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Summer Proposal Hotspots: Cape Town’s Most Romantic Locations

January 15, 2025 No Comments

A Summer 2025 Guide for Couples Planning to Pop the Question

With the Southern Hemisphere summer in full swing (November–March), Cape Town is filled with possibilities to create a perfect proposal moment, from majestic mountain peaks to serene vineyards and golden beachscapes.

Table Mountain Sunset Spots

Say “Yes” with the World at Your Feet

Cable Car Summit View: Take your partner on the iconic Table Mountain Aerial Cableway, which lifts you 765 m to sweeping views over Cape Town. It’s an unforgettable setting for a sunset proposal, especially if you pre‑book tickets to avoid queues and take advantage of golden hour light.

Contour Path Picnic: Walk a quieter path along Table Mountain’s ridge and pause at a secluded ledge for a private moment, perfect for those who prefer intimacy with a bit of adventure.

Elevated Extras: Many guides and proposal planners can help coordinate flower arrangements, a musician, or a photographer to capture your moment in style.

Pro Tip: Sunset proposals on Table Mountain create stunning photos and lifelong memories. Book evening cable-car slots, especially between December and February, to avoid mid‑summer wind or clouds.

Camps Bay Beachfront Bliss

Romance by the Ocean

Best Timing: Arrive early evening so you can watch the sun dip behind the Twelve Apostles mountain chain.

Proposal Scenes: Consider a cozy beachfront picnic with fairy lights, or a romantic beachside dinner at popular spots like The Bungalow. Don’t overlook quieter gems like Glen Beach or the tidal pools for a more private moment.

Why It’s Magical: A soft Atlantic breeze, palm trees swaying, ocean waves, and a mountain silhouette backdrop, Camps Bay offers a cinematic setting without the fuss.

Wine Estate Venues in the Cape Winelands

Vineyard Views & Vintage Love

Top Estate Picks for 2025:

Babylonstoren: Just under an hour from Cape Town, this 17th-century Cape Dutch estate blends lush gardens, a spa, farm‑to‑table cuisine, and elegant accommodations. Proposing amid immaculately manicured vineyards or over a private wine tasting or cellar tour offers intimacy and sophistication.

Beau Constantia: Perched above False Bay with sweeping mountain-to-ocean vistas, this boutique wine farm provides scenic spots and a delectable restaurant, Zama, ideal for romantic sunset proposals followed by dinner under the stars.

The Cellars‑Hohenort (Constantia Valley): Though no longer a working estate, this elegant 17th‑century manor hotel offers tranquil gardens with towering camphor trees and a rose‑filled landscape. It’s ideal for a garden proposal followed by a gourmet meal or spa treat.

Proposal Ideas:

Arrange a vineyard picnic complete with bubbly and blooms.
Schedule a private wine cellar tour ending with your proposal at sunset.
Book a couples spa followed by a romantic terrace moment overlooking vineyards.

Pro Tips: Contact the estate in advance to help organise flowers, private setups, and photographers.

Additional Cape Town Proposal Locations

Sunset Rock (Fresnaye / Bantry Bay)

Perched atop Nettleton Drive, Sunset Rock delivers panoramic views of Camps Bay, Lion’s Head, and the Atlantic. From the rock outcrop, the iconic vistas combined with golden-hour light offer a sweeping, dramatic backdrop. According to local couples, “Sunset Rock … is so gorgeous … set up a nice picnic on the boulders” earlier in the day to avoid crowds.

Signal Hill

A quick drive up offers sweeping city and ocean views, especially stunning at sunset. Known as a classic romantic spot, many couples propose on a picnic with sunset cocktails. A charming anecdote recalls a cupcake proposal hidden in the icing while watching the sun descend.

Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens

Nestled at Table Mountain’s base, this garden paradise features lush lawns, native flora and the treetop Boomslang Walkway. Couples can propose over a chic picnic or while strolling among colorful native flowers.

Bo‑Kaap Colourful Streets

For vibrant and playful vibes, Bo‑Kaap’s rainbow-hued houses and cobblestone laneways make a cheerful backdrop. Great for couples who love bold personalities or surprises disguised as a fun photoshoot.

