The one cardinal rule for every and all weddings is this: do not upstage the bride.
Also, never wear white.
Unfortunately, one woman managed to break both of these rules.
A mother of the groom attempted to ensure all eyes were on her by donning a replica dress of the bride’s wedding gown – yikes!
The bride shared her experience on Reddit’s wedding shame community, sharing a series of snaps from her “big day.” In the photo, the bride, mother-in-law, and now, ex-husband, can be seen posing for the cringe-worthy photo.
“MIL really wanted to be bride. I’m now divorced from her son, who she posed with in the 2nd picture,” wrote jerseygirl1105.
It’s a tough pill to swallow but the dresses look eerily similar.
So, just what did the guests at the wedding think?
“It was humiliating for her because the reaction was not what she expected, which was to feel like the bride. Instead, she looked like an absolute fool.”
While the image stirs up some level of fury and embarrassment, the comments regarding the post were hilarious.
“I thought they were sister wives,” said one comment.
“You know the engagement photos where the bride-to-be poses with left hand on chest, engagement ring showing? It looks like she’s doing that in the mother/son photo,” noted another.
All’s well that ends well! The Redditor explained that despite the kerfuffle that took place on her wedding day, the ending of her marriage was not so disastrous.
“We remain good friends because he’s a great guy who was embarrassed by his mother.”
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After months of planning for your big day, you deserve a break. Somewhere you can take in the salty air, take leisurely morning walks on the shore and de-stress.
If you and your partner are looking for a beach escape, why not keep things local? South Africa is known for its picturesque coast lines, beautiful beaches and quaint towns. Have a look at these five South African coastal towns perfect for a honeymoon.
Hermanus, Western Cape
You’ll find this charming town Southeast of Cape Town. Hermanus is famous for its whales and you can spot these magnificent sea creatures from July-October. The seaside town offers plenty of accommodation and restaurants. Activities and things to see include cycle tours, kayaking, museums, hiking trails, and nature reserves.
Paternoster, Western Cape
This quaint village is one of the oldest fishing villages on the West Coast of South Africa. Enjoy the nature reserves and museums. Walk along the stunning beaches, and if you’re brave enough, venture into the chilly waters! Being one of the oldest fishing towns on the West Coast, Paternoster is known for its delectable seafood.
3. Coffee Bay, Eastern Cape
This little town is situated on the Wild Coast of the Eastern Cape and is known for its exquisite views and beaches. From hiking to whale-watching, there are so many fun activities for you and your partner. A must see is the Hole in the Wall, a hiking trail with a stunning natural feature carved out of a huge mass of rock by milllions of years of pounding waves.
Umhlanga, KwaZulu-Natal
Forbes named Durban South Africa’s new darling, and Uhmlanga perfectly exemplifies why. Located on the coast of Kwazulu-Natal with gorgeous beach fronts and tons of adrenalin-pumping activities, there is something for everyone in Umhlanga. The Umhlanaga Lagoon Nature Reserve is one of the top attractions in the area, and will take you on a journey through the coastline forest, across the lagoon and then to the beach. Don’t forget to stop by the promenade for a romantic stroll on the picturesque pier.
Sodwana Bay, KwaZulu-Natal
You’ll find this little gem of a town on the North Coast of KwaZulu-Natal. If you and your partner love to scuba dive or enjoy fishing, you should definitely consider Sodwana Bay for your honeymoon! It is also considered to be one of the top dive sites in the world. For something more land-based, pay a visit to the Sodwana Bay National Park and have a look at the wildlife!
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Some brides are born to break the rules. To scoff at tradition and forge a new path.
Now, this doesn’t have to mean ditching the white dress and opting for something a little darker, as per the wedding trends currently making waves on Pinterest. Sometimes the forward-thinking bride embodies her boldness with something as small as a non-traditional wedding veil.
Small steps, right? If you’re looking to embrace your ‘wild’ side by going beyond the white tulle or lace, here are a few stunning suggestions:
Polka Dot
If you love a good polka dot outfit, then you’re in luck! Including a polka dot veil in your wedding ensemble can be an exciting way to infuse a little fun into your outfit.
