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    The excitement of getting engaged often comes with one unavoidable question: Where do we even begin?

    Between Pinterest boards, TikTok trends and endless Instagram inspiration, it’s easy to jump straight into choosing colour palettes or saving floral installations before you’ve even decided on a venue. But according to experienced wedding planners, the most successful weddings rarely start with aesthetics – they start with a plan.

    Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate celebration or a lavish weekend affair, getting the order right from the beginning can save you money, reduce unnecessary stress and make every decision that follows feel far more intentional. Here’s how the experts recommend approaching wedding planning.

    Take a moment to enjoy being engaged

    It may sound counterproductive, but one of the first pieces of advice from planners is to simply – pause.

    Rebecca Glen, founder and lead planner at The Wedding Fairy, encourages couples to enjoy this chapter before diving headfirst into logistics.

    “The first step is actually to pause and enjoy being engaged. That season is short, and it’s worth taking it in before jumping straight into logistics.”

    Wedding planning can easily become a months-long project filled with deadlines and decisions. Giving yourselves space to celebrate this milestone before opening spreadsheets and comparing venues can make the journey feel far more enjoyable.

    Start with your budget – not your Pinterest board

    Every planner interviewed agreed on one thing: the budget should come first. Before browsing venues or saving inspiration online, sit down together and decide what you’re realistically comfortable spending, how many guests you’d like to invite and which parts of the day matter most to you.

    Melissa from Pretty in Stains says this conversation creates the foundation for every decision that follows.

    “Before looking at venues or Pinterest boards, couples should establish what they’re comfortable spending, who they genuinely want to celebrate with, and what matters most to them as a couple.”

    Social media has made luxury weddings more accessible than ever – but not necessarily more attainable. Without a realistic budget, it’s easy to fall in love with ideas that simply don’t fit your finances.

    If you’re hiring a planner, book them early

    If a wedding planner is part of your vision, don’t leave them until later. Both Louise from Runaway Romance and Rebecca Glen recommend making this one of your very first bookings.

    A planner doesn’t simply organise suppliers – they help shape the entire planning process. From setting realistic budgets and timelines to recommending trusted vendors and managing expectations, involving them early can prevent costly mistakes later.

    Secure your venue before anything else

    Once your budget and guest count are established, it’s time to find your venue.

    Your venue determines far more than just where you’ll celebrate – it influences your wedding date, guest capacity, style, catering options and even which suppliers are available. Booking the venue first also gives you a confirmed date, allowing the rest of your planning to fall into place.

    Lock in your priority suppliers

    Some suppliers can only take on one wedding a day – and they’re often booked months, if not years, in advance. Photography and videography consistently top planners’ priority lists, but they’re not the only professionals couples should secure early.

    Louise from Runaway Romance says one supplier is surprisingly overlooked.

    “People often leave the marriage officer too late – they’re the most important vendor because without them you’re not legally married.”

    Once your venue is confirmed, prioritise booking your:

    • Marriage officer or officiant
    • Photographer
    • Videographer
    • Hair and makeup artists
    • Wedding planner (if you haven’t already)

    Everything else can usually follow afterwards.

    Leave the décor decisions until later

    One of the biggest planning mistakes? Choosing flowers, décor and styling too early. As exciting as mood boards can be, planners say design naturally evolves throughout the planning process. Your tastes may change, seasonal flower availability can shift and trends come and go.

    Rebecca Glen explains that design is far easier to tackle once the major logistical decisions have already been finalised.

    Similarly, Louise advises against locking in floral choices too early, noting that seasonal availability and pricing often change.

    Think about experiences – not just aesthetics

    While beautiful décor photographs well, it’s rarely what couples remember most after the wedding. Instead, planners are seeing a noticeable shift towards experience-driven celebrations, where guest connection takes priority over extravagant styling.

    Melissa from Pretty in Stains says today’s couples are increasingly choosing smaller guest lists and creating meaningful experiences rather than simply focusing on how the wedding looks. That also changes where your budget has the greatest impact.

    Instead of spending thousands on elaborate wedding favours that guests often leave behind, planners recommend investing in exceptional food, entertainment, photography, videography and thoughtful touches that create lasting memories.

