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    The funniest bridesmaid is finally engaged. After three years of dating, writer and producer Avi Rothman finally popped the question. The couple are very private about their relationship but rumours began when fans spotted a diamond ring on her finger. The flashy ring was spotted at the screening of Booksmart (2019) in Los Angeles.

     

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    Congrats to Kristen on her engagement to Avi Rothman!! ?❤️ #KristenWiig

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    Dating rumours began when the couple were spotted on a beach in Hawaii. People began asking questions like “who is Avi Rothman?”. They had reportedly been dating for months before then.

     

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    tbt ?❤️ #KristenWiig

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    Other than being the ‘best’ bridesmaid in Bridesmaids(2011) Kristen is known for her notable work on Saturday Night Live (SNL). She was married to Hayes Hargrove from 2005 to 2009. Kristen also stated in an interview that it was unlikely that she would get married again.

     

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    Bridesmaids (2011) , Paul Feig

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    Avi must be very special since she changed her opinion!

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    If you want to experience a different life from your everyday, immerse yourself and learn about other cultures, then these are the honeymoon destinations for you.

    Singapore

    Where East meets West – Singapore is a fusion of Asian, European and Middle Eastern cultures. With many different religions existing harmoniously, Singapore sees its diversity as a strength, and you will see it too.

    Sri Mariamman Temple

    Cambodia

    Filled with ancient temples, rice paddies and a surprisingly sophisticated urban scene, Cambodia is where ancient and modern worlds collide.

    Angkor Wat

    Brazil

    Brazil has a colourful culture with countless festivals across the country that celebrate its diversity, the most famous being the Carnaval. Music is a large part of Brazilian culture as it allows the people to express their joy of life.

    Carnival of Brazil

    Greece

    Known as the birthplace of Western culture and democracy as Greek beliefs in democratic governments and equality influenced our modern democracies. Besides that, Greece is flush with ancient ruins, festivals and holidays.

    Meteora

    Turkey

    Thanks to the multi-ethnic and religious Ottoman empire, traditions of Mediterranean and Central Asian cultures were brought together. Turkey is also home to world-famous ruins and monuments.

    Ephesus

    Morocco 

    Having ties to Africa, Europe and the Middle East, Morocco has done very well in taking the best traditions and making them new. You will be able to see the cultural diversity in the many different architectural wonders.

    Hassan II Mosque

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    For those that can ski or want to learn, a ski trip is arguably one of the best holidays one can take. Your days are filled with fun activity and at night you can do as you please – go for a nice meal, relax and get cosy.

    If this sounds like something you’d be interested in to do on your honeymoon, take a look at these great ski destinations:

    Canada

    If you’re looking for spectacular terrain, wide and quiet slopes and knee deep powder, then Canada is the place for you.

    USA

    The US is known for world class skiing as the large variety of resorts means you can find whatever you’re looking for, as well as pistes for every level of skiing.

    France

    France is the most popular skiing destination in Europe due to its high altitudes and, as a result, reliable conditions.

    Switzerland

    Filled with classic ski towns, high altitudes and great snow records. The only downside is the cost as Switzerland is the most expensive skiing destination in Europe.

    Austria

    Home of Après-ski: a fun and cheaper European ski holiday, as well as tree-lined slopes and the best ski lift systems. The lower altitudes mean less snow but this is combatted with snowmaking.

    Japan

    With consistent light powdered snow, uncrowded slopes and beautiful mountain vistas, it’s understandable that Japan has some of the best ski resorts in the world.

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    Proposing is a special and memorable event, but it doesn’t have to be over the top to make an impact.

    Here are some unique and simple ways to propose that won’t leave you planning for days, cause you stress and will ensure an instant ‘yes!’

    1. Include your fur-baby

    If you share a pet, a great way to pop the question is to include them in the proposal.

     

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    How could you refuse this proposal? . . . . #proposalideas #propose #engagement #hesaidyes #shesaidyes #labrador #petproposal

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    2. Photo booth proposal

    A fun way to propose that will also capture the moment.

    3. Scrabble Tiles

    Suggest a game of scrabble and use your tiles to spell out the proposal.

    4. Incorporate food

    Who wouldn’t want to be proposed to and get some yummy food at the same time?

    5. Photo album

    Create a photo album filled with memories and on the last page, ask your partner to marry you.

     

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    It’s a pleasure to share one’s memories. Everything remembered is dear, endearing, touching, precious.

