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    Weddings are (almost) back to normal with the new Level 1 regulations. Venues may be filled to 50% capacity with the cap on outdoor venues at 500 people.  So, unless you live in Buckingham Palace, you shouldn’t have to cut too many from your guest list for a backyard wedding.

    Having your wedding in your own garden might be a very attractive option for some for a multitude of reasons. Firstly, you don’t have to budget for venue hire, and you can get any date you choose. Some might also feel safer in terms of COVID-19, as you don’t have to go into a public space.

    If you decide to go this route, you have to do it well. Here are our top tips on how to make sure your big day is extra special.

    Decide on the number of guests

    Firstly, depending on your space, budget and current lockdown regulations, you and your partner will need to decide how many guests you can invite. Backyard weddings tend to be smaller and more intimate, so firstly set out a list of your closest family and friends you want to invite. Remember to count all the vendors and the marriage officer too. All this will help determine how you lay out of the wedding and the rest of your plans.

    Consider the weather

    Depending on the season in the area you live, you might have to provide some form of cover from wind, rain or sun. Shop around for different styles of marquee tents, tepees, gazebos or even just umbrellas. You wouldn’t want to have everyone slosh around in mud or get heat stroke on your wedding day.

    Use available space economically

    Decide where you want the ceremony, the ‘waiting area’ and the reception. Of course, it can all be the same spot if you choose, but make sure guests know where you want them. Also be mindful of social distancing for your own and your guests’ safety. Place families together at dining tables and place seats at the reception far apart. Names on seats and tables are an easy way to guide everyone.

    Match your decor to what you already have 

    If your garden is the setting, you can work with what you have and just add subtle extras to complement existing beauty. Take note of the plants growing in your garden and match your colour scheme to that. Also try to use functional items doubly as decor. For example, if you have an arch at the ceremony, why not make it double as a photo booth at the reception? If you have a gifts table, ask your bridal parties to move the gifts indoors before the reception and convert that table into the drinks station.

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    A beach wedding is the quintessential summer event. The sound of the waves gently lapping on the shore and the feeling of sand in between your toes is enough to soothe anyone’s senses.

    With such a beautiful backdrop, there isn’t that much you need to do to dress your venue. A few tables, flowers and umbrellas for shade are all you need.

    If you want to add that extra flair, there are so many fun and vibrant styling ideas that are guaranteed to wow your guests. Think chandeliers,  modern arches and boho-inspired lanterns.

    If you’re struggling to visualise, don’t fear. We’ve got some amazing inspiration:

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    Decorating a wedding cake is a form of art. Anyone can ice a cake, but only true artists can take it to the next level.

    We love a stand-out wedding cake, mainly because it can work as its own feature on your big day. A cake can become art depending on the overall aesthetic and finish you choose.

    Adding tons of texture and 3-dimensional detail is the easiest way to get your art on. You can also go literal with an abstract-inspired icing job, or get creative with your cake stand.

    Here are a few of our favourite creations:

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    The battle continues for same-sex couple Megan Watling and Sasha-Lee Heekes. The pair are facing off in court against Western Cape wedding venue Beloftebos, who made headlines in January for refusing to host their same-sex wedding ceremony on religious grounds.

    The couple are now seeking R2-million in damages, which they plan to donate to charity. Court papers filed in the Equality court reveal that Watling and Heekes are suing Beloftebos owners Andries and Coia de Villiers for the impairment of dignity, pain and suffering due to unfair discrimination against them.

    The brides-to-be also want the court to declare the venue’s refusal to host same-sex weddings as unfair discrimination, and thus unlawful and unconstitutional. They are seeking an unconditional apology from the venue, in which they acknowledge the harm they have caused.

    The SA Human Rights Commission (SAHRC) launched an application against the owners in March, following several complaints about the venue. The Comissioner, André Gaum, explained that the outcome they hoped to achieve includes that the venue’s policy be declared discriminatory, and that they are forced to host same-sex marriages. He said that the policy is unconstitutional and amounts to unfair discrimination.

    Back in May, Beloftebos filed their own papers claiming that they were discriminated against by the SAHRC. The owners of the establishment claimed that they had filed papers with the Equality Court, opposing the fact that they have discriminated against LGBTI+ people. This means they are arguing that their policy which states that they will not host same-sex weddings, is not discriminatory.

    Michael Swain, executive director of Freedom of Religion South Africa said that Beloftebos are “asking the Equality Court to find that the SAHRC unfairly discriminated against them on grounds of conscience, religion and belief, and that the commission is biased and prejudiced in its treatment of them and their belief system”.

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    A 30-year-old woman from Colombia had her dream of being a bride come true when she married her long-term love in the hospital, a few days before her death.

    Estefany Torres Vera (30) and Duvan Yefren Pabon met at a mall nine years ago, and have been together ever since. They have a seven-year-old son and always wanted to get married but were unable to do so due to their financial situation.

    Estefany was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer, and was hospitalised in 2020 as her health deteriorated. Still wanting to marry the love of her life, Estefany and Duvan planned an impromptu hospital wedding.