    Melissa recalls one groom who refused to compromise on hiring a videographer because one of the few moving memories he had of his late father was his parents’ wedding film.

    “Some investments become more valuable with time.”

    Keep your guest list intentional

    If there’s one expense planners repeatedly hear couples question afterwards, it’s an unnecessarily large guest list. Many people feel obligated to invite distant relatives, old acquaintances or colleagues simply because they attended someone else’s wedding.

    Louise says many former clients later wished they’d kept their celebrations smaller and more personal, redirecting that money towards experiences like an unforgettable honeymoon, meaningful food and drink moments or personalised guest experiences.

    Smaller guest lists also allow couples to spend more intentionally on the people who matter most.

    Don’t plan a wedding for social media

    Across all three planners, one theme emerged repeatedly: don’t let trends dictate your wedding. Whether it’s the latest TikTok aesthetic, viral reception trend or Pinterest-perfect tablescape, today’s trends can quickly become tomorrow’s dated photos.

    Instead, planners encourage couples to focus on authenticity. Rebecca believes every decision should support the experience you genuinely want to create – not what you think your wedding should look like online.

    Melissa echoes this sentiment, “Keep your marriage as your north star.”

    Whenever a decision feels overwhelming, ask yourselves one simple question: Does this reflect who we are as a couple?

    If the answer is yes, you’re probably making the right choice.

    Choose your suppliers carefully

    Instagram portfolios only tell part of the story. Every planner emphasised the importance of reading reviews, meeting suppliers beforehand and paying attention to how they communicate from the very first enquiry.

    Good suppliers don’t simply send a quote – they ask questions, understand your priorities and offer guidance throughout the process.

    If possible, arrange engagement shoots, hair and makeup trials, food tastings or floral mock-ups before making final commitments. Sometimes, how someone works is just as important as the work itself.

    The bottom line

    Wedding planning doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Starting with the right foundations – your budget, priorities, guest list and trusted suppliers – makes every decision afterwards far easier.

    The biggest takeaway from the experts isn’t about following a perfect checklist or chasing every trend. It’s about creating a celebration that reflects your relationship, feels authentic to the two of you and leaves space to actually enjoy the journey.

    Long after the flowers have wilted and the décor has been packed away, the moments you’ll treasure most are the ones that felt unmistakably yours.

    ALSO SEE: The wedding planning decisions that cause the most tension (and how to handle them) 

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    The Groom Style Files: Celebrity Wedding Suit Moments We’re Still Thinking About
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    The groom files: Celebrity wedding suit moments we’re still thinking about

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    If bridal fashion has taught us anything, it’s that weddings are no longer about tradition for tradition’s sake. And honestly? The same goes for grooms.

    The modern groom isn’t settling for a standard black suit and calling it a day. Today’s best wedding style moments are tailored, intentional and deeply personal – and celebrity weddings continue to set the tone.

    From old-money tailoring to relaxed coastal suiting and fashion-forward textures, we rounded up the celebrity groom looks that still deserve a spot on every wedding mood board.

    1. George Clooney (2014)

    When George Clooney married Amal in Venice in 2014, his wedding look became an instant blueprint for timeless groom style.

    His custom Giorgio Armani tuxedo delivered everything a formal wedding suit should: razor-sharp tailoring, a classic black silhouette and understated elegance.

    • The era: Classic European luxury
    • Suit: Custom Giorgio Armani
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      The return of quiet luxury means black-tie dressing is back — but cleaner, softer and less over-styled.

    Steal the look:

    • Peak lapel tuxedo
    • Crisp white shirt
    • Satin detailing
    • Minimal accessories

    2. Brooklyn Beckham (2022)

    Brooklyn Beckham’s Palm Beach wedding look marked a major shift in groom fashion. His custom Dior suit featured a classic ivory dinner jacket with contemporary tailoring and elevated details.

    The result? Traditional without feeling dated.

    • The era: Modern old money
    • Suit: Custom Dior by Kim Jones
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      Ivory and off-white tuxedo jackets continue dominating destination and summer weddings.