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    Traditionally, it has always been that the man proposes to the woman. But in this day and age where gender roles are changing and same-sex relationships are legal and accepted, more and more women are bending the knee.

    Just do it

    Whether you’re a woman in a same-sex relationship or a straight relationship, you should disregard what is traditionally accepted and be able to propose to your partner. If you feel the time is right and that you and your partner are in a place to get married, there is no need to wait for them to propose; you can ask them to marry you.

    The moment

    The proposal should go the same as any traditional proposal in the sense that you plan the proposal. Look at creating a special moment that will become a beautiful memory in your relationship.

    A symbol of love

    If you are a woman proposing to a woman, then it is likely that you will present an engagement ring. If you’re a woman proposing to a man, you should consider presenting some sort of gift that they can keep forever and has sentiment to it. A great proposal gift for a man is a watch, and a great addition to that would be to get it engraved.

    Despite the fact that a woman proposing is not the norm, it certainly should be. With the dismantling of gender roles, leaving proposals solely up to men should be dismantled too.

    At the end of the day, it is a decision to get married and it should not matter who asked whom.

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    When dating someone it’s normal to imagine a future with your partner and marriage may cross your mind. One of the biggest questions is “How long do you wait until you propose?” When is it seen as normal or acceptable. When do you know that someone is that special one.

    Well for some celeb couples, time is non-existent in the eyes of love. Have a look at these celebs that just knew they had found the one, maybe a little bit too soon.

    1.Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee

    There was no engagement, this couple went from meeting each other and marrying four days later. This whirlwind love affair began in 1995 and ended with divorce in 1998.

     

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    Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee?

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    2.Lyle Lovett and Julia Roberts

    They met on the set of The Player (1992). After three weeks of dating, the couple decided to elope and get married in June 1993. Sadly after almost two years of marriage, they decided to divorce.

     

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    3.Pete Davidson and Ariana Grande

    In early May 2018, Ariana ended things with the late rapper Mac Miller. Later that month she started dating Pete. In June 2018 after about three weeks of dating Pete announced their engagement. The relationship ended in October 2018.

     

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    ♡ ?

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    4.Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon

    The couple met while filming Mariah’s music video of Bye Bye. The video stars and was co-directed by Nick. There isn’t a lot of information regarding the engagement but they were married a few weeks after filming the music video.


    5.Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise

    Who can forget the famous couch jumping seen on The Oprah Winfrey Show? For those unfamiliar it entailed Tom Cruise declaring his love for Katie while jumping up and down on the couch. It has been reported that after seven weeks of dating Tom proposed to Katie. They married in November 2006. Almost six years later, Katie filed for divorce.

     

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    Her masal mutlu bitmiyor ? ?2004 yılında Katie Holmes, yine genç bir aktör olan Chris Klein ile nişanlıydı ve @seventeen dergisine verdiği röportajda, Tom Cruise’u çok beğendiğini hatta çocukken onunla evlenmeyi hayal ettiğini söyledi. ?Mart 2005 Chris ve Katie ayrıldıklarını açıkladı ve 1 ay sonda Katie, Tom ile el ele görüldü. ?Mayıs ayında ise @oprah nın şovunda, Tom, Katie’ye ne kadar aşık olduğunu anlatıyordu heyecanla. ?Haziran 2005 Çift nişanlandıklarını duyurdu. Bu arada Katie, Tom’un bağlı olduğu @scientology tarikatına geçme sürecinde olduğunu açıkladı. ?Ekim 2005 Tv programında ilan-ı aşk, Eyfel kulesinde evlenme teklifi derken, ünlü çift hızını kesmedi ve bebek beklediklerini açıkladı. ?Nisan 2006 Suri dünyaya geldi, ve bizleri celebrity bebek kavramıyla tanıştırdı. Anne ve babasını değil, medya Suri’yi takip etmeye başladı. ?Kasım 2006 Çift Scientology geleneklerine göre İtalya’da bir şatoda evlendi. ?2007 yılını çift, dünyayı gezerek geçirdi tabi ki her şey 1. Sınıftı ?Eylül 2009 Suri paparizziler tarafından, özel yapım @louboutinworld topuklu ayakkabı ve pembe ruj ile görüntülendi. Sadece tasarımcı kıyafetlerinden oluşan gardırobundaki ayakkabıların değeri 150.000$ dı. ?Haziran 2012 Katie, 3 ayrı hukuk şirketiyle anlaşarak, boşanmak üzere, mahkemeye başvurdu ?Temmuz 2012 Çift, 6 yaşındaki Suri’nin velayetinin annesinde kalması yönünde anlaştı. ?Boşanmalarındaki sebep her ne kadar gizli kalsa da kaynaklar, Tom’un Suri’yi Scientology kurallarına göre yetiştirmek istemesini sebep gösterdi. ?Velayet kararı ile birlikte, Suri’nin tarikatla ilişkisi de sonlandırılmış oldu. Ancak bu durumda kurallar Tom’un da kızını görmesini hatta onunla iletişimde olmasını engelledi. Suri bugün 13 yaşında ve annesiyle NewYork’ta yaşıyor. Toplu taşıma araçları kullanıyor, ulaşılabilir markalardan giyiniyor ve normal bir çocuk gibi yaşıyor. Özel jetler, süper lüks tatiller, kırmızı halı törenleri, tasarımcı kıyafetleri ve babası ise, hayatının bir parçası değil.