Clifton & Llandudno Beaches

Clifton: With powder-white sands, dramatic boulders, and deluxe sunset views, this area excudes a luxurious coastal vibe.
Llandudno: Quiet and scenic, ideal for low-tide sunset proposals or climbing to the headland for private panoramic moments.

Noordhoek Beach (Long Beach)

A vast stretch of white sand ideal for horse rides or long romantic walks preceding a proposal. The sunset here, viewed from the dunes, is unrivalled in its sweeping simplicity.

Cape Point & Dias Beach

Cape Point’s dramatic cliffs and sweeping Atlantic vistas offer a sense of untamed beauty. For greater privacy, head to Dias Beach, a secluded stretch beneath Chapman’s Peak, for understated romance at the edge of the continent.

Lichtenstein Castle (Hout Bay)

This private estate, modeled on a German Gothic castle, overlooks Hout Bay. The landscaped gardens and fairy‑tale architecture create an enchanting setting for an elegant proposal, book in advance via appointment-only access.

Boulders Beach

For couples craving something uniquely charming and lighthearted, Boulders Beach in Simon’s Town offers the perfect blend of wildlife magic and coastal beauty. Home to a protected colony of African penguins, this serene cove features calm, warm Indian Ocean waters, granite boulders, and sandy inlets ideal for a memorable proposal moment.

Majik Forest & Newlands Forest

Majik Forest: A hidden woodland spot with ponds, ducks, and soft grassy glades ideal for couples who want nature and pet-friendly charm.
Newlands Forest: Mossy canopies and filtered light give this forest an atmospheric, private feel, perfect for intimate moments and peaceful strolls.

Hidden Winelands Gems

Hidden Valley Wine Farm: Set on the slopes of Helderberg Mountain, with olive groves and shimmering fynbos views, great picnic and wine‑tasting setting followed by “yes” under the vines.
Klein Roosboom Boutique Winery: Nested inside restored underground ‘caves,’ this venue offers candlelit, cozy wine tasting nooks with vintage charm for a uniquely romantic proposal.
Lourensford Estate: Stunning views over False Bay, a serene dam with jetty, and sweeping landscape, reminiscent of cinematic romance settings (permission may be required for certain areas)

Tips for a Perfect Cape Town Summer Proposal

Timing Is Everything: Aim for late afternoon or early evening to avoid the midday heat and crowds. Cape Town’s famous “Cape Doctor” wind can sweep in unexpectedly, so have an alternate plan if windy conditions arise.
Permit Considerations: Some public parks or beaches require permissions for commercial setups or larger decorations, check with authorities if you’re planning elaborate setups.
Proposal Planners: Many planners specialise in Cape Town engagements, handling logistics, décor, photography, and transport so the moment stays magical and stress‑free.
Consider Photos: Hiring a local engagement photographer ensures professional photos capturing the golden hour or sunset glow, moments you’ll treasure forever.

Cape Town in summer offers breathtaking, diverse backdrops for unforgettable proposals. Whether you envision standing high above the city on Table Mountain, toes in the sand in Camps Bay, or surrounded by vines at a wine estate, choose the setting that reflects your love story.

Plan Your Proposal

Visit our curated directory of proposal planners, engagement photographers, and romantic stylists in Cape Town for help turning your dream proposal into reality.

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Vendor Contracts 101: What Every SA Couple Must Know In 2025

January 15, 2025 No Comments

Why Written Contracts Are Essential

In South Africa, verbal agreements are rarely enforceable, you need written contracts for clarity and legal recourse. Whether it’s your venue, caterer, photographer, or DJ, any paid vendor should provide a detailed contract. If they don’t, ask for one, no matter how informal or small the service, because a signature agreement helps everyone stay accountable. (pagelschulenburg.co.za) (poplaw.co.za)

Legal Foundations: South African Contract Law

South African contracts are governed by principles ensuring consensus ad idem (mutual agreement), capacity, legality, certain terms, and lawful obligations. If any of these are missing, say the scope is vague or a party was coerced—the contract could be voidable or unenforceable. This underscores the need for crystal‑clear, fair and mutually understood agreements with your vendors.