    Steal the look:

    • Ivory dinner jacket
    • Black tailored trousers
    • Clean-cut silhouette
    • Elevated evening shoes

    3. Justin Bieber (2019)

    Justin Bieber’s South Carolina wedding proved that less really can be more.

    Instead of heavily structured formalwear, Bieber opted for a sleek black Celine tux paired with relaxed styling that felt modern rather than overly polished.

    • The era: Contemporary minimalism
    • Suit: Custom Celine by Hedi Slimane
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      Minimal tailoring continues trending among younger grooms who want elegance without feeling overdressed.

    Steal the look:

    • Slim black tailoring
    • Clean shirt styling
    • Minimal jewellery
    • Streamlined accessories

    4. Nick Jonas (2018)

    Nick Jonas gave us one of the strongest examples of contemporary black-tie dressing during his wedding celebrations.

    His custom Ralph Lauren look balanced traditional tuxedo structure with softer luxury finishes and rich evening styling.

    • The era: Modern statement formalwear
    • Suit: Custom Ralph Lauren Purple Label
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      Statement formalwear is replacing safe formalwear.

    Steal the look:

    • Velvet textures
    • Tonal layers
    • Luxe tailoring
    • Monochrome accessories

    5. Kit Harington (2018)

    Kit Harington’s wedding look reminded everyone that classic doesn’t have to mean predictable.

    His formal morning suit featured contrasting pieces that created visual interest while staying rooted in British tailoring traditions.

    • The era: Heritage tailoring revival
    • Suit: Traditional morning suit
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      Vintage-inspired tailoring and old-world ceremony dressing are making a major comeback.

    Steal the look:

    • Waistcoat layering
    • Contrast trousers
    • Tailcoat structure
    • Heritage fabrics

    6. David Beckham (Style Era: Late 2010s–2020s)

    Not technically a recent wedding moment – but impossible to ignore when talking groom inspiration.

    David Beckham remains the reference point for modern groom style: fitted but not restrictive, classic but never boring.

    • The era: Tailoring perfection
    • Signature suit aesthetic: Sharp bespoke suiting
    • Why it still works in 2026:
      Because fit still matters more than trend.

    Steal the look:

    • Bespoke tailoring
    • Deep navy tones
    • Soft shoulder construction
    • Premium finishing details

    The weddingETC takeaway

    Celebrity wedding style works because it feels intentional – not expensive.

    The strongest groom looks right now aren’t trying to outshine the moment. They’re designed to complement it.

    Whether you lean toward Clooney’s timeless tux, Beckham’s polished tailoring or Bieber’s relaxed approach, the formula stays the same: great fit, thoughtful details and a suit that feels like you.

    Because the best wedding photos never start with, “What was trending?” They start with, “That looked so him.”

    ALSO SEE: Wedding day tips for grooms to keep the big day stress-free 

    Wedding day tips for grooms to keep the big day stress-free

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    Not just a black Tux: 10 Groom outfit ideas that feel modern, tailored & wedding-day worthy
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    Not just a black tux: 10 Groom outfit ideas that feel modern, tailored & wedding-day worthy

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    For years, wedding fashion conversations centred almost entirely around the dress. But lately? Grooms are showing up with intention.

    Today’s groom isn’t simply asking, “What suit should I wear?” He’s asking: What version of myself do I want to remember in these photos 20 years from now?

    And the answer isn’t always black tie.

    Wedding menswear in 2026 has moved into a more expressive era – one where sharp tailoring, richer colour palettes, elevated textures and personal details matter just as much as the venue or tablescape. The biggest shift? Grooms are dressing for personality, not tradition.

    If you’re helping your partner choose a look (or sending this directly to your groom), consider this the definitive guide.

    1. The classic black tux – but make it architectural

    Some things remain iconic for a reason.

    A black tuxedo still delivers unmatched elegance, but modern versions are cleaner, softer and more considered than the ultra-fitted styles of the 2010s.

    Look for:

    • Strong but natural shoulders
    • Fuller trousers with subtle tapering
    • Satin details used sparingly
    • Minimal accessories

    This is especially perfect for:

    • Formal evening weddings
    • Ballroom venues
    • Black-tie celebrations

    Style note: The difference between timeless and dated is almost always tailoring.