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    6.Emily Ratajkowski and Sebastian Bear-McClard

    Emily was dating Jeff Magid for almost four years. They broke up early 2018. After a few weeks of dating Sebastian Bear-McClard, Emily hinted on Instagram that she got married.

     

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    7.Avril Lavigne and Chad Kroeger

    It was reported that after dating for just over a month, the Nickelback singer proposed to Avril. Three years later and she announced their split over social media.


    8.Katy Perry and Russell Brand

    They started dating after the 2009 MTV Video Music Awards. Russel proposed after three months of dating. He popped the question on New Years Eve 2009. They married in October 2010. Sadly the relationship ended when Russel filed for divorce in December 2011.

     

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    9.Nikki Reed and Paul McDonald

    The couple met at the Red Riding Hood film premiere in March 2011. Almost three months later they were engaged and married in October 2011. A little over two years later and they had announced their separation.

    10.Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob Thornton

    When a marriage happens so fast, it’s kind of hard to know when exactly the engagement was. Angelina and Billy only dated for two months before getting married in May 2000. They stayed together for about two years and finalised their divorce in May 2003.


    11.Kevin Federline and Britney Spears

    After knowing each other for three months the couple got engaged. They had their wedding two months later. After two years of marriage Britney filed for divorce.

     

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    De acordo com a revista People, Britney aceitou pagar o aumento da pensão dada para os filhos dela com o Kevin Federline. Supostamente Britney teria aceitado o aumento que é de “alguns milhares de dólares”, o valor ao certo não foi divulgado, mas o advogado de Federline, Mark Vincent Kaplan disse para a People: “Nós acreditamos que o valor necessário para as crianças enquanto eles estiverem sob custódia do Kevin seria de 3 vezes mais o que ele ganha atualmente.” Até o momento atual, Britney já pagava de pensão 20 mil dólares, cerca de quase 82 mil reais, pois de acordo com o Federline, ele “ganhava apenas 3 mil dólares por mês e isso não era suficiente para sustentar os desejos dos meninos.”…. ??????♡ ~{} #britneyspears #britney #spears #britneyarmy #queenb #pop #princess #sweet #rainha #lasvegas #crazy #beautiful #bitch #musica #single #pretty #girl #pieceofme #diva #amo #mylove #work #linda #photo #smile #performance #perfect #Glory ==>Double Tap and Tag your friend<== =============

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    12.Kaley Cuoco and Ryan Sweeting

    The couple dated for three months when Ryan popped the question. After another three months the Big Bang Theory actress and Ryan got married. Unfortunately they decided to get divorced in September 2015.


    13.Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony

    J-Lo was engaged to Ben Affleck and called the wedding off the day before. Four months later she started dating Marc Anthony in January 2004. When exactly they got engaged is a bit unclear but the couple got married in June 2004 and split in July 2011.

     

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    El beso que todo el mundo estaba pidiendo ??#LatinGRAMMY #jloandmarc

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    Your nails may seem insignificant compared to your wedding dress but they still need to stand out. Your hands will be on show, from guests wanting to have a look at the shiny new rock to the photographer capturing different angles of it.

    Nail designs have come along way in the last few years. From single to multi-colours, various finishes and nail art, some brides opt for the classic French tip look but you don’t have to stick to the norm.

    Simple with a twist
    If you want to maintain a simple look, what about a neutral colour with a touch of nail art? It still looks elegant but includes a fun element.


    Don’t be scared of length
    Long claw-like nails are in and look great. If you’re unsure on what shape to get, ask your nail technician to shape the nails according to your hands.