Key Clauses Every Vendor Contract Should Include

Here’s a checklist to keep your contracts watertight:

● Scope of Services

Spell out exactly what you’re paying for: how many hours the vendor works, guest cover for catering, number of edited photos, etc. Clear scope = fewer misunderstandings.

● Payment Terms

Your contract should state deposit amounts, payment milestones, due dates, and refund rules. Avoid unfair penalty clauses that could negate your right to cancel, which the Consumer Protection Act prohibits nvraw.co.za.

● Cancellation & Postponement Policy

Under the CPA, consumers have a right to cancel fixed‑term agreements with 20 business days’ notice and only a reasonable cancellation charge, not a punitive penalty ( vandeventersla). If a vendor fails to deliver services when and where agreed, you may cancel without penalty and reclaim payment (with interest) (The National Consumer Commission.)

● Force Majeure

Include events outside your control, like load‑shedding, civil unrest, or weather as valid grounds for postponement without breach.

● Performance Timeline

When will you receive your wedding photo album or video? Define delivery deadlines in the contract so expectations are formal.

● Liability & Insurance

Ensure vendors carry insurance for property damage, injury, or equipment loss. Liability limits should be fair, not unlimited waiver clauses (which the CPA might regard as unfair) (avianto.co.za)

● Dispute Resolution

Most couples prefer mediation or arbitration. Avoid hidden clauses that require international arbitration or unreasonable legal forums.

Flagging Red Flags: What to Avoid

Keep an eye out for these red flags:

Terms like “TBD”, “depending on availability”, or vague wording
No provision for refunds or cancellation
Oral guarantees not confirmed in writing
Surprise fees e.g. overtime, travel, hidden service costs
Liability waivers that try to exempt the vendor from all obligations, even in the event of negligence

Be bold, ask vendors to edit or clarify contract language before you sign.

Statutory Protections Under South African Law

Consumer Protection Act (CPA)

The CPA mandates fair, transparent terms, and prohibits unfair penalties and banned clauses (Section 51) such as waivers of statutory rights (ashersons.co.za). If a vendor cancels or fails to perform as contracted, you’re entitled to reimbursement or remedy.

POPIA (Privacy Law)

Photographers and videographers must comply with the Protection of Personal Information Act, especially if they intend to publish your wedding photos for marketing. Be sure to include explicit consent clauses around use and distribution of your personal data and images.

Practical Tips to Stay in Control

Always keep copies of all contracts, emails, quotes and receipts in a dedicated folder or digital tracker.
After verbal conversations, send an email summary and ask the vendor to confirm in writing.
If any clause feels unfair, especially around cancellation, liability, or usage rights, negotiate it or seek legal advice.
For larger budgets, consider hiring a wedding planner or a lawyer to review major contracts.

South African‑Specific Considerations in 2025

Load-shedding: Confirm whether the vendor provides backup power (e.g., generator) or services will be affected.
Liquor Licenses: If you’re hosting a venue that requires a license, ensure your vendor handles permits and compliance.
Cultural & Traditional Ceremonies: Ensure your vendors understand and accommodate your customs—this should be explicitly included in the contract.

Expert Tip:

“Contracts are about more than money, they’re about memory. If it’s not in writing, it doesn’t exist in law.”
– SA wedding planner

“I always tell couples, if it’s not in writing, it doesn’t count. Contracts are not just about protecting your money, but your memories.”
– Zanele Moyo, Johannesburg-based wedding planner

Wrapping Up: Protect Your Wedding Day with a Solid Contract

Even amidst the romance, a wedding is a formal business transaction. A strong contract protects your vision, your budget, and your rights. As you finalize your vendor lineup, focus on clarity, fairness, and documentation and never settle for verbal promises alone.

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Keeping things cheap with these budget-friendly wedding trends

August 22, 2022 No Comments

More and more bridal couples are looking to cut their spending. Whether it’s purchasing affordable wedding dresses on SHEIN or throwing an intimate ceremony for friends and family, “cheap” is the new word on the wedding streets.

The latest wedding trends seem to reflect this as brides and grooms-to-be look to splurge on items and memories that are closest to their hearts (like a honeymoon for instance), and it’s all thanks to our post-pandemic world.

So, just what are these wedding trends?