    The pair married in Estefany’s hospital room on September 11. The bride wore a white dress and tiara for their nuptials. They livestreamed the wedding so that their family at home could still attend virtually. Local police organised a brass band to play outside as the bride was wheeled into the room.

    “We did not want a painful goodbye, we wanted a joyful one. This gave Estefany the happiness she deserved,” the bride’s sister Julia Andrea Torres Vega said.

    The bride sadly died on September 13, just two days after her dream wedding.

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    Amethyst, a violet variety of quartz, is not only a popular ring choice, but can make for exquisite decor inspiration too. The deep, regal colour of the stone can guide you in planning your atmosphere and style.

    Read: Stone of the Gods: Amazing amethyst rings 

    Often viewed as a stone of peace, some believe amethyst’s calming presence produces a soothing and tranquil feel.

    Here are some of our favourite amethyst-inspired decor, stationery, bouquets and more:

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    South Africa is officially moving to Level 1 lockdown from midnight on Sunday, September 20. With this shift comes an easing of restrictions, which may benefit the wedding industry.

    Under Level 2, weddings were allowed to continue but for no more than 50 people, and a host of health and safety measures must be adhered to.

    In his televised address, President Cyril Ramaphosa announced that the Level 1 has less strict regulations on gatherings. While the safety regulations will likely remain in place, couples may be able to increase their guest list. Instead of a blanket number of 50 people, social gatherings will now depend on the size of a venue.

    “Social, religious, political and other gatherings will be permitted, as long as the number of people does not exceed 50% of the normal capacity of a venue, up to a maximum of 250 people for indoor gatherings and 500 people for outdoor gatherings,” Ramapshosa said in his speech.

    “Health protocols, such as washing or sanitising of hands, social distancing and mask-wearing, will need to be strictly observed.”

    Ramaphosa also announced that the country would begin a gradual reopening of international travel, subject to various containment and mitigation measures. This means that destination weddings are on the cards again.

    Travel may be restricted to and from certain countries that have high infection rates. A list of countries will be published soon based on the latest scientific data.

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    Singer and Dynasty star Elizabeth Gillies surprised fans by announcing she is a married woman. The former Nickeloden star secretely said ‘I do’ to producer and composer Michael Corcoran back in August.

    The pair tied the knot on August 8 in an intimate garden ceremony, months after postponing their orginal April wedding due to the ongoing coronavirus pandemic.

    The wedding was a small affair, with only 10 guests in attendance. Gillies told Vogue they were both tested before the wedding, and quarantined with family for two weeks before.

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    The bride wore a satin A-line gown and floor length lace veil. Her father was the wedding officiant, and their dog Bubba stood in as ring bearer.

    “It has been such a long road for us, and at times [it] felt like a total impossibility that it was hard to believe we’d actually gotten to that moment where it was really happening,” Gillies told Vogue. “Once we were exchanging vows, it hit me that my dad was marrying us and our loved ones were there, and I think I turned to Michael and mouthed, ‘Oh, my God, we actually did it.’ We were so happy.”

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    The case for eloping strengthens with every day the COVID-19 pandemic continues. More and more couples are opting to spend their big day on a micro-scale, with only two witnesses and an officiant present.

    If you were meant to marry this year and still want to go through with it despite the pandemic, the safest option is to elope. This way, only your absolute closest are present.

    Considering elopements are a lot more casual, you have more options for what to wear. Shorter dresses are more appropriate if you intend to have a casual courthouse event, or even a mountaintop moment. Here are some lovely looks you can shop right now:

    Holly Cowl Neck Dress from Forever New

    Boho Ruffle Sleeve Gown from Princess Lola Boutique

    Ruched bardot midi dress from Missguided 

    Off Shoulder Scalloped Lace Gown from Princess Lola

    Kira Belted Linen Jumpsuit from Forever New

    Lace panel scuba tiered midi dress from Missguided

    Draped Bodycon Dress White from Mango

    Winona Metallic Dress from Forever New

    One shoulder midi dress from Missguided

    Secret Garden Lace Gown from Princess Lola Boutique

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    As the COVID-19 pandemic continues, industries have had to come up with more creative ways to complete their services in safer way.

    To reduce physical contact, the Saudi Arabian government has begun allowing e-marriage contracts. This allows couples to receive their marriage contracts without having to be physically present.

    Couples simply need to provide all the relevant data and information and conduct a medical examination before the date of the marriage session. A marriage officer will verify all the data and supply the final contract that can be signed electronically and printed from the online portal.

    This service helps in documenting marriage data and finalizing marriage contracts easily and conveniently.

    In similar fashion, marriage by proxy has been around for centuries and has allowed people separated by borders to tie the knot without both being physically present. An agent acts on behalf of one of the parties during the solemnization of the marriage.

    Marriage by proxy was very common among nobility. Marie Antoinette married Louis-Auguste by proxy in  1770 and French emperor Napoleon married Archduchess Marie Louise by proxy in 1810. This service became even more popular in the early 1900s in America during the war efforts.

    Marriage by proxy is most commonly used in cases where one partner is enrolled in military service, imprisoned or due to travel restrictions.

    Importantly, this marriage is not legally recognised by most countries as common law requires both parties to be present.

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