of the DHA will also be able to scrutinise and verify the particulars of the parties when they consider applications for the registration of relationships at DHA registering offices.

    The draft proposal is open for public comment until March 31, 2021. Read the full proposal HERE.

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    Make a bold statement with a tulle wedding dress. Known as the modern-day ‘frothy dress’, this fabric creates a fairytale-like design, encouraging the bride to feel like a little girl playing dress-up.

    Tulle has been a popular fabric for bridal gowns for decades now, and it’s easy to see why. Its versatility is its best asset. It can be chic and glamorous or soft and girly depending on how you style it. Take a look at just a few of the variation we are loving:

     

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    Bring the island vibe to your accessories with a tropical-inspired bridal bouquet. This theme exudes laid-back vibes, perfect for the chilled bride.

    If you’re having a destination wedding, including flowers endemic to that region is a super sweet idea. If you’re not but just love the look, flowers like Birds of Paradise, Phalaenopsis Orchids, and Pin Cushion Proteas are popular choices. Opt for doses of colour to liven the lookup and stay on-trend.

    Of course, you can’t forget to add in some leaves of greenery. Fleshy, large leaves like the Monstera, the Banana leaf and the Fiddleleaf are great additions.

    Here are some beautiful bouquets to inspire you:

     

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    Going down on one knee to propose is a special moment, one you’ll (hopefully) want to remember for a lifetime. Finding the perfect spot is the first step to making your dream proposal come true.

    For couples who love spending their time in nature, what better place to pop the big question than in the great outdoors? It offers free, stunning scenery and gives you many opportunities to have an organic proposal that you don’t have to spend too much time orchestrating.

    Here are some picturesque places to consider popping the question:

    On your favourite hiking trail

    If you and your partner love hiking, they shouldn’t be suspicious when you suggest a romantic sunset hike. Unbeknownst to them, pack a picnic basket and have a friend race to the end of the trail ahead of time to set up the spot. Drape some twinkling string lights along the path to light your way, and lay down a blanket and picnic to allow you to take in the sunset before proposing.

     

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    Go camping

    You and your love snuggled up under stars, what could be more romantic than that? Add an engagement into the mix and you’ve got the perfect evening. Be wise and choose a camping spot with a stunning view for the perfect backdrop. Head out on a warm evening with some comfy blankets and pillows and a delicious spread. Enjoy some stargazing before popping the big question.

     

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    Take to the seas

    If you and your partner are big fans of the ocean, a boat proposal seems like the perfect idea. Rent out a yacht or catamaran, either for just the two of you or your closest friends if you want an audience. You could even go smaller with a canoe or small speedboat, the options are endless. Bonus points if you go for a sunset cruise, as the warm rays of the setting sun will act as the perfect lighting for your proposal.

     

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    Head to your favourite vineyard

    Wine is always a good time. Take a trip down to your favourite winery, or spend the day vineyard-hopping on the Franschhoek wine tram. End the day by proposing at your top spot. Choosing a winery means the food and drink are already covered, which gives you less to stress about. You could even have a private wine tasting set up for a more intimate moment.

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    The COVID-19 pandemic has changed life as we know it. Plans that were made and trips that were booked were scrapped as the virus took over the world.

    For those that postponed or cancelled their honeymoons in light of the pandemic, they miss out on that special time to grow closer and welcome the first few days of wedded bliss in a beautiful setting away from the stresses of everyday life.

     

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    Luckily, your honeymoon is not lost forever. Many couples are now planning their ‘latermoon’, a holiday taken by newlyweds weeks or even months after their wedding,

    With travel restrictions across the world, the latermoon is your best option. It can also be a blessing in disguise, as it gives you more time to save up spending money and gives you an opportunity to research your destination better.

    In time, your honeymoon maybe even more special because you waited for it for so long. When you are finally able to travel to your dream destination, it will feel even more sweet knowing you and your loved one made it through a global pandemic.

     

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    As the COVID-19 pandemic continues, some wedding plans have been put on hold and others happened sooner than expected. If you tied the knot before your planned wedding date, this means you likely missed out on some of the traditional pre-wedding celebrations.

    Typically, a bachelorette party is a celebration of the bride’s last night of singledom. But what if you’re already married?

    In comes the wifelorette. A wifelorette is a party given in honour of a woman who is already married. Generally, this kind of party happens if the bride could not have a bachelorette party before her wedding.

     

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    Wifelorettes are no different than the usual bachelorette, so let your creative juices flow and plan something that is perfect for you and your best friends. From a night out on the town to a weekend away, or even a fun scavenger hunt, anything goes.

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    We know that a honeymoon is not about where you are, but who you are with. That being said, spending it in a beautiful location wouldn’t hurt.

    There are hundreds of incredible locations around the world to ring in your first few days of wedded bliss in style. Here are a few of our favourites:

    Amangiri in Utah, USA

     

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    Amangiri is a remote hideaway tucked within the luminous canyons of the American Southwest. This 600-acre sanctuary of wilderness and isolation in Canyon Point, Southern Utah features the Aman Spa with a water pavilion, sauna, steam room, cold plunge and outdoor private pavilions. Visitors also get privileged access to nearby National Parks and Lake Powell.

    Giraffe Manor in Nairobi, Kenya

     

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    This exclusive boutique hotel, owned by The Safari Collection, is often referred to as one of the most Instagrammed properties in the world. Giraffe Manor is set in 12 acres of private land within 140 acres of indigenous forest in the Langata suburb of Nairobi and is one of the city’s most iconic buildings. Its most famous residents are the herd of Rothschild’s giraffes who often join couples for their meals.

    Babylonstoren in Franschhoek, South Africa

     

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    Babylonstoren is one of the oldest Cape Dutch farms, set at the foot of Simonberg in the Franschhoek wine valley. It has a fruit and vegetable garden of beauty and diversity, unique accommodation, fine food and wine, and evokes a sense of wellbeing. Couples can spend hours walking through Babyonstoren’s manicured garden before taking a dip in the pool and relaxing in your suite.

    The St. Regis in Bora Bora

    There is a reason Bora Bora is the top on everyone’s list of dream honeymoon destinations: it is simply stunning. Stay in the largest overwater villas in the South Pacific and revel in the turquoise blue waters visible from the glass panels at the St. Regis. Couples can spend the day exploring the island, snorkeling, or simply relaxing in your stunning suite.

    The Retreat at Blue Lagoon, Iceland

     

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    This Icelandic retreat features suites built right into centuries-old lava, with floor-to-ceiling windows that boast the mesmerising scenery of the country’s famous Blue Lagoon. A stay at The Retreat includes access to an underground spa, upscale dining, daily yoga and Northern Lights viewing tours.

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