The bar revamped:

Alcohol can add quite a hefty sum to your wedding budget and appears modern bridal couples are unwilling to pay the price. They’re opting out of offering guests a bar tab but are choosing to switch this with a variety of non-alcoholic beverages.

Winter weddings are a whole lot cosier as hot beverage stations are available throughout the event. From spiced rooibos to non-alcoholic sparkling wines, bridal are looking to switch things up in the best way possible.

The intimate wedding

One of the best things to come out of the pandemic is the trend of the intimate wedding. Brides and grooms are ditching the big wedding day affair in favour of smoothing smaller.

After all, this is a time to connect with loved ones and celebrate something loving and special. The guest list has gotten smaller and so have the locations, and this bodes well for couples looking to keep things simple and affordable.

Stepping outside the box

Tradition has been thrown out the window when it comes to wedding attire. Gone are the days of brides walking down the aisle in a white or wedding dress as more trends looking towards colour. Think untraditional colours such as black, red, pink – anything the bride fancies. Cosplay outfits are also fast becoming a “thing” for couples looking to indulge their adventures selves.

Supporting small businesses

Many small businesses suffered under the intense lockdown restrictions during the COVID-19 pandemic. This has led many individuals, including brides and grooms, to favour small business owners – a trend we hope will continue.

Aspiring home cooks and food vendors getting on their feet are now the go-to as the new wedding trend looks to skip “traditional” wedding vendors in favour of small businesses.

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5 Incredible ways you can avoid wedding planning burnout

August 15, 2022 No Comments

We all know how stressful planning a wedding can be, making wedding planning burnout a very real possibility. Whether you’re trying not to pull out your hair as wedding costs skyrocket or you’re obsessing over every little detail to ensure that everything goes the way you’ve pictured it, feeling overwhelmed is guaranteed to happen if you’re not careful.

Thankfully, this isn’t something new and there are endless resources to help the modern bridal couple looking to keep costs and anxiety low.

Here are a few things to keep in mind when attempting to avoid wedding planning burnout:

Don’t rush

This may not always be possible but last-minute wedding planning is not fun for anyone, especially the soon-to-be bride and groom. While there’s nothing wrong with wanting to hop, skip, and jump right into the part where you say “I do,” making sure that you have enough time to plan your dream wedding is always advised as this will give you a spacious timeline to ensure things are handled well and that the process is smooth.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help

The number one reason for wedding planning burning is not asking for help. While it’s not always easy to ask for help, it is a necessary practice if you’re looking to keep your bridal party or the partner you’re set to marry, make sure you delegate tasks to ensure everything on your list is ticked off and that you’re not Atlas attempting to carry the world on your shoulders.

Be normal!

It’s so easy to get wrapped up in planning that you may forget why you’re actually getting married – love. A great way to keep your mental health in tip-top shape is by making sure that you get out and spend some quality time with each other. Plan an epic date night with your partner with a strict “no wedding talk rule,” this will allow you to keep some sense of normality.

Have some fun

Can wedding planning be fun? Well, you’ll need to find out. A big reason for something being incredibly stressful is because it’s just not bringing you the joy you need, so why not endeavour to pull out the fun card? For example, if you’re deciding what you should serve at your wedding, why not turn it into an adventure by setting it up as a “culinary tour” that could also double as a date night?

Technology is your friend

There are countless wedding app s that are ready to lend a helping hand as you attempt to navigate the minefield that is wedding planning. Whether you’re looking to make your life easier by setting up a wedding website and forgoing physical invitations or looking for a nifty app to help you sort out your budget, there’s something for everyone in need.

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8 Romantic engagement ideas to help you pop the question!

August 3, 2022 No Comments

You’ve gathered all the necessary ingredients for the perfect proposal: a gorgeous engagement ring, a heart-tugging engagement speech, but oh, how to pop the question in a way that will make her heart flutter?

Going down on one knee and asking your soulmate to marry you is a stressful affair, and if all that stress has you feeling overwhelmed and confused about your perfect wedding proposal, try a few of these engagement ideas on for size.

Make sure to add your own personal and creative twist:

Loud and proud, for everyone to see:

These are for those brave souls out there who don’t care a hoot about who is watching!