Something Blue
A modern twist on something blue. A blue wedding veil can be a wonderful way to add a pop of colour as it provides a beautiful contrast if you’re sporting a white wedding dress.
Pearl-studded
Pearls are having a bit of a moment right now and are a trend that has brides “oh-ing” and “ah-ing,” and for good reason. Pearls are often associated with royalty and opulence, and that’s exactly the vibe you’ll get when adding modern pearls to your veil.
The Birdcage
Who needs a long veil anyway? Short and sweet in more ways than one, the classic “birdcage” veil is a great addition for brides who are looking for something different yet simple. Make it your own by adding modern pearls or flowers, let your inner-creative run wild!
Adorned with flowers
Flowers have a way of elevating anyone’s mood, so why not do the same for your veil. Opt for a traditional veil but zhoosh it up by adding your favourite flowers. Fresh flowers are best, so make sure you speak to your florist or go the dry flower route if you’re feeling sentimental and looking to keep things fresh forever.
Embroidered Elegance
If adding fresh flowers to your veil doesn’t sound like something you’d like but you’re still looking to add a few blooms to your accessory, a colourful embroidered veil is the way to go. It’s a great addition for brides who are looking to add a little bohemian flair to their wedding outfit and creates an incredible texture too!
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In the digital era, making announcements for any occasion is pretty common. You know your friend from high school has declared a certain breakfast spot ‘utterly ideal’, your co-worker’s announcement of their newest plant-child, and your younger sibling’s every move.
However, there are some announcements that still remain somewhat sacred in the land of social media, and your wedding or engagement announcement sits at the top of the tree.
So, how do you do it ‘right?’ As in, how do you not come off as obnoxious, or how do you meander coming across a little too nonchalant (to the point where people might wonder if you’re even excited?)
Do you go for the flashy carousal post where everyone gets to see the entire story – from the spot you thought you were simply having dinner at to the ultimate star on your finger, or do you play it lowkey and post a snippet of the magic?
Here are some tips to keep in your back pocket on how to announce your special news on social media:
1.Make sure those closest to your heart about it before you go live on socials:
The last thing you want to rain on your engagement parade is an unhappy friend or family member. Before you break the internet, make sure you tell those closest to your heart first, and especially those who will certainly see it on social media first.
2. Use photos that are meaningful to you, or do a shoot
Not everyone grabs perfect photos from their engagement moment. Your nails might not be on point, your partner may ve wearing the same outfit as in your last post, or all the photos are blurry. Now, you may be part of a pretty funky couple that sees these as part of their own chill aesthetic, and if that sounds like your relationship then go for it in posting. Instagram especially is long past its curated look, with photo-dumps showing more organic life ruling the roost. However, if you really want to go the full 9-yards and have a little shoot (either professionally or at the trust hands of your phone camera on timer) then that’s amazing too. The bottom line here is to use photos that are meaningful to your relationship – not glossy photos that aren’t you or your partner, or an obscure ring that isn’t even yours found on the Internet.
3.Use a caption that speaks to your relationship and your audience simultaneously
It’s a special announcement and so no matter which platform you’re using (par Twitter) a longer caption is more than allowed. However, you can also keep it short and sweet by using a quote from a song, film or book that says it all. You can even stick to the same emoji you have next to your partner’s name on your phone if you want, but the key focus here is using a caption that again, is special to your relationship and won’t be uncomfortable for your audience. Ie: Telling your audience that you’re better than everyone else because you won’t die alone is probably not a good way to announce your special news.
4.Make a story highlight for the build-up to the big day, not necessarily separate posts
We know you’re excited, and most of your close friends and followers will be too! However, that doesn’t mean that everyone expects or wants a daily update on what you’re doing for the wedding. If you do want to document the big build up, all the cake flavours you tried and wedding locations you scouted, put them on your stories (either Facebook or Instagram) and compile them in a highlight. The bonus of collecting all these moments is that you’ll have a whole trailer before the wedding, and it could also make an incredible TikTok.
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