• A man appeared to have married four brides during one ceremony in Limpopo this past weekend. In a video circulating on social media, the groom and his four brides can be seen enjoying their recent nuptials.

    The wedding is believed to have taken place in a village in Limpopo called Ga-Makgeru on November 8, 2020. In the video, the four brides and the groom are captured happily dancing into the tent packed with amused guests where the ceremony was going to be.

    Three of the brides were wearing similar dresses and one of the four stood out in a long sleeve dress.

    Polygamy is no foreign concept in most South African cultures, but it is unusual for mutiple marriages to occur on the same day. Typically, couples host seperate ceremonies over time.

    While bigamy is a punishable offence in South Africa, customary marriages operate differently. According to Home Affairs, if a male person is already in a customary marriage and wishes to enter into another customary marriage he has to, at his own cost, get a court order from a competent court which will regulate his future matrimonial property system.

    It is also possible for a male person who is already in a customary marriage to enter into a civil marriage. They should follow the normal procedure for civil marriages.

    Polygamy is legal under certain circumstances in South Africa. The circumstances include practices of various cultures and religions in South Africa. There are no religions or cultures that recognise a woman having multiple husbands, so polygamy is typically understood as one man having mutiple wives.

    Also read: What you need to know about polygamy in South Africa

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    A proposal is a special moment, one to remember forever. For this exact reason, you want it to go perfectly according to plan.

    Unfortunately, things don’t always work out the way we want them to. While a slight deviation from the plan is okay, there are some proposals that went so far off course that they cannot be salvaged.

    Here are a few fails that will have you cringing in embarrassment.

    The break up:

    This couple is known for pranking each other and sometimes going too far, so it’s no surprise that a prank would be part of their proposal story. The girlfriend decided to fake a break up with her partner as a prank, going so far as to say that she had accepted a job in another country and is not in love anymore. After an argument and tears, her partner goes back into the apartment and returns with an engagement ring to admit that he had been planning to propose.

    Please say yes:

    Public proposals are always risky because there is so much room for error. Despite planning a sweet proposal at a live basketball game, this proposee forgot to factor in whether his partner would actually say yes. She said no in front of hundreds of people before walking away awkwardly, leaving her ex needing to receive comfort from the mascot.

    A courting fail:

    This couple met in a mall, so this man naturally thought it would be the appropriate place to propose. Mic in hand, he broadcast the proposal in front of a throng of shoppers. As he tried to go down on one knee, his partner literally grabbed him and tried to stop him from proposing. He persisted, and she ended up smacking him over the head with a ukelele before storming off.

    Spring it on him:

    While on the Jerry Springer show, this woman felt it was the perfect time to propose. She handed her partner a bowl of popcorn, which contained his ring. After she proposed, her partner continued to eat the popcorn in silence as the audience stared. He then rejected her, saying she’s too clingy and secretive. He then admits to cheating on her twice, the most recent time being with her friend. Just when you think it couldn’t get worse, the ‘friend’ he cheated with showed up and a physical fight ensued.

    Never ask questions:

    In another Jerry Springer proposal, things seemed to be going so well. He proposed and she accepted, before turning to Jerry and asking ‘Is that it?’. Unfortunately, that wasn’t it. The man admitted to cheating on her with her friend. The bouquet of flowers he had proposed with then turned into a weapon.

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    Summer is officially here in the Mother City, bringing with it happier days and tons of sunshine. The season offers so many fun themes to explore for a wedding day.

    When you think of summer, what comes to mind? For us, it’s the sea, delicious cocktails, and lush green gardens. The pictures that spring to mind can easily be expanded on to create fun summer-inspired escort cards.

    From seashells and coconuts to oyster shucking knives and potted plants, there are so many easily accessible items you can use to add a bright and seasonal twist to your day.

    Here are some unique options to be inspired by:

     

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    South Africa is lucky to have thousands of artisans and brands creating unique products for our everyday lives. From fashion and jewellery to makeup, you can find anything you need from a South African creator.

    While the big brands are familiar, why not support a local business instead? Here are a few of our favourite local beauty brands offering incredible products to enhance your bridal look.

    Swiitch Beauty

     

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    Rabia Ghoor is the mastermind behind Swiitch Beauty, a South African beauty brand born out of the internet. From blush palettes to brow gel, their products are designed to enhance natural beauty. They’re also incredibly affordable and aesthetically pleasing to boot.

    Chick Cosmetics

     

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    Chick Cosmetics, founded by Nomfundo Njibe, is all about cruelty-free ingredients, ethical marketing and sustainable practices. From makeup to skincare and beauty brushes, this is your one-stop shop to complete your bridal look.

    Sorbet

     

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    Sorbet is famed for its beauty salons, and they now offer makeup products. The nationwide beauty therapy hub with over 200 stores countrywide produces makeup and skincare, as well as body products to treat yourself like the queen you are.

    Constance Beauty

     

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    Formally known as Connie Transform, this beauty brand was created by Connie Bhebhe after being as tired of being unable to find lipstick shades to compliment her skin tone.  Her products specifically cater to women of colour, and are also vegan and cruelty free.

    Lulu and Marula

     

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    Lulu and Marula is a natural, ethically produced cruelty-free skin and body care collection developed in Cape Town by Jesslynn Shepherd. It focuses on clean, simple and sustainable ingredients that are free from artificial colours, fragrances, parabens, petrochemicals, synthetics or other harmful ingredients.

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