Have a caricaturist at your side

It’s the stuff rom-coms are made of! There are a number of caricaturists and artists in South Africa that will make the perfect accomplice to your wedding proposal. Hire them on the day and have them sketch the words: “Will you marry me?” And voila!

A favourite landmark

This doesn’t have to be everyone’s favourite landmark, but just you and your soon-to-be betrothed. It can be anything from a mountain, fountain, hotel to shopping mall, as long as it’s a place that’s special to both of you!

Keep it close to home

Who needs to be amongst people? If you and your future bride are both homebodies, here are home wedding proposals.

Re-create your first date

This can be both out and about or at home – you decide. However, nothing is more romantic than re-enacting your first date before creating a beautiful new memory by popping the question.

A custom jigsaw puzzle

This is the perfect proposal idea if you both love board games or it’s a rainy day. Make sure to get a custom-made jigsaw puzzle with your picture and the words: “Will you marry me?” If you’ve completed the puzzle enough that you can clearly see your picture and the words, it’s time to go down on one knee.

Embrace Mother Nature

If you love the great outdoors then check out a few of these ideas.

Hot Air Balloon

There’s nothing like letting your love soar to new heights, and popping the question while doing just that is a fantastic idea! Well, as long as a fear of heights is not on the table.

Message in a bottle

If you’re looking for a unique beach proposal, then why not add a cute little message to a bottle? Write a heartwarming poem or letter on a piece of parchment and add it to the bottle with cork before burying it in a designated spot under the sand. Don’t forget them to find the bottle, but make sure you have the ring ready to go!

Adorable proposal ideas

You’re looking for fun. You’re looking for excitement. You’re looking for unique, here are a few ideas:

Escape Room

Escape rooms are all the rage right now, so why not add your own wedding proposal spin on things? Contact your favourite escape and try and work on a way that will allow you to incorporate your wedding proposal into the adventure of trying to escape the room!

Gift Delivery

You were looking for cute? Why not get a box that’s tall enough for you (a refrigerator box is a great start) and add a little note for your soon-to-be fiance that may allude to what’s really inside the box.

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15 Most requested first-dance songs to help you turn up the romance!

August 2, 2022 No Comments

You’ve walked down the aisle, you’ve said “I do,” and now it’s time to get down and boogie! The first dance as a married couple is deeply personal and oh-so-romantic, so making sure you have the right song to sway back and forth to is sure to keep those wonderful wedding day memories alive.

If you’re looking for the most romantic songs out there, you’ll be happy to know that a survey conducted by The Black Tux found the perfect playlist thanks to over 900 married couples from all age groups revealing their favourite tunes.

The most requested first-dance song, you ask? “Unchained Melody” by The Righteous Brothers with classic love songs from Etta James, Frank Sinatra, and Elvis Presley also making the list.

If you’re stumped on what to play as the MC welcomes you as newlyweds, why not take a peek at the 15 most requested first-dance songs:

1. “500 Miles,” by Sleeping at Last

Loved-up Lyrics: “But I would walk 500 miles/And I would walk 500 more/Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles/To fall down at your door.”

2. “Unchained Melody,” by The Righteous Brothers

Lyrics of Love: “Oh, my love, my darling/I’ve hungered for your touch”

3. “Amazed,” by Lonestar

Lyrics of Love: “I want to spend the rest of my life with you by my side/Forever and ever”

4. “Perfect Duet,” by Ed Sheeran and Beyoncé

Lyrics of Love: “But darling, just kiss me slow/Your heart is all I own/And in your eyes, you’re holding mine”

5. “All of Me,” by John Legend

Lyrics of Love: “Give your all to me/I’ll give my all to you/You’re my end and my beginning”

6. “I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing,” by Aerosmith

Lyrics of Love: “The sweetest dream will never do/I’d still miss you, babe/And I don’t want to miss a thing”

7. “Like I’m Gonna Lose You,” by Jasmine Thompson

Lyrics of Love: “So I’m gonna love you/Like I’m gonna lose you/I’m gonna hold you/Like I’m saying goodbye”

8. “The Way You Look Tonight,” by Frank Sinatra

Lyrics of Love: “There is nothing for me but to love you/And the way you look tonight”

9. “At Last,” by Etta James

Lyrics of Love: “At last my love has come along/My lonely days are over and life is like a song, oh yeah”