     

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    2. The soft neutral suit for destination weddings

    Cream. Stone. Warm taupe. Sand.

    Destination and outdoor weddings continue pushing lighter palettes, but today’s approach feels less “beach wedding cliché” and more luxury editorial.

    Pair lightweight tailoring with:

    • Linen blends
    • Open-collar shirts
    • Loafers or polished leather sandals
    • Minimal jewellery

    This works beautifully for vineyard weddings, coastal ceremonies and summer celebrations.

    3. Midnight blue: The quiet luxury alternative

    If black feels expected but colour feels risky, midnight blue sits perfectly in between.

    It photographs beautifully in evening light and offers depth without overpowering the overall wedding aesthetic.

    Best paired with:

    • Black bow ties
    • Tonal pocket squares
    • Patent shoes

    Think understated confidence.

    4. The Return of the Three-Piece Suit

    Three-piece suits are having a strong comeback – and not in a corporate way.

    The waistcoat creates structure and gives the groom a polished second look once jackets inevitably come off at the reception.

    Modern updates include:

    • Tonal waistcoats
    • Contrasting textures
    • Slightly relaxed silhouettes

    Bonus: It instantly distinguishes the groom from the groomsmen.

    5. Rich earth tones for the fashion-forward groom

    If 2026 has a standout menswear mood, it’s colour with restraint.

    Emerald green, chocolate brown, charcoal and deep burgundy are replacing brighter suiting shades.

    These colours feel:

    • Elevated
    • Seasonal
    • Expensive (without necessarily being expensive)

    They’re especially striking in autumn and winter weddings.

    6. Texture over pattern

    The newest wedding styling rule? Texture does the talking.

    Rather than loud prints, modern grooms are leaning into fabrics that create visual depth:

    • Bouclé
    • Flannel
    • Silk blends
    • Velvet details
    • Subtle jacquards
    • Fine checks

    This creates dimension in photographs without overwhelming the look.

    7. Double-breasted tailoring is back

    For the groom who wants presence.

    Double-breasted jackets instantly create formality and structure while feeling fashion-conscious without trying too hard.

    Keep it current:

    • Relax the fit
    • Avoid overly narrow lapels
    • Let trousers skim rather than cling

    This silhouette feels especially strong in city weddings.

    8. The statement jacket moment

    Reception outfit changes aren’t only for brides anymore.

    More grooms are introducing a second look:

    • Ivory dinner jackets
    • Velvet blazers
    • Embroidered lapels
    • Monochrome styling

    It’s subtle enough to feel sophisticated but memorable enough to feel special.

     

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    9. Coordinated – not matching – couple styling

    The days of exact colour matching are fading.

    The new approach is visual harmony.

    Ways to coordinate:

    • Shared textures
    • One accent colour
    • Similar levels of formality
    • Complementary undertones

    Your outfits should feel connected – not copied.

     

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    10. Add one detail that means something

    The strongest groom outfits don’t just look good – they say something.

    Ideas:

    • Custom embroidery inside the jacket
    • Family cufflinks
    • Monogrammed lining
    • A watch passed down through generations
    • A handwritten note sewn into the inner pocket

    Because long after the flowers are gone, these are the details people remember.

    Final fitting

    The best groom outfit isn’t necessarily the boldest, trendiest or most expensive – it’s the one that feels unmistakably like the person wearing it.

    Wedding fashion is becoming less about rules and more about identity. So, whether your groom chooses a sharp tuxedo, textured tailoring or an unexpected colour, the goal is simple: wear something worthy of the moment.

    And whatever you choose – tailor it. Nothing elevates a wedding look faster than clothing that fits like it was made for you.

    ALSO SEE: Wedding day tips for grooms to keep the big day stress-free 

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    Lab-grown vs natural diamonds: The ring question couples are asking in 2026
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    Lab-grown vs natural diamonds: The ring question couples are asking in 2026

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    For decades, diamonds came with one assumed origin story: deep beneath the earth, formed over billions of years, mined, cut and eventually slipped onto someone’s finger.

    Now? That story has changed.