    Glitter for days
    Looking for more of a sparkle for your wedding claws. You can get glitter on one nail or a few, a strip of shine or go for a glitter ombre technique.


    Have fun with finishings 
    If you’re not one to experiment with colour, how about changing the finishings. Try a matte, metallic, sheer, textured or pearl finish. Make sure to ask your nail salon what they offer because a lot of the time it’s not on display.


    Artsy nails
    Wanting to showcase the creative side? Add some nail art or pattern on your nuptial nails.

     

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    New Design~ Tropical Abstract ? ? #nailart #nails #original

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    Special tips
    How about plain nails with a funky tip. Opt for various patterns, colours or (don’t forget the) finishes.

    Don’t be afraid to mix and match, there is really no reason to play by the rules.

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    We’ve rounded up some of the coolest hair accessories under the sun, fit for the modern bride looking for something a little different.
    Headbands
    They’re back! Big and bold, or slim and subtle, which ever you prefer. Headbands have the power to uplift your entire look with an added touch of elegance. What’s more, they’re reusable long after the wedding, and if you grow tired of them on the day, you can simply slip it off without compromising your perfectly crafted ‘do.

    Dramatic veils
    Although some brides are opting to forgo the tradition altogether, the veil still adds a romantic element that few other accessories can compare with. Instead of going the traditional route, set your sights on something more dramatic – think embellishments, opulent details or interesting fabrics to take you from basic to breathtaking.
    3-D Florals
    Forget flower crowns. Floral appliqués offer a fresh take on the otherwise bohemian alternative. Incorporate them into your hair in any way you deem fit. Clip it into your updo or ponytail along your hairline, or scattered throughout loose strands to look as though confetti has landed perfectly on your hair.
    Barrettes
    This quirky look has come a long way since the 90s. From  glitter and crystals, to pearls and diamonds, bridal barrettes are the perfect addition to your hairstyle for an updated take on traditional bobby pins that are mostly hidden away. Keep it subtle, or stack them on – either way you’ll win.
    Hats
    There’s absolutely no reason why you can’t wear a beautiful hat on your wedding day. It can take you from relaxed boho bride to ultra sophisticated, and you always have the option of taking it off when you feel it’s done it’s job (of making you look cool, that is).
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    Now that you’re engaged, you’ll want to have an engagement party to celebrate with your family and friends.

    Where to have it?

    Gorgeous George is a new boutique hotel situated in the central Cape Town featuring a stunning rooftop and Gigi restaurant and bar. It is the perfect venue as it has everything you need: beautiful views, delicious food, curated drinks and seating for up to 80 guests. But don’t take our word for it – have a look for yourself:

    Restaurant and Bar

    Lounge Area

    Dining Area

    Bar Area

    Rooftop

    Lounge Area

    Dining Area

    Pool Area

    All in all, Gorgeous George is a stunning venue that will cater to your every need.

    If you would like to hire the venue, contact Gorgeous George at: +27 87 898 6000

     

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    Deciding who to spend forever with is a life-changing decision. We spoke to Cape Town-based life coach, Helen Searra, on how to determine whether you are ready for marriage or not.
    “There are a number of signs that indicate when we are ready for marriage, starting with our circle of close friends.  For instance, when our friends take their romantic relationship to a more serious and committed level, like getting engaged. This thought of following suit may become more apparent, where it may have only been a subconscious idea beforehand,” said Searra.
    She continued, “when we can’t imagine our lives without our partner, we identify them as our soulmate and are drawn to creating our own sanctuary to share with them. This is a sign.”
    “When speaking to each other about long-term plans and believing that one can be in a relationship with one’s partner forever. Knowing that one wants to be married rather than just the idea of having a wedding day. These are all tell-tale signs,” explained Searra.
    “When we have ticked off the things on our bucket list of a single life and are confident the rest of our bucket list would include our partner or bring no harm to the relationship.”
    “When our family and friends love our partner and we have discussed our different family types, belief systems and cultural differences and begin designing our own set of rules, as two separate individuals being on the same page. When we reach a certain emotional and spiritual maturity,  both having a voice,  and are able to find our way back to each other after a disagreement. These are all indicators that one is ready for marriage,” concluded Searra.
    Helen Searra is a Cape Town-based life coach. She has been practicing for 10 years in her field. She offers individual counselling sessions and couples counselling both in person or remotely over Skype. She offers package deals of either 4, 6 or 8 sessions. To enquire for a rates card, contact Helen at [email protected]. 
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