10. “Sons and Daughters,” by Allman Brown

Lyrics of Love: “And I, I’ll wrap myself/Around your heart/I’ll be the walls of his heart”

11. “Yours,” by Russell Dickerson

Lyrics of Love: “I came to life when I first kissed you/The best me has his arms around you/You make me better than I was before/Thank God I’m yours”

12. “Kiss Me,” by Ed Sheeran

Lyrics of Love: “And your heart’s against my chest, your lips pressed in my neck/I’m falling for your eyes, but they don’t know me yet/And with a feeling I’ll forget, I’m in love now”

13. “Escapade,” by Janet Jackson

Lyrics of Love: “Come on baby, let’s get away/Let’s save our troubles for another day”

14. “Sweetest Thing,” by Allman Brown

Lyrics of Love: “You’re the sweetest thing that I ever did see/Like a bird taking way/Tears that set you free”

15. “Speechless,” by Dan + Shay

Lyrics of Love: “And I’m speechless/You already know that you’re my weakness/After all this time I’m just as nervous”

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Can sleeping in separate beds save your relationship?

July 29, 2022 No Comments

Modern couples are increasingly looking for new ways to add a little “spice” in the bedroom, but it may not be in the way you think.

Couples choosing to sleep apart has become a rather common practice with studies backing the growing trend and according to sleep scientists, 1 in 4 couples are opting to sleep in separate beds.

While more and more couples are enjoying the covers all to themselves, there’s still a certain level of stigma attached to this choice, however, it’s nothing new. The wealthy have been doing it for decades and you only need to pop on an episode of Netflix’s The Crown and check out the sleeping arrangements of Queen Elizabeth and Prince Phillip to find examples of this.

One newlywed couple recently went viral for sharing their out-of-the-ordinary sleeping arrangements. Hailing from the United Kingdom, Nelly and Andrew Grecian claim that sleeping separately has benefitted their relationship as they often feel refreshed and revitalised when they wake up in the morning.

But while some couples are reaping the benefits, just what does science have to say about it?

When sleep is measured objectively, people will actually sleep worse with a partner. This makes sense when you consider that having a partner who snores is basically a recipe for a disruptive night’s rest. However, when asked whether you’d prefer to sleep with your partner in the same bed, you’d likely answer “yes.”

According to scientists, this suggests that our social brain prioritises a need for closeness and security at night, even when traded in for a good night’s rest. However, no matter your sleeping preferences, couples need to prioritise sleep when it comes to their relationship.

A rather interesting study found that when the sleep and relationship quality of heterosexual couples were analysed, it found that when male subjects slept worse, they often reported their relationship quality suffered the next day. In contrast to this, on days when female subjects were not happy about their relationship, both her sleep and her husband’s sleep suffered that night.

Wendy M. Troxel PhD, a senior behavioural and social scientist and the woman behind “How to sleep like your relationship depends on it,” reiterates this. But what’s her conclusion on the matter?

There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to couples and their sleeping strategies, but couples will need to learn the art of prioritising sleep for the betterment of their relationship and lives. After all, sleep occupies around one-third of our lives with research indicating that when you’re well-rested, you’re a better communicator, happier, more empathetic, and more attractive.

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The perfect wedding accessory: The headband

July 26, 2022 No Comments

If you’re looking for the hottest new wedding trend, there’s nothing trendier than the statement headband.

Aside from looking hotter than hot on your wedding day, this accessory can easily be incorporated into your everyday aesthetic, and we do love a piece that is versatile!

Whether you’re eager to stick to something that’s more on the “classic” side of life, or you’re looking to wow guests, here are a few of our favourite pieces to help gather some inspiration:

The Pearl Headband

Pearls are not just for royalty and this wedding trend has been a big year. If you’re looking to hop on the trend train but you’re not willing to go all out, opt for pearls on your headband for a subtle and trendy addition to your attire.

A Subtle Flower Crown

This ethereal statement headband is the perfect inclusion for any bride looking to add even more romance to an already romantic day. It’s another subtle piece that doesn’t scream “look at me” and is a great way to incorporate a flower crown if that’s the look you’re after.