    Lab-grown diamonds have moved from niche alternative to mainstream choice – especially among engaged couples who are thinking differently about value, ethics and what forever actually looks like. Recent industry reports suggest lab-grown stones now make up a significant and growing share of engagement ring purchases globally, driven largely by younger buyers prioritising value and customisation.

    But despite all the conversation online, one question remains surprisingly difficult to answer:

    If they look the same, what are you really paying for?

    To cut through the marketing noise, we spoke to Yazeed, an experienced jeweller currently consulting for Harris Jewellers in Canal Walk and Platandia in the V&A Waterfront, to get an insider’s view on how the industry – and couples – are changing.

    First things first: are lab-grown diamonds actually real?

    Short answer: yes. This is probably the biggest misconception that still exists.

    Lab-grown diamonds are not cubic zirconia or imitation stones. They are chemically, physically and optically diamonds – made from crystallised carbon under controlled conditions rather than formed underground over billions of years. They’re graded using the same quality principles buyers already know: cut, colour, clarity and carat.

    According to Yazeed: “Previous years consumers were of the opinion that lab diamonds are fake due to natural diamond producers spreading false information. With the growth of social media, people became informed as to what constitutes a diamond.”

    That shift in awareness has changed buying behaviour dramatically.

    Why more couples are choosing lab-grown

    When asked how consumer attitudes have evolved over the last 12–18 months, Yazeed didn’t hesitate.

    “The younger generation have been more readily accepting of lab-grown diamonds.”

    His reasoning reflects what’s happening globally: rising living costs, changing priorities and a stronger focus on getting more for your money. Industry data shows that lab-grown diamonds continue to cost substantially less than equivalent natural stones, allowing couples to prioritise size, quality or custom design without dramatically increasing spend.

    And that’s where things get interesting. Because while price is often the headline – it isn’t always the deciding factor.

    Beyond price: what buyers should actually care about

    According to Yazeed, certification matters more than origin. “As long as the lab diamond is independently certified by a world-renowned lab such as GIA or IGI then, just like natural diamonds, consumers should focus on colour, clarity and cut.”

    That advice reflects a growing shift in how jewellers guide clients.

    The conversation isn’t necessarily lab versus natural anymore.

    It’s becoming:

    Which stone gives you the experience, symbolism and practical outcome you want?

    Natural diamonds still carry emotional appeal for buyers who value rarity, geological history and stronger long-term value retention.

    Lab-grown appeals to couples who care more about design freedom, visible quality and stretching a budget further.

    The sustainability conversation isn’t as simple as social media makes it seem

    Few topics create stronger opinions than sustainability. Lab-grown diamonds are often positioned as the more environmentally conscious option because they avoid mining and concerns around land disruption and labour practices.

    Yazeed explains: “It basically comes down to what you as the consumer consider to be better for the environment long term.”

    He points to concerns around mining impact, resource extraction and industry concentration versus lab-grown production models that offer greater scalability and accessibility. That said, sustainability isn’t entirely black and white.

    Lab-grown production still requires energy-intensive processes, while many natural diamond producers have increased transparency and environmental commitments in recent years.

    Translation? Marketing shouldn’t make the decision for you. Your values should.

    So, what would a jeweller recommend?

    If a couple walked in with the same budget and no strong preference?

    Yazeed’s answer was refreshingly honest.

    “At the end of the day it does come down to budget… but bearing in mind the consumer can get a far bigger and better specification lab diamond in terms of colour, clarity and cut compared to natural, the choice still rests with what they feel comfortable buying.”

    And that might be the most useful takeaway of all. Because choosing an engagement ring isn’t a test.

    You don’t get extra points for tradition. You don’t get bonus points for practicality. You’re choosing something deeply personal.

    Some couples want the story of something formed naturally over billions of years.

    Others want the freedom to go bigger, bolder or redirect the savings into a honeymoon, a home deposit or simply life together. Neither choice is wrong.

    The right diamond isn’t the one the internet tells you to buy, It’s the one that feels like your version of forever.

    Expert insight provided by Yazeed, experienced jeweller currently consulting for Harris Jewellers (Canal Walk) and Platandia. 

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