The Birdcage Veil

If you’re attempting to add a touch of vintage to your wedding day look, the birdcage veil is a perfect option. This bridal headband and veil is a modern combination that will definitely get you plenty of compliments on your big day.

While this may be a simple piece, it offers an extra bit of magic thanks to the Swarovski crystals and luminous pearls that adorn this headband, and the side tassels are a stylish addition.

A whimsical look

This spectacular piece has been crafted from Swarovski crystals and provides a whimsical look for those looking for that “wow” factor without going over the top. While many may say that this look is the stuff of fairytales, this is definitely the look of a goddess.

Fit For A Princess

Meghan Markle, eat your heart out. This rather elegant headband is the perfect addition to your wedding accessory collection and offers a not-so-dainty headband that’s adorned with crystals and pearls.

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Saying “I do” doesn’t have to mean saying “I do” to debt

July 25, 2022 No Comments

The first year of marriage is always marital bliss, especially when you have heaps of debt behind your name. While there’s nothing wrong with dreaming up the perfect wedding – bells and whistles included – walking down the aisle doesn’t have to mean walking straight into wedding debt.

Overspending on your wedding day may just cancel out the marital bliss everyone enthusiastically talks about. According to a 2019 study by LendingTre e concluded that 45% of newlyweds between the ages of 18 and 53 went into debt to pay for the wedding. And with many South African couples paying between R80 000 – R120 000, as per Standard Bank, it’s no surprise why.

While getting married can be an expensive business, sometimes it helps to stop and think before making a big purchase on Kim Kardashian-esque flower wall.

Trade debt for memories

Sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in the tasks and balance sheets of planning a wedding, but it’s important to remember why everyone is really attending your wedding – love. The food, DJ, wedding photographer, and signature drink are just the cherry on top of your love and commitment cake, and it’s important to keep this at the centre of your planning.

Get on the same page

According to the same 2019 study, nearly 76% of newlyweds who reported they went into debt also stated they argued over wedding-related expenses. The remedy? Bridal couples need to get on the same page when determining what they’re spending their hard-earned cash on. Creating a wedding budget and discussing expense details are two ways for avid debt collectors. If you’re looking to splurge on an open bar, make sure you’re both comfortable with how long it will be “open,” what liquor will be available, and what the total will come to.

Stick to your boundaries

We’ve all heard the phrase: “keeping up with the Joneses,” but sometimes it’s okay to watch them cruise on by. Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming which can easily lead to bridal couples listening to the opinions of others. A great way to avoid being swayed by friends and family members and what they’d like to see at your wedding is by writing down a list of wedding priorities that are important to you and your partner. Consider what is “worth-it” and what is “non-negotiable,” this will provide you with a better foundation with which to smile and say “no, thank you.”

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Wedding grinch steals groom’s fire by spiking him

July 21, 2022 No Comments

There are plenty of things couples worry will spoil their wedding day. Uncooperative weather, a guest who enjoys the bar tab a little too much, or worst of all – another couple getting engaged on the same day.

However, while most of these worries never come to be, sometimes an unexpected spoil emerges thanks to a wedding grinch.

Such was the case for an American couple. Taking to TikTok, bride Brandy told the story with footage of her husband, Billy, who began acting strangely and couldn’t even say his vows coherently.

It turned out that the groom’s drink had been spiked, causing massive discomfort, confusion and an unhealthy racing heart for him. Brandy claims that he was spiked with crushed Adderal.

His symptoms included sweating, being red in the face, emotional ups and downs and being unable to form words as well as anger, confusion and memory loss according to Brandy. She says that he was drug tested and that this kind of thing happens at weddings so that people can have more duration to party longer.

The video quickly went viral (reaching almost 1 million views) on the video-sharing app, and soon TikTok users were ready to fight the culprit. Brandy had shared the video with the intention to help prevent the same thing from happening to anyone else.

“Our poor kids were traumatized by the experience. Billy doesn’t remember anything after I walked down,” said Brandy.

In the comments, many people demanded that the couple have a redo, with some wondering whether the newly-weds could sue for the entire wedding cost. Others suggested that they renew their wedding vows the following year, so that Billy could remember the special day – with the costs coming out of the culprit’s pocket.

Picture: Screenshot from video/@brandy_billy